当现实重重打击你时，如何找寻生命的意义【TED演讲】
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| 时间 | 英文 | 中文 |
|---|---|---|
| 0:01 | There's a well-known quote which says, | 有一句著名的话说 |
| 0:08 | life is what happens to us | 生活是我们的命运 |
| 0:11 | while we are busy making other plans. | 我们正忙着制定其他计划 |
| 0:16 | It's this unpredictability, hence unpreparedness, | 这是这种不可预测性, 因此没有准备, |
| 0:21 | is what makes life so fragile, yet so beautiful. | 生命是如此脆弱 却如此美丽 |
| 0:28 | Friends, some 20-25 years ago, | 朋友,大约20-25年前, |
| 0:33 | I lived a life that many would only dream of. | 我过着很多人只会梦想的生活 |
| 0:38 | I always wanted to be an acclaimed artist | 我一直想成为一个受欢迎的艺术家 |
| 0:40 | and be at the top of my game. | 并成为我游戏的顶峰。 |
| 0:45 | I came from Nepal and actually managed to be | 我从尼泊尔来,实际上设法 |
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| 序号 | 英文 | 中文 |
|---|---|---|
| 1 | There's a well-known quote which says, | 有一句著名的话说 |
| 2 | life is what happens to us | 生活是我们的命运 |
| 3 | while we are busy making other plans. | 我们正忙着制定其他计划 |
| 4 | It's this unpredictability, hence unpreparedness, | 这是这种不可预测性, 因此没有准备, |
| 5 | is what makes life so fragile, yet so beautiful. | 生命是如此脆弱 却如此美丽 |
| 6 | Friends, some 20-25 years ago, | 朋友,大约20-25年前, |
| 7 | I lived a life that many would only dream of. | 我过着很多人只会梦想的生活 |
| 8 | I always wanted to be an acclaimed artist | 我一直想成为一个受欢迎的艺术家 |
| 9 | and be at the top of my game. | 并成为我游戏的顶峰。 |
| 10 | I came from Nepal and actually managed to be | 我从尼泊尔来,实际上设法 |
| 11 | a popular and successful actress in Indian film industry. | 在印度电影业很受欢迎和成功的女演员。 |
| 12 | About 80-odd films in five different languages, | 大约80多部不同语言的电影, |
| 13 | multiple awards, to be honest, | 说实话,有多个奖项 |
| 14 | some quality and a lot of quantity. | 一些质量和数量。 |
| 15 | Everything that I had dreamt of, | 我梦见的一切 |
| 16 | in fact more than what I had dreamt of, | 其实比我梦寐以求的还要多 |
| 17 | was happening to me. | 发生在我身上。 |
| 18 | What I didn't know, that while I was in this most heady, | 我不知道的是, 当我在这个最头部, |
| 19 | most enjoyable ride ever, | 最享受的旅程, |
| 20 | life had planned something else for me, | 生活为我规划了别的东西 |
| 21 | that I would be thrown into a whirlwind of things | 我会被扔进一团糟 |
| 22 | where slowly I'll start to lose it all. | 慢慢地我就会失去一切 |
| 23 | Initially it started subtly, | 最初它开始潜移, |
| 24 | like I signed a bad film, which flopped, | 就像我签了个烂片 被打晕了 |
| 25 | and I got a bad review, | 我有一个不好的评论, |
| 26 | and then there was another, and another, and another. | 然后还有另一个,另一个,另一个 |
| 27 | But I didn't care, because even then I had some good directors | 但我不在乎,因为即使当时我有一些好导演 |
| 28 | wanting me in their film, | 想要我在他们的电影, |
| 29 | so I thought, well, I can always bounce back, | 所以我想,嗯,我总是可以反弹, |
| 30 | but that didn't really happen. | 但是这不是真的 |
| 31 | I had developed an unhealthy lifestyle, | 我养成了不健康的生活方式 |
| 32 | which was attracting wrong company. | 它吸引了错误的公司。 |
| 33 | Restlessly I was moving from one bad relationship to another one. | 不知不觉地,我从一个坏关系 转移到另一个关系。 |
| 34 | I was in a mess, and I was in denial. | 我当时一团糟, 和我在否认。 |
| 35 | I felt flat on my face when my marriage broke, | 婚姻破裂时,我脸上很平坦 |
| 36 | and soon after I was diagnosed with aggressive form of cancer. | 在我被诊断出患有强烈癌症后不久 |
| 37 | Even my cancer was of an extreme kind. | 连我的癌症都非常严重 |
| 38 | Let me give you a tip of the iceberg | 我给你冰山一角 |
| 39 | of how gruesome my treatment was, my chemotherapy was, | 我的治疗有多可怕 我的化疗 |
| 40 | that it was not of balding of the hair, losing eyelashes and eyebrows, | 这不是秃头, 失去睫毛和眉毛, |
| 41 | and looking sick and sad. | 和看着生病和悲伤。 |
| 42 | That's how we cancer patients look. | 这就是我们癌症患者的样子。 |
| 43 | From that glamorous diva to this, | 从那个迷人的女神到这个 |
| 44 | it was not looks. | 这不是外表。 |
| 45 | It was actually when I had to sign waivers for a permanent heart damage, | 实际上,当我不得不签署 放弃永久心脏损伤, |
| 46 | a permanent ear damage, a permanent neuropathy problem | 永久性耳损伤 永久性神经病症 |
| 47 | that my hand would be shaking for the rest of my life. | 我的手会颤抖一辈子 |
| 48 | It's then I got scared, really scared. | 那时我很害怕,真的害怕。 |
| 49 | I started to worry that maybe these were my last days. | 我开始担心 也许这是我的最后一天 |
| 50 | Maybe I was facing the D-word, | 也许我面对的是D字眼 |
| 51 | the unimaginable, unbelievable, unfathomable death. | 难以想象的 不可思议的 难以想象的死亡 |
| 52 | And then I started to think, if this was the end of my life, | 然后我开始想,如果这是 我生命的终结, |
| 53 | what did I do with my life so far? | 我这一辈子都干了些什么? |
| 54 | Did I live well? | 我过得好吗? |
| 55 | Was I proud of it? | 我为此感到骄傲吗? |
| 56 | Of course not. | 当然不是。 |
| 57 | I had messed it. | 我已经搞砸了。 |
| 58 | I was living carelessly, ignoring my health, my career, | 我过着无忧无虑的生活 不顾我的健康和事业 |
| 59 | people who cared for me and loved me. | 关心我和爱我的人 |
| 60 | Friends, it's been four and a half years. | 朋友,已经四年半了 |
| 61 | I'm cancer-free now. | 我现在没有癌症了 |
| 62 | God has been kind, life has been kind. | 上帝是善良的,生活是善良的。 |
| 63 | Not a single day that goes by that I forget the promise I made to myself | 没有一天,我忘记我对自己的承诺 |
| 64 | and I thought I was dying. | 我以为我快死了 |
| 65 | I have prioritized all the three things. | 我已经把这三件事放在优先位置了 |
| 66 | I call them gifts. | 我称之为礼物。 |
| 67 | My health. | 我的健康状况。 |
| 68 | I realized the importance of health when I was down with cancer. | 当我患上癌症时,我意识到了健康的重要性。 |
| 69 | So I nurture it now. | 所以,我现在培育它。 |
| 70 | I look after it. | 我照顾它。 |
| 71 | I read. | 我读。 |
| 72 | I inquire and do whatever it takes for me to have a good health. | 我问和做任何需要 我有一个良好的健康。 |
| 73 | My relationship with my family is much more filled with respect and trust | 我和家人的关系更受尊敬和信任 |
| 74 | because they were the only people who were with me from the beginning till the end. | 因为他们是唯一从一开始到最后都和我在一起的人 |
| 75 | My friendship. | 我的友谊 |
| 76 | I used to have on the Raj of friends, huge circle of friends. | 我以前有朋友的拉杰, 巨大的朋友圈。 |
| 77 | But today I have a handful with whom I share a deeper bond, | 但今天我和他们的关系很深 |
| 78 | more meaningful friendship. | 更有意义的友谊。 |
| 79 | My work. | 我的工作。 我的工作。 |
| 80 | I realized I'm an artist in my heart, in my spirit. | 我意识到我是一个艺术家 在我心中,在我的精神。 |
| 81 | So I need to be challenged for me to grow as an artist, to be satisfied. | 因此,我需要被挑战 为了我作为一个艺术家成长,满足。 |
| 82 | So I pick and choose films carefully, not carelessly the way I was doing before. | 所以我仔细挑选电影,而不是像以前那样粗心大意。 |
| 83 | I also got fourth gift, and that is realization of value of service, | 我也有第四个天赋 那就是实现服务的价值 |
| 84 | of contribution. | 捐款。 |
| 85 | I would like to share a story. | 我想分享一个故事。 |
| 86 | When not too many people were visiting me in hospital, | 当医院里的人不多的时候 |
| 87 | there was this lady who would come and be with me on Sundays. | 有个女人星期天来陪我 |
| 88 | She's a doctor, a pathologist in Cornell Hospital in New York. | 她是纽约康奈尔医院的医生,病理学家. |
| 89 | Her name is Dr. Navneet Narula. | 她叫纳芙妮特·纳鲁拉博士 |
| 90 | And she would come, sit in that uncomfortable chair of hospital, | 她会来,坐在 不舒服的医院椅子上, |
| 91 | you know, and spend the entire day with me. | 你知道, 和我度过一整天。 |
| 92 | I was very intrigued because she was very busy. | 我很感兴趣 因为她很忙 |
| 93 | So I asked her, why are you doing this? | 所以我问她 你为什么要这么做? |
| 94 | You're not my friend from the past, and you're not my fan for sure. | 你不是我的朋友 从过去, 你不是我的粉丝肯定。 |
| 95 | You know what she replied? | 你知道她回答什么吗? |
| 96 | And she said, Manisha Ji, with the hope that you will do this to somebody else. | 她说,玛妮莎池,希望你能这样做 对别人。 |
| 97 | How simple yet so profound, isn't it? | 多么简单,但如此深刻,不是吗? |
| 98 | That's when I made a promise that if I get a second chance to life, | 那时我答应 如果我有第二次机会活下去 |
| 99 | I will pay attention and be of service in whatever capacity I can. | 我会尽我所能的注意和效劳 |
| 100 | It can be anything big or small. | 它可以是任何大小的。 |
| 101 | It really doesn't matter. | 这真的没关系。 |
| 102 | So when earthquake hit Nepal, I had gone there, and with the help of UNFPA, | 当尼泊尔发生地震时,我去了那里, 在人口基金的帮助下, |
| 103 | we did a campaign called Dignity First. | 我们做了一个名为尊严第一的运动。 |
| 104 | And I'm hoping to go to remote areas and talk about the importance | 我希望能去偏远地区 谈谈很重要的事情 |
| 105 | to educate our girls, our daughters, and talk against child marriages, | 教育我们的女孩,我们的女儿, 并谈论反对童婚, |
| 106 | as there are many multiple complications of that. | 因为有很多复杂的问题 |
| 107 | So that I do, or anything as a cancer survivor. | 所以,我这样做, 或者任何作为一个癌症幸存者。 |
| 108 | I go around giving hopes to people telling that cancer is not a death sentence, | 我到处给人们希望 说癌症不是死刑, |
| 109 | that there is a life beyond cancer. | 有生命超越癌症。 |
| 110 | It could be anybody, and it could be a friend who's reached out to me | 可能是任何人 也可能是朋友联系我 |
| 111 | and needs my patient hearing anything. | 需要我的病人听到任何东西。 |
| 112 | So I do that now. | 所以我现在就这样做。 |
| 113 | A large part of my story, this gambit of experiences, the highs and the lows, | 大部分我的故事, 这个模棱两可的经验, 高低, |
| 114 | this name, fame, glamour, and the depth of despair of cancer, | 这个名字 名声 魅力 以及癌症的绝望 |
| 115 | traumatic chemotherapy, facing death, is not actually about the incidences. | 创伤性化疗,面对死亡,实际上与发生率无关. |
| 116 | It is about finding sense behind it, finding meaning of it all. | 而是找到背后的理智,找到一切的意义。 |
| 117 | I had to make sense of things that had happened to me | 我不得不理解我发生的事 |
| 118 | and the things that was happening to me. | 和发生在我身上的事情。 |
| 119 | I found few such basic, simple principles, | 我发现很少有这样的基本,简单的原则, |
| 120 | and because they are simple, we tend to take it for granted and don't apply them. | 并且由于它们很简单,我们往往认为它们是理所当然的,而不是应用它们。 |
| 121 | I found, number one, that this life is a gift. | 我发现,第一, 这个生活是一个礼物。 |
| 122 | I know it's a cliché, but it is a gift. | 我知道这是一个陈词滥调,但它是一个礼物。 |
| 123 | And everything that comes with this life is a gift. | 而与此生俱来之事皆是天赐. |
| 124 | This body is a gift. | 此身是礼. |
| 125 | We need to nurture it, look after it, be grateful. | 我们需要培育它,照顾它,感激它。 |
| 126 | We need to embrace that. | 我们必须接受这一点。 |
| 127 | People who cross our path, they are a gift. | 过我们道路的人, 他们是一个礼物。 |
| 128 | Number two, the importance of introspection. | 第二 内观的重要性. |
| 129 | We need to dive into depth of our being, of our self, | 我们需要潜入我们生命的深处,我们自己, |
| 130 | to discover our truth and live our truth as our time is limited. | 发现我们的真理 活我们的真理 随着我们的时间有限。 |
| 131 | So we must make the most of it. | 因此,我们必须充分利用它。 |
| 132 | We cannot be living somebody else's life, right? | 我们不能活在别人的生活中,对吧? |
| 133 | We cannot be living somebody else's idea of life, what is good and what is bad. | 我们不能活在别人的人生观中,什么是好,什么是坏。 |
| 134 | We need to find for ourselves. | 我们需要为自己找到。 |
| 135 | We need to introspect. | 我们需要回顾一下。 |
| 136 | We need to discover what it is that motivates us, compels us to live a great life. | 我们需要发现是什么激励着我们,迫使我们过上伟大的生活。 |
| 137 | So every day we can live with clarity and passion. | 因此,我们每天都能以清晰和激情生活。 |
| 138 | Number three, no matter, no matter, no matter, no matter | 三号,不管,不管 |
| 139 | how we want to be prepared, there will always be a surprise. | 我们如何准备, 总会有一个惊喜。 |
| 140 | Life will throw some challenge from somewhere that we are not really fully prepared. | 生活会给我们带来一些挑战 我们没有做好充分准备的地方。 |
| 141 | But we have a choice. | 但我们有选择 |
| 142 | We can either be consumed by it, become victim and make that larger than us | 我们要么被它吞噬, 成为受害者, 使这个比我们大 |
| 143 | and get defined by that problem, | 和得到定义的问题, |
| 144 | or we can turn it around into a platform for our growth | 或者把它变成我们成长的平台 |
| 145 | because there is a message, there is a lesson underneath every problem that we face. | 因为我们面对的每一个问题 都有一个教训 |
| 146 | We can make a worse situation of our life into a narrative of triumph. | 我们可以把生活中更糟糕的情况变成胜利的叙事. |
| 147 | The wisdom and the courage is all within us. | 智慧勇猛皆在众生. |
| 148 | 详情请访问www.mooji.org。 |
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P2 · 当现实重重打击你时，如何找寻生命的意义【TED演讲】 p02 英文字幕(中文外挂) (P2)
字幕摘录
| 时间 | 英文 | 中文 |
|---|---|---|
| 0:01 | There's a well-known quote which says, | 有一句著名的话说 |
| 0:08 | life is what happens to us | 生活是我们的命运 |
| 0:11 | while we are busy making other plans. | 我们正忙着制定其他计划 |
| 0:16 | It's this unpredictability, hence unpreparedness, | 这是这种不可预测性, 因此没有准备, |
| 0:21 | is what makes life so fragile, yet so beautiful. | 生命是如此脆弱 却如此美丽 |
| 0:28 | Friends, some 20-25 years ago, | 朋友,大约20-25年前, |
| 0:33 | I lived a life that many would only dream of. | 我过着很多人只会梦想的生活 |
| 0:38 | I always wanted to be an acclaimed artist | 我一直想成为一个受欢迎的艺术家 |
| 0:40 | and be at the top of my game. | 并成为我游戏的顶峰。 |
| 0:45 | I came from Nepal and actually managed to be | 我从尼泊尔来,实际上设法 |
展开字幕全文（148 条）
| 序号 | 英文 | 中文 |
|---|---|---|
| 1 | There's a well-known quote which says, | 有一句著名的话说 |
| 2 | life is what happens to us | 生活是我们的命运 |
| 3 | while we are busy making other plans. | 我们正忙着制定其他计划 |
| 4 | It's this unpredictability, hence unpreparedness, | 这是这种不可预测性, 因此没有准备, |
| 5 | is what makes life so fragile, yet so beautiful. | 生命是如此脆弱 却如此美丽 |
| 6 | Friends, some 20-25 years ago, | 朋友,大约20-25年前, |
| 7 | I lived a life that many would only dream of. | 我过着很多人只会梦想的生活 |
| 8 | I always wanted to be an acclaimed artist | 我一直想成为一个受欢迎的艺术家 |
| 9 | and be at the top of my game. | 并成为我游戏的顶峰。 |
| 10 | I came from Nepal and actually managed to be | 我从尼泊尔来,实际上设法 |
| 11 | a popular and successful actress in Indian film industry. | 在印度电影业很受欢迎和成功的女演员。 |
| 12 | About 80-odd films in five different languages, | 大约80多部不同语言的电影, |
| 13 | multiple awards, to be honest, | 说实话,有多个奖项 |
| 14 | some quality and a lot of quantity. | 一些质量和数量。 |
| 15 | Everything that I had dreamt of, | 我梦见的一切 |
| 16 | in fact more than what I had dreamt of, | 其实比我梦寐以求的还要多 |
| 17 | was happening to me. | 发生在我身上。 |
| 18 | What I didn't know, that while I was in this most heady, | 我不知道的是, 当我在这个最头部, |
| 19 | most enjoyable ride ever, | 最享受的旅程, |
| 20 | life had planned something else for me, | 生活为我规划了别的东西 |
| 21 | that I would be thrown into a whirlwind of things | 我会被扔进一团糟 |
| 22 | where slowly I'll start to lose it all. | 慢慢地我就会失去一切 |
| 23 | Initially it started subtly, | 最初它开始潜移, |
| 24 | like I signed a bad film, which flopped, | 就像我签了个烂片 被打晕了 |
| 25 | and I got a bad review, | 我有一个不好的评论, |
| 26 | and then there was another, and another, and another. | 然后还有另一个,另一个,另一个 |
| 27 | But I didn't care, because even then I had some good directors | 但我不在乎,因为即使当时我有一些好导演 |
| 28 | wanting me in their film, | 想要我在他们的电影, |
| 29 | so I thought, well, I can always bounce back, | 所以我想,嗯,我总是可以反弹, |
| 30 | but that didn't really happen. | 但是这不是真的 |
| 31 | I had developed an unhealthy lifestyle, | 我养成了不健康的生活方式 |
| 32 | which was attracting wrong company. | 它吸引了错误的公司。 |
| 33 | Restlessly I was moving from one bad relationship to another one. | 不知不觉地,我从一个坏关系 转移到另一个关系。 |
| 34 | I was in a mess, and I was in denial. | 我当时一团糟, 和我在否认。 |
| 35 | I felt flat on my face when my marriage broke, | 婚姻破裂时,我脸上很平坦 |
| 36 | and soon after I was diagnosed with aggressive form of cancer. | 在我被诊断出患有强烈癌症后不久 |
| 37 | Even my cancer was of an extreme kind. | 连我的癌症都非常严重 |
| 38 | Let me give you a tip of the iceberg | 我给你冰山一角 |
| 39 | of how gruesome my treatment was, my chemotherapy was, | 我的治疗有多可怕 我的化疗 |
| 40 | that it was not of balding of the hair, losing eyelashes and eyebrows, | 这不是秃头, 失去睫毛和眉毛, |
| 41 | and looking sick and sad. | 和看着生病和悲伤。 |
| 42 | That's how we cancer patients look. | 这就是我们癌症患者的样子。 |
| 43 | From that glamorous diva to this, | 从那个迷人的女神到这个 |
| 44 | it was not looks. | 这不是外表。 |
| 45 | It was actually when I had to sign waivers for a permanent heart damage, | 实际上,当我不得不签署 放弃永久心脏损伤, |
| 46 | a permanent ear damage, a permanent neuropathy problem | 永久性耳损伤 永久性神经病症 |
| 47 | that my hand would be shaking for the rest of my life. | 我的手会颤抖一辈子 |
| 48 | It's then I got scared, really scared. | 那时我很害怕,真的害怕。 |
| 49 | I started to worry that maybe these were my last days. | 我开始担心 也许这是我的最后一天 |
| 50 | Maybe I was facing the D-word, | 也许我面对的是D字眼 |
| 51 | the unimaginable, unbelievable, unfathomable death. | 难以想象的 不可思议的 难以想象的死亡 |
| 52 | And then I started to think, if this was the end of my life, | 然后我开始想,如果这是 我生命的终结, |
| 53 | what did I do with my life so far? | 我这一辈子都干了些什么? |
| 54 | Did I live well? | 我过得好吗? |
| 55 | Was I proud of it? | 我为此感到骄傲吗? |
| 56 | Of course not. | 当然不是。 |
| 57 | I had messed it. | 我已经搞砸了。 |
| 58 | I was living carelessly, ignoring my health, my career, | 我过着无忧无虑的生活 不顾我的健康和事业 |
| 59 | people who cared for me and loved me. | 关心我和爱我的人 |
| 60 | Friends, it's been four and a half years. | 朋友,已经四年半了 |
| 61 | I'm cancer-free now. | 我现在没有癌症了 |
| 62 | God has been kind, life has been kind. | 上帝是善良的,生活是善良的。 |
| 63 | Not a single day that goes by that I forget the promise I made to myself | 没有一天,我忘记我对自己的承诺 |
| 64 | and I thought I was dying. | 我以为我快死了 |
| 65 | I have prioritized all the three things. | 我已经把这三件事放在优先位置了 |
| 66 | I call them gifts. | 我称之为礼物。 |
| 67 | My health. | 我的健康状况。 |
| 68 | I realized the importance of health when I was down with cancer. | 当我患上癌症时,我意识到了健康的重要性。 |
| 69 | So I nurture it now. | 所以,我现在培育它。 |
| 70 | I look after it. | 我照顾它。 |
| 71 | I read. | 我读。 |
| 72 | I inquire and do whatever it takes for me to have a good health. | 我问和做任何需要 我有一个良好的健康。 |
| 73 | My relationship with my family is much more filled with respect and trust | 我和家人的关系更受尊敬和信任 |
| 74 | because they were the only people who were with me from the beginning till the end. | 因为他们是唯一从一开始到最后都和我在一起的人 |
| 75 | My friendship. | 我的友谊 |
| 76 | I used to have on the Raj of friends, huge circle of friends. | 我以前有朋友的拉杰, 巨大的朋友圈。 |
| 77 | But today I have a handful with whom I share a deeper bond, | 但今天我和他们的关系很深 |
| 78 | more meaningful friendship. | 更有意义的友谊。 |
| 79 | My work. | 我的工作。 我的工作。 |
| 80 | I realized I'm an artist in my heart, in my spirit. | 我意识到我是一个艺术家 在我心中,在我的精神。 |
| 81 | So I need to be challenged for me to grow as an artist, to be satisfied. | 因此,我需要被挑战 为了我作为一个艺术家成长,满足。 |
| 82 | So I pick and choose films carefully, not carelessly the way I was doing before. | 所以我仔细挑选电影,而不是像以前那样粗心大意。 |
| 83 | I also got fourth gift, and that is realization of value of service, | 我也有第四个天赋 那就是实现服务的价值 |
| 84 | of contribution. | 捐款。 |
| 85 | I would like to share a story. | 我想分享一个故事。 |
| 86 | When not too many people were visiting me in hospital, | 当医院里的人不多的时候 |
| 87 | there was this lady who would come and be with me on Sundays. | 有个女人星期天来陪我 |
| 88 | She's a doctor, a pathologist in Cornell Hospital in New York. | 她是纽约康奈尔医院的医生,病理学家. |
| 89 | Her name is Dr. Navneet Narula. | 她叫纳芙妮特·纳鲁拉博士 |
| 90 | And she would come, sit in that uncomfortable chair of hospital, | 她会来,坐在 不舒服的医院椅子上, |
| 91 | you know, and spend the entire day with me. | 你知道, 和我度过一整天。 |
| 92 | I was very intrigued because she was very busy. | 我很感兴趣 因为她很忙 |
| 93 | So I asked her, why are you doing this? | 所以我问她 你为什么要这么做? |
| 94 | You're not my friend from the past, and you're not my fan for sure. | 你不是我的朋友 从过去, 你不是我的粉丝肯定。 |
| 95 | You know what she replied? | 你知道她回答什么吗? |
| 96 | And she said, Manisha Ji, with the hope that you will do this to somebody else. | 她说,玛妮莎池,希望你能这样做 对别人。 |
| 97 | How simple yet so profound, isn't it? | 多么简单,但如此深刻,不是吗? |
| 98 | That's when I made a promise that if I get a second chance to life, | 那时我答应 如果我有第二次机会活下去 |
| 99 | I will pay attention and be of service in whatever capacity I can. | 我会尽我所能的注意和效劳 |
| 100 | It can be anything big or small. | 它可以是任何大小的。 |
| 101 | It really doesn't matter. | 这真的没关系。 |
| 102 | So when earthquake hit Nepal, I had gone there, and with the help of UNFPA, | 当尼泊尔发生地震时,我去了那里, 在人口基金的帮助下, |
| 103 | we did a campaign called Dignity First. | 我们做了一个名为尊严第一的运动。 |
| 104 | And I'm hoping to go to remote areas and talk about the importance | 我希望能去偏远地区 谈谈很重要的事情 |
| 105 | to educate our girls, our daughters, and talk against child marriages, | 教育我们的女孩,我们的女儿, 并谈论反对童婚, |
| 106 | as there are many multiple complications of that. | 因为有很多复杂的问题 |
| 107 | So that I do, or anything as a cancer survivor. | 所以,我这样做, 或者任何作为一个癌症幸存者。 |
| 108 | I go around giving hopes to people telling that cancer is not a death sentence, | 我到处给人们希望 说癌症不是死刑, |
| 109 | that there is a life beyond cancer. | 有生命超越癌症。 |
| 110 | It could be anybody, and it could be a friend who's reached out to me | 可能是任何人 也可能是朋友联系我 |
| 111 | and needs my patient hearing anything. | 需要我的病人听到任何东西。 |
| 112 | So I do that now. | 所以我现在就这样做。 |
| 113 | A large part of my story, this gambit of experiences, the highs and the lows, | 大部分我的故事, 这个模棱两可的经验, 高低, |
| 114 | this name, fame, glamour, and the depth of despair of cancer, | 这个名字 名声 魅力 以及癌症的绝望 |
| 115 | traumatic chemotherapy, facing death, is not actually about the incidences. | 创伤性化疗,面对死亡,实际上与发生率无关. |
| 116 | It is about finding sense behind it, finding meaning of it all. | 而是找到背后的理智,找到一切的意义。 |
| 117 | I had to make sense of things that had happened to me | 我不得不理解我发生的事 |
| 118 | and the things that was happening to me. | 和发生在我身上的事情。 |
| 119 | I found few such basic, simple principles, | 我发现很少有这样的基本,简单的原则, |
| 120 | and because they are simple, we tend to take it for granted and don't apply them. | 并且由于它们很简单,我们往往认为它们是理所当然的,而不是应用它们。 |
| 121 | I found, number one, that this life is a gift. | 我发现,第一, 这个生活是一个礼物。 |
| 122 | I know it's a cliché, but it is a gift. | 我知道这是一个陈词滥调,但它是一个礼物。 |
| 123 | And everything that comes with this life is a gift. | 而与此生俱来之事皆是天赐. |
| 124 | This body is a gift. | 此身是礼. |
| 125 | We need to nurture it, look after it, be grateful. | 我们需要培育它,照顾它,感激它。 |
| 126 | We need to embrace that. | 我们必须接受这一点。 |
| 127 | People who cross our path, they are a gift. | 过我们道路的人, 他们是一个礼物。 |
| 128 | Number two, the importance of introspection. | 第二 内观的重要性. |
| 129 | We need to dive into depth of our being, of our self, | 我们需要潜入我们生命的深处,我们自己, |
| 130 | to discover our truth and live our truth as our time is limited. | 发现我们的真理 活我们的真理 随着我们的时间有限。 |
| 131 | So we must make the most of it. | 因此,我们必须充分利用它。 |
| 132 | We cannot be living somebody else's life, right? | 我们不能活在别人的生活中,对吧? |
| 133 | We cannot be living somebody else's idea of life, what is good and what is bad. | 我们不能活在别人的人生观中,什么是好,什么是坏。 |
| 134 | We need to find for ourselves. | 我们需要为自己找到。 |
| 135 | We need to introspect. | 我们需要回顾一下。 |
| 136 | We need to discover what it is that motivates us, compels us to live a great life. | 我们需要发现是什么激励着我们,迫使我们过上伟大的生活。 |
| 137 | So every day we can live with clarity and passion. | 因此,我们每天都能以清晰和激情生活。 |
| 138 | Number three, no matter, no matter, no matter, no matter | 三号,不管,不管 |
| 139 | how we want to be prepared, there will always be a surprise. | 我们如何准备, 总会有一个惊喜。 |
| 140 | Life will throw some challenge from somewhere that we are not really fully prepared. | 生活会给我们带来一些挑战 我们没有做好充分准备的地方。 |
| 141 | But we have a choice. | 但我们有选择 |
| 142 | We can either be consumed by it, become victim and make that larger than us | 我们要么被它吞噬, 成为受害者, 使这个比我们大 |
| 143 | and get defined by that problem, | 和得到定义的问题, |
| 144 | or we can turn it around into a platform for our growth | 或者把它变成我们成长的平台 |
| 145 | because there is a message, there is a lesson underneath every problem that we face. | 因为我们面对的每一个问题 都有一个教训 |
| 146 | We can make a worse situation of our life into a narrative of triumph. | 我们可以把生活中更糟糕的情况变成胜利的叙事. |
| 147 | The wisdom and the courage is all within us. | 智慧勇猛皆在众生. |
| 148 | 详情请访问www.mooji.org。 |
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| 时间 | 英文 | 中文 |
|---|---|---|
| 0:01 | There's a well-known quote which says, | 有一句著名的话说 |
| 0:08 | life is what happens to us | 生活是我们的命运 |
| 0:11 | while we are busy making other plans. | 我们正忙着制定其他计划 |
| 0:16 | It's this unpredictability, hence unpreparedness, | 这是这种不可预测性, 因此没有准备, |
| 0:21 | is what makes life so fragile, yet so beautiful. | 生命是如此脆弱 却如此美丽 |
| 0:28 | Friends, some 20-25 years ago, | 朋友,大约20-25年前, |
| 0:33 | I lived a life that many would only dream of. | 我过着很多人只会梦想的生活 |
| 0:38 | I always wanted to be an acclaimed artist | 我一直想成为一个受欢迎的艺术家 |
| 0:40 | and be at the top of my game. | 并成为我游戏的顶峰。 |
| 0:45 | I came from Nepal and actually managed to be | 我从尼泊尔来,实际上设法 |
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| 序号 | 英文 | 中文 |
|---|---|---|
| 1 | There's a well-known quote which says, | 有一句著名的话说 |
| 2 | life is what happens to us | 生活是我们的命运 |
| 3 | while we are busy making other plans. | 我们正忙着制定其他计划 |
| 4 | It's this unpredictability, hence unpreparedness, | 这是这种不可预测性, 因此没有准备, |
| 5 | is what makes life so fragile, yet so beautiful. | 生命是如此脆弱 却如此美丽 |
| 6 | Friends, some 20-25 years ago, | 朋友,大约20-25年前, |
| 7 | I lived a life that many would only dream of. | 我过着很多人只会梦想的生活 |
| 8 | I always wanted to be an acclaimed artist | 我一直想成为一个受欢迎的艺术家 |
| 9 | and be at the top of my game. | 并成为我游戏的顶峰。 |
| 10 | I came from Nepal and actually managed to be | 我从尼泊尔来,实际上设法 |
| 11 | a popular and successful actress in Indian film industry. | 在印度电影业很受欢迎和成功的女演员。 |
| 12 | About 80-odd films in five different languages, | 大约80多部不同语言的电影, |
| 13 | multiple awards, to be honest, | 说实话,有多个奖项 |
| 14 | some quality and a lot of quantity. | 一些质量和数量。 |
| 15 | Everything that I had dreamt of, | 我梦见的一切 |
| 16 | in fact more than what I had dreamt of, | 其实比我梦寐以求的还要多 |
| 17 | was happening to me. | 发生在我身上。 |
| 18 | What I didn't know, that while I was in this most heady, | 我不知道的是, 当我在这个最头部, |
| 19 | most enjoyable ride ever, | 最享受的旅程, |
| 20 | life had planned something else for me, | 生活为我规划了别的东西 |
| 21 | that I would be thrown into a whirlwind of things | 我会被扔进一团糟 |
| 22 | where slowly I'll start to lose it all. | 慢慢地我就会失去一切 |
| 23 | Initially it started subtly, | 最初它开始潜移, |
| 24 | like I signed a bad film, which flopped, | 就像我签了个烂片 被打晕了 |
| 25 | and I got a bad review, | 我有一个不好的评论, |
| 26 | and then there was another, and another, and another. | 然后还有另一个,另一个,另一个 |
| 27 | But I didn't care, because even then I had some good directors | 但我不在乎,因为即使当时我有一些好导演 |
| 28 | wanting me in their film, | 想要我在他们的电影, |
| 29 | so I thought, well, I can always bounce back, | 所以我想,嗯,我总是可以反弹, |
| 30 | but that didn't really happen. | 但是这不是真的 |
| 31 | I had developed an unhealthy lifestyle, | 我养成了不健康的生活方式 |
| 32 | which was attracting wrong company. | 它吸引了错误的公司。 |
| 33 | Restlessly I was moving from one bad relationship to another one. | 不知不觉地,我从一个坏关系 转移到另一个关系。 |
| 34 | I was in a mess, and I was in denial. | 我当时一团糟, 和我在否认。 |
| 35 | I felt flat on my face when my marriage broke, | 婚姻破裂时,我脸上很平坦 |
| 36 | and soon after I was diagnosed with aggressive form of cancer. | 在我被诊断出患有强烈癌症后不久 |
| 37 | Even my cancer was of an extreme kind. | 连我的癌症都非常严重 |
| 38 | Let me give you a tip of the iceberg | 我给你冰山一角 |
| 39 | of how gruesome my treatment was, my chemotherapy was, | 我的治疗有多可怕 我的化疗 |
| 40 | that it was not of balding of the hair, losing eyelashes and eyebrows, | 这不是秃头, 失去睫毛和眉毛, |
| 41 | and looking sick and sad. | 和看着生病和悲伤。 |
| 42 | That's how we cancer patients look. | 这就是我们癌症患者的样子。 |
| 43 | From that glamorous diva to this, | 从那个迷人的女神到这个 |
| 44 | it was not looks. | 这不是外表。 |
| 45 | It was actually when I had to sign waivers for a permanent heart damage, | 实际上,当我不得不签署 放弃永久心脏损伤, |
| 46 | a permanent ear damage, a permanent neuropathy problem | 永久性耳损伤 永久性神经病症 |
| 47 | that my hand would be shaking for the rest of my life. | 我的手会颤抖一辈子 |
| 48 | It's then I got scared, really scared. | 那时我很害怕,真的害怕。 |
| 49 | I started to worry that maybe these were my last days. | 我开始担心 也许这是我的最后一天 |
| 50 | Maybe I was facing the D-word, | 也许我面对的是D字眼 |
| 51 | the unimaginable, unbelievable, unfathomable death. | 难以想象的 不可思议的 难以想象的死亡 |
| 52 | And then I started to think, if this was the end of my life, | 然后我开始想,如果这是 我生命的终结, |
| 53 | what did I do with my life so far? | 我这一辈子都干了些什么? |
| 54 | Did I live well? | 我过得好吗? |
| 55 | Was I proud of it? | 我为此感到骄傲吗? |
| 56 | Of course not. | 当然不是。 |
| 57 | I had messed it. | 我已经搞砸了。 |
| 58 | I was living carelessly, ignoring my health, my career, | 我过着无忧无虑的生活 不顾我的健康和事业 |
| 59 | people who cared for me and loved me. | 关心我和爱我的人 |
| 60 | Friends, it's been four and a half years. | 朋友,已经四年半了 |
| 61 | I'm cancer-free now. | 我现在没有癌症了 |
| 62 | God has been kind, life has been kind. | 上帝是善良的,生活是善良的。 |
| 63 | Not a single day that goes by that I forget the promise I made to myself | 没有一天,我忘记我对自己的承诺 |
| 64 | and I thought I was dying. | 我以为我快死了 |
| 65 | I have prioritized all the three things. | 我已经把这三件事放在优先位置了 |
| 66 | I call them gifts. | 我称之为礼物。 |
| 67 | My health. | 我的健康状况。 |
| 68 | I realized the importance of health when I was down with cancer. | 当我患上癌症时,我意识到了健康的重要性。 |
| 69 | So I nurture it now. | 所以,我现在培育它。 |
| 70 | I look after it. | 我照顾它。 |
| 71 | I read. | 我读。 |
| 72 | I inquire and do whatever it takes for me to have a good health. | 我问和做任何需要 我有一个良好的健康。 |
| 73 | My relationship with my family is much more filled with respect and trust | 我和家人的关系更受尊敬和信任 |
| 74 | because they were the only people who were with me from the beginning till the end. | 因为他们是唯一从一开始到最后都和我在一起的人 |
| 75 | My friendship. | 我的友谊 |
| 76 | I used to have on the Raj of friends, huge circle of friends. | 我以前有朋友的拉杰, 巨大的朋友圈。 |
| 77 | But today I have a handful with whom I share a deeper bond, | 但今天我和他们的关系很深 |
| 78 | more meaningful friendship. | 更有意义的友谊。 |
| 79 | My work. | 我的工作。 我的工作。 |
| 80 | I realized I'm an artist in my heart, in my spirit. | 我意识到我是一个艺术家 在我心中,在我的精神。 |
| 81 | So I need to be challenged for me to grow as an artist, to be satisfied. | 因此,我需要被挑战 为了我作为一个艺术家成长,满足。 |
| 82 | So I pick and choose films carefully, not carelessly the way I was doing before. | 所以我仔细挑选电影,而不是像以前那样粗心大意。 |
| 83 | I also got fourth gift, and that is realization of value of service, | 我也有第四个天赋 那就是实现服务的价值 |
| 84 | of contribution. | 捐款。 |
| 85 | I would like to share a story. | 我想分享一个故事。 |
| 86 | When not too many people were visiting me in hospital, | 当医院里的人不多的时候 |
| 87 | there was this lady who would come and be with me on Sundays. | 有个女人星期天来陪我 |
| 88 | She's a doctor, a pathologist in Cornell Hospital in New York. | 她是纽约康奈尔医院的医生,病理学家. |
| 89 | Her name is Dr. Navneet Narula. | 她叫纳芙妮特·纳鲁拉博士 |
| 90 | And she would come, sit in that uncomfortable chair of hospital, | 她会来,坐在 不舒服的医院椅子上, |
| 91 | you know, and spend the entire day with me. | 你知道, 和我度过一整天。 |
| 92 | I was very intrigued because she was very busy. | 我很感兴趣 因为她很忙 |
| 93 | So I asked her, why are you doing this? | 所以我问她 你为什么要这么做? |
| 94 | You're not my friend from the past, and you're not my fan for sure. | 你不是我的朋友 从过去, 你不是我的粉丝肯定。 |
| 95 | You know what she replied? | 你知道她回答什么吗? |
| 96 | And she said, Manisha Ji, with the hope that you will do this to somebody else. | 她说,玛妮莎池,希望你能这样做 对别人。 |
| 97 | How simple yet so profound, isn't it? | 多么简单,但如此深刻,不是吗? |
| 98 | That's when I made a promise that if I get a second chance to life, | 那时我答应 如果我有第二次机会活下去 |
| 99 | I will pay attention and be of service in whatever capacity I can. | 我会尽我所能的注意和效劳 |
| 100 | It can be anything big or small. | 它可以是任何大小的。 |
| 101 | It really doesn't matter. | 这真的没关系。 |
| 102 | So when earthquake hit Nepal, I had gone there, and with the help of UNFPA, | 当尼泊尔发生地震时,我去了那里, 在人口基金的帮助下, |
| 103 | we did a campaign called Dignity First. | 我们做了一个名为尊严第一的运动。 |
| 104 | And I'm hoping to go to remote areas and talk about the importance | 我希望能去偏远地区 谈谈很重要的事情 |
| 105 | to educate our girls, our daughters, and talk against child marriages, | 教育我们的女孩,我们的女儿, 并谈论反对童婚, |
| 106 | as there are many multiple complications of that. | 因为有很多复杂的问题 |
| 107 | So that I do, or anything as a cancer survivor. | 所以,我这样做, 或者任何作为一个癌症幸存者。 |
| 108 | I go around giving hopes to people telling that cancer is not a death sentence, | 我到处给人们希望 说癌症不是死刑, |
| 109 | that there is a life beyond cancer. | 有生命超越癌症。 |
| 110 | It could be anybody, and it could be a friend who's reached out to me | 可能是任何人 也可能是朋友联系我 |
| 111 | and needs my patient hearing anything. | 需要我的病人听到任何东西。 |
| 112 | So I do that now. | 所以我现在就这样做。 |
| 113 | A large part of my story, this gambit of experiences, the highs and the lows, | 大部分我的故事, 这个模棱两可的经验, 高低, |
| 114 | this name, fame, glamour, and the depth of despair of cancer, | 这个名字 名声 魅力 以及癌症的绝望 |
| 115 | traumatic chemotherapy, facing death, is not actually about the incidences. | 创伤性化疗,面对死亡,实际上与发生率无关. |
| 116 | It is about finding sense behind it, finding meaning of it all. | 而是找到背后的理智,找到一切的意义。 |
| 117 | I had to make sense of things that had happened to me | 我不得不理解我发生的事 |
| 118 | and the things that was happening to me. | 和发生在我身上的事情。 |
| 119 | I found few such basic, simple principles, | 我发现很少有这样的基本,简单的原则, |
| 120 | and because they are simple, we tend to take it for granted and don't apply them. | 并且由于它们很简单,我们往往认为它们是理所当然的,而不是应用它们。 |
| 121 | I found, number one, that this life is a gift. | 我发现,第一, 这个生活是一个礼物。 |
| 122 | I know it's a cliché, but it is a gift. | 我知道这是一个陈词滥调,但它是一个礼物。 |
| 123 | And everything that comes with this life is a gift. | 而与此生俱来之事皆是天赐. |
| 124 | This body is a gift. | 此身是礼. |
| 125 | We need to nurture it, look after it, be grateful. | 我们需要培育它,照顾它,感激它。 |
| 126 | We need to embrace that. | 我们必须接受这一点。 |
| 127 | People who cross our path, they are a gift. | 过我们道路的人, 他们是一个礼物。 |
| 128 | Number two, the importance of introspection. | 第二 内观的重要性. |
| 129 | We need to dive into depth of our being, of our self, | 我们需要潜入我们生命的深处,我们自己, |
| 130 | to discover our truth and live our truth as our time is limited. | 发现我们的真理 活我们的真理 随着我们的时间有限。 |
| 131 | So we must make the most of it. | 因此,我们必须充分利用它。 |
| 132 | We cannot be living somebody else's life, right? | 我们不能活在别人的生活中,对吧? |
| 133 | We cannot be living somebody else's idea of life, what is good and what is bad. | 我们不能活在别人的人生观中,什么是好,什么是坏。 |
| 134 | We need to find for ourselves. | 我们需要为自己找到。 |
| 135 | We need to introspect. | 我们需要回顾一下。 |
| 136 | We need to discover what it is that motivates us, compels us to live a great life. | 我们需要发现是什么激励着我们,迫使我们过上伟大的生活。 |
| 137 | So every day we can live with clarity and passion. | 因此,我们每天都能以清晰和激情生活。 |
| 138 | Number three, no matter, no matter, no matter, no matter | 三号,不管,不管 |
| 139 | how we want to be prepared, there will always be a surprise. | 我们如何准备, 总会有一个惊喜。 |
| 140 | Life will throw some challenge from somewhere that we are not really fully prepared. | 生活会给我们带来一些挑战 我们没有做好充分准备的地方。 |
| 141 | But we have a choice. | 但我们有选择 |
| 142 | We can either be consumed by it, become victim and make that larger than us | 我们要么被它吞噬, 成为受害者, 使这个比我们大 |
| 143 | and get defined by that problem, | 和得到定义的问题, |
| 144 | or we can turn it around into a platform for our growth | 或者把它变成我们成长的平台 |
| 145 | because there is a message, there is a lesson underneath every problem that we face. | 因为我们面对的每一个问题 都有一个教训 |
| 146 | We can make a worse situation of our life into a narrative of triumph. | 我们可以把生活中更糟糕的情况变成胜利的叙事. |
| 147 | The wisdom and the courage is all within us. | 智慧勇猛皆在众生. |
| 148 | 详情请访问www.mooji.org。 |
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