用三个有力问题瞬间找到人生目标【TED演讲】
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| 集 | 标题 | 时长 |
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| P1 | 用三个有力问题瞬间找到人生目标【TED演讲】 中英双语 | 9:26 |
| P2 | 用三个有力问题瞬间找到人生目标【TED演讲】 英文字幕(中文 | 9:26 |
P1 · 用三个有力问题瞬间找到人生目标【TED演讲】 p01 中英双语 (P1)
字幕摘录
| 时间 | 英文 | 中文 |
|---|---|---|
| 0:01 | Finding our life's purpose, isn't that what we all want? | 找到我们生活的目的,是不是我们都想要的? |
| 0:04 | Don't we want more meaning, significance, and purpose in our life? | 难道我们不想要我们生活中更多的意义,意义和目的吗? |
| 0:09 | A lot of us will ask ourselves, | 我们很多人会问自己, |
| 0:12 | why are we here? | 为什么我们在这里? |
| 0:14 | I'm here to tell you, instead of starting with our why, | 我是来告诉你 而不是从我们的原因开始 |
| 0:17 | we should end with it. | 我们应该结束它。 |
| 0:20 | New York Times did a study that only 25% of Americans | 纽约时报的研究显示 只有25%的美国人 |
| 0:24 | truly know their life's purpose. | 真正知道他们的生活目的。 |
| 0:26 | People are just wandering through lives not knowing why they're here. | 人们只是徘徊在生活中 不知道他们为什么在这里。 |
| 0:29 | There's people in this room. | 此间有人. |
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| 1 | Finding our life's purpose, isn't that what we all want? | 找到我们生活的目的,是不是我们都想要的? |
| 2 | Don't we want more meaning, significance, and purpose in our life? | 难道我们不想要我们生活中更多的意义,意义和目的吗? |
| 3 | A lot of us will ask ourselves, | 我们很多人会问自己, |
| 4 | why are we here? | 为什么我们在这里? |
| 5 | I'm here to tell you, instead of starting with our why, | 我是来告诉你 而不是从我们的原因开始 |
| 6 | we should end with it. | 我们应该结束它。 |
| 7 | New York Times did a study that only 25% of Americans | 纽约时报的研究显示 只有25%的美国人 |
| 8 | truly know their life's purpose. | 真正知道他们的生活目的。 |
| 9 | People are just wandering through lives not knowing why they're here. | 人们只是徘徊在生活中 不知道他们为什么在这里。 |
| 10 | There's people in this room. | 此间有人. |
| 11 | And this statistic blew my mind. | 这个统计数据让我心碎 |
| 12 | And as I started to understand purpose, | 当我开始理解目的 |
| 13 | as I traveled around the world, | 当我环游世界时 |
| 14 | it took me about 10 years to understand what my life's purpose was. | 我花了大约10年才明白我人生的目的 |
| 15 | And I wrote a book, and one of the graphs I created in it | 我写了本书, 和书中我创造的图表之一 |
| 16 | is the cycle of unfulfilling purpose. | 是无法实现的循环。 |
| 17 | And there's four steps. | 则有四步. |
| 18 | The first one is a transition. | 第一个是过渡。 |
| 19 | We all experience transitions in our life. | 我们都经历过生活中的转变。 |
| 20 | It can happen in many forms. | 它可以以多种形式发生. |
| 21 | We can have a kid, we can get married, we graduate school, | 我们可以有一个孩子, 我们可以结婚, 我们研究生, |
| 22 | we can leave the sport that we thought we were going to be a professional at, | 我们可以放弃我们想成为一名专业人士的运动, |
| 23 | something traumatic could happen to us, a loved one could die. | 我们可能会遭受创伤 爱人会死 |
| 24 | Something happens in our life that changes everything, | 我们生活中发生的事情改变了一切 |
| 25 | leading us to the second step, which is confusion, | 引领我们走向第二步,这是混乱, |
| 26 | not knowing who we are anymore, | 不再知道我们是谁了 |
| 27 | not knowing what our next step, | 不知道我们下一步要做什么 |
| 28 | lacking clarity and lacking direction in our life. | 我们的生活缺乏明确性和方向。 |
| 29 | This could be depressing and unmotivating. | 这可能是令人沮丧和没有动机。 |
| 30 | And the scary part is, | 而可怕的部分是, |
| 31 | this could last for days, maybe years, maybe decades, | 这可能持续几天,也许几年,也许几十年, |
| 32 | maybe even a lifetime for some individuals. | 也许对有些人来说甚至一生 |
| 33 | Then there's the third step, | 还有第三步, |
| 34 | that if we're able to get out of confusion, we're able to build momentum. | 如果我们能摆脱困惑 就能形成势头 |
| 35 | We're able to create results in our life. | 我们能够在生活中创造成果. |
| 36 | We get crystal clarity on what it is that we need to do, | 我们明白我们需要做什么 |
| 37 | and we think we found our life's purpose. | 我们认为我们找到了生活的目的 |
| 38 | We found the job, and purpose is the reason why we do what we do. | 我们找到了这份工作,目的是我们做什么的原因。 |
| 39 | So I could be going to this job, I could be working my way up, | 这样我就可以去做这份工作, 我就可以努力提高, |
| 40 | providing for my family, I could have purpose. | 养家糊口,我有目的 |
| 41 | But if I then come to the fourth step, | 但如果我走到第四步的话 |
| 42 | which is unhappiness and lack of fulfillment, | 是幸福的,是缺乏满足的, |
| 43 | that's the ultimate failure. | 这就是最终的失败。 |
| 44 | And I look up and I ask, is there more to life than this? | 我抬起头来问我 生命还有没有比这更多的? |
| 45 | When? | 什么时候? |
| 46 | We need to step out of the cycle and find our life's purpose, | 我们需要走出循环 找到我们生活的目的, |
| 47 | because when we find our life's purpose, | 因为当我们找到我们生活的目的, |
| 48 | we have happiness and fulfillment, | 我们有幸福和成就, |
| 49 | and we have a desire to want to do more and be more. | 我们渴望做更多和更多。 |
| 50 | Because finding purpose is actually easy, | 因为寻找目的其实很简单 |
| 51 | but living our life's purpose and having fulfillment is life-changing. | 但过着我们生活的目的和成就是改变生命的 |
| 52 | So if we look at the word purpose, | 所以,如果我们看看这个词的目的, |
| 53 | P-U-R, the prefix, is used to set forth beforehand. | 前缀P-U-R用于预先设定. |
| 54 | It's also used in the word pure, so it's without blemish, | 纯字中亦有用,故无杂字. |
| 55 | the purest intention. | 最纯洁的意图。 |
| 56 | And then pose is to suggest or intend. | 然后姿势就是暗示或意图. |
| 57 | So purpose stands for the purest suggestion or intention | 因此,目的代表最纯粹的建议或意图 |
| 58 | that we set forth beforehand. | 是我们事先提出的。 |
| 59 | So if we look at these chairs in this audience, | 所以,如果我们看看这些椅子 在这个观众, |
| 60 | the user can define the purpose, right? | 用户可以定义目的,对吧? |
| 61 | So some of you guys in the back are using it as a bed. | 所以,有些家伙在后面 用它作为床。 |
| 62 | You find the purpose there. | 你在这里找到目的。 |
| 63 | I see you guys back there. | 我看见你们了 |
| 64 | Some of us use this purpose as an opportunity to learn and grow. | 我们有些人利用这个目的作为学习和成长的机会。 |
| 65 | And then some other people use that as an opportunity | 然后其他人 利用这个机会 |
| 66 | to rest their lower back on our knees, right? | 让他们跪下休息,对吧? |
| 67 | The purpose of the chair is defined by the user. | 座椅的目的由使用者规定. |
| 68 | But what about the creator of the chair, the invention? | 但椅子的创造者,发明呢? |
| 69 | What was the purpose when the creator made the chair? | 创造者做椅子的目的是什么? |
| 70 | And if the user's purpose is out of alignment | 如果用户的目的不合 |
| 71 | with the creator's purpose, | 与创造者的目的, |
| 72 | we're gonna have unfulfillment and frustration, right? | 我们会有不尽如人意和沮丧,对不对? |
| 73 | If I try to use this chair as a bed | 如果我用这张椅子当床 |
| 74 | and that's not what the purpose of the chair was | 椅子的目的不是这个 |
| 75 | from the creator, I'm gonna struggle. | 从创造者,我会挣扎。 |
| 76 | Same thing with our life. | 和我们的生活一样 |
| 77 | Our life's purpose was already predetermined | 我们的人生目的已经预定了 |
| 78 | before we were made. | 在我们被造就之前 |
| 79 | It was set forth beforehand. | 这是事先提出的。 |
| 80 | This changed everything for me | 这改变了我的一切 |
| 81 | because I thought I had a create purpose. | 因为我以为我有创造目的 |
| 82 | I thought I had to create my life's purpose. | 我以为我必须创造出人生的目的 |
| 83 | But our creator, the highest being with purest intentions, | 但是,我们的创造者, 最高的是有最纯洁的意图, |
| 84 | with no flaw, decided our purpose | 没有瑕疵,决定了我们的目的 |
| 85 | before we were even here on this earth. | 之前,我们甚至在这里 在这个地球上。 |
| 86 | So you guys can decide if you wanna use your purpose | 这样你们就可以决定要不要用你的目的 |
| 87 | or the creator's purpose in your life. | 或者创造者在你的生活中的目的。 |
| 88 | Because the two most important days of our life | 因为我们生命中最重要的两天 |
| 89 | are the day we find out why and the day we were born. | 就是我们发现原因和出生的那一天 |
| 90 | One of my favorite quotes from Mark Twain. | 我最喜欢的马克·吐温的话 |
| 91 | So our job is just to align ourselves | 所以我们的工作就是配合自己 |
| 92 | with our creator's purpose for ourself. | 与我们的创造者的目的 为了我们自己。 |
| 93 | So the first question, instead of why am I here? | 所以第一个问题,而不是我为什么在这里? |
| 94 | We ask ourselves, who am I called to serve? | 我们问自己,我被叫来为谁服务? |
| 95 | Because when I step into a place of service, | 因为当我进入一个服务的地方, |
| 96 | I immediately have significance, purpose, | 我马上有意义,目的 |
| 97 | and meaning in my life. | 和意义在我的生活中。 |
| 98 | It shifts the conversation from you to who. | 它把对话从你转移到谁。 |
| 99 | It's not about me anymore. | 与我无关了 |
| 100 | I think about who can I help and who can I serve? | 我想起我能帮助谁,能为谁服务? |
| 101 | And the reason why I know this | 而为什么我知道这个 |
| 102 | is because our creator has designed us this way. | 因为我们的创造者 设计我们的方式。 |
| 103 | So here's a photo of our brain. | 这是一张我们大脑的照片。 |
| 104 | It lights up like a Christmas tree when we serve individuals. | 它像圣诞树一样照亮 当我们服务个人。 |
| 105 | This is called the helper's high. | 此谓助者高. |
| 106 | So a lot of research done on this. | 因此做了很多研究。 |
| 107 | Your brain releases dopamine, serotonin, oxytocin. | 你的大脑释放多巴胺 血清素 催产素 |
| 108 | We feel incredible. | 我们感到不可思议。 |
| 109 | It's also the same feeling that we have when we have sex, | 我们做爱时也有同样的感觉 |
| 110 | consume sugar, social media, | 食糖、社交媒体, |
| 111 | substances like drugs and alcohol, | 毒品和酒精等物质 |
| 112 | and serving other people. | 并服务于他人。 |
| 113 | All five of these are extremely addictive. | 这五种都极易上瘾。 |
| 114 | You guys can decide which addiction you wanna have. | 你们可以决定你们想吃什么瘾 |
| 115 | And the first four there are things that we do externally | 头四件事我们在外面做 |
| 116 | to serve ourselves, only ourselves. | 只有我们自己 |
| 117 | And the last one is something | 最后一个是东西 |
| 118 | that has already been built within us internally | 我们内部已经建好了 |
| 119 | that we can use to affect other people externally. | 我们可以用来影响外界 |
| 120 | So then the next question is, | 那么下一个问题是, |
| 121 | what problems am I called to solve? | 我该解决什么问题? |
| 122 | So who am I called to serve? | 我被叫来为谁服务? |
| 123 | Start with someone that you can relate to, | 从一个你可以联系的人开始 |
| 124 | that you have similar experiences with. | 你也有类似的经历。 |
| 125 | And then the second question is, | 然后第二个问题是, |
| 126 | what problems am I called to solve? | 我该解决什么问题? |
| 127 | Because this is how we get paid. | 因为这就是我们的薪水 |
| 128 | Now who likes to get paid in here, right? | 现在,谁喜欢在这里得到报酬,对不对? |
| 129 | Everyone. | 诸人. |
| 130 | Because the problems that you solve | 因为你解决的问题 |
| 131 | are in direct correlation | 直接相关 |
| 132 | to the amount of money in your bank account. | 银行帐户上的钱 |
| 133 | Because the bigger the problems, the bigger the solution. | 因为问题越大 解决方案就越大 |
| 134 | The smaller the problems, the smaller the solution. | 问题越小,解决方案就越小. |
| 135 | So start with someone that you can relate to, | 所以,从一个你可以联系的人开始, |
| 136 | that you would like working with. | 你愿意合作吗? |
| 137 | Then figure out what problems do they have | 想想他们有什么问题 |
| 138 | and what problems did you overcome in your life? | 你在生活中克服了哪些问题? |
| 139 | And usually these can be found with traumatic experiences, | 通常这些都可以通过创伤经历找到, |
| 140 | life experiences that only you can talk about. | 只有你才能谈论的生活经历 |
| 141 | I guarantee you there's someone else | 我向你保证还有别人 |
| 142 | that has gone through the same situation | 经历了同样的情况 |
| 143 | and problem that you can help. | 和问题 你可以帮助。 |
| 144 | And then the last question is, | 然后最后一个问题是, |
| 145 | how am I called to solve this problem? | 我怎么才能来解决这个问题? |
| 146 | And this is where you guys can get creative | 这就是你们可以创造的东西 |
| 147 | because there's a thousand different ways | 因为有一千种不同的方式 |
| 148 | to solve one problem. | 解决一个问题。 |
| 149 | And with technology, every single day, | 而科技,每一天, |
| 150 | a solution is being created. | 正在创建一个解决方案。 |
| 151 | But this is the easiest part. | 但这是最简单的部分。 |
| 152 | Once we know who we're called to serve | 一旦我们知道我们被叫来服务 |
| 153 | and what problems we're called to solve, | 还有我们要解决的问题 |
| 154 | the solution becomes very evident. | 解决办法变得非常明显。 |
| 155 | And from a logistical and strategic standpoint, | 从后勤和战略的角度来看 |
| 156 | we wanna create the most effective | 我们想创造出最有效的 |
| 157 | and efficient solution to the problem | 问题的有效解决 |
| 158 | so we can help the most amount of people in the world. | 这样我们才能帮助世界上 最多的人。 |
| 159 | So who am I called to serve? | 我被叫来为谁服务? |
| 160 | What problems am I called to solve? | 我该解决什么问题? |
| 161 | And how am I called to solve this problem? | 我怎么才能来解决这个问题? |
| 162 | This is gonna create our purpose statement. | 这会创造我们的目的声明。 |
| 163 | I help who? | 我帮谁? |
| 164 | With their problem through the solution. | 他们的问题通过解决方案。 |
| 165 | So I help young adults and business owners | 所以我帮助年轻的成年人和企业主 |
| 166 | that lack clarity and confidence | 缺乏清晰度和信心 |
| 167 | and direction in their life | 生活的方向 |
| 168 | by helping them find their life's purpose | 帮助他们找到自己的人生目标 |
| 169 | through live events, books, and presentations. | 通过现场活动、书籍和演讲。 |
| 170 | And we've been doing that for the last several years. | 过去几年来,我们一直在这样做。 |
| 171 | So I validate my purpose with my why. | 所以我用我的目的来证明我的目的 |
| 172 | Then this is when we come with the question, | 这就是我们提出问题的时候 |
| 173 | why do we do what we do? | 为什么我们做我们做什么? |
| 174 | Look at your purpose statement. | 看看你的目的陈述 |
| 175 | Then you ask yourself, why do I do it? | 那你问自己 我为什么要这么做? |
| 176 | Am I doing it for myself, for selfish gain? | 我这样做是为了自己, 为了自私的利益? |
| 177 | Am I doing it because I genuinely care | 我这样做是因为我真正关心 |
| 178 | and wanna help others? | 想帮助别人吗? |
| 179 | Or am I doing it because I wanna serve my creator? | 还是因为我想为创作者服务? |
| 180 | Because when we serve our creator | 因为当我们为创造者服务时 |
| 181 | and that's at the epicenter of our life, | 那是我们生命的中心, |
| 182 | we're expressing the highest form of love | 我们在表达最高的爱 |
| 183 | because that was what was expressed when we were created. | 因为那是我们创建时表达的。 |
| 184 | And what's gonna happen is you're gonna have | 接下来会发生什么,你会有 |
| 185 | three indicators, you're gonna have peace. | 三个指标,你会有和平。 |
| 186 | Do you have peace with what you're doing with it? | 与所行之事平和吗? |
| 187 | Because if I think I have purpose and I don't have peace, | 因为如果我觉得我有目的,我没有和平, |
| 188 | I have to realign myself. | 我得调整一下自己 |
| 189 | Second thing is, do I have passion? | 其次,我有激情吗? |
| 190 | Do I actually enjoy what it is that I do? | 我真正喜欢我做的事吗? |
| 191 | Because we're all designed with different strengths | 因为我们都有不同的能力 |
| 192 | and abilities on this earth to enjoy different things. | 和在这个地球上享受不同事物的能力。 |
| 193 | So am I excited? | 我兴奋吗? |
| 194 | Do I look forward to the day ahead? | 我期待未来的日子吗? |
| 195 | Am I excited to do what I am doing right now? | 我兴奋地做我现在在做什么? |
| 196 | And the last thing is, are people willing to pay me for it? | 最后一件事是 人们愿意付钱给我吗? |
| 197 | Because we're supposed to provide for our loved ones | 因为我们应该照顾我们爱的人 |
| 198 | and be able to use money as a vehicle | 并且能够用钱作为工具 |
| 199 | to help other people in great causes as well. | 帮助其他人的伟大事业。 |
| 200 | So our life's purpose is to serve our creator | 所以,我们的生活的目的是为创造者服务 |
| 201 | by serving others, specifically through | 服务于他人,特别是通过 |
| 202 | your purpose statement. | 你的目的陈述。 |
| 203 | And you guys can fill in the blanks there. | 你们可以填空的 |
| 204 | So start with the who, end with the why, | 所以,从谁开始,结束的原因, |
| 205 | and validate it with that. | 用这个来验证 |
| 206 | I look forward to serving the world together, thank you. | 我期待着共同为世界服务,谢谢。 |
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P2 · 用三个有力问题瞬间找到人生目标【TED演讲】 p02 英文字幕(中文外挂) (P2)
字幕摘录
| 时间 | 英文 | 中文 |
|---|---|---|
| 0:01 | Finding our life's purpose, isn't that what we all want? | 找到我们生活的目的,是不是我们都想要的? |
| 0:04 | Don't we want more meaning, significance, and purpose in our life? | 难道我们不想要我们生活中更多的意义,意义和目的吗? |
| 0:09 | A lot of us will ask ourselves, | 我们很多人会问自己, |
| 0:12 | why are we here? | 为什么我们在这里? |
| 0:14 | I'm here to tell you, instead of starting with our why, | 我是来告诉你 而不是从我们的原因开始 |
| 0:17 | we should end with it. | 我们应该结束它。 |
| 0:20 | New York Times did a study that only 25% of Americans | 纽约时报的研究显示 只有25%的美国人 |
| 0:24 | truly know their life's purpose. | 真正知道他们的生活目的。 |
| 0:26 | People are just wandering through lives not knowing why they're here. | 人们只是徘徊在生活中 不知道他们为什么在这里。 |
| 0:29 | There's people in this room. | 此间有人. |
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| 序号 | 英文 | 中文 |
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| 1 | Finding our life's purpose, isn't that what we all want? | 找到我们生活的目的,是不是我们都想要的? |
| 2 | Don't we want more meaning, significance, and purpose in our life? | 难道我们不想要我们生活中更多的意义,意义和目的吗? |
| 3 | A lot of us will ask ourselves, | 我们很多人会问自己, |
| 4 | why are we here? | 为什么我们在这里? |
| 5 | I'm here to tell you, instead of starting with our why, | 我是来告诉你 而不是从我们的原因开始 |
| 6 | we should end with it. | 我们应该结束它。 |
| 7 | New York Times did a study that only 25% of Americans | 纽约时报的研究显示 只有25%的美国人 |
| 8 | truly know their life's purpose. | 真正知道他们的生活目的。 |
| 9 | People are just wandering through lives not knowing why they're here. | 人们只是徘徊在生活中 不知道他们为什么在这里。 |
| 10 | There's people in this room. | 此间有人. |
| 11 | And this statistic blew my mind. | 这个统计数据让我心碎 |
| 12 | And as I started to understand purpose, | 当我开始理解目的 |
| 13 | as I traveled around the world, | 当我环游世界时 |
| 14 | it took me about 10 years to understand what my life's purpose was. | 我花了大约10年才明白我人生的目的 |
| 15 | And I wrote a book, and one of the graphs I created in it | 我写了本书, 和书中我创造的图表之一 |
| 16 | is the cycle of unfulfilling purpose. | 是无法实现的循环。 |
| 17 | And there's four steps. | 则有四步. |
| 18 | The first one is a transition. | 第一个是过渡。 |
| 19 | We all experience transitions in our life. | 我们都经历过生活中的转变。 |
| 20 | It can happen in many forms. | 它可以以多种形式发生. |
| 21 | We can have a kid, we can get married, we graduate school, | 我们可以有一个孩子, 我们可以结婚, 我们研究生, |
| 22 | we can leave the sport that we thought we were going to be a professional at, | 我们可以放弃我们想成为一名专业人士的运动, |
| 23 | something traumatic could happen to us, a loved one could die. | 我们可能会遭受创伤 爱人会死 |
| 24 | Something happens in our life that changes everything, | 我们生活中发生的事情改变了一切 |
| 25 | leading us to the second step, which is confusion, | 引领我们走向第二步,这是混乱, |
| 26 | not knowing who we are anymore, | 不再知道我们是谁了 |
| 27 | not knowing what our next step, | 不知道我们下一步要做什么 |
| 28 | lacking clarity and lacking direction in our life. | 我们的生活缺乏明确性和方向。 |
| 29 | This could be depressing and unmotivating. | 这可能是令人沮丧和没有动机。 |
| 30 | And the scary part is, | 而可怕的部分是, |
| 31 | this could last for days, maybe years, maybe decades, | 这可能持续几天,也许几年,也许几十年, |
| 32 | maybe even a lifetime for some individuals. | 也许对有些人来说甚至一生 |
| 33 | Then there's the third step, | 还有第三步, |
| 34 | that if we're able to get out of confusion, we're able to build momentum. | 如果我们能摆脱困惑 就能形成势头 |
| 35 | We're able to create results in our life. | 我们能够在生活中创造成果. |
| 36 | We get crystal clarity on what it is that we need to do, | 我们明白我们需要做什么 |
| 37 | and we think we found our life's purpose. | 我们认为我们找到了生活的目的 |
| 38 | We found the job, and purpose is the reason why we do what we do. | 我们找到了这份工作,目的是我们做什么的原因。 |
| 39 | So I could be going to this job, I could be working my way up, | 这样我就可以去做这份工作, 我就可以努力提高, |
| 40 | providing for my family, I could have purpose. | 养家糊口,我有目的 |
| 41 | But if I then come to the fourth step, | 但如果我走到第四步的话 |
| 42 | which is unhappiness and lack of fulfillment, | 是幸福的,是缺乏满足的, |
| 43 | that's the ultimate failure. | 这就是最终的失败。 |
| 44 | And I look up and I ask, is there more to life than this? | 我抬起头来问我 生命还有没有比这更多的? |
| 45 | When? | 什么时候? |
| 46 | We need to step out of the cycle and find our life's purpose, | 我们需要走出循环 找到我们生活的目的, |
| 47 | because when we find our life's purpose, | 因为当我们找到我们生活的目的, |
| 48 | we have happiness and fulfillment, | 我们有幸福和成就, |
| 49 | and we have a desire to want to do more and be more. | 我们渴望做更多和更多。 |
| 50 | Because finding purpose is actually easy, | 因为寻找目的其实很简单 |
| 51 | but living our life's purpose and having fulfillment is life-changing. | 但过着我们生活的目的和成就是改变生命的 |
| 52 | So if we look at the word purpose, | 所以,如果我们看看这个词的目的, |
| 53 | P-U-R, the prefix, is used to set forth beforehand. | 前缀P-U-R用于预先设定. |
| 54 | It's also used in the word pure, so it's without blemish, | 纯字中亦有用,故无杂字. |
| 55 | the purest intention. | 最纯洁的意图。 |
| 56 | And then pose is to suggest or intend. | 然后姿势就是暗示或意图. |
| 57 | So purpose stands for the purest suggestion or intention | 因此,目的代表最纯粹的建议或意图 |
| 58 | that we set forth beforehand. | 是我们事先提出的。 |
| 59 | So if we look at these chairs in this audience, | 所以,如果我们看看这些椅子 在这个观众, |
| 60 | the user can define the purpose, right? | 用户可以定义目的,对吧? |
| 61 | So some of you guys in the back are using it as a bed. | 所以,有些家伙在后面 用它作为床。 |
| 62 | You find the purpose there. | 你在这里找到目的。 |
| 63 | I see you guys back there. | 我看见你们了 |
| 64 | Some of us use this purpose as an opportunity to learn and grow. | 我们有些人利用这个目的作为学习和成长的机会。 |
| 65 | And then some other people use that as an opportunity | 然后其他人 利用这个机会 |
| 66 | to rest their lower back on our knees, right? | 让他们跪下休息,对吧? |
| 67 | The purpose of the chair is defined by the user. | 座椅的目的由使用者规定. |
| 68 | But what about the creator of the chair, the invention? | 但椅子的创造者,发明呢? |
| 69 | What was the purpose when the creator made the chair? | 创造者做椅子的目的是什么? |
| 70 | And if the user's purpose is out of alignment | 如果用户的目的不合 |
| 71 | with the creator's purpose, | 与创造者的目的, |
| 72 | we're gonna have unfulfillment and frustration, right? | 我们会有不尽如人意和沮丧,对不对? |
| 73 | If I try to use this chair as a bed | 如果我用这张椅子当床 |
| 74 | and that's not what the purpose of the chair was | 椅子的目的不是这个 |
| 75 | from the creator, I'm gonna struggle. | 从创造者,我会挣扎。 |
| 76 | Same thing with our life. | 和我们的生活一样 |
| 77 | Our life's purpose was already predetermined | 我们的人生目的已经预定了 |
| 78 | before we were made. | 在我们被造就之前 |
| 79 | It was set forth beforehand. | 这是事先提出的。 |
| 80 | This changed everything for me | 这改变了我的一切 |
| 81 | because I thought I had a create purpose. | 因为我以为我有创造目的 |
| 82 | I thought I had to create my life's purpose. | 我以为我必须创造出人生的目的 |
| 83 | But our creator, the highest being with purest intentions, | 但是,我们的创造者, 最高的是有最纯洁的意图, |
| 84 | with no flaw, decided our purpose | 没有瑕疵,决定了我们的目的 |
| 85 | before we were even here on this earth. | 之前,我们甚至在这里 在这个地球上。 |
| 86 | So you guys can decide if you wanna use your purpose | 这样你们就可以决定要不要用你的目的 |
| 87 | or the creator's purpose in your life. | 或者创造者在你的生活中的目的。 |
| 88 | Because the two most important days of our life | 因为我们生命中最重要的两天 |
| 89 | are the day we find out why and the day we were born. | 就是我们发现原因和出生的那一天 |
| 90 | One of my favorite quotes from Mark Twain. | 我最喜欢的马克·吐温的话 |
| 91 | So our job is just to align ourselves | 所以我们的工作就是配合自己 |
| 92 | with our creator's purpose for ourself. | 与我们的创造者的目的 为了我们自己。 |
| 93 | So the first question, instead of why am I here? | 所以第一个问题,而不是我为什么在这里? |
| 94 | We ask ourselves, who am I called to serve? | 我们问自己,我被叫来为谁服务? |
| 95 | Because when I step into a place of service, | 因为当我进入一个服务的地方, |
| 96 | I immediately have significance, purpose, | 我马上有意义,目的 |
| 97 | and meaning in my life. | 和意义在我的生活中。 |
| 98 | It shifts the conversation from you to who. | 它把对话从你转移到谁。 |
| 99 | It's not about me anymore. | 与我无关了 |
| 100 | I think about who can I help and who can I serve? | 我想起我能帮助谁,能为谁服务? |
| 101 | And the reason why I know this | 而为什么我知道这个 |
| 102 | is because our creator has designed us this way. | 因为我们的创造者 设计我们的方式。 |
| 103 | So here's a photo of our brain. | 这是一张我们大脑的照片。 |
| 104 | It lights up like a Christmas tree when we serve individuals. | 它像圣诞树一样照亮 当我们服务个人。 |
| 105 | This is called the helper's high. | 此谓助者高. |
| 106 | So a lot of research done on this. | 因此做了很多研究。 |
| 107 | Your brain releases dopamine, serotonin, oxytocin. | 你的大脑释放多巴胺 血清素 催产素 |
| 108 | We feel incredible. | 我们感到不可思议。 |
| 109 | It's also the same feeling that we have when we have sex, | 我们做爱时也有同样的感觉 |
| 110 | consume sugar, social media, | 食糖、社交媒体, |
| 111 | substances like drugs and alcohol, | 毒品和酒精等物质 |
| 112 | and serving other people. | 并服务于他人。 |
| 113 | All five of these are extremely addictive. | 这五种都极易上瘾。 |
| 114 | You guys can decide which addiction you wanna have. | 你们可以决定你们想吃什么瘾 |
| 115 | And the first four there are things that we do externally | 头四件事我们在外面做 |
| 116 | to serve ourselves, only ourselves. | 只有我们自己 |
| 117 | And the last one is something | 最后一个是东西 |
| 118 | that has already been built within us internally | 我们内部已经建好了 |
| 119 | that we can use to affect other people externally. | 我们可以用来影响外界 |
| 120 | So then the next question is, | 那么下一个问题是, |
| 121 | what problems am I called to solve? | 我该解决什么问题? |
| 122 | So who am I called to serve? | 我被叫来为谁服务? |
| 123 | Start with someone that you can relate to, | 从一个你可以联系的人开始 |
| 124 | that you have similar experiences with. | 你也有类似的经历。 |
| 125 | And then the second question is, | 然后第二个问题是, |
| 126 | what problems am I called to solve? | 我该解决什么问题? |
| 127 | Because this is how we get paid. | 因为这就是我们的薪水 |
| 128 | Now who likes to get paid in here, right? | 现在,谁喜欢在这里得到报酬,对不对? |
| 129 | Everyone. | 诸人. |
| 130 | Because the problems that you solve | 因为你解决的问题 |
| 131 | are in direct correlation | 直接相关 |
| 132 | to the amount of money in your bank account. | 银行帐户上的钱 |
| 133 | Because the bigger the problems, the bigger the solution. | 因为问题越大 解决方案就越大 |
| 134 | The smaller the problems, the smaller the solution. | 问题越小,解决方案就越小. |
| 135 | So start with someone that you can relate to, | 所以,从一个你可以联系的人开始, |
| 136 | that you would like working with. | 你愿意合作吗? |
| 137 | Then figure out what problems do they have | 想想他们有什么问题 |
| 138 | and what problems did you overcome in your life? | 你在生活中克服了哪些问题? |
| 139 | And usually these can be found with traumatic experiences, | 通常这些都可以通过创伤经历找到, |
| 140 | life experiences that only you can talk about. | 只有你才能谈论的生活经历 |
| 141 | I guarantee you there's someone else | 我向你保证还有别人 |
| 142 | that has gone through the same situation | 经历了同样的情况 |
| 143 | and problem that you can help. | 和问题 你可以帮助。 |
| 144 | And then the last question is, | 然后最后一个问题是, |
| 145 | how am I called to solve this problem? | 我怎么才能来解决这个问题? |
| 146 | And this is where you guys can get creative | 这就是你们可以创造的东西 |
| 147 | because there's a thousand different ways | 因为有一千种不同的方式 |
| 148 | to solve one problem. | 解决一个问题。 |
| 149 | And with technology, every single day, | 而科技,每一天, |
| 150 | a solution is being created. | 正在创建一个解决方案。 |
| 151 | But this is the easiest part. | 但这是最简单的部分。 |
| 152 | Once we know who we're called to serve | 一旦我们知道我们被叫来服务 |
| 153 | and what problems we're called to solve, | 还有我们要解决的问题 |
| 154 | the solution becomes very evident. | 解决办法变得非常明显。 |
| 155 | And from a logistical and strategic standpoint, | 从后勤和战略的角度来看 |
| 156 | we wanna create the most effective | 我们想创造出最有效的 |
| 157 | and efficient solution to the problem | 问题的有效解决 |
| 158 | so we can help the most amount of people in the world. | 这样我们才能帮助世界上 最多的人。 |
| 159 | So who am I called to serve? | 我被叫来为谁服务? |
| 160 | What problems am I called to solve? | 我该解决什么问题? |
| 161 | And how am I called to solve this problem? | 我怎么才能来解决这个问题? |
| 162 | This is gonna create our purpose statement. | 这会创造我们的目的声明。 |
| 163 | I help who? | 我帮谁? |
| 164 | With their problem through the solution. | 他们的问题通过解决方案。 |
| 165 | So I help young adults and business owners | 所以我帮助年轻的成年人和企业主 |
| 166 | that lack clarity and confidence | 缺乏清晰度和信心 |
| 167 | and direction in their life | 生活的方向 |
| 168 | by helping them find their life's purpose | 帮助他们找到自己的人生目标 |
| 169 | through live events, books, and presentations. | 通过现场活动、书籍和演讲。 |
| 170 | And we've been doing that for the last several years. | 过去几年来,我们一直在这样做。 |
| 171 | So I validate my purpose with my why. | 所以我用我的目的来证明我的目的 |
| 172 | Then this is when we come with the question, | 这就是我们提出问题的时候 |
| 173 | why do we do what we do? | 为什么我们做我们做什么? |
| 174 | Look at your purpose statement. | 看看你的目的陈述 |
| 175 | Then you ask yourself, why do I do it? | 那你问自己 我为什么要这么做? |
| 176 | Am I doing it for myself, for selfish gain? | 我这样做是为了自己, 为了自私的利益? |
| 177 | Am I doing it because I genuinely care | 我这样做是因为我真正关心 |
| 178 | and wanna help others? | 想帮助别人吗? |
| 179 | Or am I doing it because I wanna serve my creator? | 还是因为我想为创作者服务? |
| 180 | Because when we serve our creator | 因为当我们为创造者服务时 |
| 181 | and that's at the epicenter of our life, | 那是我们生命的中心, |
| 182 | we're expressing the highest form of love | 我们在表达最高的爱 |
| 183 | because that was what was expressed when we were created. | 因为那是我们创建时表达的。 |
| 184 | And what's gonna happen is you're gonna have | 接下来会发生什么,你会有 |
| 185 | three indicators, you're gonna have peace. | 三个指标,你会有和平。 |
| 186 | Do you have peace with what you're doing with it? | 与所行之事平和吗? |
| 187 | Because if I think I have purpose and I don't have peace, | 因为如果我觉得我有目的,我没有和平, |
| 188 | I have to realign myself. | 我得调整一下自己 |
| 189 | Second thing is, do I have passion? | 其次,我有激情吗? |
| 190 | Do I actually enjoy what it is that I do? | 我真正喜欢我做的事吗? |
| 191 | Because we're all designed with different strengths | 因为我们都有不同的能力 |
| 192 | and abilities on this earth to enjoy different things. | 和在这个地球上享受不同事物的能力。 |
| 193 | So am I excited? | 我兴奋吗? |
| 194 | Do I look forward to the day ahead? | 我期待未来的日子吗? |
| 195 | Am I excited to do what I am doing right now? | 我兴奋地做我现在在做什么? |
| 196 | And the last thing is, are people willing to pay me for it? | 最后一件事是 人们愿意付钱给我吗? |
| 197 | Because we're supposed to provide for our loved ones | 因为我们应该照顾我们爱的人 |
| 198 | and be able to use money as a vehicle | 并且能够用钱作为工具 |
| 199 | to help other people in great causes as well. | 帮助其他人的伟大事业。 |
| 200 | So our life's purpose is to serve our creator | 所以,我们的生活的目的是为创造者服务 |
| 201 | by serving others, specifically through | 服务于他人,特别是通过 |
| 202 | your purpose statement. | 你的目的陈述。 |
| 203 | And you guys can fill in the blanks there. | 你们可以填空的 |
| 204 | So start with the who, end with the why, | 所以,从谁开始,结束的原因, |
| 205 | and validate it with that. | 用这个来验证 |
| 206 | I look forward to serving the world together. | 我期待着共同为世界服务。 |
| 207 | Thank you. | 谢谢 |
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