油管精读340：很讨厌现在的工作，我想重新读书可行吗？ |
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| 0:00 | So, I've been watching you for a long time, for years now, and I have just saved my $1,000. | 所以,我观察你很久了, 几年了,我刚省了一千元。 |
| 0:08 | Good. | 不错 |
| 0:08 | And I am also drowning in student debt, credit card, and my car loan. | 我也沉溺于学生债务、信用卡和汽车贷款中。 |
| 0:14 | I do have a job. | 我确实有工作 |
| 0:15 | I make about $50,000. | 我赚了五万块 |
| 0:17 | My debt is a little bit more, around $65,000. | 我的债务多一点,大约65,000美元。 |
| 0:21 | I hate my job, and I want to go to school, but I don't know if that's a good idea because | 我恨我的工作,我想上学, 但我不知道这是否是一个好主意,因为 |
| 0:27 | of the amount of debt that I have. | 我的债务金额。 |
| 0:29 | I'm trying to figure out what the best way is to get out of this mess, basically. | 我试图找出什么是最好的方法 是走出这烂摊子,基本上。 |
| 0:35 | What's your current job? | 你现在的工作是什么? |
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| 1 | So, I've been watching you for a long time, for years now, and I have just saved my $1,000. | 所以,我观察你很久了, 几年了,我刚省了一千元。 |
| 2 | Good. | 不错 |
| 3 | And I am also drowning in student debt, credit card, and my car loan. | 我也沉溺于学生债务、信用卡和汽车贷款中。 |
| 4 | I do have a job. | 我确实有工作 |
| 5 | I make about $50,000. | 我赚了五万块 |
| 6 | My debt is a little bit more, around $65,000. | 我的债务多一点,大约65,000美元。 |
| 7 | I hate my job, and I want to go to school, but I don't know if that's a good idea because | 我恨我的工作,我想上学, 但我不知道这是否是一个好主意,因为 |
| 8 | of the amount of debt that I have. | 我的债务金额。 |
| 9 | I'm trying to figure out what the best way is to get out of this mess, basically. | 我试图找出什么是最好的方法 是走出这烂摊子,基本上。 |
| 10 | What's your current job? | 你现在的工作是什么? |
| 11 | What do you work in that you're not enjoying? | 什么让你不享受? |
| 12 | I work in property management. | 我从事物业管理 |
| 13 | I'm an assistant property manager. | 我是物业经理助理 |
| 14 | Okay. | 摆 |
| 15 | And is it the field that you're not enjoying, or is it the specific company, do you think? | 这是你不喜欢的田地 还是你认为是特定的公司? |
| 16 | Because you said you want to go back to school. | 因为你说你想回学校 |
| 17 | I'm just curious what else is out there that you're thinking. | 我只是好奇你还在想什么 |
| 18 | Yeah, so I think it's just the field. | 是啊,所以我认为这只是田。 |
| 19 | This is actually a Christian-based company, which is super awesome. | 这实际上是一个基于基督教的公司, 这是超级真棒。 |
| 20 | So I think it's just the field. | 所以,我认为这只是田。 |
| 21 | I'm not happy here. | 我在这里不高兴。 |
| 22 | It's just not fulfilling. | 它只是不满足。 |
| 23 | I do love kids, so I've always wanted to pursue NICU nursing. | 我很喜欢孩子 所以我一直想继续照顾NICU |
| 24 | But I graduated in Hawaii, and the diploma I got from there is not recognized. | 但我毕业于夏威夷, 从那里获得的文凭是不被承认的。 |
| 25 | I would have to go back to school for a GED and then go to college. | 我得回学校读普通高中 然后上大学 |
| 26 | But with all the debt and the mess that I have, it's just kind of overwhelming, and | 但是,所有的债务和我的混乱, 它只是一种压倒性, |
| 27 | I really don't know where to go. | 我真的不知道该去哪 |
| 28 | Well, I think we're doing this a little bit backward. | 嗯,我想我们这样做有点落后。 |
| 29 | You want to run to something, not from something, as far as your career goes. | 你想跑到某处,而不是从某处, 就你的职业生涯而言。 |
| 30 | And so what I would do if I were in your shoes is I would very clearly identify and spend | 所以我会做什么,如果我 在你的鞋子,我会非常清楚 识别和花费 |
| 31 | some time and some soul-searching, and we'll even give you some tools to help you with | 我们甚至会给你一些工具来帮你 |
| 32 | this, identifying exactly what you want to do with your life in this next chapter. | 在接下来的篇章里 确切地说明你想要做什么 |
| 33 | Going back to school, in air quotes, is a really bad idea unless that particular degree | 回到学校,在空中引用, 是一个真正的坏主意,除非 该学位 |
| 34 | is necessary to do the thing you want to do. | 是做你想做的事所必需的 |
| 35 | And sometimes when people are running from something, they, air quotes, go back to school, | 有时候当人们在逃避某些东西时, 他们,空气引用,回到学校, |
| 36 | as if that's going to solve anything. | 如是解脱一切法. |
| 37 | It's not going to solve anything. | 亦不解一切众生. |
| 38 | You need to actually be studying toward becoming the thing you want to be. | 你需要学习成为你想成为的人 |
| 39 | Did you say you wanted to be a pediatric nurse? | 你说你想当儿科护士吗? |
| 40 | 一个NICU护士。 | |
| 41 | So, yeah. | 对 |
| 42 | Okay. | 摆 |
| 43 | And your high school diploma does not count? | 你高中毕业证书不算吗? |
| 44 | Yeah. | 对 |
| 45 | So I graduated from a competency adult community school, and apparently that is not recognized | 所以我从成人能力学校毕业 很明显,这是不被承认的 |
| 46 | nationally, and I have to go back for a GED, which is crazy because I've been using that | 国家,我必须回去 获得GED,这是疯狂的 因为我一直在使用 |
| 47 | pretty much my whole life. | 几乎是一辈子 |
| 48 | So. | 所以说 So. |
| 49 | Okay. | 摆 |
| 50 | So right now, you're a high school graduate that needs to pass a GED to prove it, right? | 所以现在,你是一个高中毕业生, 需要通过一个GED来证明,对不对? |
| 51 | Basically. | 基本上是这样。 |
| 52 | And then you would have to go through all your undergrad and go through nursing school | 然后,你必须经过所有你的 初中和通过护理学校 |
| 53 | 成为护士NICU。 | |
| 54 | Okay. | 摆 |
| 55 | So what Ken Coleman would tell you to do, that is one of our Ramsey personalities, is | 所以Ken Coleman会告诉你怎么做 这是我们拉姆齐的个性之一 |
| 56 | written extensively on this idea, is he would tell you to go over there in your off hours | 写了很多关于这个想法的 他会让你在休息时间去那儿 |
| 57 | and volunteer in the NICU to rock babies. | 并自愿参加NICU 摇滚婴儿。 |
| 58 | That is true. | 没错 |
| 59 | And talk to the nurses that are there and tell them it's going to take you six years | 和那里的护士谈谈 告诉他们要花你六年时间 |
| 60 | to be one of them. | 成为其中之一。 |
| 61 | Is it worth it? | 值得吗? |
| 62 | Yeah. | 对 |
| 63 | Now, I'm a huge fan of nursing as a career field, but I like little babies is a long | 现在,我是一个伟大的爱好者 护理作为一个职业领域, 但我喜欢小宝宝是长 |
| 64 | way from I want to go to school for six years to be a NICU nurse. | 从我想上学6年 成为NICU护士。 |
| 65 | That's a different thing. | 这不一样 |
| 66 | That's a lot different. | 即是种种差别. |
| 67 | Okay. | 摆 |
| 68 | Because nursing at times is gross. | 因为护理有时是恶心的。 |
| 69 | Nursing at times is very stressful. | 护理有时压力很大。 |
| 70 | Nursing at times will break your heart. | 有时护理会令你心碎 |
| 71 | Nursing at times will cause your back and your feet to hurt and ache. | 有时护理会使你的背部和脚受伤和疼痛. |
| 72 | It's hard work. | 勤修众生. |
| 73 | It's a great career field, but it's way different than I have a heart for children. | 这是一个伟大的职业领域,但它的方式不同 我有一个孩子的心脏。 |
| 74 | You follow me? | 你明白吗? |
| 75 | Yeah. | 对 |
| 76 | So what I want you to do is get your arms around what it is you want to do and exactly | 所以,我要你做的是 让你的手臂环绕它是什么 你想做什么,确切的 |
| 77 | what the cost is. | 代价是什么? |
| 78 | And I don't want you to spend six years and end up in a field that you hate accidentally. | 而且我不希望你花6年 和最终在一个你不小心讨厌的领域。 |
| 79 | You wouldn't want to do that. | 你不会想这么做的 |
| 80 | So number one, we don't want to go back to school in air quotes as an escape mechanism. | 所以第一,我们不想在空中回到学校 引用一个逃生机制。 |
| 81 | Number two, if we're going to go back to school, let's make sure that whatever we're studying | 第二,如果我们要回学校, 让我们确保我们学习的一切 |
| 82 | gets us there. | 带我们到那里。 |
| 83 | And then number three, what are some interim steps we can take to move in the direction | 第三,我们可以采取什么临时步骤 朝着这个方向前进 |
| 84 | of the field while you're talking about going to school there? | 你在说去那儿上学的时候 是田里吗? |
| 85 | So while you're working on your undergrad and passing your GED and getting your undergrad | 所以当你在完成你的研究生和 通过你的GED 和获得你的研究生 |
| 86 | going at your local community college there in West Virginia, which you can do your first | 在西弗吉尼亚的本地社区大学上学 你可以做第一个 |
| 87 | two years there just fine, you're probably keeping the job you've got. | 两年就没事了,你可能保持你的工作。 |
| 88 | Or you're getting a better job making more money, but maybe not in your career field. | 或者你得到一个更好的工作 赚更多的钱, 但也许不是你的职业领域。 |
| 89 | Or if you can find something where they'll pay you $40,000 a year to be in and around | 或者如果你能找到什么 他们每年会付你四万块 |
| 90 | the medical field and you can get a sniff of what it is you're signing up for, then | 医疗领域,你可以 嗅到它是什么 你要报名,然后 |
| 91 | I would go along with that. | 我会同意的。 |
| 92 | Yeah. | 对 |
| 93 | And I would tell you too, Elena, just with the numbers you gave, not even thinking future, | 我也会告诉你 Elena 就你给的数字而言 甚至没有考虑未来 |
| 94 | just presence. | 只是在场。 |
| 95 | You need the money. | 你需要钱。 |
| 96 | You need, yeah. | 你需要,对。 |
| 97 | And so what are things you can do? | 那你能做点什么? |
| 98 | Because I would tell you, regardless if you wanted a career change or not on this call, | 因为我会告诉你, 无论你想不想改变职业, |
| 99 | part of the solution of you getting out of this debt is going to have to be upping your | 你从这笔债务中解脱出来的一部分办法 就是让你的 |
| 100 | income. | 收入。 |
| 101 | And so whatever you're doing beyond your current job, let it be around kids. | 所以不管你做什么 超越你现在的工作, 让它围绕孩子。 |
| 102 | I would go on care.com and see if somebody needs a nanny from 6 to 9 p.m. or whatever. | 我会继续关注.com 看看有人是否需要一个保姆 从下午6点到9点或者什么的。 |
| 103 | Finding things in that that are going to make you more money to get out of debt and start | 找到这些东西会让你赚更多的钱 摆脱债务并开始 |
| 104 | your financial process and this ball rolling to get you ahead financially. | 你的金融流程 和这个球滚滚 让你在经济上领先。 |
| 105 | But then also if you compare that with some level of your passion of what you're talking | 但是,如果你把它 与你某种程度的 激情,你所说的 |
| 106 | about, while at the same time doing exactly what you're saying, but you need more money | 不过你需要更多的钱 |
| 107 | right now. | 现在 |
| 108 | I mean, in my opinion, for the amount of debt that you have. | 我是说,在我看来,你欠下多少债 |
| 109 | You can scratch the kid itch by joining the children's ministry at your local church. | 你可以在本地教堂加入儿童部 来抓那小孩痒痒 |
| 110 | Yes. | 对 |
| 111 | And they need your help, by the way, because they're always perpetually understaffed. | 顺便说一句,他们需要你的帮助 因为他们总是人手永远不足 |
| 112 | And again, this isn't about- | 再说一遍,这不是... |
| 113 | I do have a- | 我有一个... |
| 114 | Go ahead. | 来吧。 |
| 115 | Do you have a what? | 你有什麽? |
| 116 | I was going to say something really important too, because I am a believer and a follower | 我本来也想说点很重要的话 因为我是信仰者和追随者 |
| 117 | of Christ, but I did do something really stupid. | 基督,但我确实做了一些非常愚蠢的事情。 |
| 118 | And when my sister passed away early this year, I would say I was super vulnerable | 当我姐姐今年早早去世的时候 我会说我非常脆弱 |
| 119 | and dealing with grief, not knowing how to deal with grief for the first time. | 和处理悲伤, 不知道如何应对悲伤 第一次。 |
| 120 | And I ended up moving, of course, from my first job early this year, paying about 70,000 | 当然,我今年年初从第一次工作起就搬家了,付了大约七万 |
| 121 | to live with my boyfriend. | 和我的男朋友一起生活。 |
| 122 | And now we're living in this house unmarried. | 现在我们住在这所房子里 |
| 123 | We're not seeing eye to eye in terms of finances. | 在财政方面,我们不是一目了然。 |
| 124 | That's easy to undo, isn't it? | 这很容易解决,不是吗? |
| 125 | Yeah. | 对 |
| 126 | Move out. | 行动 |
| 127 | My dad always said, my dad always said, why pay for the cow when you can get the milk | 我爸爸总是说,我爸总是说, 为什么要付钱买牛 当你可以得到牛奶 |
| 128 | for free, right? | 免费的,对吧? |
| 129 | So I was kind of struggling. | 所以我有点挣扎。 |
| 130 | Your dad's a wise man. | 你爸爸是个聪明人 |
| 131 | And so, yeah, but you can fix that. | 所以,是的,但你可以解决这个问题。 |
| 132 | You can just move out. | 你可以直接搬出去了,好吗? |
| 133 | Where were you living when you were making 70? | 70岁的时候你住在哪里? |
| 134 | In Arlington, Virginia. | 在弗吉尼亚州阿灵顿 |
| 135 | Can you get that job? | 你能得到那份工作吗? |
| 136 | Oh, that's more expensive than Huntington, West Virginia. | 这比西弗吉尼亚的亨廷顿要贵 |
| 137 | I don't know that you were netting 20 more. | 我不知道,你 净20多。 |
| 138 | That's a very expensive place to live. | 这是一个非常昂贵的地方居住。 |
| 139 | Okay. | 摆 |
| 140 | Yeah. | 对 |
| 141 | I mean, you can reverse that. | 我的意思是,你可以扭转。 |
| 142 | You can say, hey, I'm doing something I'm not proud of and I'm not going to do it anymore. | 你可以说,嘿,我在做一些 我并不骄傲的事情, 我不会再这样做了。 |
| 143 | That's a decision just like the decision to do something wrong is. | 这决定就像做错事的决定一样 |
| 144 | You can make a decision to do something right. | 你可以做出正确的决定 |
| 145 | So go do that, kiddo. | 所以去做到这一点,孩子。 |
| 146 | Hang on. | 坚持住。 |
| 147 | We're going to get you signed up for Ken Coleman's everything. | 我们会让你为Ken Coleman的一切报名的 |
| 148 | I want her to get the assessment and the proximity principal book and the whole thing. | 我希望她得到评估 和接近的主书和整个事情。 |
| 149 | And the whole thing. | 乃至一切众生. |
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| 时间 | 英文 | 中文 |
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| 0:00 | So, I've been watching you for a long time, for years now, and I have just saved my $1,000. | 所以,我观察你很久了, 几年了,我刚省了一千元。 |
| 0:08 | Good. | 不错 |
| 0:08 | And I am also drowning in student debt, credit card, and my car loan. | 我也沉溺于学生债务、信用卡和汽车贷款中。 |
| 0:14 | I do have a job. | 我确实有工作 |
| 0:15 | I make about $50,000. | 我赚了五万块 |
| 0:17 | My debt is a little bit more, around $65,000. | 我的债务多一点,大约65,000美元。 |
| 0:21 | I hate my job, and I want to go to school, but I don't know if that's a good idea because | 我恨我的工作,我想上学, 但我不知道这是否是一个好主意,因为 |
| 0:27 | of the amount of debt that I have. | 我的债务金额。 |
| 0:29 | I'm trying to figure out what the best way is to get out of this mess, basically. | 我试图找出什么是最好的方法 是走出这烂摊子,基本上。 |
| 0:35 | What's your current job? | 你现在的工作是什么? |
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| 1 | So, I've been watching you for a long time, for years now, and I have just saved my $1,000. | 所以,我观察你很久了, 几年了,我刚省了一千元。 |
| 2 | Good. | 不错 |
| 3 | And I am also drowning in student debt, credit card, and my car loan. | 我也沉溺于学生债务、信用卡和汽车贷款中。 |
| 4 | I do have a job. | 我确实有工作 |
| 5 | I make about $50,000. | 我赚了五万块 |
| 6 | My debt is a little bit more, around $65,000. | 我的债务多一点,大约65,000美元。 |
| 7 | I hate my job, and I want to go to school, but I don't know if that's a good idea because | 我恨我的工作,我想上学, 但我不知道这是否是一个好主意,因为 |
| 8 | of the amount of debt that I have. | 我的债务金额。 |
| 9 | I'm trying to figure out what the best way is to get out of this mess, basically. | 我试图找出什么是最好的方法 是走出这烂摊子,基本上。 |
| 10 | What's your current job? | 你现在的工作是什么? |
| 11 | What do you work in that you're not enjoying? | 什么让你不享受? |
| 12 | I work in property management. | 我从事物业管理 |
| 13 | I'm an assistant property manager. | 我是物业经理助理 |
| 14 | Okay. | 摆 |
| 15 | And is it the field that you're not enjoying, or is it the specific company, do you think? | 这是你不喜欢的田地 还是你认为是特定的公司? |
| 16 | Because you said you want to go back to school. | 因为你说你想回学校 |
| 17 | I'm just curious what else is out there that you're thinking. | 我只是好奇你还在想什么 |
| 18 | Yeah, so I think it's just the field. | 是啊,所以我认为这只是田。 |
| 19 | This is actually a Christian-based company, which is super awesome. | 这实际上是一个基于基督教的公司, 这是超级真棒。 |
| 20 | So I think it's just the field. | 所以,我认为这只是田。 |
| 21 | I'm not happy here. | 我在这里不高兴。 |
| 22 | It's just not fulfilling. | 它只是不满足。 |
| 23 | I do love kids, so I've always wanted to pursue NICU nursing. | 我很喜欢孩子 所以我一直想继续照顾NICU |
| 24 | But I graduated in Hawaii, and the diploma I got from there is not recognized. | 但我毕业于夏威夷, 从那里获得的文凭是不被承认的。 |
| 25 | I would have to go back to school for a GED and then go to college. | 我得回学校读普通高中 然后上大学 |
| 26 | But with all the debt and the mess that I have, it's just kind of overwhelming, and | 但是,所有的债务和我的混乱, 它只是一种压倒性, |
| 27 | I really don't know where to go. | 我真的不知道该去哪 |
| 28 | Well, I think we're doing this a little bit backward. | 嗯,我想我们这样做有点落后。 |
| 29 | You want to run to something, not from something, as far as your career goes. | 你想跑到某处,而不是从某处, 就你的职业生涯而言。 |
| 30 | And so what I would do if I were in your shoes is I would very clearly identify and spend | 所以我会做什么,如果我 在你的鞋子,我会非常清楚 识别和花费 |
| 31 | some time and some soul-searching, and we'll even give you some tools to help you with | 我们甚至会给你一些工具来帮你 |
| 32 | this, identifying exactly what you want to do with your life in this next chapter. | 在接下来的篇章里 确切地说明你想要做什么 |
| 33 | Going back to school, in air quotes, is a really bad idea unless that particular degree | 回到学校,在空中引用, 是一个真正的坏主意,除非 该学位 |
| 34 | is necessary to do the thing you want to do. | 是做你想做的事所必需的 |
| 35 | And sometimes when people are running from something, they, air quotes, go back to school, | 有时候当人们在逃避某些东西时, 他们,空气引用,回到学校, |
| 36 | as if that's going to solve anything. | 如是解脱一切法. |
| 37 | It's not going to solve anything. | 亦不解一切众生. |
| 38 | You need to actually be studying toward becoming the thing you want to be. | 你需要学习成为你想成为的人 |
| 39 | Did you say you wanted to be a pediatric nurse? | 你说你想当儿科护士吗? |
| 40 | 一个NICU护士。 | |
| 41 | So, yeah. | 对 |
| 42 | Okay. | 摆 |
| 43 | And your high school diploma does not count? | 你高中毕业证书不算吗? |
| 44 | Yeah. | 对 |
| 45 | So I graduated from a competency adult community school, and apparently that is not recognized | 所以我从成人能力学校毕业 很明显,这是不被承认的 |
| 46 | nationally, and I have to go back for a GED, which is crazy because I've been using that | 国家,我必须回去 获得GED,这是疯狂的 因为我一直在使用 |
| 47 | pretty much my whole life. | 几乎是一辈子 |
| 48 | So. | 所以说 So. |
| 49 | Okay. | 摆 |
| 50 | So right now, you're a high school graduate that needs to pass a GED to prove it, right? | 所以现在,你是一个高中毕业生, 需要通过一个GED来证明,对不对? |
| 51 | Basically. | 基本上是这样。 |
| 52 | And then you would have to go through all your undergrad and go through nursing school | 然后,你必须经过所有你的 初中和通过护理学校 |
| 53 | 成为护士NICU。 | |
| 54 | Okay. | 摆 |
| 55 | So what Ken Coleman would tell you to do, that is one of our Ramsey personalities, is | 所以Ken Coleman会告诉你怎么做 这是我们拉姆齐的个性之一 |
| 56 | written extensively on this idea, is he would tell you to go over there in your off hours | 写了很多关于这个想法的 他会让你在休息时间去那儿 |
| 57 | and volunteer in the NICU to rock babies. | 并自愿参加NICU 摇滚婴儿。 |
| 58 | That is true. | 没错 |
| 59 | And talk to the nurses that are there and tell them it's going to take you six years | 和那里的护士谈谈 告诉他们要花你六年时间 |
| 60 | to be one of them. | 成为其中之一。 |
| 61 | Is it worth it? | 值得吗? |
| 62 | Yeah. | 对 |
| 63 | Now, I'm a huge fan of nursing as a career field, but I like little babies is a long | 现在,我是一个伟大的爱好者 护理作为一个职业领域, 但我喜欢小宝宝是长 |
| 64 | way from I want to go to school for six years to be a NICU nurse. | 从我想上学6年 成为NICU护士。 |
| 65 | That's a different thing. | 这不一样 |
| 66 | That's a lot different. | 即是种种差别. |
| 67 | Okay. | 摆 |
| 68 | Because nursing at times is gross. | 因为护理有时是恶心的。 |
| 69 | Nursing at times is very stressful. | 护理有时压力很大。 |
| 70 | Nursing at times will break your heart. | 有时护理会令你心碎 |
| 71 | Nursing at times will cause your back and your feet to hurt and ache. | 有时护理会使你的背部和脚受伤和疼痛. |
| 72 | It's hard work. | 勤修众生. |
| 73 | It's a great career field, but it's way different than I have a heart for children. | 这是一个伟大的职业领域,但它的方式不同 我有一个孩子的心脏。 |
| 74 | You follow me? | 你明白吗? |
| 75 | Yeah. | 对 |
| 76 | So what I want you to do is get your arms around what it is you want to do and exactly | 所以,我要你做的是 让你的手臂环绕它是什么 你想做什么,确切的 |
| 77 | what the cost is. | 代价是什么? |
| 78 | And I don't want you to spend six years and end up in a field that you hate accidentally. | 而且我不希望你花6年 和最终在一个你不小心讨厌的领域。 |
| 79 | You wouldn't want to do that. | 你不会想这么做的 |
| 80 | So number one, we don't want to go back to school in air quotes as an escape mechanism. | 所以第一,我们不想在空中回到学校 引用一个逃生机制。 |
| 81 | Number two, if we're going to go back to school, let's make sure that whatever we're studying | 第二,如果我们要回学校, 让我们确保我们学习的一切 |
| 82 | gets us there. | 带我们到那里。 |
| 83 | And then number three, what are some interim steps we can take to move in the direction | 第三,我们可以采取什么临时步骤 朝着这个方向前进 |
| 84 | of the field while you're talking about going to school there? | 你在说去那儿上学的时候 是田里吗? |
| 85 | So while you're working on your undergrad and passing your GED and getting your undergrad | 所以当你在完成你的研究生和 通过你的GED 和获得你的研究生 |
| 86 | going at your local community college there in West Virginia, which you can do your first | 在西弗吉尼亚的本地社区大学上学 你可以做第一个 |
| 87 | two years there just fine, you're probably keeping the job you've got. | 两年就没事了,你可能保持你的工作。 |
| 88 | Or you're getting a better job making more money, but maybe not in your career field. | 或者你得到一个更好的工作 赚更多的钱, 但也许不是你的职业领域。 |
| 89 | Or if you can find something where they'll pay you $40,000 a year to be in and around | 或者如果你能找到什么 他们每年会付你四万块 |
| 90 | the medical field and you can get a sniff of what it is you're signing up for, then | 医疗领域,你可以 嗅到它是什么 你要报名,然后 |
| 91 | I would go along with that. | 我会同意的。 |
| 92 | Yeah. | 对 |
| 93 | And I would tell you too, Elena, just with the numbers you gave, not even thinking future, | 我也会告诉你 Elena 就你给的数字而言 甚至没有考虑未来 |
| 94 | just presence. | 只是在场。 |
| 95 | You need the money. | 你需要钱。 |
| 96 | You need, yeah. | 你需要,对。 |
| 97 | And so what are things you can do? | 那你能做点什么? |
| 98 | Because I would tell you, regardless if you wanted a career change or not on this call, | 因为我会告诉你, 无论你想不想改变职业, |
| 99 | part of the solution of you getting out of this debt is going to have to be upping your | 你从这笔债务中解脱出来的一部分办法 就是让你的 |
| 100 | income. | 收入。 |
| 101 | And so whatever you're doing beyond your current job, let it be around kids. | 所以不管你做什么 超越你现在的工作, 让它围绕孩子。 |
| 102 | I would go on care.com and see if somebody needs a nanny from 6 to 9 p.m. or whatever. | 我会继续关注.com 看看有人是否需要一个保姆 从下午6点到9点或者什么的。 |
| 103 | Finding things in that that are going to make you more money to get out of debt and start | 找到这些东西会让你赚更多的钱 摆脱债务并开始 |
| 104 | your financial process and this ball rolling to get you ahead financially. | 你的金融流程 和这个球滚滚 让你在经济上领先。 |
| 105 | But then also if you compare that with some level of your passion of what you're talking | 但是,如果你把它 与你某种程度的 激情,你所说的 |
| 106 | about, while at the same time doing exactly what you're saying, but you need more money | 不过你需要更多的钱 |
| 107 | right now. | 现在 |
| 108 | I mean, in my opinion, for the amount of debt that you have. | 我是说,在我看来,你欠下多少债 |
| 109 | You can scratch the kid itch by joining the children's ministry at your local church. | 你可以在本地教堂加入儿童部 来抓那小孩痒痒 |
| 110 | Yes. | 对 |
| 111 | And they need your help, by the way, because they're always perpetually understaffed. | 顺便说一句,他们需要你的帮助 因为他们总是人手永远不足 |
| 112 | And again, this isn't about- | 再说一遍,这不是... |
| 113 | I do have a- | 我有一个... |
| 114 | Go ahead. | 来吧。 |
| 115 | Do you have a what? | 你有什麽? |
| 116 | I was going to say something really important too, because I am a believer and a follower | 我本来也想说点很重要的话 因为我是信仰者和追随者 |
| 117 | of Christ, but I did do something really stupid. | 基督,但我确实做了一些非常愚蠢的事情。 |
| 118 | And when my sister passed away early this year, I would say I was super vulnerable | 当我姐姐今年早早去世的时候 我会说我非常脆弱 |
| 119 | and dealing with grief, not knowing how to deal with grief for the first time. | 和处理悲伤, 不知道如何应对悲伤 第一次。 |
| 120 | And I ended up moving, of course, from my first job early this year, paying about 70,000 | 当然,我今年年初从第一次工作起就搬家了,付了大约七万 |
| 121 | to live with my boyfriend. | 和我的男朋友一起生活。 |
| 122 | And now we're living in this house unmarried. | 现在我们住在这所房子里 |
| 123 | We're not seeing eye to eye in terms of finances. | 在财政方面,我们不是一目了然。 |
| 124 | That's easy to undo, isn't it? | 这很容易解决,不是吗? |
| 125 | Yeah. | 对 |
| 126 | Move out. | 行动 |
| 127 | My dad always said, my dad always said, why pay for the cow when you can get the milk | 我爸爸总是说,我爸总是说, 为什么要付钱买牛 当你可以得到牛奶 |
| 128 | for free, right? | 免费的,对吧? |
| 129 | So I was kind of struggling. | 所以我有点挣扎。 |
| 130 | Your dad's a wise man. | 你爸爸是个聪明人 |
| 131 | And so, yeah, but you can fix that. | 所以,是的,但你可以解决这个问题。 |
| 132 | You can just move out. | 你可以直接搬出去了,好吗? |
| 133 | Where were you living when you were making 70? | 70岁的时候你住在哪里? |
| 134 | In Arlington, Virginia. | 在弗吉尼亚州阿灵顿 |
| 135 | Can you get that job? | 你能得到那份工作吗? |
| 136 | Oh, that's more expensive than Huntington, West Virginia. | 这比西弗吉尼亚的亨廷顿要贵 |
| 137 | I don't know that you were netting 20 more. | 我不知道,你 净20多。 |
| 138 | That's a very expensive place to live. | 这是一个非常昂贵的地方居住。 |
| 139 | Okay. | 摆 |
| 140 | Yeah. | 对 |
| 141 | I mean, you can reverse that. | 我的意思是,你可以扭转。 |
| 142 | you can just say, hey, I'm doing something I'm not proud of and I'm not going to do it | 你可以直接说,嘿,我正在做一些 我并不骄傲的事情,我不会这样做 |
| 143 | anymore. | 现在。 |
| 144 | That's a decision just like the decision to do something wrong is. | 这决定就像做错事的决定一样 |
| 145 | You can make a decision to do something right. | 你可以做出正确的决定 |
| 146 | So go do that, kiddo. | 所以去做到这一点,孩子。 |
| 147 | Hang on. | 坚持住。 |
| 148 | We're going to get you signed up for Ken Coleman's everything. | 我们会让你为Ken Coleman的一切报名的 |
| 149 | I want her to get the assessment, and the proximity principal book, and the whole thing. | 我希望她得到评估, 和近主书, 和整个事情。 |
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