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0:10Good afternoon, everyone.午安,大家好,谢谢
0:13I'd like you to close your eyes,我要你闭上眼睛
0:15and I want you to think about我要你考虑
0:17the worst thing that you've ever said,你说过的最糟糕的话
0:20the worst thing that you've ever done,你做过的最糟糕的事
0:23and the worst thing that has ever happened to you.以及发生在你身上的最糟糕的事情
0:27And I want you to imagine that there's no escape from that.我希望你能想象,没有 逃脱。
0:31That moment is frozen in time forever,那一刻被永远冻结
0:37and you will be judged by that worst thing you ever said,你将因你所说的话而被判决,
0:42the worst thing that you've ever done,你做过的最糟糕的事
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1Good afternoon, everyone.午安,大家好,谢谢
2I'd like you to close your eyes,我要你闭上眼睛
3and I want you to think about我要你考虑
4the worst thing that you've ever said,你说过的最糟糕的话
5the worst thing that you've ever done,你做过的最糟糕的事
6and the worst thing that has ever happened to you.以及发生在你身上的最糟糕的事情
7And I want you to imagine that there's no escape from that.我希望你能想象,没有 逃脱。
8That moment is frozen in time forever,那一刻被永远冻结
9and you will be judged by that worst thing you ever said,你将因你所说的话而被判决,
10the worst thing that you've ever done,你做过的最糟糕的事
11and the worst thing that has ever happened to you.以及发生在你身上的最糟糕的事情
12Now, if you open your eyes,现在,如果你睁开眼睛,
13you'll see that, thank God,你会看到,感谢上帝,
14that's not the actual world that we live in.这不是我们生活的世界
15There is movement forward from that worst moment.从那个最糟糕的时刻开始,还有进展。
16There is an escape, there is contrition,有逃脱,有忏悔,
17there is atonement, and there is redemption.有赎罪,有赎罪。
18I want you to think about your own redemption stories我要你想想你自己的救赎故事
19as I tell the stories of two men, Ralph and John.我讲两个男人的故事 拉尔夫和约翰
20And these two men were very good friends for decades.这两个人几十年来一直是好朋友。
21They were business associates,他们是生意伙伴
22and they each had something devastating happen to them.他们都遭遇了毁灭性的灾难
23And in each case, as you will see as I tell these stories,在每种情况下,我讲这些故事时,你会看到,
24they transformed not only themselves through redemption,他们不仅通过赎罪而改变自己,
25but they were able to transform但他们得以改变
26the communities in which they live.他们居住的社区。
27So let's begin with Ralph's story.让我们从拉尔夫的故事开始吧.
28Ralph was a highly successful businessman.拉尔夫是一个非常成功的商人.
29He was a captain of industry.曾任工业队长.
30At one point in time, Ralph's companies employed拉尔夫的公司一度雇佣了
31more than 14,000 people across the United States.全美超过14,000人.
32He was born and raised in Providence, 14,000 people.他在普罗维登斯出生和长大,一万四千人.
33Remarkable.显可观.
34And Ralph was popular, he was financially successful.而拉尔夫很受欢迎,在经济上是成功的.
35He had a great reputation.他的名声很高
36Everyone wanted a piece of Ralph.每个人都想要拉尔夫的一块。
37They wanted him as a client and a customer他们想要他做客户和客户
38and a friend and a business colleague.一个朋友和一个生意同事
39And they wanted them on their boards他们想在他们的董事会上
40because Ralph was successful.因为拉尔夫很成功
41And one day in May of 2007, Ralph was in a board meeting.而2007年5月的一天,拉尔夫参加了董事会会议.
42And that board meeting became fiery, controversial, heated,董事会会议变得激烈 充满争议 激烈
43tempers flared, it became personal.脾气暴躁,变得很私人化
44And during the course of that meeting,在会议期间,
45in a moment of anger and frustration,在愤怒和沮丧的时刻,
46Ralph used a racial slur.拉尔夫用的是种族的污秽。
47Now, we could try to give context to it现在,我们可以尝试 给它的背景
48or explain how or why it might've happened,或者解释它是如何或为什么发生的,
49but that's an excuse.但那是一个借口。
50And there is no excuse for using that racial slur.也没有理由使用这种种族污名。
51Ralph apologized immediately.拉尔夫马上道歉了
52And it was a sincere apology.这是真诚的道歉
53He was contrite, he was sorry about it.他忏悔了,他对此感到遗憾。
54And the board members accepted his apology.而董事会成员也接受了他的道歉.
55But later that day, some members of the board但当天晚些时候,董事会的一些成员
56contacted the media and they told the media联系媒体,他们告诉媒体
57about what Ralph had said,关于拉尔夫说过的话
58even though they said they had accepted his apology.尽管他们说他们接受了他的道歉
59And the next day, on the front page of the paper第二天,报纸头版
60was a picture of Ralph and a story about what he had said.是拉尔夫的照片 和关于他所说的话的故事
61And he was on all the news stations,他在所有的电视台,
62all the radio talk shows,所有广播谈话节目,
63and all of those media outlets characterized Ralph以及所有这些媒体 以拉尔夫的特征
64as a bigot and a racist in that one moment in time.在一个时刻,作为一个偏执者和种族主义者。
65And everyone who had wanted to be close to Ralph,所有想接近拉尔夫的人
66everyone who wanted Ralph in their corner, abandoned him.所有想要拉尔夫的人 都抛弃了他
67He was a pariah, he was an outcast.他是一个贱民, 他是一个被抛弃。
68Even people who knew him well may believe,即使认识他的人也会相信
69I don't know Ralph, because of that one moment in time.我不认识拉尔夫 因为有那么一刻
70And Ralph went to his friend, John,拉尔夫去找他的朋友约翰
71who was also at that board meeting.他当时也在董事会会议上
72And he said, John, what am I going to do?他说,约翰,我该怎么办?
73I built my reputation over decades.我建立我的名声 几十年。
74It was a great reputation.名声很高
75It's ruined, it's ruined now.已毁,今废.
76What am I going to do?我该怎么办?
77And his friend John said to him,他的朋友约翰对他说:
78Ralph, there's a difference between character and reputation.拉尔夫,性格和名声是有区别的.
79Character is who you are.角色就是你们
80And if you haven't changed who you are,如果你没有改变你是谁
81if you are the same person如果你是同一个人
82that you were before that awful moment in time,在那个可怕的时刻之前
83then you can rebuild your reputation.然后,你可以重建你的名誉。
84If your character has changed, well, that's a problem.如果你的性格变了 那就有问题了
85But if you are the same person,但如果你们是同一个人
86we can work together to rebuild your reputation.我们可以合作重建你的名誉
87And that's what they set out to do.这就是他们打算做的。
88Ralph and his friend John and Ralph's wife Barbara拉尔夫和他的朋友约翰和拉尔夫的妻子芭芭拉
89decided that they would do everything that they could,他们决定尽他们所能,
90not by words, but by deeds, to rebuild Ralph's reputation.不是通过言语,而是通过行动来重建拉尔夫的声誉.
91And they started out quietly and softly under the radar.他们悄悄地从雷达下轻轻地开始。
92They didn't ask for publicity.他们没有要求公开。
93They didn't buy ads on television or the newspaper他们没有在电视和报纸上买广告
94about what they were doing.关于他们在做什么。
95But what they did was they went into the third grade但是他们做的是进入三年级
96of a core city school and they said to the teacher,他们对老师说,
97what is the biggest problem you have?你最大的问题是什么?
98And the teacher said, summer reading loss.师又曰:夏读失.
99Our children don't read over the summer.我们的孩子不读过暑假。
100And when they come back to school in September,当他们九月回到学校时
101they're three months behind and they never catch up.他们落后了三个月 却永远追不上
102And so what Ralph and Barbara decided to do拉尔夫和芭芭拉决定怎么做
103was to put together a program to combat summer reading loss.准备一个计划 对抗夏日的失读
104And what they did was they purchased six books per child,他们每孩子买六本书
105age appropriate.年龄合适。
106And they said to the children,他们对孩子们说:
107if you read these books over the summer如果你夏天看这些书
108and you come back in September,你九月回来
109prove to your teachers you've read these books,向老师证明你读过这些书
110then not only will you have the enjoyment你们不仅享受,而且享受,
111from reading the books, and for many of these students,和许多学生,
112it was the first time they ever owned a book of their own.这是他们第一次拥有一本自己的书。
113You come back, you prove you read the books,你回来 证明你读过书
114we'll give you each $1,000 scholarship for college.我们会给你每个1000元的大学奖学金。
115And when they came back in September,当他们9月回来的时候,
116it was an amazing success.这是惊人的成功。
117Those kids read the books.那些孩子看书。
118They loved the books, they loved the reading.他们喜欢书,他们喜欢阅读。
119They did better in school and they each got $1,000.他们在学校表现较好,每人得到1000美元.
120And what did the kids say?孩子们怎么说?
121Can we do it again?我们能再来一次吗?
122And so what started as a small program in one grade,因此,作为一个小程序 在一个年级,
123third grade, in one school, over the course of time,三年级,在一个学校, 一段时间,
124spread to many schools and many grades in our state.传播到我们州的许多学校和许多年级。
125And Ralph and Barbara donated millions of dollars,拉尔夫和芭芭拉捐赠了数百万美元
126millions of dollars to combat summer reading loss数百万美元用来对抗夏季阅读损失
127and millions of dollars in scholarships.和数百万的奖学金。
128And those children, the ones that were in the third grade还有那些三年级的孩子
129a few years ago, graduated high school and went into college,几年前,高中毕业,进入大学,
130great colleges across our country.全国各地的大学
131And many of them have now graduated from graduate school,他们中许多人现在都毕业于研究生院
132amazing careers, wonderful stories.惊人的事业,精彩的故事。
133And when they were interviewed about that early program,当他们接受关于早期节目的采访时
134they said, that program changed our lives,他们说,这个计划改变了我们的生活,
135transformed our lives.改变了我们的生活。
136We not only learned to read, we loved to read.我们不仅学会了读书,而且喜欢读书.
137It expanded our horizons.它扩大了我们的视野。
138It gave us the courage to do things这给了我们做事情的勇气
139we never thought we could do by learning and reading.我们从来没有想过,我们可以做 通过学习和阅读。
140And now they're amazing success stories.现在,它们都是惊人的成功故事。
141Now, Ralph and Barbara saw that transformation现在,拉尔夫和芭芭拉看到了这种转变
142and they said, if we can do this in those schools,他们说,如果我们能在那些学校里做到这一点,
143imagine what we can do想象我们能做些什么
144in the communities of color in our state.我们州的彩色社区
145And that was their dream,那是他们的梦想,
146to transform the communities of color in our state.改变我们州的彩色社区。
147Now, unfortunately, Ralph became very ill, very ill.现在,不幸的是,拉尔夫变得非常病,非常病。
148And Ralph knew he was going to die.拉尔夫知道他会死
149But Ralph wanted that legacy to continue.但是拉尔夫希望这个遗产能继续下去.
150He wanted more than what had just been accomplished.他想要的比刚刚完成的还要多。
151And so he and John and Barbara decided that于是他和约翰和芭芭拉决定
152after Ralph passed, they would form a new foundation拉尔夫过世后,他们会组成一个新的基金会
153and it would do just that,它会这样做,
154to transform lives in our state.改变我们州的生活
155And at the end, when Ralph was very ill,最后,当拉尔夫病得很重时,
156he talked to John again.他又和约翰谈过了
157And he said, John, my character has stayed the same,他说,约翰,我的角色没有变
158but where is my reputation today?但我今天的名声呢?
159And John said, just look at the children.约翰说 看看孩子们
160Look at the children, the hundreds and hundreds of children看看孩子们, 上百个孩子
161that you have helped.你帮助了我
162Look at their families.看看他们的家人
163Look at what you have done in the community.看看你在社区里做了什么
164The community has embraced you again.社区再次拥抱你。
165You have your reputation again, Ralph.你又有你的名声,拉尔夫。
166And Ralph said, I also want to thank you and Barbara拉尔夫说 我也想感谢你和芭芭拉
167because you know the biblical saying因为你知道圣经里的一句话
168that it's easier for a camel to go through骆驼比较容易通过
169the eye of a needle than it is for a rich man针眼比有钱人要多
170to enter the kingdom of heaven.进入天国.
171And he said, I have been a very rich man,他说,我是一个非常富有的人,
172but together you have shown me how to use my money for good.但你们一起教我如何用我的钱做好事
173And maybe now I can squeeze through that gate.也许现在我可以挤进那扇门
174And John said, the prayers of the community,约翰说 社区祈祷
175the love of the community,社区之爱,
176the way the community respects you, Ralph,社会尊重你的方式,拉尔夫,
177they will push those gates open for you他们会为你打开大门
178and you will be welcomed.你将受到欢迎。
179And after Ralph passed, Barbara did exactly拉尔夫过世后,芭芭拉就是
180what they had planned.他们的计划。
181And she formed a new foundation to transform the lives她建立了改变生活的新基础
182of the communities of color in our state.我们州的彩色社区。
183And today, that foundation has given more than $63 million今天,该基金会已经提供了超过6 300万美元
184in education grants, healthcare grants, criminal justice,教育补助、保健补助、刑事司法、
185civil justice, entrepreneurship, technology training,民事司法、创业、技术培训、
186on and on and on.不断不断.
187More than 250 organizations have been funded为250多个组织提供了资金
188by that foundation.由该基金会。
189Now, is that a success story?这是成功的故事吗?
190That's an amazing success story.这是一个惊人的成功故事。
191In my view, every time one of those donations is made,我认为,每一次这些捐赠,
192you can view it as an act of contrition or as I do,你可以把它看成是忏悔 或者像我一样
193as an act of redemption, an act of redemption.作为赎罪行为,赎罪行为。
194And Barbara and Ralph proved beyond a reasonable doubt芭芭拉和拉尔夫已经证明
195that there is such a thing as redemption.有一种东西,如赎罪。
196Ralph and Barbara.拉尔夫和芭芭拉
197Now, let's go to John's story.现在,让我们来看看约翰的故事。
198John was the friend who talked about the difference约翰是朋友 谁谈论区别
199between character and reputation.在性格和名声之间
200Well, years later, John had his own devastating moment,几年后,约翰有他自己 毁灭性的时刻,
201very different than Ralph's, but devastating.和拉尔夫的完全不同,但毁灭性。
202And John's wife of almost 45 years, her name was Pat,而约翰的妻子,将近45年, 她的名字是帕特,
203out of the blue one day,有一天突然间
204she started to experience pain in her hip她的臀部开始疼痛
205and she went to the doctor and she was diagnosed她去看医生,被诊断出
206with stage four pancreatic cancer.患有第四期胰腺癌
207There is a zero survival rate有零存活率
208for stage four pancreatic cancer, zero.第四期胰腺癌 零
209It's a death sentence.死罪报应.
210Nothing can be done.无所不能.
211And when Pat and John met with her oncologist,当帕特和约翰见到她的肿瘤学家时
212a wonderful man, skillful, knowledgeable, compassionate,一个优秀的人,有技巧,有知识,有同情心,
213and he gave them that diagnosis,他做了诊断,
214he asked, do you want a prognosis?他问,你想要一个预后?
215Do you want to know how long you have to live?你想知道你要活多久吗?
216And Pat immediately said, no, I do not want to be cabined.帕特马上说,不,我不想被装舱。
217I don't want to be cabined by a thought我不想被一个想法笼罩
218of how much time I may have to live.多少时间我可能要活下去。
219Only God knows that.只有上帝知道这一点。
220And whether he gives me a day, a week, a month, a year,无论他给我一天,一周,一个月,一年,
221however long he gives, what's the important thing无论他付出了多久,什么是最重要的
222is that I choose to live my life every day with grace我选择每天过着优雅的生活
223and to do good and to help others and to help my family.做好事 帮助别人 帮助我的家人
224Cancer isn't going to define me.癌症不会定义我
225I'm going to continue to lead the life I had我将继续过着我曾经的生活
226for as long as God gives me.只要上帝赐予我
227And she went about doing it in a remarkable way.她以非凡的方式做了这件事
228Again, it shows how these lives are intersected.它再次表明这些生命是如何交织在一起的。
229Ralph and Barbara's foundation,拉尔夫和芭芭拉的基金会,
230well, Pat became an ambassador for that foundation帕特成了那个基金会的大使
231while she was undergoing chemo.在她接受化疗时
232So when she was in an oncologist's office,所以当她在肿瘤医生的办公室时
233a radiologist's office, a surgeon's office,放射科医生办公室 外科医生办公室
234or undergoing infusion,或正在注入,
235whenever she saw a healthcare worker of color,当她看到一个有色人种的医护人员
236she recruited that person to come into the foundation她招募那个人来参加基金会
237to take advantage of the training programs利用培训方案
238and the scholarships.还有奖学金
239And Pat was, and to this day still is,帕特曾经是 直到今天
240the greatest recruiter that that foundation has ever seen.基金会见过的最伟大的招募者
241Remarkable while she was undergoing cancer treatment她接受癌症治疗期间的突出之处
242for a disease she knew was going to kill her.因为她知道一种疾病 会杀死她。
243Now, John, on the other hand, he didn't do as well.现在,约翰,另一方面,他没有做得很好。
244He wasn't as strong and as courageous as his wife.他不像他妻子那么坚强和勇敢
245He struggled.他挣扎着
246He was afraid of the cancer.他害怕癌症的发作
247He was afraid of the effect that it was having on himself他害怕它对自己的影响
248and his wife and his family.他的妻子和家属,
249He was afraid.他当时很害怕
250But he did everything that he could to honor his wife.但是他竭尽所能来纪念他的妻子.
251And people would come to John and they would say,人们会来约翰说,
252John, your wife is a saint.约翰,你妻子是个圣人
253And he said, I view her as a different heavenly figure.他说,我把她看成 一个不同的天堂人物。
254I view her as an archangel warrior,我把她看成是天使战士
255the kind with the blazing sword那种带着烈焰的剑
256in her fight against pancreatic cancer.在她与胰腺癌的斗争中
257She fought every day of her life.她一生中每天都在战斗
258But stage four pancreatic cancer, as I said,但是,第四阶段胰腺癌, 正如我说的,
259is a death sentence.是一个死刑。
260There's no escape from it.无所逃避.
261But John and Pat together decided但约翰和帕特一起决定
262that they would not let her death be a dividing line.他们不会让她的死成为分界线
263She would pass to a better place.她会去一个更好的地方
264But the fight against pancreatic cancer here in our state,但是我们州防治胰腺癌的斗争
265that fight had to continue.这场斗争必须继续下去。
266And as Pat passed, she passed that sword to John当帕特通过的时候 她把剑传给了约翰
267so that he would continue the fight every day.以便他每天继续战斗。
268And they came together as a couple,他们结为夫妇,
269and they said, what we're going to do他们说,我们要做什么
270is we're gonna take the life insurance policies我们要拿人寿保险
271on Pat's life, which were very substantial,关于帕特的生命, 是非常实质性的,
272and we're gonna donate the proceeds of those我们要捐出这些收益
273to cancer research.对癌症的研究。
274We're also going to take the home,我们还要回家
275the beautiful home that we have lived in美丽的家,我们曾经生活在
276for the last 33 years,过去33年,
277and we're gonna donate the proceeds of that home我们要捐出那房子的收入
278to cancer research.对癌症的研究。
279And that's a lot, that's good, that's great,和很多,这是好的,这是伟大的,
280but it's still not gonna be enough.但还是不够
281And they decided that when Pat passed,他们决定,当帕特通过,
282John would also form a foundation.约翰也会成为一个基金会。
283And his foundation would work他的基金会会起作用的
284with Ralph and Barbara's foundation together,与拉尔夫和芭芭拉的基金会在一起,
285again, an intersection of lives.又是生命的交汇点
286And they would work together他们一起工作
287to transform cancer care in our state,改变我们州的癌症护理,
288to make Rhode Island first class.让罗德岛成为头等舱
289They recruited top physicians from around the country他们从全国招聘顶尖医生
290to come here and lead a new cancer lab.来领导一个新的癌症实验室
291Together, Barbara's foundation and John's foundation芭芭拉的基金会和约翰的基金会
292worked with the doctors here to form和这里的医生一起工作
293what is called the future generation of cancer research,所谓的下一代癌症研究,
294recruiting young students in high school today of color今天在高中招年轻学生
295who are brilliant to become oncologists成为肿瘤学家的辉煌
296and cancer researchers and hematologists癌症研究人员和血液学家
297and to stay in our state when they do so并留在我们的国家 当他们这样做
298and transform our state so that patients in our state改变我们的状态,让病人在我们的状态
299will see doctors who look like them,将见像他们的医生,
300who know their cultures,他们知道自己的文化,
301and they will not appear to be foreign to them.他们对于自己,绝不是外人。
302And millions of dollars have been donated to do just that.已经捐赠了数百万美元来做这些。
303Now, is that a success story?这是成功的故事吗?
304Well, if you look at John today,如果你今天看约翰
305he used to have a big, beautiful home,他以前有个大漂亮的家
306and now he lives in a small apartment.现在他住在一个小公寓里
307He had a wife of 45 years whom he loved.他有一个45岁的妻子 他爱他。
308Now he lives alone.现在他一个人住
309John is no longer afraid of cancer.约翰不再害怕癌症了
310He knows the battle can be won.他知道战斗可以赢
311He knows it.他知道这一点。
312That sword, it's not only taken up by John,那把剑,不只是约翰拿的
313it's taken up by everybody in the community,社区里每个人都接受
314fighting together, fighting that demon together.一起战斗 一起对抗恶魔
315Now one day, one day, there will be a cure.现在有一天,有一天, 将有一个治愈。
316And John prays every day that he's alive when that happens.约翰每天都祈祷他还活着
317So with whatever strength he has left,故以他所遗之力,
318when that day happens,当那日来临的时候,
319he can shout at the top of his lungs,他可以在肺的顶端大喊大叫
320pancreatic cancer, Pat has beaten you.胰腺癌 帕特打败了你
321Not for herself, but for the community, for everyone.不是为自己 而是为社区 为了每个人
322Now, I can tell you these stories of John and Ralph我可以告诉你约翰和拉尔夫的故事
323because I lived them.因为我活了他们。
324I'm John, and that's my wife.我是约翰,这是我的妻子。
325So I want to leave you with this.所以我想把这个留给你
326The motto of our state is hope,我们国家的座右铭是希望,
327and that's a motto and it's a slogan,那是个格言,也是个口号
328but it's much, much more than that但它的很多,远不止于此
329because redemption and hope are real.因为救赎和希望是真实的。
330They're real things.他们是真实的东西。
331Every one of you has a redemption story or will have one.你们每个人都有救赎故事 或会有一个故事
332Believe in them because if you believe,相信他们 因为如果你相信
333then hope always finds a way, always.然后希望总是找到办法,永远。
334Thank you.谢谢
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