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0:00What are you doing if in five years from now I bring home,如果五年后我带回家,你在做什么?
0:02he's a deadbeat, he has a tattoo on his face like Mike Tyson.他像迈克·泰森一样 脸上有纹身
0:05Yeah.对
0:06This guy.这个家伙
0:07What kind of car do you think I should get?你觉得我应该买什么样的车?
0:08Because I want something that is like a nice car.因为我想要一辆好车
0:10I can buy her anything, by the way.顺便说一句,我可以给她买任何东西。
0:13This is a great feeling.这是一个伟大的感觉。
0:14Am I going to inherit that beautiful green watch?我要继承那美丽的绿色手表吗?
0:18You don't even know what this is.你甚至不知道这是什么。
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1What are you doing if in five years from now I bring home,如果五年后我带回家,你在做什么?
2he's a deadbeat, he has a tattoo on his face like Mike Tyson.他像迈克·泰森一样 脸上有纹身
3Yeah.对
4This guy.这个家伙
5What kind of car do you think I should get?你觉得我应该买什么样的车?
6Because I want something that is like a nice car.因为我想要一辆好车
7I can buy her anything, by the way.顺便说一句,我可以给她买任何东西。
8This is a great feeling.这是一个伟大的感觉。
9Am I going to inherit that beautiful green watch?我要继承那美丽的绿色手表吗?
10You don't even know what this is.你甚至不知道这是什么。
11What are they going to do, take me to jail?他们要怎么办,把我关进监狱?
12By the way, what's our plan if we get busted?顺便说一句 如果我们被抓了 我们有什么计划?
13Okay, I need to train to be able to drive a car好吧,我需要训练才能开车
14just in case anything ever happens to my dad.以防我父亲出事
15He's old.师老曰.
16And I need to be able to know how to drive我需要知道如何开车
17so that I can take somebody to the hospital.这样我就可以送人去医院了
18Ladies and gentlemen, Ms. Sabrina Cardone.女士们,先生们,莎宾娜·卡多内女士
19And welcome to my very first podcast.欢迎来到我的第一个播客。
20You know, I think open communication within families你知道,我认为开放的沟通 在家庭内部
21and, you know, it's parents,你知道,这是父母,
22I think that's a really important thing about relationships.我觉得这很重要
23Now on that topic, how do you think young people should dress?关于这个话题,你觉得年轻人该怎么打扮?
24Hello, everyone, and welcome to my very first podcast.大家好,欢迎光临我的第一个播客
25Our first guest here today is Mr. Cardone himself,今天的第一位嘉宾是卡多尼先生本人
26the man, the myth, the legend, my father.那个男人 神话 传说 我父亲
27He's done so much in the world in so many different respects.他在世界上做了很多不同的方面。
28And we're going to be getting his opinion我们将会得到他的意见
29on a lot of different subjects.许多不同的课题。
30Mr. Cardone, are you excited?卡多尼先生,你兴奋吗?
31I am excited.我很兴奋。
32And it's very cool that you chose me as your first guest, by the way.顺便说一句,你选择我做你的第一位客人,这很酷。
33Very smart of you.你很聪明
34Thank you.谢谢
35I think that that's a good one.我觉得这个不错
36I got a whole list of guys that I know you can interview.我有一大堆男人名单 我知道你可以采访
37So I'm going to give you access to a whole bunch of guys.所以我要给你机会接触一群人
38It's going to be an easy call for me to make some hitters.这会是一个容易的呼叫 我做一些击球手。
39And then you're going to be able to ask them some great questions.然后你就能问他们几个大问题了
40We'll get it done.我们会搞定的
41We're going to find some really cool people.我们会找到一些很酷的人。
42Yeah.对
43So stay tuned.所以继续听
44Now, we haven't talked about anything that you're going to ask me about today.我们还没谈你今天要问我的事呢
45Not even a little bit.甚至没有一点点。
46Are you going to go deep?你要深入吗?
47I'm going to go as deep as I can go.将欲深入如是.
48OK.摆
49So I'm going to be asking you some questions about a few different subjects.所以我要问你几个不同的题目
50OK.摆
51I want to start about the meeting we were at yesterday.我想从昨天的会议开始
52Do you remember that meeting?你还记得那次会议吗?
53Yes, of course.当然
54It was very boring, very dull.非常无聊 非常无聊
55It was.没错
56How do you sit through those very dull, very boring meetings?你怎么坐在那些非常无聊的会议上?
57I've been through thousands of them.历经千载.
58Like I knew the second I sat down after about the first three or four minutes.碞钩и笵 材或だ牧材ΩГㄓ
59Let's not mention any names.别提名字了
60No names.无名.
61I'm like, this is not going to go anywhere.我很喜欢,这是不会去任何地方。
62Nothing's going to happen.无事无事.
63Me and him aren't going to do this, but I have to live through it.我和他不会这么做 但我必须活下来
64OK.摆
65So I had the guy to my right, the guy to your left.所以我把那个人放在我右边 那个在你左边的家伙
66You've sat in a lot of these meetings with me.你一直在和我开会
67Usually they're not this boring.通常他们不无聊。
68I know because the other guy was dead.我知道是因为另一个人死了
69And we're not going to do anything together.我们不会一起做任何事
70I don't know.师曰.
71Maybe it could turn into something.也许它会变成什么
72So I'm just sitting there the whole time thinking, OK, just hang on, dude.所以我一直坐在那里想,好吧,坚持住,伙计。
73It's going to be 30 or 40 minutes.时间为三四十分钟.
74Maybe something comes out of it.也许有东西从它。
75And I'm just telling myself that over and over.我只是不停地告诉自己
76But you know how I am.但你知道我怎样
77Yeah.对
78I have very low attention span for things that aren't going to go any place.我对不会去任何地方的事情 关注度很低
79Yeah.对
80So that was a struggle for me.所以,那是我挣扎。
81Like just hanging in there.就像只是挂在那里一样。
82And it went on too long, too.时间也太长了
83It was almost two hours.差不多两个小时了
84Yeah, it was cold.是啊,这是冷的。
85It was freezing.冻死了
86It was breezy outside.外面很乱
87The food was terrible.食物是可怕的。
88And the food was pretty good.食物还不错
89The service was terrible.服务是可怕的。
90It was slow.慢着呢
91It was so, so slow.它是如此,如此缓慢。
92Oh, my God.须菩提.
93So anyway, most of the time I'm pulling my hair out without pulling my hair out.所以,不管怎样,大多数时候,我拔掉我的头发 而不拔掉我的头发。
94Yeah.对
95That's how I do it.这就是我怎么做的。
96You're just sitting through it, trying to get through.你只是坐过它,试图通过。
97Trying to get through it.试图通过它。
98Because I don't know if I could do thousands of those.因为我不知道我能不能做上千件那些
99You will do thousands.你会做几千。
100Oh, man.哦,伙计。
101You will do thousands.你会做几千。
102Oh, I don't know.哦,我不知道,我还不知道
103Yeah.对
104The difference for you is going to be people are already,你们的区别 已经是人了
105they're going to take you much more seriously than they took me when I was getting started.他们会更认真对待你 比起我刚开始的时候 他们会更认真对待我
106That is actually something I'm worried about.这其实是我担心的事
107And another question I wanted to ask you, should I go to college?还有另一个问题我想问你,我该上大学吗?
108Because I feel like it would make me more able to take serious.因为我觉得这样会让我更认真
109People would be more able to take me seriously if I went to college.如果我上大学 人们会更能认真对待我
110I don't think anybody's going to take you more seriously because you went to college.我认为没有人会更认真对待你 因为你上过大学
111I think people are going to take you serious because you're a serious person.我认为人们会认真对待你 因为你是一个严肃的人。
112So if you have something to offer, if you can stay present in the meeting,所以,如果你有什么可以提供, 如果你可以留在会议,
113if you can ask good questions,如果你能问好问题
114you don't even need to know anything.你甚至不需要知道任何东西。
115If you can ask good questions of them,如果你能问好他们的问题
116like yesterday, you could have got more involved with him.和昨天一样,你本可以多和他扯上关系
117You could have been like, hey, well, tell me what you do.你本可以像,嘿,嗯,告诉我你在做什么。
118Oh, really?是吗?
119What is that?这是什么?
120All you got to do is ask a couple of those questions to engage that guy.你要做的就是问几个问题 让那家伙参与进来
121I don't know if that would have worked with him.我不知道这会不会对他有用
122But he was very, very conservative, very conservative, slow.但他非常,非常保守,非常保守,缓慢.
123Yeah, just hard to make conversation to.是啊,只是很难让谈话。
124Yeah, but that's what you got to figure.是的,但这就是你要想的。
125If you can do those things, nobody cares where you went to college.如果你能做那些事 没人在乎你在哪里上过大学
126Now, if you're going to go to Harvard or Yale and meet Bill Ackman's kids,现在,如果你要去哈佛或耶鲁 和比尔阿克曼的孩子见面,
127you're going to meet Steve Schwartzman's grandkids or Larry Fink's,你要去见史蒂夫・施瓦兹曼的孙子们 或者拉里・芬克
128like if you're going to connect, I mean, that is the value of doing that.就像你要去连接, 我的意思是,这就是这样做的价值。
129But you can you can hijack all that.但你可以劫持这一切。
130Yeah, I mean, I think I could connect with people not going to college.是的,我的意思是,我想我可以连接 与人们没有上大学。
131You don't need to.你不需要这样
132But you're going to you're going to go in there and say, hey, I run I run this company.但你会去那里 说,嘿,我经营这家公司。
133Yeah.对
134If you run this company, you have access.如果你经营这个公司,你就可以进入。
135It is it is what is it called?这就是它叫什么?
136Not entitlement.不是权利。
137What's the other word?另一个词是什么?
138It's not entitlement.这不是权利。
139We have privilege.我们有特权。
140Do you are to drop into the privilege, bro.你会放弃特权吗,兄弟?
141Privilege University.枢密院大学.
142妈的,你来自Privilege大学。
143You should tap into it, but not act like a privileged.你应该去调查,但别像个特权者
144Not act like conceited and full of myself.不是装作自以为是 充满了自我
145Just come in this company and do something.进来公司做点什么
146Yeah.对
147Move the bar.移动吧。
148I agree.и種
149That is my goal.这就是我的目标。
150By the way, let me just say out of that meeting, that boring meeting yesterday.顺便说一句,让我从昨天那场无聊的会议中说几句。
151Read this.看看这个
152This just came in because you know who this is.这是因为你知道这是谁
153And you heard me make this phone call on the way home.你听到我在回家的路上打这个电话
154So nothing didn't come out of that meeting.所以会议没有出什么事
155Nothing didn't come out of that meeting because on the way home from that meeting,那次会面没有出什么事 因为那次会面回来的路上
156I called this guy because that was a dinner, a lunch you were at.我给这家伙打电话是因为那是晚餐,你吃的午餐
157Yeah.对
158And said, hey, man, how can I expedite this lunch was interesting.我说,嘿,伙计,我怎么能加快这个午餐是有趣的。
159Yeah, this was a very interesting lunch.是啊,这是一个非常有趣的午餐。
160But here he's saying, hey, I got 2000 units.但这里他说,嘿, 我有2000个单位。
161Yeah.对
162I mean, that's pretty awesome because one of my goals, as I'm sure you know,我的意思是,这是相当真棒 因为我的目标之一,我相信你知道,
163to run Cardinal Capital up to a hundred billion dollars of assets under management.管理着1000亿美元的资产
164Do you think that's you think that's viable?你觉得这样可行吗?
165Like, do you think that's a good plan?你觉得这是个好计划吗?
166And how do you think I would?你觉得我会怎么做?
167Can you grab my notepad for my office?你能帮我拿下我的笔记纸吗?
168There's one right there.那边有个
169Do you need?你需要吗?
170No, no, it's the one I was writing on this morning.不 不 是我今早写的
171It'll say that that she just said.它会说,她刚刚说。
172How would you how would one go about trying to do that?你会如何去 一个人试图做到这一点?
173OK, how would you go about?好吧,你会怎么做?
174How would I?我怎么会?
175Yeah.对
176How would I go about?我该怎么办?
177So we're at four.故四时.
178We're at four now.现在四点了
179The first thing I would do is I would start writing down the morning.我要做的第一件事是 我早上开始写下来。
180I'm taking Cardinal Capital to a hundred billion dollars.我带红衣主教资本 达到1000亿美元。
181Twenty five X what it is today because now it's like like you're like,25X,今天是什么 因为现在你就像,
182wait a minute, he's already done four of it.等一等,他已经做了四个了
183Five of it.其五 师曰.
184Yeah.对
185And getting started is really the hard part.开始真的很难。
186It's it's it's the worst part.谓其最恶.
187For sure.当然
188Now I got to do that.现在我必须这样做。
189All I have to do is what he did 20 more times.我要做的就是再做20次
190Yeah.对
191OK, and then you start doing the math on it, Sabrina.好吧,然后你开始做数学 在上面,莎宾娜。
192You just start doing the math and saying, hey, he did this this many times.你刚刚开始做数学,说,嘿, 他这样做很多次。
193What worked?什么奏效了?
194What didn't work?什么没用的?
195What didn't work is probably as important as what did work.没有成功的东西可能和没有成功的东西一样重要.
196Yeah, because now you know what not to do.是啊,因为现在你知道 该怎么做。
197And then you build a team that they can they can take you there, man.然后你建立一个团队 他们可以带你去那里,伙计。
198You can do it 100 percent.百分百能办到
199I have complete confidence.我有完全的信心。
200I think if I do that in my lifetime, I'll feel fulfilled.我认为如果我在一生中这样做,我会感到满足.
201Sabrina, if you did that, nobody will ever ask you where you went to school.莎宾娜,如果你这样做, 没有人会问 你在哪里上学。
202I hope not.希望不会
203By the way, they won't even remember me.顺便说一句 他们甚至不记得我了
204They're going to remember you他们会记得你的
205because you're going to do something I didn't do.因为你会做一些我没有做的事
206They're going to say I gave you a start他们要说我给了你一个开始
207and people are going to hold that against you forever.并且人们会永远地对你持这种态度
208但你确实做了 But you did.
209Of course.当然
210You did give me a start.你确实给了我一个开始。
211Yeah.对
212Why not?为什么不呢?
213Yeah.对
214Why not?为什么不呢?
215Why not run with that?为何不带着它跑?
216Exactly.没错
217And if you did that, if you took Cardone Capital如果你这样做,如果你拿了卡多内资本
218to 100 billion of assets under management,管理的资产达到1000亿
219what's the first thing that says on that?上面的第一句话是什么?
220Yeah.对
221Read that.读一下
222I wrote that this morning.我今早写的
223Goals, 100 billion dollars assets under management.目标,管理资产1000亿美元.
224We're really aligned on this thinking.我们真的同意这种想法。
225We're really aligned.我们真的很团结
226You wrote that just this morning?你今早写的?
227I wrote that two hours ago.我两个小时前写的
228Wow.珃
229And that would give us 333 thousand units.那会给我们33万3千个单位
230That's not impossible.这并非不可能。
231Nobody's ever done that.没有人这样做过。
232Still not impossible.还是不可能
233Not one group.没有一组
234One group has never done that.一个团体从来没有这样做过。
235We would be the largest apartment owner in the world.我们会是世界上最大的公寓老板
236We could do that.我们可以做到这一点。
237You did that.你这样做。
238I wouldn't.我不会的
239I didn't do that.我没有那么做
240It'll still be we though.但还是我们
241Okay.摆
242And I think it should always be like that.我认为应该总是这样
243I like that.我喜欢
244I like it too.我也喜欢
245So some more questions I have for you about real estate.我还有关于房地产的问题要问你
246When people sometimes will talk to me about real estate,当人们有时会跟我谈论房地产
247sometimes I'll hear them mention houses.有时我会听到他们提到房子
248I'll hear them mention retail.我会听到他们提到零售。
249And that's all real estate,这些都是房地产,
250but that's not what I think in my mind但这不是我想的那样
251when somebody says real estate.当有人说房地产。
252What would you classify as real estate in your mind?你脑子里会把什么归为房地产?
253Well, I would classify a house,好吧,我会分类一个房子,
254the Aventura Mall,阿文图拉商场,
255a hotel,一个酒店,
256the airport,机场,
257the private airport,私人机场,
258the Amazon,亚马逊河
259distribution center.分发中心。
260That's real estate.那是房地产
261The house we live in is real estate.我们住的房子是房地产。
262This office building is real estate.这栋办公楼是房地产
263That office building right there is real estate.那边的办公楼是房地产
264The apartment buildings across the street,街对面的公寓大楼
265that's all real estate.这些都是房地产。
266But the kind of real estate we're buying但我们要买的房地产
267is real estate that,这是房地产,
268unlike our house,不像我们的房子
269provides us with money,给我们钱
270income.收入。
271And so that's the kind of real estate I'm talking about.所以这就是我所说的那种房地产。
272But that being said-这么说...
273So the Aventura Mall would do that.所以阿文图拉商场会这么做
274Yeah, that's 100%.是啊,这是100%。
275The diplomat hotel that we tried to buy.我们想买的外交官酒店
276That's real estate, right?那是房地产,对吧?
277But you don't have to stay confined to what I did either, by the way.顺便说一句,你也不必被我所做的事所束缚
278You could end up a medical office,你可能会变成医务室
279like where we go get that PT,就像我们在哪里得到的PT,
280the physical therapy treatment.物理治疗
281That's a medical office piece of real estate.那是医疗办公室的不动产
282The trailer pads that our friend Jordan Zimmerman owns.我们的朋友乔丹·齐默曼拥有的拖车垫
283Yeah.对
284That's a lot of real estate.那可是很多房地产
285And pretty awesome real estate too.还有相当棒的房地产
286Yeah, and so you could expand,是啊,这样你就可以扩张,
287because you probably have to.因为你可能不得不这样做。
288I don't think you can do 333,000 units.我不认为你能做333,000个单位。
289Of apartments?公寓吗?
290Yeah.对
291I think it's going to be too big.我觉得会太大的
292Like we're never going to be able to get that many.就像我们永远也得不到这么多
293Maybe you can.也许你可以。
294But you're probably going to have to expand但你可能要扩张
295into some other real estate opportunities.进入其他一些房地产机会。
296Other different kinds of-其他种类的...
297So what would be the perfect asset to buy in your mind?那么,什么是完美的资产 在你的脑海里买?
298The perfect asset for who?谁的完美资产?
299For you.给你的
300Or for me.或为我.
301Well, yeah.对
302Well, yeah, but why for you?嗯,是的,但为什么对你?
303What are you trying to accomplish?你想达到什么目的?
304Make a lot of money and go on that goal of trying to-赚大钱 继续追求...
305The perfect asset for you right now is you're 15 years old.你现在的完美资产是 你已经15岁了
306Almost 15.差不多15岁了
307You're going to be getting a driver's license soon.你很快就会拿到驾照了
308You don't need money right now.你现在不需要钱
309You need income.你需要收入。
310Yeah.对
311So you need to invest in something.所以,你需要投资的东西。
312You need to take your money like you're doing right now你要像现在一样拿钱
313and invest it in something that pays you cash flow投资给你现金流
314without you ever touching the capital.你永远不要碰首都。
315So if this is your capital, you explained this before.所以,如果这是你的首都, 你解释过这一点。
316If this is the capital, you take your salary, dump it into this,如果这是首都,你拿你的薪水,把它扔到这里,
317and then it pays you a couple hundred bucks a month.然后每月给你几百块
318Use the 200, but never touch this.使用200,但永远不要碰这个。
319Every 15-year-old kid should be doing this right now.每个15岁的孩子应该现在就这样做。
320Yeah.对
321If you're getting an allowance of 300 bucks a month如果你每月得到300块的津贴
322or whatever you're getting, take it.随便你拿什么,拿去
323Buy a piece of real estate that pays you 30 bucks a month.买块地产 每月付你30美元
324Only use the 30, don't touch the 300.只用三十只,莫动三百只.
325How would a young, normal person get money?年轻正常人怎么赚钱?
326Allowance, side job, side hustles.零用钱,帮手,帮手
327I was 14 years old.我当时才14岁
328I was working every weekend.我每个周末都在工作
329I was mowing lawns, doing whatever I could to get some extra money我在割草坪 尽我所能赚点钱
330so I could go buy cigarettes.所以我可以去买香烟。
331Oh, wow.哦,哇呜。
332Okay.摆
333Well, let's not promote that.好吧,让我们不要宣传这一点。
334Actually, I didn't buy the cigarettes.其实我没买烟
335Let me be honest.让我说实话。
336I stole the cigarettes from my mother and I kept the money from the work.我从我母亲那偷香烟,把工作的钱留了下来
337Because my mother was a smoker, so I'd steal her cigarettes因为我妈妈是烟鬼 所以我会偷她的烟
338because I wanted to be an adult.因为我想成为成年人。
339So what did you do with that money?你拿钱做什么了?
340Well, I didn't have anything to invest in.我没什么可投资的
341You just bought something.你刚买了点东西
342What kind of stuff did you buy?你买了什么?
343I just saved money.我只是省了点钱
344I've been saving money since I was a kid.我从小就存钱.
345Oh, really?是吗?
346Yeah, just stashing it away.是啊,只是把它藏起来。
347Where did you learn that from?你从哪学来的?
348I don't know where I learned that from.我不知道我从哪里学的
349Probably my parents.也许是我的父母。
350They were very conservative.他们非常保守。
351I wish you'd have met my mom and dad.我希望你见过我爸妈
352Yeah, I really wish I would have too.是啊,我真的希望我也一样。
353They would have loved you.他们会爱你的
354Oh, really?是吗?
355Oh, my God.须菩提.
356My dad, dude, he would stop.我的爸爸,伙计,他会停止。
357I mean, he would be so in love with you.我的意思是,他会 如此爱你。
358It'd be unbelievable.简直难以置信
359Oh, that's awesome.哦,这是真棒。
360Oh, my God.须菩提.
361He would be like, I'd never get a minute with you.他会喜欢, 我永远不会得到一分钟和你在一起。
362Oh, seriously?哦,真的吗?
363My mom would have been a...我妈妈会是一个...
364You and my mom would have got along great.你和我妈妈会相处得很好
365What a shame.真遗憾
366I wish I could have met them.真希望我能遇见他们
367Well, mom died five days after you were born.妈妈在你出生五天后就死了
368So I did kind of meet her.所以我见过她
369She saw you on video, but she wasn't in a great place at that time.她看到你在视频上, 但她当时不在 一个好地方。
370But when my mom was passing on, you were coming in.但当我妈妈去世的时候,你会进来的
371So that's kind of a crazy...所以这有点疯狂...
372It's a cycle of life.生灭轮回.
373Yeah, it is a cycle of life.是啊,这是一个循环的生活。
374Why do you say that?你为什么这么说?
375People are born, and then they grow, and then they grow old,人生而后长,后老而后老.
376and then they die, and then people are born again.然后他们死了,然后人们又诞生了。
377So it's a cycle of life.故曰循环生.
378Because cycles, they repeat themselves.因为循环,他们重复自己。
379I'm just the beginning of the cycle.我只是循环的开始
380She was at the end.程
381Yeah, that's awesome, man.是啊,这是真棒,男人。
382Okay, so on the topic of saving money, is it good or bad?好吧,所以关于储蓄话题, 是好还是坏?
383Because I've heard from so many different sources.因为我从很多不同的来源得到消息
384It's good, it's bad.善,恶也.
385When is it good?什么时候好?
386When is it bad?什么时候不好?
387Just having money sit around.只是有钱坐在这里。
388This is good that you're curious about all these things.这是很好的,你好奇 所有这些事情。
389This is going to be a good podcast for you.这将是一个很好的播客给你。
390People are going to be interested in this.人们会对此感兴趣。
391Sabrina's Corner.莎宾娜的角落。
392What should we name it?我们该怎么称呼它?
393Let us know.让我们知道。
394We don't quite know what we're going to name it yet,我们还不知道该怎么称呼它
395but it's the new podcast for now.但它是新的播客 现在。
396Yeah, look, people should not just save money to save money,是啊,听着,人们不应该为了省钱而省钱
397because money is useless sitting there.因为坐在那里的钱是没用的
398And it's always depreciating.而常堕落.
399It's going down in value, right?它的价值下降,对不对?
400I mean, it's not really going down in value.我的意思是,它并没有真正下降的价值。
401It just buys less.它只是买少。
402It buys less, is a better explanation.它买的更少,是一个更好的解释。
403A dollar is still worth a dollar, but...一美元还值一美元,但...
404A dollar is still a dollar.一美元还是一美元。
405A dollar used to buy an ice cream.一美元买冰淇淋
406Now it's three dollars.现在三元.
407Yeah, exactly.没错
408So, you know, when I was a kid your age,所以,你知道,当我还是个孩子 你的年龄,
409I'd buy a piece of bubble gum.我会买一块泡泡糖
410I swear to you, it was that big around.我发誓,它有那么大。
411One piece.一块
412Wow.珃
413And it cost maybe two cents.可能要两美分
414Wow.珃
415So I could go to the store for 25 cents.所以我可以去店里买25美分
416I could get a bag that would last me.我可以得到一个包 将我持续。
417It would literally wear out my jaws.它真的会磨损我的下巴。
418Oh my gosh.天呐
419Today, I mean, first of all, they made them a lot smaller.今天,我的意思是,首先, 他们让他们小得多。
420Yeah.对
421And they're probably 25 cents.他们大概是25美分。
422Yeah, per little bubble gum.是啊,每个小泡泡口香糖。
423But I'm still using the same dollar.但我还是用同样的美元。
424Yeah.对
425So if I had just saved that money,所以,如果我刚刚存的钱,
426if I saved a hundred dollars when I was your age,如果我在你这个年纪就省了一百块
427today it would still say a hundred,今天它仍然会说一百,
428but it's only worth four pennies.但它只值四便士。
429Probably not quite that drastic.可能没那么激烈
430No, it is.不,这是。
431It would be exactly that.没错
432Really?真的吗?
433Yeah.对
434Wow.珃
435It would only buy four dollars, four pennies of services.它只买4美元,4便士的服务。
436Wow.珃
437Yeah.对
438So saving that hundred, I'm deceived because I'm like,所以,节省100,我被欺骗 因为我喜欢,
439I still have a hundred.我还有一百块
440But it's not quite really a hundred anymore.但它已经不是一百个了
441Exactly.没错
442So that's why I say people shouldn't save money.所以我说人们不应该省钱
443Now, that doesn't mean you should spend it.现在,这并不意味着你应该花它。
444It means you should take it and put it into something意思是,你应该把它放进去
445that would have gone,本来会去的,
446that would have had the reverse effect over those periods of years.这会在这些年中产生相反的效果。
447Like real estate or?像房地产还是?
448Yeah, real estate, a business.是啊,房地产,一个企业。
449A business.一个生意。
450Investing in your marketing, branding, a YouTube channel,投资你的营销,品牌,一个YouTube频道,
451anything that would create more income.任何能创造更多收入的东西
452I guess clothes if you need to look professional.如果你需要穿专业的衣服的话
453Yeah.对
454I mean, you need clothes.我是说,你需要衣服。
455So you do need to buy clothes.所以你确实需要买衣服。
456Yeah.对
457Yeah, you have good taste in clothes.是啊,你对衣服的品味不错。
458Thank you.谢谢
459Thank you very much.谢谢
460Yeah.对
461What look are you going for?你长什么样?
462Right today, I was kind of in a rush.今天我有点匆忙
463So I just put on these pants and this little shirt所以我穿上裤子和这件小衬衫
464and it's just kind of like, you know, business casual.这就像,你知道的, 生意随意。
465Yeah.对
466That's the look.就是这样
467Yeah.对
468You know what?你知道吗?
469Now, on that topic, how do you think young people should dress?现在,关于这个话题,你觉得年轻人应该怎样打扮?
470Young boys or girls?年轻男孩还是女孩?
471Both.两个都一样
472Well, you know, we were going through them all the other day.嗯,你知道,我们过去一整天都经过。
473Yeah.对
474And you know, you want to tell them what I said?你想告诉他们我说的话吗?
475Well, you know, we're passing these like young girls嗯,你知道,我们通过这些 像年轻女孩
476who are like showing their midriffs and short shorts他们像显示 他们的中短裤
477and all that kind of stuff.和所有这些东西。
478And I don't know.则不知.
479Like, I don't really remember what you said.我不记得你说过什么
480Yeah.对
481There was five kids coming this way and two of them are barely, barely dressed.有五个孩子从这里过来 有两个孩子几乎没穿衣服
482And I'm like, okay, guys, I'm 66 years old, married with two kids.我像,好了,伙计们, 我66岁,已婚 有两个孩子。
483Five kids are walking this way.五个孩子走这边
484They're about your age.他们跟你差不多大
485And I'm like, look at that.我很喜欢,看那个。
486Okay.摆
487There's no way a grown man or a woman, anybody is going to look at that大人或女人都看不出来
488and not put all their attention on these two kids that are, you know, barely dressed.而不是把全部的注意力放在 这两个孩子,你知道, 几乎没有穿衣服。
489And it's a bad, it's not that they're bad kids.和它是一个坏,不是说他们是坏的孩子。
490It's that they're pushing out this wrong vibe.是因为他们推出了这种错误的氛围.
491Yeah.对
492And I'm not a weirdo, but trust me, in that mall.我不是个怪人,但相信我,在商场。
493There is probably a weirdo.可能有个怪人
494Thousands and thousands of people in that mall, men and women that are weirdos.成千上万的人在商场里, 男人和女人都是怪人。
495Yeah.对
496There's 20 weirdos in the mall at any given, on any given day.商场里有20个怪人 在任何特定的日子
497I agree.и種
498I mean, like it's a known statistic that pedophiles go to malls我的意思是,像一个已知的统计 恋童癖去商场
499because there's young people there.因为那里有年轻人
500Oh yeah, I didn't know that.哦,是的,我不知道这一点。
501Yeah, no, it is.是的,不,这是。
502Yeah, but so what happened is those two girls now are stimulating是啊,但现在发生的事是 那两个女孩现在很刺激
503or pushing out a vibe, an advertisement, a billboard to the weirdo或向怪人推销广告牌
504that then makes him, he has a response to.所以他有反应了
505Yeah.对
506So I would just tell the young girls out there, look,所以我会告诉外面的年轻姑娘们
507if you don't want to create that kind of effect, man, don't dress like that.如果你不想创造那种效果,男人,不要穿这样。
508It doesn't mean you're a bad girl because you're dressing like that,这并不意味着你是一个坏女孩 因为你穿这样,
509but it does mean you're sending a message out to people但这确实意味着你正在向人们传递一个信息
510that have stuff going on that are cuckoo.里面有东西 胡说八道
511If a man came through and he was dressed like that,如果有个人穿成这样
512didn't have a shirt on, short shorts, I'm like, everything's pulled tight.没有衬衫,短裤,我很喜欢,一切都拉紧。
513I'm like, this isn't a swimming pool.我很喜欢,这不是一个游泳池。
514Yeah.对
515This is a mall.这是一个商场。
516Now, if we're on the beaches in France.如果我们在法国的海滩上
517There's a time and place for everything.凡事有时有处.
518Yeah, exactly.没错
519Yeah, that makes sense.是啊,这是有道理的。
520Yeah.对
521So what was your impression of the way they were dressed?你对他们穿衣服的印象如何?
522Yeah, no, I thought the same thing.是啊,不,我也是这么想的。
523They didn't look very classy.他们看起来不是很优雅。
524So has it changed the way you think about what you wear?所以,它改变了你的想法 你穿什么?
525Well, I try not to wear anything really shocking anyway.好吧,我尽量不穿 任何真正令人震惊的反正。
526Yeah.对
527Like, yeah, like I'll wear like sweatpants and like a small top in my house,就像,是的,我会穿 像汗裤 和像小顶在我的房子里,
528but I don't like to like wear that out.但我不喜欢穿出来。
529Yeah.对
530Anyway.总之
531Yeah.对
532You know, so that's kind of my general rule.你知道,这就是我的通则
533But you do want to be free to dress as a kid, too.但你也想在孩子的时候穿得自由
534Of course, and I agree with that.当然,我同意这一点。
535But I think, yeah, like you can dress like your kid and your young但我认为,是的,就像你可以穿得像你的孩子和你的年轻
536without showing your whole body.没有展示你全身。
537Yeah.对
538I agree with that.我同意这一点。
539You know, you don't know this, but one of the security guys at the house你知道,你不知道这一点, 但一个警卫 在房子里
540actually said something to me about, hey, man, when the kids go to the mall.嘿,伙计,孩子去商场的时候, 跟我说了一些事情。
541Oh, really?是吗?
542They were worried about Scarlett.他们担心斯嘉丽
543Oh, really?是吗?
544Which one?哪一个?
545But he comes from a part of the world where that's not, you know, it's frowned upon.但他来自世界的某个地方, 在那里,你知道,它是皱眉的。
546Yeah.对
547Anyway, you guys will you guys will figure out the right thing to do.不管怎么说 你们会想出合适的办法
548No, for sure.不,当然。
549I agree.и種
550You know, I agree.你知道,我同意这一点。
551It's definitely a more delicate subject because这绝对是一个更微妙的主题 因为
552it's just hard to it's hard to talk about, you know?只是很难说,你知道吗?
553Yeah.对
554It's like if you talk about it, you seem weird.这就像如果你谈论它, 你似乎很奇怪。
555Yeah.对
556But I agree with you.但我同意你的观点。
557Now, on the boy side, you're wearing a hoodie.现在,在男孩方面, 你穿一件连帽衫。
558Your pants are halfway down your dude.你的裤子在你的伙计一半。
559That same same thing.同样的事情。
560You look like a gang member.你看起来像一个帮派成员。
561You look like a what what are you doing, bro?你看起来像一个你在做什么,兄弟?
562Your pants don't fit.你的裤子不合适。
563That is not cool.这不酷。
564It's no, it's not.不,不,不,不,不,不,不,不,不,不,不
565It's not at all on the other end of the spectrum.它根本不在光谱的另一端。
566Yeah.对
567The kid that drove up here in a Rolls Royce trying to impress me with a big watch.那个穿着劳斯·罗伊斯的车过来 试图用大手表给我留下深刻印象的孩子
568Oh, yeah.对
569What do you think about that?你觉得怎么样?
570Like really young people weren't like, what if I got a really,像真正的年轻人是不喜欢, 如果我有一个真的,
571great looking car?漂亮的车?
572Like, what do you think about that?你觉得怎么样?
573Like a Ferrari.像一个法拉利。
574That kid.那个孩子
575Let me do that kid first.让我先做那个孩子。
576Driving up in a Rolls Royce, wearing a gold Rolex.穿着金色劳力士的劳斯·罗伊斯车
577He completely lost all my respect.他完全失去了我的一切尊重。
578Yeah.对
579Because I'm like, you're overspending, dude.因为我喜欢, 你超支,伙计。
580You're overspending to try to impress me and it doesn't impress me.你花了太多时间来给我留下深刻的印象 却没给我留下深刻的印象
581Yeah.对
582Now, you going out, you're getting ready to get a car.现在,你出去, 你准备得到一辆汽车。
583Yeah.对
584What kind of car do we think that we'll have?什么样的车?
585Ask the audience.问观众曰.
586What kind of car?什么样的车?
587What kind of car do you think I should get?你觉得我应该买什么样的车?
588Because I want something that is like a nice car.因为我想要一辆好车
589I can buy her anything, by the way.顺便说一句,我可以给她买任何东西。
590This is a great feeling.这是一个伟大的感觉。
591But I want something that's a nice car.但我想要一辆好车
592But I also don't want it to be super flashy, super loud.但我也不希望它 超级闪亮,超级响亮。
593Nothing like that screams like, oh, I'm super spoiled.没有什么像那样的尖叫 像,哦,我超级宠坏了。
594Just something that's like, it's a nice car.就像是一辆好车
595Like, yeah, like she probably comes from a good family.就像她可能来自一个好家庭
596But that's all I want it to say.但我只想说这些
597Yeah.对
598I don't want it to be super.我不想它成为超级。
599I don't want it to be a Ferrari.我不希望它是一个法拉利。
600I don't want it to be something like that.亦不求如来.
601Well, it's not going to be a Ferrari.好吧,它不会是法拉利。
602I know a girl who drove around.我认识一个开车过来的女孩
603It was basically her McLaren.这基本上是她的麦克拉伦。
604Like, it's just too loud.就像太大声了
605Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.释曰.
606You know?你知道吗?
607Yeah.对
608So you even said you were willing to have a used car with some scratches on it.所以,你甚至说,你愿意 有一辆废车 上面有一些划痕。
609Why did you say that?你为什么这么说?
610Oh, for sure.当然
611For sure.当然
612I don't want a new car.我不想要一辆新车
613I want a used car.我要一辆车
614Right now, I think the car that I want is the new Toyota, not the Highlander,现在,我想我想要的车 是新的丰田,而不是高地人,
615the Land Cruiser that came out.越野车 出来了。
616Because it's a good looking car.因为这是辆好看的车
617It's like I like the SUV, kind of.就像我喜欢SUV一样
618Yeah.对
619Like the Land Rover Defender.如陆轮卫.
620I like those kind of bulky cars.我喜欢这种大车
621They're not quite SUVs.他们不完全是SUV。
622The G-Wagon, that kind of shape of car I like.G -Wagon,那种形状的车我喜欢。
623Yeah, yeah.对 对
624And the Toyota Land Cruiser is kind of the same kind of shape.而丰田越野车也有类似形状.
625Yeah.对
626So that's what I'm thinking right now.所以,这就是我现在的想法。
627Yeah, I wish that...是啊,我希望这样...
628What was the other car beneath that?那辆车下面是什么?
629The Toyota that they used to make the four-door SUV?他们用来制造四门SUV的丰田?
630That was the Land Cruiser.那是越野车
631No, not the Land Cruiser.不,不是越野车。
632The one before that.那之前的那个
633Smaller than that.较之小.
634I don't think they make it anymore.我想他们已经撑不下去了
635Toyota...丰田 丰田 丰田
636No, because...不,因为...
637No, not the RAF, but right above the RAF.不,不是皇家空军,而是在皇家空军上面
638No.没有
639I think you're thinking about the Land Cruiser我想你在考虑越野车
640because they just started remaking it.因为他们刚刚开始重新制作
641No, it was the...不,这是...
642不是4Runner,是4Runner,不是4Runner,不是4Runner,不是4Runner.
643The 4Runner's a good looking little...4Runner是一个漂亮的小...
644Huh?是吗?
645Not the Highlander.岂非高地人.
646No, there was another...不,还有另一个...
647It's smaller.其体较细.
648Man, I think they discontinued it.男人,我想他们停止了它。
649I think it looks perfect.我觉得它看起来很完美。
650They discontinued the Land Cruiser, though.不过他们停用了越野车
651No, this...不,这个...
652Are you sure you're not thinking about...你确定你没在想...
653Yeah, this isn't a Land Cruiser.是啊,这不是越野车。
654Are you sure?你确定吗?
655I had a Land Cruiser.我有一个越野车。
656Oh, really?是吗?
657Yeah, the new Land Cruiser is pretty cool looking.新的越野车看起来很酷
658The new Land Cruiser is really cool.新的越野车真的很酷
659FJ Cruiser, dude.FJ越野车,伙计。
660See, that's what I'd like to buy you.你看,这就是我想买你。
661The old FJ Cruiser.旧FJ巡洋舰.
662Let me look up a picture of that.让我看看这张照片。
663That's the one I would love to get.这就是我最想得到的
664Or one of those small...或者其中一个小...
665But the problem is some of these old cars,但问题是一些这些旧车,
666they're not gonna be...他们不会...
667Not really safe.一点都不安全
668They're not safe.他们不安全。
669That's the only thing I'll worry about.唯此烦恼.
670But you're a good driver,但你是个好司机,
671except for that time you almost hit the mailbox.那次你差点撞到邮箱
672Or that one time I tried to hit the brake或者我曾经尝试过刹车
673but accidentally hit the accelerator.但无意中撞到了加速器
674Yeah.对
675There's been some times.有些时候了
676Yeah.对
677But I think I'm pretty good.但我觉得我很好
678What do you think?你觉得呢?
679No, you're a great driver, dude.不,你是个好司机,伙计。
680I think I'm a pretty good driver.我觉得我是个好司机
681I don't even worry about you when you're driving.你开车的时候我都不担心你
682If it was up to me,如果由我决定
683I'd have you driving every day right now.我会让你每天开车
684You already drove the PCH.你已经驾驶了PCH。
685That's true, I did.没错,我做到了。
686Tell everybody about when you drove the PCH告诉大家你开PCH的时候
687and what mama said.还有妈妈说的话
688What did she say?她说什么?
689I don't remember.我不记得了
690Oh my God.天呐
691She was like,她喜欢,
692oh my God, I can't believe you let her do that.哦,我的上帝,我不能相信你让她这样做。
693But it was like six in the morning.但是早上六点
694There was nobody on the road.路上没人
695There was pretty much nobody on the road.路上几乎没有人
696There wasn't.没有。
697I'm serious.我是认真的。
698You must be remembering this wrong.你一定记错了
699I was in the car, dude.我在车里,伙计。
700You must be remembering this wrong你一定记错了
701because there was almost nobody on the road.因为路上几乎没有人
702I tell your mama, I let you drive the PCH.我告诉你妈妈,我让你开PCH。
703She's like, how dare you?她喜欢,你怎么敢?
704If people found out if something happened,如果有人发现出了什么事
705I'm like, if something happened, what?我就像,如果有什么事情发生,什么?
706What are they going to do?他们怎么办?
707Take me to jail?带我去监狱?
708By the way, what's our plan?对了,我们有什么计划?
709What's our plan if we get busted?如果我们被抓了怎么办?
710Okay, I need to train to be able to drive a car好吧,我需要训练才能开车
711just in case anything ever happens to my dad,以防我父亲出事
712anything ever happens to a parent父母发生的一切
713or somebody I'm with.或者我和谁在一起。
714He's old.师老曰.
715Yeah, who knows?是啊 谁知道呢?
716He's old and something could happen.他老了,可能会有事发生
717And I need to be able to know how to drive我需要知道如何开车
718so that I can take somebody to the hospital.这样我就可以送人去医院了
719It's, it makes sense.这很合理
720Or just tell them, hey, we're going there now.或者告诉他们 我们现在就去
721Yeah, or we're going to the hospital with you.是的,否则我们和你一起去医院。
722He's like, it's a little bit insensitive,他好像有点不敏感
723but I think it would work.但我觉得这能行
724I think it would work.我觉得会有用
725So talking about watches, that-说到表,那...
726How do we get to the watches?我们怎么去手表?
727Because you were talking about that guy因为你在说那个人
728who rolled up with a Rolls Royce and a Rolex.他用劳斯·罗伊斯和劳力士卷起来
729So talking about watches,说到表
730am I going to inherit that beautiful green watch,我要继承那美丽的绿色手表吗?
731Mr. Greeny, on your wrist there?格林尼先生,你的手腕上吗?
732Because I, that's, I would love to inherit that.因为我,那就是,我愿意继承它。
733No, you don't even know what this is.不,你甚至不知道这是什么。
734Yes, I do.是的,我会的。
735You don't even know what watches.你甚至不知道什么手表。
736Yes, I do.是的,我会的。
737It's a model number 5905PO14.车型编号为5905PO14.
738I guess I deserve it.我想我应该得到它。
739Let's see, let's see how it looks on you.让我们看看,看看它怎么看你。
740Let's see how it looks on you.让我们看看它如何看你。
741I mean, we were kind of talking about我的意思是,我们是在谈论
742not trying to be flashy.而不是装模作样
743I feel like this would be a little bit flashy.我觉得这会有点闪烁
744Well, I'm not giving it to you now, bro.我现在不会给你的 兄弟
745Trust me.相信我,你还好吧?
746I guess.应该是吧
747What a shame.真遗憾
748Does it even fit on you?它甚至适合你吗?
749Yeah, I'm sure it will.是的,我相信会的。
750I just, I'm struggling a little bit.我只是,我有点挣扎。
751Well, this is what I'll do.好吧,这就是我要做的。
752You know what?你知道吗?
753I'll leave that watch for you.我把表留给你
754I'll inherit this watch?我要继承这表?
755Yeah, you've asked about it before.是啊,你问过这个问题。
756Why do you like it so much?你为什么这么喜欢?
757Because it's so beautiful.因为它是如此美丽。
758绿s.
759I love the little, the band.我喜欢小乐队
760It's shiny.闪闪发亮.
761It美'.
762What do we think, guys?我们怎么想,伙计们?
763Does it look nice?好看吗?
764That watch is so sick.那表真恶心
765It looks great on me too, just saying.我也觉得很好 只是说说而已
766I think there's 25 of those in the world.我认为世界上有25种
767Oh, seriously?哦,真的吗?
768Yeah, so that is one watch.是啊,所以这是一个表。
769I'm proud that I bought most of the watches.我为我买了大部分手表感到骄傲
770I wish I wouldn't have bought.我希望我不会买。
771So you are like a little bit of a watch collector.所以,你就像一点点的表收藏家。
772Yeah.对
773Yeah, but this watch, this is what I'll do.是的,但这个表,这是我要做的。
774Okay.摆
775Is that one your favorite?那是你最喜欢的吗?
776Yeah, 100%.对,百分之百
777I will give you this watch when I'm not around anymore.当我不在的时候 我会给你这个表
778Okay.摆
779Okay, this will be yours and I'll put it in my will that it's yours.好吧,这是你的,我会把它放在我的遗嘱里,这是你的。
780Okay, perfect.好吧,完美无缺。
781As long as you get the company.只要你有伴的话
782Up to a hundred billion dollars assets under management?管理下高达1000亿美元的资产?
783God, even if you get it to 25 billion, dude.上帝,即使你得到它250亿,伙计。
784Okay.摆
785No, no, no, you got to get it to 50.不,不,不,你得到它到50。
786Okay, I have to get it to 50.好吧,我必须得到它50。
787I think there's 25 of these.我想有25个
788So if you got it to 25 billion, I think I can get it to 25 by myself though.所以如果你得到它250亿, 我想我可以得到它 25个人。
789But I can help and then you can give it to me.但我可以帮忙 然后你可以把它给我
790You think you can get it to 100?你觉得你能拿到100吗?
791I think I can do my very best.我想我能尽力
792Get it to 80.得到它为80。
793When you get it to 80, I give you the watch.当你得到它80, 我给你的表。
794Or if I die, I give you the watch.或者如果我死了, 我给你表。
795Okay, fine.好吧,没事。
796But you can't give it to that deadbeat you get with.但你不能把它给那个你得到的坏蛋。
797That's another question I wanted to ask you.我想问你另一个问题
798This is your watch.这是你的表。
799He can't use it.他无法使用它。
800He can't wear it.他不能穿这个
801He can't tell.他看不出来。
802He can look at it.他可以看着它。
803What if it's not a deadbeat?如果它不是个坏蛋呢?
804I don't want him wearing my watch, man.我不想他戴我的表,伙计。
805I want you wearing the watch.我要你戴着手表
806What are you doing?你在干吗?
807What are you doing if in five years from now, I bring home, he's a deadbeat.如果五年后,我带回家,你在做什么,他是一个死败。
808He has a tattoo on his face like Mike Tyson, this guy.他脸上有纹身 像迈克·泰森,这家伙。
809What are you doing?你在干吗?
810How are you going to react?你怎么反应?
811Number one, Mike Tyson can put a tattoo anywhere he wants.第一,迈克·泰森可以在他想去的地方贴上纹身.
812That guy you're with hadn't done anything.跟你在一起的那个人什么也没做
813He hadn't won one fight, much less 50.他没有赢得一场比赛 更没有赢得50场比赛
814But what if I really love him?但如果我真的爱他呢?
815Dude, I mean, I'm going to tell you, man.伙计,我的意思是,我要告诉你,伙计。
816You bring a kid home who's got a tattoo on his face.你把一个脸上有纹身的孩子带回家
817I got a problem with that.我有一个问题。
818Really?真的吗?
819I'm like, what are you thinking?我很喜欢,你在想什么?
820What were you thinking?你在想什麽?
821Yeah, it's pretty stupid.是啊,这是相当愚蠢的。
822What happened to you?发生了什么事?
823Because what all we know is this kid took and put因为我们只知道这个孩子带走了
824tens of thousands of injections into his face to make, how did he come?他脸上注射了几万针,他是怎么来的?
825What thought process did he go through to decide to do that?他经过什么思考过程来决定这样做?
826You either did something out of one moment你要么一瞬间做了点什么
827or you took a long period of time to think about doing that.或者你花了很长的时间来考虑
828Yeah.对
829Either way.随便
830We got a problem, Houston.我们有麻烦了,休斯顿
831We have a problem.我们有一个问题。
832And now I got a problem with you现在,我有一个问题与你
833because now you fell in love with some guy that makes weird decisions.因为你现在爱上了某个做出奇怪决定的人
834Yeah, okay.是啊,没关系。
835So now what if he doesn't have a tattoo on his face?如果他脸上没有纹身呢?
836But what if he's just like a lazy guy?但如果他像个懒汉呢?
837Maybe he has like a piercing or something.也许他像穿孔什么的。
838We'll take away the piercing too.我们也会把穿孔也拿走的
839Let's just go with lazy.让我们只是去懒惰。
840He's just a little bit lazy.他只是有点懒
841He doesn't do much, not really very motivated,他没有做很多, 不是很积极,
842but he's a really nice guy.但他是个好人
843You know, he has good morals, ish.你知道,他有良好的道德,是的。
844Let's just say ish to make him like an average fellow.这么说吧 让他像普通人一样
845Yeah, okay, okay.对,好,好。
846He's like a good guy.他就像一个好人。
847He's kind.他是个好人
848He respects people.他尊重别人
849But he's a little bit lazy.但他有点懒
850He doesn't really do much, not really motivated.他没有做很多, 没有真正的动机。
851And so how's he going to take care of you?他怎么照顾你?
852What if I decided I was going to take care of him?如果我决定要照顾他呢?
853Oh, yeah, uh-huh.哦,对了,嗯。
854If I decided I was going to be the breadwinner of the family.如果我决定要养家糊口
855Yeah, yeah.对 对
856I mean, how old are you?我是说,你多大了?
857Let's say you're how old?就说你多大了?
85819, 20, something like that.19,20,类似的东西。
859Yeah, well, 20.是啊,20岁。
860You're not going to have enough money yet to take care of him.你还没有足够钱照顾他
861What if it's just like he takes care of himself如果这就像他照顾自己
862and I take care of myself?我照顾自己?
863Because he's a deadbeat, dude.因为他是个无赖 伙计
864He's lazy.他懒惰。
865Yeah, but what if I really love this guy?是啊,但如果我真的爱这家伙呢?
866You're not going to stay with him.你不会跟他在一起的
867I'm just telling you, you're going to get bored with him.我只是告诉你, 你会变得厌倦他。
868Yeah, I probably will.是啊,我可能会。
869If you're going to be running this, by the way,顺便说一句 如果你要运行这个
870you're not going to get the watch with this guy.你不会得到表 与这家伙。
871That's true.没错
872Because he's going to hold you back.因为他会阻止你
873Yeah, that's true.没错
874Now, what do you want from me?你想从我这里得到什么?
875Do you want me just to love him?你想让我爱他吗?
876Yeah.对
877Okay, whatever, bro.好吧,随便,兄弟。
878He, you know, but I'm never going to respect him.他,你知道, 但我永远不会尊重他。
879Yeah, that makes sense.是啊,这是有道理的。
880I can be like, okay, that's your husband,我可以像,好吧,那是你的丈夫,
881but I'm not going to respect him.但我不会尊重他的
882He's got to earn my respect.他必须赢得我的尊重。
883Just because you love him, doesn't mean I respect him.只是因为你爱他 并不意味着我尊重他
884Yeah, that makes sense.是啊,这是有道理的。
885Right?对吧?
886That makes sense.这有道理。
887And you can't?而你不能吗?
888I can't make you love him.我不能让你爱他
889No, and I don't think he's going to make you happy不 我觉得他不会让你高兴的
890because I don't think anybody's going to make you happy.因为我认为没有人会让你快乐
891I don't think people make you happy.我不觉得别人会让你开心
892No, I think you got to make you happy.不,我觉得你必须让你快乐
893So, you know, the old thing the daughter could say to the father,所以,你知道,旧的事情 女儿可以告诉父亲,
894he makes me happy.他让我高兴。
895Good, bro, it's bullshit.很好,兄弟,这是废话。
896No, nobody makes you happy.不,没有人让你高兴。
897You know, you make you happy.你知道,你让你快乐。
898So am I going to respect him?我该尊重他吗?
899No, he doesn't work.不,他没有工作。
900He doesn't do what I do.他不做我该做的事
901He hadn't done what I've done.他没有做我做过的事
902What happens if something happens to you?如果你出事怎么办?
903What's he going to teach the kids?他会教孩子们什么?
904So it's hard for me to wrap my head around所以我很难把头包起来
905how I'm going to be like respectful of him.我将如何像尊重他。
906That makes sense.这有道理。
907So if we go do let's say we have a yacht in the future所以,如果我们去,让我们假设 我们有一个游艇在未来
908and we want to go spend two months on the yacht.我们要在游艇上待两个月
909Sabrina, come on out.莎宾娜,出来
910Well, no, dude, hopefully, you know,嗯,不,伙计,希望,你知道,
911hopefully you're going to you're going to find somebody希望你会去找一个人
912that's curious, motivated, excited,这是好奇,有动机,兴奋,
913wants to grow and wants to do things.欲增长欲作诸事.
914But hey, that's up to you, man.但是,嘿,这取决于你,男人。
915Hopefully so.希望是这样
916You know, that's that's my goal, personally.你知道,这是我的目标,个人。
917You know, I'm gonna have a problem with him.你知道,我会有一个问题 与他。
918Yeah.对
919Would you still have a problem with him你对他还有意见吗?
920if he's a really hard worker?如果他是一个真正的硬工人?
921He's a great guy.他是个好人
922You like him?你喜欢他吗?
923Well, no, not if you liked him.好吧,不,如果你喜欢他。
924Say he's a really good guy.说他是个好人
925Yeah.对
926He's hardworking.勤勤修习.
927He has money.他有钱
928Yeah.对
929You'd like him then?那你想要他吗?
930Yeah, that's cool, man.是啊,这很酷,男人。
931But what if his one flaw is that he believes in shrooms?但是,如果他的一个缺陷是 他相信的shrooms?
932他相信什么? 他相信什么? He believe in what?
933Shrooms like mushrooms.蘑菇一样的蘑菇.
934Like what if he likes to do like shrooms and smoke sweet?如果他喜欢做 喜欢洗手间和抽甜味?
935Yeah, that's a problem.是的,这是一个问题。
936But what if he's a really hard worker,但如果他是个很努力的工人
937has a lot of money, all that kind of stuff?有钱吗?
938That's his one flaw.这是他唯一的缺陷。
939Did he earn his money?他挣到钱了吗?
940Yes.对
941He earned it himself.他自己挣来的
942Say he did.说他做到了。
943But he's a shroomer.但他是个洗手间
944Yeah.对
945It's a problem.这是个问题。
946You need to have a problem with him being a shroomer.你需要有一个问题 他是一个洗手间。
947No, yeah, I also have a problem with that, personally.不,是啊,我也有一个问题 这一点,个人。
948Why are you doing drugs, dude?你为什么要吸毒,伙计?
949No, yeah, it's weird.不,是的,这是奇怪的。
950Oh, because I'm on some spiritual discovery.哦,因为我有些精神上的发现。
951Good, bro.不错,兄弟。
952You could do that without doing drugs.你可以不吸毒就这么做
953You don't need to do that with drugs.你不需要用毒品来做这些
954Yeah, that's true.没错
955That's true.没错
956You're just, you're trying to do a shortcut.你只是,你试图做一个捷径。
957Yeah.对
958Yeah, I agree.是的,我同意,我同意这个说法。
959I agree.и種
960Okay, cool.好吧,冷静。
961So what age do you think, like on this subject,所以,你认为什么年龄, 像这个主题,
962what age do you think is a good age你觉得什么年龄是好的年龄
963for somebody to have a boyfriend or girlfriend?要有人有男朋友或女朋友吗?
964You?你吗?
965Yeah, what age would be a good age for me to have a boyfriend?我交男朋友的年龄是多少?
96650.50. 联合国
967Oh, wow, I'm never going to get a boyfriend at that rate.哦,哇,我永远不会得到一个男朋友 以这样的速度。
968Yeah, yeah, yeah, no, I don't know, man.是啊,是啊,是啊,不,我不知道,伙计。
969I'm probably not, you know, you got to figure that out.我可能不是,你知道, 你得想清楚这一点。
970I mean, I've just, I've heard a lot of stories from you in your youth,我的意思是,我只是, 我听到很多的故事 从你年轻的时候,
971and you've had a lot of girlfriends.你有过很多女朋友
972I have.没错
973Like, do you think that you would go back and do that again,喜欢,你认为你会 回去再这样做,
974or do you think you would do that differently if you could?或者你认为如果你可以 你会做不同的?
975You know, I would like to think that I wouldn't do it again,你知道,我想认为 我不会再这样做,
976but I don't think that that's true.但我不认为那是真的。
977I think I probably would, just to be honest with you.我想我可能会, 只是说实话。
978Okay, thank you for your honesty.好吧,谢谢你的诚实。
979I think it was a complete waste of time, though.我觉得这完全是浪费时间
980Yeah, but you would still do it again and have a bunch of girlfriends?是啊,但你还是会这样做 并有一堆女朋友?
981Just because there is some fun in it.只是因为里面有一些乐趣。
982You know, there's fun in it.你知道,它有乐趣。
983There's fun in, but it's very lonely.里面有乐趣,但很孤独。
984Like, when I really play it through in my head,喜欢,当我真正发挥 它在我的脑中,
985it's very dissatisfying, very lonely.它非常不满意,非常孤独。
986The end of the weekend, you're like, yeah, that's not,周末,你喜欢,是啊,这不是,
987this isn't going anyplace most of the time.这大部分时间都不会去任何地方
988Yeah.对
989If I look from the age of 15 till 45,如果我从15岁到45岁
990there's not one person I'm at the entire time,没有一个人我一直,
991not one girl that I was with between 15 and 45我和15到45岁的女孩 没有一个
992{\fn黑体\fs22\bord1\shad0\3aHBE\4aH00\fscx67\fscy66\2cHFFFFFF\3cH808080}我本来会和他保持一段成功的感情
993I miss, I would have missed nothing,我错过了,我什么都不会错过
994believe it or not, by not being with any of those people.信不信由你 不跟这些人在一起
995Except the fun, so then?除了乐趣,那么呢?
996It wasn't that fun.没那么好玩
997So then you wouldn't go back and do it again?那样你就不会再回去了?
998I'm just being honest with you.我只是实话实说
999I don't know that I could not be, avoid the temptation of like,我不知道,我不能, 避免诱惑喜欢,
1000I want friends and I want fun and I want weekends我想要朋友,我想要乐趣,我想要周末
1001and I want laughter and I want, but it's completely ridiculous.我想笑,我想, 但这是完全荒谬的。
1002You rationally know that that's ridiculous,你知道这很荒谬
1003but you still think you would do it?但你还是觉得你会这么做?
1004Yeah, probably.是啊,也许。
1005That's really interesting.这真的很有趣。
1006Yeah, I'm just being honest with you.是啊,我只是诚实地对你。
1007Yeah, thank you for your honesty.是啊 谢谢你的诚实
1008But you tell people, you tell young people, don't go party,但你告诉别人,告诉年轻人, 不要去派对,
1009don't go have fun, work on yourself,不要去玩, 工作你自己,
1010but you don't think that you would do that?但你不认为你会这样做吗?
1011Oh, I wouldn't do all the partying I did again.哦,我不会做所有的聚会 我再次。
1012I would do some of it probably, but not to the degree I did it.我可能会做一些,但不会达到我做的程度。
1013Okay.摆
1014Were you a big partier?你是一个大派对?
1015It wasn't a party.这不是一个聚会。
1016None of it was a party.没有一个是派对。
1017Party is the wrong, it was a disaster.党是错的,这是一场灾难。
1018The first time I got drunk, I threw up all over the place.初醉时吐满地.
1019When was that?什么时候的事?
1020I was 15 or 16, went to a graduation party, homecoming.我当时15到16岁,参加一个毕业派对,返校舞会.
1021It was disgusting.太恶心了
1022I drank a bottle of cherry vodka.我喝了一瓶樱桃伏特加
1023I threw up everywhere.我到处吐
1024An entire bottle of cherry vodka?一整瓶樱桃伏特加?
1025Yeah, me and another guy.是的,我和另一个家伙。
1026I couldn't handle a quarter of it.我无法承受四分之一。
1027And it was just disgusting.它只是恶心。
1028I don't remember the event.我不记得了
1029I was embarrassed.我当时很尴尬
1030Oh, that's terrible.哦,这是可怕的。
1031I lost respect.我失去了尊重。 。 。
1032I threw up on myself.我对自己吐了
1033It was terrible.这是可怕的。
1034Yeah, I'm glad to say that that's never happened to me personally.是啊,我很高兴说,这从来没有发生在我身上。
1035So if I didn't do that, would I miss anything?如果我不这样做,我会错过什么吗?
1036No, definitely not.不,绝对不是。
1037Would it make you retain some respect for yourself?这会让你保持对自己的尊重吗?
1038Yeah, and then that continued.是啊,然后继续。
1039We continued to do that and it just got worse and worse and it was not fun.我们继续这样做,而且情况越来越糟,这不好玩。
1040Those weren't parties.那些不是派对
1041Those weren't good times.时不我待
1042Now, do you think people from my generation have more potential现在,你认为我这一代的人 有更多的潜力
1043than people from your generation had?比你们这代人还重要吗?
1044Yes, 100%.对,百分之百
1045You do?是吗?
1046I do.当然
1047Because I'll ask this question to people every once in a while因为我偶尔会问别人这个问题
1048and I'll get it both ways.我会得到它双向。
1049Some people think because of social media,有些人认为因为社交媒体,
1050because of technology, people don't.因为技术,人们不会。
1051But other people think that because of the same reasons, they do.但其他人认为,由于同样的原因,他们这样做。
1052Yeah, I think because of AI, social media, the ability to reach,是的,我想因为AI,社交媒体, 能力接触,
1053it's how you're going to use your time and energy.这就是你如何使用你的时间和精力。
1054But more people are lazy in this day and age.但今岁日更懒人.
1055I don't think so.亦不见.
1056You don't think so?你不这么认为吗?
1057I don't think people are any lazier today than they were 30 years ago.我不认为人们今天比30年前更懒惰。
1058I know a bunch of lazy people from when I grew up.我从小就认识一群懒汉
1059Oh, really?是吗?
1060Yeah.对
1061Okay.摆
1062So every generation says the generation that comes after it is lazier than the one that...所以每一代人都说 之后的一代人 比那个...
1063But you don't think that's true?但你不认为这是真的吗?
1064No.没有
1065But I think people today, there's like this whole thing being pushed.但我认为今天的人, 事情就像整个被推。
1066It's okay not to work and that you shouldn't push yourself.不工作也没关系 你不应该逼自己
1067And I think that you should push yourself and you should work.我认为你应该努力工作
1068Yeah.对
1069But that whole message is being pushed但整个信息被推
1070and I don't think that was pushed so much in your age.我并不认为你这个年纪有这么多压力
1071Yeah, I agree.是的,我同意,我同意这个说法。
1072But I mean, it's the same problem.但是,我是说,这是同样的问题。
1073There's the grinders and the hustlers and everybody else.还有磨盘和皮条客 还有其他人
1074And if you outwork everybody else consistently, consistently,如果你一直和别人打交道
1075any kid that could create discipline right now任何孩子,可以创建纪律 现在
1076and not do the parties, not do the weekends, not do the trips.不做派对,不做周末,不做旅行。
1077I didn't do any big trips.我没有做任何大旅行。
1078What was your first big trip?你第一次大旅行是怎样的?
1079My first big trip, I was 28 years old我第一次大旅行是28岁
1080and I went to Cabo with my sister and went fishing.我和妹妹去卡波钓鱼
1081Oh, that's fun.哦,这很有趣。
1082Do you know how to fish?你会钓鱼吗?
1083Yeah, I caught an 800-pound marlin that weekend.周末我抓到一个800磅的马林
1084Oh, wow.哦,哇呜。
1085I've always wanted an 800-pound marlin.我一直想要一个800磅的马林。
1086Exactly.没错
1087How did you catch an 800-pound marlin?你怎么抓到一个800磅的马林的?
1088It took four hours.花了四个小时
1089Oh, my God.须菩提.
1090But my point is I didn't and then I went on that trip但我要说的是 我没有,然后我去了旅行
1091and I didn't go on another trip for probably 10 years.我大概十年没去旅行了
1092I just worked.我刚刚工作。
1093I was working and grinding.我在工作,在磨东西
1094If I'd have been doing that when I was 15, 16, 17,如果我15岁、16岁、17岁的时候就这么做了
1095I wouldn't have missed anything.我不会错过任何东西。
1096Yeah, I would have.是的,我会的。
1097I didn't miss 10 years of drugs我没有错过10年的毒品
1098and I would have created another discipline.我本来会另立一条纪律
1099The kids today, if they could create big D, discipline,今天的孩子,如果他们能创造大D,纪律,
1100the ability to show up, do your homework,有能力出现 做功课
1101get done early, get done fast like you're doing,早点做,快点做
1102go to work, go to the office,去上班 去办公室
1103learn the game and dig in.学会游戏并挖掘。
1104Your 30s will be unbelievable30多岁,真是难以置信
1105because now you're going to be traveling the French Riviera.因为现在你要去法国里维埃拉旅行了
1106Hopefully.希望是这样
1107You're going to be traveling any way you want.你想怎样都行
1108You could meet anybody you want.你可以满足任何人你想要的。
1109The plans that you have.你的计划。
1110What age do you think I'll make it to $100 billion你以为我能赚到一千亿吗?
1111assets under management?资产的管理?
1112You could do that by the time you're 35 years old, dude.你35岁的时候可以这么做的 伙计
1113You could literally dig in now.你现在可以开始挖掘了
1114There's no reason a kid today couldn't put his head down,今天一个孩子不能放下头
1115find the right opportunity, put his head down,找到合适的机会,放下头
1116dig in now because everybody else around you is sleeping.现在挖进去,因为你周围的人都在睡觉
1117If they're not lazy, lazy is not the problem right now.如果他们不懒,懒是 现在的问题。
1118They're indoctrinated.其教化众生.
1119They're watching their phones.他们在看手机
1120Their heads are going to be falling over their shoulders他们的头会从肩膀上掉下来
1121by the time they're 40当他们40岁时
1122because they're looking at that phone all day long.因为他们整天都在看那部手机
1123You could just, you could rule the world, man.你可以,你可以统治世界,伙计。
1124Any kid, you don't need to go to college.任何孩子,你不需要上大学。
1125That's four or five years that you would waste.你浪费了四五年时间
1126You could put your head down now,你现在可以放下头了
1127find the right vehicle, the right opportunity,找到正确的车辆, 正确的机会,
1128get in it, learn everything you can about it.进去吧,学习你所能做的
1129Every little thing that matters.每一件小事情都很重要,你觉得呢?
1130Not the little stuff, but all the big things不是小东西,而是大东西
1131that make the thing grow.那会让事情发展壮大
1132You could be 35.你可能35岁了
1133You could be one of the most influential people你可能是最有影响力的人之一
1134in the world.在这个世界。
1135I believe in that too.我也相信这一点。
1136And then you can start moving around and moving.然后,你可以开始移动和移动。
1137You could start moving.你可以开始移动。
1138And I think that's part of that我认为这是其中的一部分
1139is what makes America so great.使美国如此伟大
1140Although I'm pretty sure you could do that虽然我很确定你能做到
1141in any other country too.在其他国家也是如此。
1142But not all countries, not all.但不是所有国家,也不是所有的国家。
1143I think like Iraq, you probably couldn't do that there.我认为像伊拉克一样,你可能不能在那里这样做。
1144Yeah, no, that's right.是的,不,没错。
1145So on the subject of that,因此,关于这一点,
1146do you think you would ever run for president?你觉得你会竞选总统吗?
1147Do you think I would ever run for president?你以为我会竞选总统吗?
1148Oh, I don't know if you would.哦,我不知道你会不会。
1149I don't know if mom would like being.我不知道妈妈会愿意吗?
1150I don't know if mom would like that.我不知道妈妈会不会喜欢
1151I think you would like it,我想你会喜欢的
1152but I think it would be so hard on the rest of us.但我认为这对我们来说是很难的。
1153It would be very hard.这将是非常困难的。
1154Yeah.对
1155Do you think you ever would?你觉得你会吗?
1156I don't think that happens.我不觉得会这样
1157Do you think you ever run for governor,你认为你曾经竞选州长,
1158I think some of that could be potential.我认为其中的一些可能是潜在的。
1159If we continue to grow and change who we are如果我们继续成长 改变我们是谁
1160and become more of what we can be成为我们所能做的更多
1161and reach our potential,并达到我们的潜力,
1162I'm going to become more and more interested我会越来越感兴趣
1163in the civil aspects在民事方面
1164and the surroundings and the community.以及周围和社区
1165The reason people, I think,我想人们之所以如此
1166get involved in politics参与政治
1167is because they become interested in,因为他们感兴趣,
1168okay, we're deteriorating.好吧,我们正在恶化。
1169Yeah.对
1170I don't think old people get involved in politics我不觉得老人会参与政治
1171because of that reason.因为这个原因
1172I don't think old politicians我不认为老政客
1173are good people in that sense.是那种意义上的好人
1174Yeah, I agree with that.是的,我同意这一点。
1175I think most of the politicians我认为大部分政客
1176that you're talking about你说的
1177have been in so long,好久不见
1178they're career politicians.他们是职业政治家。
1179But I think there's a new group of guys coming in但我觉得有一群新人来了
1180or gals that are in business或正在营业的女孩
1181and now they're concerned现在他们关心的是
1182and they're starting their new,他们开始了新的,
1183like I would not be a politician.就像我不会是政客一样
1184I would be me moving into politics我会进入政治界
1185if I got into it如果我进入其中
1186to try to change the direction of things.试图改变事物的方向。
1187Yeah, I agree.是的,我同意,我同意这个说法。
1188For the better.为了更好的。
1189I could definitely see you as president.我绝对可以看到你作为总统。
1190Yeah, you could, huh?是啊,你可以,是吗?
1191Now, someone told me recently最近有人告诉我
1192that women shouldn't be president.女人不该当总统
1193Oh, yeah, I think that's completely untrue.哦,是的,我认为这是完全不真实的。
1194I agree, I agree.我同意,我同意这一点。
1195I think women would be great presidents.我认为女性会是伟大的总统。
1196I think so too.我也这么认为
1197Yeah, 100%.对,百分之百
1198I think so too.我也这么认为
1199We have the class.我们有课。
1200I don't think a woman's going to be better than a man.我觉得女人不会比男人好
1201No, I don't think so either.不,我也不这么认为。
1202I don't think a man's going to be better than a woman.不思议男子胜于女人.
1203I think the right person's going to be the right person.我想对的人应该是对的人
1204Yeah, the right person would be better是啊,对的人会更好
1205than the wrong person.而不是错人
1206Now, whether anybody can change anything as a president,现在,无论谁能改变什么 作为总统,
1207I don't know.师曰.
1208Yeah, well, what do you mean by that?是啊,那你是什么意思? 这是什么意思?
1209I don't think it's male or female.何以为男女.
1210Yeah, I don't really think it matters.是啊,我真的不认为 这很重要。
1211He was saying like women are too emotional or something.他说女人太情绪化了
1212That's ridiculous.这太荒谬了
1213What was the other thing还有一件事
1214we were having a conversation about?我们聊过吗?
1215Women versus men.女人对男人。
1216Was it me or you or Scarlett?是我还是你还是斯嘉丽?
1217Was it the thing with the straws?是吸管的事吗?
1218Yes.对
1219Yeah, we were discussing.是啊,我们在讨论。
1220It was her, you and Scarlett,是她 你和斯嘉丽
1221and then I kind of joined at the end.然后,我有点加入 在结尾。
1222Do men drinks with straws?男人用吸管喝酒吗?
1223I don't think I've ever seen a man drink water with a straw.岂不曾见人以稻草饮水.
1224No, and the reason it is.不,这是原因。
1225And I was thinking like why.我在想为什么
1226Instagram上有个东西
1227about why men don't drink with straws.为什么男人不喝稻草?
1228It's because-因为...
1229Straws are considered feminine?草被认为是女性?
1230Yes, and I'm like, no, it's not, dude.是的,我很喜欢,不,它不是,伙计。
1231Men want to drink as much as they can as fast as they can.人欲饮之,宜速饮之.
1232So they're just like-所以他们就像...
1233Okay, like men are more like dogs.好吧,就像男人更像狗一样。
1234Okay.摆
1235If I could drink out of a bowl, I would.如果我能喝出一个碗,我会的。
1236Really?真的吗?
1237It's very animalistic.非常动物性.
1238I'm not going to use a straw because it makes me look like a woman.我不会用吸管,因为它让我看起来像一个女人。
1239That's not your reasoning.这不是你的推理
1240No, it's got nothing to do with it.不,这与它无关。
1241I just want to get as much of the juice as I can as fast as I can.我只是想得到尽可能多的果汁,尽可能快。
1242So do you never use a straw?所以,你从来没有使用吸管?
1243I don't think I ever use a straw.我不认为我用过吸管。
1244Because I personally love straws.因为我个人喜欢吸管
1245I'd use a straw if it was a protein drink.如果是蛋白质饮料 我会用吸管
1246Or like a boba.或如波罗刹.
1247A boba?一个波巴?
1248Yeah.对
1249Yeah, you use straws with a boba.是啊,你用稻草与波巴。
1250Of course.当然
1251Because you're not going to just try to drink a boba without a straw.因为没有吸管你就不能喝波巴酒
1252No, but if it's water,不,但如果这是水,
1253if it's a beer, I want it straight out of the bottle.如果是啤酒,我要直接从瓶子里拿出来
1254I don't want it out of the straw.我不想把它从稻草。
1255I think certain drinks need straws.我想有些饮料需要吸管
1256Certain drinks don't need straws.某些饮料不需要吸管
1257You're not going to drink tea with a straw.你不会用稻草喝茶的
1258Plastic or paper straw?塑料还是纸张吸管?
1259Well, plastic straws are not really allowed anymore.嗯,塑料吸管是不允许的了。
1260Yeah, but they should be because it's ridiculous.是啊,但他们应该 因为这是荒谬的。
1261It's in a plastic cup.于塑料杯内.
1262It's true, but I think the whole thing is that这是真的,但我觉得整件事是
1263with the straws, animals will eat them and choke and die.用稻草,动物会吃掉它们,并窒息而死。
1264Okay, whatever.好吧,随便。
1265With a cup, they don't choke and die.用杯子,不会窒息而死.
1266One turtle on the internet had a problem with a straw.网上的一只乌龟有吸管问题
1267Maybe a few turtles.也许还有几只龟
1268Who knows?谁知道呢?
1269Yeah, but I mean.是的,但我是说。
1270I don't know.师曰.
1271I think paper straws, it's a little bit uncomfortable,我觉得纸草,有点不舒服,
1272but it's better for the environment.但它更有利于环境。
1273They don't even work.他们甚至不工作。
1274You don't even like straws.你甚至不喜欢吸管
1275Just drink without a straw.就喝不着吸管。
1276How does the paper cup actually hold hot tea纸杯怎么挂热茶
1277without them putting some kind of poly something in?没有他们放 某种多功能的东西?
1278A bioplastic or something?生物塑料还是什么的?
1279Some bioplastic inside the paper.一些生物塑料在纸张内部。
1280I mean, they have to, but it's less plastic.我的意思是,他们必须,但它的塑料更少。
1281Whatever.随便吧
1282Which is the point.这就是重点。
1283But also, you don't even like straws.但是,你甚至不喜欢吸管。
1284Just don't drink it with a straw.别用吸管喝
1285Yeah, exactly.没错
1286I mean, you don't even like straws.你甚至不喜欢吸管
1287So I don't even know why I'm fighting against the straws所以我不知道我为什么要跟稻草斗
1288because I'm not using one anyway.因为我没有用过
1289I think it's good.我觉得很好
1290I think it's good for the environment that we我觉得我们环境好
1291The only thing I remember straws good for is我唯一记得的稻草是好的
1292I'd do spitballs when I was in high school.我高中的时候会做唾液丸
1293Oh, wow.哦,哇呜。
1294You must have been a menace in high school.你在高中一定是个威胁
1295A total menace.简直是威胁
1296If you and I were in the same classroom at 8th grade.如果你和我在同一个教室 在八年级。
1297Do you think we would have gotten along or no?你觉得我们会相处融洽吗?
1298Yes, 100%.对,百分之百
1299You think so?是吗?
1300You'd have been in love with me.你会爱上我的
1301What are you talking about?你在说什么?
1302That's kind of weird.这有点奇怪。
1303That dude is so wacko.那家伙真疯狂
1304I don't think so.亦不见.
1305I think you would have.我想你会的。
1306I would have been.我会的
1307I think I would have been like, dude, he's so weird.我想我会喜欢,伙计, 他是如此怪异。
1308Yeah, you'd have been on the other side of the room是啊,你会一直 在房间里的另一边
1309and I'd be hitting you in the back of the head with spitballs.我会打你的后脑勺 吐丸。
1310That would be fun to be young at the same age.年纪小一点会很有趣的
1311Yeah, right?是吗?
1312We'd have had a lot of fun together.我们在一起会很开心的
1313We probably would have.我们可能会有。
1314But then you would have gotten into drugs但那样你就会吸毒了
1315and I wouldn't have been cool with that.我也不会同意的
1316Yeah, no, you wouldn't have been my friend.是啊,不,你不会是我的朋友。
1317No, I wouldn't have.不,我不会的。
1318No.没有
1319So I have some more questions.┮и临Τㄇ拜肈
1320And I would have thought, okay, she's all tooie tooie, doo doo doo.我会想,好吧,她也一样,杜杜杜。
1321For sure.当然
1322She's too good for me.她对我太好了
1323Yeah, people think that's about me today.是啊,人们认为那是我今天。
1324And you were right.你说得对
1325And you should just say that.你应该这么说
1326Yeah, yeah, yeah.对,对,对
1327They would have been, you would have been right.他们会是,你应该是对的。
1328I would have been too good for you when you were doing drugs.你吸毒的时候我对你太好
1329100%.百分百的 百分百的 百分百的
1330Yeah.对
1331I don't think everyone should be allowed to be your friend.我不认为每个人都应该被允许成为你的朋友。
1332Oh, I love that.哦,我喜欢这个。
1333Why?为什么?
1334Why do you say that?你为什么这么说?
1335Because, you know.因为,你知道。
1336Not everyone should be allowed to be your friend.不是每个人都应该被允许做你的朋友
1337You shouldn't be friends with everyone.你不该和大家做朋友
1338Yeah.对
1339And I do think you should obviously be kind to everyone.我确实认为你应该对每个人都好
1340I believe in that, you know, should be everyone with respect.我相信,你知道, 应该是每个人都尊重。
1341Yeah.对
1342You know, be a decent person to people,你知道,作为一个体面的人对人,
1343but I don't think everyone should be allowed to be your friend.但我不认为每个人都应该成为你的朋友。
1344Because you are who you spend time with.因为你是和你共度时光的人
1345Yeah.对
1346You become who you spend time with.你成为你花时间在一起的人
1347Yeah.对
1348Now, you're not really nice to people.现在,你对人不怎么好
1349I say, I would say I am.我说,我会说我是。
1350Like, you're really, you fluff it up.喜欢,你真的,你吹它起来。
1351You gas people up quite a bit, don't you?你给人加油了,不是吗?
1352Yes, I do.是的,我会的。
1353It's actually a gift and a curse.这其实是一个礼物和诅咒。
1354Tell me, tell me why that is.告诉我,告诉我这是为什么。
1355We were talking about this last night.我们昨晚在谈这个
1356Because people will think that we're really close因为人们会认为我们很接近
1357because I'm nice to them, but we're not close.因为我对他们很好 但我们并不亲近
1358Yeah.对
1359Like, in my mind, we're not really very, we're not friends, really.就像,在我的脑海里, 我们不是真的非常, 我们不是朋友,真的。
1360Yeah, yeah.对 对
1361But I will obviously say that your dress looks fantastic,但我显然会说 你的裙子很漂亮
1362and you are killing it, and you're slaying,你杀了它,你杀了它,
1363oh my God, my jaw is on the floor.哦,我的上帝,我的下巴在地板上。
1364But it's not like that.然则不然.
1365It's just, it's like, I'm just being nice to you只是,这就像,我只是对你好
1366because it makes me feel good to put this positive energy out into the world.因为它让我感觉很好 把这种正能量 向世界。
1367Yeah, yeah.对 对
1368But it really comes back to kick me sometimes because...但有时候会回来踢我 因为...
1369Because then they make this connection with that.因为那样他们就会把这件事联系起来
1370They think we're best friends, and I'm just like, we're just, we're not.他们认为我们是最好的朋友 而我只是,我们只是,我们不是。
1371Like, some people, like this one random girl thinks we're really close friends,喜欢,有些人, 像这个随机的女孩认为我们 真的亲密的朋友,
1372but to me, she's just a random girl.但对我来说,她只是一个随机的女孩。
1373You know?你知道吗?
1374So it's very interesting.所以这很有趣。
1375It's a gift and a curse.礼与咒.
1376I think you and I have different curses in that sense.我认为你和我有 不同的诅咒在这个意义上。
1377Because...因为...
1378I think you're not, you don't do that very often.我想你不是, 你经常这样做。
1379I don't do it at all.终不作.
1380No, not even a little bit.不,甚至没有一点点。
1381I don't think I've ever heard you do that.我不认为我听说过你这样做。
1382I mean, it has to be something like...我的意思是,它必须是 一些类似...
1383Like, it has to actually be worthy of that.喜欢,它必须 实际上是值得的。
1384It has to be way worthy before I'm gonna acknowledge it.在我承认之前 一定有价值
1385Probably it has to be beyond the point of worthy for you to acknowledge it so heavily.可能你不该这么承认
1386And even then, I don't think you would acknowledge it.即使这样,我也不认为你会承认这一点。
1387And then it has to be consistently.然后必须始终如一。
1388Worthy.华丽。
1389Yeah, yeah, yeah.对,对,对
1390And then I'm like, oh, bro, you know?然后我就喜欢,哦,兄弟,你知道吗?
1391就像Wyclef一样 当Wyclef表演时...
1392Oh, you didn't see that, did you?哦,你没有看到,是吗?
1393I didn't see that.我没有看到。
1394I wasn't there.我不在场。
1395You missed a great party.你错过了一个伟大的聚会。
1396Oh, really?是吗?
1397Yeah.对
1398You thought it was great?你觉得很棒吗?
1399Dude, the guy was amazing.伙计,这家伙是惊人的。
1400Okay, we had Buster rhymes the night before.好吧,我们有巴斯特的韵律 前一晚。
1401Buster was like, had a little bit of an attitude,巴斯特就像, 有一点点的态度,
1402had to get his hair cut before he went out there.在他出去前必须先剪头发
1403I went over to see if he wasn't available.我过去看看他有没有空
1404I'm like, okay, whatever, bro.我就像,好吧,随便,兄弟。
1405Like, I don't have time for this.喜欢,我没有时间了。
1406And we ended up, I ended up leaving.结果我离开了
1407But Wyclef came the next night.但Wyclef第二天晚上来了.
1408Hey, man, I want to meet Grant.嘿,伙计,我想见格兰特。
1409He got there early.他来得真早
1410Attitude's completely different.态度完全不同
1411He wanted to be there.他想去见他
1412Totally available.完全可用。
1413Wanted to be there.本来想去的
1414He'd already been paid.他已经拿到工资了
1415Both of them had been paid.两人都得到了报酬。
1416But Wyclef, like, I want to reach out to you, man.但是Wyclef,喜欢, 我想联系你,男人。
1417I need your phone number.我需要你的电话号码。
1418I study your material.我研究过你的材料
1419Like, completely different thing, right?像,完全不同的事情,对不对?
1420Then when he performed, it was like, I want to be here.然后,当他表演, 它就像,我想在这里。
1421Drumming my man with a finger.用手指抚摸我的男人
1422Oh, that's awesome.哦,这是真棒。
1423I mean, dude, it was so amazing.我的意思是,伙计,它是如此惊人。
1424And I said, man, look at this guy.我说,伙计,看看这家伙。
1425The difference between a performer and a performance.表演者与表演的区别.
1426And so when somebody does something really great,所以当有人做 真正伟大的事情,
1427I'm going to definitely acknowledge it.我一定会承认的
1428Yeah, it's true.是的,这是真的。
1429I've been acknowledged a few times by you,你承认过我几次了
1430and it always feels good.总是感觉很好
1431Because you know you're not just going to...因为你知道你不会...
1432There's certain people you can't really tell有些人你根本说不出来
1433if they're just saying it.如果他们只是说。
1434Or if they're actually really acknowledging you.或者如果他们真的承认你。
1435They really think that you did a great job at something.他们真的认为你做得很好
1436When you get an acknowledgement from you...当你得到你的承认...
1437Like, when have I acknowledged you就像,什么时候我认出你了
1438that it meant something to you?这对你来说意味着什么?
1439Uh, I don't know when this was.呃,我不知道这是什么时候。
1440I just remember you saying,我只是记得你说,
1441Sabrina, you did so fantastic.莎宾娜,你做得很好。
1442I'm so proud of you.我为你感到骄傲
1443It just felt really good.感觉很好
1444Because you know you're not...因为你知道你不是...
1445You're just not going to say that.你不会这么说的
1446Yeah, I'm not gassing you.是啊,我没有气你。
1447You're not.你没有。
1448You're just being what you think.你只是和你的想法一样
1449Yeah.对
1450So, on a different subject.所以,在一个不同的话题。
1451Okay.摆
1452Should I get a prenup?我应该有婚前协议吗?
1453When I get married, should I get a prenup?当我结婚,我应该得到一个婚前协议?
1454100,000 percent.十万分之数.
1455But what if the love of my life...但如果我的爱...
1456Okay, here's what he's going to tell you.好吧,这是他要告诉你的。
1457Here's what he's going to tell you.这是他要告诉你的
1458Let's hear it.颂曰.
1459He's going to tell you,他会告诉你,
1460oh, why we're in love.哦,为什么我们相爱。
1461We're never going to get divorced.我们永远不会离婚
1462Why do we need one?为什么我们需要一个?
1463Yeah.对
1464Because we need one.因为我们需要一个。
1465And you shouldn't have a problem with that.你不应该有什么问题。
1466Yeah.对
1467If we're never going to get a divorce.如果我们永远不能离婚的话
1468That's how you're going to handle that.这就是你如何处理这一点。
1469That's true.没错
1470Okay.摆
1471And by the way,顺便说一句
1472if you don't want to handle that,如果你不想处理,
1473if you don't want to sign that,如果你不想签名,
1474that means you actually have some other agenda.也就是说你还有别的打算
1475And I don't believe you have another agenda.我不相信你还有别的事要做
1476But if you don't have another agenda...但如果你没有别的计划...
1477Sign.签名
1478Sign a prenup.签个婚前协议
1479Sign this line.签此行.
1480You're marrying me for me, right?你要为我嫁给我吗?
1481You're not marrying me for the money.你不能为了钱而嫁给我
1482So if you're marrying me for me, not for the money,所以,如果你嫁给我对我来说, 不是为了钱,
1483boom, sign.砰,信号。
1484If you want me, sign the prenup.如果你想要我 就签婚前协议
1485If you want my money, don't sign the prenup.如果你想要钱 就别签婚前协议
1486And then he's going to be like,然后他会像,
1487no, I want you.不,我想让你。
1488Sign the prenup.签署婚前协议。
1489You had that before he came into this.在他进来之前你有这个
1490And he shouldn't want you.他不应该想要你。
1491It's very important that you...这很重要,你...
1492That he...那个...
1493Really more important that he understands更重要的是他明白
1494he's in it for you, not for the money.他是为了你 不是为了钱
1495And when he signs that,当他签下这个
1496he's going to be saying I'm in it for her,他会说我是为了她
1497not for her money,不是为了她的钱
1498because I'm not going to get any of the money.因为我不会得到任何钱。
1499Now, what if instead of that,现在,如果不是那样,
1500I marry a guy and he's like,我嫁给一个男人,他喜欢,
1501I don't want a prenup.我不想要婚前协议
1502And I'm like, okay, cool.我很喜欢,好吧,酷。
1503What are you doing?你在干吗?
1504Okay, so we're getting a prenup then.好吧,所以我们得到 婚前协议了。
1505Yeah, so now you're going to get a prenup?是啊,所以现在你要去 一个婚前协议?
1506Yeah, for sure.是的,当然。
1507Yeah, because I'm not...是的,因为我不是...
1508I mean, that was always my plan anyway.我的意思是,这是我的计划。
1509Yeah, yeah.对 对
1510Now, what if he is worth more than you?如果他比你值钱呢?
1511Then we both get prenups, I guess.然后我们都得到 婚前协议,我想。
1512No, you just have one prenup.不,你只有一个婚前协议。
1513A prenup works both ways.婚前协议是双向的
1514Bro, you keep yours.兄弟,你留着你的
1515I keep mine.我留着我的
1516We're good.我们很好。
1517Yeah, we're good.是的,我们很好。
1518That's the way it should be.应如是法.
1519I don't think it would ever be a problem我觉得这不会是个问题
1520for someone with more money than you.为了一个比你有钱的人
1521Okay, so why would it be a problem好吧,那为什么会是一个问题
1522with somebody with less money?跟钱少的人?
1523It shouldn't be a problem.这不应该是一个问题。
1524It's like, if you don't want this,就像,如果你不想这样
1525if you're here for me, not for that.如果你是来帮我的,不是来帮我的
1526But what if they feel like it's like...但如果他们觉得...
1527And that's what they're going to say.且道他们要说.
1528They're going to be like,他们会像,
1529oh, you're already planning to get rid of me.哦,你已经计划 摆脱我。
1530You know, you're anticipating...你知道,你预期...
1531No, I'm not, bro.不,我没有,兄弟。
1532I'm not.我没有。
1533No, I'm not.不,我没有。
1534I'm just saying sign the prenup.我只是说签婚前协议
1535It's simple.这很简单。
1536It's an agreement.约之.
1537By the way, a marriage is an agreement.顺便说一句,婚姻就是协议
1538Why do we need an agreement?为什么我们需要一个协议?
1539The marriage is an agreement.婚姻是一种协议。
1540The whole thing's an agreement.整件事都是协议
1541We're making an agreement right now.我们正在达成协议
1542If we can't make this agreement,如果我们不能达成协议,
1543how are we going to agree on other stuff?我们怎么就其他事情达成一致?
1544So then, kind of on that same line of thought,所以,在同样的思路上,
1545what's the biggest lesson you've learned from having kids?你从孩子身上学到的最大教训是什么?
1546Man, you guys have taught me so much.伙计,你们教了我这么多
1547Mostly, you've taught me that I have the capacity主要是你教我,我有这个能力
1548to be a good person.成为一个好人。
1549Did you not think that you had the capacity?你不觉得你有能力吗?
1550Yeah, yeah, I did.是的,是的,我说了。
1551But I didn't understand that I could actually stop但我不明白我真的可以停下来
1552what I'm doing, anything and everything,我在做什么,任何东西和一切,
1553and even the most important things,甚至最重要的东西,
1554and pay attention to another person.注意别人
1555You know, that didn't include me你知道,这不包括我
1556and some victory I was going to have.和一些胜利,我会得到。
1557So I know I'm a good dad.所以我知道我是个好爸爸
1558I would give it one of my highest grades我会给它一个最高的成绩
1559is being a good father.是一个好父亲。
1560And I couldn't, you know,我无法,你知道,
1561I wouldn't know that about myself if I'd not had y'all.如果我没有你们,我都不知道自己是谁
1562That's true.没错
1563You know.你知道吗?
1564And I think a lot of people have that idea我觉得很多人都有这个想法
1565that they don't really have the capacity to be a good person.他们没有能力做一个好人
1566Because I've experienced that myself, too, before.因为我以前也经历过
1567Yeah.对
1568Like, I don't have the capacity.喜欢,我没有能力。
1569I've kind of thought maybe I don't have the capacity我想也许我没有这个能力
1570to love a person.爱一个人。
1571Yeah.对
1572But I mean, I love you, and I love Mom,但我的意思是,我爱你, 我爱妈妈,
1573and I love Scarlett.我爱斯嘉丽
1574Yeah.对
1575So I think a lot of people actually do have that idea.所以我认为很多人确实有这个想法。
1576Of course.当然
1577I mean, until you know you can do something,我的意思是,直到你知道 你可以做一些事情,
1578I don't know that I have the capacity to fly a plane我不知道我有飞机的能力
1579because I haven't learned how to fly a plane.因为我还没学会如何驾驶飞机
1580Yeah.对
1581I don't have any interest.我没有兴趣
1582Yeah.对
1583But I don't, you don't know what you have the capacity但我不知道,你不知道 你有什么能力
1584to do or not do until you do it.做或不做,直到你做到这一点。
1585And that's why I'm telling you about college.所以我才告诉你大学的事
1586You think college is going to give you some.你认为大学会给你一些。
1587Yeah, that's right.没错
1588But it won't because you still haven't done anything.但它不会 因为你还没有做任何事情。
1589You got out of college.你大学毕业了
1590And then in your case, how many books have you read?你读过多少本书?
1591Probably around 200.大概在200块左右
1592Yeah.对
1593So you're like, if somebody reads two books,所以,你喜欢, 如果有人读两本书,
1594they're not going to be like,他们不会像,
1595oh, I'm a better person because I read two books.哦,我是一个更好的人 因为我读了两本书。
1596Yeah.对
1597Because they haven't done it enough.因为他们做得还不够
1598But you've read out 200 books.但你读了200本书
1599You know you can read.你知道你会读书的
1600Yeah, I can read.是的,我能读。
1601You can read, you can read fast.能读能速读.
1602You know you're going to read hundreds of more books.你知道你会再看几百本书
1603For sure.当然
1604Most people can't even imagine reading a book.大多数人甚至无法想象读一本书.
1605You could go to college, get out with an A,你可以去上大学, 离开一个A,
1606and still say, okay.继续说,好吧。
1607For what?为什么?
1608I haven't done anything.我什么也没做
1609Yeah.对
1610I agree, but I still kind of have that idea我同意 但我还是有这种想法
1611that other people will say, okay, she went to a great college.其他人会说,好吧,她上过大学
1612Yeah, 100%.对,百分之百
1613It would definitely give you a leg up if you went to Harvard.如果你去哈佛的话,那肯定能给你一条腿
1614But most importantly, it's going to be more important但最重要的是,它会更重要
1615if you went to Harvard and hung out with Ackman's kids如果你去哈佛 和阿克曼的孩子们在一起
1616in the Hamptons on the weekends,在汉普顿的周末,
1617which could have a lot of negative to it.可能会有很多负面反应
1618For sure.当然
1619Because now that's where all the craziness comes in.因为现在所有的疯狂都在这里出现.
1620It's true because, you know, young people,这是真的,因为,你知道,年轻人,
1621they want to have fun, they have so much access to anything.他们想找点乐子, 他们有太多机会接触任何东西。
1622And those kids have access to everything.那些孩子可以接触一切
1623Everything.一切众生.
1624And when people have that much money,当人们有钱的时候
1625they have legal connections, it's too much freedom.他们有法律联系,这是太多的自由。
1626Yeah.对
1627You think kids can have too much freedom?你觉得孩子能有太多的自由?
1628I think so, for sure.我当然这么想
1629What does that look like?看起来像什么?
1630The kid who, you know, the parents always say yes.那个孩子,你知道, 父母总是答应。
1631And it almost shows a negligence of the parents.这几乎显示出父母的疏忽.
1632When I was in school, I knew this girl我上学的时候认识这个女孩
1633who could go to anything that she wanted to go to.她可以去她想去的任何东西
1634At any time, she could stay up super late.她随时都可以熬夜
1635We were like five years old.我们就像5岁。
1636I remember this girl, we were five years old.我记得这个女孩,我们五岁。
1637She ate whatever she wanted to eat.她吃她想吃的东西。
1638And I remember-我记得...
1639Do I know this person?我认识这个人吗?
1640No.没有
1641Okay.摆
1642I don't even remember who it is.我甚至不记得是谁了
1643I just remember thinking her parents don't care about her.我只记得她父母不在乎她
1644She does whatever she wants to do.她随心所欲
1645Her parents aren't even really there.她的父母甚至没有真正在那里。
1646And I think that that too much freedom我认为这是太多的自由
1647can create unhappiness, a lot of unhappiness for the child.可以制造不幸福,很多不幸福的孩子。
1648I think barriers are important.我认为障碍是重要的。
1649No, you can't do that.不,你不能这样做。
1650You're going to act like this,你要这样
1651and you're going to act like this,你会这样
1652and you're going to act like this.你要这样
1653And I think that a person having to overcome those barriers,我认为一个人必须克服这些障碍,
1654that makes people.这让人。
1655That's what makes people.令诸众生.
1656Yeah.对
1657Overcoming obstacles.克服障碍.
1658Yes.对
1659Do you think we give you too much freedom?你觉得我们给你太多自由了吗?
1660I don't think so.亦不见.
1661But I think that if I decided I wanted to be a bad kid,但我认为,如果我决定 我想成为一个坏孩子,
1662then I would have too much freedom as it is.那样我就会有太多的自由了
1663But I think since I'm a good kid and I don't abuse my freedom,但我认为,既然我是一个好孩子 我不滥用我的自由,
1664I do think I'm a good kid.我觉得我是个好孩子
1665I think I do all my school.我想我做我所有的学校。
1666I'm in junior year.我初中时.
1667I'm only 14, and I'm in junior year, about to graduate.我只有14岁,我正在大二,即将毕业。
1668I think I'm going to graduate school around November, December.我想我要去研究生院 大约11月,12月。
1669So I'm a good kid, but if it was a bad kid,所以我是个好孩子 但如果是个坏孩子
1670I would have too much freedom.我将拥有太多的自由。
1671Yeah.对
1672Now, what's something you've done that I don't know about?你做了什么我不知道的事吗?
1673Is this my podcast or is this yours?这是我的播客 还是你的?
1674It's yours.这是你的。
1675Is there something you've gotten away with?你有什么不妥吗?
1676Usually, I've only done one of these podcasts,通常,我只做了一个播客,
1677and it's been with you.它一直和你在一起。
1678But usually, I think I'm the one asking the questions.但通常情况下,我想我是提问的人。
1679Okay.摆
1680No, you know pretty much everything.不,你知道几乎所有的事情。
1681You know everything that is meaningful or significant.你知道什么是有意义的或重要的。
1682What's the one thing you're not telling me right now?你现在不告诉我的是什么?
1683I'm not thinking of anything.我什么都没想
1684You sure?你确定吗?
1685No, I promise.不,我保证。
1686Let's see.让我看看。
1687But if there was one thing you were thinking of right now,但如果你现在想到一件事
1688what would the audience say it is?观众会怎么说?
1689I don't know.师曰.
1690I guess they would have to.我想他们不得不这么做
1691Let us know that.让我们知道这一点。
1692Ask them.问他们。
1693What do you guys think was my one secret mystery?你们认为我的秘密是什么?
1694Let us know, and I'll let you know if it's true.告诉我们,我会告诉你 如果这是真的。
1695If it's true, I'll let you know, but we'll see.如果是真的,我会告诉你, 但我们会看到。
1696Truth or dare?真相还是胆子?
1697Truth, or like two truths and a lie.真理,或像两个真理和一个谎言。
1698Okay.摆
1699But, you know, there's not really anything.但是,你知道, 什么都没有。
1700Now, you're a good kid, man.你是个好孩子
1701I am a good kid.我是个好孩子。
1702In the moment, you know, I mean, unfortunately, the parent...现在,你知道,我的意思是, 不幸的是,父母...
1703I'm going to come in a second, Tony.我马上就来,托尼。
1704It's unfortunate because the parent typically waits too long很不幸,因为父母总是等太久
1705to pull in the hornets, but I would wait until you start screwing up.但我会等你搞砸
1706Then I'm like, dude, I got to tighten down on it now.然后,我就像,伙计, 我不得不收紧它现在。
1707Like you've kind of ruined your...就像你毁了你的...
1708You've lost your right to have the freedoms.你失去了拥有自由的权利
1709Yeah, it's true.是的,这是真的。
1710And there's a right to have a freedom.亦有权得自由.
1711Like I know two...就像我认识两个...
1712I'm not going to penalize you prematurely.我不会过早惩罚你
1713Yeah, of course.当然
1714You shouldn't.你不应该。
1715If I'm doing great, thriving, there's no need...如果我做得很好,繁荣, 没有必要...
1716Like if everything's going good, I don't need to hammer you.如果一切都好,我用不着打你
1717And you would just decide to take away freedom,你会决定夺走自由
1718that would also create an upset.这也会造成一种不安。
1719That would also be like, yo, what?也一样,哟,什么?
1720But I know some of your friends,但我认识你的一些朋友,
1721their parents never say no to them.他们的父母从不拒绝他们
1722For sure.当然
1723I am thinking of two people right now that...我想两个人现在...
1724It's almost like they're too far gone, too.好像他们也走了太远了
1725They've had too much freedom.他们有太多的自由。
1726You can't even take that freedom away anymore.你甚至不能夺走那自由了
1727Well, it's going to be a long upset.嗯,这将是一个长期的不安。
1728A long upset.长烦恼.
1729And it's just almost like it's too far gone.它就像它太远了。
1730But I don't think it is.但我不认为它是。
1731I think you can always reel it back in.我想你总能把它卷回去
1732I think, I think, I'm trying to think like...我想,我想,我想, 我想试图像...
1733I just don't know how that would go.我只是不知道会怎么样
1734Because the kid's probably unhappy, too,因为那孩子也可能不开心
1735in both of those cases you're thinking about.这两件事情你都在想
1736Yeah, for sure.是的,当然。
1737The kid's probably unhappy.这孩子可能不高兴
1738You probably see him as unhappy.你可能觉得他很不开心
1739For sure.当然
1740The parents probably see that they're unhappy.父母可能看到他们很不高兴
1741Then somebody just needs to tell the kid, hey, are you unhappy?那么有人需要告诉孩子, 嘿,你不高兴吗?
1742And then they're like, yeah, I am unhappy.然后,他们喜欢,是的,我很不高兴。
1743Okay, well, look, you want to get happy?好吧,好吧,你看, 你想得到快乐?
1744What if they don't want to get happy?如果他们不想快乐呢?
1745Yeah, but they do.是的,但他们有。
1746That's true.没错
1747Who doesn't want to get happy?谁不想快乐?
1748That's true.没错
1749I've never met anyone who doesn't want to be happy.我从未遇到过不想快乐的人.
1750And so that's probably why parents send their kids to boarding schools.所以也许这就是父母送孩子去寄宿学校的原因。
1751My mom that you never met didn't...你从未见过的我妈妈没有...
1752She didn't...她没有...
1753She knew.笵
1754She just didn't confront it.她只是没有面对它。
1755She hoped it was...她希望这是...
1756When you were young?你年轻的时候?
1757Prayed, hoped and prayed it was going to go away.祈祷,希望和祈祷 它会消失。
1758And, you know, it didn't go away.而且,你知道,它没有消失。
1759It didn't go away.它没有消失。
1760It got worse.情况越来越糟了
1761And I'm lucky to even be alive.我甚至有幸活着
1762My mom should have intervened.我妈妈应该介入的
1763She should have said at 17, hey, look, dude, I know you're smoking weed.她17岁就应该说 嘿 伙计 我知道你在抽烟
1764I can tell you guys are loaded all the time.我可以说你们总是装满子弹
1765Stops.停下来。
1766This is not going to happen in my house.我家里不会发生这种事的
1767Okay, you want to go live some other place?你想去别的地方住吗?
1768Go do that.去做到这一点。
1769She should have dropped the hammer.她应该放下锤子。
1770She should have intervened.她应该介入的
1771At least she would have intervened.至少她会介入的
1772I don't know that I would have changed.我不知道我会改变。
1773Okay, but at 18, I overdosed.好吧,但18岁时,我服药过量
1774Oh, wow.哦,哇呜。
177520, I overdosed.20,我过量了。
177623, I overdosed.23,我过量了。
1777Were you in the hospital for all those?你为这些在医院里吗?
1778No, but I could have died.不,但我可能已经死了。
1779Somebody came and somebody came and interrupted the conclusion of my life.有人来了 有人来了 打断了我的人生结局
1780My mom was one of them.我妈妈是其中之一
1781It has to be really hard.一定很难
1782As a mother, as a parent, I'm like, you're watching your kid die,作为一个母亲,作为一个父母,我一样, 你看着你的孩子死,
1783but you're not confronting it.但你没有面对它。
1784And my mom had a lot going on.我妈妈也有很多事情
1785She didn't have a husband.她没有丈夫
1786She had already lost a son.她已经失去了一个儿子。
1787She was by herself.她一个人
1788She was embarrassed.她很尴尬
1789She didn't want to go to her brother's.她不想去她哥哥家
1790She, you know, you want to keep it a secret.她,你知道, 你想保守这个秘密。
1791You don't want to tell anybody you got this problem going on.你不想告诉任何人你的问题正在发生。
1792It's a problem.这是个问题。
1793Well, hey, this has been a great interview.嗯,嘿,这是一个伟大的采访。
1794Thank you so much, Mr. Cardone.谢谢你,卡多尼先生
1795Cardone Rapoppa先生 你在这播客上叫什么名字?
1796You can call me whatever you want to call me.随便你怎么叫我都可以
1797Okay, cool.好吧,冷静。
1798We're looking for names for the podcast.我们正在寻找播客的名字。
1799Let us know what we should call it.让我们知道我们应该称之为什么。
1800We're looking for people to interview.我们在找人采访
1801Let us know if you know anyone or if you want to come on the podcast.如果你认识谁,或者你想来播客,请告诉我们
1802And we'll see you next time on the very first,我们下次再见面
1803well, it will be the very second Sabrina Cardone podcast.好吧,这将是第二个萨布丽娜卡多内播客。
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