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别再自我提升了,先学会自我毁灭

别再自我提升了,先学会自我毁灭

别再自我提升了,先学会自我毁灭

发布于 2026-09-09 · 时长 14:47

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0:00Every other video on YouTube is about self-improvement.YouTube上其他的视频都是关于自我改进的.
0:05Improve this, improve that.改进这一点,改进这一点。
0:07Just keep caking on the improvements.继续踩油门
0:10But life is ironic and has a sense of humor.但生活具有讽刺意味,具有幽默感.
0:14What we needed all along is self-destruction.我们一直需要的是自我毁灭
0:20Before doing any building, you have to break yourself down.在做任何建筑之前,你必须打破自己.
0:24And funny enough, you end up getting to where you want to go faster好笑的是,你最终会走到你想更快的地方
0:28and as the best version of you.作为你们最好的版本。
0:31You are going to lose some of yourself in this process,在这个过程中你会失去一些自我
0:34hence it being called self-destruction.因此它被称为自我毁灭。
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1Every other video on YouTube is about self-improvement.YouTube上其他的视频都是关于自我改进的.
2Improve this, improve that.改进这一点,改进这一点。
3Just keep caking on the improvements.继续踩油门
4But life is ironic and has a sense of humor.但生活具有讽刺意味,具有幽默感.
5What we needed all along is self-destruction.我们一直需要的是自我毁灭
6Before doing any building, you have to break yourself down.在做任何建筑之前,你必须打破自己.
7And funny enough, you end up getting to where you want to go faster好笑的是,你最终会走到你想更快的地方
8and as the best version of you.作为你们最好的版本。
9You are going to lose some of yourself in this process,在这个过程中你会失去一些自我
10hence it being called self-destruction.因此它被称为自我毁灭。
11But get excited, you have no idea how much you needed this.但兴奋点 你不知道你有多需要这个
12Let me help you with the breakdown and the build up.让我帮你 破解和积聚。
13Because on your own, you may do this all wrong.因为靠你自己,你可能会做错事
14To start, get a blank Google Doc or a blank page of your journal ready.首先,请准备好空白的Google Doc 或空白的日记页。
15On the top, title it self-destruction.在顶部,标题是自毁。
16And the first thing you write down is a description of what you want to achieve in life.你写下来的第一件事是描述你想要在生活中实现什么。
17This is a description of your vision state self.这是你视觉状态的描述
18We talk about vision exercises in our channel.我们在我们的频道里谈论视觉练习。
19Won't get too deep on it here,这里不会太深
20but check out the other videos to get a better sense of this if you need.但查看其他的视频 以获得更好的感 这一点,如果你需要。
21Write whatever comes to mind.写点什么吧
22Anything health and fitness related that's a goal.任何与健康和健身有关的东西,都是个目标.
23Finance and wealth related.金融与财富相关.
24Something to do with relationships.和感情有关
25I'll give you an example of what I would write as what I want to achieve in life.我举个例子 说明我写什么 想要在生活中实现什么
26It would be, I exercise for one hour each day我每天锻炼一个小时
27and I feel great about how I feel and how I look.我对自己的感受和外表感觉很好
28I have a large and global community that benefits from my life tips我有一个庞大的全球社区 从我的人生小费中获益
29and we all are walking together on a journey of feeling real good holistically.我们一起走在 一个感觉真正的好整体。
30I have a healthy family that I get to spend a lot of time with我有一个健康的家庭,我可以花很多时间在一起
31and there's a lot of love and growth all around.到处都有爱和成长
32I think you get the gist.我认为你得到了重点。
33More detailed, the better.比较详细,越好。
34Once you have that, then we can get into the breakdown.一旦你得到它,我们就可以进入崩溃。
35Here are four exercises to self-destruct properly这是四次自毁演习
36so you can get rid of parts of yourself that are getting in the way.这样你就可以摆脱 自己的一部分 受到阻碍。
37First, you have to blow up some of the things you do.首先,你必须炸掉你做的一些事情。
38Just put an end to them.刚刚结束了他们。
39You probably are doing things right now你现在可能正在做一些事情
40that are limiting your happiness and capping your chances of reaching your goals.限制你的幸福 限制你达成目标的机会
41Bad habits are naturally attracted to people without strong intentionality,不良习惯自然会吸引到没有强烈的故意行为的人身上,
42just like mold to stagnant water.就像模具到停滞的水。
43So even if you don't think you have bad habits, it's most likely that you do.所以,即使你觉得自己没有坏习惯,也很有可能有坏习惯。
44Think about what you do every day starting from waking up想想你每天从醒来开始做什么
45then what you do every moment onwards.然后你们每时每刻都在做什么
46What are the things that aren't good for you and get in the way?何物不善而碍乎?
47Write those down.写下来。
48Some examples would be not waking up at a decent hour,有些例子不会在正常时间醒来,
49not brushing your teeth, eating suboptimal food for breakfast,不刷牙,吃 低于最佳的食物早餐,
50not getting at least a little bit of sun to start the day,至少没有一点太阳开始一天,
51not exercising at all throughout the day, etc.完全没有锻炼一天,等等。
52Keep the list a living list and add to it as you think of stuff.保持名单 一个活的列表 并添加到它,当你想到的东西。
53This exercise might take a few days,这可能需要几天时间
54since you'll need to think hard and be honest with yourself因为你需要认真思考 对自己诚实
55to identify things you do that you think are not helping you.来识别你所做的,你认为没有帮助你的事情。
56And there may be things that you do less frequently,可能有些事情你做较少,
57such as drink heavily with friends every now and then.比如时不时地和朋友喝酒
58These things should be listed as well if you think they're slowing you down.如果你认为这些东西会拖慢你的脚步 那这些东西也应该列出
59Some people that are in your circles or have access to you regularly有些人在你的圈子里 或者经常接触你
60are directly or indirectly pulling you down直接或间接拉你下来
61and preventing you from achieving what you need to.并阻止你达到你需要的。
62Doing an honest gut check of who is good for you and who is not做一个诚实的直觉检查 谁对你有好处 谁不是
63is one of the healthiest things you can do for yourself and for your goals.这是你为你自己和为目标所做的最健康的事情之一。
64List down all the people that you are exposed to regularly in life,列出生活中所有经常接触的人
65then very objectively score them against the goals you have.然后非常客观地根据你的目标来评分
66Is your friend Kyle a positive or negative force你的朋友凯尔是积极还是消极的力量
67when it comes to you and your fitness goals?当它涉及到你和你的健身目标?
68Is your brother Jake a positive or negative force你弟弟Jake是积极还是消极的力量
69when it comes to your financial goals?你的财务目标呢?
70One by one, go through and assess their contribution to your life goals.一个接一个地评估他们对你人生目标的贡献。
71It's a cold, cold process,这是一个冷酷的过程,
72but some of the most valuable activities for you and your life但一些最有价值的活动 对于你和你的生活
73are just straight, cold and ruthless.冷酷无情
74If you're not going to be honest with yourself, then you're lost.若不自诚,则迷矣.
75Shake it off and do the diligence.摇动它做勤奋。
76You might feel some emotions arise and you may hear your mind say to you,你可能会感觉到一些情绪的出现, 你可能会听到你的思想对你说,
77how could you judge your friend like that?你怎么能这样评价你的朋友?
78You have to just let your mind throw thoughts at you你只能让你的头脑向你倾斜
79in resistance to your positive change,抵制你的积极变化
80because that's what it is designed to do.因为那是它的设计。
81It resists any change with negative thoughts.它用消极的想法抵制任何改变。
82The truth is, this doesn't mean you have to completely end relationships,事实是 这并不意味着你必须彻底结束关系
83but as long as you know how certain relationships help or hurt you,但只要你知道某些关系 如何帮助或伤害你,
84you can manage them carefully.你可以仔细管理
85And your positive progress can ultimately help the people in your circles你的积极进步最终可以帮助你圈子里的人
86to be inspired for positive change as well.也会受到积极变革的启发。
87All worthwhile things in this world are uncomfortable and require effort.世界上所有有价值的东西都不舒服,需要努力。
88Third, you have to eliminate certain spending habits.第三,必须消除某些支出习惯。
89What you pay for, what you buy, drives a lot of your progress,你付出的代价,买什么, 驱动了很多你的进步,
90especially with your finances.尤其是你的财经
91Getting honest with your spending and eliminating all of the unnecessary诚实对待你的开支 消除一切不必要的
92and bad spending will establish a strong foundation for wealth and good habits.和不良开支将为财富和良好习惯奠定坚实的基础。
93Write down everything that you spend money on.记下你花在身上的一切
94Look through your credit card history, your bank account history,看看你的信用卡历史 你的银行账户历史
95and write down purchase activities that are common.并记录常见的采购活动。
96You might see that you buy on average one coffee outside each day,你可能会看到,你每天平均买一杯咖啡出去,
97and you usually buy food delivery for dinner.通常你买食物送晚餐。
98And you spend $200 on alcohol at the bar each week,你每周在酒吧花两百块买酒
99and you pay Uber roughly $100 each weekend as well.你每个周末还给Uber大约100美元
100These are just a few examples, but they will reveal a lot of your approach to life.这些只是几个例子,但它们会揭示你对生活的许多方法.
101You'll have to go through the expenses you've identified你必须要查查你确定的费用
102and identify which ones you feel you don't need.找出你认为不需要的
103Then you determine the replacements that would remove those expenses.然后确定哪些替代人员可以消除这些费用。
104Instead of buying coffee outside, buy a thermos and brew coffee at home,而不是在外面买咖啡 在家里买热水和酿咖啡
105then carry coffee with you in the thermos.然后与你一起在温室里携带咖啡。
106Instead of taking the Uber so much,而不是把Uber 这么多,
107figure out how to take public transportation,想想怎么搭公交车
108or establish a system with your friends to have one person或与朋友建立制度 拥有一个人
109be the designated driver each night out and take turns.成为指定的司机 每晚出门轮流。
110Outlining your life in terms of where you spend money will make change very actionable,以你花钱的地方来概括你的生活 会让变化变得非常可行
111and you'll feel really good when you see your hard-earned money当你看到你辛苦挣的钱 你会感觉很好
112not burn away so quickly.别这么快就烧掉
113This will set up a lot of new opportunities for your saved money,这会给你节省的钱创造很多新的机会
114which we talk about in this channel,我们在这个频道上谈论,
115so subscribe so you can get notified of more videos with more tips.因此,订阅可以得到通知 更多的视频和更多的提示。
116And fourth, you have to eviscerate some of who you are.第四,你必须了解自己是谁
117This part is a bit more intangible,这部分有点无形
118and it requires an exploration into your psyche and your personality.它需要探索你的心灵和个性
119Some people will protest at this,有些人会为此抗议,
120and say that whoever you are is perfect and you shouldn't change who you are.并说无论你是谁都是完美的 你不应该改变你是谁。
121Those people need to calm down.那些人需要冷静下来。
122Yeah, you are exactly who you need to be,是啊,你正是你需要成为的人,
123and that comes with it working on yourself,随之而来的是它的工作你自己,
124destroying yourself, then building yourself back up.毁掉你自己,然后重建你自己
125That's a part of the game.这是游戏的一部分。
126Resting on who you are and being lazy about changing things is a pretty lame excuse.依靠你的本性 懒惰地改变事情 是个很烂的借口
127So destroying some of who you are starts with identifying characteristics of yourself所以,摧毁一些你是谁 开始识别自己的特征
128that you think are getting in the way.你觉得会妨碍我们
129Again, write them down.再写下来
130Are you afraid?你害怕吗?
131What are you afraid of specifically?你特别怕什么?
132Do you delay things a lot?你经常拖延时间吗?
133Are you fairly positive or are you negative?你是相当积极还是消极?
134If you have a trustworthy friend,如果你有个可靠的朋友
135maybe you can ask them what they think about you,也许你可以问他们对你的看法
136and you can determine if any of those traits are helpful or hurtful to your purposes.你可以确定其中的任何特征 是否有帮助或伤害你的目的。
137Then you write down declarations that you will not be the things you want to stop being.然后你写下声明 说你不会成为你想停止的东西
138I will not be as negative as I usually am.我不会像平常那样消极
139I will not procrastinate as much as I do.我不会像以前那样拖延
140I will not be afraid of things that can help me progress towards my goals.我不怕那些能帮助我朝着我的目标前进的东西。
141Through this, you will have done a fairly good job of destroying yourself,通过这个,你会 做一个相当好的工作 摧毁自己,
142self-destruction at its finest,自毁的最好,
143and with you remaining as only a fraction of what you once were.而你们只得享受自己曾经的一小部分。
144It's time for the next stage.是时下台.
145The build-up.积聚者.
146Here are four exercises that will help you fill those holes left from the destruction这里有四个练习 可以帮助你填补 破坏留下的洞
147that will rebuild yourself into a machine that will more efficiently get you to your goals.它将重建你自己 成为一个机器, 将更高效地让你达到你的目标。
148Continue writing in the Google Doc or journal pages,继续在Google Doc或日记页面上写作,
149but now title this section as the build-up,但现在将本节称为集结部分,
150and prepare to do four separate thought exercises.并准备做四个不同的思考练习。
151You'll recognize there is a pattern here.你会发现这里有规律的
152First, you have to start doing certain things.首先,你必须开始做一些事情。
153Write down certain behaviors and activities that you can add to your current life写下您可以添加到当前生活中的某些行为和活动
154that will help you move towards your vision of yourself这将帮助你走向 你对自己的看法
155that you wrote about at the beginning of this exercise.你在练习开始时写的
156Think about smaller things that you can add into your daily habits想想小东西,你可以加入你的日常习惯
157that address each of your major goals.每一个你的主要目标。
158For fitness or health-related goals,关于健身或与健康有关的目标,
159{\fn黑体\fs22\bord1\shad0\3aHBE\4aH00\fscx67\fscy66\2cHFFFFFF\3cH808080}决定什么时候醒来
160and eat leafy greens followed by two eggs for breakfast every single day,吃叶绿的,然后每天吃两个鸡蛋,
161and commit to joining an exercise class at least three times a week.并承诺每周至少参加三次锻炼班。
162For wealth goals, commit to opening up a high-yield savings account对于财富目标,承诺开设一个高收益储蓄账户
163and automatically deposit a few hundred dollars a month,每月自动存款几百美元
164and also open a brokerage account and automatically deposit a certain amount each month.并开设经纪账户,每月自动存入一定金额。
165Also commit to learning a new skill还致力于学习新技能
166or joining a meetup on a topic that is a part of your life vision.或参加一个聚会 一个话题是 你人生观的一部分。
167Write down all of the behaviors that you think will help you get there.记下你认为能帮助你到达那里的所有行为
168Be very specific and make the behaviors actionable.要非常具体,使行为可以采取行动.
169This will significantly increase the chances of you adopting them.这会大大增加你收养他们的机会。
170Second, you have to start hanging around certain people.第二 你得开始跟某些人混
171Who in your circle is going to be a positive force in you accomplishing some of your goals?在你的圈子里,谁会成为你实现某些目标的积极力量?
172Is there someone that has already achieved certain shared goals and is willing to help?有没有人已经实现了某些共同目标并愿意提供帮助?
173You need to write those names down and make an effort to connect with them more frequently你需要把这些名字记下来 并努力与它们更频繁地连接
174and connect with them on those relevant topics.并在这些相关议题上与它们建立联系。
175If these people are passionate about the topic you have a goal in,如果这些人热衷于这个话题 你有一个目标
176then they should be more than happy to help you and walk that path with you.那他们应该更愿意帮助你 和你一起走这条路
177If you are in need of finding people outside of your circle如果你需要寻找你圈外的人
178to provide you with positive influence towards your goal progress,对你的目标进展产生积极影响,
179then you have to start exposing yourself to the right communities.然后,你必须开始 暴露自己在正确的社区。
180Join meetups that are around your goal topics.加入围绕你目标主题的聚会
181Look around on LinkedIn or Instagram to find people that seem to have accomplished some of your key goals.在LinkedIn或Instagram上四处找找 似乎完成了你一些关键目标的人
182Also, ask around your circle.还有,问问你的圈子
183If anyone knows anyone that has gone through and accomplished some of your goals,如果有人知道谁 经历了并实现了你的一些目标,
184the power of connections will surprise you.连接的力量会让你惊讶的
185Positive human forces in your life that have walked the path you want to walk are living cheat codes.你生命中走过你想要走的路的 积极的人类力量是活在欺骗的密码
186It may take some time to find the right ones, but it is oh so worth it.找到合适的人选可能需要一些时间,但这是非常值得的。
187So you must not give up the search.所以你不能放弃搜索
188When you build yourself up from the ashes, you need to consider your assets as a part of you holistically.当你从灰烬中建立起来的时候,你需要将你的资产作为你整体的一部分来考虑.
189And most likely there will be some asset component to your vision state self.并且很可能会有一些 资产组件 到你的视觉状态。
190If you wish for a certain amount of wealth or passive income or business ownership,如果你想要一定的财富或被动收入或企业所有权,
191this comes with it the need to create your own assets.这就需要创造自己的资产。
192Think about what types of assets you would like to have in the future.想想你将来想要什么样的资产
193Would you like a certain type of home to live in and other real estate to generate passive income?您想要某种类型的住宅 和其他房地产来创造被动收入吗?
194Would you like to also create videos for the sake of transferring your knowledge to your loved ones and the world?您是否也想为将您的知识传授给亲人和世界而制作视频?
195Would you like incomes from dividends from stocks or stocks to borrow against in the future您希望股票或股票股息收入在未来借入吗?
196since loans against your own assets are at lower rates and loans are not taxed?因为用自己资产贷款的利率较低,贷款不征税?
197Well, then you need to start building those assets now.那你现在就要开始建造这些资产
198Once you shortlist the assets that you like to have in the future,一旦你短名单 你喜欢拥有的资产在未来,
199start identifying the steps you can take now that will begin the journey.开始确定您可以采取的步骤 开始旅程。
200The asset that you are working towards might seem like it's far too ambitious or unattainable.你所追求的财富 似乎过于宏大或无法实现
201But again, tell your brain to stop yammering and just think about the smallest steps you can take now但再说一遍 让你的大脑停止颤抖 想想你现在能走的最小步骤
202to slowly accrue the assets over time.逐渐积累资产。
203Remember, the power of compounding is a life wonder,记住,复合的力量 是一个生命奇迹,
204and if you improve on your efforts and contribution 1% a day or even a week,如果你的努力有所改进 每天甚至一周贡献1%
205what you have will be shocking in the matter of a few years.几年后,你会震惊的
206To help you with kickstarting your assets, I have some non-sponsored referral links in the description为了帮助您启动您的资产, 我在描述中有一些非赞助的推荐链接
207and a full related video as a recommended one at the end of this.以及一个完整的相关视频 作为推荐 在结尾。
208Fourth, you have to start becoming certain things.第四,你必须开始 成为某些事情。
209What are the characteristics of a person that will obtain your goals with more speed?以更快的速度获得你目标的人的特征是什么?
210Write those down.写下来。
211Staying positive, working diligently, staying humble, staying curious,保持积极 勤奋 谦卑 好奇
212enjoying the pain of growth, never giving up, never delaying.享受成长的痛苦,永不放弃,永不拖延.
213These are just a few examples.这些只是几个例子。
214Select the traits that you really believe will help you accomplish your life ambitions,选择你真正相信的特性 会帮助你实现你的生活野心,
215then start thinking of small actions you could take that would help you embody those characteristics in your day to day.然后开始思考一些小动作,你可以采取这些小动作来帮助你将这些特性体现在日常中.
216For example, let's say for the characteristic of staying positive,比方说,让我们假设 保持积极,
217put a jar on your desk and whenever you say something negative through the day, deposit a dollar in the jar.把一个罐子放在你的桌子上, 当你在一天里说负面的话, 存入罐子一美元。
218Or write on a piece of paper, I am a positive person,或者写在一张纸上, 我是个积极的人,
219and post it up in the bathroom where you will see it every day.把它放在浴室里 你每天都会看到
220For the characteristic of working diligently,为了努力工作,
221have a dry erase board put up on your fridge or elsewhere visible在冰箱或别的地方贴个干抹板
222and commit to writing down the three must complete items on there before you sleep.并且承诺在睡觉前写下这三件东西
223And as you accomplish those tasks, cross them out.当你完成那些任务时, 把它们划出来.
224Establish some systems in place to help you immerse in these microbehaviors建立一些系统来帮助你沉浸于这些微行为中
225that should lead to you adopting the larger behaviors naturally in your life.这应该导致你 采取更大的行为 在你的生活中自然。
226Train yourself like you were a computer.把你训练成电脑一样
227We are all programmable through intentionally placed systems.我们都可以通过有意设置的系统编程。
228And as mentioned, if you'd like to get some tips on how to establish your own assets and a foundation for your wealth,如前所述,如果你想得到一些关于如何建立自己资产和建立财富基础的提示,
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