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TED:陷入消极情绪,怎么办?

TED:陷入消极情绪,怎么办?

TED:陷入消极情绪,怎么办?

发布于 2026-09-17 · 时长 10:01

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0:06Hi everyone, gosh I wish I could dance, but I can't and you really don't want me to,大家好,天哪,我希望我能跳舞, 但我不能,你真的不希望我,
0:11so instead I thought I would talk a little today about how people think.所以我今天想谈谈人们的想法
0:16I'm fascinated by this question, I'm a social psychologist which basically means I'm a professional我对这个问题很着迷 我是个社会心理学家 这基本上意味着我是一个专业的
0:21people watcher, so this is what I do, I try to figure out how humans think and how we观察者,所以这就是我的工作, 我试图找出 人类如何思考,如何我们
0:27might be able to think better.也许能想得更好
0:29And here's something I noticed a few years ago about how I seem to think, here's a typical这是几年前我注意到的 关于我的想法, 这里有一个典型的
0:34week in my life which usually seems to evolve entirely around publishing papers.在我生命的一周里 通常会完全围绕发表论文而发展
0:39So here I am in the maximum of my artistic abilities as a stick figure going along at所以,我在这里尽我的最大 艺术能力作为一个棒形 随行
0:46baseline and a paper gets accepted.基线和论文被接受。
0:49I get this rush, this blip of happiness and then I'm back to baseline by about lunchtime.我得到这个匆忙, 幸福的片段 然后我回到基线 大约午餐时间。
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1Hi everyone, gosh I wish I could dance, but I can't and you really don't want me to,大家好,天哪,我希望我能跳舞, 但我不能,你真的不希望我,
2so instead I thought I would talk a little today about how people think.所以我今天想谈谈人们的想法
3I'm fascinated by this question, I'm a social psychologist which basically means I'm a professional我对这个问题很着迷 我是个社会心理学家 这基本上意味着我是一个专业的
4people watcher, so this is what I do, I try to figure out how humans think and how we观察者,所以这就是我的工作, 我试图找出 人类如何思考,如何我们
5might be able to think better.也许能想得更好
6And here's something I noticed a few years ago about how I seem to think, here's a typical这是几年前我注意到的 关于我的想法, 这里有一个典型的
7week in my life which usually seems to evolve entirely around publishing papers.在我生命的一周里 通常会完全围绕发表论文而发展
8So here I am in the maximum of my artistic abilities as a stick figure going along at所以,我在这里尽我的最大 艺术能力作为一个棒形 随行
9baseline and a paper gets accepted.基线和论文被接受。
10I get this rush, this blip of happiness and then I'm back to baseline by about lunchtime.我得到这个匆忙, 幸福的片段 然后我回到基线 大约午餐时间。
11A few days later a paper might get rejected and that feels pretty awful and I wait for几天后,报纸可能会被否决 那感觉很糟糕,我等着
12that blip to end, but somehow I just can't stop thinking about it.但不知怎么的 我忍不住想着
13And here's the craziest part, even if another paper gets accepted the next day, well that's这是最疯狂的部分, 即使另一篇论文在第二天被接受,
14nice, but somehow I can't get that pesky rejection out of my head.不错,但不知怎的,我无法从我的脑海中 得到那讨厌的拒绝。
15So what is going on here?发生什么事了?
16Why does a failure seem to stick in our minds so much longer than a success?为什么失败似乎在我们的脑海中停留得比成功还要久?
17Well together with my colleague Amber Boydston in the political science department I started和我同事安珀·博伊斯顿一起 我从政治学系开始
18thinking about this question, this question of do our minds get stuck in the negatives?思考这个问题, 这个问题 我们的头脑 被困在负面?
19We all know intuitively that there are different ways of thinking about things.我们都直觉地知道,对事物有不同的思考方式.
20The same glass, the saying goes, can be seen as half full or half empty and there's a lot同样的杯子,俗话说,可以看成半满或半空,有很多
21of research in the social sciences showing that depending on how you describe the glass社会科学的研究表明 取决于你如何描述玻璃
22to people as half full or half empty it changes how they feel about it.对半满或半空的人来说,它改变了他们对它的感受。
23So if you describe the glass as half full, this is called a gain frame because you're所以如果你形容玻璃是半满的, 这叫做增益框 因为你是
24focusing on what's gained, then people like it.专注于所得,然后人们喜欢它。
25But if you describe the same glass as half empty, a loss frame, then people don't like但如果你把同样的玻璃 描述成半空的, 一个损失框, 那么人们不喜欢
26it.这个
27But we wondered what happens when you try to switch from thinking about it one way to但是,我们想知道,当你试图从 思考它到
28thinking about it another way?考虑其他方式?
29Can people shift back and forth or do they get stuck in one way of thinking about it?人能回转或被困于一种思考方式吗?
30Does one of these labels, in other words, tend to stick more in the mind?这些标签之一,换句话说,是否倾向于在思想中更加坚持?
31Well to investigate this question we conducted a simple experiment.为了调查这个问题 我们做了一个简单的实验
32We told participants in our experiment about a new surgical procedure and we randomly assigned我们告诉实验参与者一个新的手术 我们随机分配
33them to one of two conditions.有两个条件之一
34For participants in the first condition, the first group, we described the surgical procedure对于第一个条件的参与者,第一组,我们描述了外科手术
35in terms of gains.在收益方面。
36We said it had a 70% success rate.我们说它有70%的成功率。
37And for participants in the second group, we described the procedure in terms of losses.对于第二组的参与者,我们用损失来描述程序.
38We said it had a 30% failure rate.我们说它有30%的失败率。
39So it's the exact same procedure.所以这是完全相同的程序。
40We're just focusing people's attention on the part of the glass that's full or the part我们只是把注意力集中在 玻璃的满面或部分
41that's empty.这是空的。
42Perhaps unsurprisingly, people like the procedure when it's described as having a 70% success也许不奇怪,人们喜欢这个程序 当它被描述为有70%的成功
43rate and they don't like it when it's described as having a 30% failure rate.率和他们不喜欢 当它被描述为30%的失败率。
44But then we added a twist.但后来我们又增加了一个曲折。
45We told participants in the first group, you know, you could think of this as a 30% failure我们告诉第一组的参与者, 你知道,你可以认为 这是30%的失败
46rate and now they don't like it anymore.现在他们不再喜欢了
47They've changed their minds.他们改变主意了
48And we told participants in the second group, you know, you could think of this as a 70%我们告诉第二组的参与者, 你知道,你可以把这看作是70%
49success rate, but unlike the first group, they stuck with their initial opinion.成功率,但与第一组不同的是,他们坚持了最初的意见.
50They seemed to be stuck in the initial loss frame that they saw at the beginning of the他们似乎被卡在了最初的损失框架里 他们看到,在开始
51study.学习。
52We conducted another experiment.我们又进行了一次实验。
53This time, we told participants about the current governor of an important state who这一次,我们告诉与会者,现任重要州的州长
54is running for re-election against his opponent.竞选连任对手
55We again had two groups of participants and we described the current governor's track我们又有两组人参加 我们描述了现任州长的行踪
56record to them in one of two ways.记录他们的方式之一。
57We said that when the current governor took office, statewide budget cuts were expected我们说,当现任州长上任时,全州的预算预计会减少。
58to affect about 10,000 jobs.影响大约10,000个工作。
59And then half the participants read that under the current governor's leadership, 40% of然后一半的参与者读到,在现任州长的领导下,40%
60these jobs had been saved.这些工作已经挽救。
61And they like the current governor.他们喜欢现任州长
62They think he's doing a great job.他们觉得他做得很好
63The rest of the participants read that under the current governor's leadership, 60% of其余参与者读到,在现任省长的领导下,60%的
64these jobs had been lost.这些工作已经失去。
65And they don't like the current governor.他们不喜欢现任州长
66They think he's doing a terrible job.他们认为他做得很糟糕
67But then once more, we added a twist.但是,我们再一次增加了一个曲折。
68For participants in the first group, we reframed the information in terms of losses.对于第一组的参与者,我们重新界定了损失信息。
69And now they didn't like the current governor anymore.现在他们不再喜欢现任州长了
70And for participants in the second group, we reframed the information in terms of gains.对于第二组的参与者,我们从收益的角度重新定义了信息。
71But just like in the first study, this didn't seem to matter.但是,就像在第一个研究, 这似乎并不重要。
72People in this group still didn't like the current governor.这群人仍然不喜欢现任州长.
73So notice what this means.注意这是什么意思
74Once the loss frame gets in there, it sticks.一旦损失框 在那里,它粘住。
75People can't go back to thinking about jobs saved once they've thought about jobs lost.人们一旦想到失去工作,就不能回想所挽救的工作.
76So in both of these scenarios, actually, the current governor gets ousted in favor of his所以,在这两种情况下,实际上,现任州长被推翻,赞成他
77opponent.对手。
78Well, at this point, we were getting curious.这时候我们开始好奇了
79Why does this happen?为什么会这样?
80Could it be that it's actually mentally harder for people to convert from losses to gains会不会是,实际上 精神上更难 人们从损失转换成收益
81than it is for them to go from gains to losses?难道他们不能享受恩惠吗?
82So we conducted a third study to test how easily people could convert from one frame因此我们进行了第三次研究, 以测试人们如何从一个框架转换
83to another.到另一个。
84This time, we told participants, imagine there's been an outbreak of an unusual disease and这一次,我们告诉参与者, 想象一下有一个异常疾病爆发,
85600 lives are at stake.六百众生危.
86And we asked participants in one group, if 100 lives are saved, how many will be lost?我们问一个团体的参与者,如果拯救了100条生命,会损失多少人?
87And we asked participants in the other group, if 100 lives are lost, how many will be saved?我们问另一组的参与者,如果有100人丧生,有多少人会获救?
88So everyone just has to calculate 600 minus 100 and come up with the answer of 500.因此,每个人都只需要计算600减100,然后提出500的答案。
89But whereas people in one group have to convert from gains to losses in order to do that,但是,虽然一个群体中的人 不得不从收益转换为损失 这样做,
90people in the second group have to convert from losses to gains.第二组的人必须从损失转为收益。
91We timed how long it took them to solve this simple math problem.我们花多长时间时间解决这个简单的数学问题。
92And what we found was that when people had to convert from gains to losses, they could我们发现,当人们不得不从收益转化为损失时,他们可以
93solve the problem quite quickly.尽快解决问题。
94It took them about seven seconds on average.他们平均花了大约7秒。
95But when they had to convert from losses to gains, well, now it took them far longer,但是当他们不得不从损失转换成收益时 现在他们花了很长时间
96almost 11 seconds.将近11秒
97So this suggests that once we think about something as a loss, that way of thinking所以这说明,一旦我们把某件事情当成损失, 思考的方式
98about it tends to stick in our heads and to resist our attempts to change it.我们总是想着要改变它 并抵制我们改变它的企图
99What I take away from this research and from related research is that our view of the world我从研究和相关研究中取而代之的是 我们的世界观
100has a fundamental tendency to tilt toward the negative.有着向负面倾斜的根本倾向.
101It's pretty easy to go from good to bad, but far harder to shift from bad to good.从好到坏是相当容易的,但从坏到坏更难转变.
102We literally have to work harder to see the upside of things.我们必须更努力地工作 才能看到事物的颠峰
103And this matters, so think about the economy.这很重要,所以想想经济。
104Here's economic well-being from 2007 to 2010, and you can see it tanked just like这是从2007年到2010年的经济福利,你可以看到它像油炸一样
105we all remember, and then by late 2010, it had recovered by most objective measures.我们都记得,然后到2010年底,通过最客观的措施恢复了活力。
106But here's consumer confidence over the same time period.但这里的消费者信心 同期。
107You can see it tanks right along with the economy, but then it seems to get stuck.你可以看到它与经济一脉相承, 但后来它似乎被卡住了。
108Instead of rebounding with the economy itself,而不是与经济本身反弹,
109consumers seem to be psychologically stuck back there in the recession.消费者似乎在心理上陷入衰退。
110So oddly then, it may take more effort to change our minds about how the economy is那么奇怪的是,我们可能需要付出更多的努力 来改变我们对经济状况的看法
111doing than to change the economy itself.而不是改变经济本身。
112On a more personal level, what this research means to me is that you have to work to see从个人角度来说,这个研究对我意味着 你必须工作才能看到
113the upside.颠倒。
114Literally, this takes work, this takes effort.从字面上讲,这需要工作,这需要努力。
115And you can practice this, you can train your mind to do this better.你可以练习这个,你可以训练你的思想 做这个更好的。
116There is research out of UC Davis showing that just writing for加州大学戴维斯分校的研究表明
117a few minutes each day about things that you're grateful for每天几分钟,关于你感激的事
118can dramatically boost your happiness and well-being and even your health.能大大提升你的幸福和幸福 甚至健康
119We can also rehearse good news and share it with others.我们还可以排练好消息并与其他人分享。
120We tend to think, right, that misery loves company,我们往往认为,对, 痛苦爱伴,
121that venting will help get rid of our negative emotions,排气有助于消除我们的负面情绪,
122that we'll feel better if we just talk about how terrible our day was.如果我们只谈论我们的日子有多糟糕,我们会感觉更好。
123And so we talk, and we talk, and we talk about the boss who's driving us crazy and然后我们谈,我们谈, 我们谈老板 谁把我们逼疯了,
124the friend who never called us back and the meeting at work where every little从来没有打过我们回来的朋友 和工作会议
125thing that could go wrong did.可能出错的事情就发生了
126But we forget to talk about the good stuff.但我们忘记谈论好东西了
127And yet, that's exactly where our minds need the most practice.然而,这正是我们大脑最需要练习的地方。
128So my husband, who has this disconcerting habit of listening to what I say other因此,我丈夫, 谁有这种令人不安的习惯 听我说的话
129people should do and then pointing out that technically speaking, I'm a person too,人们应该这样做,然后指出 技术上,我也是一个人,
130has taken to listening to me for about two minutes.听我讲了两分钟
131On days when I come home all grumpy and complaining about everything.当我回家的时候 总是发脾气抱怨一切
132And he listens and he says, okay, but what happened today that was good?他听了然后说,好吧, 但今天发生了什么是好的?
133And so I tell him about the student who came up to me after class with this所以我告诉他一个学生 课后来找我
134really interesting, insightful question.非常有趣,有见地的问题。
135And I tell him about the friend who emailed me out of the blue this morning,我告诉他今天早上突然给我发邮件的朋友
136just to say hello.只是打个招呼
137And somewhere in the telling, I start to smile.我开始微笑了
138And I start to think that maybe my day was pretty decent after all.我开始认为,也许我的一天毕竟相当体面。
139I think we can also work in our communities to focus on the upside.我认为,我们也可以在我们的社区中工作,集中力量解决问题。
140We can be more aware that bad tends to stick.我们可以更清楚地知道坏的倾向是坚持的.
141One mean comment can stick with somebody all day, all week even.一个刻薄的评论可以坚持一个人一整天,甚至整个星期。
142And bad tends to propagate itself, right?坏人往往会自我传播 对吧?
143Somebody snaps at you and you snap back and you snap at the next guy too.有人冲你冲你冲你冲你冲你冲来冲去
144But what if the next time somebody snapped at you, you forgave them?但是,如果下一次有人冲你, 你原谅他们?
145What if the next time you had a really grumpy waitress,如果下次你有一个非常暴躁的女服务员,
146you left her an extra large tip?你给她留了一大笔小费?
147Our minds may be built to look for negative information and to hold on to it.我们的思想可以建立起来,寻找负面信息并坚持下去.
148But we can also retrain our minds if we put some effort into it and但是,我们也可以重新训练我们的思想 如果我们投入一些努力,
149start to see that the glass may be a little more full than we initially thought.开始看到玻璃可能比我们最初想象的要多一点。
150Thank you.谢谢
151Thank you, what if the next time you had a really grumpy waitress,谢谢,如果你下次有 真正的暴躁服务员,
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