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0:01Alright ladies and gentlemen, welcome to my passion and to my love and according to my wife, my mistress in life.好了,女士们,先生们,欢迎我的热情和爱 根据我的妻子,我的情妇的生活。
0:13Seven years ago I embarked on a journey to analyze 5,000 public speakers from all over the world,七年前,我开始旅行 分析5000名来自世界各地的公共演讲者
0:22amateurs and professionals, in order to distill and understand what makes a good speaker good,业余爱好者和专业人士,为了分辨和了解什么是好扬声器,
0:30what makes a great speaker great and what makes an outstanding speaker outstanding.是什么让一个伟大的发言者伟大,是什么使一个杰出的发言者杰出。
0:37The result?结果?
0:40110 core skills with loads of sub-skills.110个核心技能与负载的子技能.
0:49So what does it look like?那么,它看起来像什么?
0:50It looks like this.看起来像这样
0:55These are the 110 core skills and the equation is simple.这些是110个核心技能,方程式很简单.
1:00The more of them you fulfill, the greater you are.你越是满足他们,你就越大
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1Alright ladies and gentlemen, welcome to my passion and to my love and according to my wife, my mistress in life.好了,女士们,先生们,欢迎我的热情和爱 根据我的妻子,我的情妇的生活。
2Seven years ago I embarked on a journey to analyze 5,000 public speakers from all over the world,七年前,我开始旅行 分析5000名来自世界各地的公共演讲者
3amateurs and professionals, in order to distill and understand what makes a good speaker good,业余爱好者和专业人士,为了分辨和了解什么是好扬声器,
4what makes a great speaker great and what makes an outstanding speaker outstanding.是什么让一个伟大的发言者伟大,是什么使一个杰出的发言者杰出。
5The result?结果?
6110 core skills with loads of sub-skills.110个核心技能与负载的子技能.
7So what does it look like?那么,它看起来像什么?
8It looks like this.看起来像这样
9These are the 110 core skills and the equation is simple.这些是110个核心技能,方程式很简单.
10The more of them you fulfill, the greater you are.你越是满足他们,你就越大
11Now 110 skills, that's quite a tad too many to go through in one TED talk, don't you agree?现在有110个技能, 太多技术 无法在TED演讲中通过,你同意吗?
12So what I've done is I've picked out my absolute favorites and I'd like to show you a demonstration of what it can look like.我所做的就是挑选出我绝对最爱的东西, 我想给你们展示一下它会是什么样子。
13Imagine that this chair is something that you want somebody else to believe in, you want somebody else to buy into this.想象一下这把椅子是你想让别人相信的东西 你想让别人买下它
14This is your idea, this is you wanting to make your voice heard.这是你的主意 你想让自己的声音被听到
15This gives you two options.这给你两个选择
16Either you're on this side of the chair and you're a fairly mediocre communicator,要么你站在椅子这边 你是个平庸的通讯员
17you shoot from the hip, you hope for the best and sometimes it works, sometimes it doesn't.你从臀部开枪, 你希望最好的, 有时它工作, 有时它没有。
18Option number two is that you're on this side of the chair and you know exactly what you're doing in every instance of time.第二种选择是,你站在椅子的这一边,你知道你在每一个时候都在做什么。
19You know that by taking a step forward you increase focus.你知道,通过向前迈出一步, 你增加了注意力。
20You know that by tilting your head slightly to the side you increase empathy.你知道,通过把头稍微倾斜到一边, 你增加了同情心。
21You know that by changing the pace of what you are saying you increase focus.你知道,通过改变你说的节奏 增加注意力。
22And you know that by shifting yourself lower you increase trust.而且你知道,通过转变自己 降低你增加信任。
23And you know that by lowering your voice you get anticipation and you know for absolute certainty that if you pause you get absolute and undivided attention.而且你知道,通过降低你的声音,你得到 期待和绝对肯定, 如果你暂停,你得到绝对 和不可分割的关注。
24Now the question then is can everyone be on this side of the chair?现在的问题是,每个人都能坐在椅子的这边吗?
25Can everyone become good at these skills?每个人都能学这些技能吗?
26What do you think the answer is?你觉得答案是什么?
27Of course it is.当然
28Why?为什么?
29Because it's called presentation skills, skills, skills, skills, skills, skills.因为它被称为演示技巧,技巧,技巧,技巧,技巧.
30It is not, has never been and shall never be called a talent.它不是,从来没有,并且永远不会被称为人才。
31You're not born with a particular gene that makes you brilliant on stage, something you acquire through life.你生来没有特殊基因 让你在舞台上变得聪明 生命中获得的东西
32Now as I said, 110 skills, that's quite the number.正如我说的,110个技能,这是相当数目。
33So what I've chosen to do is I've picked out the five, would I say, most important skills.所以,我选择了 我选了五个,可以说,最重要的技能。
34Whenever somebody comes to me and they want coaching, this is what I focus on.每当有人来找我,他们想要辅导, 这就是我所关注的。
35And then I'll actually give you four bonus skills at the end as well.然后,我实际上会给你 4种奖金技能 在结尾。
36Sounds okay?听起来好吗?
37So let's start with two of my favorites from body language, which is skill 34 and skill 69.因此,让我们从我最喜欢的两首 来自身体语言, 这是技能34和技能69。
38That is not intentional.这不是故意的。
39Now 34, what am I doing?现在34,我在做什么?
40What could I be doing differently in this case?这案子我还能做什么?
41Ladies and gentlemen, it is an absolute pleasure to have you here today.女士们,先生们,今天请你们来,真是荣幸。
42Good of you to come.很高兴你能来
43What should I have avoided?我该避免什么?
44I should have avoided closing my body language我本该避免把身体语言关闭的
45because whenever a human being closes their body language it is a sign that they feel threatened in one way or another.因为每当一个人关闭 自己的身体语言 这是一种迹象 他们感到威胁的方式。
46So I should have continued with an open body language.所以我应该继续使用开放的肢体语言。
47So let's have a look at number 69, which looks like this.让我们来看看69号,它看起来像这样。
48I'll have to start up here.我得从这里开始
49So when a presenter starts like this they go, what should I do better now?所以,当一个演讲者开始这样 他们走了, 我应该怎么做更好吗?
50Ladies and gentlemen, welcome to one of the most influential subjects known to mankind.女士们先生们 欢迎来到人类最有影响力的课题之一
51Now this will be super interesting.现在,这将是超级有趣。
52We'll be going through this.我们将经历这一切。
53You'll be having an amazing time.你会有一个惊人的时间。
54Wow, it'll blow you away.哇,它会吹走你。
55What should I have avoided?我该避免什么?
56Reversing.颠倒.
57Look what a double incorrect looks like.看这双错的样子
58It looks like this.看起来像这样
59Ladies and gentlemen, absolute pleasure to have you here.女士们先生们 很高兴你们能来
60Good of you to come.很高兴你能来
61Well a double correct looks like this.嗯,双正确 看起来像这样。
62Ladies and gentlemen, an absolute pleasure to have you here.女士们先生们 很高兴你们能来
63Good of you to come.很高兴你能来
64Is there a difference?有区别吗?
65Of course there is.当然有
66The biggest difference is in here.最大的区别就在这里。
67I can feel a difference while doing those two versions.在做这两个版本时,我可以感觉到一个不同。
68You become what you are.你变成现在的样子了
69Now let's ask ourselves, yeah but David, the closed body language things, what should I do with my hands?让我们问问自己,是的,但大卫, 封闭的身体语言的事情, 我该怎么办我的手?
70Where should I put them?我该把它们放哪?
71And the interesting thing with the closed body language is that wherever I went all over the world studying these people封闭的身体语言有趣的是 无论我到世界各地 研究这些人
72it seems like we've got a general kind of locked body language positions.似乎我们的身体语言被锁住了
73And I'll show you my favorites that I've found.我给你看我找到的最爱
74We've obviously got the classical fig leaf position.我们显然有 古典无花果叶的位置。
75Then we have the double bunny position.然后我们有双兔子的位置。
76You have the right bunny position, the left bunny position, the right huckle, the left tackle.你右侧的兔子姿势 左侧的兔子姿势 右侧的扣子 左侧的钩子
77Then you have the forklift.那你有叉车。
78You of course have the peacock with flapping elbows.当然,你有孔雀 与拍手肘。
79You have the major, the Merkel, the prayer and the beggar.你有少校,默克尔,祈祷和乞丐。
80One of my personal favorites is the British horse rider.我个人最喜欢的一位是英国骑马运动员.
81And the British horse rider, it's a person who holds their hands like this, puts it just above their chest英国骑马的人,就是这样握手的人 放在胸前
82and it's like they're off somewhere.就像他们走了一样
83Oh, got their fox over here.他们的狐狸在这里。
84And then we found two T-Rexes as well in the study.然后我们在研究中也发现了两个T-Rex.
85Such a weird thing presenting like this or like this.这么奇怪的东西 展示像这样或像这样。
86Okay, so you mean, David, that we need to have an open body language.好吧,你的意思是,大卫, 我们需要有一个开放的身体语言。
87Yeah, that's what I mean.是啊,这就是我的意思。
88And I'm not allowed to have them in my pockets, not allowed to have them in my major or the double bunny.我不允许他们在我的口袋里, 不允许他们在我的少校或双兔子。
89No.没有
90But what on earth shall I do with them then?那我该怎么处置他们呢?
91What you should use them for is what is called functional gesturing你应该用它们来做 所谓的功能性采集
92to show that something is getting better or that something is getting less good以显示事物越来越好 或者事物越来越不好
93or that it's one, two, three, four, five that we are going to go through.或者说,这是一,二,三,四,五 我们要去通过。
94Use your gestures for what they're supposed to be used for.用你的手势来做他们该做的
95And what's interesting with this is that if you imagine the time we've spent on this planet as our race,有趣的是 如果你能想象我们在这个星球上作为我们的种族所花费的时间
96how much of that time have we spent using gestures and nonverbal communication我们花了多少时间用手势和非语言交流
97in order to communicate what we're saying?为了传达我们说的话?
98Is that more than verbal?这不只是口头的?
99Absolutely.当然
100Let me give you a demonstration of how important it is.让我向大家展示它的重要性。
101So I'll say something now and everything I say will be super positive.所以我现在要说点什么 我所说的一切都会非常肯定
102My facial expressions will be super positive and the way I say it will be super positive,我的面部表情会非常正面 我所说的方式会非常正面
103but my hands will be saying the opposite.但我的手会说相反的。
104Are you with me?你明白吗?
105This requires some focus.这需要一些重点。
106All of you should learn more about public speaking because if you do that, you will become better.你们大家应该更多地了解公共演讲,因为如果你这样做,你们就会变得更好。
107You will grow and you will develop as a human being.你将成长,你将成长为一个人。
108People will love your presentations, listening to your arguments and just generally loving whatever you're doing.人们会喜欢你的演讲,倾听你的论点, 并且只是一般地爱 不管你在做什么。
109So do yourself a great favor.帮个大忙
110Learn more about this particular subject更多了解这个特定主题
111because you'll be thanking yourself for the rest of your life.因为你会感谢自己的余生
112And particularly you have been absolutely incredible, so I thank you for listening here.尤其是你非常不可思议 所以我感谢你在这里聆听
113Now the question is this.现在的问题是这个。
114Did you listen to what I was saying or what I was doing?你听见我说什么了吗?
115I believe that you focused entirely on what I was doing我相信你完全专注于 我在做什么
116and that is the case with body language and gestures.身体语言和手势也是如此。
117If it's not saying the same thing as what you're saying verbally,如果这话和你口头上说的不一样
118there's a discrepancy and a disturbance in the communication.通讯有出入和干扰
119Let's move on from body language to a couple of tips on voice.让我们从身体语言发展到关于声音的几个提示.
120And the first one I'm going to give you is about pace.而第一个我要给你的是速度。
121So listen to this.所以听这个。
122Ladies and gentlemen, what I'm going to take you through now is incredibly important for now女士们,先生们,我现在要带你们走的 现在非常重要
123and for the rest of your future life.以及你未来生活的余生
124We'll go through the cortex, we'll go through the limbic and the reptilian system.穿过皮层,穿过四肢和爬行动物系统.
125We'll go through a psychologically advanced profile where we'll take you through the entire steps of the structure.我们会通过一个心理上先进的剖面 我们带你穿过整个结构
126We'll then look at how that relates to Aristotle's ethos, logos and pathos, and I'll carry on in this pace.然后我们再看看这与亚里士多德的特质,标志和病原体有何关系,我将以这个速度继续.
127Compare that to this.把这比起来
128Ladies and gentlemen, I'm now going to take you through something that is entirely and utterly boring.女士们,先生们,我现在要带你 经历一些完全和完全无聊的事情。
129Something that you will have no use of in your entire life.你这辈子都没用的东西
130And every second spent listening to me now and on will be a waste of time.现在和现在每分每秒都听我的 都会浪费时间
131And now look at your faces, you're like, whoa, that last bit, I want more of that.现在看看你们的脸, 你们就像,哇, 最后一点,我想要更多的。
132That was super interesting.这太有趣了
133The useless stuff.没用的东西
134I don't want the brain so much, I want the second bit.我不太想要大脑,我要第二点
135Why?为什么?
136Because your brains, they react to when a person has a low pace,因为你的大脑,他们的反应 当一个人的低速度,
137you think that what I'm saying is more important than when I have a high pace.你觉得我所说的比起我速度快的时候更重要吗?
138Because that illustrates that I don't really want to be there.因为这说明我不想去
139There are exceptions to this rule, but that is the basics.这一规则有一些例外,但这是基本规则。
140So keep a calm pace.保持冷静
141My next tip goes on pauses.我的下一个提示是暂停。
142The pause, is the pause important?暂停,暂停很重要吗?
143Absolutely it is.当然
144So let me give you a classical rhetorical proverb.因此,让我给你一个古典辞典谚语。
145Now without pauses, and it goes like this.现在,没有停顿, 它是这样的。
146Did you know that every single decision you've taken in your entire life你知道你这辈子所做的每个决定
147and will take for the rest of your life is based on one thing and one thing only?一生都只靠一件事和一件事吗?
148If you give that to the people listening to you, that is the feeling.如果你给人们听你的,这就是感觉。
149That is what will move them.这会让他们感动。
150Now I'll add pauses, and it sounds like this.现在我要添加暂停, 听起来是这样。
151Did you know that every single decision you've taken in your entire life你知道你这辈子所做的每个决定
152and you will take for the rest of your life is based on one thing and one thing only?你一生只能靠一件事和一件事吗?
153And that is an emotion.这是一种情感。
154Now if you give that emotion to the people listening to you,现在如果你把这种情感 给那些听你说话的人
155they will take the decisions you want them to take.他们会做出你想要他们做出的决定
156Is there a difference?有区别吗?
157Absolutely.当然
158But you know what?但你知道吗?
159Some people are afraid of the pause.有些人害怕暂停。
160So they go like, whoa, am I going to do one of those?所以,他们去喜欢,哇, 我要做其中之一?
161I'm not.我没有。
162I refuse.我拒绝。
163I prefer to compromise.我宁愿妥协。
164And do you know what the compromise for a pause is?你知道暂停的妥协是什么吗?
165What does it sound like?听起来像什么?
166Yeah.对
167It's like a skock of sheep when you listen to certain conferences.当你听某些会议时 就像一只绵羊
168Now there's nothing among these 110 skills that lowers your ethos现在这110种技能中 没有什么能降低你的气质
169and your credibility more than erring.你们的信誉,胜过迷误。
170Because it signals that you don't know what you are saying因为它表明你不知道你在说什么
171and where you're going in your talk.和你说话的地方。
172So let me give you a demonstration.所以,让我给你一个演示。
173Did you know that every single decision you've taken in your entire life你知道你这辈子所做的每个决定
174and will take for the rest of your life is based on one thing and one thing only?一生都只靠一件事和一件事吗?
175And that is a feeling.这是一种感觉。
176I think you prefer the one with silence.我想你更喜欢沉默的
177Now those were the five main skills I wanted to take you through.现在,这些是五大技能 我想带你通过。
178And if you haven't used them before and you start using them as a public speaker,如果你之前没有用过 并且开始用它们做公共演讲
179they will make a difference to your speech.他们会改变你的演讲
180I would like to treat you to four small skills as well.我还想请你学习四门小技巧
181Just to give you an appreciation of how small a skill can be,只是想让你体会一下技能有多小
182but still have a great impact.但仍有很大的影响。
183It looks like this.看起来像这样
184And those were the four skills.这些是四种技能。
185Did you follow them?你跟踪他们了吗?
186Number one was I looked up, which illustrates that I'm thinking,第一,我抬头看, 这说明我在想,
187which increases your sense of presence for me on stage.这能增强你在舞台上对我的感觉
188The second thing I did was that I did an audible inhale,我所做的第二件事是,我做了一个声闻 吸入,
189which makes your brain believe that I'm going to say something that's exciting.这让你的大脑相信 我会说一些令人兴奋的话。
190I then combined that with a decane smile,然后把笑容和笑容结合起来
191which means that I smile with my mouth and with my eyes.这意味着我笑 与我的嘴和眼睛。
192Did you fall for it?你爱上它了吗?
193Because what I did as well was this.因为我也做了这个
194I did a self laughter.我做了一个自我笑声。
195And also that increases anticipation of what I'm going to say.这也增加了对我要说的话的预期。
196So four small skills executed in five seconds changes the state of your mind.所以在5秒内执行的4个小技能会改变你的思想状态.
197I'd like to pick out one of those and just end off with that.我想挑一个 然后结束这一切
198And that is the decane smile.这就是十烷的微笑。
199Decane smiles has in studies shown that you are more likely to be married,Decane的笑容在研究表明 你更有可能结婚,
200less likely to be divorced, you're happier, you're more content with life,不太可能离婚, 你更快乐, 你更满足于生活,
201and you actually are more relaxed in situations like this.你其实在这样的情况下比较放松
202So I asked myself, am I a decane smiling person?所以我问自己 我是不是在笑吗?
203And to figure that out, I walked over to my computer and I logged in为了弄清楚这一点,我走到我的计算机,我登录了
204and I looked at all my 60,000 Google photos.我看了我的六万张谷歌照片
205They're not all of me, but of family members and others.他们不都是我,而是家人和其他人
206I looked at mine and it seemed like my brain required short of a miracle我看着自己的大脑 似乎需要奇迹
207to do a decane smile.做一个十烷的微笑。
208You know, where you smile with your entire face.你知道,在那里,你笑 与你的整个脸。
209I thought, that's not fair.我觉得这不公平
210And considering the psychological benefits, I better learn this.考虑到心理的好处,我最好学会这一点。
211So I spent not four, but six months learning how to do a decane smile.所以我花了4个月,但6个月 学习如何做一个阴暗的微笑。
212And suddenly my brain was launching decane smiles in just everyday happiness.突然间,我的大脑在每天的幸福中 发出十烷的微笑。
213It's beautiful and I felt happier as a human being.美极了,我作为一个人感到快乐.
214I want to show you what it looks like.我想告诉你它是什么样子。
215Every time I go on my summer holidays, I take a photo of myself.每当我暑假去的时候,我都会给自己拍照.
216And these were the last years of those photos.这是这些照片的最后几年。
217This was 2014, there's no decane smile.这是2014年,没有十烷的微笑。
2182015, definitely no decane smile.2015年,绝对不能笑
2192016, still no decane smile.2016年,仍然没有十足的笑容.
2202017, no decane smile.2017年,无十烷笑.
221This year, decane smile.今年,十烷的微笑。
222Does it make a difference?有区别吗?
223Absolutely.当然
224It brings joy to you and stability to me.它给你带来欢乐,给我带来稳定.
225Now we've come to the end of this talk and I would like to end with现在我们到此为止了 我想以
226something that relates to boxing.和拳击有关的东西
227You know, Muhammad Ali and the likes,你知道,穆罕默德・阿里和喜欢,
228they have combinations for when they're going to strike somebody.他们有组合 当他们要打击某人。
229Knockout.击倒。
230And the same kind of combinations exist in public speaking as well.公共演讲中也有同样的组合。
231So what I'd like to show you is this combination.我想告诉你的是这个密码。
232I'm going to start with number 34, go to number 8,我要从34号开始 到8号
233and then we'll carry on to 69 and 98 to 67 and 18, 22 and 101 and 21.然后我们继续69和98到67和18,22和101和21。
234Are you ready for the combination?你准备好密码了吗?
235Okay, looks like this.好吧,看起来像这样。
236Ladies and gentlemen, I hope that you've had fun, that you have learned.女士们,先生们,我希望你们玩得开心,你们学到了。
237But more than anything, I hope that you feel inspired但最重要的是,我希望你感到灵感
238to become a greater public speaker.成为更公开的演讲者。
239Because anybody can become good.因为任何人都会好起来
240Anybody can become great and everybody can become outstanding.任何人都可以成为伟大的, 每个人都可以成为杰出的。
241Because it all comes down to one single.因为它都降为单曲.
242Single.单身.
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0:01Alright ladies and gentlemen, welcome to my passion and to my love and according to my wife, my mistress in life.好了,女士们,先生们,欢迎我的热情和爱 根据我的妻子,我的情妇的生活。
0:13Seven years ago I embarked on a journey to analyze 5,000 public speakers from all over the world,七年前,我开始旅行 分析5000名来自世界各地的公共演讲者
0:22amateurs and professionals, in order to distill and understand what makes a good speaker good,业余爱好者和专业人士,为了分辨和了解什么是好扬声器,
0:30what makes a great speaker great and what makes an outstanding speaker outstanding.是什么让一个伟大的发言者伟大,是什么使一个杰出的发言者杰出。
0:37The result?结果?
0:40110 core skills with loads of sub-skills.110个核心技能与负载的子技能.
0:49So what does it look like?那么,它看起来像什么?
0:50It looks like this.看起来像这样
0:55These are the 110 core skills and the equation is simple.这些是110个核心技能,方程式很简单.
1:00The more of them you fulfill, the greater you are.你越是满足他们,你就越大
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1Alright ladies and gentlemen, welcome to my passion and to my love and according to my wife, my mistress in life.好了,女士们,先生们,欢迎我的热情和爱 根据我的妻子,我的情妇的生活。
2Seven years ago I embarked on a journey to analyze 5,000 public speakers from all over the world,七年前,我开始旅行 分析5000名来自世界各地的公共演讲者
3amateurs and professionals, in order to distill and understand what makes a good speaker good,业余爱好者和专业人士,为了分辨和了解什么是好扬声器,
4what makes a great speaker great and what makes an outstanding speaker outstanding.是什么让一个伟大的发言者伟大,是什么使一个杰出的发言者杰出。
5The result?结果?
6110 core skills with loads of sub-skills.110个核心技能与负载的子技能.
7So what does it look like?那么,它看起来像什么?
8It looks like this.看起来像这样
9These are the 110 core skills and the equation is simple.这些是110个核心技能,方程式很简单.
10The more of them you fulfill, the greater you are.你越是满足他们,你就越大
11Now 110 skills, that's quite a tad too many to go through in one TED talk, don't you agree?现在有110个技能, 太多技术 无法在TED演讲中通过,你同意吗?
12So what I've done is I've picked out my absolute favorites and I'd like to show you a demonstration of what it can look like.我所做的就是挑选出我绝对最爱的东西, 我想给你们展示一下它会是什么样子。
13Imagine that this chair is something that you want somebody else to believe in, you want somebody else to buy into this.想象一下这把椅子是你想让别人相信的东西 你想让别人买下它
14This is your idea, this is you wanting to make your voice heard.这是你的主意 你想让自己的声音被听到
15This gives you two options.这给你两个选择
16Either you're on this side of the chair and you're a fairly mediocre communicator,要么你站在椅子这边 你是个平庸的通讯员
17you shoot from the hip, you hope for the best and sometimes it works, sometimes it doesn't.你从臀部开枪, 你希望最好的, 有时它工作, 有时它没有。
18Option number two is that you're on this side of the chair and you know exactly what you're doing in every instance of time.第二种选择是,你站在椅子的这一边,你知道你在每一个时候都在做什么。
19You know that by taking a step forward you increase focus.你知道,通过向前迈出一步, 你增加了注意力。
20You know that by tilting your head slightly to the side you increase empathy.你知道,通过把头稍微倾斜到一边, 你增加了同情心。
21You know that by changing the pace of what you are saying you increase focus.你知道,通过改变你说的节奏 增加注意力。
22And you know that by shifting yourself lower you increase trust.而且你知道,通过转变自己 降低你增加信任。
23And you know that by lowering your voice you get anticipation and you know for absolute certainty that if you pause you get absolute and undivided attention.而且你知道,通过降低你的声音,你得到 期待和绝对肯定, 如果你暂停,你得到绝对 和不可分割的关注。
24Now the question then is can everyone be on this side of the chair?现在的问题是,每个人都能坐在椅子的这边吗?
25Can everyone become good at these skills?每个人都能学这些技能吗?
26What do you think the answer is?你觉得答案是什么?
27Of course it is.当然
28Why?为什么?
29Because it's called presentation skills, skills, skills, skills, skills, skills.因为它被称为演示技巧,技巧,技巧,技巧,技巧.
30It is not, has never been and shall never be called a talent.它不是,从来没有,并且永远不会被称为人才。
31You're not born with a particular gene that makes you brilliant on stage, something you acquire through life.你生来没有特殊基因 让你在舞台上变得聪明 生命中获得的东西
32Now as I said, 110 skills, that's quite the number.正如我说的,110个技能,这是相当数目。
33So what I've chosen to do is I've picked out the five, would I say, most important skills.所以,我选择了 我选了五个,可以说,最重要的技能。
34Whenever somebody comes to me and they want coaching, this is what I focus on.每当有人来找我,他们想要辅导, 这就是我所关注的。
35And then I'll actually give you four bonus skills at the end as well.然后,我实际上会给你 4种奖金技能 在结尾。
36Sounds okay?听起来好吗?
37So let's start with two of my favorites from body language, which is skill 34 and skill 69.因此,让我们从我最喜欢的两首 来自身体语言, 这是技能34和技能69。
38That is not intentional.这不是故意的。
39Now 34, what am I doing?现在34,我在做什么?
40What could I be doing differently in this case?这案子我还能做什么?
41Ladies and gentlemen, it is an absolute pleasure to have you here today.女士们,先生们,今天请你们来,真是荣幸。
42Good of you to come.很高兴你能来
43What should I have avoided?我该避免什么?
44I should have avoided closing my body language我本该避免把身体语言关闭的
45because whenever a human being closes their body language it is a sign that they feel threatened in one way or another.因为每当一个人关闭 自己的身体语言 这是一种迹象 他们感到威胁的方式。
46So I should have continued with an open body language.所以我应该继续使用开放的肢体语言。
47So let's have a look at number 69, which looks like this.让我们来看看69号,它看起来像这样。
48I'll have to start up here.我得从这里开始
49So when a presenter starts like this they go, what should I do better now?所以,当一个演讲者开始这样 他们走了, 我应该怎么做更好吗?
50Ladies and gentlemen, welcome to one of the most influential subjects known to mankind.女士们先生们 欢迎来到人类最有影响力的课题之一
51Now this will be super interesting.现在,这将是超级有趣。
52We'll be going through this.我们将经历这一切。
53You'll be having an amazing time.你会有一个惊人的时间。
54Wow, it'll blow you away.哇,它会吹走你。
55What should I have avoided?我该避免什么?
56Reversing.颠倒.
57Look what a double incorrect looks like.看这双错的样子
58It looks like this.看起来像这样
59Ladies and gentlemen, absolute pleasure to have you here.女士们先生们 很高兴你们能来
60Good of you to come.很高兴你能来
61Well a double correct looks like this.嗯,双正确 看起来像这样。
62Ladies and gentlemen, an absolute pleasure to have you here.女士们先生们 很高兴你们能来
63Good of you to come.很高兴你能来
64Is there a difference?有区别吗?
65Of course there is.当然有
66The biggest difference is in here.最大的区别就在这里。
67I can feel a difference while doing those two versions.在做这两个版本时,我可以感觉到一个不同。
68You become what you are.你变成现在的样子了
69Now let's ask ourselves, yeah but David, the closed body language things, what should I do with my hands?让我们问问自己,是的,但大卫, 封闭的身体语言的事情, 我该怎么办我的手?
70Where should I put them?我该把它们放哪?
71And the interesting thing with the closed body language is that wherever I went all over the world studying these people封闭的身体语言有趣的是 无论我到世界各地 研究这些人
72it seems like we've got a general kind of locked body language positions.似乎我们的身体语言被锁住了
73And I'll show you my favorites that I've found.我给你看我找到的最爱
74We've obviously got the classical fig leaf position.我们显然有 古典无花果叶的位置。
75Then we have the double bunny position.然后我们有双兔子的位置。
76You have the right bunny position, the left bunny position, the right huckle, the left tackle.你右侧的兔子姿势 左侧的兔子姿势 右侧的扣子 左侧的钩子
77Then you have the forklift.那你有叉车。
78You of course have the peacock with flapping elbows.当然,你有孔雀 与拍手肘。
79You have the major, the Merkel, the prayer and the beggar.你有少校,默克尔,祈祷和乞丐。
80One of my personal favorites is the British horse rider.我个人最喜欢的一位是英国骑马运动员.
81And the British horse rider, it's a person who holds their hands like this, puts it just above their chest英国骑马的人,就是这样握手的人 放在胸前
82and it's like they're off somewhere.就像他们走了一样
83Oh, got their fox over here.他们的狐狸在这里。
84And then we found two T-Rexes as well in the study.然后我们在研究中也发现了两个T-Rex.
85Such a weird thing presenting like this or like this.这么奇怪的东西 展示像这样或像这样。
86Okay, so you mean, David, that we need to have an open body language.好吧,你的意思是,大卫, 我们需要有一个开放的身体语言。
87Yeah, that's what I mean.是啊,这就是我的意思。
88And I'm not allowed to have them in my pockets, not allowed to have them in my major or the double bunny.我不允许他们在我的口袋里, 不允许他们在我的少校或双兔子。
89No.没有
90But what on earth shall I do with them then?那我该怎么处置他们呢?
91What you should use them for is what is called functional gesturing你应该用它们来做 所谓的功能性采集
92to show that something is getting better or that something is getting less good以显示事物越来越好 或者事物越来越不好
93or that it's one, two, three, four, five that we are going to go through.或者说,这是一,二,三,四,五 我们要去通过。
94Use your gestures for what they're supposed to be used for.用你的手势来做他们该做的
95And what's interesting with this is that if you imagine the time we've spent on this planet as our race,有趣的是 如果你能想象我们在这个星球上作为我们的种族所花费的时间
96how much of that time have we spent using gestures and nonverbal communication我们花了多少时间用手势和非语言交流
97in order to communicate what we're saying?为了传达我们说的话?
98Is that more than verbal?这不只是口头的?
99Absolutely.当然
100Let me give you a demonstration of how important it is.让我向大家展示它的重要性。
101So I'll say something now and everything I say will be super positive.所以我现在要说点什么 我所说的一切都会非常肯定
102My facial expressions will be super positive and the way I say it will be super positive,我的面部表情会非常正面 我所说的方式会非常正面
103but my hands will be saying the opposite.但我的手会说相反的。
104Are you with me?你明白吗?
105This requires some focus.这需要一些重点。
106All of you should learn more about public speaking because if you do that, you will become better.你们大家应该更多地了解公共演讲,因为如果你这样做,你们就会变得更好。
107You will grow and you will develop as a human being.你将成长,你将成长为一个人。
108People will love your presentations, listening to your arguments and just generally loving whatever you're doing.人们会喜欢你的演讲,倾听你的论点, 并且只是一般地爱 不管你在做什么。
109So do yourself a great favor.帮个大忙
110Learn more about this particular subject更多了解这个特定主题
111because you'll be thanking yourself for the rest of your life.因为你会感谢自己的余生
112And particularly you have been absolutely incredible, so I thank you for listening here.尤其是你非常不可思议 所以我感谢你在这里聆听
113Now the question is this.现在的问题是这个。
114Did you listen to what I was saying or what I was doing?你听见我说什么了吗?
115I believe that you focused entirely on what I was doing我相信你完全专注于 我在做什么
116and that is the case with body language and gestures.身体语言和手势也是如此。
117If it's not saying the same thing as what you're saying verbally,如果这话和你口头上说的不一样
118there's a discrepancy and a disturbance in the communication.通讯有出入和干扰
119Let's move on from body language to a couple of tips on voice.让我们从身体语言发展到关于声音的几个提示.
120And the first one I'm going to give you is about pace.而第一个我要给你的是速度。
121So listen to this.所以听这个。
122Ladies and gentlemen, what I'm going to take you through now is incredibly important for now女士们,先生们,我现在要带你们走的 现在非常重要
123and for the rest of your future life.以及你未来生活的余生
124We'll go through the cortex, we'll go through the limbic and the reptilian system.穿过皮层,穿过四肢和爬行动物系统.
125We'll go through a psychologically advanced profile where we'll take you through the entire steps of the structure.我们会通过一个心理上先进的剖面 我们带你穿过整个结构
126We'll then look at how that relates to Aristotle's ethos, logos and pathos, and I'll carry on in this pace.然后我们再看看这与亚里士多德的特质,标志和病原体有何关系,我将以这个速度继续.
127Compare that to this.把这比起来
128Ladies and gentlemen, I'm now going to take you through something that is entirely and utterly boring.女士们,先生们,我现在要带你 经历一些完全和完全无聊的事情。
129Something that you will have no use of in your entire life.你这辈子都没用的东西
130And every second spent listening to me now and on will be a waste of time.现在和现在每分每秒都听我的 都会浪费时间
131And now look at your faces, you're like, whoa, that last bit, I want more of that.现在看看你们的脸, 你们就像,哇, 最后一点,我想要更多的。
132That was super interesting.这太有趣了
133The useless stuff.没用的东西
134I don't want the brain so much, I want the second bit.我不太想要大脑,我要第二点
135Why?为什么?
136Because your brains, they react to when a person has a low pace,因为你的大脑,他们的反应 当一个人的低速度,
137you think that what I'm saying is more important than when I have a high pace.你觉得我所说的比起我速度快的时候更重要吗?
138Because that illustrates that I don't really want to be there.因为这说明我不想去
139There are exceptions to this rule, but that is the basics.这一规则有一些例外,但这是基本规则。
140So keep a calm pace.保持冷静
141My next tip goes on pauses.我的下一个提示是暂停。
142The pause, is the pause important?暂停,暂停很重要吗?
143Absolutely it is.当然
144So let me give you a classical rhetorical proverb.因此,让我给你一个古典辞典谚语。
145Now without pauses, and it goes like this.现在,没有停顿, 它是这样的。
146Did you know that every single decision you've taken in your entire life你知道你这辈子所做的每个决定
147and will take for the rest of your life is based on one thing and one thing only?一生都只靠一件事和一件事吗?
148If you give that to the people listening to you, that is the feeling.如果你给人们听你的,这就是感觉。
149That is what will move them.这会让他们感动。
150Now I'll add pauses, and it sounds like this.现在我要添加暂停, 听起来是这样。
151Did you know that every single decision you've taken in your entire life你知道你这辈子所做的每个决定
152and you will take for the rest of your life is based on one thing and one thing only?你一生只能靠一件事和一件事吗?
153And that is an emotion.这是一种情感。
154Now if you give that emotion to the people listening to you,现在如果你把这种情感 给那些听你说话的人
155they will take the decisions you want them to take.他们会做出你想要他们做出的决定
156Is there a difference?有区别吗?
157Absolutely.当然
158But you know what?但你知道吗?
159Some people are afraid of the pause.有些人害怕暂停。
160So they go like, whoa, am I going to do one of those?所以,他们去喜欢,哇, 我要做其中之一?
161I'm not.我没有。
162I refuse.我拒绝。
163I prefer to compromise.我宁愿妥协。
164And do you know what the compromise for a pause is?你知道暂停的妥协是什么吗?
165What does it sound like?听起来像什么?
166Yeah.对
167It's like a skock of sheep when you listen to certain conferences.当你听某些会议时 就像一只绵羊
168Now there's nothing among these 110 skills that lowers your ethos现在这110种技能中 没有什么能降低你的气质
169and your credibility more than erring.你们的信誉,胜过迷误。
170Because it signals that you don't know what you are saying因为它表明你不知道你在说什么
171and where you're going in your talk.和你说话的地方。
172So let me give you a demonstration.所以,让我给你一个演示。
173Did you know that every single decision you've taken in your entire life你知道你这辈子所做的每个决定
174and will take for the rest of your life is based on one thing and one thing only?一生都只靠一件事和一件事吗?
175And that is a feeling.这是一种感觉。
176I think you prefer the one with silence.我想你更喜欢沉默的
177Now those were the five main skills I wanted to take you through.现在,这些是五大技能 我想带你通过。
178And if you haven't used them before and you start using them as a public speaker,如果你之前没有用过 并且开始用它们做公共演讲
179they will make a difference to your speech.他们会改变你的演讲
180I would like to treat you to four small skills as well.我还想请你学习四门小技巧
181Just to give you an appreciation of how small a skill can be,只是想让你体会一下技能有多小
182but still have a great impact.但仍有很大的影响。
183It looks like this.看起来像这样
184And those were the four skills.这些是四种技能。
185Did you follow them?你跟踪他们了吗?
186Number one was I looked up, which illustrates that I'm thinking,第一,我抬头看, 这说明我在想,
187which increases your sense of presence for me on stage.这能增强你在舞台上对我的感觉
188The second thing I did was that I did an audible inhale,我所做的第二件事是,我做了一个声闻 吸入,
189which makes your brain believe that I'm going to say something that's exciting.这让你的大脑相信 我会说一些令人兴奋的话。
190I then combined that with a decane smile,然后把笑容和笑容结合起来
191which means that I smile with my mouth and with my eyes.这意味着我笑 与我的嘴和眼睛。
192Did you fall for it?你爱上它了吗?
193Because what I did as well was this.因为我也做了这个
194I did a self laughter.我做了一个自我笑声。
195And also that increases anticipation of what I'm going to say.这也增加了对我要说的话的预期。
196So four small skills executed in five seconds changes the state of your mind.所以在5秒内执行的4个小技能会改变你的思想状态.
197I'd like to pick out one of those and just end off with that.我想挑一个 然后结束这一切
198And that is the decane smile.这就是十烷的微笑。
199Decane smiles has in studies shown that you are more likely to be married,Decane的笑容在研究表明 你更有可能结婚,
200less likely to be divorced, you're happier, you're more content with life,不太可能离婚, 你更快乐, 你更满足于生活,
201and you actually are more relaxed in situations like this.你其实在这样的情况下比较放松
202So I asked myself, am I a decane smiling person?所以我问自己 我是不是在笑吗?
203And to figure that out, I walked over to my computer and I logged in为了弄清楚这一点,我走到我的计算机,我登录了
204and I looked at all my 60,000 Google photos.我看了我的六万张谷歌照片
205They're not all of me, but of family members and others.他们不都是我,而是家人和其他人
206I looked at mine and it seemed like my brain required short of a miracle我看着自己的大脑 似乎需要奇迹
207to do a decane smile.做一个十烷的微笑。
208You know, where you smile with your entire face.你知道,在那里,你笑 与你的整个脸。
209I thought, that's not fair.我觉得这不公平
210And considering the psychological benefits, I better learn this.考虑到心理的好处,我最好学会这一点。
211So I spent not four, but six months learning how to do a decane smile.所以我花了4个月,但6个月 学习如何做一个阴暗的微笑。
212And suddenly my brain was launching decane smiles in just everyday happiness.突然间,我的大脑在每天的幸福中 发出十烷的微笑。
213It's beautiful and I felt happier as a human being.美极了,我作为一个人感到快乐.
214I want to show you what it looks like.我想告诉你它是什么样子。
215Every time I go on my summer holidays, I take a photo of myself.每当我暑假去的时候,我都会给自己拍照.
216And these were the last years of those photos.这是这些照片的最后几年。
217This was 2014, there's no decane smile.这是2014年,没有十烷的微笑。
2182015, definitely no decane smile.2015年,绝对不能笑
2192016, still no decane smile.2016年,仍然没有十足的笑容.
2202017, no decane smile.2017年,无十烷笑.
221This year, decane smile.今年,十烷的微笑。
222Does it make a difference?有区别吗?
223Absolutely.当然
224It brings joy to you and stability to me.它给你带来欢乐,给我带来稳定.
225Now we've come to the end of this talk and I would like to end with现在我们到此为止了 我想以
226something that relates to boxing.和拳击有关的东西
227You know, Muhammad Ali and the likes,你知道,穆罕默德・阿里和喜欢,
228they have combinations for when they're going to strike somebody.他们有组合 当他们要打击某人。
229Knockout.击倒。
230And the same kind of combinations exist in public speaking as well.公共演讲中也有同样的组合。
231So what I'd like to show you is this combination.我想告诉你的是这个密码。
232I'm going to start with number 34, go to number 8,我要从34号开始 到8号
233and then we'll carry on to 69 and 98 to 67 and 18, 22 and 101 and 21.然后我们继续69和98到67和18,22和101和21。
234Are you ready for the combination?你准备好密码了吗?
235Okay, looks like this.好吧,看起来像这样。
236Ladies and gentlemen, I hope that you've had fun, that you have learned.女士们,先生们,我希望你们玩得开心,你们学到了。
237But more than anything, I hope that you feel inspired但最重要的是,我希望你感到灵感
238to become a greater public speaker.成为更公开的演讲者。
239Because anybody can become good.因为任何人都会好起来
240Anybody can become great and everybody can become outstanding.任何人都可以成为伟大的, 每个人都可以成为杰出的。
241Because it all comes down to one single.因为它都降为单曲.
242Single.单身.
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0:01Alright ladies and gentlemen, welcome to my passion and to my love and according to my wife, my mistress in life.好了,女士们,先生们,欢迎我的热情和爱 根据我的妻子,我的情妇的生活。
0:13Seven years ago I embarked on a journey to analyze 5,000 public speakers from all over the world,七年前,我开始旅行 分析5000名来自世界各地的公共演讲者
0:22amateurs and professionals, in order to distill and understand what makes a good speaker good,业余爱好者和专业人士,为了分辨和了解什么是好扬声器,
0:30what makes a great speaker great and what makes an outstanding speaker outstanding.是什么让一个伟大的发言者伟大,是什么使一个杰出的发言者杰出。
0:37The result?结果?
0:40110 core skills with loads of sub-skills.110个核心技能与负载的子技能.
0:49So what does it look like?那么,它看起来像什么?
0:50It looks like this.看起来像这样
0:55These are the 110 core skills and the equation is simple.这些是110个核心技能,方程式很简单.
1:00The more of them you fulfill, the greater you are.你越是满足他们,你就越大
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1Alright ladies and gentlemen, welcome to my passion and to my love and according to my wife, my mistress in life.好了,女士们,先生们,欢迎我的热情和爱 根据我的妻子,我的情妇的生活。
2Seven years ago I embarked on a journey to analyze 5,000 public speakers from all over the world,七年前,我开始旅行 分析5000名来自世界各地的公共演讲者
3amateurs and professionals, in order to distill and understand what makes a good speaker good,业余爱好者和专业人士,为了分辨和了解什么是好扬声器,
4what makes a great speaker great and what makes an outstanding speaker outstanding.是什么让一个伟大的发言者伟大,是什么使一个杰出的发言者杰出。
5The result?结果?
6110 core skills with loads of sub-skills.110个核心技能与负载的子技能.
7So what does it look like?那么,它看起来像什么?
8It looks like this.看起来像这样
9These are the 110 core skills and the equation is simple.这些是110个核心技能,方程式很简单.
10The more of them you fulfill, the greater you are.你越是满足他们,你就越大
11Now 110 skills, that's quite a tad too many to go through in one TED talk, don't you agree?现在有110个技能, 太多技术 无法在TED演讲中通过,你同意吗?
12So what I've done is I've picked out my absolute favorites and I'd like to show you a demonstration of what it can look like.我所做的就是挑选出我绝对最爱的东西, 我想给你们展示一下它会是什么样子。
13Imagine that this chair is something that you want somebody else to believe in, you want somebody else to buy into this.想象一下这把椅子是你想让别人相信的东西 你想让别人买下它
14This is your idea, this is you wanting to make your voice heard.这是你的主意 你想让自己的声音被听到
15This gives you two options.这给你两个选择
16Either you're on this side of the chair and you're a fairly mediocre communicator,要么你站在椅子这边 你是个平庸的通讯员
17you shoot from the hip, you hope for the best and sometimes it works, sometimes it doesn't.你从臀部开枪, 你希望最好的, 有时它工作, 有时它没有。
18Option number two is that you're on this side of the chair and you know exactly what you're doing in every instance of time.第二种选择是,你站在椅子的这一边,你知道你在每一个时候都在做什么。
19You know that by taking a step forward you increase focus.你知道,通过向前迈出一步, 你增加了注意力。
20You know that by tilting your head slightly to the side you increase empathy.你知道,通过把头稍微倾斜到一边, 你增加了同情心。
21You know that by changing the pace of what you are saying you increase focus.你知道,通过改变你说的节奏 增加注意力。
22And you know that by shifting yourself lower you increase trust.而且你知道,通过转变自己 降低你增加信任。
23And you know that by lowering your voice you get anticipation and you know for absolute certainty that if you pause you get absolute and undivided attention.而且你知道,通过降低你的声音,你得到 期待和绝对肯定, 如果你暂停,你得到绝对 和不可分割的关注。
24Now the question then is can everyone be on this side of the chair?现在的问题是,每个人都能坐在椅子的这边吗?
25Can everyone become good at these skills?每个人都能学这些技能吗?
26What do you think the answer is?你觉得答案是什么?
27Of course it is.当然
28Why?为什么?
29Because it's called presentation skills, skills, skills, skills, skills, skills.因为它被称为演示技巧,技巧,技巧,技巧,技巧.
30It is not, has never been and shall never be called a talent.它不是,从来没有,并且永远不会被称为人才。
31You're not born with a particular gene that makes you brilliant on stage, something you acquire through life.你生来没有特殊基因 让你在舞台上变得聪明 生命中获得的东西
32Now as I said, 110 skills, that's quite the number.正如我说的,110个技能,这是相当数目。
33So what I've chosen to do is I've picked out the five, would I say, most important skills.所以,我选择了 我选了五个,可以说,最重要的技能。
34Whenever somebody comes to me and they want coaching, this is what I focus on.每当有人来找我,他们想要辅导, 这就是我所关注的。
35And then I'll actually give you four bonus skills at the end as well.然后,我实际上会给你 4种奖金技能 在结尾。
36Sounds okay?听起来好吗?
37So let's start with two of my favorites from body language, which is skill 34 and skill 69.因此,让我们从我最喜欢的两首 来自身体语言, 这是技能34和技能69。
38That is not intentional.这不是故意的。
39Now 34, what am I doing?现在34,我在做什么?
40What could I be doing differently in this case?这案子我还能做什么?
41Ladies and gentlemen, it is an absolute pleasure to have you here today.女士们,先生们,今天请你们来,真是荣幸。
42Good of you to come.很高兴你能来
43What should I have avoided?我该避免什么?
44I should have avoided closing my body language我本该避免把身体语言关闭的
45because whenever a human being closes their body language it is a sign that they feel threatened in one way or another.因为每当一个人关闭 自己的身体语言 这是一种迹象 他们感到威胁的方式。
46So I should have continued with an open body language.所以我应该继续使用开放的肢体语言。
47So let's have a look at number 69, which looks like this.让我们来看看69号,它看起来像这样。
48I'll have to start up here.我得从这里开始
49So when a presenter starts like this they go, what should I do better now?所以,当一个演讲者开始这样 他们走了, 我应该怎么做更好吗?
50Ladies and gentlemen, welcome to one of the most influential subjects known to mankind.女士们先生们 欢迎来到人类最有影响力的课题之一
51Now this will be super interesting.现在,这将是超级有趣。
52We'll be going through this.我们将经历这一切。
53You'll be having an amazing time.你会有一个惊人的时间。
54Wow, it'll blow you away.哇,它会吹走你。
55What should I have avoided?我该避免什么?
56Reversing.颠倒.
57Look what a double incorrect looks like.看这双错的样子
58It looks like this.看起来像这样
59Ladies and gentlemen, absolute pleasure to have you here.女士们先生们 很高兴你们能来
60Good of you to come.很高兴你能来
61Well a double correct looks like this.嗯,双正确 看起来像这样。
62Ladies and gentlemen, an absolute pleasure to have you here.女士们先生们 很高兴你们能来
63Good of you to come.很高兴你能来
64Is there a difference?有区别吗?
65Of course there is.当然有
66The biggest difference is in here.最大的区别就在这里。
67I can feel a difference while doing those two versions.在做这两个版本时,我可以感觉到一个不同。
68You become what you are.你变成现在的样子了
69Now let's ask ourselves, yeah but David, the closed body language things, what should I do with my hands?让我们问问自己,是的,但大卫, 封闭的身体语言的事情, 我该怎么办我的手?
70Where should I put them?我该把它们放哪?
71And the interesting thing with the closed body language is that wherever I went all over the world studying these people封闭的身体语言有趣的是 无论我到世界各地 研究这些人
72it seems like we've got a general kind of locked body language positions.似乎我们的身体语言被锁住了
73And I'll show you my favorites that I've found.我给你看我找到的最爱
74We've obviously got the classical fig leaf position.我们显然有 古典无花果叶的位置。
75Then we have the double bunny position.然后我们有双兔子的位置。
76You have the right bunny position, the left bunny position, the right huckle, the left tackle.你右侧的兔子姿势 左侧的兔子姿势 右侧的扣子 左侧的钩子
77Then you have the forklift.那你有叉车。
78You of course have the peacock with flapping elbows.当然,你有孔雀 与拍手肘。
79You have the major, the Merkel, the prayer and the beggar.你有少校,默克尔,祈祷和乞丐。
80One of my personal favorites is the British horse rider.我个人最喜欢的一位是英国骑马运动员.
81And the British horse rider, it's a person who holds their hands like this, puts it just above their chest英国骑马的人,就是这样握手的人 放在胸前
82and it's like they're off somewhere.就像他们走了一样
83Oh, got their fox over here.他们的狐狸在这里。
84And then we found two T-Rexes as well in the study.然后我们在研究中也发现了两个T-Rex.
85Such a weird thing presenting like this or like this.这么奇怪的东西 展示像这样或像这样。
86Okay, so you mean, David, that we need to have an open body language.好吧,你的意思是,大卫, 我们需要有一个开放的身体语言。
87Yeah, that's what I mean.是啊,这就是我的意思。
88And I'm not allowed to have them in my pockets, not allowed to have them in my major or the double bunny.我不允许他们在我的口袋里, 不允许他们在我的少校或双兔子。
89No.没有
90But what on earth shall I do with them then?那我该怎么处置他们呢?
91What you should use them for is what is called functional gesturing你应该用它们来做 所谓的功能性采集
92to show that something is getting better or that something is getting less good以显示事物越来越好 或者事物越来越不好
93or that it's one, two, three, four, five that we are going to go through.或者说,这是一,二,三,四,五 我们要去通过。
94Use your gestures for what they're supposed to be used for.用你的手势来做他们该做的
95And what's interesting with this is that if you imagine the time we've spent on this planet as our race,有趣的是 如果你能想象我们在这个星球上作为我们的种族所花费的时间
96how much of that time have we spent using gestures and nonverbal communication我们花了多少时间用手势和非语言交流
97in order to communicate what we're saying?为了传达我们说的话?
98Is that more than verbal?这不只是口头的?
99Absolutely.当然
100Let me give you a demonstration of how important it is.让我向大家展示它的重要性。
101So I'll say something now and everything I say will be super positive.所以我现在要说点什么 我所说的一切都会非常肯定
102My facial expressions will be super positive and the way I say it will be super positive,我的面部表情会非常正面 我所说的方式会非常正面
103but my hands will be saying the opposite.但我的手会说相反的。
104Are you with me?你明白吗?
105This requires some focus.这需要一些重点。
106All of you should learn more about public speaking because if you do that, you will become better.你们大家应该更多地了解公共演讲,因为如果你这样做,你们就会变得更好。
107You will grow and you will develop as a human being.你将成长,你将成长为一个人。
108People will love your presentations, listening to your arguments and just generally loving whatever you're doing.人们会喜欢你的演讲,倾听你的论点, 并且只是一般地爱 不管你在做什么。
109So do yourself a great favor.帮个大忙
110Learn more about this particular subject更多了解这个特定主题
111because you'll be thanking yourself for the rest of your life.因为你会感谢自己的余生
112And particularly you have been absolutely incredible, so I thank you for listening here.尤其是你非常不可思议 所以我感谢你在这里聆听
113Now the question is this.现在的问题是这个。
114Did you listen to what I was saying or what I was doing?你听见我说什么了吗?
115I believe that you focused entirely on what I was doing我相信你完全专注于 我在做什么
116and that is the case with body language and gestures.身体语言和手势也是如此。
117If it's not saying the same thing as what you're saying verbally,如果这话和你口头上说的不一样
118there's a discrepancy and a disturbance in the communication.通讯有出入和干扰
119Let's move on from body language to a couple of tips on voice.让我们从身体语言发展到关于声音的几个提示.
120And the first one I'm going to give you is about pace.而第一个我要给你的是速度。
121So listen to this.所以听这个。
122Ladies and gentlemen, what I'm going to take you through now is incredibly important for now女士们,先生们,我现在要带你们走的 现在非常重要
123and for the rest of your future life.以及你未来生活的余生
124We'll go through the cortex, we'll go through the limbic and the reptilian system.穿过皮层,穿过四肢和爬行动物系统.
125We'll go through a psychologically advanced profile where we'll take you through the entire steps of the structure.我们会通过一个心理上先进的剖面 我们带你穿过整个结构
126We'll then look at how that relates to Aristotle's ethos, logos and pathos, and I'll carry on in this pace.然后我们再看看这与亚里士多德的特质,标志和病原体有何关系,我将以这个速度继续.
127Compare that to this.把这比起来
128Ladies and gentlemen, I'm now going to take you through something that is entirely and utterly boring.女士们,先生们,我现在要带你 经历一些完全和完全无聊的事情。
129Something that you will have no use of in your entire life.你这辈子都没用的东西
130And every second spent listening to me now and on will be a waste of time.现在和现在每分每秒都听我的 都会浪费时间
131And now look at your faces, you're like, whoa, that last bit, I want more of that.现在看看你们的脸, 你们就像,哇, 最后一点,我想要更多的。
132That was super interesting.这太有趣了
133The useless stuff.没用的东西
134I don't want the brain so much, I want the second bit.我不太想要大脑,我要第二点
135Why?为什么?
136Because your brains, they react to when a person has a low pace,因为你的大脑,他们的反应 当一个人的低速度,
137you think that what I'm saying is more important than when I have a high pace.你觉得我所说的比起我速度快的时候更重要吗?
138Because that illustrates that I don't really want to be there.因为这说明我不想去
139There are exceptions to this rule, but that is the basics.这一规则有一些例外,但这是基本规则。
140So keep a calm pace.保持冷静
141My next tip goes on pauses.我的下一个提示是暂停。
142The pause, is the pause important?暂停,暂停很重要吗?
143Absolutely it is.当然
144So let me give you a classical rhetorical proverb.因此,让我给你一个古典辞典谚语。
145Now without pauses, and it goes like this.现在,没有停顿, 它是这样的。
146Did you know that every single decision you've taken in your entire life你知道你这辈子所做的每个决定
147and will take for the rest of your life is based on one thing and one thing only?一生都只靠一件事和一件事吗?
148If you give that to the people listening to you, that is the feeling.如果你给人们听你的,这就是感觉。
149That is what will move them.这会让他们感动。
150Now I'll add pauses, and it sounds like this.现在我要添加暂停, 听起来是这样。
151Did you know that every single decision you've taken in your entire life你知道你这辈子所做的每个决定
152and you will take for the rest of your life is based on one thing and one thing only?你一生只能靠一件事和一件事吗?
153And that is an emotion.这是一种情感。
154Now if you give that emotion to the people listening to you,现在如果你把这种情感 给那些听你说话的人
155they will take the decisions you want them to take.他们会做出你想要他们做出的决定
156Is there a difference?有区别吗?
157Absolutely.当然
158But you know what?但你知道吗?
159Some people are afraid of the pause.有些人害怕暂停。
160So they go like, whoa, am I going to do one of those?所以,他们去喜欢,哇, 我要做其中之一?
161I'm not.我没有。
162I refuse.我拒绝。
163I prefer to compromise.我宁愿妥协。
164And do you know what the compromise for a pause is?你知道暂停的妥协是什么吗?
165What does it sound like?听起来像什么?
166Yeah.对
167It's like a skock of sheep when you listen to certain conferences.当你听某些会议时 就像一只绵羊
168Now there's nothing among these 110 skills that lowers your ethos现在这110种技能中 没有什么能降低你的气质
169and your credibility more than erring.你们的信誉,胜过迷误。
170Because it signals that you don't know what you are saying因为它表明你不知道你在说什么
171and where you're going in your talk.和你说话的地方。
172So let me give you a demonstration.所以,让我给你一个演示。
173Did you know that every single decision you've taken in your entire life你知道你这辈子所做的每个决定
174and will take for the rest of your life is based on one thing and one thing only?一生都只靠一件事和一件事吗?
175And that is a feeling.这是一种感觉。
176I think you prefer the one with silence.我想你更喜欢沉默的
177Now those were the five main skills I wanted to take you through.现在,这些是五大技能 我想带你通过。
178And if you haven't used them before and you start using them as a public speaker,如果你之前没有用过 并且开始用它们做公共演讲
179they will make a difference to your speech.他们会改变你的演讲
180I would like to treat you to four small skills as well.我还想请你学习四门小技巧
181Just to give you an appreciation of how small a skill can be,只是想让你体会一下技能有多小
182but still have a great impact.但仍有很大的影响。
183It looks like this.看起来像这样
184And those were the four skills.这些是四种技能。
185Did you follow them?你跟踪他们了吗?
186Number one was I looked up, which illustrates that I'm thinking,第一,我抬头看, 这说明我在想,
187which increases your sense of presence for me on stage.这能增强你在舞台上对我的感觉
188The second thing I did was that I did an audible inhale,我所做的第二件事是,我做了一个声闻 吸入,
189which makes your brain believe that I'm going to say something that's exciting.这让你的大脑相信 我会说一些令人兴奋的话。
190I then combined that with a decane smile,然后把笑容和笑容结合起来
191which means that I smile with my mouth and with my eyes.这意味着我笑 与我的嘴和眼睛。
192Did you fall for it?你爱上它了吗?
193Because what I did as well was this.因为我也做了这个
194I did a self laughter.我做了一个自我笑声。
195And also that increases anticipation of what I'm going to say.这也增加了对我要说的话的预期。
196So four small skills executed in five seconds changes the state of your mind.所以在5秒内执行的4个小技能会改变你的思想状态.
197I'd like to pick out one of those and just end off with that.我想挑一个 然后结束这一切
198And that is the decane smile.这就是十烷的微笑。
199Decane smiles has in studies shown that you are more likely to be married,Decane的笑容在研究表明 你更有可能结婚,
200less likely to be divorced, you're happier, you're more content with life,不太可能离婚, 你更快乐, 你更满足于生活,
201and you actually are more relaxed in situations like this.你其实在这样的情况下比较放松
202So I asked myself, am I a decane smiling person?所以我问自己 我是不是在笑吗?
203And to figure that out, I walked over to my computer and I logged in为了弄清楚这一点,我走到我的计算机,我登录了
204and I looked at all my 60,000 Google photos.我看了我的六万张谷歌照片
205They're not all of me, but of family members and others.他们不都是我,而是家人和其他人
206I looked at mine and it seemed like my brain required short of a miracle我看着自己的大脑 似乎需要奇迹
207to do a decane smile.做一个十烷的微笑。
208You know, where you smile with your entire face.你知道,在那里,你笑 与你的整个脸。
209I thought, that's not fair.我觉得这不公平
210And considering the psychological benefits, I better learn this.考虑到心理的好处,我最好学会这一点。
211So I spent not four, but six months learning how to do a decane smile.所以我花了4个月,但6个月 学习如何做一个阴暗的微笑。
212And suddenly my brain was launching decane smiles in just everyday happiness.突然间,我的大脑在每天的幸福中 发出十烷的微笑。
213It's beautiful and I felt happier as a human being.美极了,我作为一个人感到快乐.
214I want to show you what it looks like.我想告诉你它是什么样子。
215Every time I go on my summer holidays, I take a photo of myself.每当我暑假去的时候,我都会给自己拍照.
216And these were the last years of those photos.这是这些照片的最后几年。
217This was 2014, there's no decane smile.这是2014年,没有十烷的微笑。
2182015, definitely no decane smile.2015年,绝对不能笑
2192016, still no decane smile.2016年,仍然没有十足的笑容.
2202017, no decane smile.2017年,无十烷笑.
221This year, decane smile.今年,十烷的微笑。
222Does it make a difference?有区别吗?
223Absolutely.当然
224It brings joy to you and stability to me.它给你带来欢乐,给我带来稳定.
225Now we've come to the end of this talk and I would like to end with现在我们到此为止了 我想以
226something that relates to boxing.和拳击有关的东西
227You know, Muhammad Ali and the likes,你知道,穆罕默德・阿里和喜欢,
228they have combinations for when they're going to strike somebody.他们有组合 当他们要打击某人。
229Knockout.击倒。
230And the same kind of combinations exist in public speaking as well.公共演讲中也有同样的组合。
231So what I'd like to show you is this combination.我想告诉你的是这个密码。
232I'm going to start with number 34, go to number 8,我要从34号开始 到8号
233and then we'll carry on to 69 and 98 to 67 and 18, 22 and 101 and 21.然后我们继续69和98到67和18,22和101和21。
234Are you ready for the combination?你准备好密码了吗?
235Okay, looks like this.好吧,看起来像这样。
236Ladies and gentlemen, I hope that you've had fun, that you have learned.女士们,先生们,我希望你们玩得开心,你们学到了。
237But more than anything, I hope that you feel inspired但最重要的是,我希望你感到灵感
238to become a greater public speaker.成为更公开的演讲者。
239Because anybody can become good.因为任何人都会好起来
240Anybody can become great and everybody can become outstanding.任何人都可以成为伟大的, 每个人都可以成为杰出的。
241Because it all comes down to one single.因为它都降为单曲.
242Single.单身.
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