为什么我鼓励你成为狠角色【TED演讲】
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| P1 | 为什么我鼓励你成为狠角色【TED演讲】 中英双语 | 12:00 |
| P2 | 为什么我鼓励你成为狠角色【TED演讲】 英文字幕(注释+中文 | 12:00 |
| P3 | 为什么我鼓励你成为狠角色【TED演讲】 无字幕(中英外挂) | 12:00 |
P1 · 为什么我鼓励你成为狠角色【TED演讲】 p01 中英双语 (P1)
字幕摘录
| 时间 | 英文 | 中文 |
|---|---|---|
| 0:00 | My name is Tabitha Coffey, and I'm a bitch. | 我叫塔比莎·科菲 我是个婊子 |
| 0:04 | That's right, you heard it here first. | 没错,你先听到的 |
| 0:08 | So, show me your hands, who thinks they're a bitch? | 那么,举起手来,谁觉得他们是婊子? |
| 0:13 | Oh, we need to work on that. | 哦,我们需要努力。 |
| 0:14 | By the end of this talk, I want every hand up and proud | 话到此为止,我要大家举手骄傲 |
| 0:18 | in this audience, all of you. | 在座各位观众中 |
| 0:23 | So 10 years ago, I was lucky enough to fall into television. | 所以10年前,我很幸运能上电视。 |
| 0:29 | And I say I fell into it because I really did. | 我说我爱上它 因为我真的做到了。 |
| 0:31 | I tried out for a competitive show | 我试了一场比赛 |
| 0:34 | that put hairdresser against hairdresser, and it was rough. | 这把理发师和理发师比起来, 它很粗糙。 |
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| 序号 | 英文 | 中文 |
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| 1 | My name is Tabitha Coffey, and I'm a bitch. | 我叫塔比莎·科菲 我是个婊子 |
| 2 | That's right, you heard it here first. | 没错,你先听到的 |
| 3 | So, show me your hands, who thinks they're a bitch? | 那么,举起手来,谁觉得他们是婊子? |
| 4 | Oh, we need to work on that. | 哦,我们需要努力。 |
| 5 | By the end of this talk, I want every hand up and proud | 话到此为止,我要大家举手骄傲 |
| 6 | in this audience, all of you. | 在座各位观众中 |
| 7 | So 10 years ago, I was lucky enough to fall into television. | 所以10年前,我很幸运能上电视。 |
| 8 | And I say I fell into it because I really did. | 我说我爱上它 因为我真的做到了。 |
| 9 | I tried out for a competitive show | 我试了一场比赛 |
| 10 | that put hairdresser against hairdresser, and it was rough. | 这把理发师和理发师比起来, 它很粗糙。 |
| 11 | It was 12 weeks living away from your business, | 离你的生意还有12个星期 |
| 12 | away from your family, locked in a house with 11 strangers. | 远离你的家人, 锁在一个房子里与11个陌生人。 |
| 13 | You were with them 24-7. | 你和他们在一起24 -7。 |
| 14 | It was an amazing experience, I loved it. | 这是一个惊人的经验,我喜欢它。 |
| 15 | And I'm incredibly competitive, like most of you. | 我非常有竞争力,就像你们大多数人一样。 |
| 16 | When it was over, I went home, went back to my business, | 当它结束了,我回家, 回到我的业务, |
| 17 | went back on with my life, and a couple of weeks went by, | 回到我的生活, 和几个星期过去了, |
| 18 | and my clients were all thrilled | 我的客户都很激动 |
| 19 | that I was on TV and I was competing. | 我在电视上和竞争。 |
| 20 | Couple more weeks went by, and probably around four weeks in, | 几个星期过去了, 也许四周左右, |
| 21 | 我在Nordstrom 买了一双鞋 | |
| 22 | And across the mall, a woman looked and went, | 在商场对面,一个女人看了就走了 |
| 23 | oh my God, you're that bitch on TV. | 哦,我的上帝,你是电视上的婊子。 |
| 24 | I did not laugh, as all of you are. | 我没有像你们一样笑 |
| 25 | I do now, but not then. | 我现在有,但当时没有。 |
| 26 | It wasn't so funny. | 一点也不好笑 |
| 27 | I was absolutely mortified. | 我绝对感到羞愧。 |
| 28 | And look, it's not the first time I've been called a bitch. | 你看,这不是我第一次 被称为婊子。 |
| 29 | It's definitely not gonna be the last time. | 这绝对不是最后一次了 |
| 30 | But from a stranger that recognized me | 但从一个认识我的陌生人那里 |
| 31 | and was yelling across the mall that I was the bitch on TV, | 在商场对面大喊我是电视上的婊子 |
| 32 | really stopped me in my tracks. | 真的阻止了我的脚印。 |
| 33 | It was just amazing. | 这太神奇了 |
| 34 | Well, it didn't just happen once. | 嗯,它不只是发生一次。 |
| 35 | It kept happening and happening and happening and happening. | 它不断发生 发生 发生 发生 |
| 36 | And I went down the rabbit hole of reading the blogs | 我走进了读博客的兔子洞 |
| 37 | and reading what people were saying about me. | 读别人对我说的话 |
| 38 | And there were literally thousands of people | 有成千上万的人 |
| 39 | that were calling me a bitch. | 说我是婊子。 |
| 40 | And to say that it was paralyzing is putting it mildly. | 说它是麻痹是温和的。 |
| 41 | I was paralyzed by it because I'm tough | 我被它瘫痪是因为我很坚强 |
| 42 | and I'm honest and I'm strong | 我诚实和坚强 |
| 43 | and I'm all the qualities that we all should have | 而我是我们所有人应该拥有的所有品质 |
| 44 | to be a successful businesswoman. | 成为一个成功的女商人。 |
| 45 | But I did not view myself as a bitch whatsoever. | 但我并不认为自己是个婊子 |
| 46 | So I had to sit down and really reflect on what happened | 所以我不得不坐下来 真正反思发生了什么 |
| 47 | and why people were calling me a bitch | 和为什么人们叫我婊子 |
| 48 | and why people were thinking that it was okay | 和为什么人们认为 这是好的 |
| 49 | to go up to a complete stranger and go, you're that bitch. | 上到一个完全陌生,然后去, 你是那个婊子。 |
| 50 | I know now that it's kind of cool to be a bitch, right? | 我知道做个婊子很酷 对吧? |
| 51 | Now it's kind of cool. | 现在有点酷了 |
| 52 | But even though it's cool now and we say to our friends, | 但是,虽然现在很酷,我们告诉朋友们, |
| 53 | hey bitch, how you doing, right? | 嘿,婊子,你好吗? |
| 54 | We hashtag on Instagram, bitching outfit, right? | 我们在Instagram上贴了标签, 婊子的衣服,对不对? |
| 55 | We throw the word around like it means nothing. | 我们把这个词抛在一边 就像它意味着什么。 |
| 56 | But if any of you have been called a bitch | 但如果你们有人被叫作婊子 |
| 57 | by someone, whether you know them, | 如果你认识他们, |
| 58 | whether it's a colleague, whether it's a friend, | 不管是同事还是朋友 |
| 59 | whether it's a random stranger, it hurts. | 不管是随机的陌生人,还是伤害。 |
| 60 | There is a moment that it feels like a knife | 有一个时刻,它感觉像一把刀 |
| 61 | going into your heart and it hurts. | 进入你的心脏,它伤害。 |
| 62 | The thing that's interesting, | 有趣的东西 |
| 63 | and we talk about it all the time, | 我们一直在谈论它, |
| 64 | there are books about it, there are songs about it. | 里面有书,有歌 |
| 65 | If you are a strong woman, if you speak with authority, | 如果你是一个坚强的女人, 如果你说话权威, |
| 66 | if you don't bow down to people, if you speak your mind, | 如果你不向人们鞠躬, 如果你说话你的心, |
| 67 | if you have a healthy dose of ego, | 如果你有一个健康的剂量的自负, |
| 68 | if you're really confident and really, really passionate, | 如果你真的很自信 真的很热情 |
| 69 | you're a bitch. | 你是个婊子。 |
| 70 | But those qualities in a man make him a go-getter, | 但是男人的这些品质让他成为了走狗 |
| 71 | a great executive, someone you want on the team, | 一个伟大的高管,你想要的人 在团队中, |
| 72 | someone really dependable that will take care of a problem, | 一个真正可靠的人 会处理一个问题, |
| 73 | maybe even the president, yep. | 也许甚至总统,是的。 |
| 74 | But those qualities in us as women get us called bitches. | 但是我们女人的这些品质 让我们被称为婊子。 |
| 75 | The bigger problem to me with that | 对我来说最大的问题 |
| 76 | is that we do it to each other. | 是我们互相伤害 |
| 77 | We call each other bitches. | 我们叫对方婊子。 |
| 78 | And it's not in the cute Instagram way of bitching outfit. | 它不以可爱的Instagram的方式 婊子的衣服。 |
| 79 | I'm with my bitches. | 我和我的母狗们在一起。 |
| 80 | It's not in the cute way. | 这不是可爱的方式。 |
| 81 | It's in the mean, let me tear you down | 说来话长 让我把你撕下来 |
| 82 | and put you in your box kind of way. | 把你放进盒子里 |
| 83 | Because that word, and I've looked and I've searched, | 因为那个词,我找了找 |
| 84 | there is not an equivalent for men, there isn't. | 男人没有同等待遇,没有 |
| 85 | And it is supposed to dim your light | 它应该让你的光暗 |
| 86 | and make you not as confident and make you stop | 你不要自信,你应当停止, |
| 87 | and make you second-guess yourself a little bit | 让你再自责一点 |
| 88 | and wonder if what you're doing is the right thing | 想知道你所做的是否正确 |
| 89 | and should I be doing something else? | 我应该做别的事吗? |
| 90 | I don't know. | 师曰. |
| 91 | That's what it does to your head. | 这就是它对你头部的影响。 |
| 92 | And we can laugh it off as we are now, | 我们可以笑起来像现在一样 |
| 93 | but we still know it hurts. | 但我们还是知道这很痛 |
| 94 | And when we do it to our sisters, | 当我们对我们的姐妹们这样做时, |
| 95 | and I mean our sisterhood of women, it's wrong. | 我的意思是我们女人的姐妹关系,这是错的。 |
| 96 | How many times have you walked out of a meeting, | 你离开会议多少次了 |
| 97 | walked away from maybe doing school pickup | 离学校远一点 |
| 98 | or going out to a cocktail party | 或去鸡尾酒会 |
| 99 | and there's a woman there and walked away and go, | 有个女人走开走了 |
| 100 | oh, she's such a bitch. | 哦,她真是个婊子。 |
| 101 | When really, maybe she wasn't. | 当真的,也许她不是。 |
| 102 | Maybe she was just a little bit more honest than you. | 也许她比你更诚实一点 |
| 103 | Maybe she just demanded what she wanted | 也许她只是要求什么 |
| 104 | and made no apologies or excuses for it. | 他没有为此道歉或托辞。 |
| 105 | Is she a bitch because she has a better pair of shoes | 她是个婊子是因为她有双更好的鞋子 |
| 106 | than you? | 比你强吗? |
| 107 | Is that why you're calling her a bitch? | 所以你才叫她贱人? |
| 108 | Is that why we do it to each other? | 这就是我们为什么互相伤害的原因吗? |
| 109 | Because we're a little jealous | 因为我们有点嫉妒 |
| 110 | and we wanna just cut each other down a little bit. | 而我们只是想要 彼此削减一点点。 |
| 111 | Because we're not helping each other. | 因为我们没有互相帮助 |
| 112 | We need to promote growth and gain over gossip. | 我们需要促进增长和超越八卦。 |
| 113 | We need to stop cutting each other down as women. | 我们不能再像女人一样互相割裂了 |
| 114 | When I look at every single woman | 当我看着每一个女人 |
| 115 | and I've met hundreds of thousands | 我见过几十万人 |
| 116 | because I've been a hairdresser for 36 years | 因为我做理发师36年了 |
| 117 | and had women in my chair every single time. | 每次都有女人坐在我的椅子上 |
| 118 | And the reason I'm so passionate about what I do | 我对自己的事业充满激情 |
| 119 | is because I understand. | 因为我明白 |
| 120 | I don't understand men as well because I'm not one. | 我不懂男人,因为我不是 |
| 121 | But women, I understand us. | 但是女人,我理解我们。 |
| 122 | I understand our insecurities. | 我明白我们的不安全感。 |
| 123 | I understand how hard we work. | 我知道我们有多努力 |
| 124 | I understand that everyone wants to be perfect all the time | 我知道每个人都想永远完美 |
| 125 | and it's really, really exhausting. | 这真的很累人 |
| 126 | I understand that when we go on a date | 我明白我们约会的时候 |
| 127 | or we go to a party or we go to a work event | 或者我们去派对 或者我们去工作活动 |
| 128 | or we just get up in the morning, there's pressure on us. | 或者我们早上起床, 对我们的压力。 |
| 129 | And that's without adding children and husbands | 那样就不会增加孩子和丈夫 |
| 130 | and all the other people that are grabbing at us | 和所有其他的人 抓住我们 |
| 131 | all the time. | 所有的时间。 |
| 132 | I get that. | 我懂了,我懂你说什么 I get that. |
| 133 | So when I look at one of my sisters, | 所以当我看着我的一个姐妹, |
| 134 | why am I going to call her a bitch? | 我为什么要骂她婊子? |
| 135 | It's like calling me a bitch. | 这就像叫我婊子。 |
| 136 | You're doing it to yourself. | 汝自为之. |
| 137 | When you look at another woman, you're looking in the mirror. | 当观彼女人即照镜中. |
| 138 | And let me tell you, the fact that we are women | 让我告诉你,我们是女人的事实 |
| 139 | and we can produce life because there literally | 我们可以创造生命,因为实际上 |
| 140 | wouldn't be any of us sitting here without a woman, | 没有女人,我们不会坐在这里 |
| 141 | true, is extraordinary. | 没错,很特别 |
| 142 | That is extraordinary. | 这是非凡的。 |
| 143 | To overcome being called a bitch all the time, | 为了克服一直被叫作婊子 |
| 144 | I like to face my fears. | 我喜欢面对我的恐惧 |
| 145 | The way I dissolve them is to look right down the barrel | 我溶解他们的方式是直视枪管 |
| 146 | at them and just take care of them. | 照顾好他们 |
| 147 | So after my reflection, I came up with an acronym | 倒影后,我想到了一个缩写 |
| 148 | for what my version of bitch is. | 为了我的版本的婊子。 |
| 149 | And it's brave, intelligent, tenacious, | 勇敢 聪明 顽强 |
| 150 | creative, and honest. | 创造力和诚实。 |
| 151 | And I defy anyone in this room, man or woman, | 我藐视这个房间里的任何人 无论男人还是女人 |
| 152 | that doesn't want those qualities in their life. | 他们不希望那些品质 在他们的生活中。 |
| 153 | Every single woman in here and every single man, | 这里每个女人和每个男人 |
| 154 | we're brave, you don't need to go and slay dragons. | 我们勇敢,你不需要去杀龙。 |
| 155 | Sometimes it's just brave to get out of bed in the morning | 有时候早上起床很勇敢 |
| 156 | and face your day. | 面对你的一天。 |
| 157 | We're warriors. | 我们是战士 |
| 158 | Intelligence to me isn't about college degrees | 情报对我来说不是大学学位 |
| 159 | and book smarts, that's part of it. | 和书智能,这是它的一部分。 |
| 160 | But there's also intuition. | 但也有直觉 |
| 161 | There's understanding, there's nurturing | 有谅解,有养育 |
| 162 | and knowing when to nurture and when to pull back. | 并且知道何时可以培育 何时可以撤退 |
| 163 | They're qualities that women, we excel at. | 他们是女人的特质,我们很出色。 |
| 164 | Being tenacious, obviously, have you ever messed | 坚韧,显然, 你曾经性交 |
| 165 | with a woman's kid? | 和一个女人的孩子? |
| 166 | I mean, seriously, we're tenacious. | 说真的,我们很顽强 |
| 167 | If we want something, we don't stop. | 如果我们想要的东西,我们不停止。 |
| 168 | What about that pair of shoes you're lusting after | 那双鞋呢? |
| 169 | and you can't afford them, but miraculously, | 你买不起,但奇迹般地, |
| 170 | the money shows up and you've got new kicks on. | 钱出现了,你得到了新的踢。 |
| 171 | That's tenacity right there. | 这是顽强的。 |
| 172 | Creative is just looking at things differently. | 创造力只是看事情的不同。 |
| 173 | We're great at that as women. | 我们作为女人很擅长 |
| 174 | We are the best multitaskers there are, we're creative. | 我们是最棒的多任务者, 我们有创意。 |
| 175 | We find ways to not only find this money | 我们想方设法不单找到这些钱 |
| 176 | for that pair of shoes creatively to come out of nowhere, | 为了这双鞋 创造性地从哪里冒出来, |
| 177 | but also how to juggle different schedules, | 以及如何调和不同的时间表, |
| 178 | take care of things. | 照顾好一切。 |
| 179 | That's innate in most of us. | 那是我们大多数人的本能 |
| 180 | And honest is how I think we all should live our life. | 老实说 我认为我们都应该过自己的生活 |
| 181 | And to me, that honesty is being honest enough, | 对我而言 诚实已经足够了 |
| 182 | instead of turning around and calling one of my sisters | 而不是转身打给我的一个妹妹 |
| 183 | a bitch, is to look and say, you know what? | 一个婊子,是看和说,你知道吗? |
| 184 | I'm a little jealous of her because what she has going on | 我有点嫉妒她,因为她的事 |
| 185 | is a whole lot of fabulous and I want a little bit of it. | 简直太棒了,我要一点 |
| 186 | You know what? | 你知道吗? |
| 187 | I didn't get that job or I didn't get that gig | 我没拿到那份工作,也没拿到那份工作 |
| 188 | that I really wanted, she did. | 我真的很想要,她做到了。 |
| 189 | Kudos to her, how can I learn from that? | Kudos给她, 我怎么能从中吸取教训? |
| 190 | How can I be better? | 我怎么会更好? |
| 191 | How can I learn from what she did to elevate myself | 我怎么能从她提高自我的过程中学到 |
| 192 | instead of looking and going, bitch? | 而不是寻找和去,婊子? |
| 193 | That's not going to elevate any of us. | 这不会提升我们任何人。 |
| 194 | That's not going to solve the problems | 这解决不了问题 |
| 195 | that I believe we as women can solve. | 我相信我们女人能解决 |
| 196 | So if you take my acronym of being brave, intelligent, | 所以,如果你把我的缩写 勇敢,聪明, |
| 197 | tenacious, creative, and honest, | 坚韧,有创意,诚实, |
| 198 | I encourage you all to think about that in every choice. | 我鼓励大家在每一个选择中考虑这一点。 |
| 199 | And the next time someone says to you, you're a bitch, | 下次有人对你说 你是个婊子 |
| 200 | smile and say, yes, thank you very much, I am. | 笑着说,是的,非常感谢,我是。 |
| 201 | And I'm the best damn bitch I can be. | 而我是最该死的婊子,我可以。 |
| 202 | Thank you, St. Louis, thank you. | 谢谢你,圣路易斯,谢谢你。 |
| 203 | Thank you. | 谢谢 |
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字幕摘录
| 时间 | 英文 | 中文 |
|---|---|---|
| 0:00 | My name is Tabitha Coffey, and I'm a bitch. | 我叫塔比莎·科菲 我是个婊子 |
| 0:04 | That's right, you heard it here first. | 没错,你先听到的 |
| 0:08 | So, show me your hands, who thinks they're a bitch? | 那么,举起手来,谁觉得他们是婊子? |
| 0:13 | Oh, we need to work on that. | 哦,我们需要努力。 |
| 0:14 | By the end of this talk, I want every hand up and proud | 话到此为止,我要大家举手骄傲 |
| 0:18 | in this audience, all of you. | 在座各位观众中 |
| 0:23 | So 10 years ago, I was lucky enough to fall into television. | 所以10年前,我很幸运能上电视。 |
| 0:29 | And I say I fell into it because I really did. | 我说我爱上它 因为我真的做到了。 |
| 0:31 | I tried out for a competitive show | 我试了一场比赛 |
| 0:34 | that put hairdresser against hairdresser. | 把理发师和理发师放在一起 |
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| 序号 | 英文 | 中文 |
|---|---|---|
| 1 | My name is Tabitha Coffey, and I'm a bitch. | 我叫塔比莎·科菲 我是个婊子 |
| 2 | That's right, you heard it here first. | 没错,你先听到的 |
| 3 | So, show me your hands, who thinks they're a bitch? | 那么,举起手来,谁觉得他们是婊子? |
| 4 | Oh, we need to work on that. | 哦,我们需要努力。 |
| 5 | By the end of this talk, I want every hand up and proud | 话到此为止,我要大家举手骄傲 |
| 6 | in this audience, all of you. | 在座各位观众中 |
| 7 | So 10 years ago, I was lucky enough to fall into television. | 所以10年前,我很幸运能上电视。 |
| 8 | And I say I fell into it because I really did. | 我说我爱上它 因为我真的做到了。 |
| 9 | I tried out for a competitive show | 我试了一场比赛 |
| 10 | that put hairdresser against hairdresser. | 把理发师和理发师放在一起 |
| 11 | And it was rough, it was 12 weeks, | 和它的粗糙, 这是12周, |
| 12 | living away from your business, away from your family, | 远离你的生意 远离你的家庭 |
| 13 | locked in a house with 11 strangers. | 和11个陌生人关在一起 |
| 14 | You were with them 24-7. | 你和他们在一起24 -7。 |
| 15 | It was an amazing experience, I loved it. | 这是一个惊人的经验,我喜欢它。 |
| 16 | And I'm incredibly competitive, like most of you. | 我非常有竞争力,就像你们大多数人一样。 |
| 17 | When it was over, I went home, went back to my business, | 当它结束了,我回家, 回到我的业务, |
| 18 | went back on with my life, and a couple of weeks went by, | 回到我的生活, 和几个星期过去了, |
| 19 | and my clients were all thrilled that I was on TV | 我的客户都很高兴我在电视上 |
| 20 | and I was competing. | 我在竞争 |
| 21 | Couple more weeks went by, and probably around four weeks in, | 几个星期过去了, 也许四周左右, |
| 22 | 我在Nordstrom 买了一双鞋 | |
| 23 | And across the mall, a woman looked and went, | 在商场对面,一个女人看了就走了 |
| 24 | oh my God, you're that bitch on TV. | 哦,我的上帝,你是电视上的婊子。 |
| 25 | I did not laugh, as all of you are. | 我没有像你们一样笑 |
| 26 | I do now, but not then, it wasn't so funny. | 我现在有,但当时没有, 这并不好笑。 |
| 27 | I was absolutely mortified. | 我绝对感到羞愧。 |
| 28 | And look, it's not the first time I've been called a bitch, | 听着 这不是我第一次被叫婊子 |
| 29 | it's definitely not gonna be the last time. | 这绝对不会是最后一次。 |
| 30 | But from a stranger that recognized me | 但从一个认识我的陌生人那里 |
| 31 | and was yelling across the mall | 在商场对面大喊大叫 |
| 32 | that I was the bitch on TV, really stopped me in my tracks. | 我是电视上的婊子,真的阻止了我在我的轨迹。 |
| 33 | It was just amazing. | 这太神奇了 |
| 34 | Well, it didn't just happen once, it kept happening, | 嗯,它不只是发生一次, 它一直发生, |
| 35 | and happening, and happening, and happening. | 发生,发生,发生,发生。 |
| 36 | And I went down the rabbit hole of reading the blogs | 我走进了读博客的兔子洞 |
| 37 | and reading what people were saying about me. | 读别人对我说的话 |
| 38 | And there were literally thousands of people | 有成千上万的人 |
| 39 | that were calling me a bitch. | 说我是婊子。 |
| 40 | And to say that it was paralyzing is putting it mildly. | 说它是麻痹是温和的。 |
| 41 | I was paralyzed by it because I'm tough, | 我被它瘫痪 因为我很坚强 |
| 42 | and I'm honest, and I'm strong, | 我很诚实,我很坚强, |
| 43 | and I'm all the qualities that we all should have | 而我是我们所有人应该拥有的所有品质 |
| 44 | to be a successful businesswoman. | 成为一个成功的女商人。 |
| 45 | But I did not view myself as a bitch whatsoever. | 但我并不认为自己是个婊子 |
| 46 | So I had to sit down and really reflect on what happened | 所以我不得不坐下来 真正反思发生了什么 |
| 47 | and why people were calling me a bitch | 和为什么人们叫我婊子 |
| 48 | and why people were thinking that it was okay | 和为什么人们认为 这是好的 |
| 49 | to go up to a complete stranger and go, you're that bitch. | 上到一个完全陌生,然后去, 你是那个婊子。 |
| 50 | I know now that it's kind of cool to be a bitch, right? | 我知道做个婊子很酷 对吧? |
| 51 | Now it's kind of cool. | 现在有点酷了 |
| 52 | But even though it's cool now, | 但是,虽然现在很酷, |
| 53 | and we say to our friends, hey bitch, how you doing, right? | 我们对我们的朋友说,嘿婊子,你好吗? |
| 54 | We hashtag on Instagram, bitch and outfit, right? | 我们在Instagram上贴标签,婊子和服装,对不对? |
| 55 | We throw the word around like it means nothing. | 我们把这个词抛在一边 就像它意味着什么。 |
| 56 | But if any of you have been called a bitch | 但如果你们有人被叫作婊子 |
| 57 | by someone, whether you know them, | 如果你认识他们, |
| 58 | whether it's a colleague, whether it's a friend, | 不管是同事还是朋友 |
| 59 | whether it's a random stranger, it hurts. | 不管是随机的陌生人,还是伤害。 |
| 60 | There is a moment that it feels like a knife | 有一个时刻,它感觉像一把刀 |
| 61 | going into your heart, and it hurts. | 进入你的心脏, 它伤害。 |
| 62 | The thing that's interesting, | 有趣的东西 |
| 63 | and we talk about it all the time, | 我们一直在谈论它, |
| 64 | there are books about it, there are songs about it. | 里面有书,有歌 |
| 65 | If you are a strong woman, if you speak with authority, | 如果你是一个坚强的女人, 如果你说话权威, |
| 66 | if you don't bow down to people, if you speak your mind, | 如果你不向人们鞠躬, 如果你说话你的心, |
| 67 | if you have a healthy dose of ego, | 如果你有一个健康的剂量的自负, |
| 68 | if you're really confident and really, really passionate, | 如果你真的很自信 真的很热情 |
| 69 | you're a bitch. | 你是个婊子。 |
| 70 | But those qualities in a man make him a go-getter, | 但是男人的这些品质让他成为了走狗 |
| 71 | a great executive, someone you want on the team, | 一个伟大的高管,你想要的人 在团队中, |
| 72 | someone really dependable that will take care of a problem, | 一个真正可靠的人 会处理一个问题, |
| 73 | maybe even the president, yep. | 也许甚至总统,是的。 |
| 74 | But those qualities in us as women get us called bitches. | 但是我们女人的这些品质 让我们被称为婊子。 |
| 75 | The bigger problem to me with that | 对我来说最大的问题 |
| 76 | is that we do it to each other. | 是我们互相伤害 |
| 77 | We call each other bitches. | 我们叫对方婊子。 |
| 78 | And it's not in the cute Instagram way of bitching outfit. | 它不以可爱的Instagram的方式 婊子的衣服。 |
| 79 | I'm with my bitches. | 我和我的母狗们在一起。 |
| 80 | It's not in the cute way. | 这不是可爱的方式。 |
| 81 | It's in the mean, let me tear you down | 说来话长 让我把你撕下来 |
| 82 | and put you in your box kind of way. | 把你放进盒子里 |
| 83 | Because that word, and I've looked, and I've searched, | 因为这个词,我找过了,我找过了 |
| 84 | there is not an equivalent for men, there isn't. | 男人没有同等待遇,没有 |
| 85 | And it is supposed to dim your light | 它应该让你的光暗 |
| 86 | and make you not as confident and make you stop | 你不要自信,你应当停止, |
| 87 | and make you second-guess yourself a little bit | 让你再自责一点 |
| 88 | and wonder if what you're doing is the right thing | 想知道你所做的是否正确 |
| 89 | and should I be doing something else? | 我应该做别的事吗? |
| 90 | I don't know. | 师曰. |
| 91 | That's what it does to your head. | 这就是它对你头部的影响。 |
| 92 | And we can laugh it off as we are now, | 我们可以笑起来像现在一样 |
| 93 | but we still know it hurts. | 但我们还是知道这很痛 |
| 94 | And when we do it to our sisters, | 当我们对我们的姐妹们这样做时, |
| 95 | and I mean our sisterhood of women, it's wrong. | 我的意思是我们女人的姐妹关系,这是错的。 |
| 96 | How many times have you walked out of a meeting, | 你离开会议多少次了 |
| 97 | walked away from maybe doing school pickup | 离学校远一点 |
| 98 | or going out to a cocktail party and there's a woman there | 或者去鸡尾酒会 那儿有个女人 |
| 99 | and walked away and go, oh, she's such a bitch? | 然后走开 然后走了 她真是个婊子? |
| 100 | When really, maybe she wasn't. | 当真的,也许她不是。 |
| 101 | Maybe she was just a little bit more honest than you. | 也许她比你更诚实一点 |
| 102 | Maybe she just demanded what she wanted | 也许她只是要求什么 |
| 103 | and made no apologies or excuses for it. | 他没有为此道歉或托辞。 |
| 104 | Is she a bitch because she has a better pair | 她是个婊子是因为她有一对更好的 |
| 105 | of shoes than you? | 比你的鞋吗? |
| 106 | Is that why you're calling her a bitch? | 所以你才叫她贱人? |
| 107 | Is that why we do it to each other? | 这就是我们为什么互相伤害的原因吗? |
| 108 | Because we're a little jealous | 因为我们有点嫉妒 |
| 109 | and we wanna just cut each other down a little bit. | 而我们只是想要 彼此削减一点点。 |
| 110 | Because we're not helping each other. | 因为我们没有互相帮助 |
| 111 | We need to promote growth and gain over gossip. | 我们需要促进增长和超越八卦。 |
| 112 | We need to stop cutting each other down as women. | 我们不能再像女人一样互相割裂了 |
| 113 | When I look at every single woman | 当我看着每一个女人 |
| 114 | and I've met hundreds of thousands | 我见过几十万人 |
| 115 | because I've been a hairdresser for 36 years | 因为我做理发师36年了 |
| 116 | and had women in my chair every single time. | 每次都有女人坐在我的椅子上 |
| 117 | And the reason I'm so passionate about what I do | 我对自己的事业充满激情 |
| 118 | is because I understand. | 因为我明白 |
| 119 | I don't understand men as well because I'm not one. | 我不懂男人,因为我不是 |
| 120 | But women, I understand us. | 但是女人,我理解我们。 |
| 121 | I understand our insecurities. | 我明白我们的不安全感。 |
| 122 | I understand how hard we work. | 我知道我们有多努力 |
| 123 | I understand that everyone wants to be perfect all the time | 我知道每个人都想永远完美 |
| 124 | and it's really, really exhausting. | 这真的很累人 |
| 125 | I understand that when we go on a date | 我明白我们约会的时候 |
| 126 | or we go to a party or we go to a work event | 或者我们去派对 或者我们去工作活动 |
| 127 | or we just get up in the morning, there's pressure on us. | 或者我们早上起床, 对我们的压力。 |
| 128 | And that's without adding children and husbands | 那样就不会增加孩子和丈夫 |
| 129 | and all the other people that are grabbing at us | 和所有其他的人 抓住我们 |
| 130 | all the time, I get that. | 总是这样,我明白了。 |
| 131 | So when I look at one of my sisters, | 所以当我看着我的一个姐妹, |
| 132 | why am I going to call her a bitch? | 我为什么要骂她婊子? |
| 133 | It's like calling me a bitch. | 这就像叫我婊子。 |
| 134 | You're doing it to yourself. | 汝自为之. |
| 135 | When you look at another woman, you're looking in the mirror. | 当观彼女人即照镜中. |
| 136 | And let me tell you, the fact that we are women | 让我告诉你,我们是女人的事实 |
| 137 | and we can produce life because there literally | 我们可以创造生命,因为实际上 |
| 138 | wouldn't be any of us sitting here without a woman, | 没有女人,我们不会坐在这里 |
| 139 | true, is extraordinary. | 没错,很特别 |
| 140 | That is extraordinary. | 这是非凡的。 |
| 141 | To overcome being called a bitch all the time, | 为了克服一直被叫作婊子 |
| 142 | I like to face my fears. | 我喜欢面对我的恐惧 |
| 143 | The way I dissolve them is to look right down the barrel | 我溶解他们的方式是直视枪管 |
| 144 | at them and just take care of them. | 照顾好他们 |
| 145 | So after my reflection, I came up with an acronym | 倒影后,我想到了一个缩写 |
| 146 | for what my version of bitch is. | 为了我的版本的婊子。 |
| 147 | And it's brave, intelligent, tenacious, creative and honest. | 它的勇敢,聪明,坚韧, 创造性和诚实。 |
| 148 | And I defy anyone in this room, man or woman, | 我藐视这个房间里的任何人 无论男人还是女人 |
| 149 | that doesn't want those qualities in their life. | 他们不希望那些品质 在他们的生活中。 |
| 150 | Every single woman in here and every single man, | 这里每个女人和每个男人 |
| 151 | we're brave, you don't need to go and slay dragons. | 我们勇敢,你不需要去杀龙。 |
| 152 | Sometimes it's just brave to get out of bed in the morning | 有时候早上起床很勇敢 |
| 153 | and face your day. | 面对你的一天。 |
| 154 | We're warriors. | 我们是战士 |
| 155 | Intelligence to me isn't about college degrees | 情报对我来说不是大学学位 |
| 156 | and book smarts, that's part of it. | 和书智能,这是它的一部分。 |
| 157 | But there's also intuition. | 但也有直觉 |
| 158 | There's understanding, there's nurturing | 有谅解,有养育 |
| 159 | and knowing when to nurture and when to pull back. | 并且知道何时可以培育 何时可以撤退 |
| 160 | They're qualities that women, we excel at. | 他们是女人的特质,我们很出色。 |
| 161 | Being tenacious, obviously, have you ever messed | 坚韧,显然, 你曾经性交 |
| 162 | with a woman's kid? | 和一个女人的孩子? |
| 163 | I mean, seriously, we're tenacious. | 说真的,我们很顽强 |
| 164 | If we want something, we don't stop. | 如果我们想要的东西,我们不停止。 |
| 165 | What about that pair of shoes you're lusting after | 那双鞋呢? |
| 166 | and you can't afford them, but miraculously, | 你买不起,但奇迹般地, |
| 167 | the money shows up and you've got new kicks on. | 钱出现了,你得到了新的踢。 |
| 168 | That's tenacity right there. | 这是顽强的。 |
| 169 | Creative is just looking at things differently. | 创造力只是看事情的不同。 |
| 170 | We're great at that as women. | 我们作为女人很擅长 |
| 171 | We are the best multitaskers there are, we're creative. | 我们是最棒的多任务者, 我们有创意。 |
| 172 | We find ways to not only find this money | 我们想方设法不单找到这些钱 |
| 173 | for that pair of shoes creatively to come out of nowhere, | 为了这双鞋 创造性地从哪里冒出来, |
| 174 | but also how to juggle different schedules, | 以及如何调和不同的时间表, |
| 175 | take care of things. | 照顾好一切。 |
| 176 | That's innate in most of us. | 那是我们大多数人的本能 |
| 177 | And honest is how I think we all should live our life. | 老实说 我认为我们都应该过自己的生活 |
| 178 | And to me, that honesty is being honest enough, | 对我而言 诚实已经足够了 |
| 179 | instead of turning around and calling one of my sisters | 而不是转身打给我的一个妹妹 |
| 180 | a bitch, is to look and say, you know what? | 一个婊子,是看和说,你知道吗? |
| 181 | I'm a little jealous of her because what she has going on | 我有点嫉妒她,因为她的事 |
| 182 | is a whole lot of fabulous and I want a little bit of it. | 简直太棒了,我要一点 |
| 183 | You know what? | 你知道吗? |
| 184 | I didn't get that job or I didn't get that gig | 我没拿到那份工作,也没拿到那份工作 |
| 185 | that I really wanted, she did. | 我真的很想要,她做到了。 |
| 186 | Kudos给她。 | |
| 187 | How can I learn from that? | 我怎么能从中吸取教训? |
| 188 | How can I be better? | 我怎么会更好? |
| 189 | How can I learn from what she did to elevate myself | 我怎么能从她提高自我的过程中学到 |
| 190 | instead of looking and going, bitch? | 而不是寻找和去,婊子? |
| 191 | That's not going to elevate any of us. | 这不会提升我们任何人。 |
| 192 | That's not going to solve the problems | 这解决不了问题 |
| 193 | that I believe we as women can solve. | 我相信我们女人能解决 |
| 194 | So if you take my acronym of being brave, intelligent, | 所以,如果你把我的缩写 勇敢,聪明, |
| 195 | tenacious, creative, and honest, | 坚韧,有创意,诚实, |
| 196 | I encourage you all to think about that in every choice. | 我鼓励大家在每一个选择中考虑这一点。 |
| 197 | And the next time someone says to you, you're a bitch, | 下次有人对你说 你是个婊子 |
| 198 | smile and say, yes, thank you very much I am, | 微笑说,是的,非常感谢我, |
| 199 | and I'm the best damn bitch I can be. | 而我是最该死的婊子,我可以。 |
| 200 | Thank you, St. Louis, thank you. | 谢谢你,圣路易斯,谢谢你。 |
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| 时间 | 英文 | 中文 |
|---|---|---|
| 0:00 | My name is Tabitha Coffey, and I'm a bitch. | 我叫塔比莎·科菲 我是个婊子 |
| 0:04 | That's right, you heard it here first. | 没错,你先听到的 |
| 0:08 | So, show me your hands, who thinks they're a bitch? | 那么,举起手来,谁觉得他们是婊子? |
| 0:13 | Oh, we need to work on that. | 哦,我们需要努力。 |
| 0:14 | By the end of this talk, I want every hand up and proud | 话到此为止,我要大家举手骄傲 |
| 0:18 | in this audience, all of you. | 在座各位观众中 |
| 0:23 | So 10 years ago, I was lucky enough to fall into television. | 所以10年前,我很幸运能上电视。 |
| 0:29 | And I say I fell into it because I really did. | 我说我爱上它 因为我真的做到了。 |
| 0:31 | I tried out for a competitive show | 我试了一场比赛 |
| 0:34 | that put hairdresser against hairdresser, and it was rough. | 这把理发师和理发师比起来, 它很粗糙。 |
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| 序号 | 英文 | 中文 |
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| 1 | My name is Tabitha Coffey, and I'm a bitch. | 我叫塔比莎·科菲 我是个婊子 |
| 2 | That's right, you heard it here first. | 没错,你先听到的 |
| 3 | So, show me your hands, who thinks they're a bitch? | 那么,举起手来,谁觉得他们是婊子? |
| 4 | Oh, we need to work on that. | 哦,我们需要努力。 |
| 5 | By the end of this talk, I want every hand up and proud | 话到此为止,我要大家举手骄傲 |
| 6 | in this audience, all of you. | 在座各位观众中 |
| 7 | So 10 years ago, I was lucky enough to fall into television. | 所以10年前,我很幸运能上电视。 |
| 8 | And I say I fell into it because I really did. | 我说我爱上它 因为我真的做到了。 |
| 9 | I tried out for a competitive show | 我试了一场比赛 |
| 10 | that put hairdresser against hairdresser, and it was rough. | 这把理发师和理发师比起来, 它很粗糙。 |
| 11 | It was 12 weeks living away from your business, | 离你的生意还有12个星期 |
| 12 | away from your family, locked in a house with 11 strangers. | 远离你的家人, 锁在一个房子里与11个陌生人。 |
| 13 | You were with them 24-7. | 你和他们在一起24 -7。 |
| 14 | It was an amazing experience, I loved it. | 这是一个惊人的经验,我喜欢它。 |
| 15 | And I'm incredibly competitive, like most of you. | 我非常有竞争力,就像你们大多数人一样。 |
| 16 | When it was over, I went home, went back to my business, | 当它结束了,我回家, 回到我的业务, |
| 17 | went back on with my life, and a couple of weeks went by, | 回到我的生活, 和几个星期过去了, |
| 18 | and my clients were all thrilled | 我的客户都很激动 |
| 19 | that I was on TV and I was competing. | 我在电视上和竞争。 |
| 20 | Couple more weeks went by, and probably around four weeks in, | 几个星期过去了, 也许四周左右, |
| 21 | 我在Nordstrom 买了一双鞋 | |
| 22 | And across the mall, a woman looked and went, | 在商场对面,一个女人看了就走了 |
| 23 | oh my God, you're that bitch on TV. | 哦,我的上帝,你是电视上的婊子。 |
| 24 | I did not laugh, as all of you are. | 我没有像你们一样笑 |
| 25 | I do now, but not then. | 我现在有,但当时没有。 |
| 26 | It wasn't so funny. | 一点也不好笑 |
| 27 | I was absolutely mortified. | 我绝对感到羞愧。 |
| 28 | And look, it's not the first time I've been called a bitch. | 你看,这不是我第一次 被称为婊子。 |
| 29 | It's definitely not gonna be the last time. | 这绝对不是最后一次了 |
| 30 | But from a stranger that recognized me | 但从一个认识我的陌生人那里 |
| 31 | and was yelling across the mall that I was the bitch on TV, | 在商场对面大喊我是电视上的婊子 |
| 32 | really stopped me in my tracks. | 真的阻止了我的脚印。 |
| 33 | It was just amazing. | 这太神奇了 |
| 34 | Well, it didn't just happen once. | 嗯,它不只是发生一次。 |
| 35 | It kept happening and happening and happening and happening. | 它不断发生 发生 发生 发生 |
| 36 | And I went down the rabbit hole of reading the blogs | 我走进了读博客的兔子洞 |
| 37 | and reading what people were saying about me. | 读别人对我说的话 |
| 38 | And there were literally thousands of people | 有成千上万的人 |
| 39 | that were calling me a bitch. | 说我是婊子。 |
| 40 | And to say that it was paralyzing is putting it mildly. | 说它是麻痹是温和的。 |
| 41 | I was paralyzed by it because I'm tough | 我被它瘫痪是因为我很坚强 |
| 42 | and I'm honest and I'm strong | 我诚实和坚强 |
| 43 | and I'm all the qualities that we all should have | 而我是我们所有人应该拥有的所有品质 |
| 44 | to be a successful businesswoman. | 成为一个成功的女商人。 |
| 45 | But I did not view myself as a bitch whatsoever. | 但我并不认为自己是个婊子 |
| 46 | So I had to sit down and really reflect on what happened | 所以我不得不坐下来 真正反思发生了什么 |
| 47 | and why people were calling me a bitch | 和为什么人们叫我婊子 |
| 48 | and why people were thinking that it was okay | 和为什么人们认为 这是好的 |
| 49 | to go up to a complete stranger and go, you're that bitch. | 上到一个完全陌生,然后去, 你是那个婊子。 |
| 50 | I know now that it's kind of cool to be a bitch, right? | 我知道做个婊子很酷 对吧? |
| 51 | Now it's kind of cool. | 现在有点酷了 |
| 52 | But even though it's cool now and we say to our friends, | 但是,虽然现在很酷,我们告诉朋友们, |
| 53 | hey bitch, how you doing, right? | 嘿,婊子,你好吗? |
| 54 | We hashtag on Instagram, bitching outfit, right? | 我们在Instagram上贴了标签, 婊子的衣服,对不对? |
| 55 | We throw the word around like it means nothing. | 我们把这个词抛在一边 就像它意味着什么。 |
| 56 | But if any of you have been called a bitch | 但如果你们有人被叫作婊子 |
| 57 | by someone, whether you know them, | 如果你认识他们, |
| 58 | whether it's a colleague, whether it's a friend, | 不管是同事还是朋友 |
| 59 | whether it's a random stranger, it hurts. | 不管是随机的陌生人,还是伤害。 |
| 60 | There is a moment that it feels like a knife | 有一个时刻,它感觉像一把刀 |
| 61 | going into your heart and it hurts. | 进入你的心脏,它伤害。 |
| 62 | The thing that's interesting, | 有趣的东西 |
| 63 | and we talk about it all the time, | 我们一直在谈论它, |
| 64 | there are books about it, there are songs about it. | 里面有书,有歌 |
| 65 | If you are a strong woman, if you speak with authority, | 如果你是一个坚强的女人, 如果你说话权威, |
| 66 | if you don't bow down to people, if you speak your mind, | 如果你不向人们鞠躬, 如果你说话你的心, |
| 67 | if you have a healthy dose of ego, | 如果你有一个健康的剂量的自负, |
| 68 | if you're really confident and really, really passionate, | 如果你真的很自信 真的很热情 |
| 69 | you're a bitch. | 你是个婊子。 |
| 70 | But those qualities in a man make him a go-getter, | 但是男人的这些品质让他成为了走狗 |
| 71 | a great executive, someone you want on the team, | 一个伟大的高管,你想要的人 在团队中, |
| 72 | someone really dependable that will take care of a problem, | 一个真正可靠的人 会处理一个问题, |
| 73 | maybe even the president, yep. | 也许甚至总统,是的。 |
| 74 | But those qualities in us as women get us called bitches. | 但是我们女人的这些品质 让我们被称为婊子。 |
| 75 | The bigger problem to me with that | 对我来说最大的问题 |
| 76 | is that we do it to each other. | 是我们互相伤害 |
| 77 | We call each other bitches. | 我们叫对方婊子。 |
| 78 | And it's not in the cute Instagram way of bitching outfit. | 它不以可爱的Instagram的方式 婊子的衣服。 |
| 79 | I'm with my bitches. | 我和我的母狗们在一起。 |
| 80 | It's not in the cute way. | 这不是可爱的方式。 |
| 81 | It's in the mean, let me tear you down | 说来话长 让我把你撕下来 |
| 82 | and put you in your box kind of way. | 把你放进盒子里 |
| 83 | Because that word, and I've looked and I've searched, | 因为那个词,我找了找 |
| 84 | there is not an equivalent for men, there isn't. | 男人没有同等待遇,没有 |
| 85 | And it is supposed to dim your light | 它应该让你的光暗 |
| 86 | and make you not as confident and make you stop | 你不要自信,你应当停止, |
| 87 | and make you second-guess yourself a little bit | 让你再自责一点 |
| 88 | and wonder if what you're doing is the right thing | 想知道你所做的是否正确 |
| 89 | and should I be doing something else? | 我应该做别的事吗? |
| 90 | I don't know. | 师曰. |
| 91 | That's what it does to your head. | 这就是它对你头部的影响。 |
| 92 | And we can laugh it off as we are now, | 我们可以笑起来像现在一样 |
| 93 | but we still know it hurts. | 但我们还是知道这很痛 |
| 94 | And when we do it to our sisters, | 当我们对我们的姐妹们这样做时, |
| 95 | and I mean our sisterhood of women, it's wrong. | 我的意思是我们女人的姐妹关系,这是错的。 |
| 96 | How many times have you walked out of a meeting, | 你离开会议多少次了 |
| 97 | walked away from maybe doing school pickup | 离学校远一点 |
| 98 | or going out to a cocktail party | 或去鸡尾酒会 |
| 99 | and there's a woman there and walked away and go, | 有个女人走开走了 |
| 100 | oh, she's such a bitch. | 哦,她真是个婊子。 |
| 101 | When really, maybe she wasn't. | 当真的,也许她不是。 |
| 102 | Maybe she was just a little bit more honest than you. | 也许她比你更诚实一点 |
| 103 | Maybe she just demanded what she wanted | 也许她只是要求什么 |
| 104 | and made no apologies or excuses for it. | 他没有为此道歉或托辞。 |
| 105 | Is she a bitch because she has a better pair of shoes | 她是个婊子是因为她有双更好的鞋子 |
| 106 | than you? | 比你强吗? |
| 107 | Is that why you're calling her a bitch? | 所以你才叫她贱人? |
| 108 | Is that why we do it to each other? | 这就是我们为什么互相伤害的原因吗? |
| 109 | Because we're a little jealous | 因为我们有点嫉妒 |
| 110 | and we wanna just cut each other down a little bit. | 而我们只是想要 彼此削减一点点。 |
| 111 | Because we're not helping each other. | 因为我们没有互相帮助 |
| 112 | We need to promote growth and gain over gossip. | 我们需要促进增长和超越八卦。 |
| 113 | We need to stop cutting each other down as women. | 我们不能再像女人一样互相割裂了 |
| 114 | When I look at every single woman | 当我看着每一个女人 |
| 115 | and I've met hundreds of thousands | 我见过几十万人 |
| 116 | because I've been a hairdresser for 36 years | 因为我做理发师36年了 |
| 117 | and had women in my chair every single time. | 每次都有女人坐在我的椅子上 |
| 118 | And the reason I'm so passionate about what I do | 我对自己的事业充满激情 |
| 119 | is because I understand. | 因为我明白 |
| 120 | I don't understand men as well because I'm not one. | 我不懂男人,因为我不是 |
| 121 | But women, I understand us. | 但是女人,我理解我们。 |
| 122 | I understand our insecurities. | 我明白我们的不安全感。 |
| 123 | I understand how hard we work. | 我知道我们有多努力 |
| 124 | I understand that everyone wants to be perfect all the time | 我知道每个人都想永远完美 |
| 125 | and it's really, really exhausting. | 这真的很累人 |
| 126 | I understand that when we go on a date | 我明白我们约会的时候 |
| 127 | or we go to a party or we go to a work event | 或者我们去派对 或者我们去工作活动 |
| 128 | or we just get up in the morning, there's pressure on us. | 或者我们早上起床, 对我们的压力。 |
| 129 | And that's without adding children and husbands | 那样就不会增加孩子和丈夫 |
| 130 | and all the other people that are grabbing at us | 和所有其他的人 抓住我们 |
| 131 | all the time. | 所有的时间。 |
| 132 | I get that. | 我懂了,我懂你说什么 I get that. |
| 133 | So when I look at one of my sisters, | 所以当我看着我的一个姐妹, |
| 134 | why am I going to call her a bitch? | 我为什么要骂她婊子? |
| 135 | It's like calling me a bitch. | 这就像叫我婊子。 |
| 136 | You're doing it to yourself. | 汝自为之. |
| 137 | When you look at another woman, you're looking in the mirror. | 当观彼女人即照镜中. |
| 138 | And let me tell you, the fact that we are women | 让我告诉你,我们是女人的事实 |
| 139 | and we can produce life because there literally | 我们可以创造生命,因为实际上 |
| 140 | wouldn't be any of us sitting here without a woman, | 没有女人,我们不会坐在这里 |
| 141 | true, is extraordinary. | 没错,很特别 |
| 142 | That is extraordinary. | 这是非凡的。 |
| 143 | To overcome being called a bitch all the time, | 为了克服一直被叫作婊子 |
| 144 | I like to face my fears. | 我喜欢面对我的恐惧 |
| 145 | The way I dissolve them is to look right down the barrel | 我溶解他们的方式是直视枪管 |
| 146 | at them and just take care of them. | 照顾好他们 |
| 147 | So after my reflection, I came up with an acronym | 倒影后,我想到了一个缩写 |
| 148 | for what my version of bitch is. | 为了我的版本的婊子。 |
| 149 | And it's brave, intelligent, tenacious, | 勇敢 聪明 顽强 |
| 150 | creative, and honest. | 创造力和诚实。 |
| 151 | And I defy anyone in this room, man or woman, | 我藐视这个房间里的任何人 无论男人还是女人 |
| 152 | that doesn't want those qualities in their life. | 他们不希望那些品质 在他们的生活中。 |
| 153 | Every single woman in here and every single man, | 这里每个女人和每个男人 |
| 154 | we're brave, you don't need to go and slay dragons. | 我们勇敢,你不需要去杀龙。 |
| 155 | Sometimes it's just brave to get out of bed in the morning | 有时候早上起床很勇敢 |
| 156 | and face your day. | 面对你的一天。 |
| 157 | We're warriors. | 我们是战士 |
| 158 | Intelligence to me isn't about college degrees | 情报对我来说不是大学学位 |
| 159 | and book smarts, that's part of it. | 和书智能,这是它的一部分。 |
| 160 | But there's also intuition. | 但也有直觉 |
| 161 | There's understanding, there's nurturing | 有谅解,有养育 |
| 162 | and knowing when to nurture and when to pull back. | 并且知道何时可以培育 何时可以撤退 |
| 163 | They're qualities that women, we excel at. | 他们是女人的特质,我们很出色。 |
| 164 | Being tenacious, obviously, have you ever messed | 坚韧,显然, 你曾经性交 |
| 165 | with a woman's kid? | 和一个女人的孩子? |
| 166 | I mean, seriously, we're tenacious. | 说真的,我们很顽强 |
| 167 | If we want something, we don't stop. | 如果我们想要的东西,我们不停止。 |
| 168 | What about that pair of shoes you're lusting after | 那双鞋呢? |
| 169 | and you can't afford them, but miraculously, | 你买不起,但奇迹般地, |
| 170 | the money shows up and you've got new kicks on. | 钱出现了,你得到了新的踢。 |
| 171 | That's tenacity right there. | 这是顽强的。 |
| 172 | Creative is just looking at things differently. | 创造力只是看事情的不同。 |
| 173 | We're great at that as women. | 我们作为女人很擅长 |
| 174 | We are the best multitaskers there are, we're creative. | 我们是最棒的多任务者, 我们有创意。 |
| 175 | We find ways to not only find this money | 我们想方设法不单找到这些钱 |
| 176 | for that pair of shoes creatively to come out of nowhere, | 为了这双鞋 创造性地从哪里冒出来, |
| 177 | but also how to juggle different schedules, | 以及如何调和不同的时间表, |
| 178 | take care of things. | 照顾好一切。 |
| 179 | That's innate in most of us. | 那是我们大多数人的本能 |
| 180 | And honest is how I think we all should live our life. | 老实说 我认为我们都应该过自己的生活 |
| 181 | And to me, that honesty is being honest enough, | 对我而言 诚实已经足够了 |
| 182 | instead of turning around and calling one of my sisters | 而不是转身打给我的一个妹妹 |
| 183 | a bitch, is to look and say, you know what? | 一个婊子,是看和说,你知道吗? |
| 184 | I'm a little jealous of her because what she has going on | 我有点嫉妒她,因为她的事 |
| 185 | is a whole lot of fabulous and I want a little bit of it. | 简直太棒了,我要一点 |
| 186 | You know what? | 你知道吗? |
| 187 | I didn't get that job or I didn't get that gig | 我没拿到那份工作,也没拿到那份工作 |
| 188 | that I really wanted, she did. | 我真的很想要,她做到了。 |
| 189 | Kudos to her, how can I learn from that? | Kudos给她, 我怎么能从中吸取教训? |
| 190 | How can I be better? | 我怎么会更好? |
| 191 | How can I learn from what she did to elevate myself | 我怎么能从她提高自我的过程中学到 |
| 192 | instead of looking and going, bitch? | 而不是寻找和去,婊子? |
| 193 | That's not going to elevate any of us. | 这不会提升我们任何人。 |
| 194 | That's not going to solve the problems | 这解决不了问题 |
| 195 | that I believe we as women can solve. | 我相信我们女人能解决 |
| 196 | So if you take my acronym of being brave, intelligent, | 所以,如果你把我的缩写 勇敢,聪明, |
| 197 | tenacious, creative, and honest, | 坚韧,有创意,诚实, |
| 198 | I encourage you all to think about that in every choice. | 我鼓励大家在每一个选择中考虑这一点。 |
| 199 | And the next time someone says to you, you're a bitch, | 下次有人对你说 你是个婊子 |
| 200 | smile and say, yes, thank you very much, I am. | 笑着说,是的,非常感谢,我是。 |
| 201 | And I'm the best damn bitch I can be. | 而我是最该死的婊子,我可以。 |
| 202 | Thank you, St. Louis, thank you. | 谢谢你,圣路易斯,谢谢你。 |
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