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油管精读294:世界著名心理学专家:不要再浪费眼前的时间和机

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P1 · 油管精读294:世界著名心理学专家:不要再浪费眼前的时间和机会 | 自我提升 | 外刊精读 | 中英+文稿 p01 中英 (P1)

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0:00You know, if you take people, and I've told you this, and you expose them voluntarily to things that they are avoiding and are afraid of,你知道,如果你带人,我已经告诉你, 你自愿暴露他们的东西 他们正在避免和害怕,
0:07you know, that they know they need to overcome in order to meet their goals, their self-defined goals,你知道,他们知道他们需要克服 为了实现他们的目标, 他们自定义的目标,
0:12if you can teach people to stand up in the face of the things they're afraid of, they get stronger.如果你能教人们面对他们害怕的事情站起来,他们就会变得更强大.
0:17And you don't know what the upper limits to that are, because you might ask yourself, like,你不知道这有什么上限 因为你可能会问自己 比如
0:21if for ten years, if you didn't avoid doing what you knew you needed to do,如果你十年内不避免做你所知道的事
0:26by your own definitions, right, within the value structure that you've created, to the degree that you've done that,在你创造的价值结构里 以你所做的程度
0:32what would you be like?你会是什么样的人?
0:35Well, you know, there are remarkable people who come into the world from time to time,你知道,有一些杰出的人 不时地进入世界,
0:39and there are people who do find out over decades-long periods what they could be like if they were who they were.并且有些人确实知道 几十年来,如果他们是谁,他们可以是什么样子。
0:46If they said, if they spoke their being forward.如果他们说,如果他们说 他们向前。
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1You know, if you take people, and I've told you this, and you expose them voluntarily to things that they are avoiding and are afraid of,你知道,如果你带人,我已经告诉你, 你自愿暴露他们的东西 他们正在避免和害怕,
2you know, that they know they need to overcome in order to meet their goals, their self-defined goals,你知道,他们知道他们需要克服 为了实现他们的目标, 他们自定义的目标,
3if you can teach people to stand up in the face of the things they're afraid of, they get stronger.如果你能教人们面对他们害怕的事情站起来,他们就会变得更强大.
4And you don't know what the upper limits to that are, because you might ask yourself, like,你不知道这有什么上限 因为你可能会问自己 比如
5if for ten years, if you didn't avoid doing what you knew you needed to do,如果你十年内不避免做你所知道的事
6by your own definitions, right, within the value structure that you've created, to the degree that you've done that,在你创造的价值结构里 以你所做的程度
7what would you be like?你会是什么样的人?
8Well, you know, there are remarkable people who come into the world from time to time,你知道,有一些杰出的人 不时地进入世界,
9and there are people who do find out over decades-long periods what they could be like if they were who they were.并且有些人确实知道 几十年来,如果他们是谁,他们可以是什么样子。
10If they said, if they spoke their being forward.如果他们说,如果他们说 他们向前。
11And they get stronger and stronger and stronger, and we don't know the limits to that.它们越来越强大,越来越强大,我们不知道这些限制。
12We do not know the limits to that.我们不知道这方面的限制。
13And so you could say, well, in part, perhaps the reason that you're suffering unbearably can be left at your feet,所以,你可以说,嗯, 部分地,也许你痛苦的原因 无法忍受 留在你的脚,
14because you're not everything you could be, and you know it.因为你并不是你所能做的一切,你知道的。
15And of course, that's a terrible thing to admit, and it's a terrible thing to consider,当然,这是可怕的事情 承认,这是一个可怕的事情 考虑,
16but there's real promise in it, right, because it means that perhaps there's another way that you could look at the world,但其中有真正的承诺,对, 因为这意味着也许有另一种方法 你可以看世界,
17and another way that you could act in the world, so what it would reflect back to you would be much better than what it reflects back to you now.以及另一种你可以在世界上行动的方式, 所以它会反射给你什么 将比它反射给你现在。
18Because, you know, my experience is with people that we're probably running at about 51% of our capacity.因为,你知道,我的经验是 人们,我们可能运行 大约51%我们的能力。
19I mean, you can think about this yourselves.我是说,你可以自己想想
20I often ask undergraduates how many hours a day you waste, or how many hours a week you waste,我经常问本科生你每天浪费多少小时 或者每周浪费多少小时
21and the classic answer is something like four to six hours a day.经典的答案是 每天四到六个小时
22You know, inefficient studying, watching things on YouTube that not only do you not want to watch,你知道,低效的学习, 在YouTube上观看的东西 不仅你不想看,
23that you don't even care about, that make you feel horrible about watching after you're done,你甚至不在乎, 这让你感觉可怕 看着你完成后,
24that's probably four hours right there.那大概有四个小时
25You know, you think, well, that's 25 hours a week, it's 100 hours a month, that's two and a half full work weeks,你知道,你认为, 好吧,这是25小时一周, 这是100小时一个月, 这是两个半完整的工作周,
26it's half a year of work weeks per year, and if your time is worth $20 an hour, which is a radical underestimate,如果你的工作时间值每小时20美元 这太低估了
27it's probably more like $50 if you think about it in terms of deferred wages,如果你考虑推迟工资的话 可能要50美元
28if you're wasting 20 hours a week, you're wasting $50,000 a year, and you are doing that right now,如果你每周浪费20小时, 你每年浪费5万美元, 而你现在这样做,
29because you're young, wasting $50,000 a year is a way bigger catastrophe than it would be for me to waste it,因为你还年轻 一年浪费五万块 比我浪费它要大得多
30because I'm not going to last nearly as long, and so if your life isn't everything it could be,因为我不会持续 几乎一样长, 所以如果你的生活不是一切 它可以是,
31you could ask yourself, well, what would happen if you just stopped wasting the opportunities that are in front of you?你可以问自己 如果你不再浪费你面前的机会会怎么样?
32You'd be who knows how much more efficient, 10 times more efficient, 20 times more efficient,你会知道效率有多高 十倍的效率 二十倍的效率
33that's the Pareto distribution, you have no idea how efficient efficient people get,这就是帕雷托的分布,你不知道 人们的效率如何,
34it's completely off the charts, and so you think, well, there's 9 billion, 7 billion people in the world,它完全偏离了图表, 所以你认为, 好吧,有90亿,70亿人 在世界上,
35we're going to peak at about 9 billion, by the way, and then it'll decline rapidly,顺便说一句,我们会达到90亿的峰值 然后它会迅速下降
36but 7 billion people in the world, and who are you?但世界上有70亿人 你是谁?
37You're just one little dust mote among that 7 billion,你只是那70亿里一个小尘埃
38and so it really doesn't matter what you do or don't do, but that's simply not the case,所以不管你做什么或做什么 都无所谓 但事实并非如此
39it's the wrong model, because you're at the center of a network, you're a node in a network,这是错误的模型, 因为你在一个网络的中心, 你是一个网络的节点,
40of course that's even more true now that we have social media, you'll know a thousand people,当然,现在我们有了社交媒体, 你会认识一千人,
41at least over the course of your life, and they'll know a thousand people each,至少在你生命中 他们认识一千人
42and that puts you one person away from a million, and two persons away from a billion,这使得你远离百万人 和二人远离十亿,
43and so that's how you're connected, and the things you do, they're like dropping a stone in a pond,因此,这就是你是如何连接, 和你做的事情, 他们就像扔石头在一个池塘,
44the ripples move outward, and they affect things in ways that you can't fully comprehend,这些波纹向外移动 它们影响事物的方式 你无法完全理解,
45and it means that the things that you do and that you don't do are far more important than you think,这意味着你做和不做的事情 比你想的要重要得多
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时间英文中文
0:00You know, if you take people, and I've told you this, and you expose them voluntarily to things that they are avoiding and are afraid of,你知道,如果你带人,我已经告诉你, 你自愿暴露他们的东西 他们正在避免和害怕,
0:07you know, that they know they need to overcome in order to meet their goals, their self-defined goals,你知道,他们知道他们需要克服 为了实现他们的目标, 他们自定义的目标,
0:12if you can teach people to stand up in the face of the things they're afraid of, they get stronger.如果你能教人们面对他们害怕的事情站起来,他们就会变得更强大.
0:17And you don't know what the upper limits to that are, because you might ask yourself, like,你不知道这有什么上限 因为你可能会问自己 比如
0:21if for ten years, if you didn't avoid doing what you knew you needed to do,如果你十年内不避免做你所知道的事
0:26by your own definitions, right, within the value structure that you've created, to the degree that you've done that,在你创造的价值结构里 以你所做的程度
0:32what would you be like?你会是什么样的人?
0:35Well, you know, there are remarkable people who come into the world from time to time,你知道,有一些杰出的人 不时地进入世界,
0:39and there are people who do find out over decades-long periods what they could be like if they were who they were.并且有些人确实知道 几十年来,如果他们是谁,他们可以是什么样子。
0:46If they said, if they spoke their being forward.如果他们说,如果他们说 他们向前。
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1You know, if you take people, and I've told you this, and you expose them voluntarily to things that they are avoiding and are afraid of,你知道,如果你带人,我已经告诉你, 你自愿暴露他们的东西 他们正在避免和害怕,
2you know, that they know they need to overcome in order to meet their goals, their self-defined goals,你知道,他们知道他们需要克服 为了实现他们的目标, 他们自定义的目标,
3if you can teach people to stand up in the face of the things they're afraid of, they get stronger.如果你能教人们面对他们害怕的事情站起来,他们就会变得更强大.
4And you don't know what the upper limits to that are, because you might ask yourself, like,你不知道这有什么上限 因为你可能会问自己 比如
5if for ten years, if you didn't avoid doing what you knew you needed to do,如果你十年内不避免做你所知道的事
6by your own definitions, right, within the value structure that you've created, to the degree that you've done that,在你创造的价值结构里 以你所做的程度
7what would you be like?你会是什么样的人?
8Well, you know, there are remarkable people who come into the world from time to time,你知道,有一些杰出的人 不时地进入世界,
9and there are people who do find out over decades-long periods what they could be like if they were who they were.并且有些人确实知道 几十年来,如果他们是谁,他们可以是什么样子。
10If they said, if they spoke their being forward.如果他们说,如果他们说 他们向前。
11And they get stronger and stronger and stronger, and we don't know the limits to that.它们越来越强大,越来越强大,我们不知道这些限制。
12We do not know the limits to that.我们不知道这方面的限制。
13And so you could say, well, in part, perhaps the reason that you're suffering unbearably can be left at your feet,所以,你可以说,嗯, 部分地,也许你痛苦的原因 无法忍受 留在你的脚,
14because you're not everything you could be, and you know it.因为你并不是你所能做的一切,你知道的。
15And of course, that's a terrible thing to admit, and it's a terrible thing to consider,当然,这是可怕的事情 承认,这是一个可怕的事情 考虑,
16but there's real promise in it, right, because it means that perhaps there's another way that you could look at the world,但其中有真正的承诺,对, 因为这意味着也许有另一种方法 你可以看世界,
17and another way that you could act in the world, so what it would reflect back to you would be much better than what it reflects back to you now.以及另一种你可以在世界上行动的方式, 所以它会反射给你什么 将比它反射给你现在。
18Because, you know, my experience is with people that we're probably running at about 51% of our capacity.因为,你知道,我的经验是 人们,我们可能运行 大约51%我们的能力。
19I mean, you can think about this yourselves.我是说,你可以自己想想
20I often ask undergraduates how many hours a day you waste, or how many hours a week you waste,我经常问本科生你每天浪费多少小时 或者每周浪费多少小时
21and the classic answer is something like four to six hours a day.经典的答案是 每天四到六个小时
22You know, inefficient studying, watching things on YouTube that not only do you not want to watch,你知道,低效的学习, 在YouTube上观看的东西 不仅你不想看,
23that you don't even care about, that make you feel horrible about watching after you're done,你甚至不在乎, 这让你感觉可怕 看着你完成后,
24that's probably four hours right there.那大概有四个小时
25You know, you think, well, that's 25 hours a week, it's 100 hours a month, that's two and a half full work weeks,你知道,你认为, 好吧,这是25小时一周, 这是100小时一个月, 这是两个半完整的工作周,
26it's half a year of work weeks per year, and if your time is worth $20 an hour, which is a radical underestimate,如果你的工作时间值每小时20美元 这太低估了
27it's probably more like $50 if you think about it in terms of deferred wages,如果你考虑推迟工资的话 可能要50美元
28if you're wasting 20 hours a week, you're wasting $50,000 a year, and you are doing that right now,如果你每周浪费20小时, 你每年浪费5万美元, 而你现在这样做,
29because you're young, wasting $50,000 a year is a way bigger catastrophe than it would be for me to waste it,因为你还年轻 一年浪费五万块 比我浪费它要大得多
30because I'm not going to last nearly as long, and so if your life isn't everything it could be,因为我不会持续 几乎一样长, 所以如果你的生活不是一切 它可以是,
31you could ask yourself, well, what would happen if you just stopped wasting the opportunities that are in front of you?你可以问自己 如果你不再浪费你面前的机会会怎么样?
32You'd be who knows how much more efficient, 10 times more efficient, 20 times more efficient,你会知道效率有多高 十倍的效率 二十倍的效率
33that's the Pareto distribution, you have no idea how efficient efficient people get,这就是帕雷托的分布,你不知道 人们的效率如何,
34it's completely off the charts, and so you think, well, there's 9 billion, 7 billion people in the world,它完全偏离了图表, 所以你认为, 好吧,有90亿,70亿人 在世界上,
35we're going to peak at about 9 billion, by the way, and then it'll decline rapidly,顺便说一句,我们会达到90亿的峰值 然后它会迅速下降
36but 7 billion people in the world, and who are you?但世界上有70亿人 你是谁?
37You're just one little dust mote among that 7 billion,你只是那70亿里一个小尘埃
38and so it really doesn't matter what you do or don't do, but that's simply not the case,所以不管你做什么或做什么 都无所谓 但事实并非如此
39it's the wrong model, because you're at the center of a network, you're a node in a network,这是错误的模型, 因为你在一个网络的中心, 你是一个网络的节点,
40of course that's even more true now that we have social media, you'll know a thousand people,当然,现在我们有了社交媒体, 你会认识一千人,
41at least over the course of your life, and they'll know a thousand people each,至少在你生命中 他们认识一千人
42and that puts you one person away from a million, and two persons away from a billion,这使得你远离百万人 和二人远离十亿,
43and so that's how you're connected, and the things you do, they're like dropping a stone in a pond,因此,这就是你是如何连接, 和你做的事情, 他们就像扔石头在一个池塘,
44the ripples move outward, and they affect things in ways that you can't fully comprehend,这些波纹向外移动 它们影响事物的方式 你无法完全理解,
45and it means that the things that you do and that you don't do are far more important than you think,这意味着你做和不做的事情 比你想的要重要得多
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