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戳中无数女生的 TED:勇敢>完美,别被期待绑架!

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0:13So a few years ago, I did something really brave.几年前,我做了一件非常勇敢的事。
0:17Or some would say, really stupid.或者有些人会说,真的很愚蠢。
0:21I ran for Congress.我竞选国会议员
0:23For years, I had existed safely behind the scenes in politics,多年来,我一直安全地存在于政治幕后
0:27as a fundraiser, as an organizer,作为筹款者,作为组织者,
0:30but in my heart, I always wanted to run.但在我的心里,我总是想跑。
0:33The sitting congresswoman had been in my district since 1992,现任女议员自1992年以来就一直在我区工作,
0:38she had never lost a race,她从未输过比赛
0:40and no one had really even run against her in a Democratic primary.而且没有人真的 跑在她民主党初级。
0:44But in my mind, this was my way to make a difference,但在我的脑海中,这是我改变的方式,
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1So a few years ago, I did something really brave.几年前,我做了一件非常勇敢的事。
2Or some would say, really stupid.或者有些人会说,真的很愚蠢。
3I ran for Congress.我竞选国会议员
4For years, I had existed safely behind the scenes in politics,多年来,我一直安全地存在于政治幕后
5as a fundraiser, as an organizer,作为筹款者,作为组织者,
6but in my heart, I always wanted to run.但在我的心里,我总是想跑。
7The sitting congresswoman had been in my district since 1992,现任女议员自1992年以来就一直在我区工作,
8she had never lost a race,她从未输过比赛
9and no one had really even run against her in a Democratic primary.而且没有人真的 跑在她民主党初级。
10But in my mind, this was my way to make a difference,但在我的脑海中,这是我改变的方式,
11to disrupt the status quo.破坏现状
12The polls, however, told a very different story.然而,这些民意测验讲述了一个截然不同的故事。
13My pollsters told me that I was crazy to run,我的民调员告诉我 我疯了跑,
14that there was no way that I could win.我不可能赢
15But I ran anyway,但我还是跑了,
16and in 2012, I became an upstart在2012年,我成为了一个新的开始
17in a New York City congressional race.在纽约市国会的比赛中
18I swore I was going to win.我发誓我会赢的
19I had the endorsement from the New York Daily News,我得到了纽约每日新闻的支持,
20the Wall Street Journal snapped pictures of me on election day,华尔街日报在选举日拍到我的照片
21and CNBC called it one of the hottest races in the country.CNBC称它是全国最热门的种族之一.
22I raised money from everyone I knew,我从我认识的每个人那里筹到了钱
23including Indian aunties包括印度姨妈
24that were just so happy an Indian girl was running.很高兴有个印度女孩在跑步
25But on election day, the polls were right,但在选举日 民意调查是对的
26and I only got 19 percent of the vote.我只有19%的选票
27And the same papers that said I was a rising political star报纸上说我是政治明星
28now said I wasted $1.3 million现在说我浪费了130万
29on 6,321 votes.以6,321票的票数。
30Don't do the math.不要做数学。
31It was humiliating.这是羞辱。
32Now, before you get the wrong idea,在你误会之前
33this is not a talk about the importance of failure,这不是谈论失败的重要性,
34nor is it about leaning in.也不是关于倾斜的。
35I tell you the story of how I ran for Congress我告诉你我是如何竞选国会的
36because I was 33 years old,因为我当时33岁,
37and it was the first time in my entire life这是我一生中第一次
38that I had done something that was truly brave,我做了一些真正勇敢的事,
39where I didn't worry about being perfect.在那里我并不担心完美
40And I'm not alone.我也不是一个人
41So many women I talk to tell me这么多女人,我说话告诉我
42that they gravitate towards careers and professions他们为自己的事业而奋斗,
43that they know they're going to be great in,他们知道自己会很棒
44that they know they're going to be perfect in.他们知道自己会完美无缺
45And it's no wonder why.且道为甚么.
46Most girls are taught to avoid risk and failure.大多数女孩都学会避免风险和失败。
47They're taught to smile pretty, play it safe, get all A's.他们学会了微笑漂亮 安全地演奏 得到所有A
48Boys, on the other hand, are taught to play rough, swing high,而男孩们则被教导 玩粗鲁,挥舞高,
49crawl to the top of the monkey bars,爬到猴子栏杆的顶端
50and then just jump off headfirst.然后先跳下来
51And by the time they're adults,到他们成年的时候
52whether they're negotiating a raise or even asking someone out on a date,他们是否在谈判加薪,甚至约人约会,
53they're habituated to take risk after risk.他们习惯在冒险后冒险
54They're rewarded for it.他们为此得到奖励.
55It's often said in Silicon Valley,硅谷常有说法,
56no one even takes you seriously unless you've had two failed start-ups.没有人会认真对待你 除非你有两个失败的创业者
57In other words, we're raising our girls to be perfect,换句话说,我们把女儿养成完美
58and we're raising our boys to be brave.我们培养我们的孩子勇敢。
59Some people worry about our federal deficit,有些人担心我们的联邦赤字,
60but I worry about our bravery deficit.但我担心我们的勇敢不足。
61Our economy, our society, we're just losing out我们的经济,我们的社会,我们只是失去
62because we're not raising our girls to be brave.因为我们不会为了勇敢而抚养女儿
63The bravery deficit is why women are underrepresented in SEM,勇敢的不足是妇女在总统妇女事务秘书处任职人数不足的原因。
64in C suites, in boardrooms, in Congress and pretty much everywhere you look.在C套房 董事会 国会 以及你所看到的几乎所有地方
65In the 1980s, psychologist Carol Dweck1980年代,心理学家卡罗尔·德韦克
66looked at how bright fifth graders看着五年级的光辉
67handled an assignment that was too difficult for them.处理对他们来说太困难的任务。
68She found that bright girls were quick to give up.她发现聪明的女孩 很快放弃。
69The higher the IQ, the more likely they were to give up.智商越高,他们就越可能放弃.
70Bright boys, on the other hand,聪明的男孩, 另一方面,
71found the difficult material to be a challenge.发现困难的材料是一个挑战。
72They found it energizing.他们发现它令人兴奋
73They were more likely to redouble their efforts.它们更有可能加倍努力。
74What's going on?这是怎么回事?
75Well, at the fifth-grade level,嗯,在五年级,
76girls routinely outperform boys in every subject,女孩在每一学科的成绩都比男孩好,
77including math and science.包括数学和科学。
78So it's not a question of ability.所以这不是能力的问题。
79The difference is in how boys and girls approach a challenge.区别在于男孩和女孩如何应对挑战。
80And it doesn't just end in fifth grade.而且它不只是结束 在五年级。
81An HP report found that men will apply for a jobHP报告发现,男性将申请工作
82if they meet only 60 percent of the qualifications.如果他们只满足60%的资格。
83But women?但是女人吗?
84Women will apply only if they meet 100 percent of the qualifications.妇女只有达到100%的资历,才能申请。
85A hundred percent.百分百都一样
86This study is usually invoked as evidence that, well,这项研究通常被援引为证据:
87women need a little more confidence.女人需要一点信心。
88But I think it's evidence that women have been socialized但我认为有证据表明 女人已经社交
89to aspire to perfection,渴望完美,
90and they're overly cautious.他们太谨慎了
91And even when we're ambitious,即使我们野心勃勃
92even when we're leaning in,即使我们靠在一起
93that socialization of perfection has caused us to take less risks完美社会化导致我们承担的风险减少
94than our careers.比我们的事业。
95And so those 600,000 jobs that are open right now所以现在开放的60万份工作
96in computing and tech,在计算和技术,
97women are being left behind.妇女被抛在后面。
98And it means our economy is being left behind意味着我们的经济被抛在后面
99on all the innovation and problems women would solve所有创新和问题
100if they were socialized to be brave如果他们是社会化的勇敢
101instead of socialized to be perfect.而不是社会化的完美。
102So in 2012, I started a company to teach girls to code.因此在2012年,我创办了一家公司, 教女孩如何编码。
103And what I found is that by teaching them to code,我发现的是 通过教他们 密码,
104I had socialized them to be brave.我让他们学会勇敢
105Coding, it's an endless process of trial and error,编码,这是一个无休止的试验和错误过程,
106of trying to get the right command in the right place,试图在正确的地方获得正确的指挥,
107with sometimes just a semicolon有时只是分号
108making the difference between success and failure.将成功和失败区别开来。
109Code breaks, and then it falls apart,代码破解,然后它分解,
110and it often takes many, many tries经常需要很多,很多尝试
111till that magical moment直到那个神奇的时刻
112when what you're trying to build comes to life.当你试图建造的东西 来到生命。
113It requires perseverance.这需要坚持不懈。
114It requires imperfection.这需要完善。
115We immediately see in our program our girls' fear of not getting it right,我们马上在节目里看到 我们的姑娘们害怕不正确
116of not being perfect.没有完美。
117Every girls who code teacher tells me the same story.每个密码老师的女孩都跟我讲同样的故事
118During the first week when the girls are learning how to code,在女孩们学习密码的第一周,
119a student will call her over,一个学生会打电话给她,
120and she'll say,她会说,
121I don't know what code to write.我不知道该写什么代码
122The teacher will look at her screen,老师会看着她的屏幕
123and she'll see a blank text editor.她会看到一个空白的文本编辑器。
124If she didn't know any better,如果她没有更清楚,
125she'll think that her student spent the past 20 minutes她会认为她的学生 过去20分钟
126just staring at the screen.只是盯着屏幕看
127But if she presses undo a few times,但是,如果她压了几次,
128she'll see that her student wrote code她会看到她的学生写了密码
129and then deleted it.然后删除。
130She tried, she came close,她试过了,她走近了,
131but she didn't get it exactly right.但她没有完全正确
132Instead of showing the progress that she made,而不是展示她取得的进步,
133she'd rather show nothing at all.她宁愿一无所获
134Perfection or bust.完美或失败。
135It turns out that our girls are really good at coding.原来我们的姑娘们很擅长编码
136But it's not enough just to teach them to code.但是仅仅教他们密码是不够的.
137My friend Lev Brie, who's a professor at the University of Columbia我的朋友Lev Brie 他是哥伦比亚大学的教授
138and teaches intro to Java,并教爪哇的介绍,
139tells me about his office hours with computer science students.告诉我他和计算机科学学生的办公时间
140When the guys are struggling with an assignment,当他们忙着任务时
141they'll come in and they'll say,他们会进来说
142Professor, there's something wrong with my code.教授,我的密码有问题
143The girls will come in and say,女孩们会进来说
144Professor, there's something wrong with me.教授,我有问题
145We have to begin to undo the socialization of perfection,我们必须开始取消完美社会化
146but we've got to combine it with building a sisterhood但是我们必须把它和建立姐妹关系结合起来
147that lets girls know that they are not alone.让女孩知道她们不是孤独的
148Because trying harder is not going to fix a broken system.因为更加努力是无法修复一个破碎的系统。
149I can't tell you how many women tell me I'm afraid to raise my hand.我不能告诉你有多少女人说我不敢举手
150I'm afraid to ask a question,我不敢问一个问题
151because I don't want to be the only one who doesn't understand,因为我不想成为唯一不明白的人
152the only one who's struggling.只有一个人在挣扎
153When we teach girls to be brave当我们教女孩勇敢
154and we have a supportive network cheering them on,我们有一个支持的网络 给他们欢呼,
155they will build incredible things.他们会造出不可思议的东西
156And I see this every day.我每天都看到这个
157Take, for instance, two of our high school students举个例子,我们两个高中生
158who built a game called Tampon Run.他创造了一个叫Tampon Run的游戏。
159Yes, Tampon Run.是的,谭邦跑。
160To fight against the menstruation taboo and sexism in gaming.在游戏中与月经禁忌和性别歧视作斗争.
161Or the Syrian refugee who dares show her love for her new country或叙利亚难民 敢于对新国家表示爱意
162by building an app to help Americans get to the polls.帮助美国人进入民调
163Or a 16-year-old girl who built an algorithm或者一个16岁的女孩 造了一个算法
164to help detect whether a cancer is benign or malignant帮助检测癌症是良性还是恶性
165in the off chance that she can save her daddy's life在她能救她爸爸的性命的绝缘机会中
166because he has cancer.因为他有癌症。
167These are just three examples of thousands,这些只是几千个例子
168thousands of girls who've been socialized to be imperfect,成千上万个女孩被社会化 认为不完美,
169who've learned to keep trying, who've learned perseverance.谁学会了继续尝试, 谁学会了坚持不懈。
170And whether they become coders以及他们是否成为编码者
171or the next Hillary Clinton or Beyonce,或者下一个希拉里・克林顿 或者碧昂斯
172they will not defer their dreams.他们不会推迟他们的梦想。
173And those dreams have never been more important for our country,这些梦想对我们国家来说 从未如此重要过
174for the American economy,对于美国经济,
175for any economy to grow, to truly innovate.任何经济都能增长 真正创新
176We cannot leave behind half our population.我们不能丢下我们一半的人口。
177We have to socialize our girls to be comfortable with imperfection,我们必须让女孩们适应不完美
178and we've got to do it now.我们必须现在就做。
179We cannot wait for them to learn how to be brave like I did我们不能等待他们学会如何像我一样勇敢
180when I was 33 years old.我33岁的时候
181We have to teach them to be brave in schools我们必须教他们在学校勇敢
182and early in their careers在职业生涯的初期
183when it has the most potential to impact their lives当它最有可能 影响他们的生活
184and the lives of others.和别人的生活。
185And we have to show them that they will be loved and accepted,我们必须向他们表明,他们将受到爱戴和接受,
186not for being perfect,不是因为完美
187but for being courageous.但因为勇敢。
188And so I need each of you to tell every young woman you know,所以我需要你们每一个人 告诉每一个你认识的年轻女人
189your sister, your niece, your employee, your colleague,你的妹妹,你的侄女,你的员工,你的同事,
190to be comfortable with imperfection.对不完美感到舒服
191Because when we teach girls to be imperfect因为当我们教女孩不完美
192and we help them leverage it,我们帮助他们利用它,
193we will build a movement of young women who are brave我们将建立一个运动 年轻女性谁是勇敢的
194and who will build a better world for themselves将为自己建立一个更美好的世界,
195and for each and every one of us.并为我们每个人
196Thank you.谢谢
197Richard, thank you.理查德,谢谢你。
198It's such a powerful vision you have.这是你如此强大的视觉。
199You have a vision.你有远见
200Um ...那个...
201Tell me how it's going.说甚么.
202How many girls are involved now in your program?现在有多少女孩参与你的节目?
203So in 2012, we taught 20 girls.因此在2012年,我们教了20个女孩。
204This year, we'll teach 40,000 in all 50 states.本年,授全五十州四万户.
205And that number is really powerful,而那个数字真的很强大,
206because last year, we only graduated 7,500 women in computer science.因为去年我们只毕业了7500名女性 在计算机科学。
207Like, the problem is so bad像,问题是如此糟糕
208that we can make that type of change quickly.我们能迅速做出这种改变。
209And you're working with some of the companies in this room, even, right,你和这房间里的一些公司一起工作,甚至,对的,
210who are welcoming graduates from your program?谁会欢迎你的毕业生?
211Yeah, we have about 80 partners,是的,我们有大约80个合作伙伴,
212从Twitter到Facebook到Adobe到IBM到微软到皮克斯到迪士尼.
213I mean, every single company out there.我的意思是,每一个公司 在那里。
214And if you're not signed up, I'm going to find you.如果你不报名 我会找到你的
215Because we need every single tech company因为我们需要每一个技术公司
216to embed a girls-who-code classroom in their office.在办公室里安插一个女孩 谁的密码教室
217And you have some stories back from some of those companies你有一些故事 从一些公司回来
218that when you mix in more gender balance in their engineering teams,当你在他们的工程团队中 混合了更多的性别平衡,
219that good things happen?好事发生?
220Great things happen.伟大的事情发生了。
221I mean, I think that it's crazy to me to think about the fact我的意思是,我认为这是疯狂的 对我来说,想想事实
222that right now, 85 percent of all consumer purchases are made by women.而现在,85%的消费者 是由女性购买的。
223I mean, women use social media at a rate of 600 percent more than men.女性使用社交媒体的比例比男性高600%。
224We own the internet.我们拥有互联网。
225And we should be building the companies of tomorrow.我们明天应该建公司
226And I think when companies have diverse teams,我想当公司有不同的团队,
227and they have incredible women that are part of their engineering teams,他们有不可思议的妇女,属于他们的工程队。
228they build awesome things, and we see it every day.他们制造了很棒的东西, 我们每天都看到它。
229Rashmi, you saw the reaction there.拉什米,你看见那里的反应了
230You're doing incredibly important work.你做着非常重要的工作
231This whole community is cheering you on.整个社区都在为你欢呼
232I'll polish you.我帮你擦擦
233Thank you.谢谢
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