如果我起诉朋友，因为她用我的婚礼旅行去巴厘岛出轨，我会很过分
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| 时间 | 英文 | 中文 |
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| 0:00 | Welcome back to a new video, guys. | 欢迎回到新的视频,伙计们。 |
| 0:01 | Today, we're going to be reading the top Am I the A-hole stories of 2026 so far. | 今天,我们将阅读顶级 Am I 2026年的A洞故事至今。 |
| 0:07 | We have five different stories, so let's just jump straight into it. | 我们有五个不同的故事,所以我们直接跳进去。 |
| 0:11 | Am I the A-hole for not waking up a tourist who overslept and missed a day trip she paid for? | 我是不是因为没有吵醒一个 睡过头又错过一天旅行的游客? |
| 0:17 | Hi guys, I'm 21female, a Bulgarian tour guide who accompanies groups to Sicily. | 嗨,伙计们,我是21 女性,一个保加利亚导游 谁陪伴团体到西西里。 |
| 0:23 | On a recent trip, one woman who was traveling alone, mid-30s, was consistently oversleeping. | 在最近的一次旅行中,一位独自旅行的妇女,即30多岁,一直过夜。 |
| 0:28 | The first day after we arrived, we had a day trip to Etna and Tormina, for which we departed at 8am as we do all other day tours. | 我们抵达后的第一天,我们到埃特纳和托尔米纳进行了一天的旅行,我们于上午8点出发,就像我们其他一天的旅游一样。 |
| 0:46 | I make sure that all tourists are informed of the departure times on the bus the day before and they also have my number to call in case they forgot, so I can remind them. | 我确保所有游客都被告知前一天巴士上的出发时间, |
| 0:56 | They also all have printed out pamphlets with the schedule made by the travel agency that I hand out that has the time for departure on it. | 他们也都印制了小册子,其中附有旅行社的日程安排,而旅行社的行程安排有时间出发。 |
| 1:04 | All of the group was on time, except one woman. | 除了一个女人之外,所有小组都按时进行。 |
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| 序号 | 英文 | 中文 |
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| 1 | Welcome back to a new video, guys. | 欢迎回到新的视频,伙计们。 |
| 2 | Today, we're going to be reading the top Am I the A-hole stories of 2026 so far. | 今天,我们将阅读顶级 Am I 2026年的A洞故事至今。 |
| 3 | We have five different stories, so let's just jump straight into it. | 我们有五个不同的故事,所以我们直接跳进去。 |
| 4 | Am I the A-hole for not waking up a tourist who overslept and missed a day trip she paid for? | 我是不是因为没有吵醒一个 睡过头又错过一天旅行的游客? |
| 5 | Hi guys, I'm 21female, a Bulgarian tour guide who accompanies groups to Sicily. | 嗨,伙计们,我是21 女性,一个保加利亚导游 谁陪伴团体到西西里。 |
| 6 | On a recent trip, one woman who was traveling alone, mid-30s, was consistently oversleeping. | 在最近的一次旅行中,一位独自旅行的妇女,即30多岁,一直过夜。 |
| 7 | The first day after we arrived, we had a day trip to Etna and Tormina, for which we departed at 8am as we do all other day tours. | 我们抵达后的第一天,我们到埃特纳和托尔米纳进行了一天的旅行,我们于上午8点出发,就像我们其他一天的旅游一样。 |
| 8 | I make sure that all tourists are informed of the departure times on the bus the day before and they also have my number to call in case they forgot, so I can remind them. | 我确保所有游客都被告知前一天巴士上的出发时间, |
| 9 | They also all have printed out pamphlets with the schedule made by the travel agency that I hand out that has the time for departure on it. | 他们也都印制了小册子,其中附有旅行社的日程安排,而旅行社的行程安排有时间出发。 |
| 10 | All of the group was on time, except one woman. | 除了一个女人之外,所有小组都按时进行。 |
| 11 | She was 10 minutes late. | 她迟了10分钟。 |
| 12 | Which, okay, maybe she got caught up in something and was late. | 好吧,也许她被困在某件事情里 迟到了 |
| 13 | I excused it, then mentioned to the whole bus in the mic that I do not tolerate lateness beyond 15 minutes, | 我原谅了,然后在麦克风里对整辆公交车说 我不忍迟到超过15分钟, |
| 14 | at most in case of emergency like a forgotten possession, and that I must always be called and informed in case someone is running late. | 最多是在紧急情况下 就像被遗忘的财物 总是有人来迟的时候通知我 |
| 15 | Trip went by okay, otherwise. | 旅行顺利,否则。 |
| 16 | The next day, this same tourist was late again by 25 minutes, okay. | 第二天,这位游客又迟到了25分钟,好吗? |
| 17 | This is like one thing I really don't like, like I know some people are like chronically late and they can never be on time. | 这就像我不喜欢的一件事, 就像我知道有些人像 慢性迟到,他们不可能准时。 |
| 18 | Wakey wakey, wakey wakey, it's time for school. | 醒醒,醒醒,该上学了 |
| 19 | It's just disrespectful like people that have this this quirk they say oh I'm always late and my eyes is just really disrespectful. | 就像那些有这种怪癖的人 说我总是迟到 眼睛很不尊重 |
| 20 | You're telling me meet at 5 p.m because that's when we have the activity. | 你告诉我下午5点见 因为那时我们有活动 |
| 21 | If a person doesn't show up and they show up 25 minutes late 30 minutes late an hour late and they expect everyone to just wait I think that is the craziest craziest. | 如果一个人不出现,他们出现 迟到25分钟 迟到30分钟 迟到一小时, 他们期望每个人都只是等待 我认为这是最疯狂的。 |
| 22 | If you're running late text someone say oh I'm running late sorry this this came up you know what go go without me I won't go today something came up. | 如果你发了很晚的短信,有人说哦,我迟到了 对不起,这出事了 你知道没有我,我今天不会去的 |
| 23 | Okay but if you just don't say anything and you expect like a group of people or just one person to wait I think that's like really annoying. | 好吧,但如果你只是不说什么,你期望 像一群人或者只有一个人等待 我认为这就像真的烦人。 |
| 24 | Yeah okay one time let it slide two times no no I value my time and I also value the other person's time so I will never be late for someone else. | 是啊,好,有一次让它滑动两次 不,我珍视我的时间 我也珍视别人的时间 |
| 25 | And if I am I would let them know I'm sorry I'm running late I'm going to be five minutes late even if I'm going to be like two or three minutes late. | 如果我是,我会让他们知道,我很抱歉 我迟到了,我会迟到5分钟 即使我会迟到2或3分钟。 |
| 26 | I say oh I'm going to be a minute late or two minutes late just just so they know so they're not waiting and thinking oh are they going to show up or not. | 我说,哦,我要迟到一分钟或两分钟, 只是让他们知道,所以他们不 等待和思考 哦,他们要不出现。 |
| 27 | Especially when you're like with a group of people you don't know you know they're strangers you're on a tour. | 特别是当你和一群人在一起时 你不知道他们是陌生人 你在巡演 |
| 28 | And you're 25 minutes late and the day before that you were 10 minutes late it's like it's just disrespectful in my eyes to everyone everyone. | 你迟到25分钟 前一天你迟到10分钟 这就像我对每个人都不敬一样 |
| 29 | We have to sit out here and wait a long periodically time the buses are nasty the buses are filthy. | 我们必须坐在这里 等待很长一段时间 公交车是肮脏的 公交车是肮脏的。 |
| 30 | Almost an entire half hour I called her twice to no answer and we were just about to leave without her when she came running out and got on the bus. | 几乎整整一个半小时,我两次给她打电话,没有回答。 而当她跑出来上巴士时,我们正准备离开。 |
| 31 | She got lucky as the receptionist of the hotel asked me about a missing piece of info on the rooming list and earned her some time. | 她走运了 因为酒店的接待员问我 房单上漏掉的一条信息 |
| 32 | I reminded everyone again that I will not be waiting anymore for late tourists in the morning and waking up is their responsibility. | 我再次提醒大家,我不再在早上等待迟到的游客,而醒来是他们的责任。 |
| 33 | Yeah there's ladies in her 30s you're a grown adult you know you've lived for 30 years I think you can wake up on time. | 是啊,有女士在她30岁 你是成年人 你知道你已经生活了30年 我想你可以及时醒来。 |
| 34 | That's one thing man it's like calm on just wake up set like if you can't wake up set like 20 alarms. | 这是一件事,男人 它就像冷静 刚刚醒来的设置,如果你不能醒来 像20个警报。 |
| 35 | If you really can't wake up leave your curtains open so that the sun wakes you up you know. | 如果你真的不能醒来 离开你的窗帘打开 让太阳唤醒你 你知道。 |
| 36 | When we came back that evening she asked me if I could make sure to wake her up on time. | 那晚我们回来的时候 她问我能不能及时叫醒她 |
| 37 | I reminded her a third time that I'm not responsible for waking people up. | 我第三次提醒她 我不负责唤醒别人 |
| 38 | Everyone gets a printed itinerary with departure times and I announce everything the day before. | 每个人都得到一个印刷的行程表 与出发时间 我宣布的一切前一天。 |
| 39 | She kept saying no no just knock on my door if I'm not up by 8 15. | 她不停地说,不 只是敲我的门,如果我815。 |
| 40 | She seems like a like a child you know. | 她看起来像一个孩子 你知道。 |
| 41 | I kept repeating I really can't do that for everyone please set an alarm yeah like a normal person. | 我不停地重复,我真的不能做到这一点 为每个人请设置一个警报 是的像一个正常的人。 |
| 42 | Well on the day we were visiting Syracuse let me search up what Syracuse looks like. | 那天我们去锡拉丘兹的那天 让我查一下锡拉丘兹的长相 |
| 43 | Oh wow man I want to visit this Sicily bro that is so beautiful. | 哦,哇,男人,我想拜访 这个西西里兄弟是那么美丽。 |
| 44 | She didn't show up. | 她没有出现。 |
| 45 | I waited 15 minutes after that supposed departure time called her twice to no response. | 我等了15分钟才离开 两次她没回应 |
| 46 | Then left with the bus and the rest of the group. | 后随公交车和其余组别离开. |
| 47 | She called me in a panic about an hour later asking where we were. | 一小时后她给我打电话 问我们在哪里 |
| 48 | I explained the situation calmly. | 我冷静地解释了情况。 |
| 49 | She got angry and said that I had one job and that I cheated her out of the money she paid to go on that day trip. | 她生气了,说我有一份工作,我骗了她,从她付的钱里,她去那天的旅行。 |
| 50 | An hour later so she expects everyone to wait a whole entire hour. | 一小时后 她希望每个人都能等整整一个小时 |
| 51 | No man set an alarm dude. | 没人设警报器 |
| 52 | And even if someone calls you you should be able to wake up especially after two calls. | 即使有人打给你 你也应该能醒来 特别是在两通电话之后 |
| 53 | Like unless your phone's on silent. | 除非你的电话没响 |
| 54 | She missed the whole day trip yeah honestly it's her fault. | 她错过了一整天的旅程 说实话 都是她的错 |
| 55 | I do not feel sorry for this person at all like I really don't. | 我一点也不为这个人感到抱歉 |
| 56 | And was furious the next day okay be furious then I don't care bro. | 第二天就发火了 发火吧 那我就不在乎兄弟了 |
| 57 | Later she told the rest of the group that I abandoned her. | 后来,她告诉小组其他成员,我抛弃了她。 |
| 58 | And also called my agency leaving a bad review about me. | 还打电话给我的代理公司 留下关于我的坏评论。 |
| 59 | Bro fuck this woman. | 他妈的这个女人。 |
| 60 | Not the a-hole no. | 不是那个洞 不是那个洞 |
| 61 | Am I the a-hole for not personally waking up a grown woman despite warning her multiple times I wouldn't. | 尽管我多次警告过一个成年女人 我不会,但我却没亲自叫醒她 |
| 62 | It's so many apartments, doctor's apartment, jobs that I have lost due to the buses. | 这么多的公寓,医生的公寓, 工作,我已经失去了 由于公共汽车。 |
| 63 | And they said this year was supposed to be a totally different chain. | 他们说今年应该是一个完全不同的环节。 |
| 64 | No dude no no you're not. | 不,伙计,不,你不是。 |
| 65 | Okay edit. | 好吧,编辑。 |
| 66 | I talked to my manager today. | 我今天跟我的经理谈过了 |
| 67 | I was nervous at first because I was already tired of this whole shenanigan. | 我一开始很紧张 因为我已经厌倦了这整个雪纳尼根 |
| 68 | And didn't want to spend ages defending myself. | 不想花很多时间为自己辩护 |
| 69 | So I went to him first and explained the situation before he approached me. | 于是我先去找他,并在他接近我之前解释了情况. |
| 70 | He told me word for word. | 他一字不差地告诉我 |
| 71 | Hun I deleted that BS from my email as soon as I read it lol. | 洪 我一读完邮件就把BS从邮件上删掉 |
| 72 | An icon. | 一个圣像。 |
| 73 | They removed the bad review. | 他们删除了错误的评论。 |
| 74 | You know what good boss bro. | 你知道什么是好老板兄弟。 |
| 75 | That is nice that's nice. | 不错,不错 |
| 76 | Okay let's read some of the comments. | 好吧,让我们读一些评论。 |
| 77 | I hope everyone agrees that not the a-hole man. | 我希望大家同意,不是那个混蛋 |
| 78 | Because this is like low key triggering me. | 因为这就像低键触发我。 |
| 79 | The woman could have also requested a wake up wake up call from her hotel. | 该妇女还可以要求她从旅馆叫醒。 |
| 80 | Yeah. | 对 |
| 81 | The tour guide called her twice. | 导游给她打了两次电话. |
| 82 | She didn't answer a wake up so likely wouldn't have worked. | 她没有回答一个醒悟 所以很可能是行不通的。 |
| 83 | Yeah that's probably true. | 是啊,这可能是真的。 |
| 84 | Then I don't know how a knock on the door would work. | 我不知道敲门会怎么样 |
| 85 | She wanted someone to knock on her door 15 minutes after she was already late. | 她想有人在她已经迟到15分钟后敲她的门. |
| 86 | Yeah honestly I didn't catch that the first time. | 老实说,我第一次没看到 |
| 87 | The hook. | 钩子. |
| 88 | Nah dude. | 不,伙计。 |
| 89 | And she called after a whole hour had passed. | 她一整小时后打来电话 |
| 90 | This means she wasn't just 15 minutes late. | 这意味着她不只是迟到15分钟。 |
| 91 | No 15 minutes late and you see my taillights. | 没有15分钟晚,你看到我的尾灯。 |
| 92 | I think 15 minutes is being rude as fuck to everyone else. | 我觉得15分钟对其他人来说都是无礼的 |
| 93 | So I'm likely five minutes and out. | 所以我可能五分钟就出来了 |
| 94 | Someone else commented. | 另有人评论. |
| 95 | I am an avid traveler. | 我是一个爱好旅行的人。 |
| 96 | I'd be angry to sit on the bus every morning waiting on someone who is chronically late. | 每天早上坐在巴士上等一个长期迟到的人 我都会生气的 |
| 97 | Time is money and she'd be wasting mine. | 时间就是钱 她会浪费我的 |
| 98 | If she's worried about hers she needs to set alarm. | 如果她担心她,她需要设置警报。 |
| 99 | If she complained to other guests I guarantee they weren't feeling bad for her. | 如果她向其他客人抱怨 我保证他们不会为她难过 |
| 100 | Not the a-hole. | 不是那个洞 |
| 101 | Yeah it would be annoying. | 是啊,这将是令人讨厌的。 |
| 102 | I feel like everyone was probably like relieved when the bus just left her man. | 巴士刚离开她的男人时,我感觉大家好像都松了口气 |
| 103 | Because this is just yeah. | 因为这是对的。 |
| 104 | Vancouver Duder commented. | 温哥华·杜德评论. |
| 105 | 100% agree. | 百分百赞成. |
| 106 | Every time I sign up for a group tour when traveling there's always that one person or | 每次我报名参加团体巡演时 总是有一个人或者 |
| 107 | one couple that is always late to the frustration of everyone. | 一对总是迟到 每个人的挫折。 |
| 108 | They are totally unaware of how they affect the other people around them. | 他们完全不知道他们是如何影响周围其他人的。 |
| 109 | Come to think of it the late person is often also the person who smokes and stinks up the tour bus. | 来想一想 迟到的人经常也是 吸烟和臭气熏天的旅游巴士。 |
| 110 | Or whines about every little thing. | 或者抱怨每件小事 |
| 111 | And just generally does their best to ruin things for everyone. | 通常他们都会尽力为所有人破坏一切 |
| 112 | I am sure most of the other tour guests in this case were happy to see her left behind. | 我敢肯定,大多数其他的巡回嘉宾 都很高兴看到她留下。 |
| 113 | It looks like the whole consensus in the comments is not the a-hole. | 评论中的整个共识似乎不是洞。 |
| 114 | Good bro. | 好哥们 |
| 115 | Good. | 不错 |
| 116 | Faith in humanity is still there. | 对人类的信念依然存在。 |
| 117 | Next story. | 下一个故事。 |
| 118 | Would I be the a-hole for suing my friend when she didn't come to my wedding? | 我会是告我的朋友的洞 当她没有来我的婚礼? |
| 119 | If she cost you a lot of money and let you on saying oh I'll come I'll come. | 如果她花你很多钱 让你说,哦,我会来。 |
| 120 | And then you booked and planned a bunch of stuff for her and then she didn't come. | 然后你为她预订了一堆东西 然后她没来 |
| 121 | Depends on how close your friendship is but no. | 取决于你的友谊有多近,但不行 |
| 122 | I25female recently got married to my 25 male husband in Bali Indonesia in January. | 1月,I25女性在印度尼西亚巴厘岛与25名男性丈夫结婚。 |
| 123 | It was a destination wedding but my parents and his parents paid for their own plane tickets and hotel. | 那是个目的地的婚礼 但我父母自己付了机票和旅馆 |
| 124 | But we paid for our friends plane tickets and hotel stay. | 但我们付了朋友的机票和旅馆住宿费 |
| 125 | Wow that is really nice because that is expensive due to its flight to Bali and hotels. | 哇,这真的很好,因为 因为它的航班 巴厘和酒店。 |
| 126 | I know Bali is like cheaper because it's in Indonesia and the cost of living there is a lot lower. | 我知道巴厘岛很便宜,因为它在印度尼西亚,生活费用低得多。 |
| 127 | And that's why I like a lot of expats to go and live in Bali because it's just cheaper. | 这就是为什么我喜欢很多外卖 去和住在巴厘岛,因为它只是便宜。 |
| 128 | So the plane ticket was probably a lot but the hotel depending on where you stay I imagine | 所以飞机票可能很多 但酒店取决于你住在哪里 我想 |
| 129 | wouldn't have been as expensive as America without the plane ticket added on. | 如果没加机票 就不会像美国那么贵了 |
| 130 | With the plane ticket it's a lot more. | 有了飞机票,就多了 |
| 131 | So that's a really nice thing to do genuinely. | 所以,这是真的很好的事情。 |
| 132 | I personally I don't know if I would have a destination wedding. | 我个人不知道我是否会举行 目的地婚礼。 |
| 133 | Maybe if I did you got to pay for your own flights | 也许如果我做了,你必须支付自己的机票 |
| 134 | because I'm going to use all that money on a honeymoon and other stuff like low key. | 因为我要把那些钱都用在蜜月上 和其他像低密钥的东西上 |
| 135 | I guess a wedding is not like the most important thing to me in the world. | 我想婚礼对我来说不是最重要的 |
| 136 | It's nice but it's not like something I like need you know. | 这是很好的,但它不喜欢的东西 我喜欢需要你知道。 |
| 137 | It's just a nice thing to have. | 这只是一件好事。 |
| 138 | Obviously if my partner needs it let's go bro let's have it. | 显然,如果我的搭档需要它, 让我们去兄弟,让我们拥有它。 |
| 139 | Each plane ticket was about $2,000 US dollars. | 每张机票约2000美元. |
| 140 | Bro how many how many of these did you buy? | 兄弟,你买了多少? |
| 141 | Oh my gosh and hotel was maybe 150 to 300 for a week. | 哦,我的天哪,酒店可能150到300 一个星期。 |
| 142 | Okay that's not bad that's not bad if that's like for the whole week. | 好吧,这是不坏 如果这是像整个星期。 |
| 143 | My friend Gemma brought along her newlywed husband John along but paid for his plane ticket. | 我朋友Gemma带她新婚丈夫John一起来 但付了他的机票 |
| 144 | The problem is that Gemma and John did not show up to my wedding. | 问题是Gemma和John没有出席我的婚礼 |
| 145 | What? | 你说什么? |
| 146 | Gemma took the free plane ticket to Bali and the hotel room | Gemma拿了去巴厘岛的免费机票和酒店房间 |
| 147 | and when I asked her why she didn't show up | 当我问她为什么不出现时 |
| 148 | she said that since they couldn't afford their own honeymoon | 她说,因为他们付不起自己的蜜月 |
| 149 | that this was a perfect opportunity | 这是一个绝佳的机会 |
| 150 | and that Jim decided that he didn't feel like going. | 吉姆决定他不想去 |
| 151 | I was really hurt by this and Gemma and I have been friends for over 10 years. | 我受了这伤害 和Gemma,我一直是朋友 超过10年。 |
| 152 | Would I be the a-hole if I took her to small claims court | 如果我带她去小诉讼庭 我会是洞 |
| 153 | for the money I spent on the plane ticket and hotel? | 我花在机票和酒店的钱? |
| 154 | Gemma还好吗? | |
| 155 | Gemma真的很棒吗? | |
| 156 | This is effed up bro. | 这是疲劳的兄弟。 |
| 157 | It was a whole week right and the wedding is not a whole week thing | 这是整整一周的权利 婚礼不是整整一周的事情 |
| 158 | it's like a day thing or like a two-day thing. | 这就像一天的事情 或者像两天的事情。 |
| 159 | She couldn't just go to your wedding and her boyfriend newlywed husband I mean | 她不能只是去你的婚礼 和她男朋友的新婚丈夫,我的意思是 |
| 160 | couldn't just suck it up and go too since you know | 不能只是吸它 和去太因为你知道 |
| 161 | she's paying for your hotel and your plane ticket. | 她付你的旅馆和机票 |
| 162 | Update. | 更新。 |
| 163 | I messaged Gemma per multiple comments advising me to invoice her for the plane ticket and hotel room | 我给Gemma发了多条留言 让我给她开机票和酒店房间的发票 |
| 164 | but I did something a little better. | 但我做了点更好的事 |
| 165 | I wanted to get proof so if I had to go to court it would be easier to win. | 我想得到证据 所以如果我要上法庭的话 赢会更容易 |
| 166 | I messaged her this. | 我告诉她这个。 |
| 167 | Hey sorry for being so distant but I just wanted to talk to you about Bali. | 嘿,对不起这么疏远 但我只是想和你谈谈巴厘岛。 |
| 168 | I'm hurt that you didn't show up to my ceremony. | 你没有来参加我的仪式 我受伤了 |
| 169 | I pulled a lot of strings to ensure that you could come and then you didn't show up. | 为了保证你能来 但你却没出现 |
| 170 | Did you think I paid for the trip just so you could honeymoon with John? | 你以为我付了钱让你和约翰度蜜月吗? |
| 171 | She replied I've missed you a lot and I know the trip was for your wedding | 她说我很想念你 我知道这次旅行是为了你的婚礼 |
| 172 | but John didn't want to go because he felt like your wedding ruined | 但约翰不想去 因为他觉得你的婚礼毁了 |
| 173 | the illusion of the trip being our honeymoon and that you'd understand. | 幻想旅行是我们的蜜月 你会明白的 |
| 174 | You serious? | 真的吗? |
| 175 | But the trip wasn't your honeymoon the trip was for your friend's wedding. | 但旅行不是你的蜜月 旅行是为了你的朋友的婚礼。 |
| 176 | I replied no I don't understand. | 我回答没有 我不明白。 |
| 177 | You took advantage of me and that's not what real friends do. | 你利用了我,而真正的朋友却不是这样 |
| 178 | So I'm invoicing you $2,387.53 for the cost of the plane ticket and hotel room. | 机票和旅馆房间的费用 我开票给你2 387.53美元 |
| 179 | I will give you 30 days and after that I will be taking legal action. | 我会给你30天 之后我会采取法律行动 |
| 180 | It really it really sucks to do have to do this to your friend but you just have to remember | 真的很难受 不得不这样对待你的朋友 但你必须记住 |
| 181 | it's your friend that caused the situation by doing this weird stuff. | 是你朋友做这些奇怪的事 造成这种情况的 |
| 182 | It's not your fault so you shouldn't feel bad and say oh you know what it's fine. | 这不是你的错,所以你不应该 感觉不好,并说哦 你知道什么是罚款。 |
| 183 | Don't be a pushover. | 别被推倒了 |
| 184 | If someone took advantage of you you know don't let them. | 如果有人利用你 你知道不要让他们。 |
| 185 | I received no response but she's been posting subliminal quotes on Instagram | 我没有收到任何回复 但她在Instagram上贴了下注 |
| 186 | that are along the lines of entitled friends and having snakes in your life. | 和有蛇在你的生活中。 |
| 187 | Thank you for all your verdicts and help. | 谢谢你的所有判决和帮助。 |
| 188 | Update 2. | 增订2。 |
| 189 | I didn't think this could get worse but here we are. | 我没想到事情会更糟 但我们到了 |
| 190 | I didn't respond to any of the subliminal messages she posted about me on social media | 我对她在社交媒体上发的 关于我的任何潜意识信息都没有回应 |
| 191 | and I've been very quiet while I've been getting my ducks in a row for the litigation. | 而我一直很安静 当我一直在得到我的鸭子 在诉讼。 |
| 192 | But this past Friday she sent me a three-page audit of financial and emotional | 但上周五 她给我发了三页的 财务和情感审计 |
| 193 | contributions from 2015 to present. | 2015年至今的捐款。 |
| 194 | I wish I was fucking joking. | 真希望我在开玩笑 |
| 195 | Are you serious? | 你是认真的吗? |
| 196 | Bro what is financial and emotional contributions? | 兄弟,什么是财政和情感贡献? |
| 197 | She itemized every dinner or lunch we've ever ate together. | 她把我们一起吃过的每顿晚饭或午餐都逐项列出. |
| 198 | She estimated $18 per meal. | 她估计每餐18美元。 |
| 199 | Gas money for driving to and from hangouts. | 开车往返的汽油钱 |
| 200 | A birthday gift from 2017 that she now claims she went into debt for. | 2017年的生日礼物,她现在声称她负债累累. |
| 201 | Time spent emotionally supporting me after my dad passed. | 我爸过世后 花了很多时间来支持我 |
| 202 | She said she took on the role of a grief counselor for me even though | 她说她为我做了一个悲伤辅导员的角色 虽然 |
| 203 | I talked to her on the phone about it once for 30 minutes. | 我在电话里跟她说过一次30分钟 |
| 204 | One time she helped me move apartments she wants to be paid for her labor. | 有一次她帮我搬公寓 她想为她的劳动得到报酬 |
| 205 | And emotional distress caused by me threatening litigation. | 以及我威胁诉讼造成的情绪困扰 |
| 206 | Her grand total? | 她的总数? |
| 207 | $2,412.09 which is conveniently within $25 of what I invoiced her. | 2 412.09美元 正好在25美元之内 |
| 208 | So she told me that if we really keep score that I actually owe her $24.56. | 所以她告诉我,如果我们真的保持得分, 我实际上欠她24.56美元。 |
| 209 | What? | 你说什么? |
| 210 | Bro what are you talking about man? | 兄弟,你在说什么? |
| 211 | So now you should send her an invoice for everything | 所以现在你应该给她开张发票 |
| 212 | that you've done for her from 2015 to now. | 你从2015年至今为她所做的一切 |
| 213 | I think I stared at the document for 10 minutes in silence and shock | 我想我静静地看着文件看了10分钟 |
| 214 | from the audacity because this bitch is delusional. | 因为这个婊子有妄想症 |
| 215 | To clarify I never asked her to cook for me. | 为了澄清我从未要求她给我做饭 |
| 216 | While I was in college she did pay for lunches | 我在大学的时候 她确实付了午餐费 |
| 217 | but when I definitely returned the favor big time once I graduated. | 但当我毕业后,我一定会回报大恩 |
| 218 | I bought her many gifts over the years. | 这几年我给她买了很多礼物 |
| 219 | I've let her stay at my house several times when she and John argued. | 她和约翰吵架的时候 我让她住过几次 |
| 220 | And I have also lended a shoulder for her to cry on when she had difficult times in life. | 我还借了一只肩膀给她 在她生活艰难的时候哭 |
| 221 | But apparently being a friend is now billable. | 但是,显然作为一个朋友 现在可以收费。 |
| 222 | I decided to give the message a thumbs down | 我决定给消息下个拇指 |
| 223 | because if I respond I will be extremely disrespectful with the anger I am facing. | 因为如果我回应的话 我将会对我面对的愤怒极度不尊重 |
| 224 | I cannot wait for these 30 days to be over because I'll be suing the fuck out of her. | 我不能等到这30天结束 因为我会起诉她 |
| 225 | As you should. | 随你便 |
| 226 | Final update. | 最后更新。 |
| 227 | Sorry that I haven't updated in a while. | 抱歉我很久没更新了 |
| 228 | I've been trying to get my ducks in a row before I proceed with everything. | 我一直试图把我的鸭子排成一排 在我开始一切之前。 |
| 229 | While doing that I was going through photos from Bali | 我当时正在看巴厘岛的照片 |
| 230 | and ended up on the Instagram page of a local photographer | 最后登上了当地摄影师的Instagram页面 |
| 231 | who took pictures of me and my husband during a sailing excursion we went on. | 他拍了我和我丈夫的照片 在一次航行旅行中 |
| 232 | I was scrolling through their page | 我翻过他们的页面 |
| 233 | and looking at random groups when I saw a very familiar face. | 当我看到一个非常熟悉的面孔时, |
| 234 | It was Gemma and a man. | 是Gemma和一个男人 |
| 235 | And it wasn't John. | 也不是约翰 |
| 236 | It was a man I had never seen before. | 那是我从未见过的人 |
| 237 | Was she cheating? | 她在作弊吗? |
| 238 | What? | 你说什么? |
| 239 | There were multiple photos. | 有多张照片。 |
| 240 | One where they were just sitting down with drinks. | 一个他们只是坐 与饮料。 |
| 241 | One with Gemma and the guy wrapping his arm around her. | 一个和Gemma 和那个把手臂包在她身边的人 |
| 242 | And one of them kissing. | 他们中的一个接吻。 |
| 243 | That's when everything clicked. | 这时,一切点击。 |
| 244 | My wedding was the day after everyone landed | 我的婚礼是大家降落的第二天 |
| 245 | which is why I never saw her at all. | 这就是为什么我从来没有见过她。 |
| 246 | Not at the hotel. | 宾馆里不行 |
| 247 | Not around town. | 不在镇上 |
| 248 | Nothing. | 没什么 |
| 249 | I just assumed she was trying to lay low around town to avoid a confrontation with me. | 我以为她想在镇上低头 避免和我对抗 |
| 250 | She didn't skip my wedding because John didn't feel like going | 她没有跳过婚礼 因为约翰不想去 |
| 251 | or that my wedding ruined the illusion of the trip being their honeymoon. | 或者我的婚礼毁了 旅行是他们的蜜月的幻想 |
| 252 | She skipped it because she wasn't there with John but with another man. | 她跳过,因为她不在那里 与约翰,但与另一个男人。 |
| 253 | What? | 你说什么? |
| 254 | Crazy dude. | 疯子 |
| 255 | After seeing this photo of her and her affair partner | 看到这张照片后 她和她的事伙伴 |
| 256 | I decided to do my own detective work. | 我决定自己做侦探工作 |
| 257 | 我去了她的Instagram页面 | |
| 258 | and tried to see if I could find the guy's Instagram page | 看看能不能找到那家伙的Instagram页面 |
| 259 | in her following list or follower list. | 在她的以下列表或后续列表。 |
| 260 | Nada. | 无田. |
| 261 | Nothing. | 没什么 |
| 262 | Okay this is actually... | 好吧,这其实... |
| 263 | This is getting good man. | 这越来越好人。 |
| 264 | I tried to see if any guy that remotely looked like him was in her likes or comments. | 我试着看看 任何看起来像他的男人 她喜欢或评论。 |
| 265 | Nope. | 没有 |
| 266 | 直到想起Gemma的小陶器Instagram帐号 | |
| 267 | and boom I found him. | 我找到他了,我发现了他 |
| 268 | Let's say his name is Ryan. | 假设他叫瑞安 |
| 269 | Ryan had several photos that were taken in Bali on his page. | Ryan的页面上有几张照片, |
| 270 | He even had a photo of himself in the hotel room that I paid for. | 他甚至在我付的酒店房间里有张他自己的照片 |
| 271 | I was beyond pissed and just wanted to get my money back | 我太生气了,只想拿回我的钱 |
| 272 | 和Gemma一起完成。 | |
| 273 | On the day of our court date I told my side, | 在我们的法院约会那天 我告诉过我这边 |
| 274 | showed the judge the text messages and explained that I paid for her trip | 给法官看短信 并解释我付她旅费 |
| 275 | so she could attend my wedding and she didn't show up. | 所以她可以参加我的婚礼 她没有出现。 |
| 276 | Gemma claimed that the trip was a gift for her new marriage | Gemma声称这次旅行是她新婚礼物 |
| 277 | and not contingent on attending. | 而不取决于出席。 |
| 278 | I didn't even have to bring up the fact that she didn't bring John | 我甚至不用提起她没带约翰来的事实 |
| 279 | because the judge didn't buy Gemma's story. | 因为法官没有买下Gemma的故事 |
| 280 | I was awarded the full amount back. | 我得到了全额补偿 |
| 281 | Gemma walked out of the courtroom without even looking at me. | Gemma没有看着我就走出法庭 |
| 282 | I know she was pissed and as expected she went straight to Instagram | 我知道她很生气,她也像预期的那样直接去了Instagram |
| 283 | and this time she didn't hold back at all. | 这一次她完全没有退缩。 |
| 284 | Note of advice, do not post your personal stuff on Instagram | 请注意, 不要在 Instagram 上张贴您的个人资料 |
| 285 | especially when you're angry or venting. | 特别是你生气或泄气的时候 |
| 286 | Don't post, it's a bad look. | 别发帖,外表不好看. |
| 287 | She started posting about her on her story calling me a bitch, | 她开始在她的故事中说起她 叫我婊子 |
| 288 | saying that's why I can't have kids, | 说这就是为什么我不能有孩子, |
| 289 | posting photos of me calling me fat, | 贴上我叫胖子的照片 |
| 290 | saying that she'll go spit on the grave of my dead grandmother. | 说她会吐口水给我死去的祖母的坟墓 |
| 291 | This was never your friend. | 这不是你的朋友。 |
| 292 | Just diabolical mean girl stuff, bro, so mean, so mean. | 只是邪恶的坏女孩的东西,兄弟,那么坏,那么坏。 |
| 293 | Last time she brought our drama to social media, I ignored it. | 上次她把我们的剧情带到社交媒体,我却置之不理. |
| 294 | But not this time. | 但这次不行 |
| 295 | I know what I did next was stooping to her level but I don't care. | 我知道接下来我做了什么 拖到她的水平,但我不在乎。 |
| 296 | Oh, she posted. | 哦,她发布。 |
| 297 | She posted the photos of her affair. | 她张贴了她外遇的照片。 |
| 298 | Yes, bro, let's go. | 是的,兄弟,我们走 |
| 299 | I posted the photos of her kissing Ryan on my story | 我把她亲吻瑞安的照片贴在我的故事上 |
| 300 | and tagged her and John in it. | 并给她和约翰贴上标签 |
| 301 | I captioned it, sorry John, I'm sorry. | 我给它做了标题,对不起,约翰,对不起。 |
| 302 | We missed you in Bali. | 我们在巴厘想念你 |
| 303 | Hope you had fun. | 希望你玩得开心 |
| 304 | I like this person. | 我喜欢这个人 |
| 305 | You try to be nice, you try to do things the right way, | 你试着好起来,试着做正确的事情, |
| 306 | but if someone pushes you, push back. | 但是如果有人推你, 推回来。 |
| 307 | Within minutes, she began spamming my phone. | 几分钟内,她就开始抽我的电话 |
| 308 | She was calling, texting, leaving voicemails and screaming at me. | 她打电话,发短信,留下语音信箱 对我尖叫。 |
| 309 | And before I blocked her on everything, | 在我封锁她的一切之前 |
| 310 | I messaged her one last time. | 我最后一次给她留言了 |
| 311 | I said, you should have just come to the wedding. | 我说你应该来参加婚礼的 |
| 312 | Wow, wow. | 哇,哇,哇,哇。 |
| 313 | I hope this is a real story. | 我希望这是一个真实的故事。 |
| 314 | Man, that is a sweet, sweet ending. | 男人,这是一个甜蜜的,甜蜜的结局。 |
| 315 | Okay, first comment. | 好吧,第一评论。 |
| 316 | Can't believe I'm saying this but not the a-hole. | 真不敢相信我居然说这话 却不是个洞 |
| 317 | I agree, not the a-hole. | 我同意,不是那个洞。 |
| 318 | Not the a-hole. | 不是那个洞 |
| 319 | I think what she did was perfectly within her right. | 我认为她所做的完全属于她的权利范围。 |
| 320 | She didn't immediately go and go full out on her. | 她没有马上去 并去充满了她。 |
| 321 | She sent her 30 days to pay it back. | 她派她30天来还钱 |
| 322 | Her friend sent her a bill for all this stuff, | 她朋友给她发了张账单 |
| 323 | even demanding $24 and whatever since back. | 甚至要求24美元 和任何从回来。 |
| 324 | And then on top of that, she was cheating on her husband. | 此外,她还背叛了她的丈夫。 |
| 325 | Someone offers to give you a free vacation | 有人给你免费假期 |
| 326 | on the condition that you attend one party during that time. | 条件是你在此期间必须参加一个派对 |
| 327 | I'd be jumping for that opportunity. | 我会跳跃的机会。 |
| 328 | Take that free vacation and then no call, | 免费休假然后不打电话, |
| 329 | no show to your friend's wedding is really shitty behavior on their part. | 参加你朋友的婚礼 根本不是他们的行为 |
| 330 | They could have extended their stay | 他们本可以延长居留期的 |
| 331 | if they wanted to treat the trip as their own honeymoon. | 如果他们想把旅行当作自己的蜜月 |
| 332 | I was thinking the same thing. | 我也这么想 |
| 333 | Came in judging off the title, hard, not the a-hole. | 来判断标题,硬的,不是洞。 |
| 334 | But the best you can do is dump that friend. | 但你能做的就是甩掉那个朋友 |
| 335 | I don't think the hassle is worth it. | 我觉得这麻烦不值得 |
| 336 | The courts will probably see it as a gift. | 法庭也许会视之为礼物 |
| 337 | No, well, the courts didn't, so that's good. | 不,好吧,法院没有,所以这是很好的。 |
| 338 | Someone else commented, you are not an a-hole. | 有人说,你不是一个洞。 |
| 339 | Your friend is the a-hole. | 你朋友就是那个洞 |
| 340 | But I can't see you winning any sort of claim. | 但我看不出你赢了任何要求 |
| 341 | Legally, you gifted her a plane ticket. | 从法律上讲,你给了她一张机票 |
| 342 | There was no contract. | 没有合同。 |
| 343 | She had to come to the wedding. | 她不得不来参加婚礼。 |
| 344 | I like seeing people prove wrong here. | 我喜欢这里的人被证明是错的 |
| 345 | I'm not gonna lie. | 我不会撒谎的 |
| 346 | I'm glad they agreed, not the a-hole. | 我很高兴他们同意,不是洞。 |
| 347 | But they were wrong, bro. | 但他们错了,兄弟。 |
| 348 | Good. | 不错 |
| 349 | Good for her for still going to small claims court | 她还上小诉讼法庭也好 |
| 350 | because that's a lot of money. | 因为那是一大笔钱。 |
| 351 | Over almost $2,500, that's a lot. | 超过2500美元,这是很多。 |
| 352 | And especially giving that to like a snake friend. | 特别是把它送给一个像蛇的朋友。 |
| 353 | Take it back, bro. | 把它拿回来,兄弟。 |
| 354 | Take it back. | 取还. |
| 355 | Next story. | 下一个故事。 |
| 356 | Am I the a-hole for telling my wife my mother is correct | 我是不是跟老婆说我妈是对的? |
| 357 | and she needed to be a parent today and she fucked it up? | 她今天需要做一个父母 却搞砸了? |
| 358 | I'm waiting in the airport and I need to know if I fucked up or not. | 我在机场等着 我得知道自己是不是搞砸了 |
| 359 | This week, my daughter, she is in middle school, lost a classmate. | 这周,我女儿,她在中学,失去了一个同学。 |
| 360 | Oh, that is sad. | 哦,这是可悲的。 |
| 361 | That's sad. | 真遗憾 |
| 362 | I assume she was young too. | 我想她也年轻 |
| 363 | My daughter has not taken it well and overall, | 我的女儿没有把它很好和总体, |
| 364 | this is her first experience of someone she knows dying. | 这是她第一次经历她认识的人死去 |
| 365 | The whole class was excused from school today | 整个班今天都放学了 |
| 366 | and the funeral is happening right now. | 葬礼正在举行 |
| 367 | I unfortunately could not be there. | 很遗憾我没能去 |
| 368 | I tried but my PTO was denied and we cannot lose this job. | 我试过了 但我的PTO被拒绝了 我们不能失去这份工作 |
| 369 | I flew out of Wednesday night and I'm coming back now. | 我从周三晚上飞出来,马上回来 |
| 370 | Our daughter is a mess. | 我们的女儿是一团糟。 |
| 371 | She was friends with that girl that passed away. | 她和那个去世的女孩是朋友 |
| 372 | The plan was for my wife, she's unemployed at the moment, | 计划是给我妻子的 她现在失业了 |
| 373 | to take her to the funeral slash mass and just be there. | 带她去参加葬礼的剪刀弥撒 然后就在那里 |
| 374 | My wife is more spiritual than the average person | 我妻子比一般人更灵性 |
| 375 | and hates all things with the dead. | 并憎恨一切与死者。 |
| 376 | Funerals, viewings, and so on. | 墓葬,观景等. |
| 377 | This one is only a mass funeral, no viewing. | 这个只是群众性的葬礼,没有观赏. |
| 378 | She believes in ghosts and will avoid funerals like the plague. | 她相信鬼神,会避免像瘟疫那样的葬礼. |
| 379 | We discussed it on Wednesday and she said she would take our kid | 我们周三讨论过 她说她要带走我们的孩子 |
| 380 | and then go to the grave site. | 然后去坟场 |
| 381 | I got a call from my daughter sobbing that she wasn't going to the funeral. | 我接到我女儿的电话 她不参加葬礼 |
| 382 | My wife was refusing to take her. | 我妻子拒绝带走她 |
| 383 | When I got her to answer my call, | 当我让她接电话时 |
| 384 | she told me she can't do it and she is scared to go. | 她告诉我她做不到 她害怕去 |
| 385 | I called up my mom and asked her to pick up my daughter | 我叫我妈来接我女儿 |
| 386 | and take her to the funeral. | 带她去葬礼 |
| 387 | My mom left work and took her. | 我妈妈离开工作,带走了她。 |
| 388 | They are there now. | 他们现在在那里。 |
| 389 | I got a call from my wife after with her crying | 我老婆哭着给我打电话 |
| 390 | because my mom tore her a new one. | 因为我妈妈撕裂了她一个新的。 |
| 391 | The gist was my mom called her a bad parent | 重点是我妈妈说她是个坏父母 |
| 392 | and that it is so fucked up | 简直一团糟 |
| 393 | that she couldn't take our kid to the funeral of a classmate. | 她不能带我们的孩子 参加同学的葬礼 |
| 394 | She wants me to make my mom apologize | 她要我让我妈道歉 |
| 395 | and I told her my mom was right. | 我告诉她我妈妈是对的 |
| 396 | Yeah, yeah, your mom is right. | 是啊,是啊,你妈妈是对的。 |
| 397 | I understand like she's spiritual, | 我理解,就像她是灵性, |
| 398 | she's scared of this type of stuff, | 她害怕这种东西, |
| 399 | but she could have said in the beginning, | 但她一开始可以说, |
| 400 | okay, yeah, I can't do this, I'm sorry. | 好吧,是的,我不能做到这一点,我很抱歉。 |
| 401 | Instead, last minute when they're supposed to go, | 相反,最后一分钟 当他们应该去, |
| 402 | she says that she can't go | 她说她不能走 |
| 403 | and then you have to call your mom | 然后你必须打电话给你妈妈 |
| 404 | and she has to go leave work. | 她必须离开工作。 |
| 405 | If she knows she's not able to do that, | 如果她知道她无法做到这一点, |
| 406 | she could just say it. | 她可以直说 |
| 407 | I mean, it's not like it's completely new to you | 我是说,这对你来说并不是全新的 |
| 408 | that she's like spiritual and stuff, | 她就像精神和东西, |
| 409 | but I guess you could have also just asked your mom | 但我猜你也可以问你妈 |
| 410 | to start off with it | 从它开始 |
| 411 | and not put your wife in that decision, | 而不让你的妻子做那个决定, |
| 412 | or sorry, not put your wife in that situation. | 或抱歉,不要让你的妻子陷入这种境地。 |
| 413 | So I guess both people are wrong here. | 所以我猜这俩人都错了 |
| 414 | This was something that our daughter needed | 这是我们女儿需要的 |
| 415 | and she effed up | 和她的疲劳 |
| 416 | that she wasn't acting like a parent | 她不是像父母一样 |
| 417 | because of her fear of the dead. | 因为她怕死人 |
| 418 | All she needed to do was stay through mass. | 她需要做的就是保持弥撒 |
| 419 | We got into a huge phone call argument | 我们遇到一个巨大的电话争论 |
| 420 | and she is calling me a huge dick. | 她叫我一个大家伙。 |
| 421 | My mom is apparently getting texts also | 我妈显然也收到短信 |
| 422 | and I told her to not let our daughter know | 我叫她别让我们女儿知道 |
| 423 | that we are fighting | 我们正在战斗 |
| 424 | and if she could look after her for the day, | 如果她能照顾她一天, |
| 425 | she agreed. | 她答应了 |
| 426 | I don't think it's completely not the a-hole. | 我不认为它完全不是一个洞。 |
| 427 | I think it's like middle of ground, | 我觉得这就像中间地面, |
| 428 | like yeah, he's a little bit of the a-hole | 像是的,他是一个小孔 |
| 429 | because if you knew your wife | 因为如果你认识你的妻子 |
| 430 | is like scared of the dead | 就像害怕死人一样 |
| 431 | and very spiritual and all this, | 和非常精神和这一切, |
| 432 | maybe don't ask her to do something | 也许不要叫她做点什么 |
| 433 | you clearly know she would be uncomfortable with. | 你很清楚她会觉得不舒服 |
| 434 | You know, even if she agrees, | 你知道,即使她同意, |
| 435 | don't even put her in that situation. | 别让她陷入那种境地 |
| 436 | Ask someone else, ask your mom | 问别人,问你妈 |
| 437 | or some other family member. | 或其他家庭成员。 |
| 438 | This could have been avoided. | 这本来是可以避免的。 |
| 439 | But on the other hand, yes, | 但另一方面,是的, |
| 440 | the wife is also kind of an a-hole | 老婆也是个洞 |
| 441 | and in the wrong for not being able | 和错的,因为不能 |
| 442 | to do something this important for the daughter. | 为了女儿做这样重要的事 |
| 443 | The daughter lost something | 女儿丢了东西 |
| 444 | and it was important for her | 这对她很重要 |
| 445 | to go to the funeral and say goodbye | 去参加葬礼 说再见 |
| 446 | and the mom refused to do that, | 和妈妈拒绝这样做, |
| 447 | which is messed up. | 简直一团糟 |
| 448 | Let's read some of the comments. | 我们来读读一些评论吧 |
| 449 | Not the a-hole. | 不是那个洞 |
| 450 | Your wife let her own feelings | 你妻子让自己的感情 |
| 451 | get in the way of her daughters. | 阻止她的女儿们 |
| 452 | As a parent, she needs to get used | 作为父母,她需要习惯 |
| 453 | to doing things that might make her uncomfortable | 做一些让她不舒服的事 |
| 454 | for the sake of her child's mental health | 为了孩子的精神健康 |
| 455 | and well-being. | 和安乐。 |
| 456 | Your wife let your daughter down today | 你老婆今天让你女儿失望了 |
| 457 | and your daughter isn't going to forget | 你女儿不会忘记的 |
| 458 | that her mother wasn't there for her. | 她妈妈没有陪着她 |
| 459 | They both need therapy. | 他们都需要治疗 |
| 460 | Your daughter because losing a friend | 你女儿因为失去朋友 |
| 461 | at her age is absolutely traumatizing | 在她这个年龄 绝对是创伤 |
| 462 | and your wife because her fear of death | 和你妻子 因为她害怕死亡 |
| 463 | slash ghost led to her traumatizing | 斜纹鬼导致她的创伤 |
| 464 | your daughter even more. | 你的女儿更是这样 |
| 465 | Yeah, the wife messed up. | 是啊,她妻子搞砸了,你觉得呢? |
| 466 | If it weren't for OP calling his mom | 如果不是因为OP给他妈妈打电话 |
| 467 | to take his daughter, | 带走他的女儿 |
| 468 | she would have missed her friend's funeral. | 她会错过她朋友的葬礼 |
| 469 | That would have been worse. | 那会更糟的 |
| 470 | No closure, no support. | 无结无支. |
| 471 | If you also add her mother letting her down. | 如果你还加上她妈妈让她失望的话 |
| 472 | Wife could have just called OP's mom herself. | 妻子本可以自己给OP的妈妈打电话 |
| 473 | She really needs to talk to her daughter | 她真的需要和她女儿谈谈 |
| 474 | and apologize. | 并道歉。 和对不起。 |
| 475 | For the kid to see her mom backed out like that, | 让孩子看到她妈妈这样退缩 |
| 476 | that might cause some repercussions. | 这可能会造成一些后果。 |
| 477 | Starting not to trust her own mom for starters. | 开始不相信她自己的妈妈了 |
| 478 | His mom was even willing to leave work last minute | 他妈妈甚至愿意 离开工作的最后一分钟 |
| 479 | to take her granddaughter to the funeral. | 带孙女去参加葬礼 |
| 480 | It really says something about how much she cares | 这真的说明她有多在乎 |
| 481 | for the granddaughter. | 为孙女。 |
| 482 | So when I was called, | 所以当我被叫, |
| 483 | bottom line is death makes most people uncomfortable. | 底线是死亡让大多数人感到不舒服. |
| 484 | That doesn't excuse you from doing the right things. | 这不能原谅你做正确的事 |
| 485 | Life is full of uncomfortable things | 生活充满了不舒服的东西 |
| 486 | that have to be mastered or overcome. | 需要掌握或克服。 |
| 487 | Like calling and making appointments for things, | 像打电话和预约的东西, |
| 488 | interviews, doing taxes, | 面试、纳税 |
| 489 | filing out applications and paperwork. | 提交申请和文书。 |
| 490 | Correct. | 没错 |
| 491 | Someone else commented, | 别人评论, |
| 492 | holy smokes, not the a-hill, | 神圣的烟,不是山, |
| 493 | but you've got a serious mess on your hands | 但你手头有大麻烦 |
| 494 | when you get home. | 当你回家。 |
| 495 | If I were you, | 如果我是你的话 |
| 496 | I'd focus on your daughter's broken heart for a while. | 我会专注于你女儿的心碎 一段时间。 |
| 497 | Don't try to resolve the anger | 不要试图解决愤怒 |
| 498 | and mess with your wife's fear of the dead. | 并惹你妻子对死者的恐惧。 |
| 499 | When you get home, | 当你回家时, |
| 500 | take your daughter out for a walk | 带你女儿出去散步 |
| 501 | and talk about what you can do together | 谈谈你们可以一起做什么 |
| 502 | to remember her friend. | 记住她的朋友。 |
| 503 | Maybe write a story of a fun time together | 一起写个有趣的故事 |
| 504 | that she can give to the mom of her friend. | 她可以给她朋友的妈妈 |
| 505 | Let the weird wife situation just lay dormant for a while. | 让怪异的妻子状况暂时休眠 |
| 506 | Don't apologize, | 别道歉 |
| 507 | but also don't be a dick about it. | 也别傻了 |
| 508 | When your daughter has been properly attended to, | 当你女儿被妥善照顾时 |
| 509 | ask for a conversation with your wife. | 跟你老婆谈谈 |
| 510 | Tell her that you think she let her fears take over | 告诉她你认为她让恐惧占据了一切 |
| 511 | and if she knew she couldn't take her daughter | 如果她知道她不能带走她的女儿 |
| 512 | to the funeral of her friend, | 她的朋友的葬礼, |
| 513 | then she needed to be the one | 然后她需要成为那个 |
| 514 | to arrange alternative transportation. | 安排其他交通工具。 |
| 515 | The full drop-off in ignoring her child | 不理会孩子的全程 |
| 516 | was a bad parenting call. | 是个不好的育儿电话。 |
| 517 | It seems like most people are saying not the a-hole | 看来大多数人都说不是洞 |
| 518 | and that the mother is the adult | 母亲是成年人 |
| 519 | and she should be able to do things | 她应该可以做一些事情 |
| 520 | that make her uncomfortable | 这让她不舒服 |
| 521 | and control her fears for her daughter | 控制她对女儿的恐惧 |
| 522 | because her daughter should be the most support thinker | 因为她的女儿应该是最支持的思想家 |
| 523 | and what she needs to be prioritized | 以及她需要优先考虑的事项 |
| 524 | over what the mom needs. | 母亲需要什么。 |
| 525 | Next story. | 下一个故事。 |
| 526 | Am I the a-hole for ordering alcohol? | 我是不是点酒的混蛋? |
| 527 | I'm currently on a solo trip in Tenerife. | 我现在在特内里费独行 |
| 528 | Dude, I don't know why I cannot pronounce | 伙计,我不知道为什么我不能发音 |
| 529 | any of these names, dude. | 任何这些名字,伙计。 |
| 530 | Once again, a very beautiful coastal city. | 再一次,一个非常美丽的沿海城市。 |
| 531 | Wow. | 珃 |
| 532 | Very beautiful. | 非常美丽。 |
| 533 | Where is this? | 这是哪里? |
| 534 | Spain. | 西班牙语。 |
| 535 | Canary Islands. | 加那利群岛. |
| 536 | Okay. | 摆 |
| 537 | All-inclusive to save having to look for places | 要保存需要寻找位置的全方位 |
| 538 | to eat by myself. | 一个人吃 |
| 539 | The hotel has club-style seating, | 酒店有俱乐部式的座位, |
| 540 | meaning that all tables are tables of eight | 表示所有表格均为8个表格 |
| 541 | and people get sat together. | 人们坐在一起。 |
| 542 | Apparently, it's to encourage | 显然,这是鼓励 |
| 543 | a sense of community and conversation. | 一种社区感和对话感。 |
| 544 | Last night, I was seated first and had a glass of wine. | 昨晚,我先坐下来喝杯酒 |
| 545 | A family of five got seated at my table, | 一个五人的家庭坐在我桌上, |
| 546 | two adults and three children. | 两个成年人和三个孩子。 |
| 547 | The mother turned to me and said, | 母亲对我说 |
| 548 | we do not wish to expose our children | 我们不想暴露我们的孩子 |
| 549 | to women drinking alcohol. | 给喝酒的妇女。 |
| 550 | I smiled and said, | 我笑着说, |
| 551 | perhaps they should ask to move tables | 也许他们应该要求搬桌子 |
| 552 | if it was an issue, | 如果这是一个问题, |
| 553 | but I would be drinking the wine. | 但我会喝酒。 |
| 554 | They noticed I was on my own | 他们注意到我一个人 |
| 555 | and made passive-aggressive comments about this. | 并对此发表消极攻击性的评论。 |
| 556 | Yeah, I understand, I guess, | 是的,我理解,我猜,我说, |
| 557 | not wanting to expose your kids to people drinking, | 不想让你的孩子暴露给喝酒的人 |
| 558 | but OP was there first | 但是,OP是第一个 |
| 559 | and to ask her to stop drinking is kind of insensitive. | 并且要求她停止喝酒 是有点不敏感。 |
| 560 | And you can ask always, | 你可以一直问, |
| 561 | but if someone says no, then leave it at that. | 但是如果有人说不行 那就别管了 |
| 562 | You can move tables, you go somewhere else. | 你可以搬桌子去别的地方 |
| 563 | Obviously, asking is okay. | 显然,问是好的。 |
| 564 | And if the person is okay with not drinking | 如果这个人不喝酒没问题 |
| 565 | or not doing something, it's fine. | 或不做一些事情, 它的罚款。 |
| 566 | But if they're not and they say, | 但是如果他们不是,他们说, |
| 567 | maybe you can move tables, | 也许你可以移动表格, |
| 568 | then don't be passive-aggressive | 那就不要被动攻击 |
| 569 | or make comments or talk bad about them. | 或发表评论或说坏话。 |
| 570 | It just makes stuff so awkward. | 它只是让事情如此尴尬。 |
| 571 | This is like the same thing with people | 跟别人一样 |
| 572 | that ask to move seats in an airplane. | 这要求移动座位 在飞机。 |
| 573 | We're like, oh, can we have that window seat? | 我们就像,哦,我们能有 窗口座位? |
| 574 | Or, oh, my daughter is sitting here. | 或者,哦,我女儿坐在这里。 |
| 575 | You want to change seats? | 你想换座位吗? |
| 576 | And their seat's like way to back or something. | 他们的座椅就像回去的方式什么的。 |
| 577 | It's like, it's not your responsibility | 这就像,这不是你的责任 |
| 578 | to accommodate other people's problems, you know? | 解决别人的问题,你知道吗? |
| 579 | Just worry about yourself. | 只是担心你自己。 |
| 580 | If you're okay with moving seats, | 如果你不介意移动座位, |
| 581 | if you're okay with not drinking wine, | 如果你不介意不喝酒的话 |
| 582 | okay, go for it, no problem. | 好吧,去吧,没问题。 |
| 583 | You're a good person. | 你是个好人 |
| 584 | But if you want to do that stuff, | 但如果你想这样做, |
| 585 | you don't want to let people push you over | 你不想让别人推你过去 |
| 586 | and tell you what to do, then that's okay too. | 告诉你该怎么做,那也没关系。 |
| 587 | You're allowed to say no. | 你被允许拒绝。 |
| 588 | I went up to get food and on return, | 我去买食物,回来后 |
| 589 | the wine had disappeared. | 酒不见了 |
| 590 | A waiter came over and asked to see my wristband | 有个服务员过来问过我的腕带 |
| 591 | for the all-inclusive | A. 对包括所有各方的 |
| 592 | and said the family had told them I was underage | 说家人说我未成年 |
| 593 | and must have sneaked away from my parents. | 一定是偷偷离开我父母 |
| 594 | I'm just picturing this | 我只是在想象这个 |
| 595 | and there's just like a grown woman in the waiter's like, | 服务员里面就像一个成年女人一样 |
| 596 | How do you do, fellow kids? | 你好,孩子们? |
| 597 | What? | 你说什么? |
| 598 | Yeah, they said you're underage, bruh. | 是的 他们说你未成年 |
| 599 | He was very apologetic, okay, good, | 他非常激动,好吧,很好, |
| 600 | and returned with a fresh glass of wine | 带着一杯新鲜的酒回来 |
| 601 | just as the family came back with their food, okay, good. | 就像家人带着食物回来一样 好吧 很好 |
| 602 | Am I the a-hole for then requesting the waiter | 我是不是那个叫服务生的 |
| 603 | to bring me the full bottle | 把满瓶酒给我 |
| 604 | along with a couple of shots of vodka? | 还有几杯伏特加? |
| 605 | The family stormed out of the restaurant | 一家人冲出餐厅 |
| 606 | when I drank the shots as they arrived at the table. | 当我喝的镜头 当他们到达桌子。 |
| 607 | Two shots of vodka? | 两杯伏特加? |
| 608 | Nah, it's a little petty, | 不,有点小事 |
| 609 | but I don't think you're the a-hole. | 但我不认为你是一个洞。 |
| 610 | I think it's just a little petty, that's all. | 我觉得只是小事而已 |
| 611 | First comment, then don't take your kids | 首先,不要带走你的孩子 |
| 612 | to places where alcohol is served. | 送酒的地方。 |
| 613 | Exactly. | 没错 |
| 614 | If you take your kids to places where alcohol is served | 如果你带孩子去喝酒的地方 |
| 615 | and you see alcohol, you cannot be upset, you know? | 你看到酒精,你不会生气,你知道吗? |
| 616 | Not the a-hole. | 不是那个洞 |
| 617 | It's just women drinking alcohol? | 只是女人喝酒吗? |
| 618 | What the heck is that about? | 这到底是怎么回事? |
| 619 | It's clearly not an issue with alcohol | 这显然不是酒的问题 |
| 620 | as much as it is with women. | 和女人一样多 |
| 621 | Sheesh. | 谢什。 |
| 622 | If I were a betting man, | 如果我是个赌徒 |
| 623 | I'd put money on them being religious. | 我把钱放在他们的宗教上 |
| 624 | There are lots and lots of truly dumb opinions out there, | 外面有很多蠢话 |
| 625 | but all the silliest are always there for religious reasons, | 但所有的愚昧总是有 宗教原因, |
| 626 | not counting actual mental illness, of course. | 当然,不算实际的精神疾病。 |
| 627 | What family goes to an all-inclusive and tenor reef | 什么样的家庭会去一个 包容一切的和坚固的珊瑚礁 |
| 628 | and doesn't expect to see a woman drinking alcohol? | 难道不想看到一个女人喝酒吗? |
| 629 | They will have to blindfold the children. | 他们必须蒙住孩子的眼睛 |
| 630 | I don't know if they were bothered by the alcohol | 我不知道他们是不是被酒困扰了 |
| 631 | or by specifically a woman drinking alcohol. | 或通过一个女人喝酒。 |
| 632 | I don't know. | 师曰. |
| 633 | I'm not really sure what religion or something this is. | 我不确定这是什么宗教 |
| 634 | It is even a religious thing, but it's just weird. | 这甚至是一个宗教的事情,但它只是奇怪。 |
| 635 | It's weird to expect other people to accommodate you | 期待别人照顾你真奇怪 |
| 636 | when it's your choice to believe this certain thing, you know? | 当它是你的选择 相信这个特定的事情,你知道吗? |
| 637 | You shouldn't try to make other people accommodate you. | 你不该让别人照顾你 |
| 638 | You really shouldn't. | 你真的不应该。 |
| 639 | If you don't want to see alcohol, | 如果你不想看到酒精的话 |
| 640 | don't go to somewhere where there's alcohol. | 别去有酒精的地方 |
| 641 | Simple. | 简单 |
| 642 | Not the a-hole. | 不是那个洞 |
| 643 | Next and last story. | 下篇及末篇记. |
| 644 | Am I the a-hole for enforcing basic boundaries | 我是不是一个执行基本边界的洞 |
| 645 | on my daughter's sleepover? | 在我女儿的过夜? |
| 646 | I, 42 male, have two kids living with me. | 我,42个男性,有两个孩子和我一起生活。 |
| 647 | My daughter, Anya, 17 female, | 我女儿安雅,17个女的 |
| 648 | and my stepson, Noah, 14 male. | 和我的继子,诺亚,14个男性。 |
| 649 | Noah's mom passed a few years ago | Noah的妈妈几年前就去世了 |
| 650 | and I've had full custody since. | 我从此有了完整的监护权 |
| 651 | He's had a rough go of it, | 他经历了一个艰难的尝试, |
| 652 | but he's a good kid with his quirks. | 但他是个有怪癖的孩子 |
| 653 | He's not antisocial or shy, | 他没有反社会或害羞, |
| 654 | but he does not appreciate having his space invaded. | 但是他不喜欢他的空间被入侵。 |
| 655 | And when very upset, he can kind of shut down. | 当他非常不高兴时,他可以关闭。 |
| 656 | Anya is much more outgoing and has a lot of friends. | 安雅更外出 有很多朋友 |
| 657 | She asked to have a sleepover this weekend with four of them. | 她要求这个周末和四个人一起过夜 |
| 658 | I said yes, of course. | 我当然答应了 |
| 659 | But given that the friends who were coming were pretty loud | 但考虑到那些来的朋友 声音很大 |
| 660 | and have a tendency to crowd Noah, | 并且倾向于吸引诺亚, |
| 661 | I told her to make sure they don't go into her brother's room, | 我叫她别让他们进她哥哥的房间 |
| 662 | also to keep things down after 11 | 十一点以后也要保持低调 |
| 663 | so that the house can sleep. | 令诸众生得睡眠. |
| 664 | In my opinion, these are not strict rules. | 我认为,这些不是严格的规则。 |
| 665 | They're not strict rules. | 他们不是严格的规则。 |
| 666 | Be quiet after 11. | 十一点后安静点 |
| 667 | Honestly, I would think you would say after 10 | 老实说,我想你会说10后 |
| 668 | because even hotels and everywhere is always after 10. | 因为即使是酒店和任何地方 总是在10。 |
| 669 | Be quiet. | 安静 |
| 670 | But after 11, that's nice. | 但过了11,这是很好的。 |
| 671 | And just don't go into someone else's room. | 别进别人的房间 |
| 672 | I feel like that's the most basic, basic, basic boundary. | 我觉得那是最基本的界限 |
| 673 | Even if it's like any situation, | 即使它像任何情况, |
| 674 | don't go into someone else's private space like a room. | 别像房间一样进入别人的私人空间 |
| 675 | So yeah, those are not strict rules. | 所以,这些不是严格的规则。 |
| 676 | To my surprise, I came upstairs to check on them at about 10. | 出乎我意料,我10点上楼去看他们 |
| 677 | They are 17. | 他们是17。 |
| 678 | I didn't think I needed to check on them every hour or something. | 我不认为我需要检查 他们每个小时什么的。 |
| 679 | And they were in Noah's room. | 他们在诺亚的房间 |
| 680 | And they looked like they'd been there for a while. | 他们看起来像他们在那里呆了一段时间。 |
| 681 | Two were literally sitting on his bed with him there. | 两个人真的坐在床上 和他在一起。 |
| 682 | One of them was flipping through his sketchbook. | 其中一人翻翻了他的素描本. |
| 683 | Another was messing with his other stuff. | 还有一个在捣乱他的其他东西 |
| 684 | And they were all kind of giggling in this weird way. | 他们都怪怪的笑了 |
| 685 | Noah was clearly upset. | 诺亚显然心烦意乱 |
| 686 | Yeah, naturally. | 是啊,当然。 |
| 687 | They're probably making fun of him because he's younger. | 他们可能取笑他 因为他年轻。 |
| 688 | He didn't say anything slash move, | 他什么都没说 |
| 689 | but there were tears in his eyes | 但是他的眼睛流了泪 |
| 690 | and he didn't respond when I tried to talk to him. | 我和他说话时他没有回应 |
| 691 | I told the girls to get out right then | 我叫姑娘们马上出去 |
| 692 | and that I was calling every single one of their parents. | 我打电话给他们的父母 |
| 693 | Anya was pretty upset with me. | 安雅很不高兴 |
| 694 | But I told her that I gave her two rules | 但我告诉她,我给了她两个规则 |
| 695 | and they failed spectacularly. | 他们失败了 |
| 696 | I did actually call all of their parents | 我确实打电话给他们所有的父母 |
| 697 | and sent them home as soon as possible. | 然后尽快送他们回家 |
| 698 | Anya blew up saying I embarrassed her. | Anya爆料说我让她难堪了 |
| 699 | I told her to go to her room | 我告诉她去她房间 |
| 700 | and that we would speak on this in the morning. | 我们明早再谈 |
| 701 | I spent about 20 minutes with Noah | 我跟诺亚待了20分钟 |
| 702 | before he decided he wanted to cool down on his own. | 在他决定自己冷静下来之前 |
| 703 | And I went back to my daughter who chose not to speak to me. | 我回到我女儿身边 她选择不跟我说话 |
| 704 | It's late. | 晚参. |
| 705 | Both of my kids are hopefully asleep. | 希望我的孩子都睡着了 |
| 706 | And I'm left knowing if I handle things right. | 而我仍然知道 如果我处理正确的事情。 |
| 707 | Am I the A-hole? | 我是A洞吗? |
| 708 | Me personally, I just can't. | 我个人,我只是不能。 |
| 709 | I would not call my daughter's, if I had a daughter, | 我不会打电话给我女儿的,如果我有一个女儿, |
| 710 | daughter's parents to come pick them up. | 女儿的父母来接他们。 |
| 711 | Especially that late, | 尤其是这么晚 |
| 712 | because yeah, it's embarrassing for the daughter. | 因为这对女儿来说很尴尬 |
| 713 | Like, imagine being a 17-year-old girl | 像,想象一个17岁的女孩 |
| 714 | and then your dad calls your friend's parents | 然后你爸爸打电话给你朋友的父母 |
| 715 | and they have to go home. | 他们必须回家。 |
| 716 | There's probably another type of like consequence | 可能还有另一种后果 |
| 717 | that she could have. | 她可以拥有。 |
| 718 | Maybe no sleepovers for a month. | 也许一个月没有过夜 |
| 719 | Instead of embarrassing her right there and then. | 而不是让她丢脸 |
| 720 | So I would say not the A-hole. | 所以我不说A洞。 |
| 721 | You handle things perfectly okay. | 你处理的很好 |
| 722 | You set very reasonable rules | 你定了很合理的规矩 |
| 723 | and your daughter decided to not care | 你女儿决定不在乎 |
| 724 | and upset Noah. | 让诺亚心烦意乱 |
| 725 | I'll ground her. | 我会把她打倒 |
| 726 | She doesn't care to have embarrassed Noah, | 她不想让诺亚尴尬 |
| 727 | but she cares that she couldn't get her way. | 但是她很在乎她无法行走 |
| 728 | What was she expecting after she broke the rules? | 她打破规矩后还指望什么? |
| 729 | And the precedent to be set, | 和将确立的先例, |
| 730 | if there were no consequences, | 如果没有后果, |
| 731 | not only for breaking the rules, | 不仅因为违反规则, |
| 732 | but for continuing to violate someone's boundaries | 但继续侵犯别人的边界 |
| 733 | while they are clearly visibly uncomfortable. | 他们显然很不舒服。 |
| 734 | She will encounter all sorts of people | 她会遇到各种各样的人 |
| 735 | with different issues slash trauma | 有不同问题 刀伤 |
| 736 | and she needs to recognize when she's crossing a line. | 她需要识别 当她越过一条线。 |
| 737 | I agree. | и種 |
| 738 | Definitely I agree there should be consequences, of course. | 当然我同意应该有后果 |
| 739 | One thing I want to point out | 有件事我想指出来 |
| 740 | is how this may be something Noah thinks about | 这也许是诺亚的想法 |
| 741 | a lot moving forward in life. | 生命中很多进步 |
| 742 | You stood up for him against your daughter, | 你为他反抗你的女儿 |
| 743 | your real kid, | 你的亲生孩子, |
| 744 | as a teen boy living with a stepfather and stepsister. | 作为一个十几岁的男孩 和一个继父和继父住在一起 |
| 745 | You have to wonder if he thinks you view them equally. | 你不得不怀疑他是否认为你对他们一视同仁 |
| 746 | Oh, honestly, I didn't think of this. | 哦,说实话,我没有想到这个。 |
| 747 | I didn't think of this. | 我没有想到这个。 |
| 748 | OP is a very fair person | OP是一个很公平的人 |
| 749 | because usually someone would treat | 因为通常有人会治疗 |
| 750 | their biological daughter better than a stepson. | 他们的亲生女儿比继子好 |
| 751 | But you know what? | 但你知道吗? |
| 752 | I didn't think of this. | 我没有想到这个。 |
| 753 | That's good. | 这是很好的。 |
| 754 | And also it does set like a precedent. | 而且它确实开创了一个先例。 |
| 755 | Now that Noah could feel like, | 现在,诺亚会觉得, |
| 756 | you know what, we're equal. | 你知道,我们是平等的。 |
| 757 | Even though we're not biologically related, | 虽然我们没有生理上的关系 |
| 758 | he views me truly as a son. | 他把我当儿子看待 |
| 759 | So I feel like OP's relationship with Noah | 所以我觉得 OP和诺亚的关系 |
| 760 | will be a lot closer going forward. | 下一步会更接近 |
| 761 | You just proved to him that you do. | 你刚刚向他证明了你这样做。 |
| 762 | He's as much your son as your daughter. | 他和你女儿一样 |
| 763 | You absolutely handled this the right way. | 你处理的绝对正确 |
| 764 | Your daughter was an inconsiderate brat. | 你女儿是个没礼貌的小鬼 |
| 765 | Consequences. | 后果 |
| 766 | As long as you follow through | 只要你坚持到底 |
| 767 | and are consistent with both kids, | 和两个孩子, |
| 768 | then you're doing a great job. | 那你干得不错 |
| 769 | Someone else commented, | 别人评论, |
| 770 | holy hell, not the a-hole. | 神圣的地狱,不是洞。 |
| 771 | And it honestly strange that four 17-year-old girls | 老实说,奇怪的是四个17岁的女孩 |
| 772 | decided to spend their evening harassing a 14-year-old boy. | 决定晚上骚扰一个14岁的男孩 |
| 773 | Yeah. | 对 |
| 774 | Yeah, total Mean Girls vibes going on. | 是啊,总的 平均女孩的气息持续。 |
| 775 | I wonder if OP really knows who his daughter's friends are | 不知道OP是否真的知道他女儿的朋友是谁 |
| 776 | and her for that matter. | 还有她 |
| 777 | It is a mean thing to do. | 这样做很卑鄙。 |
| 778 | Someone else commented, | 别人评论, |
| 779 | not the a-hole. | 不是那个洞 |
| 780 | Your daughter needs to be punished. | 你的女儿需要受到惩罚。 |
| 781 | I have several older brothers. | 我有几个哥哥 |
| 782 | I never went into their rooms | 我从来没有进过他们的房间 |
| 783 | and they never went into mine. | 他们从来没有进入我的。 |
| 784 | It seems like common decency and common sense | 这似乎是普通的体面和常识 |
| 785 | not to enroach on other people's privacy. | 不要盗用别人的隐私 |
| 786 | They 100% went into his room to tease him. | 他们100%进入他的房间取笑他。 |
| 787 | Yeah. | 对 |
| 788 | And that's disgusting. | 这太恶心了 |
| 789 | Your daughter would probably be absolutely furious | 你女儿可能会很生气的 |
| 790 | if the roles were reversed | 如果角色被逆转 |
| 791 | and him and his friends went through her room. | 他和他的朋友穿过她的房间 |
| 792 | There needs to be consequences for her actions. | 她的行为需要承担后果。 |
| 793 | She is too old to be acting like this. | 她太老了,不能这样 |
| 794 | Yeah. | 对 |
| 795 | Yeah, I agree. | 是的,我同意,我同意这个说法。 |
| 796 | Definitely not the a-hole. | 绝对不是洞。 |
| 797 | Definitely need consequences. | 绝对需要后果 |
| 798 | And honestly, thinking about it over, | 说实话,想清楚了 |
| 799 | I forgot about that part where he's not like his biological son. | 我忘了那部分 他不像他的亲生儿子 |
| 800 | It's probably best to have immediate consequences | 最好马上有结果 |
| 801 | to show no immediately that he, | 以示不时, |
| 802 | that OP views both of his children equally, | OP对他的两个孩子一视同仁, |
| 803 | even though he's only biologically related to one. | 虽然他只和一个人有生理上的关系 |
| 804 | Let me know what you guys thought of these. | 告诉我你们怎么想的 |
| 805 | Am I the a-hole stories in the comments? | 我是评论里的一个洞的故事吗? |
| 806 | And I'll see you guys next time. | 下次见 |
| 807 | Bye-bye. | 再见 |
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