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别追求巨大改变,从微小习惯开始【TED演讲】

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0:01It's great to be with you guys today.很高兴今天能和你们在一起
0:03I had to get up at like four in the morning我早上四点起床
0:05because I live in the wine country.因为我住在酒乡
0:08And so driving down here, early in the morning所以在清晨开车过来
0:11and the sun was coming up, it was, on one hand,太阳升起, 一方面,
0:15I wanted a little more sleep.我想多睡一会
0:16On the other hand, it was a beautiful morning coming in.另一方面,一个美丽的早晨来了。
0:22I teach at Stanford University.我在斯坦福大学教书
0:24I do that one day a week.我每周一天都这样
0:25I figured out how to do that along with the internet我知道怎么用互联网来做
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1It's great to be with you guys today.很高兴今天能和你们在一起
2I had to get up at like four in the morning我早上四点起床
3because I live in the wine country.因为我住在酒乡
4And so driving down here, early in the morning所以在清晨开车过来
5and the sun was coming up, it was, on one hand,太阳升起, 一方面,
6I wanted a little more sleep.我想多睡一会
7On the other hand, it was a beautiful morning coming in.另一方面,一个美丽的早晨来了。
8I teach at Stanford University.我在斯坦福大学教书
9I do that one day a week.我每周一天都这样
10I figured out how to do that along with the internet我知道怎么用互联网来做
11and phone calls and what have you.还有电话 还有你有什么
12And my work's all about behavior我的工作就是行为
13and how you design to change people's behaviors.以及如何设计改变人们的行为。
14And what we're going to do right now,而我们现在要做的,
15we're gonna practice some behavior change.我们要改变一下行为
16And the organizers of this event have been very good这次活动的组织者非常出色
17at providing some supplies.提供一些用品。
18So I want all of you to look under your seat right now所以我要你们现在都看看座位下面
19and see what surprise is waiting for you.看看有什么惊喜等着你
20What I want you to do,我想让你做的
21and we debated whether we should really do this or not,我们辩论我们是否真的应该这样做,
22but we're gonna do it,但我们会做到这一点,
23is I want you to tear off one piece of floss like this.我要你像这样撕掉一块牙线
24And what we're gonna do, don't do it quite yet,而我们要做的, 不要做相当的,
25we're gonna practice what I call a tiny habit.我们要练习我所说的小习惯
26And in this case, we're gonna do something very, very small在这种情况下,我们会做一些非常,非常小的事
27and I'm gonna have you floss one tooth.我要给你一颗牙
28Not yet, we're gonna do it all together.还没有,我们要一起做这一切。
29I know some of you think that's kind of gross,我知道你们有些人觉得这有点恶心
30but we can do this.但我们可以做到这一点。
31Now, there's one more piece,现在,还有一块,
32and I'll explain this a little bit later in my presentation.我稍后再解释一下
33After you do a tiny behavior做个小动作后
34that you want to repeat in the future or maybe expand,你想在未来重复,或可能扩大,
35what you need to do is celebrate victory.你需要做的是庆祝胜利。
36Immediately, right away.马上,马上
37So I'm not talking about going out to the bar所以我不是说去酒吧
38or going and making cookies or what have you.或者去做饼干 或者你有什么
39You need to tell yourself in some way that you're awesome.你得以某种方式告诉自己你很棒
40Okay, so we're gonna practice this.好吧,所以我们要练习这个。
41There's a few ways to do this.亦有数种法.
42I've mapped out 10 different ways to celebrate,我规划了十种不同的庆祝方式
43but we're gonna start with one that's pretty common,但我们要从一个很常见的开始
44that works, and it goes like this.就是这样的
45I'm awesome.我超赞的。
46Okay, you ready?好了,你准备好了吗?
47One, two, three, I'm awesome.一,二,三,我很厉害。
48Okay, let's try another celebration.好吧,让我们试试另一个庆祝。
49And this one is bingo.这个是宾果
50Ready?准备好了吗?
51One, two, three, bingo.一 二 三 宾果
52Awesome.厉害
53Now, I'm awesome.现在,我真棒。
54There are some people,有些人,
55when they're working with tiny habits with me,当他们和我合作时
56they like doing a little dance.他们喜欢跳舞
57And that makes them feel like, yeah, I'm rocking it.这让他们觉得,是的,我在摇晃它。
58Okay, so ready?好了,准备好了吗?
59Little dance, one, two, three.小舞一两三.
60Awesome, okay.真棒,好吗。
61Now, we're gonna get to this in a minute,现在,我们将得到 这一点在一分钟内,
62so just hang tight.所以坚持住。
63I'll give you a little bit of background我给你一些背景
64and we're gonna practice this together.我们要一起练习
65You guys are great sports你们是伟大的运动
66in practicing the celebrations with me.和我一起练习庆祝
67I'm obsessed with how behavior works.我沉迷于行为如何运作.
68Even on vacation, I'm thinking about behavior,即使在度假时,我在考虑行为
69I'm watching behavior, I'm reading stuff on it,我在观察行为,我读的东西在上面,
70I'm trying to understand it systematically.我试图系统地理解它。
71And when I'm sleeping, and this is a little bit scary,当我睡觉时,这有点吓人,
72I'm thinking about behavior model,我在想行为模式,
73behavior grid, domino actions,行为网格,多米诺动作,
74motivation waves in my sleep.我睡梦中的动力波
75And this happens almost every night now,现在几乎每晚都这样
76so that's a little freaky, but I learn things,所以这有点怪异, 但我学习的东西,
77so that's nice.所以这是很好的。
78I would have never expected that a year ago,我没想到一年前,
79that today I would be doing 50, 60, 70 pushups a day.今天我每天做50、60、70次俯卧撑
80But all this is part of being obsessed with the behavior.但这一切都是沉迷于行为的一部分。
81And one of the things that you need to do还有一件你需要做的事
82if you, is practice changing your own behavior.如果你在练习改变自己的行为
83And that gives you an understanding of how behavior works.这让你了解行为是如何运作的。
84Now, the way I arrived here was very much like the flossing,现在,我来到这里的方式 是非常像牙刷,
85but a little bit different, and this was the equation.但有点不同, 这就是方程式。
86After I pee, I will do two pushups.我撒尿后,我会做两个俯卧撑。
87Okay, so I'd use the facility,好吧,所以我会利用设施,
88yes, technically you flush the toilet first,是的,技术上你先冲厕所
89and then two pushups, and you're done,然后两个俯卧撑,你完成了,
90and you go, awesome, okay?你走,真棒,好吗?
91That's, yeah, okay, awesome, yeah.这是,是啊,好吧,真棒,是啊。
92Well, after two, it's really easy, you move on,过了两分钟,就很容易了,你继续
93then you do five, then you do eight,然后你做5,然后你做8,
94and the current, where I'm at now, I do eight,和水流,我现在在哪里,我做8,
95but I always do extra credit, so I tend to do 12 or so,但我总是做额外的功劳, 所以我倾向于12左右,
96and it adds up over the day.和它补充了一天。
97I end up doing, who knows, 50, 60, 70,我最终会做,谁知道, 50,60,70,
98depending on how much water I've had and other factors.取决于我有多少水和其他因素。
99The good news is that behavior and behavior change好消息是行为和行为改变
100is not as complicated as most people think.并不像大多数人认为的那样复杂。
101It's systematic, and there are ways to understand behavior这是系统化的,有 方法来理解行为
102that are pretty straightforward and simple,很简单,
103and I'm gonna share some of those with you today.我今天要跟你们分享一些
104There are 15 ways behaviors can change.有15种行为方式可以改变.
105They're not hundreds of behavior types, there's 15 ways.它们不是数百种行为类型,有15种方式.
106When we talk about health behavior change,当我们谈论健康行为改变,
107people are mostly talking about long-term change,人们主要谈论长期变革,
108and this row, these are the five而这行,这些是五
109that represent different types of long-term change.代表着不同类型的长期变化。
110I'm not gonna go into depth here,我不会深入到这里,
111but what I want to explain to you但我想向你解释
112is when it comes to long-term change,当它涉及到长期的变化,
113there's only two ways you can get it done.只有两种方法可以做到
114Number one, you can change your environment.第一,你可以改变环境。
115So before, here's your environment,所以之前,这里是你的环境,
116certain behavior, and then after,某些行为,然后,
117the changed environment changes your behavior.改变的环境会改变你的行为。
118That's a reliable way.这是可靠的方法。
119It also includes your social environment.这还包括你的社会环境。
120Before, after.之前,后来。
121Now, changing the environment is a reliable way现在,改变环境是可靠的方法
122to change your behavior, however it can be tricky,改变你的行为,尽管它可能很棘手,
123especially the social environment,特别是社会环境,
124with families and coworkers and so on.与家人和同事,等等。
125So there's one other way of changing所以还有一种方法可以改变
126your behavior long-term, and I'll give you a hint.你的行为长期, 我会给你一个提示。
127It does not have to do with motivation.这与动机无关。
128Surprise, motivation actually applies惊喜,动机实际上适用
129to other kinds of temporary behavior change,到其他类型的临时行为改变,
130but not long-term.但不是长期。
131In other words, relying primarily on motivation换言之,主要依靠动机
132to change your behavior long-term is a losing strategy,改变你的行为 长期是一个失败的策略,
133and similarly for willpower.同样的意志力。
134So you can take those off the table让你把这些从桌子上拿下来
135if you make the behavior change tiny enough.如果你把行为改变得足够小
136Now, in this grid, this is where habits live, blue path.现在,在这个网格中, 这是习惯生活的地方,蓝色的路径。
137It's something familiar that you do from now on,你从现在开始就是这么熟悉的
138and if you make that very tiny, like two push-ups,如果你做的非常小, 像两个俯卧撑,
139floss one tooth, and so on, it's very easy to repeat牙线一齿,等等,很容易重复
140and make that become a habit.并使之成为习惯。
141Think about it this way.这么想吧
142You already know how to floss all your teeth.你已经知道怎么打牙了
143That's not what you're lacking.这不是你缺少的。
144What you're lacking is the automaticity of flossing.你所缺少的,是自动的流线。
145So you don't need to train flossing all your teeth.所以你不用训练牙刷了
146You need to train making it automatic.你需要训练 使它自动。
147Now, in the persuasion boot camps that I teach,在我教的劝导营里
148we geek out about this kind of stuff,我们为这种事发狂
149and this is one of the crews with me这是跟我一起的船员之一
150up in the wine country doing it.在葡萄酒乡做。
151We look at the sequences of behaviors我们看看行为的顺序
152that eventually land you here to habit.最终你在这里习以为常
153We won't go in that kind of depth today,我们今天不会去那种深度,
154but what I do wanna say,但我想说的是,
155and this is a little bit controversial,这有点有争议的,
156is this puzzle is solved,这个谜题解决了
157and I'm gonna share the pieces with you,我会跟你分享这些作品,
158and I'm gonna share some ways that it got solved,我将分享一些方法 它得到了解决,
159and we'll see what you think,我们看看你怎么想
160that there's a new way to create habits一种创造习惯的新方式
161that is reliable and systematic.这是可靠和系统的。
162Now, when we look at health outcomes, bullseye,现在,当我们看 健康结果,牛眼,
163what do we wanna do?我们该怎么办?
164Well, things like lose weight, manage stress, and so on.比如减肥 应付压力等等
165But if you design for the outcomes,但是如果你设计的结果,
166you're designing at the wrong place,你在错误的地方设计,
167you need to design for the behaviors你需要设计行为
168that lead to the outcome.导致结果。
169And if you take an issue like weight loss,如果你把一个问题 像减肥,
170there are many, many behaviors有很多,很多行为
171that can contribute to that outcome,有助于取得这一成果,
172stress reduction, eating better, and so on.减轻压力,吃得更好等等。
173And I would propose that most of the behaviors我建议大部分的行为
174that we need to do are habits.我们需要做的是习惯。
175So of the 15 ways behaviors can change,所以在15种行为方式中,
176the one that matters most to long-term health are habits.长期健康最重要的就是习惯。
177And as we create what I call these tiny habits,当我们创造我所说的这些小习惯时
178and we can't do it all at once,而我们不能一举一动
179little by little, we will then approach this health outcome然后我们就会逐渐接近健康结果
180in a very reliable way, in a way that doesn't regress,在非常可靠的方式, 在不倒退的方式,
181in a way that doesn't make you, oh, I give up,我放弃了
182no, I'm just gonna go back to how I was.不,我只是要回到过去的样子。
183Let me share a personal example,让我举个例子
184and I hesitated about including this, but I will.但我会的
185In 2010, I got one of these scales that's super high-tech,在2010年,我得到了一个这些尺度 超级高科技,
186and it can tweet out your weight, okay?它可以推特 显示你的体重,好吗?
187So I set it up, so it's tweeting my weight.所以我设置了它,所以它在推特上表达我的体重.
188So I started tweeting it out in 2010,我于2010年开始发微博,
189and this is about a year.这是大约一年。
190So you can see what's going on there.故能观其境界.
191Not much change, up and down, up and down.变化不大,上下不息.
192What I learned was, number one,我学到的第一
193simply tweeting your weight只是推特上的你的体重
194didn't seem to have any effect on me,看来对我没什么影响
195and I looked up others who had done it,我调查了其他凶手
196didn't seem to have lots of impact.似乎没有太大的影响。
197Number two, my Twitter followers hated it, so I stopped.第二,我的Twitter追随者讨厌它,所以我停下来了.
198But I kept, you know, I'd made it a habit但是,我一直,你知道, 我把它作为一个习惯
199of stepping on the scale, it was right there.踩在秤上, 它就在那里。
200A few months later, going up.数月后,升.
201So at one point, I thought, okay,所以有一点,我想,好吧,
202I've been doing this thing called tiny habits.我一直在做这个叫小习惯的事
203It's something I've applied elsewhere.这是我在别处应用过的
204Now I'm gonna apply it to weight loss,现在我要把它应用于减肥,
205because I wanna lose some pounds.因为我想减肥
206So after creating many, many, many, many tiny habits,所以在创造出许多,许多,许多,许多小习惯之后,
207this is where I am this week.我这周就在这
208So that's probably the course of a year or so.所以这可能是一年左右的路程。
209So you can see, no real change.所以,你可以看到,没有真正的变化。
210And then putting together, little by little,然后拼凑在一起 慢慢地
211these tiny habits that took root and would grow,这些细小的习惯 扎根并成长,
212I believe I've made a long-term change.我想我已经做了一个长期的变化。
213Now we'll see five, 10 years from now,现在,我们将看到5,10年后,
214but it seems like these habits will be very hard to undo.但似乎这些习惯很难改变
215So I put this out there.所以我把这个放在那里。
216When you know how to create tiny habits,当你知道如何创造小习惯,
217you can change your behavior and your life forever.你可以永远改变你的行为和生活
218Now let me back up and explain现在让我回去解释一下
219how I honed in on the formula of tiny habits,我是如何在微小的习惯的配方,
220and you can see whether it syncs您可以看到它是否同步
221with how you think about it.和你的想法一样
222There are three things that have to happen有三件事必须发生
223at the same moment to cause a behavior.在同一时刻引起一种行为。
224Number one, there has to be some level of motivation.第一,必须有一定程度的动机。
225You gotta wanna keep your teeth clean.你得保持你的牙齿干净。
226You gotta wanna get stronger with push-ups你要更强一些 做俯卧撑
227or something like that.或者类似的东西。
228Next, you have to have the ability to do it.接下来,你必须有能力做到这一点。
229And then there has to be a trigger.然后必须有一个触发器。
230Now when I say trigger, I mean call to action.现在,当我说触发, 我的意思是呼吁采取行动。
231It's the thing that says do push-ups now,是说做俯卧撑
232floss your teeth now, and so on.牙线现在,等等。
233And it's these three things together.而此三事合为一体.
234When they combine at once,当他们同时结合,
235then the behavior will also occur.然后行为也会发生
236Whether it's floss your teeth, do push-ups,不管是牙线还是俯卧撑
237what have you, send a thank you note.你怎么了 发个谢谢信
238Now motivation ability are trade-offs.现在动机能力是取舍。
239And this line, this curved line represents that trade-off.而这条线,这个弯曲的线代表了这种权衡.
240And if you're anywhere above the line如果你在线上任何地方
241and the trigger occurs, you will do the behavior.扳机发生,你会做的行为。
242So let me give some examples of this.因此,让我举几个例子。
243Here below the line, let's say I want you to run a marathon在线下,我要你跑马拉松
244and you have no motivation to run a marathon.而你没有跑马拉松的动机。
245Both low motivation and it's hard.动机既低又难.
246When I say run a marathon, run a marathon,当我说跑马拉松,跑马拉松,
247you're not gonna do it.你不会这么做的
248No matter how many times I make that call to action.不管我多少次呼吁采取行动。
249In contrast, if I say, oh, walk outside and walk back in,反之,如果我说,哦, 走出去,走回来,
250maybe 30 seconds, simple to do.也许30秒,很简单
251You're above the line.尔时优娄频螺迦叶.
252Still you may not be very motivated不过你可能不太有动机
253because it's so easy to do.因为它是如此容易做。
254Now let's move up here.现在,让我们搬到这里。
255It's hard to do.难成.
256I'm asking you to do something very hard.我请你做点非常难的事
257In order to do something that's difficult,为了做一些困难的事
258you need high levels of motivation.您需要高水平的动力。
259In fact, I think that's the purpose.事实上,我想这就是目的。
260That's the only use of motivation in our lives那是我们生命中唯一的动力
261is to allow us to do hard things.是允许我们做艰难的事情。
262And if we're not doing hard things,如果我们不做坏事,
263we don't need that much motivation.我们不需要那么多动力
264When our motivation lags, boom, can't do it.等我们的动机落后了, 砰,不能做到这一点。
265Motivation's very slippery.动机很滑
266So if you set yourself up to do something hard所以,如果你陷害自己 做一些艰难的事情
267and you have to somehow sustain the motivation,你必须保持这个动机
268the motivation's gonna drop down动机会下降
269and there's gonna be a point where you don't do it并且会有一个点 你不这样做
270and habits are about repeating it习惯是重复它
271and you won't create the habit.而你不会创造这个习惯。
272So as I looked at this,所以当我看着这个,
273as I looked at my behavior model, I thought,当我看着我的行为模式,我想,
274let's go right here, easy to do,让我们在这里,容易做,
275stuff that's so easy to do,很简单的事
276it doesn't require much motivation at all.它不需要太多的动力。
277So whether your motivation's high, you'll still do it.所以,无论你的动机是否高,你仍然会这样做。
278Whether it's low, you'll stew it.不论低,你都会炖熟的.
279And so this is where the insight around因此,这就是这里的洞察力
280let's make it really tiny, really tiny,让我们让它真的很小,真的很小,
281like one tooth, two pushups, one sip of water, and so on.如一齿,两俯卧撑,一口水等.
282Well, when you look at it in this way,好吧,当你这样看它,
283the smiley face, we're accounting for motivation,笑脸,我们正在考虑动机,
284we're accounting for ability.我们在考虑能力
285So in the equation B equals MAT, those things are done.因此,在方程式B等于MAT中,这些事情就完成了.
286What wasn't done and what I hadn't solved was the trigger.我还没解决的就是触发器
287How do we trigger that behavior easily?我们如何轻易触发这种行为?
288Well, one day I came home from the gym,有一天我从健身房回来
289I went into the bathroom, I got in the shower,我去了洗手间 洗了澡
290I turned on the shower, I got out, I dried off,我打开淋浴,我下车,我干掉,
291I went into my bedroom, I opened the sock drawer,我去了我的卧室, 我打开了袜子抽屉,
292and at that moment it hit me, after.在那一刻,它击中了我,之后。
293The secret was after.秘密是后来的
294If you use an existing behavior in your life如果你用你生命中已有的行为
295and you put the new tiny behavior after it,你把新的小行为 之后,
296you can use the existing behavior to be the trigger.您可以使用已有的行为来触发。
297So I was looking for what is the T, what is the trigger?所以我在寻找什么是T,什么是触发器?
298Well, the triggers are your existing behaviors.触发器是你的现有行为
299I was pretty happy about this.我很高兴
300I thought this was a breakthrough.我认为这是一个突破。
301It means you don't have to put up post-it notes,意思是,你不用写后笔记
302you don't have to set alarms, and so on.你不需要设置警报器等等
303You just establish what it will come after.你只需要确定它会有什么结果
304So I went off, mapped this out,于是我走了,绘制了地图,
305and started practicing tiny habits, more and more on my own,并开始练习小习惯, 越来越多的我自己,
306applied them to many things.把它们应用到很多事情上。
307And then about a year ago, after I'd done this a while,大约一年前 我做了一段时间后
308I thought, you know, I'm gonna invite some friends to do it,我想,你知道, 我会邀请一些朋友做到这一点,
309and it kind of grew from there.它从那里长出来
310So today there's, I've actually coached所以,今天有, 我实际上指导
311over 20,000 tiny habits,超过两万个小习惯,
312and this is a snapshot from the spreadsheet.这是电子表格的快照。
313Here's the format for tiny habits.以下是小习惯的格式.
314It looks like this.看起来像这样
315After I, whatever your existing behavior is,我之后 无论你现在的行为如何
316I call that an anchor, I will floss one tooth,我管它叫锚,我打一颗牙
317do two push-ups, and so on.做两次俯卧撑等等
318So what kinds of tiny habits do people create?那么人们会创造什么样的小习惯?
319This is from this upcoming week.这是下周的报导
320I grabbed this out of the database.我从数据库里拿了这个
321A lot of habits are geared toward the morning.很多习惯都是朝向早晨的
322After I start my morning coffee,我早上开始喝咖啡后
323I will tidy one item in the living room.我会在客厅收拾一件东西
324Other habits are toward the evening,其他的习惯是晚上,
325where you have routines already set up.在那里,你已经有了常规。
326After I enter the house at the end of the day,我最后进屋后
327I will kiss my wife for 10 seconds.我会吻我的妻子10秒。
328These kind of tiny habits work out really well.这些小习惯很有效
329So as you think about changing your life,所以当你想改变你的生活时
330think about framing it in terms of this format.考虑用这种格式来设定它。
331After I pick an existing habit that you do every day我挑出你每天的习惯
332with the same frequency频率相同
333that you want the new behavior to happen,你想让新行为发生
334I will, and you've got to make it super tiny.我会的,你必须让它超级小。
335After I pee, I will do two push-ups.我撒尿后,我会做两个俯卧撑。
336After I walk in the door, I will hang my keys on the hook.我走进门后,会把我的钥匙挂在钩子上.
337After I brush my teeth, I will floss one tooth.我刷牙后,我会打牙
338That makes sense, right?这有道理,对不对?
339That brushing becomes the trigger or the anchor刷子变成扳机或锚
340for flossing one tooth, and then you celebrate it.用来擦牙,然后你庆祝它。
341So now we're on to the practice time.现在我们开始练习时间。
342You ready for this?你准备好了吗?
343Everyone get out your floss.大家都把牙线弄出来
344Okay, in your minds visualize you're brushing your teeth.好吧,在你的脑海里 想象你刷牙。
345Oh, I think we need to practice celebration.哦,我想我们需要练习庆祝。
346We're gonna go awesome, right?我们要去真棒,对不对?
347One, two, three, awesome.一 二 三 厉害
348Okay, all right, we brush our teeth, floss one tooth.好吧,好吧,我们刷牙,一牙。
349One, two, three, awesome.一 二 三 厉害
350Okay, if you keep at that over time,好吧,如果你坚持 一段时间,
351it'll get easier and easier to floss your teeth牙刷会越来越容易
352and you can floss more and more.你可以越来越多的打火机。
353There's different ways to celebrate.颂有不同法.
354Find the celebration that works for you.找到对你有用的庆典
355Here's the phrase, and it comes down to this.这句话是这样的
356I live up in the wine country.我住在酒乡
357I do a lot with the earth as much as I can,我尽我所能做很多与地球,
358and this seems to map exactly what I'm talking about.这似乎是地图 确切的我在说什么。
359Plant a tiny seed in the right spot在右边种个小种子
360and it will grow without coaxing.它会生长而不凝结。
361The tiny seed.细小的种子。
362This pumpkin came from a tiny seed这个南瓜来自一个小种子
363that actually we didn't even plant.其实我们甚至没有栽培。
364It came from the chicken manure是鸡粪来的
365that we put in the garden and it grew.我们把它放在花园里,它生长。
366We didn't have to do anything to it.我们没有做任何事情。
367It just grew with tiny seed in the right spot.它只是用小种子生长在合适的地方。
368So I encourage you to look at your lives,所以我鼓励你看看你的生活,
369look at what you wanna change,看看你想改变什么
370break it down to tiny behaviors分解为小行为
371and put them in the right spot.把它们放在合适的位置
372The right spot is after something you're already doing合适的地方就是在做你已经做的事之后
373and allow it to grow.并允许它生长。
374You don't have to amp up motivation.你不必增加动力
375You don't have to draw that much on willpower.你不必用意志力来画这么多
376All you have to do is plan it out你只需要计划一下
377and let this natural process emerge.让这个自然过程出现
378Thanks, everybody.谢谢各位
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0:01It's great to be with you guys today.很高兴今天能和你们在一起
0:03I had to get up at like four in the morning我早上四点起床
0:05because I live in the wine country.因为我住在酒乡
0:08And so driving down here, early in the morning所以在清晨开车过来
0:11and the sun was coming up, it was, on one hand,太阳升起, 一方面,
0:15I wanted a little more sleep.我想多睡一会
0:16On the other hand, it was a beautiful morning coming in.另一方面,一个美丽的早晨来了。
0:22I teach at Stanford University.我在斯坦福大学教书
0:24I do that one day a week.我每周一天都这样
0:25I figured out how to do that along with the internet我知道怎么用互联网来做
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1It's great to be with you guys today.很高兴今天能和你们在一起
2I had to get up at like four in the morning我早上四点起床
3because I live in the wine country.因为我住在酒乡
4And so driving down here, early in the morning所以在清晨开车过来
5and the sun was coming up, it was, on one hand,太阳升起, 一方面,
6I wanted a little more sleep.我想多睡一会
7On the other hand, it was a beautiful morning coming in.另一方面,一个美丽的早晨来了。
8I teach at Stanford University.我在斯坦福大学教书
9I do that one day a week.我每周一天都这样
10I figured out how to do that along with the internet我知道怎么用互联网来做
11and phone calls and what have you.还有电话 还有你有什么
12And my work's all about behavior我的工作就是行为
13and how you design to change people's behaviors.以及如何设计改变人们的行为。
14And what we're going to do right now,而我们现在要做的,
15we're gonna practice some behavior change.我们要改变一下行为
16And the organizers of this event have been very good这次活动的组织者非常出色
17at providing some supplies.提供一些用品。
18So I want all of you to look under your seat right now所以我要你们现在都看看座位下面
19and see what surprise is waiting for you.看看有什么惊喜等着你
20What I want you to do,我想让你做的
21and we debated whether we should really do this or not,我们辩论我们是否真的应该这样做,
22but we're gonna do it,但我们会做到这一点,
23is I want you to tear off one piece of floss like this.我要你像这样撕掉一块牙线
24And what we're gonna do, don't do it quite yet,而我们要做的, 不要做相当的,
25we're gonna practice what I call a tiny habit.我们要练习我所说的小习惯
26And in this case, we're gonna do something very, very small在这种情况下,我们会做一些非常,非常小的事
27and I'm gonna have you floss one tooth.我要给你一颗牙
28Not yet, we're gonna do it all together.还没有,我们要一起做这一切。
29I know some of you think that, that's kind of gross.我知道你们有些人会这么认为 这有点恶心
30But we can do this.但我们可以做到这一点。
31Now, there's one more piece现在,还有一块
32and I'll explain this a little bit later in my presentation.我稍后再解释一下
33After you do a tiny behavior做个小动作后
34that you want to repeat in the future or maybe expand,你想在未来重复,或可能扩大,
35what you need to do is celebrate victory.你需要做的是庆祝胜利。
36Immediately, right away.马上,马上
37So I'm not talking about going out to the bar所以我不是说去酒吧
38or going and making cookies or what have you.或者去做饼干 或者你有什么
39You need to tell yourself in some way that you're awesome.你得以某种方式告诉自己你很棒
40Okay, so we're gonna practice this.好吧,所以我们要练习这个。
41There's a few ways to do this.亦有数种法.
42I've mapped out 10 different ways to celebrate.我已经规划了十种不同的庆祝方式.
43But we're gonna start with one that's pretty common.但我们要从一个很常见的开始
44That works and it goes like this.这样就成功了
45I'm awesome.我超赞的。
46Okay, you ready?好了,你准备好了吗?
47One, two, three, I'm awesome.一,二,三,我很厉害。
48Okay, let's try another celebration.好吧,让我们试试另一个庆祝。
49And this one is bingo.这个是宾果
50Ready, one, two, three, bingo.准备 一 二 三 宾果
51Awesome.厉害
52Now, I'm awesome.现在,我真棒。
53There are some people,有些人,
54when they're working with tiny habits with me,当他们和我合作时
55they like doing a little dance.他们喜欢跳舞
56And that makes them feel like, yeah, I'm rocking it.这让他们觉得,是的,我在摇晃它。
57Okay, so ready?好了,准备好了吗?
58Little dance, one, two, three.小舞一两三.
59Awesome, okay.真棒,好吗。
60Now, we're gonna get to this in a minute.现在,我们会得到 这一点在一分钟。
61So just hang tight.坚持住
62I'll give you a little bit of background我给你一些背景
63and we're gonna practice this together.我们要一起练习
64You guys are great sports你们是伟大的运动
65in practicing the celebrations with me.和我一起练习庆祝
66I'm obsessed with how behavior works.我沉迷于行为如何运作.
67Even on vacation, I'm thinking about behavior.即使在度假时,我也在考虑行为.
68I'm watching behavior, I'm reading stuff on it.我在观察行为 我在看上面的东西
69I'm trying to understand it systematically.我试图系统地理解它。
70And when I'm sleeping, and this is a little bit scary,当我睡觉时,这有点吓人,
71I'm thinking about behavior model, behavior grid,我在想行为模型,行为网格,
72domino actions, motivation waves in my sleep.多米诺的行动, 动机波浪在我的睡眠。
73And this happens almost every night now.这几乎每晚都会发生。
74So that's a little freaky, but I learn things.所以这有点怪异, 但我学习的东西。
75So that's nice.所以这是很好的。
76I would have never expected that a year ago,我没想到一年前,
77that today I would be doing 50, 60, 70 pushups a day.今天我每天做50、60、70次俯卧撑
78But all this is part of being obsessed with behavior.但这一切都是沉迷于行为的一部分。
79And one of the things that you need to do还有一件你需要做的事
80if you, is practice changing your own behavior.如果你在练习改变自己的行为
81And that gives you an understanding of how behavior works.这让你了解行为是如何运作的。
82Now, the way I arrived here was very much like the flossing,现在,我来到这里的方式 是非常像牙刷,
83but a little bit different.但有点不一样
84And this was the equation.这就是方程式。
85After I pee, I will do two pushups, okay?我撒尿后,我会做两个俯卧撑,好吗?
86So I'd use the facility.所以我会使用设施。
87Yes, technically you flush the toilet first.是的,从技术上讲,你先冲厕所。
88And then two pushups, and you're done.然后两个俯卧撑,你完成了。
89And you go, awesome, okay?而你去,真棒,好吗?
90That's, yeah, okay, awesome, yeah.这是,是啊,好吧,真棒,是啊。
91Well, after two, it's really easy.嗯,二后,这是非常容易的。
92You move on, then you do five, then you do eight.你继续前进,然后你做5,然后你做8。
93And the current, where I'm at now, I do eight,而水流,我现在在那里,我做8,
94but I always do extra credits.但我总是做额外的功劳。
95So I tend to do 12 or so, and it adds up over the day.因此我倾向于12个左右, 和它加起来一天。
96I end up doing, who knows, 50, 60, 70,我最终会做,谁知道, 50,60,70,
97depending on how much water I've had and other factors.取决于我有多少水和其他因素。
98The good news is that behavior and behavior change好消息是行为和行为改变
99is not as complicated as most people think.并不像大多数人认为的那样复杂。
100It's systematic, and there are ways to understand behavior这是系统化的,有 方法来理解行为
101that are pretty straightforward and simple.很简单
102And I'm gonna share some of those with you today.我今天要和你们分享一些
103There are 15 ways behaviors can change.有15种行为方式可以改变.
104There are not hundreds of behavior types.没有数百种行为类型。
105There's 15 ways.有十五种法门.
106When we talk about health behavior change,当我们谈论健康行为改变,
107people are mostly talking about long-term change,人们主要谈论长期变革,
108and this row, these are the five而这行,这些是五
109that represent different types of long-term change.代表着不同类型的长期变化。
110I'm not gonna go into depth here,我不会深入到这里,
111but what I want to explain to you但我想向你解释
112is when it comes to long-term change,当它涉及到长期的变化,
113there's only two ways you can get it done.只有两种方法可以做到
114Number one, you can change your environment.第一,你可以改变环境。
115So before, here's your environment, certain behavior.所以之前,这里是你的环境, 某些行为。
116And then after, the changed environment之后,环境发生了变化
117changes your behavior.改变你的行为。
118That's a reliable way.这是可靠的方法。
119It also includes your social environment.这还包括你的社会环境。
120Before, after.之前,后来。
121Now, changing the environment现在,改变环境
122is a reliable way to change your behavior,这是改变你行为的一种可靠方式
123however it can be tricky,不过这很棘手
124especially the social environment with families特别是家庭的社会环境
125and coworkers and so on.还有同事等等
126So there's one other way所以还有一种方法
127of changing your behavior long-term,改变你的行为 长期,
128and I'll give you a hint.我给你个提示
129It does not have to do with motivation.这与动机无关。
130Surprise.惊叹曰.
131Motivation actually applies动机实际适用
132to other kinds of temporary behavior change,到其他类型的临时行为改变,
133but not long-term.但不是长期。
134In other words, relying primarily on motivation换言之,主要依靠动机
135to change your behavior long-term is a losing strategy.改变你的行为 长期是一个失败的策略。
136And similarly for willpower.同样的意志力。
137So you can take those off the table让你把这些从桌子上拿下来
138if you make the behavior change tiny enough.如果你把行为改变得足够小
139Now, in this grid, this is where habits live.现在,在这个网格, 这是习惯生活的地方。
140Blue path.蓝道.
141It's something familiar that you do from now on.你从现在开始就很熟悉
142And if you make that very tiny,如果你让这个很小,
143like two push-ups, floss one tooth, and so on,像两个俯卧撑,花纹一牙,等等,
144it's very easy to repeat and make that become a habit.这很容易重复 并成为一个习惯。
145Think about it this way.这么想吧
146You already know how to floss all your teeth.你已经知道怎么打牙了
147That's not what you're lacking.这不是你缺少的。
148What you're lacking is the automaticity of flossing.你所缺少的,是自动的流线。
149So you don't need to train flossing all your teeth.所以你不用训练牙刷了
150You need to train making it automatic.你需要训练 使它自动。
151Now, in the persuasion boot camps that I teach,在我教的劝导营里
152we geek out about this kind of stuff.我们为这种事发狂
153And this is one of the crews with me这是跟我一起的船员之一
154up in the wine country doing it.在葡萄酒乡做。
155We look at the sequences of behaviors我们看看行为的顺序
156that eventually land you here to habit.最终你在这里习以为常
157We won't go in that kind of depth today,我们今天不会去那种深度,
158but what I do wanna say,但我想说的是,
159and this is a little bit controversial,这有点有争议的,
160is this puzzle is solved.这个谜题解决了。
161And I'm gonna share the pieces with you,我要和你们分享这些作品
162and I'm gonna share some ways that it got solved.我会分享一些办法 解决它。
163And we'll see what you think,我们看看你怎么想
164that there's a new way to create habits一种创造习惯的新方式
165that is reliable and systematic.这是可靠和系统的。
166Now, when we look at health outcomes,现在,当我们看 健康结果,
167bullseye, what do we wanna do?牛眼,我们想做什么?
168Well, things like lose weight, manage stress, and so on.比如减肥 应付压力等等
169But if you design for the outcomes,但是如果你设计的结果,
170you're designing at the wrong place,你在错误的地方设计,
171you need to design for the behaviors你需要设计行为
172that lead to the outcome.导致结果。
173And if you take an issue like weight loss,如果你把一个问题 像减肥,
174there are many, many behaviors有很多,很多行为
175that can contribute to that outcome.这有助于取得这一成果。
176Stress reduction, eating better, and so on.减轻压力,吃得更好等等。
177And I would propose that most of the behaviors我建议大部分的行为
178that we need to do are habits.我们需要做的是习惯。
179So of the 15 ways behaviors can change,所以在15种行为方式中,
180the one that matters most to long-term health are habits.长期健康最重要的就是习惯。
181And as we create what I call these tiny habits,当我们创造我所说的这些小习惯时
182and we can't do it all at once, little by little,我们无法一举一动
183we will then approach this health outcome然后,我们将处理这个健康结果
184in a very reliable way, in a way that doesn't regress,在非常可靠的方式, 在不倒退的方式,
185in a way that doesn't make you, oh, I give up,我放弃了
186no, I'm just gonna go back to how I was.不,我只是要回到过去的样子。
187Let me share a personal example,让我举个例子
188and I hesitated about including this, but I will.但我会的
189In 2010, I got one of these scales, that's super high tech,在2010年,我得到了一个这样的天平, 这是超级高科技,
190and it can tweet out your weight, okay?它可以推特 显示你的体重,好吗?
191So I set it up, so it's tweeting my weight.所以我设置了它,所以它在推特上表达我的体重.
192So I started tweeting it out in 2010,我于2010年开始发微博,
193and this is about a year.这是大约一年。
194So you can see what's going on there.故能观其境界.
195Not much change, up and down, up and down.变化不大,上下不息.
196What I learned was, number one, simply tweeting your weight我学到的是,第一, 只是推特上的你体重
197didn't seem to have any effect on me,看来对我没什么影响
198and I looked up others who had done it,我调查了其他凶手
199didn't seem to have lots of impact.似乎没有太大的影响。
200Number two, my Twitter followers hated it, so I stopped.第二,我的Twitter追随者讨厌它,所以我停下来了.
201But I kept, you know, I'd made it a habit但是,我一直,你知道, 我把它作为一个习惯
202of stepping on the scale, it was right there,踩在秤上, 它就在那里,
203few months later, going up.几个月后,开始上升。
204So at one point, I thought, okay,所以有一点,我想,好吧,
205I've been doing this thing called tiny habits,我一直在做这个叫做小习惯的事情,
206it's something I've applied elsewhere,这是我在别处应用过的东西,
207now I'm gonna apply it to weight loss,现在我要把它应用于减肥,
208because I wanna lose some pounds.因为我想减肥
209So after creating many, many, many, many tiny habits,所以在创造出许多,许多,许多,许多小习惯之后,
210this is where I am this week.我这周就在这
211So that's probably the course of a year or so.所以这可能是一年左右的路程。
212So you can see, no real change.所以,你可以看到,没有真正的变化。
213And then, putting together, little by little,然后,拼凑在一起, 一点点地,
214these tiny habits that took root and would grow,这些细小的习惯 扎根并成长,
215I believe I've made a long-term change,我相信我做了一个长期的变化,
216now we'll see five, 10 years from now,现在,我们将看到5,10年后,
217but it seems like these habits will be very hard to undo.但似乎这些习惯很难改变
218So I put this out there,所以我把这个放在那里,
219when you know how to create tiny habits,当你知道如何创造小习惯,
220you can change your behavior and your life forever.你可以永远改变你的行为和生活
221Now, let me back up and explain现在让我回去解释一下
222how I honed in on the formula of tiny habits,我是如何在微小的习惯的配方,
223and you can see whether it syncs您可以看到它是否同步
224with how you think about it.和你的想法一样
225There are three things that have to happen有三件事必须发生
226at the same moment to cause a behavior.在同一时刻引起一种行为。
227Number one, there has to be some level of motivation.第一,必须有一定程度的动机。
228You gotta wanna keep your teeth clean.你得保持你的牙齿干净。
229You gotta wanna get stronger with push-ups你要更强一些 做俯卧撑
230or something like that.或者类似的东西。
231Next, you have to have the ability to do it.接下来,你必须有能力做到这一点。
232And then, there has to be a trigger.然后,必须有一个触发器。
233Now, when I say trigger, I mean call to action.现在,当我说触发, 我的意思是呼吁采取行动。
234It's the thing that says, do push-ups now,就是说现在做俯卧撑
235floss your teeth now, and so on.牙线现在,等等。
236And it's these three things together,而这是这三件事在一起,
237when they combine at once,当他们立刻结合的时候,
238then the behavior will also occur.然后行为也会发生
239Whether it's floss your teeth,不管是牙刷还是牙刷
240do push-ups, what have you, send a thank you note.做俯卧撑,你有什么, 发送一个感谢的注释。
241Now, motivation ability are trade-offs.现在,动力能力是取舍。
242And this line, this curved line,这条线,这条弯曲的线,
243represents that trade-off.代表这种权衡。
244And if you're anywhere above the line如果你在线上任何地方
245and the trigger occurs, you will do the behavior.扳机发生,你会做的行为。
246So, let me give some examples of this.因此,让我举几个例子。
247Here below the line, let's say I want you to run a marathon在线下,我要你跑马拉松
248and you have no motivation to run a marathon.而你没有跑马拉松的动机。
249Both low motivation and it's hard.动机既低又难.
250When I say, run a marathon, run a marathon,我说,跑马拉松,跑马拉松,
251you're not gonna do it,你不会这样做,
252no matter how many times I make that call to action.不管我多少次呼吁采取行动。
253In contrast, if I say, oh, walk outside and walk back in,反之,如果我说,哦, 走出去,走回来,
254maybe 30 seconds, simple to do.也许30秒,很简单
255You're above the line.尔时优娄频螺迦叶.
256Still, you may not be very motivated,不过,你可能不是很积极
257because it's so easy to do.因为它是如此容易做。
258Now, let's move up here.现在,让我们搬到这里。
259It's hard to do.难成.
260I'm asking you to do something very hard.我请你做点非常难的事
261In order to do something that's difficult,为了做一些困难的事
262you need high levels of motivation.您需要高水平的动力。
263In fact, I think that's the purpose.事实上,我想这就是目的。
264That's the only use of motivation in our lives,这是我们生命中唯一的动力
265is to allow us to do hard things.是允许我们做艰难的事情。
266And if we're not doing hard things,如果我们不做坏事,
267we don't need that much motivation.我们不需要那么多动力
268When our motivation lags, boom, can't do it.等我们的动机落后了, 砰,不能做到这一点。
269Motivation's very slippery.动机很滑
270So, if you set yourself up to do something hard所以,如果你陷害自己 做一些艰难的事情
271and you have to somehow sustain the motivation,你必须保持这个动机
272the motivation's gonna drop down动机会下降
273and there's gonna be a point where you don't do it并且会有一个点 你不这样做
274and habits are about repeating it习惯是重复它
275and you won't create the habit.而你不会创造这个习惯。
276So, as I looked at this,所以,当我看着这个,
277as I looked at my behavior model,当我看着我的行为模型,
278I thought, let's go right here.我想,我们就在这里。
279Easy to do.很简单
280Stuff that's so easy to do,这么简单的事情
281it doesn't require much motivation at all.它不需要太多的动力。
282So, whether your motivation's high,所以,如果你的动机很高,
283you'll still do it.你仍然会这样做。
284Whether it's low, you'll still do it.无论低低,你还是会这么做的.
285And so, this is where the insight around,所以,这就是这里的洞察力,
286let's make it really tiny.让我们让它真的很小。
287Really tiny, like one tooth, two pushups,非常小,像一颗牙,两个俯卧撑,
288one sip of water, and so on.一饮水等.
289Well, now, when you look at it in this way,好吧,现在,当你这样看它,
290the smiley face, we're accounting for motivation,笑脸,我们正在考虑动机,
291we're accounting for ability.我们在考虑能力
292So, in the equation B equals MAT, those things are done.所以,在方程式B等于MAT中,这些事情就完成了.
293What wasn't done and what I hadn't solved was the trigger.我还没解决的就是触发器
294How do we trigger that behavior easily?我们如何轻易触发这种行为?
295Well, one day, I came home from the gym,有一天 我从健身房回来
296I went into the bathroom, I got in the shower,我去了洗手间 洗了澡
297I turned on the shower, I got out, I dried off,我打开淋浴,我下车,我干掉,
298I went into my bedroom, I opened the sock drawer,我去了我的卧室, 我打开了袜子抽屉,
299and at that moment, it hit me.在那一刻,它击中了我。
300After.过后.
301The secret was after.秘密是后来的
302If you use an existing behavior in your life如果你用你生命中已有的行为
303and you put the new tiny behavior after it,你把新的小行为 之后,
304you can use the existing behavior to be the trigger.您可以使用已有的行为来触发。
305So, I was looking for, what is the T, what is the trigger?所以,我在寻找, 什么是T, 什么是触发器?
306Well, the triggers are your existing behaviors.触发器是你的现有行为
307I was pretty happy about this.我很高兴
308I thought this was a breakthrough.我认为这是一个突破。
309It means you don't have to put up post-it notes,意思是,你不用写后笔记
310you don't have to set alarms and so on.你不必设置警报器等等
311You just establish what it will come after.你只需要确定它会有什么结果
312So, I went off, mapped this out,所以,我走了, 地图出来,
313and started practicing tiny habits,并开始练习小习惯,
314more and more on my own, applied them to many things.越来越靠我自己 把它们应用到很多事情上
315And then about a year ago, after I'd done this a while,大约一年前 我做了一段时间后
316I thought, you know, I'm gonna invite some friends to do it,我想,你知道, 我会邀请一些朋友做到这一点,
317and it kind of grew from there.它从那里长出来
318So, today, I've actually coached over所以,今天,我实际上已经指导过
31920,000 tiny habits,2万个小习惯,
320and this is a snapshot from the spreadsheet.这是电子表格的快照。
321Here's the format for tiny habits.以下是小习惯的格式.
322It looks like this.看起来像这样
323After I, whatever your existing behavior is,我之后 无论你现在的行为如何
324I call that an anchor,我称之为锚,
325I will floss one tooth, do two push-ups, and so on.我会打一颗牙 做两次俯卧撑之类的
326So, what kinds of tiny habits do people create?那么,人们会创造什么样的小习惯?
327This is from this upcoming week.这是下周的报导
328I grabbed this out of the database.我从数据库里拿了这个
329A lot of habits are geared toward the morning.很多习惯都是朝向早晨的
330After I start my morning coffee,我早上开始喝咖啡后
331I will tidy one item in the living room.我会在客厅收拾一件东西
332Other habits are toward the evening,其他的习惯是晚上,
333where you have routines already set up.在那里,你已经有了常规。
334After I enter the house at the end of the day,我最后进屋后
335I will kiss my wife for 10 seconds.我会吻我的妻子10秒。
336These kind of tiny habits work out really well.这些小习惯很有效
337So, as you think about changing your life,所以,当你想改变你的生活时,
338think about framing it in terms of this format.考虑用这种格式来设定它。
339After I pick an existing habit that you do every day我挑出你每天的习惯
340with the same frequency频率相同
341that you want the new behavior to happen,你想让新行为发生
342I will, and you've got to make it super tiny.我会的,你必须让它超级小。
343After I pee, I will do two push-ups.我撒尿后,我会做两个俯卧撑。
344After I walk in the door, I will hang my keys on the hook.我走进门后,会把我的钥匙挂在钩子上.
345After I brush my teeth, I will floss one tooth.我刷牙后,我会打牙
346That makes sense, right?这有道理,对不对?
347That brushing becomes the trigger or the anchor刷子变成扳机或锚
348for flossing one tooth, and then you celebrate it.用来擦牙,然后你庆祝它。
349So, now we're on to the practice time.现在我们开始练习了
350You ready for this?你准备好了吗?
351Everyone get out your floss.大家都把牙线弄出来
352Okay, in your minds, visualize you're brushing your teeth.好吧,在你的脑海里, 想象你刷牙。
353Oh, I think we need to practice celebration.哦,我想我们需要练习庆祝。
354We're gonna go awesome, right?我们要去真棒,对不对?
355One, two, three, awesome.一 二 三 厉害
356Okay, all right, we brush our teeth, floss one tooth.好吧,好吧,我们刷牙,一牙。
357One, two, three, awesome.一 二 三 厉害
358Okay, if you keep at that over time,好吧,如果你坚持 一段时间,
359it'll get easier and easier to floss your teeth,它会变得容易和容易 牙线,
360and you can floss more and more.你可以越来越多的打火机。
361There's different ways to celebrate.颂有不同法.
362Find the celebration that works for you.找到对你有用的庆典
363Here's the phrase, and it comes down to this.这句话是这样的
364I live up in the wine country.我住在酒乡
365I do a lot with the earth as much as I can,我尽我所能做很多与地球,
366and this seems to map exactly what I'm talking about.这似乎是地图 确切的我在说什么。
367Plant a tiny seed in the right spot,在正确的地方种一个小的种子,
368and it will grow without coaxing.它会生长而不凝结。
369The tiny seed.细小的种子。
370This pumpkin came from a tiny seed这个南瓜来自一个小种子
371that actually we didn't even plant.其实我们甚至没有栽培。
372It came from the chicken manure that we put in the garden,它来自鸡粪 我们放在花园,
373and it grew.并成长。
374We didn't have to do anything to it.我们没有做任何事情。
375It just grew with tiny seed in the right spot.它只是用小种子生长在合适的地方。
376So I encourage you to look at your lives,所以我鼓励你看看你的生活,
377look at what you wanna change,看看你想改变什么
378break it down to tiny behaviors,将它细分为小行为,
379and put them in the right spot.把它们放在合适的位置
380The right spot is after something you're already doing,正确的位置是在你已经做了一些事情之后
381and allow it to grow.并允许它生长。
382You don't have to amp up motivation.你不必增加动力
383You don't have to draw that much on willpower.你不必用意志力来画这么多
384All you have to do is plant it out你只需要种出来
385and let this natural process emerge.让这个自然过程出现
386Thanks everybody.谢谢大家。
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0:01It's great to be with you guys today.很高兴今天能和你们在一起
0:03I had to get up at like four in the morning我早上四点起床
0:05because I live in the wine country.因为我住在酒乡
0:08And so driving down here, early in the morning所以在清晨开车过来
0:11and the sun was coming up, it was, on one hand,太阳升起, 一方面,
0:15I wanted a little more sleep.我想多睡一会
0:16On the other hand, it was a beautiful morning coming in.另一方面,一个美丽的早晨来了。
0:22I teach at Stanford University.我在斯坦福大学教书
0:24I do that one day a week.我每周一天都这样
0:25I figured out how to do that along with the internet我知道怎么用互联网来做
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1It's great to be with you guys today.很高兴今天能和你们在一起
2I had to get up at like four in the morning我早上四点起床
3because I live in the wine country.因为我住在酒乡
4And so driving down here, early in the morning所以在清晨开车过来
5and the sun was coming up, it was, on one hand,太阳升起, 一方面,
6I wanted a little more sleep.我想多睡一会
7On the other hand, it was a beautiful morning coming in.另一方面,一个美丽的早晨来了。
8I teach at Stanford University.我在斯坦福大学教书
9I do that one day a week.我每周一天都这样
10I figured out how to do that along with the internet我知道怎么用互联网来做
11and phone calls and what have you.还有电话 还有你有什么
12And my work's all about behavior我的工作就是行为
13and how you design to change people's behaviors.以及如何设计改变人们的行为。
14And what we're going to do right now,而我们现在要做的,
15we're gonna practice some behavior change.我们要改变一下行为
16And the organizers of this event have been very good这次活动的组织者非常出色
17at providing some supplies.提供一些用品。
18So I want all of you to look under your seat right now所以我要你们现在都看看座位下面
19and see what surprise is waiting for you.看看有什么惊喜等着你
20What I want you to do,我想让你做的
21and we debated whether we should really do this or not,我们辩论我们是否真的应该这样做,
22but we're gonna do it,但我们会做到这一点,
23is I want you to tear off one piece of floss like this.我要你像这样撕掉一块牙线
24And what we're gonna do, don't do it quite yet,而我们要做的, 不要做相当的,
25we're gonna practice what I call a tiny habit.我们要练习我所说的小习惯
26And in this case, we're gonna do something very, very small在这种情况下,我们会做一些非常,非常小的事
27and I'm gonna have you floss one tooth.我要给你一颗牙
28Not yet, we're gonna do it all together.还没有,我们要一起做这一切。
29I know some of you think that's kind of gross,我知道你们有些人觉得这有点恶心
30but we can do this.但我们可以做到这一点。
31Now, there's one more piece,现在,还有一块,
32and I'll explain this a little bit later in my presentation.我稍后再解释一下
33After you do a tiny behavior做个小动作后
34that you want to repeat in the future or maybe expand,你想在未来重复,或可能扩大,
35what you need to do is celebrate victory.你需要做的是庆祝胜利。
36Immediately, right away.马上,马上
37So I'm not talking about going out to the bar所以我不是说去酒吧
38or going and making cookies or what have you.或者去做饼干 或者你有什么
39You need to tell yourself in some way that you're awesome.你得以某种方式告诉自己你很棒
40Okay, so we're gonna practice this.好吧,所以我们要练习这个。
41There's a few ways to do this.亦有数种法.
42I've mapped out 10 different ways to celebrate,我规划了十种不同的庆祝方式
43but we're gonna start with one that's pretty common,但我们要从一个很常见的开始
44that works, and it goes like this.就是这样的
45I'm awesome.我超赞的。
46Okay, you ready?好了,你准备好了吗?
47One, two, three, I'm awesome.一,二,三,我很厉害。
48Okay, let's try another celebration.好吧,让我们试试另一个庆祝。
49And this one is bingo.这个是宾果
50Ready?准备好了吗?
51One, two, three, bingo.一 二 三 宾果
52Awesome.厉害
53Now, I'm awesome.现在,我真棒。
54There are some people,有些人,
55when they're working with tiny habits with me,当他们和我合作时
56they like doing a little dance.他们喜欢跳舞
57And that makes them feel like, yeah, I'm rocking it.这让他们觉得,是的,我在摇晃它。
58Okay, so ready?好了,准备好了吗?
59Little dance, one, two, three.小舞一两三.
60Awesome, okay.真棒,好吗。
61Now, we're gonna get to this in a minute,现在,我们将得到 这一点在一分钟内,
62so just hang tight.所以坚持住。
63I'll give you a little bit of background我给你一些背景
64and we're gonna practice this together.我们要一起练习
65You guys are great sports你们是伟大的运动
66in practicing the celebrations with me.和我一起练习庆祝
67I'm obsessed with how behavior works.我沉迷于行为如何运作.
68Even on vacation, I'm thinking about behavior,即使在度假时,我在考虑行为
69I'm watching behavior, I'm reading stuff on it,我在观察行为,我读的东西在上面,
70I'm trying to understand it systematically.我试图系统地理解它。
71And when I'm sleeping, and this is a little bit scary,当我睡觉时,这有点吓人,
72I'm thinking about behavior model,我在想行为模式,
73behavior grid, domino actions,行为网格,多米诺动作,
74motivation waves in my sleep.我睡梦中的动力波
75And this happens almost every night now,现在几乎每晚都这样
76so that's a little freaky, but I learn things,所以这有点怪异, 但我学习的东西,
77so that's nice.所以这是很好的。
78I would have never expected that a year ago,我没想到一年前,
79that today I would be doing 50, 60, 70 pushups a day.今天我每天做50、60、70次俯卧撑
80But all this is part of being obsessed with the behavior.但这一切都是沉迷于行为的一部分。
81And one of the things that you need to do还有一件你需要做的事
82if you, is practice changing your own behavior.如果你在练习改变自己的行为
83And that gives you an understanding of how behavior works.这让你了解行为是如何运作的。
84Now, the way I arrived here was very much like the flossing,现在,我来到这里的方式 是非常像牙刷,
85but a little bit different, and this was the equation.但有点不同, 这就是方程式。
86After I pee, I will do two pushups.我撒尿后,我会做两个俯卧撑。
87Okay, so I'd use the facility,好吧,所以我会利用设施,
88yes, technically you flush the toilet first,是的,技术上你先冲厕所
89and then two pushups, and you're done,然后两个俯卧撑,你完成了,
90and you go, awesome, okay?你走,真棒,好吗?
91That's, yeah, okay, awesome, yeah.这是,是啊,好吧,真棒,是啊。
92Well, after two, it's really easy, you move on,过了两分钟,就很容易了,你继续
93then you do five, then you do eight,然后你做5,然后你做8,
94and the current, where I'm at now, I do eight,和水流,我现在在哪里,我做8,
95but I always do extra credit, so I tend to do 12 or so,但我总是做额外的功劳, 所以我倾向于12左右,
96and it adds up over the day.和它补充了一天。
97I end up doing, who knows, 50, 60, 70,我最终会做,谁知道, 50,60,70,
98depending on how much water I've had and other factors.取决于我有多少水和其他因素。
99The good news is that behavior and behavior change好消息是行为和行为改变
100is not as complicated as most people think.并不像大多数人认为的那样复杂。
101It's systematic, and there are ways to understand behavior这是系统化的,有 方法来理解行为
102that are pretty straightforward and simple,很简单,
103and I'm gonna share some of those with you today.我今天要跟你们分享一些
104There are 15 ways behaviors can change.有15种行为方式可以改变.
105They're not hundreds of behavior types, there's 15 ways.它们不是数百种行为类型,有15种方式.
106When we talk about health behavior change,当我们谈论健康行为改变,
107people are mostly talking about long-term change,人们主要谈论长期变革,
108and this row, these are the five而这行,这些是五
109that represent different types of long-term change.代表着不同类型的长期变化。
110I'm not gonna go into depth here,我不会深入到这里,
111but what I want to explain to you但我想向你解释
112is when it comes to long-term change,当它涉及到长期的变化,
113there's only two ways you can get it done.只有两种方法可以做到
114Number one, you can change your environment.第一,你可以改变环境。
115So before, here's your environment,所以之前,这里是你的环境,
116certain behavior, and then after,某些行为,然后,
117the changed environment changes your behavior.改变的环境会改变你的行为。
118That's a reliable way.这是可靠的方法。
119It also includes your social environment.这还包括你的社会环境。
120Before, after.之前,后来。
121Now, changing the environment is a reliable way现在,改变环境是可靠的方法
122to change your behavior, however it can be tricky,改变你的行为,尽管它可能很棘手,
123especially the social environment,特别是社会环境,
124with families and coworkers and so on.与家人和同事,等等。
125So there's one other way of changing所以还有一种方法可以改变
126your behavior long-term, and I'll give you a hint.你的行为长期, 我会给你一个提示。
127It does not have to do with motivation.这与动机无关。
128Surprise, motivation actually applies惊喜,动机实际上适用
129to other kinds of temporary behavior change,到其他类型的临时行为改变,
130but not long-term.但不是长期。
131In other words, relying primarily on motivation换言之,主要依靠动机
132to change your behavior long-term is a losing strategy,改变你的行为 长期是一个失败的策略,
133and similarly for willpower.同样的意志力。
134So you can take those off the table让你把这些从桌子上拿下来
135if you make the behavior change tiny enough.如果你把行为改变得足够小
136Now, in this grid, this is where habits live, blue path.现在,在这个网格中, 这是习惯生活的地方,蓝色的路径。
137It's something familiar that you do from now on,你从现在开始就是这么熟悉的
138and if you make that very tiny, like two push-ups,如果你做的非常小, 像两个俯卧撑,
139floss one tooth, and so on, it's very easy to repeat牙线一齿,等等,很容易重复
140and make that become a habit.并使之成为习惯。
141Think about it this way.这么想吧
142You already know how to floss all your teeth.你已经知道怎么打牙了
143That's not what you're lacking.这不是你缺少的。
144What you're lacking is the automaticity of flossing.你所缺少的,是自动的流线。
145So you don't need to train flossing all your teeth.所以你不用训练牙刷了
146You need to train making it automatic.你需要训练 使它自动。
147Now, in the persuasion boot camps that I teach,在我教的劝导营里
148we geek out about this kind of stuff,我们为这种事发狂
149and this is one of the crews with me这是跟我一起的船员之一
150up in the wine country doing it.在葡萄酒乡做。
151We look at the sequences of behaviors我们看看行为的顺序
152that eventually land you here to habit.最终你在这里习以为常
153We won't go in that kind of depth today,我们今天不会去那种深度,
154but what I do wanna say,但我想说的是,
155and this is a little bit controversial,这有点有争议的,
156is this puzzle is solved,这个谜题解决了
157and I'm gonna share the pieces with you,我会跟你分享这些作品,
158and I'm gonna share some ways that it got solved,我将分享一些方法 它得到了解决,
159and we'll see what you think,我们看看你怎么想
160that there's a new way to create habits一种创造习惯的新方式
161that is reliable and systematic.这是可靠和系统的。
162Now, when we look at health outcomes, bullseye,现在,当我们看 健康结果,牛眼,
163what do we wanna do?我们该怎么办?
164Well, things like lose weight, manage stress, and so on.比如减肥 应付压力等等
165But if you design for the outcomes,但是如果你设计的结果,
166you're designing at the wrong place,你在错误的地方设计,
167you need to design for the behaviors你需要设计行为
168that lead to the outcome.导致结果。
169And if you take an issue like weight loss,如果你把一个问题 像减肥,
170there are many, many behaviors有很多,很多行为
171that can contribute to that outcome,有助于取得这一成果,
172stress reduction, eating better, and so on.减轻压力,吃得更好等等。
173And I would propose that most of the behaviors我建议大部分的行为
174that we need to do are habits.我们需要做的是习惯。
175So of the 15 ways behaviors can change,所以在15种行为方式中,
176the one that matters most to long-term health are habits.长期健康最重要的就是习惯。
177And as we create what I call these tiny habits,当我们创造我所说的这些小习惯时
178and we can't do it all at once,而我们不能一举一动
179little by little, we will then approach this health outcome然后我们就会逐渐接近健康结果
180in a very reliable way, in a way that doesn't regress,在非常可靠的方式, 在不倒退的方式,
181in a way that doesn't make you, oh, I give up,我放弃了
182no, I'm just gonna go back to how I was.不,我只是要回到过去的样子。
183Let me share a personal example,让我举个例子
184and I hesitated about including this, but I will.但我会的
185In 2010, I got one of these scales that's super high-tech,在2010年,我得到了一个这些尺度 超级高科技,
186and it can tweet out your weight, okay?它可以推特 显示你的体重,好吗?
187So I set it up, so it's tweeting my weight.所以我设置了它,所以它在推特上表达我的体重.
188So I started tweeting it out in 2010,我于2010年开始发微博,
189and this is about a year.这是大约一年。
190So you can see what's going on there.故能观其境界.
191Not much change, up and down, up and down.变化不大,上下不息.
192What I learned was, number one,我学到的第一
193simply tweeting your weight只是推特上的你的体重
194didn't seem to have any effect on me,看来对我没什么影响
195and I looked up others who had done it,我调查了其他凶手
196didn't seem to have lots of impact.似乎没有太大的影响。
197Number two, my Twitter followers hated it, so I stopped.第二,我的Twitter追随者讨厌它,所以我停下来了.
198But I kept, you know, I'd made it a habit但是,我一直,你知道, 我把它作为一个习惯
199of stepping on the scale, it was right there.踩在秤上, 它就在那里。
200A few months later, going up.数月后,升.
201So at one point, I thought, okay,所以有一点,我想,好吧,
202I've been doing this thing called tiny habits.我一直在做这个叫小习惯的事
203It's something I've applied elsewhere.这是我在别处应用过的
204Now I'm gonna apply it to weight loss,现在我要把它应用于减肥,
205because I wanna lose some pounds.因为我想减肥
206So after creating many, many, many, many tiny habits,所以在创造出许多,许多,许多,许多小习惯之后,
207this is where I am this week.我这周就在这
208So that's probably the course of a year or so.所以这可能是一年左右的路程。
209So you can see, no real change.所以,你可以看到,没有真正的变化。
210And then putting together, little by little,然后拼凑在一起 慢慢地
211these tiny habits that took root and would grow,这些细小的习惯 扎根并成长,
212I believe I've made a long-term change.我想我已经做了一个长期的变化。
213Now we'll see five, 10 years from now,现在,我们将看到5,10年后,
214but it seems like these habits will be very hard to undo.但似乎这些习惯很难改变
215So I put this out there.所以我把这个放在那里。
216When you know how to create tiny habits,当你知道如何创造小习惯,
217you can change your behavior and your life forever.你可以永远改变你的行为和生活
218Now let me back up and explain现在让我回去解释一下
219how I honed in on the formula of tiny habits,我是如何在微小的习惯的配方,
220and you can see whether it syncs您可以看到它是否同步
221with how you think about it.和你的想法一样
222There are three things that have to happen有三件事必须发生
223at the same moment to cause a behavior.在同一时刻引起一种行为。
224Number one, there has to be some level of motivation.第一,必须有一定程度的动机。
225You gotta wanna keep your teeth clean.你得保持你的牙齿干净。
226You gotta wanna get stronger with push-ups你要更强一些 做俯卧撑
227or something like that.或者类似的东西。
228Next, you have to have the ability to do it.接下来,你必须有能力做到这一点。
229And then there has to be a trigger.然后必须有一个触发器。
230Now when I say trigger, I mean call to action.现在,当我说触发, 我的意思是呼吁采取行动。
231It's the thing that says do push-ups now,是说做俯卧撑
232floss your teeth now, and so on.牙线现在,等等。
233And it's these three things together.而此三事合为一体.
234When they combine at once,当他们同时结合,
235then the behavior will also occur.然后行为也会发生
236Whether it's floss your teeth, do push-ups,不管是牙线还是俯卧撑
237what have you, send a thank you note.你怎么了 发个谢谢信
238Now motivation ability are trade-offs.现在动机能力是取舍。
239And this line, this curved line represents that trade-off.而这条线,这个弯曲的线代表了这种权衡.
240And if you're anywhere above the line如果你在线上任何地方
241and the trigger occurs, you will do the behavior.扳机发生,你会做的行为。
242So let me give some examples of this.因此,让我举几个例子。
243Here below the line, let's say I want you to run a marathon在线下,我要你跑马拉松
244and you have no motivation to run a marathon.而你没有跑马拉松的动机。
245Both low motivation and it's hard.动机既低又难.
246When I say run a marathon, run a marathon,当我说跑马拉松,跑马拉松,
247you're not gonna do it.你不会这么做的
248No matter how many times I make that call to action.不管我多少次呼吁采取行动。
249In contrast, if I say, oh, walk outside and walk back in,反之,如果我说,哦, 走出去,走回来,
250maybe 30 seconds, simple to do.也许30秒,很简单
251You're above the line.尔时优娄频螺迦叶.
252Still you may not be very motivated不过你可能不太有动机
253because it's so easy to do.因为它是如此容易做。
254Now let's move up here.现在,让我们搬到这里。
255It's hard to do.难成.
256I'm asking you to do something very hard.我请你做点非常难的事
257In order to do something that's difficult,为了做一些困难的事
258you need high levels of motivation.您需要高水平的动力。
259In fact, I think that's the purpose.事实上,我想这就是目的。
260That's the only use of motivation in our lives那是我们生命中唯一的动力
261is to allow us to do hard things.是允许我们做艰难的事情。
262And if we're not doing hard things,如果我们不做坏事,
263we don't need that much motivation.我们不需要那么多动力
264When our motivation lags, boom, can't do it.等我们的动机落后了, 砰,不能做到这一点。
265Motivation's very slippery.动机很滑
266So if you set yourself up to do something hard所以,如果你陷害自己 做一些艰难的事情
267and you have to somehow sustain the motivation,你必须保持这个动机
268the motivation's gonna drop down动机会下降
269and there's gonna be a point where you don't do it并且会有一个点 你不这样做
270and habits are about repeating it习惯是重复它
271and you won't create the habit.而你不会创造这个习惯。
272So as I looked at this,所以当我看着这个,
273as I looked at my behavior model, I thought,当我看着我的行为模式,我想,
274let's go right here, easy to do,让我们在这里,容易做,
275stuff that's so easy to do,很简单的事
276it doesn't require much motivation at all.它不需要太多的动力。
277So whether your motivation's high, you'll still do it.所以,无论你的动机是否高,你仍然会这样做。
278Whether it's low, you'll stew it.不论低,你都会炖熟的.
279And so this is where the insight around因此,这就是这里的洞察力
280let's make it really tiny, really tiny,让我们让它真的很小,真的很小,
281like one tooth, two pushups, one sip of water, and so on.如一齿,两俯卧撑,一口水等.
282Well, when you look at it in this way,好吧,当你这样看它,
283the smiley face, we're accounting for motivation,笑脸,我们正在考虑动机,
284we're accounting for ability.我们在考虑能力
285So in the equation B equals MAT, those things are done.因此,在方程式B等于MAT中,这些事情就完成了.
286What wasn't done and what I hadn't solved was the trigger.我还没解决的就是触发器
287How do we trigger that behavior easily?我们如何轻易触发这种行为?
288Well, one day I came home from the gym,有一天我从健身房回来
289I went into the bathroom, I got in the shower,我去了洗手间 洗了澡
290I turned on the shower, I got out, I dried off,我打开淋浴,我下车,我干掉,
291I went into my bedroom, I opened the sock drawer,我去了我的卧室, 我打开了袜子抽屉,
292and at that moment it hit me, after.在那一刻,它击中了我,之后。
293The secret was after.秘密是后来的
294If you use an existing behavior in your life如果你用你生命中已有的行为
295and you put the new tiny behavior after it,你把新的小行为 之后,
296you can use the existing behavior to be the trigger.您可以使用已有的行为来触发。
297So I was looking for what is the T, what is the trigger?所以我在寻找什么是T,什么是触发器?
298Well, the triggers are your existing behaviors.触发器是你的现有行为
299I was pretty happy about this.我很高兴
300I thought this was a breakthrough.我认为这是一个突破。
301It means you don't have to put up post-it notes,意思是,你不用写后笔记
302you don't have to set alarms, and so on.你不需要设置警报器等等
303You just establish what it will come after.你只需要确定它会有什么结果
304So I went off, mapped this out,于是我走了,绘制了地图,
305and started practicing tiny habits, more and more on my own,并开始练习小习惯, 越来越多的我自己,
306applied them to many things.把它们应用到很多事情上。
307And then about a year ago, after I'd done this a while,大约一年前 我做了一段时间后
308I thought, you know, I'm gonna invite some friends to do it,我想,你知道, 我会邀请一些朋友做到这一点,
309and it kind of grew from there.它从那里长出来
310So today there's, I've actually coached所以,今天有, 我实际上指导
311over 20,000 tiny habits,超过两万个小习惯,
312and this is a snapshot from the spreadsheet.这是电子表格的快照。
313Here's the format for tiny habits.以下是小习惯的格式.
314It looks like this.看起来像这样
315After I, whatever your existing behavior is,我之后 无论你现在的行为如何
316I call that an anchor, I will floss one tooth,我管它叫锚,我打一颗牙
317do two push-ups, and so on.做两次俯卧撑等等
318So what kinds of tiny habits do people create?那么人们会创造什么样的小习惯?
319This is from this upcoming week.这是下周的报导
320I grabbed this out of the database.我从数据库里拿了这个
321A lot of habits are geared toward the morning.很多习惯都是朝向早晨的
322After I start my morning coffee,我早上开始喝咖啡后
323I will tidy one item in the living room.我会在客厅收拾一件东西
324Other habits are toward the evening,其他的习惯是晚上,
325where you have routines already set up.在那里,你已经有了常规。
326After I enter the house at the end of the day,我最后进屋后
327I will kiss my wife for 10 seconds.我会吻我的妻子10秒。
328These kind of tiny habits work out really well.这些小习惯很有效
329So as you think about changing your life,所以当你想改变你的生活时
330think about framing it in terms of this format.考虑用这种格式来设定它。
331After I pick an existing habit that you do every day我挑出你每天的习惯
332with the same frequency频率相同
333that you want the new behavior to happen,你想让新行为发生
334I will, and you've got to make it super tiny.我会的,你必须让它超级小。
335After I pee, I will do two push-ups.我撒尿后,我会做两个俯卧撑。
336After I walk in the door, I will hang my keys on the hook.我走进门后,会把我的钥匙挂在钩子上.
337After I brush my teeth, I will floss one tooth.我刷牙后,我会打牙
338That makes sense, right?这有道理,对不对?
339That brushing becomes the trigger or the anchor刷子变成扳机或锚
340for flossing one tooth, and then you celebrate it.用来擦牙,然后你庆祝它。
341So now we're on to the practice time.现在我们开始练习时间。
342You ready for this?你准备好了吗?
343Everyone get out your floss.大家都把牙线弄出来
344Okay, in your minds visualize you're brushing your teeth.好吧,在你的脑海里 想象你刷牙。
345Oh, I think we need to practice celebration.哦,我想我们需要练习庆祝。
346We're gonna go awesome, right?我们要去真棒,对不对?
347One, two, three, awesome.一 二 三 厉害
348Okay, all right, we brush our teeth, floss one tooth.好吧,好吧,我们刷牙,一牙。
349One, two, three, awesome.一 二 三 厉害
350Okay, if you keep at that over time,好吧,如果你坚持 一段时间,
351it'll get easier and easier to floss your teeth牙刷会越来越容易
352and you can floss more and more.你可以越来越多的打火机。
353There's different ways to celebrate.颂有不同法.
354Find the celebration that works for you.找到对你有用的庆典
355Here's the phrase, and it comes down to this.这句话是这样的
356I live up in the wine country.我住在酒乡
357I do a lot with the earth as much as I can,我尽我所能做很多与地球,
358and this seems to map exactly what I'm talking about.这似乎是地图 确切的我在说什么。
359Plant a tiny seed in the right spot在右边种个小种子
360and it will grow without coaxing.它会生长而不凝结。
361The tiny seed.细小的种子。
362This pumpkin came from a tiny seed这个南瓜来自一个小种子
363that actually we didn't even plant.其实我们甚至没有栽培。
364It came from the chicken manure是鸡粪来的
365that we put in the garden and it grew.我们把它放在花园里,它生长。
366We didn't have to do anything to it.我们没有做任何事情。
367It just grew with tiny seed in the right spot.它只是用小种子生长在合适的地方。
368So I encourage you to look at your lives,所以我鼓励你看看你的生活,
369look at what you wanna change,看看你想改变什么
370break it down to tiny behaviors分解为小行为
371and put them in the right spot.把它们放在合适的位置
372The right spot is after something you're already doing合适的地方就是在做你已经做的事之后
373and allow it to grow.并允许它生长。
374You don't have to amp up motivation.你不必增加动力
375You don't have to draw that much unwilled power.你不必抽那么多不情愿的力量
376All you have to do is plant it out你只需要种出来
377and let this natural process emerge.让这个自然过程出现
378Thanks, everybody.谢谢各位
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