她身患绝症……于是刷爆了所有信用卡
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| 时间 | 英文 | 中文 |
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| 0:00 | Welcome back to a new video guys today. | 欢迎回到新的视频家伙今天。 |
| 0:02 | We're gonna be reading best of Redditor updates | 我们会读最好的 Redditor 更新 |
| 0:04 | So it'll be the full stories with updates and everything first story | 所以,这将是完整的故事 与更新和所有的第一个故事 |
| 0:08 | My younger brother's girlfriend is upset because my older brother ordered the same meal as her at a family dinner now | 我弟弟的女朋友很不高兴 因为我哥哥在一次家庭晚宴上 给她点了同样的餐 |
| 0:15 | There is drama. | 有戏剧。 |
| 0:16 | Holy | 圣灵 |
| 0:18 | So there's drama because your older brother ordered the same meal as your younger brother's girlfriend | 所以有剧情,因为你哥哥订的饭 和你弟弟的女朋友一样 |
| 0:27 | And I like how you're the middle child | 我喜欢你是中产阶级 |
| 0:29 | With like no drama. | 与像没有戏剧。 |
| 0:31 | I don't even understand why this is an issue | 我甚至不明白为什么这是个问题 |
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| 序号 | 英文 | 中文 |
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| 1 | Welcome back to a new video guys today. | 欢迎回到新的视频家伙今天。 |
| 2 | We're gonna be reading best of Redditor updates | 我们会读最好的 Redditor 更新 |
| 3 | So it'll be the full stories with updates and everything first story | 所以,这将是完整的故事 与更新和所有的第一个故事 |
| 4 | My younger brother's girlfriend is upset because my older brother ordered the same meal as her at a family dinner now | 我弟弟的女朋友很不高兴 因为我哥哥在一次家庭晚宴上 给她点了同样的餐 |
| 5 | There is drama. | 有戏剧。 |
| 6 | Holy | 圣灵 |
| 7 | So there's drama because your older brother ordered the same meal as your younger brother's girlfriend | 所以有剧情,因为你哥哥订的饭 和你弟弟的女朋友一样 |
| 8 | And I like how you're the middle child | 我喜欢你是中产阶级 |
| 9 | With like no drama. | 与像没有戏剧。 |
| 10 | I don't even understand why this is an issue | 我甚至不明白为什么这是个问题 |
| 11 | But the drama and fallout is getting to me and I'm tired of hearing about it, but I'm already tired of hearing about it | 但剧情和后遗症让我厌倦了听,但我已经厌倦了听 |
| 12 | And we just started my 32 male younger brother Dave 31 male has a new girlfriend | 我们刚开始我的32个男弟弟戴夫31号男有了新女友 |
| 13 | Rachel 30 female my parents 54 male female | Rachel 30 女 我的父母 54 男 女 |
| 14 | Already met her once and they said they would take everyone out for dinner so she can meet the rest of us | 已经见过她了 他们说会带所有人出去吃晚饭 这样她就能和我们其他人见面了 |
| 15 | Myself and my older brother Steve 33 male we didn't go anywhere expensive | 我和我哥哥史蒂夫33男 我们没有去任何昂贵的地方 |
| 16 | My parents just took us to Canadian brewhouse at first everything was fine | 我父母刚带我们去加拿大酿酒厂 起初一切都很好 |
| 17 | But then it got weird when it came time for us to order after Steve gave us his order Mac and cheese | 但是当史蒂夫给我们下了麦片和奶酪之后 我们开始点菜的时候 变得很奇怪 |
| 18 | Rachel said but I was going to order that | 瑞秋说,但我要去订购 |
| 19 | I could already hear it man. | 我已经能听到它的人。 |
| 20 | We were all confused because no one said Rachel couldn't also order the Mac and cheese | 我们都糊涂了 因为没人说瑞秋不能也点麦片和奶酪 |
| 21 | Yeah, because a normal person would never be like oh, I can't order that now that someone else ordered it. | 是啊,因为一个正常人永远不会像 哦,我不能订购 现在别人订购它。 |
| 22 | It's kind of weird | 有点奇怪 |
| 23 | I understand like I'm with someone either my family or friends, and we're traveling to another country | 我理解我跟家人或朋友在一起 我们要去别的国家 |
| 24 | We order food we try not to order the same meal like oh if two people say they want this one thing | 我们点餐,我们尽量不点同餐,哦 如果两个人说他们想要这个东西 |
| 25 | And then I would be like okay you want that you get that I'll get this thing and let's like try a bit of each | 然后,我会像没事,你想得到 我会得到这个东西, 让我们像试试每一个 |
| 26 | Just so you could try different stuff depending on like how long you're there if you if you're gonna be there for months no need | 只是让你可以尝试不同的东西 取决于你在那里多久 如果你要去在那里 几个月没有必要 |
| 27 | But if you're only there in that country for a short time | 但是如果你在那个国家呆了一段时间 |
| 28 | And you want to try as many things as you can then I guess it makes sense to not order the same thing | 你想尽可能多地尝试一些事情,那么我想不点同样的东西是有道理的 |
| 29 | But talk about it before ordering | 点菜前先说清楚 |
| 30 | But in this case it doesn't make sense because no one is sharing food or and it's not like you've never had Mac and cheese | 但在这种情况下,这是没有道理的,因为 没有人在分享食物或 它不像你从来没有过Mac和奶酪 |
| 31 | Like what our server was confused to and told Rachel the kitchen wasn't sold out of Mac and cheese | 就像我们的服务器被弄糊涂 告诉瑞秋厨房没有卖掉麦片和奶酪 |
| 32 | But Rachel said she needed another minute with the menu | 但瑞秋说她需要一分钟的菜单 |
| 33 | She asked Steve twice before their server came back if he was sure about his order | 她问史蒂夫两次 在他们的服务器回来之前, 如果他确定他的订单 |
| 34 | She ended up ordering something different | 她最后订了不同的东西 |
| 35 | But for the rest of the night she kept talking about how she wanted to get the Mac and cheese | 但是她整晚都在说她想怎样买到麦片和奶酪 |
| 36 | It was really weird | 这真的很奇怪 |
| 37 | Dave is mad at Steve for not ordering something else to accommodate Rachel and the rest of us for not defending her | 戴夫生史蒂夫的气,因为他没有订购别的东西 容纳瑞秋和我们其他人,因为没有为她辩护 |
| 38 | I don't even know what he means by that the rest of the dinner was so awkward because Rachel kept talking about wanting the Mac and | 我什至不知道他意味着什么 剩下的晚餐是如此尴尬 因为瑞秋一直说要麦克和 |
| 39 | Cheese my parents picked a restaurant because Dave said Rachel had been there before and liked the food | 奶酪 我父母选了一家餐厅 因为戴夫说瑞秋以前去过那里 喜欢吃的 |
| 40 | It was so weird my dad | 我爸好奇怪,我感觉很怪 |
| 41 | and I both ordered the same sandwich with the side salad and there was no problem with us eating the exact same thing even though | 我和沙拉一起订了同样的三明治 我们吃同样的东西没有问题 |
| 42 | Rachel asked us twice if one of us wanted to change our order | 瑞秋问过我们两次 如果有人想改变我们的秩序 |
| 43 | I honestly don't get what the issue was or why she was so upset about Steve for ordering the same thing | 我真的不明白问题是什么 也不知道她为什么对史蒂夫 订购同样的东西这么生气 |
| 44 | She wanted I know this is a small thing compared to some of the things that get posted here | 她想要我知道这和被贴到这里的东西相比是件小事 |
| 45 | But I am tired of Dave being upset and causing drama over this he wants Steve to apologize to his girlfriend | 但我厌倦了Dave为这个而生气和引起戏剧 他想要Steve向他的女朋友道歉 |
| 46 | But obviously Steve says he didn't do anything wrong | 但很明显史蒂夫说他没有做错任何事 |
| 47 | He didn't good good on Steve for standing his ground | 他不擅长史蒂夫 站稳脚跟 |
| 48 | I just needed to vent about how I'm sick of Dave making a big deal about this and bothering me and everyone else about | 我只是需要发泄一下我有多讨厌 戴夫做一个大事情 关于这一点,烦我和其他人 |
| 49 | How hurt Rachel is I don't even get why it was a problem Rachel gave no explanation and neither has Dave | 瑞秋有多伤心 我甚至不明白 为什么瑞秋没有解释 |
| 50 | Yeah, that's one thing if you have a problem with it something like this | 是啊,这是一件事,如果你有一个问题 与此类似的东西 |
| 51 | It's weird and no one understands explain it tell people why it's such a problem | 怪怪的 没人能解释 告诉别人为什么有这种问题 |
| 52 | I'm sure whatever reason she gives is kind of gonna be like a little bit weird | 我敢肯定,无论她给出什么理由 会有点奇怪 |
| 53 | But honestly, I am curious to know like what's the big deal | 老实说,我很想知道什么是大事 |
| 54 | Is it just that if someone else has that I can't have it too like come on grown adult by the way some relevant comments | 如果别人有的话,我就不能有... ...像成年成人一样... |
| 55 | Did anyone ask her why she didn't order the mac and cheese? | 有没有人问过她为什么不点乳酪? |
| 56 | OP replied she just said it was because someone else already ordered it. | 她回答说是因为别人已经订购了 |
| 57 | She didn't elaborate or explain when asked | 当她被问到时,她没有详细解释或解释 |
| 58 | She was asked at least once to elaborate before the server returned to finish taking our orders | 在服务器回来接受我们的命令之前,她至少被要求解释一次 |
| 59 | For the rest of the dinner the rest of us minus Dave kept changing the topic whenever she brought up the mac and cheese | 剩下的晚餐 剩下的我们 减去戴夫不停地改变话题 当她提起mac和奶酪 |
| 60 | Because it was so awkward | 因为它是如此尴尬 |
| 61 | Yeah, not a very good first impression on Rachel's part in front of his family | 对,瑞秋在家人面前的第一印象不太好 |
| 62 | You know, Dave won't give an explanation when anyone asks why this caused such a problem for Rachel | 你知道,戴夫不会解释 当有人问为什么 这给瑞秋造成这样的问题 |
| 63 | Even if he gets asked why I honestly have no idea why this became such a big issue | 即使有人问他 为什么我真的不知道 为什么这成为了这么大的问题 |
| 64 | My dad and I both ordered the exact same meal and we are fine. | 我爸和我都订了同样的餐 我们很好 |
| 65 | So we have an update seven months later | 七个月后我们有了最新消息 |
| 66 | It's not a long or exciting story | 这不是一个漫长或激动人心的故事 |
| 67 | But the update is that I will no longer go to restaurants if Rachel is going to be there | 但最新消息是,如果瑞秋去,我不会再去餐馆了 |
| 68 | She doesn't get upset if we're having dinner at someone's home and everyone is eating the same thing | 她不会生气 如果我们在别人家吃晚饭 大家都吃一样的东西 |
| 69 | My parents met her once before the incident in my first post | 我父母在事发前 第一次见她 |
| 70 | They made lasagna for dinner and Rachel didn't say a thing about everyone getting a piece of lasagna from the same pan | 他们做了面条作为晚餐 瑞秋没有说 每个人从同一个锅里得到一块面条 |
| 71 | She ate it without complaining | 她没抱怨就吃了 |
| 72 | Rachel only gets weird and upset if we're at a restaurant or getting takeout | 瑞秋只会怪怪的 生气的 如果我们在餐厅或者外卖 |
| 73 | Not if it's a home-cooked meal at someone's home | 如果在别人家做饭的话 |
| 74 | After the first incident the one I mentioned in my first post Dave was | 第一次事件后,我在第一个 文章Dave提到的是一个 |
| 75 | Insistent that Steve apologized to Rachel and make amends even though Steve didn't do anything wrong | 坚持让史蒂夫向瑞秋道歉并做出补偿,尽管史蒂夫没有做错任何事. |
| 76 | Dave always defends Rachel when she acts weird about this | 戴夫总是为瑞秋辩护 当她表现怪异的时候 |
| 77 | I get that you are supposed to be on the same team as whoever you're dating | 我知道,你应该 在同一个团队 与你约会的人 |
| 78 | But Dave refuses to see that Rachel is in the wrong and I'm not the only one who is tired of it | 但戴夫拒绝看到瑞秋是错的 而且不只是我厌倦了 |
| 79 | The last straw for me was in my cousin's 16th birthday | 我最后的稻草是在我表哥16岁生日的时候 |
| 80 | Rachel got upset because my cousin ordered the meal that she wanted and she tried to get my cousin to change his mind | 瑞秋不高兴,因为我表妹点了她想要的饭 她想让我表妹改变主意 |
| 81 | My aunt and my uncle were not happy and they really don't like Rachel now. | 我姨妈和我叔叔不高兴 他们现在真的不喜欢瑞秋了 |
| 82 | No one knows what her problem is | 没人知道她有什么问题 |
| 83 | She just says she doesn't like it when people order the same thing and won't explain more | 她只是说,她不喜欢 当人们订购相同的东西 并且不会解释更多 |
| 84 | She even asks other people who ordered the same meal if one of them wants to change their order | 她甚至问别人 谁订同一餐,如果其中之一想改变他们的顺序 |
| 85 | Like when my dad and I ordered the same thing the first time we met her | 碞钩иcmи材Ωǎ妓 |
| 86 | At the restaurants where this happens Canadian brew house milestone, etc. | 在餐馆发生这种情况 加拿大酿酒厂里程碑等等。 |
| 87 | Everyone gets a separate meal | 大家都吃个饭 |
| 88 | They are not the kind of places where you order food for the table and share | 这不是你订餐和分享的地方 |
| 89 | I don't understand why this bothers her so much | 我不明白为什么她这么烦恼 |
| 90 | But I just won't go to restaurants if she's there now because she makes such a big deal about it and you can't even enjoy yourself | 但我只是不会去餐馆,如果她现在在那里, 因为她做这么大的事情 你甚至不能享受自己 |
| 91 | I'm not the only one who avoids her either | 我也不是唯一一个躲着她的人 |
| 92 | there's really really weird and kind of like sad I guess for Rachel because I guess she has this like | 我觉得瑞秋真的很奇怪 有点伤心 因为我猜她有这种感觉 |
| 93 | Problem with people ordering the same thing and it doesn't really leave a good impression on like the rest of the family | 别人订购同样的东西有问题,这不会像其他家人那样给人留下好印象 |
| 94 | Maybe if she had it she could have tried to suppress it until she got to know the family better | 也许如果她有的话 她可以试图压制它 直到她更了解家人 |
| 95 | They got to learn about her more and start to like her and then she could have revealed this like weird | 他们得多了解她 开始喜欢她 然后她就可能这样 |
| 96 | Kind of like quirk that she has that we cannot order the same food, you know | 有点奇怪,她有 我们不能订购相同的食物,你知道的 |
| 97 | But the way it is now it sounds like a lot of people in her family avoid her or just straight-up don't like her | 但是现在听起来她家很多人都躲着她 或只是直立的不喜欢她 |
| 98 | Which is sad read some of the comments now because I am like I am kind of curious about this | 现在读一些评论很悲哀 因为我好像有点好奇 |
| 99 | Like I could understand if it's like OCD or something | 就像我能理解,如果它是像OCD什么的 |
| 100 | But why would she not just like explain that maybe she hasn't been like officially diagnosed by like a doctor or something | 但为什么她不会只是喜欢 解释,也许她没有 像官方诊断 像医生什么的 |
| 101 | So she can't say oh I have this but I think if this is like a thing and she knows she has it | 所以她不能说哦,我有这个 但我想如果这是一件事 她知道她有它 |
| 102 | Maybe she should just go like an evaluation to see if she has OCD for like people ordering the same thing and then she's gonna | 也许她应该像评估一样去 看看她有没有OCD 就像人们订购同样的东西,然后她会 |
| 103 | Explain it to other people so they can understand her better | 向别人解释一下,让他们更了解她 |
| 104 | Mapileon回答 Rachel 听起来很累 | |
| 105 | Opie replied she is when Dave first started mentioning her everyone was happy for him | Opie回答说 Dave第一次提到她的时候 所有人都为他高兴 |
| 106 | Steve and I were excited because we both served in the armed forces and found out she did as well | 史蒂夫和我都很兴奋,因为我们都是军人 也发现她也是 |
| 107 | And we thought we would have lots in common with her | 我们以为和她有很多共同点 |
| 108 | But now all this has soured me on her Steve can barely stand to be around her after how she and Dave | 但是现在这一切使我迷惑她 史蒂夫 几乎无法忍受她和戴夫 |
| 109 | Acted someone else commented the only thing I can imagine is that it's some kind of OCD, but whatever it is | 我唯一能想象的是,它是一种OCD, 但不管它是什么 |
| 110 | It's her responsibility to manage | 她有责任管理 |
| 111 | It's absolutely wild that they won't explain and just seem to expect you all to know what a grave sin Steve committed | 他们不会解释 似乎希望你们都知道史蒂夫犯了什么大罪 |
| 112 | Out of curiosity | 出于好奇 |
| 113 | Did she react at all to you and your dad eating the same thing at the restaurant? | 她对你和你爸爸 在餐厅吃同样的东西有反应吗? |
| 114 | Like kept glancing over or seem uncomfortable or anything Opie replied yes | 就像一直闪闪发光 或看起来不舒服 或任何东西 Opie回答是的 |
| 115 | She asked both of us if we were sure that we didn't want to order something else twice | 她问我们是否确定 我们不想再订两杯别的 |
| 116 | She brought it up multiple times once the food came | 食物一来她就提起多次 |
| 117 | She doesn't like it when anyone orders the same meal even if it's other people | 她不喜欢有人点同一顿饭 哪怕是别人 |
| 118 | It's so bizarre imagine telling the 16 year old birthday boy to change his order | 真奇怪 居然让16岁生日男孩改变顺序 |
| 119 | How about get fucked how I would have snapped at her, especially if it were my kid | 不如去操她吧,如果是我的话 |
| 120 | I want to snap at her now. | 我现在就想揍她 |
| 121 | I snapped while reading the post snap crackle pop | 我读完后就崩溃了 |
| 122 | So when I was commented let Rachel order first then everyone order the same thing that would upset the apple cart | 所以当我被评论的时候 让Rachel先点菜 然后每个人都点同样的东西 这会让苹果推车不高兴 |
| 123 | Oh that actually sounds delicious. | 哦,这听起来确实很好吃。 |
| 124 | I'll have that too. | 我也一样 |
| 125 | Thanks. | 谢谢 |
| 126 | 奥比 Opie. | |
| 127 | You know what? | 你知道吗? |
| 128 | I'm in i'll have it too dad | 老爸,我也来 |
| 129 | Screw it me too. | 去他妈的我。 |
| 130 | What the hell? | 什么情况? |
| 131 | Why not? | 为什么不呢? |
| 132 | Oh my god, it's like yeah reminds me of that one scene. | 哦,我的上帝,这就像 耶让我想起了那个场景。 |
| 133 | I think from the office | 我觉得从办公室 |
| 134 | I'll get the chicken piccata side salad. | 我去拿鸡肉沙拉 |
| 135 | I will have the chicken piccata and a side salad | 我要鸡皮卡塔和沙拉 |
| 136 | That sounds good chicken piccata side salad | 这听起来不错 鸡皮卡塔侧色拉 |
| 137 | chicken piccata | 鸡皮卡塔 |
| 138 | Salad on the side, please | 沙拉在旁边,请 |
| 139 | I'll start with a side salad | 我先吃边沙拉 |
| 140 | And uh, oh chicken piccata. | 还有鸡皮卡塔 |
| 141 | I'll get the side salad with uh chicken piccata | 我会得到边沙拉 用鸡皮卡塔 |
| 142 | I really wish you would have like explained or try to like make someone understand or make the family understand or at least try | 我真的希望你能解释一下 或者试着让别人理解 或者让家人理解 或者至少试试 |
| 143 | You know instead of just saying no, I don't like when you order it | 你知道,与其说不行,我不喜欢你点菜 |
| 144 | It's like just try to communicate better make people understand because if you come off like that people are not gonna have a good | 这就像只是尝试沟通 更好地让人们理解 因为你下来像 人不会有一个好 |
| 145 | Impression of you, but if you come off trying to explain trying to like be open people are gonna be a lot more compassionate with you | 你印象深刻,但如果你想解释 想要成为开放的人 会更同情你 |
| 146 | But now as it is sounds like everyone hates rachel second story | 但现在大家都讨厌瑞秋的第二个故事 |
| 147 | Terminally ill and racking up credit card debt with zero fucks to give I have had cancer for two years now | 临终病倒 信用卡债务破解 零他妈的给我两年癌症 |
| 148 | Did chemo lost my leg beat odds and managed to even go back to work | 化疗失去了我的腿 跳了几下,甚至设法回去工作 |
| 149 | Well shit hit the fan and treatment stopped working probably got weeks. | 好吧,狗屎击中风扇 治疗停止工作 可能有几个星期。 |
| 150 | Maybe a couple months at best | 也许最多几个月 |
| 151 | Dude that is so so sad. | 哥们,这太可悲了。 |
| 152 | That is so sad. | 这太可悲了。 |
| 153 | I am 22 | 我22岁了 |
| 154 | Imagine being told you only have a couple weeks to a couple months left to live | 想象一下,别人告诉你,你只剩 几个星期到几个月的时间了 |
| 155 | After you've already gone through chemo you lost your leg and all of this and then you get told that | 你已经化疗过之后 你失去了你的腿和这一切 然后你被告知 |
| 156 | That's why always be grateful that you're healthy and always be grateful that you have a healthy body in mind | 这就是为什么总是感激你身体健康 总是感激你身体健康 |
| 157 | Like really because there are a lot of people that would kill for that. | 就像真的,因为有很多人 会为此而死。 |
| 158 | I am 22 don't own a house | 我22岁,没有房子 |
| 159 | Don't have a car have maybe 2k in the bank | 银行里没有两千元的车 |
| 160 | So I took out a credit card six and a half k limit zero percent apr for 20 months | 所以我拿出一张信用卡 6千5千元 20个月4月0分 |
| 161 | I was previously building up a good credit score and i'm now buying whatever the f I want | 之前我正在积分,现在我要买什么 |
| 162 | The debt will die with me and I give no fucks | 债务会随着我死去,我不在乎他妈的 |
| 163 | And if you want to beef me about driving your bank fees up with this behavior, at least you get to live lol edit | 如果你想说服我 让你的银行收费 与这种行为, 至少你可以活LOL编辑 |
| 164 | Thank you all for your amazing responses. | 感谢大家的惊人回应. |
| 165 | Unfortunately, it's bone cancer that has spread through my whole body | 不幸的是,是骨癌扩散到我全身 |
| 166 | So i'm too weak now to travel far as much as I would have wanted to see the world | 所以现在我太虚弱了 无法远走高飞 |
| 167 | I'm going to go bigger and do some good stuff. | 我要大点,做点好事 |
| 168 | I have ideas | 我有办法 |
| 169 | I want to do some big donations to food banks and cancer charities that supported me | 我想给支持我的食品银行和癌症慈善机构 做一些大捐助 |
| 170 | Through my journey and make some differences before I pop also shame on you all for asking me for money, bruh | 在我的旅程中 和一些分歧之前,我流行 也羞愧你们 都问我的钱,兄弟 |
| 171 | Not asking for money. | 不求财宝. |
| 172 | I took out some more cards. | 我又拿出了几张牌 |
| 173 | Thanks for the suggestions some of you asking i'm a girl | 感谢你们的建议 你们有些人问我是女孩 |
| 174 | Haha, i've bought lots of things for my family mostly sentimental things with my handwriting on | 哈哈,我为家人买了很多东西 大多是多愁善感的东西 用我的笔迹 |
| 175 | I bought a crab at a fancy ass seafood place. | 我在海鲜店买了只螃蟹 |
| 176 | That was awesome | 真不错 |
| 177 | I've donated to animal shelters and food banks also to cancer charities who helped drag my ass through this | 我捐给动物收容所和食物银行 也捐给癌症慈善机构 帮助我度过难关 |
| 178 | Also, can y'all stop telling me to find jesus? | 你们能不能别叫我去找耶稣? |
| 179 | I respect those of you who are praying for me because I know that's your way of thinking of me and i'm really touched by that | 我尊重你们这些为我祈祷的人 因为我知道这就是你们对我的看法 我真的很感动 |
| 180 | But finding god is in no way in my plans and not what I believe will happen after death | 但寻找上帝绝非我的计划 也绝不是死后会发生的事 |
| 181 | Trying to force religion down a dying person's throat is really not the vibe | 试图将宗教逼迫在临终者的喉咙里 并不是那种感觉 |
| 182 | Yeah, I agree. | 是的,我同意,我同意这个说法。 |
| 183 | You should never force religion onto anyone anyone let alone like a dying person if they're open to it | 你不应该强迫任何人 宗教,更不要说像一个垂死的人 如果他们愿意的话 |
| 184 | Yeah, talk about them, but don't like force it onto anyone update three still hanging on | 是啊,谈起他们,但不喜欢强迫它 任何人更新 3仍然挂 |
| 185 | I've deteriorated quite a lot now lost a lot of functionality in my body at this point | 我身体现在变坏很多了 身体的功能现在也变坏了 |
| 186 | So i'm bed bound and mostly just watching lots of tv and seeing family, but i'm comfortable | 所以,我被绑在床上 大部分只是看很多电视 和看到家人, 但我很舒服 |
| 187 | Eating apples and cheese and lots of little treats. | 吃苹果和奶酪 还有很多小菜 |
| 188 | Thank you all for checking in and thinking of me | 感谢大家的问候和对我的想法 |
| 189 | I'm really fortunate to be surrounded by my friends and family right now | 我现在很幸运被朋友和家人包围 |
| 190 | When you bowl it down to it in the end, it really is all you need | 当你投到最后,这是你所需要的 |
| 191 | Anyway, i'll try to update again soon relevant comments op commented. | 总之,我会试着再次更新 相关的评论评论。 |
| 192 | Sorry everyone | 对不起大家 |
| 193 | I feel like I should update all my fun happy times | 我觉得我应该更新所有快乐时光 |
| 194 | I have taken your advice and took some more cards out lay of laugh love random purchases include jewelry with my handwriting for family | 我接受你的建议, 抽出更多的牌 玩笑爱 随机购买包括珠宝 与我的笔迹 家庭 |
| 195 | 360 pound lunch of fresh english crab. | 360磅的新鲜英式螃蟹午餐. |
| 196 | I really like crab and the cancer is in my jaw | 我真的喜欢螃蟹,癌症在我下巴里 |
| 197 | So I really wanted to have some good crab before I lose function in my jaw three jelly cats the frog ones | 所以我真的想吃点好螃蟹 在我下巴失去功能之前 三只果冻猫 青蛙 |
| 198 | I've never owned a jelly cat and wanted to know what it was like to be bougie enough to buy a big jelly cat | 我从来没有拥有过一只果冻猫,想知道 买一只大果冻猫的滋味 |
| 199 | What is a jelly cat? | 什么是果冻猫? |
| 200 | Let me search this up. | 让我查查 |
| 201 | Oh a jelly cat is like a it's like a teddy bear. | 果冻猫就像一只泰迪熊 |
| 202 | Okay | 还好 |
| 203 | Hey, it makes you happy some really comfy trousers a hand-knitted blanket for my niece | 嘿,这让你高兴 一些真正的舒适的裤子 手织毯子给我的侄女 |
| 204 | 1,000 pounds of food for my local food bank | 给当地粮库一千斤 |
| 205 | I took my brothers to arcade for a whole day and played every game took my family to my favorite place way moth | 我带我的兄弟们去游乐场玩了一整天 玩的每一场游戏都带我的家人去我最喜欢的地方 |
| 206 | Let me see what way moth looks like obviously. | 让我看看蛾子长什么样子 |
| 207 | This is in england. | 这是在英格兰。 |
| 208 | Is it england? | 是英格兰吗? |
| 209 | Oh, yeah | 对 |
| 210 | It looks like a nice beach town. | 看起来像一个不错的海滩小镇。 |
| 211 | This is really wholesome man. | 这人真好 |
| 212 | This is making me sad went into a candy store and bought | 这让我很伤心 跑到糖果店买了 |
| 213 | One quart of everything a minted lamb pasty | 薄荷羊肉糕点,每样东西的四分之一 |
| 214 | Dude, I don't know what a lot of this stuff is. | 伙计,我不知道这些是什么 |
| 215 | Okay, it's a type of like, uh, it's like a baked pastry with meat inside | 好吧,这是一种类型 像,呃,它就像一个烤糕点 里面的肉 |
| 216 | Okay, i'm very nostalgia driven and yeah, definitely not going feral enough. | 好吧,我非常怀旧 驱动和是啊,绝对不够疯狂。 |
| 217 | However, we'll endeavor for more honestly | 然而,我们将努力更加诚实 |
| 218 | Everything she's mentioned is just like so wholesome. | 她提到的一切 都像那么健康。 |
| 219 | It's not like the biggest most grand purchases | 这又不是最大的大采购 |
| 220 | It's just nice nice things bringing your brothers to an arcade bringing your family to your favorite place buying small gifts for people | 把你兄弟带到街坊 把你家人带到你最爱的地方 |
| 221 | Going to eat crab because you love crab. | 去吃螃蟹 因为你喜欢螃蟹。 |
| 222 | That is so wholesome dude, really I do hear you all suggesting hard drugs and psychotics | 真是好人啊,真的 我听到你们都说硬药和精神病 |
| 223 | I won't lie. | 我不会撒谎的 |
| 224 | I've been on pretty much every drug going through this fun time. | 我几乎一直在服用 每一种药物 经过这个有趣的时间。 |
| 225 | So i'm not too fussed about drugs | 所以我对毒品没太在意 |
| 226 | Haha. | 师曰. |
| 227 | Well if it makes you happy man tracy 10 000 commented i'm going to remember you | 如果这让你快乐的男人Tracy 10000评论 我会记得你 |
| 228 | I promise you that sometimes I just know i'm going to remember people who I spoke to or messaged | 我答应你,有时我只知道 我会记得我跟谁说话或留言的人 |
| 229 | Even if I don't know their names and I do remember them. | 即使我不知道他们的名字 我确实记得他们 |
| 230 | I lost my little brother to cancer when he was five | 我弟弟五岁的时候就死于癌症 |
| 231 | So i've always known how precious life is. | 所以我一直知道生命有多宝贵 |
| 232 | I've grown up knowing it. | 我从小就知道了 |
| 233 | You are a girl who deserves to be remembered | 你是个值得被铭记的女孩 |
| 234 | I don't expect you to tell me your name | 我不指望你告诉我你的名字 |
| 235 | But is there anything you would like me to think of you as obviously you are a kick-ass warrior princess | 但你想我怎么称呼你... ...显然你是个勇敢的战士公主 |
| 236 | But I don't know if remembering you as credit card girl is right. | 但我不知道是否记得你 信用卡女孩是正确的。 |
| 237 | You are so much more than that | 你比这还要多 |
| 238 | Op replied i've told my friends to think of me when something slightly unhinged happens in their life | Op回答说,我已经告诉我的朋友 想想我,当一些事情 稍稍不振 发生在他们的生活中 |
| 239 | Because i'm hoping my energy just turns to chaos someone else commented | 因为我希望我的能量 变成混乱 有人评论 |
| 240 | Hey bro, you do your fucking thing and enjoy the time you have left. | 嘿,兄弟,你做你他妈的事情 享受你离开的时间。 |
| 241 | I'm not kidding when I say this | 我说这个不是开玩笑 |
| 242 | I wish I was terminal. | 我希望我是终结。 |
| 243 | I've been avoiding a serious growth because I want it to spread have had gad and depression since middle school | 我一直避免了严重的增长,因为我希望它传播 从中学开始,就一直有阴郁症 |
| 244 | Good looking guy always making people laugh and doing good for others athletic and excel at almost everything I do | 帅哥总是让别人笑 替别人做好事 对我所做的几乎每件事都很好 |
| 245 | But I don't want to exist for the longest time and people don't understand why hell neither do I | 但我不希望存在的时间最长 人们也不明白 为什么我也不明白 |
| 246 | I'm sorry that you are going through this but you should definitely try some psychedelics and also make a bucket list | 对不起,你正在经历这个... ...但你绝对应该尝试一些迷幻药... ... ...... |
| 247 | Run up that debt take chances. | 偿还债务要冒险 |
| 248 | Go crazy bro. | 去疯狂的兄弟。 |
| 249 | Live a hundred lives in the limited time you have | 在有限的时间内活一百条命 |
| 250 | I won't lie in a way. | 我不会说谎的 |
| 251 | You made me think maybe I should change it up a little bit | 你让我觉得也许我应该改一下 |
| 252 | Your one post is already impacting lives peace and love brother. | 你的一个帖子 已经影响了生活 和平和爱的兄弟。 |
| 253 | It's strangely liberating | 这是奇怪的解放 |
| 254 | I'd been fighting for so long finally letting it run its course now. | 我战斗了这么久 终于让它开始运行了 |
| 255 | It's peaceful actually | 其实很平静 |
| 256 | I've done everything I've wanted to do nine months later update by her twin sister | 我做了我想做的事 九个月后 由她的双胞胎妹妹更新 |
| 257 | I managed to track down this post while going through her phone and saw I blow up | 我通过她的电话找到这个帖子 看见我爆炸了 |
| 258 | She passed away peacefully in july. | 她静静地去世了 |
| 259 | So like six months before that. | 所以,像六个月前。 |
| 260 | This is sad bro. | 这是可悲的兄弟。 |
| 261 | Damn | 该死的 |
| 262 | Surrounded by her family dogs and multiple credit cards | 被她家的狗和多张信用卡包围 |
| 263 | She did a lot of good including buying refurbs for local primary and preschools and making a lot of improvements in the community | 她做了很多好事,包括为当地小学和学前班购买翻新用品,在社区里做了很多改进. |
| 264 | To those saying it would be passed to us. | 那些说它会传给我们的人 |
| 265 | No, it was wiped and cleared | 不,它被擦干净了 |
| 266 | She has no inheritance not a penny to her name since she was only 22 and didn't have those adult things like life insurance or mortgages | 她没有遗产 没有一分钱给她的名字,因为她只有22岁 而且没有像人寿保险或抵押贷款之类的成年人的东西 |
| 267 | Thank you for all your support. | 谢谢大家的支持。 |
| 268 | She really kept this one hidden. | 她真的把这个藏起来 |
| 269 | Damn bro. | 该死的兄弟。 |
| 270 | That shit was so wholesome like obviously not the dying part | 那狗屎是如此的好 像显然不是死亡部分 |
| 271 | That's super sad | 这太可悲了 |
| 272 | What she did and how positive she was and everything really so wholesome let's read some comments | 她做了什么,她有多积极 和一切真的很好 让我们读一些评论 |
| 273 | My aunt did this she had terrific credit and stage four | 我姨妈做了这个 她的功劳和第四阶段 |
| 274 | Cancer with less than a year to live so she financed my cousin's kitchen remodel and hotel weekend with her grandkids | 不到一年的癌症,所以她资助我表哥的厨房改建 和酒店周末和她孙子们 |
| 275 | She would have done more had it not been covid times better than her son taking a secret life insurance policy on her | 如果不是她儿子为她投保秘密人寿保险的好日子 她会做得更多 |
| 276 | In my opinion my dad did this before he died when he died | 在我看来 我爸死前就这么做了 |
| 277 | The only asset in his in his name was his old truck worth about | 他名下唯一有价值的东西 就是他的旧货车 |
| 278 | $1,500 and that was it the credit card companies hounded my mom | 1500美元,就是信用卡公司找我妈 |
| 279 | So my sister just took over sent them a notarized copy of the death certificate and demand to politely fuck off | 所以我姐姐刚刚接了他们 寄来一份死亡证明的公证副本 要求礼貌滚蛋 |
| 280 | They all eventually fucked off | 他们最终都搞砸了 |
| 281 | So it's probably a better game for the young because we know predatory credit card companies | 所以,这可能是一个更好的游戏 对于年轻人,因为我们知道掠夺性信用卡公司 |
| 282 | Will hound the shit out of someone if they think they can even get one cent | 如果有人觉得自己能拿到一分钱 就会把别人逼疯 |
| 283 | Frankly, I get it's a job but I couldn't do it | 老实说,我明白这是份工作 但我做不到 |
| 284 | But I guess even soulless demons need a nine to five in this economy | 但我猜,即使是无灵魂的恶魔 也需要9到5个在这个经济中 |
| 285 | Now I worked with the worst of the worst with collection agencies when I was younger and did telecoms | 现在,我和最坏的一起工作 在收集机构 当我年轻,做电信 |
| 286 | They're afraid of lawsuits because lawsuits against collection agencies are very easy to win | 他们害怕官司 因为对收藏机构的诉讼很容易胜诉 |
| 287 | If they get told to f off and there's valid proof, they will fuck off people talk about the owners being the problem | 如果他们被告知要离开 并且有有效的证据, 他们会他妈的离开 人们谈论业主是问题 |
| 288 | But it's usually the agents who ignore notes and press customers because they get a commission | 但通常都是那些不理会笔记的特工 和客户,因为他们得到佣金 |
| 289 | Lol, I really like how supportive this comment section was and how everyone is also telling their stories about family members | Lol, 我真的很喜欢这个评论部分的支持度, 也喜欢每个人都在讲述自己关于家庭成员的故事。 |
| 290 | Or people they knew that did similar things took out a bunch of credit cards | 或者他们知道的人 做了类似的事情 拿出一堆信用卡 |
| 291 | Bought a bunch of stuff for people did a bunch of things and then when they passed away the credit card debt was gone | 买一堆东西给别人 做了一堆事情 然后当他们去世了 信用卡债务就消失了 |
| 292 | It's a day. | 谓一日. |
| 293 | I lost you. | 我失去了你 我失去了你 I lost you. |
| 294 | That was that was a good story. | 那是一个很好的故事。 |
| 295 | Very wholesome story | 不错的故事 |
| 296 | Number three my boyfriend can't use any bathroom besides the one in our apartment and he thinks | 第三,我的男朋友不能使用任何浴室 除了我们的公寓,他认为 |
| 297 | This is normal. | 这是正常的。 |
| 298 | No advice wanted my 25 female boyfriend 24 male | 没有建议要我25个女男友24个男的 |
| 299 | Can't go to the bathroom unless it is one in our apartment | 不能去洗手间 除非是在我们的公寓 |
| 300 | If he's not home when he has to go and he doesn't make it back in time. | 若他得去时不在家,又不能及时赶回. |
| 301 | He will go in his pants | 他会穿他的裤子 |
| 302 | I wish I was kidding. | 我希望我是在开玩笑。 |
| 303 | I was about to say is this are you over exaggerating? | 我正要说这是你夸张了吗? |
| 304 | Okay, so you're not kidding | 好吧,所以你没有开玩笑 |
| 305 | I figured it out after seeing him have two different accidents the first time it was after his friend's birthday and we had both been drinking | 第一次见到他的时候 我发现了两个不同的事故 是在他朋友生日之后 |
| 306 | My boyfriend was really embarrassed and I thought it was just because of the alcohol | 我男朋友很尴尬,我以为是因为酗酒 |
| 307 | It had never happened before in front of me so I just let it go the second time it happened | 这种事以前从未在我面前发生过 所以我就让这事发生了第二次 |
| 308 | We were out shopping and there was no alcohol involved | 我们出去买东西,没有喝酒 |
| 309 | He went in his pants because we didn't get home in time | 他穿裤子是因为我们没有及时回家 |
| 310 | We met in university during my second year and his first I lived on campus and he shared an apartment with his brother | 我二年级的时候在大学认识的 他的第一任我住在校园里 他和他哥哥住一间公寓 |
| 311 | 26 male off campus | 26名男性离开校园 |
| 312 | I never realized he would go back to his apartment if he needed to use the bathroom | 我从来没有意识到他会回到他的公寓 如果他需要使用浴室 |
| 313 | I went on to the pharmacy program at our university and he went on to do his master's degree | 我上过我们大学的药房课程 他继续读硕士学位 |
| 314 | After we graduated I moved in with him the apartment is close to the hospital | 我们毕业后,我搬到他家 公寓离医院很近 |
| 315 | I would be working at my boyfriend found a remote job and the rent was a good price for the area | 我会在男朋友那儿工作 找到一份远程工作 房租对这里来说是个好价钱 |
| 316 | His family lives two hours away | 他的家人住在两小时外 |
| 317 | He can use the bathrooms at his parents house because he grew up there | 他可以用他父母家的卫生间 因为他在那里长大 |
| 318 | One set of his grandparents live near his parents and he can also use their bathrooms because they have lived in the same house | 他的一对外祖父母住在他父母附近 他也可以使用他们的浴室 因为他们住在同一个房子里 |
| 319 | Since he was born his other grandparents moved to another province when they retired and my boyfriend has has never visited them | 从他出生起,他的其他祖父母就搬到了另一个省份,他们退休了,而我的男朋友从未去过他们 |
| 320 | Because of this bathroom situation | 因为这个厕所的情况 |
| 321 | I guess he can never travel right like he could never travel a day trip, right even the night | 我猜他永远不能像一天也不可能旅行一样旅行 即使是晚上 |
| 322 | He always always has to be either close to his parents house or his house | 他总是要亲近父母家或家 |
| 323 | So he can never go on a weekend trip he can never travel outside the country | 所以他永远不能去周末旅行 他永远不能出国旅行 |
| 324 | He can never do a road trip. | 他永远不能去旅行 |
| 325 | He can never go camping | 他永远不能去露营 |
| 326 | Wow, wow, and you guys never did any like type of road trip. | 哇,哇,你们从来没有做过 像什么类型的公路旅行。 |
| 327 | I'm surprised surprised | 我很惊讶 |
| 328 | My boyfriend's brother lived in the apartment for two years before my boyfriend moved in and it took him all that time to get used | 我男朋友的哥哥在我男朋友搬进来之前 在公寓里住了两年 他花了那么长时间才习惯 |
| 329 | To the idea of using the bathroom there his parents told me he has been like this his whole life | 他父母告诉我他一辈子都这样 |
| 330 | And they laugh about this quirk of his dude. | 他们嘲笑他这个家伙的古怪 |
| 331 | This is like this isn't just a quirk | 这不光是怪怪的 |
| 332 | This is something that really affects your life | 这是真正影响你生活的东西 |
| 333 | You can't do anything then you have to stay within like a radius of your home | 你什么都做不了,你就得像半径一样留在家里 |
| 334 | Or else you're just gonna like poop yourself whenever you travel | 否则每次旅行你都会喜欢大便 |
| 335 | Hell no, my boyfriend is trying to tell me this is normal and lots of people can only go at home | 我男朋友想告诉我这很正常 很多人只能回家 |
| 336 | No, this is not normal when he says that it makes me feel like screaming | 不,这是不正常的,当他说 这让我觉得尖叫 |
| 337 | I can believe people prefer to go at home. | 我能相信人们更喜欢回家 |
| 338 | However, they will also use whatever bathroom is closest instead of going in their pants | 不过,他们也会使用任何最接近的浴室,而不是穿裤子 |
| 339 | Yes | 对 |
| 340 | No one else in his family is like this his brother just joined the navy | 家里没人像他哥哥一样 刚加入海军 |
| 341 | His dad is a conductor for a railroad company. | 他爸爸是铁路公司的指挥员 |
| 342 | His mom is a postal worker | 他妈妈是邮政工人 |
| 343 | They couldn't do those jobs if they were like my boyfriend | 他们不能做那些工作 如果他们像我男朋友一样 |
| 344 | None of his friends have ever said anything that I know of either | 他的朋友们都没有说过我知道的事 |
| 345 | I guess it makes sense why he got a remote job because honestly if he had to go and work an office job | 我想这是有道理的,为什么他得到一个远程工作 因为说实话,如果他必须去 和工作办公室工作 |
| 346 | In the span of a year | 一年之内 |
| 347 | I'm sure there would be a multiple times where he would go in his pants because | 我敢肯定,会有很多次 他会在他的裤子去,因为 |
| 348 | He needs to just go so bad unless his boss lets him drive all the way back to his house | 除非他老板让他一路开车回他家 否则他就得走那么糟 |
| 349 | Then that's not going to work out. | 那样就行不通了 |
| 350 | I told him he needs to see a therapist. | 我告诉他他需要去看心理医生 |
| 351 | Yes | 对 |
| 352 | This is definitely some childhood trauma or some kind of psychological thing a therapist would really help | 这肯定是一些童年的创伤 或者某种心理 治疗师会真正帮助 |
| 353 | He needs to see a therapist. | 他需要去看心理医生 |
| 354 | He really does | 他真的喜欢 |
| 355 | He's refusing because he doesn't think anything is wrong. | 他拒绝是因为他不认为什么是错的. |
| 356 | I do not want to live in this apartment forever | 我不想永远住在这公寓 |
| 357 | I want to travel exactly travel my parents home isn't far from us | 我想旅行 恰好旅行 我的父母家离我们不远 |
| 358 | But I have a big family and I want to bring him to visit them | 但我有个大家庭 我想带他去看他们 |
| 359 | What if he gets offered a better job that isn't fully remote exactly | 如果他得到一个更好的工作 不完全远程 |
| 360 | I told him I am done if he doesn't go to therapy and he says I am selfish | 我告诉他,如果他不去治疗,我就完了 他说我很自私 |
| 361 | No, I think this is a really fair relationship battery | 不,我认为这是一个真正的公平的关系电池 |
| 362 | You can't you have to think do you want to live your whole entire life? | 你不能认为你想一辈子活吗? |
| 363 | in the vicinity of this one apartment and never move apartments because I | 在这间公寓附近 从来不动公寓 因为我 |
| 364 | Really don't know if he's capable of moving apartments the way he is now. | 真不知道他能不能像现在这样搬家 |
| 365 | That's not really like a type of life. | 这不是真的像一种生活。 |
| 366 | That's not like | 不是那样的 |
| 367 | That's not living that's just existing and that is not selfish | 这不是生活,只是存在,这不是自私 |
| 368 | If it's your boundary and he does not want to do anything to try to improve by going to therapy | 如果这是你的界限,他不想做任何事情 试图通过治疗改善 |
| 369 | Then there's your answer. | 那就给你答案吧 |
| 370 | I don't care if giving the ultimatum makes me selfish. | 我不管最后通牒是不是让我自私 |
| 371 | I honestly don't | 我真的没有 |
| 372 | Tldr my boyfriend can't use any bathroom except for the one in our apartment | 我男朋友不能用厕所 除了我们公寓的那个 |
| 373 | He will pee or poop his pants rather than using a bathroom that isn't ours | 他会尿尿或拉裤子 而不是用不是我们的厕所 |
| 374 | He thinks it is normal and we have argued I told him I will leave him if he doesn't see a therapist | 他觉得这很正常,我们争吵过 我告诉他,如果他不见心理医生,我会离开他 |
| 375 | And he called me selfish top comments | 他叫我自私的顶级评论 |
| 376 | Question is he holding it until he can't anymore and then having an accident in his pants or is he | 问题是他拿着它,直到他不能再 并且有意外在他的裤子,或者他是 |
| 377 | Intentionally just going in his pants rather than use the public bathroom op | 故意只是去他的裤子 而不是使用公共浴室行动 |
| 378 | He holds it until he can't if he is not at home and he has to go he will try to get home | 他拿着它,直到他不能 如果他不在家,他必须去,他会试着回家 |
| 379 | However, sometimes he doesn't make it amazing anybody in his family thinks this is normal | 不过,有时候他不会让家里人觉得这很正常 |
| 380 | I used to be like that but never had any accidents because when I had to go yes or yes | 我曾经是那样的,但从来没有发生任何意外 因为当我必须去是或是 |
| 381 | I went to whatever bathroom is nearby right now. | 我去过附近的厕所 |
| 382 | It might work because he is working remote | 可能是因为他在远程工作 |
| 383 | But at some point this is going to affect him. | 但是在某个时候 这将会影响他 |
| 384 | He needs help | 他需要帮助 |
| 385 | No one should poop their pants because they can only just go at home. | 没有人应该拉裤子,因为他们只能回家。 |
| 386 | Stop it | 别闹了 |
| 387 | Get some help exactly dude. | 找人帮个忙 |
| 388 | That's this is insane | 这太疯狂了 |
| 389 | I'm actually really curious why just he has this was it something in his childhood or is it something like psychological? | 我其实很好奇 为什么他有这个 在他童年的时候还是心理上的? |
| 390 | I'm i'm really curious either hold it in and realize you probably can't eat anything when you are out and about | 我真的很好奇 要么握住它 并意识到你可能不能吃任何东西 当你出来和关于 |
| 391 | He should already be buying diapers if he is going to be that disgusting or change your life | 他应该已经买尿布了 如果他要那么恶心 或者改变你的生活 |
| 392 | He can't live like that op | 他不能像那样生活 |
| 393 | I've learned his brother is fed up with it when his brother was in university with us | 我得知他哥哥在大学的时候 已经受够了 |
| 394 | I got to sense that he was annoyed with my boyfriend a lot of the time | 我总觉得他很烦我男朋友 |
| 395 | I thought it was just normal sibling dynamics. | 我认为这是正常的兄弟姐妹动态。 |
| 396 | I had three brothers ages 24 22 and 20 | 我有三个兄弟24岁22岁20岁 |
| 397 | So I get being annoyed with younger siblings | 所以,我变得烦 与年轻的兄弟姐妹 |
| 398 | During one of our arguments over this my boyfriend admitted his brother joined the navy to get away from the family | 在这场争吵中 我男朋友承认他哥哥是海军的 |
| 399 | And that he didn't want to live with my boyfriend when he was in university | 在大学的时候他不想和我男朋友住在一起 |
| 400 | But their parents said they wouldn't help with finances unless he did | 但是他们的父母说,除非他这样做,否则他们不会帮助财务 |
| 401 | I know my boyfriend's parents and one set of grandparents enable this his brother doesn't i'm not sure what his other set of | 我知道我男朋友的父母 和一组祖父母 允许这个 他的兄弟 我不知道他的其他一套 |
| 402 | Grandparents think i've only met them once if a grown adult would rather shit their pants than use a public bathroom | 祖父母认为我只见过他们一次 如果大人宁愿拉裤子 也不愿上公共厕所 |
| 403 | They need serious help slash therapy. | 他们需要认真的帮助 斜刀疗法。 |
| 404 | I wouldn't have been able to get to the point of moving in that is insane | 我根本没法进到那个地步 这太疯狂了 |
| 405 | If I had known all this before I moved in with him | 如果我在搬进他家之前就知道这些 |
| 406 | I would have refused to come live in his apartment unless he went to therapy | 除非他去治疗 否则我就不会住在他家 |
| 407 | Even then he would have had to show me he was trying to get better | 即使这样,他也必须告诉我,他想好起来 |
| 408 | His parents told me he has been like this his whole life and they laugh about this quirk of his | 他的父母告诉我,他一直 像这样他的一生, 他们笑他的这个怪异 |
| 409 | So they neglected getting his extreme phobia issue help because hey fun and quirky. | 所以,他们忽略了 得到他的极端恐惧症问题 帮助,因为嘿乐趣和怪异。 |
| 410 | Haha | 摆 |
| 411 | Wtf yeah, terrible parenting. | 是的,糟糕的家长。 |
| 412 | Does that mean he never went in school either just kept doing it in his clothes. | 这是否意味着他从来没有上过学 或只是继续做在他的衣服。 |
| 413 | Yeah | 对 |
| 414 | I wonder how many times he's actually | 我怀疑他到底有多少次了 ? ? ? ? ? ? ! |
| 415 | defecated in his clothing he needs help this is | 穿着衣服排便,他需要帮助 |
| 416 | This isn't normal | 这不正常 |
| 417 | He needs to drink enough fluid for a healthy body and he needs to be able to leave the house and live his life | 他需要喝足够的液 身体健康,他需要 能够离开房子 生活他的生活 |
| 418 | Nobody would blame you for leaving over this the limit this put the limit this will put on your future life | 没有人会责怪你离开这个限制 这会给你的未来生活造成限制 |
| 419 | Even if it's a severe cleanliness phobia | 即使它是一个严重的清洁恐惧症 |
| 420 | Then he can carry cleaning wipes for the seats and his own toilet roll update three weeks later | 然后,他可以携带清洁 擦拭座位 和自己的厕所卷更新 三周后 |
| 421 | No advice wanted if I had known he had this issue | 如果我知道他有这个问题 就不会有什么建议 |
| 422 | I would have never moved in with him in the first place | 我一开始就不会和他住在一起 |
| 423 | I tried suggesting he go to therapy to address this but he kept telling me that he is normal and I am the weird one | 我试着建议他去接受治疗 但他一直告诉我他很正常 而我是怪胎 |
| 424 | After that, I knew our relationship was doomed. | 之后,我知道我们的关系是注定的。 |
| 425 | No one else in his family is like this | 家里没人会这样 |
| 426 | His dad is a railroad worker. | 他爸爸是铁路工人 |
| 427 | His mom is a postal worker both set of grandparents love to travel | 他妈妈是邮政工人 祖父母都喜欢旅行 |
| 428 | You can't do those things if you have the same issue as my ex-boyfriend | 如果你跟我前男友有同样的问题 你就不能这么做 |
| 429 | Ex-boyfriend that's good hard decision | 前男友,这是很好的艰难的决定 |
| 430 | But I feel like it's the only decision that makes sense | 但我觉得这是唯一有道理的决定 |
| 431 | If someone wants to improve and they're able to and at least they try then yeah, of course stay with them help them through it | 如果有人想要改进,他们可以,至少他们可以尝试,那么是的,当然和他们一起帮助他们渡过难关。 |
| 432 | But if they just know and they're like, no, I don't want to do this. | 但是如果他们只是知道,他们喜欢, 不,我不想这样做。 |
| 433 | No, no, no, no | 没有,没有,没有,没有 |
| 434 | What can you do? | 你能怎么办? |
| 435 | Do you want to just live in the radius of that one home for your entire life? | 你想一辈子都住在那个家的半径吗? |
| 436 | It's not fair to you during one of our arguments about this | 在我们争吵的时候 这对你不公平 |
| 437 | My boyfriend admitted his brother had wanted to go to university in another province | 我男朋友承认他哥哥想在另一个省上大学 |
| 438 | But their parents said they would withdraw financial support and help getting student loans unless he went to the closest university | 但是他们的父母说,除非他去最近的大学,否则他们会撤回资助和帮助获得学生贷款。 |
| 439 | This was so my ex-boyfriend could get used to his brother's bathroom and come live there for university as well | 这样我前男友就能习惯他哥哥的洗手间 也去上大学 |
| 440 | When his brother was in university with us, I got the sense that he was annoyed with my ex-boyfriend a lot of the time | 他哥哥和我们上大学的时候 我感觉他经常惹前男友生气 |
| 441 | I thought it was just normal sibling dynamics. | 我认为这是正常的兄弟姐妹动态。 |
| 442 | I have three younger brothers | 我有三个弟弟 |
| 443 | So I get being annoyed with younger siblings | 所以,我变得烦 与年轻的兄弟姐妹 |
| 444 | But my ex-boyfriend admitted that his brother joined the navy to get away from the family | 但我前男友承认他哥哥是加入海军的 为了远离家人 |
| 445 | Because we live in a landlocked province and it was the only way he could get away without financial support from from their parents | 因为我们生活在一个内陆省份 这是他唯一能摆脱困境的方法 没有父母的财政支持 |
| 446 | My ex-boyfriend said his brother has not spoken to anyone in the family since he left | 我前男友说他哥哥离开后 没跟家里人说过话 |
| 447 | I know that his parents and one set of his grandparents enable him | 我知道他的父母 和他外祖父母的一对夫妇 使他得以 |
| 448 | I don't know about his other set of grandparents because they live in a different province and I only met them once | 我不知道他其他的祖父母 因为他们住在不同的省份 我只见过他们一次 |
| 449 | He has no other family when I told my ex-boyfriend that I was moving out | 我告诉前男友我搬出去的时候 他没有其他家人 |
| 450 | He acted surprised after we paid our rent for may | 我们付了房租之后 他表现得很惊讶 |
| 451 | I told our landlord that I would not be signing a new lease with my ex-boyfriend after ours expired | 我告诉房东说,在我们房东去世后, 我不会和我前男友签新的租约 |
| 452 | At the end of may i'm lucky enough to have a best friend who let me temporarily move in with her | 到头来,我还是幸运的 有一位好朋友 让我暂时和她住在一起 |
| 453 | Until my new place is ready next saturday | 直到我的新房子下周六准备好 |
| 454 | I just couldn't imagine a life where he declined better jobs because they aren't remote right now | 我只是无法想象他拒绝更好的工作 因为他们现在并不遥远 |
| 455 | He is a payroll clerk or where we couldn't go see my family together or travel or buy a house | 他是个工资员 或者我们无法去见我的家人 旅行或买房子的地方 |
| 456 | He never lived in before and no matter what he said. | 他以前从没住过 不管他说什么 |
| 457 | I know I was right about this not being normal tldr | 我知道我说得没错,不是普通的 |
| 458 | I broke up with him. | 我和他分手了 我和他分手了 我和他分手了 |
| 459 | Yeah, this is really not normal | 是啊,这真的不正常 |
| 460 | I think the sad part is like never getting to experience anything in life outside of a radius of your home | 我觉得最悲哀的就是 从没有经历过你家半径之外的生活 |
| 461 | Never being able to go on like a weekend trip or go on a road trip or go to another country or go visit | 永远不能去 像周末旅行或去 公路旅行, 去另一个国家或去访问 |
| 462 | Your parents and bring your boyfriend with you | 你父母把你男朋友带来 |
| 463 | You know, there's just so much so many things you can't experience even just getting a job or you know going out normally one day | 你知道,有这么多事情 你无法体验 甚至只是找份工作,或者你知道 通常出去一天 |
| 464 | Even if it's just for a few hours and he needs to go to the washroom | 即使只是几个小时 他需要去洗手间 |
| 465 | Is he just gonna poof himself every time it's sad and it's sad that he doesn't want to | 他是不是每次悲伤的时候都会自暴自弃? |
| 466 | You know try to get better by going to therapy in that he thinks this is normal | 你知道,尝试得到更好的 通过去治疗,他认为这是正常的 |
| 467 | Let's read some comments something stops being a quirk when it affects your life in a negative way. | 让我们来读读一些评论吧 当一些东西以负面的方式影响你的生活时,它不再是一个怪胎。 |
| 468 | That's just a problem now | 那只是现在的一个问题 |
| 469 | Pissing yourself is not a quirk literally dude not pissing shitting yourself | 撒尿不是一个怪胎 字面上的家伙 不撒尿 屎自己 |
| 470 | You'd rather shit in your own clothing than in an unfamiliar bathroom. | 你宁可穿着自己的衣服拉屎 也不要在陌生的浴室里拉屎 |
| 471 | That is mental illness. | 这是精神疾病。 |
| 472 | Not a quirk | 一点也不奇怪 |
| 473 | I can't imagine trying to schedule my entire life around four hour or so intervals | 我无法想象我的整个生活 大约四个小时左右的时间间隔 |
| 474 | Just so I can try to make it home to pee every time and shitting myself on purpose. | 只是让我可以试着让它回家 每次小便,并故意拉屎自己。 |
| 475 | Nope. | 没有 |
| 476 | Nope | 没有 |
| 477 | No, one of my roommates has worked grocery for over 20 years | 不,我的室友之一 工作杂货店20多年 |
| 478 | She doesn't pee during the workday and really doesn't drink much fluids at all | 她工作时不小便 真的不喝太多液体 |
| 479 | I figure by the time she hits 50 her kidneys will crap out on her that or they're as healthy as a baby's from | 我估计当她打50时 她的肾会吐出 她的肾脏,否则它们就跟婴儿一样健康 |
| 480 | Lack of use. | 无用. |
| 481 | I know someone who got an ultrasound and a technician | 我知道有人有超声波和技术人员 |
| 482 | Remarked that she had one of the biggest bladders he'd ever seen | 她有一个最大的膀胱 他见过 |
| 483 | She says when she does go it takes her about a minute to finish | 她说她走的时候要花一分钟才能完成 |
| 484 | Yeah, a lot of people are for some reason just talking about how long they hold their pee for | 是啊,很多人都是出于某种原因 只是谈论他们拖尿的时间 |
| 485 | Oh, I hold mine for six six plus hours. | 哦,我持有我的六六加小时。 |
| 486 | Oh, I hold mine for 24 hours | 哦,我拿着我的24小时 |
| 487 | Uh, oh I feel like uh, I fill up a 42 ounce cup ninja flower lady commented | 呃,哦,我觉得像 呃,我填满了42盎司杯 忍者花女评论 |
| 488 | I feel very sorry for the brother imagine your parents using money to control where you go for college | 我为哥哥感到非常抱歉 想象一下你父母用钱控制你上大学的地方 |
| 489 | It's not even because they think they want for you is better for your future | 也不是因为他们认为他们想要你 对你的未来更好 |
| 490 | At least in that case, they're still thinking of you | 至少这样,他们还在想你 |
| 491 | But because of your sibling who needs to get used to your restroom | 但因为你的兄弟 谁需要适应你的厕所 |
| 492 | Like what the amount of enabling is surreal and horrific for everyone. | 像什么数量 使能力是超现实 和可怕的每个人。 |
| 493 | Yeah, someone else commented absolutely insane | 是啊,别人评论 绝对疯了 |
| 494 | I can't imagine how restricting to be with someone like this | 我无法想象与这样的人在一起有多有限 |
| 495 | Also, how humiliating is it to be with him when he decides to shit his pants? | 而且,当他决定拉裤子时,他有多丢脸? |
| 496 | What the actual fuck someone replied my husband and I went on a group vacation with a person like this | 什么他妈的人 回答我的丈夫和我去 集体度假的人这样的人 |
| 497 | They could use the hotel bathroom, but refuse to use public ones | 他们可以使用酒店的浴室,但拒绝使用公共的 |
| 498 | I mean I could I could see that I don't think that's as bad because public ones are often quite dirty | 我的意思是,我可以看到,我不认为 这是坏的,因为公共 经常很脏 |
| 499 | We had no idea they were like this until we were out with them in a group the first night having a great time | 我们不知道他们是这样的 直到我们和他们一起出去 第一次晚上玩得很开心 |
| 500 | When suddenly her friend says guys we need to go back to the hotel room confused | 突然她朋友说我们要回酒店房间 |
| 501 | We asked what was wrong like if somebody was sick or something and nobody said anything | 我们问,如果有人生病了什么的, 没有人说什么。 |
| 502 | We just followed along and a friend that was closer to us | 我们只是跟随 和朋友更接近我们 |
| 503 | Then the other friends whispered to us that one of the girls doesn't go to the restroom in public bathrooms and that she needed to pee | 然后其他朋友悄悄地对我们说 其中一个女孩 不去公共浴室的洗手间 她需要小便 |
| 504 | My husband and I were shocked because we are in a cab halfway back to the hotel just because one girl needed to pee | 我和我丈夫很震惊,因为我们在出租车里 半程回到酒店 只因为一个女孩需要小便 |
| 505 | I mean it was nice that everyone was kind and understanding about her situation | 我的意思是,这是很好的,每个人都是 善良和理解她的情况 |
| 506 | But I couldn't wrap my head around how everyone had to stop just so she could go back | 但我不能把头绕在 每个人必须停止 只是为了让她回去 |
| 507 | Yeah, I don't think everyone needs to stop | 是的,我不认为每个人都需要停下来 |
| 508 | I think if she needs to go back she can go back if she's feeling unsafe | 我想,如果她需要回去,她可以回去 如果她觉得不安全 |
| 509 | She could go back with someone and then come back and join the group again | 她可以和别人回去 然后再回来加入这个团体 |
| 510 | The whole group doesn't need to go we felt really bad about it | 整组人不用去,我们觉得很糟 |
| 511 | But my husband and I ended up going out on our own a lot on that trip | 但我和我丈夫在那次旅行中 经常单独出门 |
| 512 | Let me know what you guys thought about these reddit stories updates | 让我知道你们是怎么看待这些新闻的 |
| 513 | And if you want to see more like full stories with all the updates | 如果你想看到更多 完整的故事 与所有更新 |
| 514 | Let me know in the comments and make sure to subscribe like and i'll see you guys next video. | 让我在评论中知道,确保 订阅喜欢,我会看到你们 下一个视频。 |
| 515 | Bye. | 再见。 |
| 516 | Bye | 再见 |
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