Reddit上最残酷的出轨故事 | The Most Bru
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| 0:00 | Okay, so low-key I guess been on a diet lately and I'm kind of starving but I do have water so | 好吧,这么低调的我猜 最近在节食 我有点饿 但我有水 所以 |
| 0:08 | I should be able to lock in for an episode as we read some reddit and these are some actually | 我应该可以锁定一个插曲 当我们读一些reddit, 这些其实是一些 |
| 0:13 | interesting stories. | 有趣的故事。 |
| 0:14 | I don't read them beforehand I just like choose the ones with like the titles | 我之前不读的,我只喜欢选标题一样的 |
| 0:18 | that I'm like what the hell. | 我就像什么地狱。 |
| 0:19 | Let's get into it. | 进曰. |
| 0:20 | My girlfriend and one of my closest friends hooked | 我女朋友和最亲密的朋友上钩了 |
| 0:22 | up how do people even exist like this? | 人们怎么会这样存在? |
| 0:26 | If you're asking how you exist after you're betrayed like | 如果你在问自己被背叛后是怎么存在的 |
| 0:29 | party therapy family and real friends but if you're asking how people that can do something | 派对治疗家人和朋友 但如果你问那些能做些什么的人 |
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| 1 | Okay, so low-key I guess been on a diet lately and I'm kind of starving but I do have water so | 好吧,这么低调的我猜 最近在节食 我有点饿 但我有水 所以 |
| 2 | I should be able to lock in for an episode as we read some reddit and these are some actually | 我应该可以锁定一个插曲 当我们读一些reddit, 这些其实是一些 |
| 3 | interesting stories. | 有趣的故事。 |
| 4 | I don't read them beforehand I just like choose the ones with like the titles | 我之前不读的,我只喜欢选标题一样的 |
| 5 | that I'm like what the hell. | 我就像什么地狱。 |
| 6 | Let's get into it. | 进曰. |
| 7 | My girlfriend and one of my closest friends hooked | 我女朋友和最亲密的朋友上钩了 |
| 8 | up how do people even exist like this? | 人们怎么会这样存在? |
| 9 | If you're asking how you exist after you're betrayed like | 如果你在问自己被背叛后是怎么存在的 |
| 10 | party therapy family and real friends but if you're asking how people that can do something | 派对治疗家人和朋友 但如果你问那些能做些什么的人 |
| 11 | like that exist like your ex I assume this your ex now and your close friend some people are just | 就像你的前妻一样... ...我猜你现在的前任... ...还有你的好朋友... |
| 12 | not good people and they don't have morals and they just don't really care about anyone or anything | 不是好人,他们没有道德 他们只是不关心任何人或任何东西 |
| 13 | but themselves and their temporary pleasure and you just have to let you know karma and stuff take | 但是他们自己和暂时的快乐 你只要让你知道因果报应和东西 |
| 14 | its course because eventually it will catch up. | 因为它最终会赶上。 |
| 15 | Found out my girlfriend of four years hooked up | 发现我四年的女朋友上钩了 |
| 16 | with one of my friends. | 和我的朋友们 |
| 17 | This isn't some random stranger it's a guy I've trusted for years | 这不是什么陌生人 是我多年来一直信任的人 |
| 18 | someone I consider part of my inner circle. | 一个人,我认为这是我内心的一部分。 |
| 19 | It came out by accident when I saw a text chain | 我偶然看到一条短信链 |
| 20 | she left open on the counter reading it I couldn't believe how casually they talked about it | 她开着柜台看 我不敢相信他们怎么随便说 |
| 21 | like it was nothing and it wasn't a one-time elapse this happened over months while I thought | 好像没什么,不是一次性的 几个月来我一直想 |
| 22 | everything was fine. | 一切都没事的。 |
| 23 | Honestly it feels like a loss and I know in the moment you feel like | 老实说,这感觉就像一个损失 我知道在那一刻,你觉得 |
| 24 | so hurt lost and empty but this is the best thing that could have happened to you I mean not like | 如此痛苦的迷失和空虚... ...但这是最好的事情... ...可能发生在你身上... |
| 25 | that's terrible but like finding out is the best thing that could have happened finding out now | 这太可怕了,但就像发现是最好的事情 可能已经发生了发现现在 |
| 26 | while she's just your girlfriend and not your wife you don't have kids together in a house | 她只是你女朋友,不是你老婆 你家里没有孩子 |
| 27 | together and all this stuff I keep going over it in my head and what really shakes me is the mindset | 我脑海中一直想着这些东西 真正让我动摇的是思维 |
| 28 | yeah I think that's one of the hardest parts for me to understand when I read stories like these is | 是啊,我想这是最难理解的部分之一 当我读到这样的故事 |
| 29 | like how people can do this and how they can like just live with themselves like it's mind boggling | 就像人们可以做到这一点, 和他们可以喜欢 仅仅与自己生活一样 就像这是心灵摇摇欲坠 |
| 30 | how can someone look at people they supposedly care about who trust them and choose to hurt them | 人怎么能看着别人 他们应该在乎谁信任他们 选择伤害他们 |
| 31 | I can't understand what goes through someone's mind to betray a relationship and a friendship | 我无法理解什么是经过一个人的心 背叛关系和友谊 |
| 32 | at the same time it makes me wonder if some people are just wired to disregard anyone else's | 与此同时,这让我怀疑 有人只是被窃听 无视别人的 |
| 33 | feelings completely yeah let's read some other comments you deserve better they are not your | 感觉完全是耶 让我们来读一些其他的评论 你应该得到更好的 他们不是你的 |
| 34 | friends literally op responded thanks it's taking a while for that to really sink in but yeah those | 朋友们回答说 感谢你们花了一阵子 才真正融入其中 |
| 35 | are out of my life I'm glad op dumped the girlfriend and friend I'd also tell everyone | 我很高兴我甩了女朋友和朋友 我也告诉大家 |
| 36 | you know what they did expect to lose friends over it as I'm sure some already knew but others need | 你知道他们希望失去朋友的原因吗? 我相信有些人已经知道,但其他人需要 |
| 37 | to know who not to trust yeah that's one thing I agree I agree with a lot of stories I read and a | 我同意我读过很多故事 |
| 38 | lot of stories I listen to it's like oh like I won't tell the friends or I won't tell my side of | 我听了很多故事 就像我不会告诉朋友一样 |
| 39 | story I won't tell these people I won't tell the family that they cheat on me or they did this | 故事我不会告诉这些人 我不会告诉家人 他们欺骗我或他们这样做 |
| 40 | why cause drama and like not make your life any more difficult but they cheated on you and | 为什么引起戏剧性 和喜欢不 让你的生活更加困难 但是他们欺骗你和 |
| 41 | they betrayed you so people around them should know what kind of people they are what kind of | 他们背叛了你 所以周围的人应该知道 他们是什么人 |
| 42 | people they're raised what kind of people they're friends with I always say tell everyone bro tell | 他们养大了什么样的人 他们是朋友 我总是说,告诉大家兄弟说 |
| 43 | everyone but I guess some people probably disagree in the moment you might feel different in the | 每个人,但我想有些人可能不同意 在那一刻,你可能觉得 不同在 |
| 44 | moment you might just be so like done emotionally that you don't even care this is just from an | 你可能只是 喜欢做在情感上 你甚至不在乎 这是从一个 |
| 45 | outside perspective I'm saying this obviously man I'm sorry people suck how did they act when | 外面的视角,我说这显然 男人... ...我很抱歉人们吸 他们做了什么,当 |
| 46 | you confronted them it was messy with my girlfriend a lot of minimizing and excuses | 你和她们对质 我女朋友很不爽 也有很多借口 |
| 47 | not much real accountability so I just ended it right there I haven't confronted the friend yet | 没有多少真正的责任,所以我刚刚结束了它 就在那里,我还没有面对朋友呢 |
| 48 | I tried calling him but he won't pick up which honestly says a lot on its own he's a POS piece | 我试着打电话给他,但他不接电话 老实说,他是一个POS作品 |
| 49 | of shit and let all your other friends know he can't be trusted exactly bro so proud of you I'm | 让你所有的朋友知道 他不能被信任 |
| 50 | sorry this happened to you you deserve better and you will get it good for you to end it on the spot | 很遗憾你遭遇了这样的事 你应该得到更好的待遇 你会得到它的好处 |
| 51 | when she downplayed it like that cruel of her the guy is cruel too you'll be better off without | 当她轻描淡写地说,她很残忍 这家伙也很残忍,你最好不要 |
| 52 | them but it all sucks I'm so sorry yeah someone else commented something similar happened to me | 但他们都糟透了 我很抱歉是的 有人评论类似的事情发生在我身上 |
| 53 | don't blame yourself these people are selfish and just very terrible human beings hopefully you have | 别怪你自己 这些人自私 和只是非常可怕的人 希望你有 |
| 54 | cut contact with both of them for your own self-respect and mental health same here | 为了你的自尊和精神健康 切除与他们两人的接触 |
| 55 | recommend blocking the friend and going no contact a lot of folks on here understand the | 建议阻断朋友 不准接触这里的很多人 了解 |
| 56 | not many get the misfortune of also grieving the loss of what they felt was a close friend | 很少有人会因为悲伤而不幸的 失去一个亲密的朋友 |
| 57 | my wife's ap and my friend texted me more than anyone while I was in the hospital recovering | 我妻子的AP和我的朋友给我的短信 比任何人都多 当我在医院康复 |
| 58 | from a traumatic injury turns out he had already hooked up with my wife and did so again on the | 伤痕累累 证明他已经和我妻子上过床 |
| 59 | first day back to work following recovery there is a very real come to jesus moment when you realize | 恢复后的第一天就开始工作 当你意识到了 |
| 60 | they were not the friend you thought they were anyway so sorry man this sucks ah bro that sucks | 他们不是你认为的朋友 无论如何,他们是如此的抱歉 男人这烂啊,兄弟那烂 |
| 61 | my wife of almost 30 years and my best mate british oh no australian had a two-year affair | 我老婆将近30年了 我最好的朋友British 哦 没有澳洲人有两年的外遇 |
| 62 | that destroyed my family and his no real remorse yes people are shit mine had at least three other | 毁了我的家人 他没有真正的悔恨... ... |
| 63 | affairs or indiscretions and i rug swept those don't do what i did and stay expecting her | 事情或不妥 我扫荡了那些东西 不做我做的事 一直等着她 |
| 64 | behavior to improve unless she shows full accountability gotham method of reconciliation | 除非她展现出完全的问责方式 |
| 65 | she will do it again get out now once a cheater always a cheater they never stop character flaw | 她会再做一次 现在出去 一旦一个作弊者总是一个作弊者 |
| 66 | this is so rough i'm sorry you experienced that let's read one more comment since this one's | 这太粗糙了,我很抱歉你经历 让我们再读一个评论,因为这一个 |
| 67 | interesting something similar happened here 15 years ago my best friend's wife died my wife and | 有趣的事情 类似的事情在这里发生 15年前 我最好的朋友的妻子死了我的妻子 |
| 68 | i were there for him 24 7 before her death and long after at the time my wife and i had been | 她死前我陪着他 24 7 7 7 7 |
| 69 | together for 14 years married two kids genuinely happy we were seen by everyone including him as | 结婚14年 两个孩子真的很高兴 我们被每个人看 包括他 |
| 70 | the dream couple he was my best friend of 25 years best man at each other's weddings did | 梦中情侣 他是我25年的伴郎 在对方的婚礼上 |
| 71 | everything together complete trust there were no cracks no ongoing issues no secret unhappiness | 一切都完全信任 没有裂缝 没有持续的问题 没有秘密的幸福 |
| 72 | three months after his wife died my own wife suddenly said she wanted to live on her own | 他老婆死后三个月 我太太突然说她想靠自己生活 |
| 73 | completely out of the blue what followed was months of lies back and forth emotional chaos | 接下来是几个月的谎言 前后的情绪混乱 |
| 74 | even a stay in mental health clinic eventually the truth came out there was something going on | 连精神病院都住着 最终发现真相 事情发生了 |
| 75 | between them we divorced i was so broken at the notary signing the papers that the notary | 我们离婚了 在公证员的签名上我被打破了 |
| 76 | followed me outside to check whether i was okay the only reason i'm still here is because i had | 跟着我出去看看我是否没事 唯一理由我还在这里是因为我有 |
| 77 | kids who needed their father what really bothers me when i read posts like this is when people | 需要父亲的孩子 当我读到这样的文章 真正让我烦恼的是人们 |
| 78 | say they lied for years it was never real no that's lazy thinking it was real you don't fake love | 说他们撒谎了好几年 这从来就不是真的 懒惰的认为你不是真的爱 |
| 79 | trust and connection for 14 to 25 years without a single crack showing it wasn't blind or naive | 14到25年的信赖和连接 没有一个裂缝显示它不是盲目或天真的 |
| 80 | real love existed and then something snapped a kind of shared delusion where they decided their love | 真正的爱存在,然后一些东西 打破了一种共同的妄想 他们决定自己的爱 |
| 81 | was so special that it justified destroying everything and everyone else without remorse | 如此特殊,以至于可以毫无悔恨地摧毁一切和所有人 |
| 82 | whoa someone put that on a t-shirt low-key that's a that's a good take bro that is like | 哇,有人把它放在T恤 低调的,这是一个好的拿兄弟,就像 |
| 83 | soccer t-shit 15 years later there has been zero accountability zero remorse they live there happily | 15年后,他们在那里过着幸福的生活, |
| 84 | ever after i live with the damage so no it wasn't all fake sometimes real love is destroyed by | 自从我承受了损失之后... ... ...... |
| 85 | selfishness grief and moral cowardice that doesn't make it less real it just makes the betrayal worse | 自私的悲伤和道德的懦弱 并不让它变得不那么真实 只是让背叛变得更糟 |
| 86 | whoa okay terrible terrible stories it's terrible reading reading stuff like this and like seeing | 糟糕的恐怖故事 读到这种东西太可怕了 |
| 87 | what people have to go through and then you always like never want it to be you i hope it's never | 人们必须经历的,然后你总是喜欢 永远不希望它是你 我希望它永远不会 |
| 88 | anyone watching this or anyone because this is like some of the worst experience you could ever | 任何人看这个,或任何人 因为这是一些最糟糕的经验 你可能从来没有 |
| 89 | i hope like i shouldn't help that but people that do this bro this shit should just happen to them | 我希望我不应该帮助 但做这个兄弟的人 应该只是发生在他们身上 |
| 90 | not not like good people that like care and love and like are honest and don't cheat second story | 不喜欢好人喜欢关心和爱 喜欢诚实,不要欺骗第二个故事 |
| 91 | 10 years together discovered my wife's co-worker's affair and reconciliation doesn't feel possible | 在一起10年 发现了我太太同事的私情 和解是不可能实现的 |
| 92 | i'm a 27 male and my wife 27 female no kids and i have been together for 10 years we started dating | 我是27个男的 我妻子是27个女的 没有孩子 我在一起十年了 我们开始约会 |
| 93 | in high school dated for three years were engaged for five and have been married for the last two | 高中三年生 订婚5年 结婚2年 |
| 94 | years last week i discovered she was having a full-blown affair with her co-worker which i found out | 上星期我发现她和她同事 有一腿的外遇 |
| 95 | accidentally through chats with her best friend where she was joking about having two husbands | 无意间通过和她最好的朋友聊天 在那里她开玩笑说她有两个丈夫 |
| 96 | enjoying the attention snooping through his desk every friday and casually describing their dynamic | 每天周五在桌子上偷看 随意描述他们的动态 |
| 97 | throughout our marriage she used to go to her mother's house every friday and saturday which i | 在我们的婚姻中 她经常每周五和周六去她母亲家 |
| 98 | questioned but i now know fridays were spent going on dates with him after work i'm sure he had a wife | 但我现在知道星期五 下班后和他约会 我相信他有个妻子 |
| 99 | too she admitted to multiple makeouts there was a message where she told her friend that his penis | 她也承认多次化妆 有个信息告诉她朋友他的阴茎 |
| 100 | was not small she denied sleeping with him when i confronted her she initially denied and deflected | 我和她对质时她否认和他上床 她最初否认和转移 |
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| 102 | confronting her i linked my laptop and phone to her whatsapp and saw that despite crying to me and | 面对她,我把我的笔记本电脑和手机 与她的东西,看到,尽管我哭了, |
| 103 | claiming deeper morse she continued talking to him damage controlling and emotionally engaging | 她继续和他说话 伤害控制 和情感接触 |
| 104 | he even mentioned buying her candles as a gift that day to which she responded with a sad emoji | 他甚至提到买蜡烛是她那天的礼物 她用悲哀的情感回应 |
| 105 | and later joked about them still having their wits intact she logged me out after 24 hours | 之后开玩笑说他们还有智慧 24小时后她把我关起来 |
| 106 | the affair partner is married and has a daughter and she even sent him my phone number after the | 婚外情伴侣结婚了,有一个女儿 她甚至把我的电话号码给他 |
| 107 | now she says she wants reconciliation and is willing to quit her job | 现在她说她想要和解 愿意辞职 |
| 108 | abandon friends stay home and start a family despite not wanting kids before but i feel | 抛弃朋友 留在家里 组建一个家庭 尽管我以前不想要孩子 但我感觉 |
| 109 | emotionally unsafe deeply repulsed and unable to trust or respect her and reconciliation does not | 感情上不安全 深深厌恶 无法信任或尊重她 和解不会 |
| 110 | feel possible i've arranged individual therapy for myself starting monday i think you've kind of | 我觉得可能 我安排了个人治疗 从星期一开始 我想你已经有点 |
| 111 | answered your question i don't think reconciliation is possible when someone like betrays you this | 回答你的问题 我觉得如果有人背叛你 和解是不可能的 |
| 112 | they think they can make it right by giving you all these things that saying they'll stop contact | 他们认为通过给你这些 说他们不会接触的东西 就能弥补错误 |
| 113 | with everyone all their friends do this do things they didn't want to do before like start a family | 他们的朋友都这样做 做他们不想做的事 |
| 114 | eventually that'll also create resentment in them because then they'll start to feel like you made | 最终也会在他们身上产生怨恨 因为那样他们就会开始感觉你做了 |
| 115 | them do this stuff you guys should either cheat again or you'll break up or something will happen | 他们做这些事 你们要么再作弊 要么你们分手 要么发生什么 |
| 116 | it's just not worth it once a relationship is like broken like this you can try like extremely hard | 一旦感情像这样破碎了,你就会很辛苦 |
| 117 | like years of therapy to fix it and you can fix it or you can just see the loss and move on and | 比如多年的治疗 修复它,你可以修复它 或者你可以看到损失,继续前进 |
| 118 | a new relationship fresh with someone that has the same values as you wants kids and a family | 与你想要的孩子和家人一样的价值的新关系 |
| 119 | my questions does this sound like a real remorse or a panic-driven damage control | 我的问题听起来像是真正的悔恨 或由恐慌驱动的损害控制 |
| 120 | it sounds like damage control if you people are offering to do things that they would never do | 这听起来像 损害控制,如果你的人 提出做的东西 他们永远不会做 |
| 121 | unless they're in a situation like this then they're desperate and it's not genuine | 除非他们处于这种境地 否则他们很绝望 而且这不是真的 |
| 122 | is reconciliation even possible when trust and respect feel completely gone it is possible | 如果信任和尊重完全消失 和解就有可能实现 |
| 123 | but it's not easy how do you know when walking away is the healthier choice when you see yourself | 但是,这不容易,你怎么知道 当离开是健康的选择 当你看到自己 |
| 124 | question it like this questioning things like this i think it's probably best to just walk away | 像这样质疑事情 我觉得最好还是走开 |
| 125 | because you seem very conflicted and you don't want to make the wrong choice but i think the | 因为你看起来很矛盾 你不想做错选择 但我认为 |
| 126 | wrong choice in this case would be you staying let's read some comments now let's see if we had | 这样的话,你的选择是错的,你留下,让我们读一些评论,看看我们有没有 |
| 127 | the same perspective or no so the first comment is he told her he was staying with his wife and | 所以第一点评论是他告诉她他和妻子住在一起 |
| 128 | dumped her you are her fallback position till she finds someone else why would you want her after | 甩了她,你是她的后退位置 直到她找到别人,你为什么要她之后 |
| 129 | all the lies and deception yeah i didn't really think of that one but yeah that's that's probably | 所有谎言和欺骗... |
| 130 | what happened i'm gonna be honest someone replied this with no kids i wouldn't stay i did stay | 发生了什么事,我会说实话 有人回答这个 没有孩子,我不会留下来,我确实留下来 |
| 131 | because of my kids i will not let her actions make me lose 50 percent of my time with my kids | 因为我的孩子们 我不会让她的行为 使我失去50%的时间 与我的孩子 |
| 132 | i will also not financially disrupt them that being said it took a while to get to a place | 我也不会在经济上干扰他们 说要花点时间才能到一个地方 |
| 133 | what worked was essentially separating expectations from feelings i trust myself that's it you will | 真正有效的是把期望和感情分开 我相信你会的 |
| 134 | not want to live that way personally getting to a place where i just don't care what she does was | 不想过那种生活 亲自去一个我不在乎她所做的事的地方 |
| 135 | freeing things are actually better now more stable we still associate with each other and are married | 解脱其实比较好 现在更稳定了 我们还是互相交往 结了婚 |
| 136 | and in a relationship but it will never be the same she has been open about reconciling and even | 在一段感情中,但她对调和 甚至是平和的态度 将永远无法改变 |
| 137 | told me when the guy tried to reach out to her again but it didn't matter at that point i didn't | 告诉我,当那个家伙试图再次联系她, 但这一点不重要,我当时没有 |
| 138 | care if she wanted to do that or not perhaps it's come part mentalizing because of the kids perhaps | 也许是因为孩子们的缘故 |
| 139 | i would be happier on my own but i doubt it i did the marriage thing once and it's more than enough | 我一个人会更快乐 但我怀疑我做过一次婚姻的事 就够了 |
| 140 | i would not be seeking alternative companionship if i were out of this marriage if i were you though | 如果我是你 我就不会另找伴侣了 |
| 141 | i'd be out there wow i know children feel the tension every single day trust me i've done what | 我会在那里哇,我知道孩子们 感觉紧张的每一天 相信我,我做了什么 |
| 142 | you are doing and you aren't doing your children a kindness you put a bandaid on a gutshot wound and | 你正在做,你没有在做你的孩子 一个好心的,你给一个 乐队女郎的直肠伤口, |
| 143 | tried to pretend it stopped bleeding when i finally told my children i was leaving they both said it's | 我试图假装它止血 当我终于告诉我的孩子,我离开 他们都说这是 |
| 144 | i thought we were functioning fine kids aren't stupid and it took me a few years to do damage | 我以为我们是正常的 孩子们不傻 我花了几年时间才弄坏 |
| 145 | control with them after modeling that toxic relationship dynamic i would keep extra cash | 在模拟毒害关系动态后 控制他们 我会多留现金 |
| 146 | handy for therapy because you and your wife are the constant and steady relationship they see every | 因为你和你的妻子 是他们经常和稳定的关系 |
| 147 | day and learn from and while you think all is well your kids know they always do so agreed my parents | 你的孩子知道 他们总是同意我的父母 |
| 148 | were like that so i never experienced a healthy relationship i was lucky because my first boyfriend | 我从来没有经历过一个健康的关系 我幸运是因为我的第一个男朋友 |
| 149 | was so kind and gentle to me he taught me everything and protected me however after breaking | 对我那么善良和温柔 他教会了我一切 并且保护我 |
| 150 | up i jumped to a toxic relationship because that is how i grew up i thought it was normal my first | 我跳到一个有毒的关系 因为我是如何长大的 我认为这是正常的 我的第一个 |
| 151 | boyfriend was so upset he gave me a long lecture he said he never treated me like that so how could | 男朋友很不高兴 他给我做了个长篇大论 他说他从没这样对我过 |
| 152 | i let others treat me like that i was really struggling to define what was a normal healthy | 我让别人这样对待我 我真的很难定义什么是正常的健康 |
| 153 | relationship until i met my boyfriend he grew up in a happy family i couldn't believe family could | 在我遇见男朋友之前 他在一个幸福的家庭长大 我不敢相信家人能 |
| 154 | treat each other with care and kindness i couldn't believe kissing each other in front of their kids | 在孩子面前亲吻对方 我简直不敢相信 |
| 155 | were normal i couldn't believe husband and wife slept in the same bed yeah and then some other | 我不敢相信丈夫和妻子睡在同一张床上 |
| 156 | people are just commenting you should tell the wife what's going on and he op replied yes i'm on it | 人们只是评论你 应该告诉妻子 发生了什么事,他的行动回答是的,我在上面 |
| 157 | she gave him your number so he can block it on his wife's phone she is still helping him definitely | 她给了他你的号码 这样他就可以在妻子的手机上屏蔽它 她肯定还在帮他 |
| 158 | need to think hard before reconciling she suddenly wants a kid because she thinks you would never | 在调和之前需要仔细思考 她突然想要个孩子 因为她觉得你永远不会 |
| 159 | a child or even if you wanted to leave her she wants you to keep paying her bills don't bring | 小孩,即使你想离开她... ...她希望你继续支付她的帐单... |
| 160 | a child into this situation yeah actually yeah i didn't really think of that don't bring a child | 小孩陷入这种境地 是的,其实是的,我真没想到这不会带孩子 |
| 161 | into this situation don't have a child with her it makes everything a lot more complicated | 在这种情况下,没有孩子和她在一起 这让一切变得更加复杂 |
| 162 | and more like sticky and messy when you do try to leave next story wife asked for separation just | 更像是黏糊糊的乱七八糟 当你试图离开下一个故事 妻子要求分居 |
| 163 | found out why hi married for 20 years six days ago wife asked for separation said we drifted apart | 6天前妻子要求分居 说我们分开了 |
| 164 | that i work too much etc the usual excuses i figured that once somebody starts thinking | 我工作太忙了 通常的借口我以为一旦有人开始思考 |
| 165 | and talking about ending the relationship there's no way back so i agreed three days ago we met with | 和谈论结束 关系没有办法回来 所以我同意三天前 |
| 166 | solicitors and signed separation documents we agreed to split everything 50 50 and go our | 律师和签署分居文件 我们同意把50块都分了 然后走 |
| 167 | separate ways we have no kids so it was easy to do today completely accidentally i found loose | 我们没有孩子,所以今天很容易 完全不小心我发现松了 |
| 168 | condoms uti results pregnancy tests and a receipt for birth control implant i can't prove that | 安全套检测结果 怀孕测试 以及避孕植入的收据 我无法证明 |
| 169 | anything has been going on before we filed for separation but all that indicates she has a | 我们申请分居之前 发生了什么 但都表明她有 |
| 170 | relationship with somebody else and that it's been going on for a while one doesn't just decide to | 和别人的关系, 已经持续了一段时间的人 不只是决定 |
| 171 | get an implant overnight especially after refusing to get one for 20 years so she had to be emotionally | 被植入过夜 特别是20年来拒绝植入过夜 所以她必须情绪化 |
| 172 | invested for a while and one doesn't do any of that after the second date condoms me indicate | 投资一阵子,再过第二次约会,我就说不做 |
| 173 | affair now i feel angry sad and betrayed and so so stupid for not cluing in on all the girls trips | 事情现在我感到愤怒 悲伤和背叛 如此愚蠢,因为没有参与 所有的女孩旅行 |
| 174 | late work dinners etc here is my dilemma do i confront her about it do i file for divorce | 迟到的晚饭,等等,这是我的困境 我面对她 关于它,我提出离婚 |
| 175 | right now and take into court we already signed a 50 50 split she wants to keep the house and take | 现在告上法庭 我们已经签了50分钱 她想保住房子 收下 |
| 176 | the mortgage broker said i could see my money next week if all goes well she'll be out of my life | 房贷经纪人说,如果一切顺利的话,我下周就能看见我的钱 她就会离开我的生活 |
| 177 | in the blink of an eye the court on the other hand will take months i will probably get more | 眼睁睁地看着法庭要花好几个月 我可能会得到更多 |
| 178 | money slash assets out of it that way but i have to live with her under one roof until then so would | 钱从中抽出来 但我得和她住在一起 直到那时 |
| 179 | you fight this confront her or just move on with your life i'm so frustrated right now that i can't | 你要面对她还是继续你的生活 我现在很沮丧 我不能 |
| 180 | please help me first we have some updates she's with him now she forgot to turn off find my on | 求你先帮我一下 她现在和他在一起 她忘了关机 找到我 |
| 181 | the ipad so i can see her live location i even met the guy we went skiing together a few seasons | 我见过我们一起滑雪的那个人 |
| 182 | ago update two sorry i was both too tired and too busy to update a lot has happened in the last few | 之前更新了两个 抱歉我太累了 忙着更新很多东西 |
| 183 | days i spoke with a lawyer because of no fault divorce in canada i wouldn't get more than 50 | 几天前我和律师谈过 因为加拿大的离婚没有过错 |
| 184 | of equity anyway infidelity is grounds for immediate divorce however courts are so swamped | 不论怎样,不忠是立即离婚的理由 但法院如此繁忙 |
| 185 | with cases right now that separation might actually be faster than going through court | 现在的案子 分居可能比上法庭快 |
| 186 | so i'm staying with the original 50 50 agreement i decided not to confront the wife about the | 所以,我留在原来的5050协议 我决定不和妻子对质 |
| 187 | affair for now she's spending most of her time at his place coming back home at two to three a.m | 现在她大部分时间都在他家 凌晨2点到3点回家 |
| 188 | so we don't see each other anyway it looks like she stopped hiding the affair i haven't spoken a | 所以,我们不见面 无论如何,它看起来像她停止隐藏 婚外情我还没有说 |
| 189 | since the original post the no contact makes it easier i guess i met with a therapist i got some | 原本的帖子 连络都不方便 我想我遇到一个治疗师 |
| 190 | meds to help with all that and had a proper seven hours of sleep last night since it all started my | 药来帮助所有这一切, 并有一个适当的七小时睡眠 昨晚 自从这一切开始我的 |
| 191 | body is grateful my mind still wanders i am starting sessions next week so i'll have a | 身体是感激我的头脑仍然徘徊 我下周开始开会 所以我会有一个 |
| 192 | professional to talk to i'm getting std blood work done after the weekend that's probably smart | 专业的谈话,我正在得到 STD的血液工作 周末后,这也许是聪明的 |
| 193 | because it sounds like the fair was going on for quite a long time so you don't know | 因为它听起来像 博览会持续了相当长的时间 所以你不知道 |
| 194 | if you know you had intercourse during the time where she was also having intercourse with the | 如果你知道,你性交的时间 她也是与性交 |
| 195 | other man and also if he's cheating or he's like sleeping with multiple women he can pass something | 其他男人,还有,如果他在作弊 或者他喜欢睡 多个女人,他可以传递的东西 |
| 196 | onto her which will then be passed on to you i got pre-approved for a mortgage and found a nice cozy | 交给她,然后交给你 我被预先批准抵押 找到一个舒适的舒适 |
| 197 | townhome 1300 square feet that i want to put an offer on the current house appraisal might happen | 1300平方英尺的城镇住宅 我想在目前的房屋评估中给出报价 |
| 198 | next week too i rented a storage locker and started moving some of my things out of the house thank | 下星期我还租了个储物柜 开始把一些东西搬出去 |
| 199 | you all so much for your advice and opinions it really helped me see things clearer because of you | 你们这么多的建议和意见 真的很有助于我看清楚 因为你 |
| 200 | dear strangers somewhere deep down i believe i will be okay i'll update as things develop thanks | 亲爱的陌生人,在深处,我相信我会好起来的 我会更新,随着事情的发展感谢 |
| 201 | yeah so let's read some of the comments i know we kind of just read the whole story before we | 是啊,让我们读一些评论 我知道我们只是 阅读整个故事之前 |
| 202 | read the comments but i think updates are better than the comments you can let me know though if | 阅读评论,但我认为更新 比评论更好 你可以告诉我,如果 |
| 203 | you want me to read the comments before the updates though you absolutely need to speak to | 你要我在更新前读评论 尽管你绝对需要跟 |
| 204 | an attorney asap you can bet your ass she did you don't necessarily have to live with her during | 律师,你可以打赌你的屁股 她有你 不一定要和她住在一起 |
| 205 | divorce proceedings she may want to be with her ap badly enough that she will give you more assets | 离婚诉讼,她可能想 与她的AP严重到 她会给你更多的资产 |
| 206 | to end it quickly someone else commented i would hate the idea of being played for a fool even if | 很快结束它,别人评论 我会讨厌被玩弄为傻瓜的想法 即使 |
| 207 | it cost me money i would have to let her know that i knew she was she was a backstabbing pos but as | 花了我很多钱 我得让她知道 我知道她是个后盾 |
| 208 | some have said do it at a time where it benefits you financially but i say at some point look at | 有人说,这样做的时候, 它给您带来经济利益 但我说,在某些时候,看看 |
| 209 | her in the eye and say that you found the evidence and you know what she was doing behind your back | 她的眼睛,说你找到了证据 你知道她在你背后做什么 |
| 210 | it's a lot harder to be walked on when you are standing up pause loki loki it's a lot harder | 当你站着时 走路要难得多 暂停 洛基 洛基 洛基 |
| 211 | to be walked on when you're standing up holy man bro who said this let me google this if this guy | 当你站在圣人面前的时候,兄弟,你说这个,让我挖这个,如果这家伙 |
| 212 | just said it bro i can give this guy like a golden globe or something i don't even know dude this | 我只是说,兄弟 我可以给这家伙 像一个金球 或的东西,我甚至不认识这个家伙 |
| 213 | quote emphasizes the power of assertiveness and self-respect when you stand up for yourself and | 引文强调当您为自己而站起来时 自信和自尊的力量 |
| 214 | take proactive stance it becomes physically and psychologically more difficult for others to take | 采取积极主动的立场,使他人在身心方面更加难以采取 |
| 215 | {\fn黑体\fs22\bord1\shad0\3aHBE\4aH00\fscx67\fscy66\2cHFFFFFF\3cH808080}你的好处和对你不好 {\fn黑体\fs22\bord1\shad0\3aHBE\4aH00\fscx67\fscy66\2cHFFFFFF\3cH808080}这提醒你信心和清晰的界限 | |
| 216 | are your best defense against mistreatment yo don't forget the bro write that write that down | 你最能防御虐待 别忘了写下来的哥哥 |
| 217 | in the comments so i see it every time i get notifications it's a lot harder to be walked | 在评论里,我每次收到通知 都很难走 |
| 218 | on when you're standing up that's actually tough bro that's tough i don't know why i'm like so | 当你站起来的时候,那其实是 硬的兄弟,这是硬 我不知道为什么我这样 |
| 219 | mesmerized by that that's crazy yeah so pretty much everyone was just saying divorce her she's | 令人惊叹的是,这太疯狂了 是啊,几乎所有人都说 离婚她。 |
| 220 | cheating confront her but do it when it's smart that's one thing you always want to do something | 欺骗她,但当它很聪明的时候,你总是想做一件事 |
| 221 | or confront a person when it benefits you the most because i know in a lot of situations if | 或面对一个人,当它最有利于你 因为我知道很多情况下,如果 |
| 222 | you find something out like this like you're so emotional and so hurt that all you want to do is | 你发现这样的东西,你是如此的情感 和如此伤害,你想做的是 |
| 223 | like find out why find out the reason why did you cheat me or cheat on me why did you do this why | 想知道为什么你骗我或欺骗我 为什么要这么做 |
| 224 | you do so you just want to like interrogate them that could lead to escalating the situation | 你这样做,你只是想 问他们 可能导致局势升级 |
| 225 | because if she starts to yell back stuff could get physical quickly and then you will be thrown | 因为如果她开始大喊大叫 东西会很快体化 然后你会被扔出去 |
| 226 | in jail and you'll be seen as the aggressor so it's best to just literally take a step back go | 在监狱里,你会被视为侵略者 所以最好还是退一步 |
| 227 | out go stay somewhere else go stay with your family or your siblings or in a hotel relax | 出去住别的地方 和家人或兄弟姐妹住一起 或住酒店放松 |
| 228 | think about what you should you should do next always get a lawyer and contact a lawyer i know | 想想你接下来该做什么 总是找律师联系我认识的律师 |
| 229 | even if you can't afford one then maybe use the internet or ask people on reddit or ask strangers | 就算你买不起,那就用互联网 或问别人重新编辑或问陌生人 |
| 230 | like a lot of people want to help especially when you're the one that's being done dirty | 就像很多人想帮忙 特别是当你做脏事的时候 |
| 231 | last story i caught her again oh again bro again i caught her again and this time i know everything | 上个故事我又抓住了她 哦,兄弟,我又抓住了她 这次我知道一切 |
| 232 | i caught her a few years ago in 2022 we stayed together couples therapy the whole nine yards | 我几年前在2022年抓到她 我们在一起治疗了九码 |
| 233 | i had some work to do on myself i was a hundred pounds overweight she was a functional alcoholic | 我有点事要做 我超重了一百磅 她是个有功能的酒鬼 |
| 234 | had an eating disorder and we just emerged from the tailspin of the pandemic i also didn't want | 我们刚刚从大流行的尾巴上脱颖而出 我也不想 |
| 235 | to miss half the moments in my child's life who was four at the time it honestly didn't bother | 怀念我孩子生命中 4岁的时候 一半的瞬间 |
| 236 | me that much i would have been up for negotiating an open marriage or whatever but first we had some | 我本来想谈判一个公开的婚姻 或什么的 但首先我们有一些 |
| 237 | work to do on ourselves it was the lying that bothered me i caught her quite easily she left | 做我们自己的工作 是谎言让我心烦意乱 我发现她很容易离开 |
| 238 | the evidence out there for me to find and it didn't take me long to put two and two together | 证据在那里,我找到, 它没有花很长时间,我把两个和两个在一起 |
| 239 | fast forward to 2026 i find a piece of a wrapper on the bathroom floor that looks suspiciously | 快速前进到2026年 我在浴室地板上找到一块 看上去可疑的包装纸 |
| 240 | home bro put me in jail bro can't even pronounce this word that looks suspiciously like a condom | 乡亲把我关进监狱 乡亲甚至连这个字都说不出来 看起来像个避孕套 |
| 241 | wrapper so i investigated further turns out it's not a condom wrapper if she's used a condom perhaps | 所以我进一步调查了一下 如果她用过保险套 可能不是保险套 |
| 242 | she wouldn't need what i found it was a pregnancy test wrapper those come in packs of two and a | 她不需要我发现的 是一个怀孕测试包 包里有两包和一个 |
| 243 | quick search of obvious places located the other one i suffered the indignity of looking through | 快速搜索 明显的地方 位于另一个 我遭受的耻辱 通过寻找 |
| 244 | the trash for the test itself negative if you're going to cheat why you just leave wrappers on the | 测试的垃圾本身是阴性 如果你要欺骗你 为什么只是留下包装纸 |
| 245 | floor and like leave a pregnancy test in the garbage man i guess they're just like so arrogant | 地板上,就像把怀孕测试放进垃圾桶里, 我猜他们就像那么傲慢 |
| 246 | and i guess they don't care if they get caught either because maybe they don't think their | 我猜他们不在乎他们是否被抓 因为也许他们不认为他们 |
| 247 | partner has the guts encouraged to leave them anyway she's 47 so there's a scant chance of her | 搭档有勇气离开他们 反正她才47岁 所以她的机会很小 |
| 248 | getting pregnant scant bro where that's like sounds like some british stuff but that's irrelevant | 怀孕的小兄弟 听起来像一些 英国的东西,但这无关紧要 |
| 249 | because it's not possible for me to have gotten her pregnant i am snipped sterile this one hurt | 因为我不可能让她怀孕... ...我这个受了伤 |
| 250 | i'm pissed off she guards her phone like it's the effing one ring one ring like lord of the rings | 我生气了,她卫着她的手机... ...就像一个戒指一样... |
| 251 | but she doesn't guard her laptop so well and wouldn't you know it apple sinks everything the | 但是她不怎么注意手提电脑 你难道不知道苹果会沉没 |
| 252 | unfolded in her photo album pictures of her pictures of the guy screenshots of conversations | 在她的相册中 展现了她的照片 男人截图的对话 |
| 253 | they had not sure why she saved those but whatever she did i know everything his name his phone number | 他们不知道她为什么要保存这些 但不管她做了什么 我都知道他的名字 他的电话号码 |
| 254 | where he works thanks linkedin i know his wife's name phone number where she works where they live | 他在哪里工作,感谢链接 我知道他的妻子的名字 电话号码,她在哪里工作 |
| 255 | all of it in the screenshotted conversation he's talking about a startup company he just started | 在截图的谈话中,他提到他刚创办的一家创业公司 |
| 256 | he's also talking about how scared he is of getting caught blah blah he doesn't want to | 他还在谈论他有多害怕被抓到... ...等等他不想... ... |
| 257 | lose his kids blah blah i discovered it's all bullshit he has one kid in college and one just | 失去他的孩子等等 我发现这全是废话 他有一个孩子 在大学,只有一个而已 |
| 258 | about to finish high school he's not losing his kids they're effing adults he lied to my wife | 快要上完高中了 他不会失去他的孩子 他们正在欺骗成年人 对我妻子撒谎 |
| 259 | about their ages i have i have seen the conversations the reason he's scared of | 关于他们的年龄,我见过的谈话 他害怕的原因 |
| 260 | getting caught is that his wife is a harvard and mit educated executive at a major financial firm | 被抓到是因为他妻子是一家大型金融公司 受过教育的高级经理 |
| 261 | she is undoubtedly a multi-millionaire she bankrolled his startup 100 i know this because i know | 她无疑是百万富翁 她资助了他的创业100... ...我知道这一点,因为我知道 |
| 262 | what my wife earns and she met this guy when he was working at her firm doing the same job | 我妻子挣的钱 她遇见了这个人 当时他在她公司工作 |
| 263 | he earns a good living but not found a company in manhattan good i don't know this one is going to | 他挣得很多钱 却没在曼哈顿找到一个公司 我不知道这家公司会 |
| 264 | involve some heartbreak but the question is how many hearts need to be broken tell the wife bro | 但问题是有多少人需要心碎 告诉妻子兄弟 |
| 265 | tell tell tell tell tell the white mit harvard whatever bro tell tell everyone let's read some | 告诉大家,告诉白马子,告诉夏尔德 不管兄弟告诉大家,让我们读一些 |
| 266 | comments first someone commented never keep a cheater's secrets tell the obs i don't know | 首先,有人评论 从来不会保守一个骗子的秘密 告诉那些我不知道的事 |
| 267 | what obs is that like the streaming system bro what the hell is obs google doesn't even know | 像流水系统一样的蠢货 鬼鬼祟祟的蠢货都不知道 |
| 268 | i assume it's the affair partner's wife the harvard chick graduate person boss that bastard | 我猜是外遇搭档的妻子 夏瓦尔德女毕业生老板那个混蛋 |
| 269 | and keep good notes and please share your wife is desperate to have someone tell her fairy tales | 和保持良好的笔记,请分享你的妻子 绝望地有人说她的童话 |
| 270 | so have your attorney serve her a whopper someone else commented opi be smart now there will be a | 你的律师要为她效劳吗? 别人评论过的人要聪明点 现在就会有 |
| 271 | {\fn黑体\fs22\bord1\shad0\3aHBE\4aH00\fscx67\fscy66\2cHFFFFFF\3cH808080}但现在不能先把你的证据 保存在她无法到达的几个地方 {\fn黑体\fs22\bord1\shad0\3aHBE\4aH00\fscx67\fscy66\2cHFFFFFF\3cH808080}你必须去 | |
| 272 | second talk to a lawyer asap and design together your exit strategy learn how to protect yourself | 第二次跟律师谈话 一起设计你的退出策略 学会如何保护自己 |
| 273 | financially and how to document everything to be prepared play dumb do not show all your cards now | 财务和如何记录所有准备的游戏 现在不显示所有牌 |
| 274 | do not reveal your sources of information and act like you know the bare minimum about the guy and | 不要透露你的信息来源 并表现得像你知道 关于这个家伙的最低限度 |
| 275 | don't want to know more then when things get in motion and your stbx can complicate too much the | 不想知道更多 当事情进入运动 和你的stbx 可能太复杂 |
| 276 | separation inform the obs you need to be selfish now and think what's best for you in the long run | 分开会告诉大家你现在需要自私 想想长远来看对你最好 |
| 277 | yeah i agree it's best to just start planning now and not get too emotional just start planning | 是啊 我同意最好现在就开始计划 而不是太情绪化 就开始计划 |
| 278 | planning planning because that will take your mind off things and then once it's all done | 计划计划,因为那样会让你失去理智 一旦一切完成 |
| 279 | you can be emotional but at least you would have been free and succeeded hopefully first edit | 你可以情绪化,但至少你会是 自由的,希望成功 |
| 280 | unfortunately the update is not all that interesting i told my wife to get a lawyer | 可惜最新消息不是那么有趣 我告诉我老婆找律师 |
| 281 | and that we would be divorcing she wants me to reconsider said that she would allow me full | 而且我们要离婚 她要我重新考虑 说她会允许我吃饱的 |
| 282 | phone access gps on her car life 360 anything i want i said no the time for that is over | 手机接入GPS 在她的汽车生活360 任何我想要的,我说没有时间 结束 |
| 283 | since she was mostly cheating on business trips the most recent incident happened when the guy | 由于她大多是在出差时作弊 最近的事发生在那个家伙身上 |
| 284 | was in our city for the holidays i said that i don't see how any of those things will stop what | 我当时在城里度假 我说我看不出这些东西会阻止什么 |
| 285 | she's doing phones can be scrubbed and none of that tracking shit makes it different when she's | 她正在做手机可以被洗涤 任何追踪的狗屎 都没有改变当她是 |
| 286 | in a hotel in new york city or la she offered to quit her high-paying job and i told her not to | 在纽约或拉的酒店里 她主动提出辞去高薪工作 |
| 287 | because lawyers are expensive not 24 hours after this talk her mom passed away suddenly | 因为律师很贵 24小时后她妈妈突然去世了 |
| 288 | that's sad that even if you're a bad person about losing your mom is sad no matter what | 即使你是一个坏人 失去你的妈妈是悲哀的,不管怎样 |
| 289 | no one should have to experience that unfortunately people do because it's impossible to | 任何人都不应该经历 不幸的人这样做 因为不可能 |
| 290 | live forever so everything is kind of on hold at the moment that's still my kid's grandmother | 永远活下来 所以现在一切都被搁置了 |
| 291 | so i'm going to be present in the aftermath of all that i told the other guy's wife sent her | 所以我会在场 之后的一切,我告诉 别人的妻子送她 |
| 292 | the proof i had etc i used google voice a burner number all she said was thank you please do not | 我用Google的声音,她只说谢谢,别这样 |
| 293 | contact me again if my wife blocked the guy on all platforms like she swore she would he would have | 再联系我,如果我妻子 堵住所有平台上的那个人 就像她发誓她会 |
| 294 | no way of contacting her but if she comes back later upset with me for doing this then i'll know | 没有办法联系她,但如果她回来 之后因为我这样做而生气,那我就知道了 |
| 295 | she lied about blocking him i guess so that's it oh i think what everyone's saying in the comments | 她谎称要挡住他 我猜是这样吧 我想大家都在评论里这么说 |
| 296 | is right just be smart about it be strategic get a lawyer get everything set up don't be emotional | 聪明点 策略性一点 律师把一切安排好 别情绪化 |
| 297 | just try to be level-headed get out of the situation and don't fall for any manipulation | 刚试图被平头 走出局势 不要被任何操纵 |
| 298 | or love bombing or reassurances that she'll change or she'll quit her job and all that which i know | 或喜欢爆炸 或保证她会改变 或她会辞掉她的工作 和我知道的一切 |
| 299 | you're not because you said you literally said to your wife to keep her job i think you'll get | 你不是因为你说你字面上 告诉你的妻子保持她的工作, 我想你会得到 |
| 300 | through this it's like a really terrible situation but i'm pretty sure you didn't have kids so i | 我确信你没有孩子 所以... |
| 301 | mean that's one one benefit i hope the affair partner wife leaves leaves him bro and also | 意思是,这是唯一的好处 我希望婚外情伴侣的妻子离开他 离开他兄弟,还有 |
| 302 | stops funding his startup anyway that's all for this video if you guys like these type of videos | 停止资助他的启动 反正,这是所有 这视频,如果你喜欢这种类型的视频 |
| 303 | like the cheating infidelity videos let me know or if you want to see other type of topics | 就像欺骗不忠的视频 让我知道 或者你想看其他类型的话题 |
| 304 | let me know in the comments as well and i'll run all that trust bye guys | 让我在评论中知道 我会运行所有的信任的再见。 |
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