这些 TrueOffMyChest 故事，全都到了崩溃边缘
字幕摘录
| 时间 | 英文 | 中文 |
|---|---|---|
| 0:00 | Welcome back to a new video guys. | 欢迎回到一个新的视频家伙。 |
| 0:02 | Today we are reading true off my chest. | 今天我们正在读我的胸前真话。 |
| 0:05 | We're reading some of the most interesting | 我们读了一些最有趣的 |
| 0:07 | and top confessions of 2026 so far and of the past year. | 目前为止和去年的2026年最高口供 |
| 0:12 | So a little bit of 2025. | 所以,一点点2025。 |
| 0:13 | Let's get straight into it. | 师直入曰. |
| 0:15 | I dumped my girlfriend | 我抛弃了女朋友 |
| 0:17 | because she made a test Instagram story and I failed. | 因为她做了一个测试Instagram的故事 我失败了。 |
| 0:21 | First of all, shouldn't it be the other way around? | 首先,不是应该相反吗? |
| 0:24 | Your girlfriend ran a test, you failed. | 你女朋友做了个测试 你失败了 |
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| 序号 | 英文 | 中文 |
|---|---|---|
| 1 | Welcome back to a new video guys. | 欢迎回到一个新的视频家伙。 |
| 2 | Today we are reading true off my chest. | 今天我们正在读我的胸前真话。 |
| 3 | We're reading some of the most interesting | 我们读了一些最有趣的 |
| 4 | and top confessions of 2026 so far and of the past year. | 目前为止和去年的2026年最高口供 |
| 5 | So a little bit of 2025. | 所以,一点点2025。 |
| 6 | Let's get straight into it. | 师直入曰. |
| 7 | I dumped my girlfriend | 我抛弃了女朋友 |
| 8 | because she made a test Instagram story and I failed. | 因为她做了一个测试Instagram的故事 我失败了。 |
| 9 | First of all, shouldn't it be the other way around? | 首先,不是应该相反吗? |
| 10 | Your girlfriend ran a test, you failed. | 你女朋友做了个测试 你失败了 |
| 11 | Shouldn't she break up with you? | 她不该跟你分手吗? |
| 12 | Or was she gonna break up with you | 还是她要跟你分手 |
| 13 | but you didn't want to like hurt your ego. | 但你不想伤害你的自我 |
| 14 | So you broke up with her first. | 所以你先和她分手的 |
| 15 | So you can tell other people. | 所以你可以告诉别人。 |
| 16 | I broke up with my girlfriend. | 我和女朋友分手了,我和女朋友分手了 |
| 17 | Is that what it is? | 是吗? |
| 18 | I don't know. | 师曰. |
| 19 | Let's read. | 师念曰. |
| 20 | I 26 male broke up with my girlfriend | 我26个男人和我女朋友分手了 |
| 21 | of nine months yesterday | 昨天9个月 |
| 22 | because I'm apparently supposed to treat her Instagram | 因为我显然应该 治疗她的Instagram |
| 23 | like a job interview. | 就像面试一样 |
| 24 | You serious? | 真的吗? |
| 25 | 她的Instagram喜欢,好吧,好吧。 | |
| 26 | Based off that, I'm gonna take a wild guess. | 基于这个,我要去 疯狂的猜测。 |
| 27 | You guys take a guess with me. | 你们跟我猜猜 |
| 28 | I think the guy is in the right. | 我觉得这家伙在右边 |
| 29 | Just off that like first line. | 碞钩材絬妓 |
| 30 | I think that guy is in the right. | 我觉得那家伙是正确的。 |
| 31 | What do you guys think? | 你们觉得怎么样? |
| 32 | I'm not just taking a side just cause he's a guy | 我不只是站在一边 只是因为他是个男人 |
| 33 | and I should not forget about that shit. | 我不应该忘记那些狗屎。 |
| 34 | If it was a girl, I would have done the same thing. | 如果是女孩 我也会这么做 |
| 35 | I'm taking a side cause it sounds like she is like, | 我站在一边 因为听起来她就像... |
| 36 | she's giving like wannabe influencer vibes | 她像想成为 影响者的气氛 |
| 37 | just off that line. | 刚刚离线。 |
| 38 | I could be wrong. | 我可能错了 |
| 39 | Let's see. | 让我看看。 |
| 40 | She posted a black screen to her story with the caption. | 她把黑幕贴在她的故事里 上面有字幕 |
| 41 | Some people really disappoint you LOL. | 有些人让你很失望 |
| 42 | No context, no explanation, just that. | 没有背景,没有解释,只是这个。 |
| 43 | So I ignored it because I'm not a mind reader | 所以我忽略了它 因为我不是读心术 |
| 44 | and I'm not gonna play high school games. | 我不会玩高中游戏。 |
| 45 | That is very fair. | 这很公平。 |
| 46 | Yeah, maybe 18, 20. | 是啊,也许18,20。 |
| 47 | That's like the age where you kind of end that, stop it. | 就像你结束那个时代一样 停止吧 |
| 48 | But you're 26 and I assume your girlfriend's | 但你26岁了 我猜你女朋友的 |
| 49 | probably the same age. | 可能同年龄 |
| 50 | Just communicate with your partner dude. | 跟你的搭档交流一下 |
| 51 | Like if there's something wrong, communicate. | 碞钩Τ拜肈妓 硄 |
| 52 | If you're feeling neglected, communicate. | 如果你觉得被忽略了,就交流. |
| 53 | If you're something they've done | 如果你是他们做了什么 |
| 54 | made you uncomfortable, communicate. | 让你不舒服,沟通。 |
| 55 | If there's something that's bothering you, communicate. | 如果有东西困扰你, 沟通。 |
| 56 | Why do you have to post a black screen | 为什么要贴黑幕? |
| 57 | with some really obscure caption on Instagram? | 在Instagram上有些很模糊的字幕? |
| 58 | It's like, I don't really like that. | 这就像,我真的不喜欢。 |
| 59 | I feel like it's really like a sign of immaturity | 我觉得这真的是不成熟的征兆 |
| 60 | like not being able to communicate with your partner. | 就像不能和你搭档沟通一样 |
| 61 | I assumed it was about one of her friends | 我以为是她的一个朋友 |
| 62 | or just her being passive aggressive about work or whatever. | 或者只是她对工作或什么的消极攻击 |
| 63 | Well, apparently that was a test. | 嗯,显然这是一个测试。 |
| 64 | She told me I failed because I didn't message her | 她告诉我我失败了 因为我没有告诉她 |
| 65 | right away asking what was wrong. | 马上问出了什么问题 |
| 66 | Honestly, I do understand her perspective | 老实说 我理解她的观点 |
| 67 | but I also understand his. | 但我也理解他的话 |
| 68 | Why are you testing if your partner likes you? | 你为什么测试你的搭档喜欢你? |
| 69 | Just talk to them. | 和他们谈谈 |
| 70 | If you tell them you have a problem | 如果你告诉他们你有问题 |
| 71 | and they dismiss it and they don't care, okay. | 他们不理它,他们不在乎,好吗? |
| 72 | Yeah, then you can be like, okay, what's going on? | 是啊,那么你可以像,好吧, 这是怎么回事? |
| 73 | But if it's just some like random black screen | 但如果只是一些像随机黑幕 |
| 74 | posted on Instagram story and they don't reply, | 他们不回信 |
| 75 | I don't know, I feel like that's a little bit unfair. | 我不知道 我觉得这有点不公平 |
| 76 | Like obviously if it was my partner and I saw that | 很明显,如果是我的搭档,我看到了 |
| 77 | I would reply like, oh, what's up, what's wrong? | 我会回答,哦,怎么了,怎么了? |
| 78 | Because this is just something I would do. | 因为这是我愿意做的 |
| 79 | But I guess that guy is not me. | 但我猜那个人不是我 |
| 80 | But I also understand the perspective of | 但我也理解这一点 |
| 81 | if she has done this multiple, multiple times | 如果她做过多次,多次 |
| 82 | or it's just an ongoing thing with something like | 或者它只是一个持续的东西 类似的东西 |
| 83 | always some sort of like drama being created | 总是在创作戏剧 |
| 84 | out of nothing, I could understand his like frustration. | 我完全理解他的挫折感 |
| 85 | But then again, it is your partner. | 但还是你的搭档 |
| 86 | So if something frustrates you, talk to them, | 所以,如果有事情让你失望, 告诉他们, |
| 87 | talk to her, talk to him, talk to them about it. | 和她谈谈,和他谈谈,和他们谈谈 |
| 88 | Say, yeah, I really don't like when you do this thing. | 说,是的,我真的不喜欢你这样做。 |
| 89 | Can you please not do it? | 你能别这么做吗? |
| 90 | Can you just please come and talk to me? | 你能过来跟我谈谈吗? |
| 91 | Tell me what's wrong instead of like playing these mind games. | 告诉我什么是错的,而不是喜欢玩这些思维游戏。 |
| 92 | Just talk to your partner and don't just hope | 跟你的搭档说话,不要只是希望 |
| 93 | they'll change, you know, and just say something | 他们会改变,你知道的, 只是说一些事情 |
| 94 | so that they understand how you're feeling | 让他们明白你的感受 |
| 95 | and what you're thinking. | 还有你在想什么 |
| 96 | Communication. | 沟通. |
| 97 | She said it showed I don't care enough to check in. | 她说,它显示我不在乎 足够登记。 |
| 98 | I told her I don't check Instagram every five minutes. | 我告诉她我不每5分钟检查一次Instagram. |
| 99 | And if she has a problem with me, | 如果她对我有意见 |
| 100 | she should act like an adult and talk to me | 她应该像个成年人 跟我说话 |
| 101 | instead of fishing for attention through vague stories. | 而不是通过模糊的故事寻找注意力 |
| 102 | She said I was being cold and emotionally unavailable. | 她说我冷酷无情 |
| 103 | I said she was being manipulative and immature. | 我说她有操控能力,很不成熟 |
| 104 | She cried. | 她哭了起来。 |
| 105 | I packed my stuff. | 我收拾了东西 |
| 106 | I feel like this is not the last try. | 我觉得这不是最后一次尝试 |
| 107 | I feel like there was a lot more that went on here before. | 我觉得之前这里发生了很多事 |
| 108 | Hold up. | 坚持住。 |
| 109 | Wait a minute. | 等一会 |
| 110 | Sam ain't right. | 山姆不对 |
| 111 | This situation, because I don't think someone | 这件事情,因为我不认为有人 |
| 112 | just leaves their partner like that over one thing. | 把他们的搭档都抛在一边 |
| 113 | And if they do, I guess he never liked her to start off with, | 如果他们这样做, 我猜他从不喜欢她开始, |
| 114 | which is kind of like why why you with someone | 这就像为什么你和某人在一起 |
| 115 | in the first place and if you don't like them. | 首先 如果你不喜欢的话 |
| 116 | But I don't think this is the first. | 但我不认为这是第一个。 |
| 117 | I think this is just the final straw for him. | 我想这只是他最后的吸管 |
| 118 | She's still messaging me, telling me I'm heartless | 她还在给我发信息 说我无情 |
| 119 | for leaving over one small thing, but it's not one small thing. | 因为留下了一个小东西, 但这不是一个小东西。 |
| 120 | OK, we're getting to the sauce here. | 好吧,我们得到的酱油在这里。 |
| 121 | It's the million little red flags I've ignored for too long. | 我早就忽略了这百万只小红旗了 |
| 122 | The text, the mood swings, the social media drama. | 文字 情绪波动 社交媒体剧情 |
| 123 | I'm not dating a puzzle. | 我不是在约会一个谜题。 |
| 124 | I have to solve daily just to avoid a tantrum. | 我必须每天解决 只是为了避免发脾气。 |
| 125 | I want peace. | 我想要平静。 |
| 126 | No stories written in invisible ink that I'm expected to decode | 没有用隐形墨水写成的故事 我期望解码 |
| 127 | while she sits there with her arms crossed, | 当她坐在那里 与她的手臂交叉, |
| 128 | waiting to see if I love her enough to notice. | 等着看我是否爱她 足够注意到。 |
| 129 | I do understand that. | 我理解这一点。 |
| 130 | I've had friends that have also told me stories like this, | 我有朋友也告诉我这样的故事, |
| 131 | so I understand his perspective of obviously you want to be there | 所以我理解他的观点 显然你想要在那里 |
| 132 | for your partner and you like them or if you love them, you love them. | 如果你爱他们,你爱他们。 |
| 133 | But if it's like a constant thing and it's every day | 但是,如果它像一个恒定的事情, 它的每一天 |
| 134 | and they're always looking, | 他们总是在寻找, |
| 135 | there's always like something every day, every day, every day, every day. | 每天都有类似的东西 每天都有 |
| 136 | And they just do it for your attention | 他们这样做只是为了引起你的注意 |
| 137 | or because they want to see your reaction and all this. | 或者因为他们想看你的反应和这一切 |
| 138 | It does get tiring, but it's also important to communicate to them. | 这确实很累,但也必须与他们沟通。 |
| 139 | OK, this is like if you need help and there's a problem, I'm here. | 好吧,这就像如果你需要帮助 有问题,我在这里。 |
| 140 | Over nothing and you just doing it for my attention or doing it | 你只为我着想 或做它 |
| 141 | because you like my reaction or something is getting exhausting. | 因为你喜欢我的反应 或东西越来越累。 |
| 142 | I could understand how it can be too much. | 我能理解怎么会太过分 |
| 143 | Gone, blocked, logged out. | 消失 被封锁 被封锁 |
| 144 | I feel like I could breathe again. | 我觉得我还能呼吸 |
| 145 | He was done with this relationship a long time ago. | 他很久以前就和这种关系断绝了 |
| 146 | And this was just the final thing. | 这是最后一件事。 |
| 147 | Let's read some comments. | 让我们看看一些评论。 |
| 148 | Reminds me of my narcissist ex. | 让我想起我的自恋前男友 |
| 149 | He would act like he was fine with me doing something. | 他会假装他没事 我做一些事情。 |
| 150 | And then as I was about to do it, he'd blow up and say | 然后当我正要这么做的时候 他就会说 |
| 151 | he thought I was smart enough to know that doing whatever with him | 他以为我够聪明,知道跟他做什么 |
| 152 | was the important thing. | 这是最重要的事情。 |
| 153 | It was always a test with him. | 总是跟他做测试 |
| 154 | I always refused to go along with it. | 我总是拒绝同意 |
| 155 | So when I was replied, God, the mood swings are so relatable | 所以当我被回答,上帝, 情绪波动是如此的令人反感 |
| 156 | in relationships with women. | 与妇女的关系。 |
| 157 | It's like dating a 25 plus year old with the mood swings of a 15 year old. | 就像约会25岁以上 15岁时的情绪波动 |
| 158 | I'm sure not all women are this way, | 我敢肯定,不是所有的女人都是这样, |
| 159 | but every woman I've dated has been this way. | 但我约会过的每个女人都是这样 |
| 160 | Might just be something about me to be fair. | 可能只是我的东西 公平。 |
| 161 | Yeah, obviously, I don't think it's fair to like categorize | 是啊,很明显,我不认为 公平喜欢分类 |
| 162 | every single woman in this. | 这里每个女人 |
| 163 | I think everyone has ups and downs and mood swings. | 我觉得每个人都有起伏和情绪波动。 |
| 164 | So it's not like just women, it can be men and women equally. | 所以这不只是女人, 也可以是男人和女人一样。 |
| 165 | So but if every woman you dates that way, maybe instead of just jumping | 所以,但如果每个女人 你约会的方式,也许 而不是只是跳 |
| 166 | into dating, you should try to find out their personality, | 在约会中,你应该试着找出他们的个性, |
| 167 | find out how they are before you date them so you can avoid the situation. | 在你约会之前先查清楚他们的情况 这样你就可以避免这种情况 |
| 168 | Someone else commented, aside from the whole testing thing, | 其他人评论 除了测试之外 |
| 169 | which already shows a lack of trust, people forget that communication is key. | 这已经表明缺乏信任 人们忘记了沟通是关键 |
| 170 | If you want to relay something to your partner, you just tell them and ask. | 如果你想告诉你的搭档 告诉他们然后问 |
| 171 | That's literally what communication is for. | 这就是沟通的目的 |
| 172 | You don't need to set up some test to prove a point. | 你不需要设置一些测试来证明一个观点. |
| 173 | It shows immaturity. | 显示不成熟. |
| 174 | Good on you for walking away. | 你走开真好 |
| 175 | No more headaches. | 不再头痛. |
| 176 | Yeah, it seems like everyone in the comments is like agreeing with him. | 对 评论中似乎每个人都同意他的意见 |
| 177 | Like, good job for dumping her, like, especially if you already have | 喜欢,好工作 甩了她,喜欢,特别是如果你已经 |
| 178 | a very stressful life, you have work and all this stuff, | 一个非常紧张的生活, 你有工作 和所有这些东西, |
| 179 | and you just want to like come home to your partner and just feel like relaxed | 你只想回到你的伴侣身边 放松一下 |
| 180 | and like just enjoy each other's company, have fun. | 就像享受彼此的陪伴 玩得开心 |
| 181 | But instead of that, it's like a puzzle. | 但与此相反,它就像一个谜。 |
| 182 | You're trying to just really stressed out because you don't want to upset them | 你只是觉得压力太大 因为你不想让他们生气 |
| 183 | and you don't want them to be mad or throw a tantrum or anything. | 你不希望他们生气 或发脾气什么的。 |
| 184 | So it's like always walking on eggshells | 就像总是在蛋壳上走路 |
| 185 | after like coming back from work. | 就像下班后回来一样 |
| 186 | I could I could understand that. | 我能理解这一点。 |
| 187 | So I think OP for himself, he did the right thing here. | 所以,我想OP为自己, 他做了正确的事情在这里。 |
| 188 | Next story, I am being blackmailed for cheating on my wife. | 下一个故事,我被勒索 欺骗我的妻子。 |
| 189 | This guy deserves everything that happens to him. | 这家伙罪有应得 |
| 190 | Hi, all. | 嗨,大家好,你们好 |
| 191 | I need to get this out somewhere. | 我需要把这个弄出去 |
| 192 | A bit of background. | 有点背景。 |
| 193 | So my wife is incredible, amazing, billion and the love of my life. | 所以我的妻子是不可思议的,惊人的,亿万的和我生命的爱。 |
| 194 | You cheated on her when she's incredible, amazing, billion | 你骗了她 当她不可思议,惊人,亿 |
| 195 | and the love of your life. | 和你一生的爱 |
| 196 | We both 33 own a company together that does financial stuff, keeping it vague. | 我们三个都拥有一家公司 做财务工作 保持模糊不清 |
| 197 | And it's been very successful. | 并且非常成功。 |
| 198 | We aren't publicly in a relationship. | 我们不是公开的关系。 |
| 199 | We don't talk about our marriage or have public social media | 我们不谈我们的婚姻 也没有公共社交媒体 |
| 200 | where it discloses our relationship. | 它揭示了我们的关系。 |
| 201 | All this is to say to the public eye, my wife and I are business partners, unmarried | 我和我妻子是生意伙伴,未婚 |
| 202 | and with our own separate marriages. | 和我们自己的独立婚姻。 |
| 203 | My wife goes my wife goes by her middle name and made a name for work | 我老婆去 我妻子去 她的中间名 并做了一个工作的名字 |
| 204 | and her legal name when dealing in personal matters. | 以及她处理个人事务的法定姓名。 |
| 205 | Say her name is Jane Mary Doe. | 说她叫简・玛丽・多伊。 |
| 206 | Knee fish. | 膝鱼. |
| 207 | She goes by Jane Doe when not at work and Mary Fish at work. | 她不是在工作的时候就是在Jane Doe和Mary Fish上班的时候 |
| 208 | Now, full disclosure. | 现在,充分披露。 |
| 209 | I did not cheat on my wife. | 我没有欺骗我的妻子。 |
| 210 | OK, then why did you say you did what? | 好吧 那你为什么说你做了什么? |
| 211 | Stop it. | 别说了 |
| 212 | Get some help. | 找人帮忙 |
| 213 | We were at a work function and kissed briefly when arriving in car. | 我们当时在上班 上车时接吻了 |
| 214 | And apparently someone saw it. | 显然有人看见了 |
| 215 | I woke up this morning to an email address to me saying that if I | 今天早上我醒来 在一个电子邮件地址给我说,如果我 |
| 216 | that if I don't want my wife, Jane Doe, finding out I'm cheating on her | 如果我不想要我的妻子 Jane Doe 发现我在欺骗她 |
| 217 | with my business partner, Mary Fish, then I'm to pay them off | 和我的生意伙伴玛丽·菲什,然后我付钱给他们 |
| 218 | with an amount I won't be listing here. | 和数量 我不会在这里列出。 |
| 219 | But it's quite a sum. | 但它是一个相当的总数。 |
| 220 | I feel like this guy is getting a lot of enjoyment out of this. | 我觉得这家伙从中得到了很多乐趣。 |
| 221 | They included photos of me and Mary together. | 他们包括我和玛丽的照片 |
| 222 | And then and this is the best part, sent a link to Jane's Facebook page | 然后,这是最好的部分, 发送链接简的Facebook页面 |
| 223 | where she notoriously doesn't post her own face anywhere. | 在那里,她臭名昭著地不张贴 自己的脸任何地方。 |
| 224 | Maybe the title should be | 也许标题应该是 |
| 225 | I am being backmailed for cheating on my wife with my wife. | 我被回信 以欺骗我的妻子和我的妻子。 |
| 226 | I'm both amused and horrified. | 我既欢喜又惊恐 |
| 227 | Thanks for listening, Reddit. | 谢谢你的倾听,雷迪特 |
| 228 | My wife hasn't stopped laughing to commiserate with me yet. | 我妻子还没停止笑 对我温和。 |
| 229 | And I needed an ear needed to get this out. | 我需要一只耳朵来把这个弄出来 |
| 230 | OK. | 摆 |
| 231 | I take that back. | 我收回那个 |
| 232 | That was actually funny. | 这其实很有趣。 |
| 233 | I thought he was actually like cheating, but it was just someone thought he was. | 我以为他就像在作弊 但只是有人觉得他是 |
| 234 | That's that's funny, actually. | 这很有趣,其实。 |
| 235 | Someone said this is against the law. | 有人说这是违法的 |
| 236 | Have you considered calling the DA? | 你考虑过给检察官打电话吗? |
| 237 | Yeah. | 对 |
| 238 | Blackmail is illegal. | 勒索是非法的。 |
| 239 | Someone said I would definitely contact your local police department. | 有人说我一定会联系你当地警局 |
| 240 | Blackmail is illegal. | 勒索是非法的。 |
| 241 | Plus, you can prove they're blackmailing you. | 此外,你可以证明 他们在勒索你。 |
| 242 | Also, it amazed me at how people automatically assume what's going on. | 而且,它让我惊讶 人们如何自动 假设发生了什么。 |
| 243 | Someone else commented, always report blackmail to the cops. | 别人评论,总是向警察报告讹诈. |
| 244 | The blackmailer will never leave you alone. | 勒索者不会放过你的 |
| 245 | A lot of people are saying, you know, call the call the cop. | 很多人在说,你知道的,打电话给警察。 |
| 246 | Tell them that this person blackmailing you, all this stuff, because it's legal. | 告诉他们,这个人勒索你, 所有这些东西,因为它是合法的。 |
| 247 | I guess, yeah, obviously, it makes sense that blackmail is illegal. | 我想,是的,很明显,勒索是非法的 |
| 248 | I guess I just didn't really think of it that deeply. | 我想我只是没有真正 深思熟虑。 |
| 249 | I guess I might as well contact the cops | 我想我还是联系警察好了 |
| 250 | because they're probably going to keep on harassing you, harassing you, | 因为他们可能会继续骚扰你 骚扰你 |
| 251 | harassing you and saying, I'm going to do this. | 骚扰你,说,我要这样做。 |
| 252 | OK, I'm going to contact the cops. | 好吧,我要联系警察。 |
| 253 | This is illegal. | 这是非法的。 |
| 254 | Next story. | 下一个故事。 |
| 255 | I just need to tell someone, oh, I'm waiting for my husband to come home | 我只是需要告诉别人 我在等我老公回家 |
| 256 | from work after everything I owe him this face to face. | 我欠他这么多钱之后 就从工作开始 |
| 257 | I don't like the sound of this. | 我不喜欢这个声音 |
| 258 | OK, let's take some guesses. | 好吧,我们来猜猜 |
| 259 | I feel like it's infidelity. | 我觉得这是不忠 |
| 260 | Hope it's not. | 惟愿不见. |
| 261 | I can't ask him to come home early as his job is not that flexible. | 我不能让他早点回家 因为他的工作没那么灵活 |
| 262 | And I don't want to cause issues for him. | 我不想给他惹麻烦 |
| 263 | And it is an emergency. | 这是紧急情况。 |
| 264 | Might not be infidelity. | 也许不是不忠 |
| 265 | He needs to find out before anyone else, my family slash friends, etc. | 他需要先发现别人, 我的家人斜线朋友等等。 |
| 266 | She got a promotion. | 她升职了 |
| 267 | I, female 36, was diagnosed with a brain tumor in 2020. | I,女性36,2020年被诊断患有脑瘤. |
| 268 | I was told it was almost I told it was most likely benign | 有人告诉我,我几乎 说这是最 良性的 |
| 269 | and it was left at that due to a global pandemic. | 由于全球大流行,它被抛在一边。 |
| 270 | In early 2023, a routine scan revealed a significant bleed from the tumor. | 2023年初,一次例行扫描显示肿瘤有显著的出血. |
| 271 | And I was rushed to the nearest neurosurgery center and they removed the tumor. | 我被赶到最近的神经外科中心 他们把肿瘤切除了 |
| 272 | I later found out it had been cancer, | 后来我发现那是癌症 |
| 273 | but they considered me in remission with little to no chance of recurrence. | 但他们认为我得到缓解 几乎不可能重蹈覆辙 |
| 274 | Four months later, the symptoms were back. | 四个月后,症状恢复. |
| 275 | Luckily, my general practitioner decided that referring me | 幸好我的全科医生决定推荐我 |
| 276 | for a brain scan was worth it. | 对于脑部扫描是值得的。 |
| 277 | Not only had the tumor returned, but in the space of four months | 不仅肿瘤回来了 还在四个月的时间里 |
| 278 | was the size of a walnut. | 和核桃一样大 |
| 279 | I was told it would be easy to treat a few cycles of oral chemo and done. | 有人告诉我,治疗几轮口服化疗和做手术很容易。 |
| 280 | Not true. | 不对 |
| 281 | Two years later, eight different types of chemo | 两年后,八种不同的化疗 |
| 282 | totaling 49 cycles, two more surgeries, multiple courses of radiotherapy, | 共有49个周期,另外两个手术,多个放射治疗课程, |
| 283 | several discussions around potential palation, multiple injections | 围绕可能的调味剂、多次注射进行多次讨论 |
| 284 | due to immunocompromised, immunocompromised | 由于免疫妥协,免疫妥协 |
| 285 | kidney failure and heart and lung damage from chemo. | 肾衰竭以及化疗导致的心肺损伤. |
| 286 | And we come to today. | 我们来到今天。 |
| 287 | I had a phone call this morning asking me if I could attend | 今早我接到一个电话 问我能否参加 |
| 288 | an emergency appointment with my oncologist today, which I did. | 今天我和我的肿瘤医生做了紧急预约 |
| 289 | And I've just got home. | 我刚刚回家 |
| 290 | I'm sad that my husband, who has been there for all the appointments, | 我很难过,我的丈夫, 谁一直在那里 所有的预约, |
| 291 | wasn't there for this one, but that can't be helped. | 本来不是这个的,但不能帮助。 |
| 292 | I just keep picturing the expression on his face will be when I tell him. | 我总是想象他脸上的表情 当我告诉他时 |
| 293 | Today is the day that everything I've been fighting for | 今天是我为之奋斗的一天 |
| 294 | has reached its finale. | 已经到尾声了 |
| 295 | Dude, she is edging us. | 哥们,她要把我们给吓坏了 |
| 296 | The battle is over and I'm exhausted. | 战斗结束了,我累坏了 |
| 297 | It's been a long five years. | 历时五年. |
| 298 | I'm officially cancer free, bro. | 我正式是免费的,兄弟。 |
| 299 | I know she wrote it like this on purpose. | 我知道她是故意这样写的 |
| 300 | I know she did that on purpose. | 我知道她这样做是故意的。 |
| 301 | I just had to tell someone I can't keep it inside any longer. | 我不得不告诉别人 我不能再把它放在里面了 |
| 302 | The happiness, the relief, I'm overwhelmed. | 幸福,宽慰,我无法承受 |
| 303 | I want to shout it from the rooftops. | 我想从屋顶喊出来 |
| 304 | Then go shout it from the rooftops. | 那就从屋顶喊出来 |
| 305 | Get on your house and shout that I'm officially cancer free. | 上你家 大声说我正式没有癌症 |
| 306 | That's a huge, huge like achievement. | 这是一个巨大的,巨大的成就。 |
| 307 | If you could call it that achievement, it's like a huge event. | 如果你可以称之为成就, 这就像一个巨大的事件。 |
| 308 | It's a huge moment. | 这是一个巨大的时刻。 |
| 309 | Shout it from the rooftop. | 从屋顶喊出来 |
| 310 | So everyone in the comments is just saying, congrats, congrats. | 所以评论中的每个人都只是说,恭喜,恭喜. |
| 311 | You scared me. | 你吓到我了 |
| 312 | You should consider a career in literature. | 你应该考虑一个文学生涯。 |
| 313 | Everyone was like, you got me. | 每个人都喜欢,你得到了我。 |
| 314 | You got me. | 你让我。 |
| 315 | Congratulations. | 祝贺你 |
| 316 | So happy for you. | 为你高兴 |
| 317 | Wow. | 珃 |
| 318 | Congrats. | 恭贺. |
| 319 | Cry emoji. | 哭个痛快吧 |
| 320 | Hearts. | 诸心. |
| 321 | Yeah. | 对 |
| 322 | I mean, congratulations. | 我的意思是,祝贺。 |
| 323 | I mean, beating cancer is like probably one of the greatest things | 我的意思是,打癌症 可能是最伟大的事情之一 |
| 324 | that can happen in your life if you have it. | 如果你有的话 生命中就有可能发生这种事 |
| 325 | So congratulations. | 恭喜你们 |
| 326 | Next story, my TA pulled me aside after my fluids midterm today, | 接下来,我的TA把我拉到一边 在我的液体今天中期, |
| 327 | and I don't have anyone to tell fluids. | 我没有任何人告诉液体。 |
| 328 | Mechanical properties of fluids is a physics class. | 流体的机械性质是一个物理类. |
| 329 | Fluid dynamics. | 流体动力学. |
| 330 | OK, that sounded odd to me, but it's like a physics class, I guess. | 好吧,这听起来很奇怪, 但我猜这就像一个物理课。 |
| 331 | Anyway, let's get into it. | 总之,让我们开始吧。 |
| 332 | I am 32. | 我32岁了 |
| 333 | 我为M. E. | |
| 334 | mechanical engineering, I guess, | 我猜是机械工程 |
| 335 | two and a half years ago after a decade as a maintenance tech at a paper plant. | 两年半前 在纸厂当维修技术员十年后 |
| 336 | My wife is supportive, but she doesn't really understand the work. | 我妻子很支持,但她不太懂这工作 |
| 337 | Her parents think I'm going through some midlife thing. | 她的父母认为我正在经历一些中年的事情。 |
| 338 | Well, going back to school doesn't matter what the age is. | 回到学校并不重要年龄 |
| 339 | Good thing you should be proud of that. | 幸好你应该为此感到骄傲 |
| 340 | We have two kids who are six and four. | 我们有两个孩子 六四岁 |
| 341 | I took my fluids final this afternoon. | 今天下午我拿了我的液体决赛。 |
| 342 | Brutal exam. | 野蛮考试 |
| 343 | My TA is a 23 year old grad student named Andrew. | 我的TA是一名23岁的研究生,名叫安德鲁. |
| 344 | I think he's been a little uncomfortable | 我觉得他有点不舒服 |
| 345 | having a student older than him in his section all semester. | 有个比他大的学生在学期 |
| 346 | Andrew asked if I had a minute after I turned in the exam. | 安德鲁问我有没有一分钟 之后我提交考试。 |
| 347 | He pulled out my problem set that he'd been grading on his laptop | 他拔出我的问题 他一直在他的笔记本电脑上分级 |
| 348 | and started flipping through. | 然后开始翻转 |
| 349 | He said he had to verify that he hadn't been put through one of those | 他说,他必须证明 他没有被送过其中之一 |
| 350 | AI cheat tools for us since the department makes them check now. | AI欺骗我们的工具,因为部门 让他们现在检查。 |
| 351 | Then he said he could tell from the way I draw control volumes | 然后他说他能从我画控制卷的方式看出来 |
| 352 | that I've actually seen industrial systems run. | 我见过工业系统运行。 |
| 353 | He said he's been TAing fluids for three semesters | 他说他已经三个学期了 |
| 354 | and my work shows years of practical understanding | 我的作品展现了多年的实际理解 |
| 355 | he doesn't see in undergrads usually. | 他通常不会在大学里看到 |
| 356 | I mean, it makes sense if he's worked in like a maintenance tech at a paper plant. | 我是说,如果他像纸厂的维修技术人员一样工作,那就有意义了。 |
| 357 | It makes sense he has experience. | 这说明他有经验 |
| 358 | I worked at that paper plant for over a decade before going back to school. | 我在那个纸厂工作了十几年 才回到学校 |
| 359 | The way you draw control volume tells you whether someone has actually seen one running. | 你绘制控制音量的方式 告诉你是否有人看到一个运行。 |
| 360 | I just didn't think anyone would ever notice. | 我只是没想到有人会注意到 |
| 361 | I drove home thinking I was going to tell my wife. | 我开车回家 想告诉我的妻子。 |
| 362 | When I walked in, she was making dinner with the kids and I just couldn't. | 当我走进来时,她正在做晚餐 与孩子们,我只是不能。 |
| 363 | She'd say, that's sweet, honey, and not really get it. | 她会说,这是甜蜜的,亲爱的, 没有真正得到它。 |
| 364 | There's nobody in my life who would get it. | 我的生活里没有人会得到它。 |
| 365 | I don't know what to do with this. | 我不知道该怎么处理 |
| 366 | Thanks for reading. | 谢谢你的阅读。 |
| 367 | Oh, honestly, that's pretty cute. | 哦,说实话,这是相当可爱的。 |
| 368 | He's just like, I can understand that frustration of being like so like | 他就像,我可以理解, 沮丧的喜欢这样 |
| 369 | proud and happy of something and wanting to share with people. | 自豪和高兴的东西 并想与人们分享。 |
| 370 | Obviously, the people in your life that love you and stuff, | 显然,你生活中的人 爱你的东西, |
| 371 | they're going to be happy for you and be like, oh, wow, good job. | 他们会为你高兴的,而且,哦,哇,好工作。 |
| 372 | But they're not going to like really understand it. | 但是他们不会喜欢真正理解它。 |
| 373 | I feel like it's like a different level of like feeling when you tell someone | 我感觉你告诉别人的时候 感觉就像不一样 |
| 374 | and they congratulate you, but they understand. | 他们祝贺你,但他们理解。 |
| 375 | And it's just like, feel so good. | 感觉真好 |
| 376 | Whether compared to someone that is really happy for you, | 和真正为你高兴的人相比 |
| 377 | but they just don't understand it like the way you do, you know? | 但他们只是不理解 像你一样,你知道吗? |
| 378 | Yeah. | 对 |
| 379 | Everyone in the comments is just congratulations, congratulations, | 在评论中每个人都只是祝贺,祝贺, |
| 380 | kicking ass, ticking names, getting praise, proud of you. | 踢屁股 勾起名字 得到赞美 为你骄傲 |
| 381 | Engineer to engineer fist pump. | 工程师到工程师 拳泵。 |
| 382 | Awesome. | 厉害 |
| 383 | Good on you. | 不错 |
| 384 | You earned it, dude. | 你应得的,伙计。 |
| 385 | This is a supportive comment section. | 这是一个支持性的评论部分。 |
| 386 | I love Reddit when it's like this, when everyone is just like happy for a person | 我喜欢Reddit,当它是这样, 当每个人都像一个快乐的人 |
| 387 | you know, it feels good. | 感觉很好 |
| 388 | It's a good feeling. | 发菩提心. |
| 389 | And I personally don't understand that, but I could understand | 我个人不理解,但我可以理解 |
| 390 | doing good on something and then wanting to share with people close to you, | 做好事,然后想 分享与你亲近的人, |
| 391 | but they don't really understand. | 但他们并不真正理解。 |
| 392 | So congratulations. | 恭喜你们 |
| 393 | My dad secretly paid off my student loans, but I found out he did | 我爸偷偷还了我的学生贷款 但我发现他有 |
| 394 | how he did it, and I don't know how to feel. | 他是如何做到的, 我不知道如何感受。 |
| 395 | He probably took money out of your student account or some account | 他可能从你的学生户头里拿了钱 |
| 396 | or maybe his own a retirement account and paid off your student loans. | 或者他自己的退休账户 并还清你的学生贷款。 |
| 397 | Something like that, that would make you uncomfortable. | 类似的东西, 这将让你不舒服。 |
| 398 | Two months ago, I got a letter saying my entire 68K loan balance was paid off. | 两个月前,我收到一封信 说我所有的68K贷款余额已经还清。 |
| 399 | I thought it was a scam at first, but after calling the servicer, | 一开始我还以为是骗局 但给服务员打电话后 |
| 400 | they confirmed it. | 他们确认了 |
| 401 | A family member made a full payment. | 一名家庭成员全额付款。 |
| 402 | I immediately knew it was my dad. | 我马上知道那是我爸爸 |
| 403 | He's always been supportive, though not the emotional type. | 他一直很支持,虽然不是那种感情型. |
| 404 | I called him crying, thanking him. | 我打电话给他哭,谢谢他。 |
| 405 | He brushed it off and said, don't worry about it. | 他把它刷掉,说,不用担心。 |
| 406 | Just focus on living your life. | 专心于生活 |
| 407 | It wasn't until last week that my mom told me how he did it. | 直到上周 我妈妈才告诉我他是怎么做到的 |
| 408 | He sold the Harley he's been restoring since before I was born. | 他卖掉他从我出生前就开始修复的哈雷 |
| 409 | That is sad, bro. | 这是可悲的,兄弟。 |
| 410 | The one he used to tell me would be his retirement ride. | 他以前告诉我的 就是他的退休车 |
| 411 | He sold it quietly to some collector in another state | 他悄悄地卖给了别州的收藏家 |
| 412 | and used every penny to clear my debt. | 用一分钱来还债 |
| 413 | He's 61, works maintenance at a plant, knees are shot. | 他61岁,在工厂工作,膝盖中弹 |
| 414 | The bike was the one indulgence he ever allowed himself. | 自行车是他允许的 |
| 415 | I don't know if I should thank him again or apologize. | 我不知道我该不该再次感谢他 还是道歉 |
| 416 | I feel both incredibly loved and incredibly guilty. | 我感到难以置信的爱 和令人难以置信的内疚。 |
| 417 | He traded his dream for my freedom, and I don't know how to carry that. | 他用梦想换取我的自由,我不知道如何携带. |
| 418 | I just needed to tell someone because I can't stop thinking about it. | 我只是需要告诉别人 因为我不能停止思考。 |
| 419 | Honestly, your dad did it because he loves you. | 老实说,你爸爸这么做是因为他爱你 |
| 420 | Not because he wanted you to feel guilty or like you owe him. | 不是因为他希望你感到内疚 或者喜欢你欠他 |
| 421 | It really sounds like you have a good father and he did it because he loves you. | 听起来你是个好父亲 他这么做是因为他爱你 |
| 422 | So instead of saying sorry and apologizing, just be grateful and say, thank you, dad. | 所以,不要说对不起和道歉, 只是感谢和说,谢谢你,爸爸。 |
| 423 | And, you know, go visit him every weekend or, you know, invite him places. | 而且,你知道,去探望他 每个周末或者,你知道,请他的地方。 |
| 424 | And like, he's getting close to retirement. | 就像,他越来越接近退休。 |
| 425 | So spend more time with him because he clearly, clearly loves you | 所以多花点时间陪他 因为他清楚,清楚爱你 |
| 426 | and will always support you. | 永远支持你 |
| 427 | So, you know, you should do the same for him. | 所以,你知道,你应该做 同样为他。 |
| 428 | Let's read some comments. | 让我们看看一些评论。 |
| 429 | Wow, that's an impressive dad. | 哇,真是个了不起的爸爸。 |
| 430 | He loves you more than anything. | 他爱你比什么都多 |
| 431 | He traded his dream for my freedom. | 他用梦想换取我的自由 |
| 432 | Honey, you are his dream, and he just proved it. | 亲爱的,你是他的梦想, 他刚刚证明了这一点。 |
| 433 | Just continue being the person you are and making him proud to be your dad. | 继续做你这样的人 让他为你的父亲感到自豪 |
| 434 | Someone else commented, love him for as long as you got him. | 别人评论,爱他,只要你得到他。 |
| 435 | You are blessed. | 你被祝福过 |
| 436 | You are blessed for that. | 你为此而受福。 |
| 437 | And tears came to my eyes reading it. | 我眼中流着眼泪 |
| 438 | The best thank you you can give him, I think, is to live your life, as he said, | 最好的感谢,你可以给他,我认为, 是过你的生活,正如他说, |
| 439 | and keep loving him, spending time with him and, heck, maybe one day | 一直爱着他 陪着他 |
| 440 | find him a retirement, a new retirement ride. | 给他找个退休的 新的退休旅程 |
| 441 | Someone else commented, anti-gay propaganda slav. | 另有人评论,反同性恋宣传奴隶. |
| 442 | What the f**k, dude? | 搞什么鬼,伙计? |
| 443 | What does that even mean? | 这是什么意思? |
| 444 | I, I, I'm not. | 我,我,我没有。 |
| 445 | I just don't know what that means. | 我只是不知道这意味着什么。 |
| 446 | I guess I'm not smart enough to know what anti-gay propaganda slav. | 我想我不够聪明 知道什么是反同性恋的宣传奴隶。 |
| 447 | I don't know, but it has one upvote. | 我不知道,但是它有一个高票。 |
| 448 | Anyway, everyone else in the comments is saying, you know, congratulations. | 总之,评论中的其他人 都在说,你知道,恭喜。 |
| 449 | Good job. | 干得不错 |
| 450 | You have a really nice dad. | 你有一个非常好的爸爸。 |
| 451 | Love him. | 爱他 |
| 452 | Spent time with him, do all this stuff. | 和他在一起的时间,做所有这些事情。 |
| 453 | And yeah, I agree. | 是的,我同意这一点。 |
| 454 | Next story. | 下一个故事。 |
| 455 | Go to a f**king doctor. | 去看医生 |
| 456 | My friend didn't and now he's dead. | 我的朋友没有 现在他死了。 |
| 457 | Last week, I went to my friend's funeral. | 上周我去我朋友的葬礼了 |
| 458 | He was 30 and now he's gone. | 他30岁,现在他走了。 |
| 459 | I saw his parents and family try and keep a brave face | 我看见他父母和家人努力保持勇敢 |
| 460 | against an impossibly terrible situation. | 面对难以想象的可怕局面 |
| 461 | I saw his other friends talk about all the things | 我看见他其他朋友谈论了一切 |
| 462 | they didn't get to do with him. | 他们和他没有关系 |
| 463 | He died of an aggressive cancer. | 他死于凶猛的癌症。 |
| 464 | He'd been struggling with symptoms for a while, but he just assumed it passed. | 他已经挣扎了一段时间的症状, 但他只是认为它过去了。 |
| 465 | Not until he ended up passing out did he actually go to a doctor. | 直到他昏过去 他才去看医生 |
| 466 | Cancer about everywhere, extremely terminal, one to three years at best. | 癌症到处可见,极度绝症 最多一到三年 |
| 467 | Four months later, he was gone. | 四个月后,他离开了。 |
| 468 | He ate well, at least as well as any of us. | 他吃得还好 至少还有我们 |
| 469 | Was a nonsmoker and God exercised. | 是个不吸烟的神和神 |
| 470 | He did everything more or less right. | 他所做的一切或多或少是正确的。 |
| 471 | But the goddess of chance felt cruel and none of it mattered. | 但偶然的女神感到残酷,没有一点关系. |
| 472 | 狦洛ネêт breath | |
| 473 | or the headache that wouldn't go away, he would still be here. | 或头痛不会消失, 他仍然在这里。 |
| 474 | We can't know for sure, but you might find out. | 我们不确定,但你可能会发现的 |
| 475 | It's something weird. | 有点奇怪 |
| 476 | Go to a goddamn doctor. | 去找个该死的医生 |
| 477 | Co-pays can be paid. | 共付可纳. |
| 478 | Debt can be handled and mischief at work can be excused. | 债务是可以处理的,工作中的弊端是可以免除的。 |
| 479 | You are not going to beat death. | 你不会打败死亡的 |
| 480 | Are you otherwise healthy? | 你身体健康吗? |
| 481 | Do you otherwise eat well, exercise? | 不然你吃得好吗,锻炼? |
| 482 | It doesn't f**king matter. | 这没什么大不了的 |
| 483 | See a doctor. | 见一大夫. |
| 484 | Maybe this is a signal. | 也许这是一个信号。 |
| 485 | I should go see a doctor. | 我应该去看医生 |
| 486 | I don't know what for. | 我不知道为什么 |
| 487 | Have I been feeling anything lately? | 我最近有感觉吗? |
| 488 | Just the usual. | 就像往常一样 |
| 489 | Nothing crazy. | 没什么疯狂的。 |
| 490 | I don't think I have anything. | 我觉得我什么都没有 |
| 491 | I think I'm good. | 我觉得我很好。 |
| 492 | I do want to go do those things. | 我确实想去做那些事 |
| 493 | Sometimes I see on TikTok, like Thailand. | 有时我在TikTok上看到,像泰国。 |
| 494 | Usually I see it, but I feel like anywhere in Southeast Asia. | 通常我看到, 但我感觉像东南亚的任何地方。 |
| 495 | It's like the full body health checkup. | 就像全身健康检查一样 |
| 496 | Test everything. | 测试一切. |
| 497 | They take like x-rays. | 他们像X光。 |
| 498 | They do like all these different type of scans like blood, pee. | 他们喜欢这些不同种类的扫描,如血,尿。 |
| 499 | Like they test everything on you just to like see, you know, how healthy you are. | 就像他们测试你身上的一切一样 只是想看看你有多健康 |
| 500 | They could tell you your age, your bone age or your muscle age or like | 他们可以告诉你你的年龄,你的骨龄 或者你的肌肉年龄或者喜欢 |
| 501 | how fast you're aging, all this stuff. | 你老化的速度有多快,这些东西。 |
| 502 | I do want to do one of those things. | 我确实想做这些事情之一。 |
| 503 | I think it'd be pretty good. | 我觉得会很棒的 |
| 504 | Now that I'm in like my early 20s, | 现在我就像20多岁了 |
| 505 | I just want to low Q be interesting to just do everything and make sure I'm tip top shape. | 我只是想低调的Q 有趣地做一切 确保我尖端的形状。 |
| 506 | And if I'm not, I can address something before it becomes a problem. | 如果我没有,我可以解决一些事情 在它成为一个问题之前。 |
| 507 | First comment. | 初评. |
| 508 | I really wish health care was better here. | 我真的很希望这里的医疗保健更好。 |
| 509 | If it's in the States, your friend should have absolutely gone to get checked out. | 如果在美国 你朋友应该去检查一下 |
| 510 | And with my anecdotal experience with our health care system, | 以我对医疗系统的传闻经验 |
| 511 | it's not a sure bet that his SX would have been taken seriously in time. | 他的SX不会及时被认真对待 |
| 512 | I'm very sorry to hear about the loss of your friend. | 我很遗憾你失去了朋友 |
| 513 | He was very fortunate to have people like you in his life to love him. | 他很幸运能有你这样的人去爱他 |
| 514 | Everyone in the comments is just saying, I'm sorry for your loss. | 评论中的每个人都只是说,我很抱歉你的损失。 |
| 515 | I agree with you. | 我同意你的观点。 |
| 516 | Go see a doctor. | 去看医生吧 |
| 517 | I'm sorry about that. | 对不起 |
| 518 | Someone else commented, doctors love to ignore symptoms, | 有人评论,医生喜欢忽略症状 |
| 519 | and it's very hard to find a doctor that actually cares about people. | 很难找到真正关心人的医生 |
| 520 | These reasons and so many more are why people don't utilize health care. | 这些原因,还有更多的原因,是人们为什么不利用医疗保健。 |
| 521 | The health care industry is expensive and dismissive as a whole. | 医疗行业费用昂贵,整体上是无礼的. |
| 522 | This is this is for the US, by the way, who thrives on keeping people poor and sick. | 顺便说一句,这是为美国而设的,美国靠让穷人生病而兴旺。 |
| 523 | Sorry for your loss. | 对不起,你失去了。 |
| 524 | Blame the system, not your friend. | 怪系统,不是你的朋友。 |
| 525 | They am. | 他们是。 |
| 526 | Thank God I'm not American American. | 谢天谢地我不是美国人 |
| 527 | I actually have done. | 其实我已经做了。 |
| 528 | I've been to America a lot of time. | 我去过美国很多时间。 |
| 529 | Not a lot, but I've done like a road trip through America | 不多,不过我做得很像美国公路旅行 |
| 530 | for like two months. | 两个月 |
| 531 | So I did see a lot of America. | 所以我确实看到了很多美国。 |
| 532 | But every other time I've been has just been like a layover | 但每一次我一直 只是像一个停留 |
| 533 | or just like for like a night or something. | 或者像一个夜晚什么的。 |
| 534 | Usually in Miami or Houston or Atlanta. | 通常在迈阿密或休斯顿或亚特兰大. |
| 535 | Pretty much just that part. | 差不多就是这部分 |
| 536 | But I do want to visit America somewhere. | 但我确实想去美国某处 |
| 537 | I want to go New York. | 我想去纽约 |
| 538 | I think that's the number one on my list. | 我想这是我名单上的头号 |
| 539 | New York, Texas. | 纽约,德州。 |
| 540 | Oh, Texas. | 德克萨斯州 |
| 541 | I don't know where. | 不知何处. |
| 542 | But just for the food, Texas barbecue, bro, stop playing. | 但只为食物,德州烤肉,兄弟,停止玩。 |
| 543 | Come on, dude. | 来吧,伙计。 |
| 544 | You know, oh, nice. | 你知道,哦,不错。 |
| 545 | I just don't want to wait like 20 hours in those lines. | 我只是不想等20小时 |
| 546 | I always see the TikToks of people from like four or three a.m. | 我总是从凌晨4点到3点看到人们的TikToks. |
| 547 | and then wait for like four hours, five hours till they open to get food. | 然后等4个小时,5个小时,直到他们打开 得到食物。 |
| 548 | I'm like and stuff like that. | 我就是这样的 |
| 549 | I could just that's like kind of the places I want to go. | 我可以去那种地方 |
| 550 | Maybe there are more places. | 也许还有更多的地方。 |
| 551 | If you guys are American, but let me know in the comments like America, | 如果你们是美国人,但让我知道 在评论像美国, |
| 552 | Nashville, Tennessee. | 田纳西州纳什维尔. |
| 553 | Next story. | 下一个故事。 |
| 554 | My girlfriend's dad apologized to me years after breaking us up. | 我女朋友的爸爸在分手多年后向我道歉 |
| 555 | Fuck your girlfriend's dad, unless you were a bad boyfriend | 去你妈的女朋友的爸爸 除非你是坏男朋友 |
| 556 | and he was doing the right thing. | 他做对了 |
| 557 | But by apologizing, I'm going to assume that he was just | 但是,通过道歉,我要假设他只是 |
| 558 | didn't want you to date her daughter. | 不想你和她女儿约会 |
| 559 | Not really any specific reason. | 没有具体原因 |
| 560 | Probably just a very overprotective dad. | 也许只是一个非常 保护过度的父亲。 |
| 561 | When I was 19, I dated a girl whose dad hated me. | 我19岁时和一个父亲恨我的女孩约会过 |
| 562 | He thought I was a waste of potential because I was working retail | 他认为我浪费了潜力 因为我在零售业 |
| 563 | instead of going to college. | 而不是上大学。 |
| 564 | He pressured her until she broke up with me. | 他逼她直到她和我分手为止 |
| 565 | That was 11 years ago. | 这是11年前的事了。 |
| 566 | I never saw her again. | 我再也见不到她了 |
| 567 | Last week, I was at a hardware store when a man stopped me and said my name. | 上周,我在一个五金店 当一个人阻止我 并说我的名字。 |
| 568 | It was him. | 碞琌 |
| 569 | I barely recognized him. | 我几乎认不出他 |
| 570 | Gray hair, softer voice. | 灰色头发,声音更柔软. |
| 571 | He told me he still thought about what he did. | 他告诉我他还在想他做了什么 |
| 572 | He said I ruined something good because I was proud. | 他说我毁了好东西 因为我很骄傲 |
| 573 | He told me his daughter married someone successful and it ended badly. | 他告诉我他女儿嫁给了一个成功的人 结果结果很糟 |
| 574 | Then he said, I was wrong about you. | 然后他说,我错了你。 |
| 575 | I hope you found happiness. | 我希望你能找到快乐 |
| 576 | I just stood there. | 我只是站在这里。 |
| 577 | The 19 year old in me wanted to say everything I'd held in. | 我体内的19岁孩子想表达我所持有的一切 |
| 578 | But all I said was I did. | 但我只说我做的。 |
| 579 | I haven't stopped thinking about it since. | 从此不复思惟. |
| 580 | I didn't realize how much weight I was still carrying from something | 我不知道我还背着多少重物 |
| 581 | that ended over a decade ago. | 结束了十多年前。 |
| 582 | Wow. | 珃 |
| 583 | I think that dad really probably grew a lot, even at his age. | 我觉得那个爸爸可能长大很多 即使在他的年龄。 |
| 584 | He did a lot of like self-developments, all that, | 他做了很多像 自我发展,这一切, |
| 585 | because going up and apologizing for something like that after 10 years, | 因为10年后要上去道歉 |
| 586 | that shows like growth and he thought about it. | 表现得像成长 他考虑过 |
| 587 | And he probably saw how this successful person hurt his daughter and all that | 他可能看到这个成功的人 如何伤害他的女儿和这一切 |
| 588 | and realized that maybe success isn't everything. | 并意识到也许成功不是一切。 |
| 589 | Maybe his daughter's happiness should have been first, you know. | 也许他女儿的幸福应该是第一位的 |
| 590 | Let's read some comments. | 让我们看看一些评论。 |
| 591 | It takes a big man to admit that he was wrong. | 需要大人物承认自己错了. |
| 592 | Yeah, that's very true. | 没错 |
| 593 | This is why I'll never give my opinion to my adult children. | 这就是为什么我永远不会 把我的见解给我的成年子女。 |
| 594 | I've picked up the pieces a couple of times and that's all I can do as a father. | 我拿了几遍了,我做父亲也只能这样 |
| 595 | I did have a similar situation when I was 26. | 我26岁的时候也有类似的情况 |
| 596 | A girl that had seriously played with my emotions at 18 resurfaced. | 一个在18岁重现我情绪的女孩 |
| 597 | She tried to come back in my life and I just wasn't attracted to her. | 她试图回到我的生活 而我只是没有被她吸引。 |
| 598 | She was upset, but understood. | 她很不高兴,但明白 |
| 599 | She got married and more children. | 她结婚了,还有更多的孩子。 |
| 600 | And from what friends have told me, she's happy. | 从朋友告诉我,她很快乐 |
| 601 | That's all that matters. | 这就是最重要的。 |
| 602 | Proof that money doesn't equal happiness. | 证明钱不等于幸福. |
| 603 | I'd rather be poor but happy and loved than wealthy, | 我宁愿贫穷,但快乐和爱 而不是富裕, |
| 604 | but in a loveless relationship. | 但是在无爱的关系中 |
| 605 | I went through something similar not long ago. | 我不久前经历了类似的事情 |
| 606 | Her mom couldn't stand me because I looked different | 她妈妈受不了我 因为我看起来不一样 |
| 607 | as it was a cross-cultural relationship. | 因为它是一个跨文化的关系。 |
| 608 | I loved her with all my heart, but I had to accept losing her. | 我全心全意地爱她 但我不得不接受失去她 |
| 609 | I don't think her mom will ever apologize. | 她妈妈不会道歉的 |
| 610 | She's too deep into those old prejudices. | 她对旧的偏见太深了 |
| 611 | I still hope one day both of us find peace and happiness in our own ways. | 我仍然希望有一天,我们两个都能以自己的方式找到和平与幸福。 |
| 612 | That's sad hearing like people are so in love | 那种悲伤的听觉就像人们如此相爱 |
| 613 | and their relationships get broken up by parents. | 和他们的关系 被父母分手。 |
| 614 | Either the parent doesn't like him because they are a waste of potential | 要么父母不喜欢他 因为他们浪费了潜力 |
| 615 | or they're just racist and they're like, you're not fucking bleach white. | 或者他们只是种族歧视 他们喜欢,你不是他妈的漂白白色。 |
| 616 | Why are you dating my daughter? | 你为什么和我女儿约会? |
| 617 | Get the heck out of here. | 滚开 |
| 618 | Let's read one more comment. | 我们再读一篇评论 |
| 619 | It's probably for the best. | 这也许是最好的。 |
| 620 | Thinking about relationships as a guy nearing 40s, | 考虑关系 作为一个男人接近40, |
| 621 | I can say it's best not to have a serious one so young. | 我可以说,最好不要有一个严肃的 一个这么年轻。 |
| 622 | Why? | 为什么? |
| 623 | You're too young to sacrifice for your partner. | 你年纪太小,不能为搭档牺牲 |
| 624 | It's a time to be selfish, whether to enjoy your youth, | 现在是自私的时候, 是否享受你的青春, |
| 625 | be free to attend whatever higher education, | 接受任何高等教育的自由; |
| 626 | then be free to move wherever for a job to build your life | 然后可以自由移动 任何地方为工作 建设你的生活 |
| 627 | and then travel with buddies, which is different to doing it with a partner. | 然后和朋友一起旅行 这和跟搭档一起旅行不一样 |
| 628 | Friends generally disappear once they find a partner or move away. | 朋友一般一旦找到伴侣或搬走就会消失。 |
| 629 | So so enjoy that. | 所以请享受吧。 |
| 630 | Enjoy it while you can. | 尽情享受吧 |
| 631 | Yeah, but I mean, not everyone's the same. | 是啊,但我的意思是,不是每个人都一样。 |
| 632 | Some people would just prefer to find their person | 有些人宁愿找到自己的个人 |
| 633 | and find their partner from young. | 找到他们年轻的伴侣 |
| 634 | Some people are even high school sweethearts | 有些人甚至都是高中的心爱人 |
| 635 | and they're just together their entire life. | 他们只是在一起 他们的整个生活。 |
| 636 | So I don't think there's a set age that you should be like, | 所以,我不认为有一个固定的年龄 你应该喜欢, |
| 637 | oh, I'm going to find a partner by this age and then I'll be serious. | 哦,我会找到一个合伙人 在这个年龄,然后我会是认真的。 |
| 638 | But until I reach that age, I'm not going to be serious. | 但直到我达到那个年龄, 我不会是认真的。 |
| 639 | No, if it happens, it happens. | 不,如果它发生,它发生。 |
| 640 | Go like searching so hard for it. | 就像在寻找它一样 |
| 641 | But if it happens, you know, don't like push it away | 但是,如果它发生,你知道, 不喜欢推开它 |
| 642 | just because you're not at the right age, you know. | 只是因为你年龄不合适 |
| 643 | Last story to the man who sold my wife bacon today. | 今天卖我老婆培根的人最后的故事 |
| 644 | I'm not sure if I have the correct flair for this, | 我不确定我是否有正确的天赋 |
| 645 | but my brain is mush right now | 但我的大脑现在很闷 |
| 646 | and I'm just here to scream into the void. | 我只是在这里 尖叫进入虚空。 |
| 647 | I fought depression for over 20 years, for over 20 years now | 我和抑郁症抗争了20多年 20多年了 |
| 648 | with little able to affect it. | 几乎无法影响它。 |
| 649 | Because of this, my outlook on life has become increasingly cynical | 因此,我对生活的看法越来越冷漠 |
| 650 | and misanthropic. | 和人类性。 |
| 651 | Over 12 years ago, | 12多年前,我们... |
| 652 | at a particularly low point in my life, desperate once again for change, | 在我生命中一个特别低的点, 再次渴望改变, |
| 653 | I decided to adopt a dog that needed love, compassion and a home. | 我决定收养一只需要爱、同情和家园的狗。 |
| 654 | I love adopting dogs and like taking in dogs that need a home. | 我喜欢养狗 喜欢养狗需要家 |
| 655 | I think every dog we've ever owned, our family, | 我认为我们所有的狗,我们的家庭, |
| 656 | is we've always just adopted, adopted, adopted. | 我们一直都是刚通过 领养 领养 |
| 657 | I think we've out of all the dogs we've ever had, | 我想我们已经摆脱了所有的狗 我们曾经有过, |
| 658 | we've had a lot of dogs because we have multiple at a time. | 我们养了很多狗 因为我们一次有多个狗 |
| 659 | I think now we have like four, four dogs. | 我想我们现在有四四只狗了 |
| 660 | I think the two, the two most recent ones, | 我认为这两个,最近的两个, |
| 661 | I think we did buy those because they're specifically sheep dog | 我想我们买这些是因为他们是羊狗 |
| 662 | for like animals. | 像动物一样 |
| 663 | But every other dog we've got, and that's like a lot of dogs. | 但是我们拥有的每条狗, 这就像很多狗。 |
| 664 | For 12 years, this dog has been by my side every step of the way, | 12年来,这只狗 一直在我身边的每一步, |
| 665 | highs and lows, and has helped me ward off my demons | 高低,帮助我避开恶魔 |
| 666 | in a way more meaningful and impactful than the unfathomable amount of money | 从某种意义上说,比难以估量的金钱更有意义和更有影响 |
| 667 | I've spent on drugs, medication and therapy over two decades. | 我花了20年时间在药物,药物和治疗上。 |
| 668 | Dog is a man's best friend. | 狗是人类最好的朋友 |
| 669 | When he got cancer the first time, I thought I would lose him, | 当他第一次患上癌症时 我以为我会失去他 |
| 670 | but he rallied and recovered most of the way. | 但他召集起来 恢复了大部分的路。 |
| 671 | And yet here we are four years later, two days away from his final rest. | 然而,我们在这里已经过了四年,离他最后休息还有两天。 |
| 672 | My heart and mind immeasurably shattered. | 我的心和心都碎了 |
| 673 | My wife, on a mission to give our dog the best last few meals | 我妻子,为了给我们的狗做最后几餐 |
| 674 | he could ever imagine, went to the store on the hunt for something | 他可以想象,去商店 狩猎的东西 |
| 675 | for something two vegetarians know little about, meat. | 对于一些东西,两个素食主义者 很少知道,肉。 |
| 676 | During her quest, she, unlike a man, asked for directions to speak | 她跟男人不同,在探险过程中 问路说话 |
| 677 | and sought the advice of the butcher. | 并询问屠夫的意见。 |
| 678 | Is this bacon any good? | 这个培根好吃吗? |
| 679 | Yeah, it's fine. | 没事 |
| 680 | What are you using it for? | 你用它来干什么? |
| 681 | Tearfully, it's for my dog's last few days. | 伤心的是我的狗的最后几天。 |
| 682 | I just want them to be special. | 我只是想让他们特别点 |
| 683 | The man took the bacon from my wife, went to the back | 那个男人从我妻子那拿走了培根,去了后面 |
| 684 | and produced two big slabs of pork belly and marked it down | 并生产了两块大块的猪肚 并标记下来 |
| 685 | from $25 to $3 for her. | 她从25美元到3美元 |
| 686 | He explained how to prepare it and what might work for our dog's last few meals. | 他解释了如何准备 我们狗的最后几顿饭有什么用 |
| 687 | This act of kindness may single handedly have helped me back on a path | 这种仁慈的举动 可能只是帮助我回到了一条道路上 |
| 688 | for myself. | 为了我自己 |
| 689 | Some people are good. | 有些人很厉害 |
| 690 | That's sad, man. | 真遗憾 |
| 691 | That's sad. | 真遗憾 |
| 692 | Some people still have compassion. | 有些人还有同情心 |
| 693 | Thank you, sir. | 谢谢你,先生。 |
| 694 | May your life forever be blessed. | 愿你的生命永远得到祝福。 |
| 695 | And I thank you for all your thoughtful responses. | 我感谢你的周到反应。 |
| 696 | Know that Mr. | 先生,你应该知道 |
| 697 | Bo is loved and well looked after with a belly full of bacon, | 薄熙来被爱戴 被满腹培根照顾得很好 |
| 698 | pureed sweet potato, blueberries and whipped cream. | 纯净的甜薯条、蓝莓和奶油 |
| 699 | Many of you have offered words of condolences, | 你们中许多人已经表示哀悼, |
| 700 | and I don't have the energy to respond to them individually. | 我没有精力单独回应他们 |
| 701 | I expected this to fall to the wayside. | 我预料到会掉到路边 |
| 702 | Thank you all. | 谢谢大家 |
| 703 | Bo has been giving. | Bo一直在给钱 |
| 704 | Bo has been given a long hug from each of you. | 博已经得到了一个很长的拥抱 从你们每个人。 |
| 705 | Someone commented, the butcher is a real one. | 有人评论说 屠夫是个真正的屠夫 |
| 706 | Small acts of kindness like that can mean the world | 这样的小善行可以指: 世界 |
| 707 | when you're going through something difficult. | 当你遇到一些困难的时候 |
| 708 | Your dog is lucky to have you both. | 你的狗很幸运有你们两个。 |
| 709 | And I'm glad those final days were filled with love and special treats. | 我很高兴最后的日子充满了爱和特别的款待 |
| 710 | Sorry for your loss. | 对不起,你失去了。 |
| 711 | OK, I was low key afraid that that story would not | 好吧,我低调 怕那个故事不会 |
| 712 | would not be like a good story to end off. | 也不会像一个好故事结束。 |
| 713 | But I'm glad it was a good story. | 但我很高兴这是个好故事 |
| 714 | We ended off on a high note, although it was a low note as well | 我们以高调结束 虽然也是低调 |
| 715 | because a dog passed away. | 因为一只狗去世了 |
| 716 | And that's very sad. | 这是非常可悲的。 |
| 717 | Animals passing away, I feel like they're just so innocent and sweet, | 动物过世了,我觉得他们太天真了 |
| 718 | especially animals like a dog that just love love you so much. | 特别是像狗一样爱着你的动物 |
| 719 | Sad, sad. | 悲伤,悲伤。 |
| 720 | Anyways, I hope you guys enjoy this video from true off my chest. | 我希望你们能从我胸口欣赏这段视频 |
| 721 | If you guys want more true off my chest and confessions from people, | 如果你们想从我的胸口和人们的口供中 得到更多的真实信息 |
| 722 | maybe more intense ones or maybe more like scandalous ones. | 也许更激烈的 或者更像可耻的 |
| 723 | Let me know in the comments. | 在评论中告诉我。 |
| 724 | I'll see you guys in the next video. | 下段录像见 |
| 725 | Bye bye. | 再见 |
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