【双语音+文稿】（认知提升）没人谈论过的真相：你不应该把孩子
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| 0:07 | Some people regret getting tattoos, others regret getting married, but no one's allowed to say they regret having children, not publicly, not without being torn apart. | 有些人后悔得到纹身,其他人后悔结婚,但不允许任何人说自己后悔生孩子,不能公开,不能不被撕裂. |
| 0:18 | But they exist, quietly, anonymously, sometimes in tears after bedtime stories. | 但它们存在,悄悄的,匿名的,有时在睡前故事后流泪. |
| 0:25 | Mothers who love their kids but wish they'd never been born. | 那些爱孩子但希望自己从未出生的母亲. |
| 0:29 | Fathers who feel trapped in a life they didn't choose, only inherited. | 父亲感到被困在他们没有选择的生活中,只有继承. |
| 0:35 | And here's the truth. | 则此真言. |
| 0:37 | Many people don't have children because they want to. | 许多人没有孩子,因为他们想要. |
| 0:40 | They have them because they never realized they had a choice. | 他们拥有他们是因为他们从未意识到他们有选择。 |
| 0:44 | We live in a world where parenthood is seen as the climax of a human life. | 我们生活在一个父母身份被视为人类生活的高潮的世界。 |
| 0:49 | The supposed real purpose. | 所谓的真正目的。 |
| 0:52 | A life without children is treated like a puzzle with a missing piece. | 没有孩子的生活被当做一个拼图一样对待。 |
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| 1 | Some people regret getting tattoos, others regret getting married, but no one's allowed to say they regret having children, not publicly, not without being torn apart. | 有些人后悔得到纹身,其他人后悔结婚,但不允许任何人说自己后悔生孩子,不能公开,不能不被撕裂. |
| 2 | But they exist, quietly, anonymously, sometimes in tears after bedtime stories. | 但它们存在,悄悄的,匿名的,有时在睡前故事后流泪. |
| 3 | Mothers who love their kids but wish they'd never been born. | 那些爱孩子但希望自己从未出生的母亲. |
| 4 | Fathers who feel trapped in a life they didn't choose, only inherited. | 父亲感到被困在他们没有选择的生活中,只有继承. |
| 5 | And here's the truth. | 则此真言. |
| 6 | Many people don't have children because they want to. | 许多人没有孩子,因为他们想要. |
| 7 | They have them because they never realized they had a choice. | 他们拥有他们是因为他们从未意识到他们有选择。 |
| 8 | We live in a world where parenthood is seen as the climax of a human life. | 我们生活在一个父母身份被视为人类生活的高潮的世界。 |
| 9 | The supposed real purpose. | 所谓的真正目的。 |
| 10 | A life without children is treated like a puzzle with a missing piece. | 没有孩子的生活被当做一个拼图一样对待。 |
| 11 | It starts young. | 它开始年轻。 |
| 12 | Dolls, playkitchens, cartoons where everyone grows up and becomes a mom or a dad. | 玩偶,玩偶,卡通 在那里每个人都长大 成为一个妈妈或爸爸。 |
| 13 | Later come the family dinners, the jokes about biological clocks, the, so when's the baby coming? | 后来,家庭晚餐来了, 关于生物钟的笑话, 婴儿什么时候来? |
| 14 | Interrogations. | 问讯. |
| 15 | No one asks, do you even want this? | 没有人问,你甚至想要这个? |
| 16 | They assume the answer. | 他们假设答案。 |
| 17 | And so we repeat the script. | 所以我们重复剧本。 |
| 18 | But this video isn't here to attack parents. | 但这个视频不是用来攻击父母的 |
| 19 | It's not even about hating kids. | 这甚至不是关于恨孩子。 |
| 20 | It's about truth, the kind we bury under cliches, under cute baby photos and matching outfits. | 这是关于真相,那种我们埋葬 在陈词滥调, 可爱的婴儿照片和匹配的服装。 |
| 21 | Because if we dig deep enough, past the filters and the family portraits, we find something most people are afraid to say out loud. | 因为如果我们挖得足够深, 通过过滤器和家族肖像, 我们发现的东西 大多数人害怕大声说出来。 |
| 22 | Having children is the most irreversible decision you will ever make. | 生孩子是你有史以来最不可逆转的决定 |
| 23 | And you were probably never told the whole story. | 你可能从来没有讲过整个故事。 |
| 24 | Not the exhaustion, not the loss of self, not the cost. | 不是疲惫,不是失去自我,也不是代价。 |
| 25 | Emotional, financial, existential. | 情感 财务 存在 |
| 26 | Not the fact that once you say yes, you never get to take it back. | 不是说一旦你答应了 你就永远不能收回 |
| 27 | In the next chapters, we'll go beneath the surface. | 在接下来的章节中,我们将在水面下游. |
| 28 | We'll talk about the lies we were sold, about love, legacy, fulfillment. | 我们要谈谈我们被卖的谎言 爱情 遗产 成就 |
| 29 | We'll talk about the parents who quietly wished they had stayed child free. | 我们来谈谈那些 悄悄地希望自己保持孩子自由的父母 |
| 30 | We'll talk about what it really means to bring a child into this collapsing world. | 我们来谈谈把一个孩子带进这个崩溃的世界的真正意义。 |
| 31 | And most importantly, we'll talk about why choosing not to have children is not selfish, | 最重要的是,我们来谈谈为什么选择不生孩子是不自私的 |
| 32 | but might actually be the most ethical, conscious decision anyone can make today. | 但实际上可能是今天 任何人都能做出最合乎道德,最有意识的决定 |
| 33 | No sugarcoating, no sanctimony, just truth, the kind no one wants to hear. | 没有糖涂,没有圣洁,只是真理,那种没人想听到的. |
| 34 | No one tells a child that having children might ruin their life, | 没有人告诉一个孩子 有孩子可能会毁了他们的生活, |
| 35 | but they will give them a baby doll and say, practice being a good parent. | 但他们将给他们一个娃娃,并说:你当一个好父母。 |
| 36 | By the time you're 10, you've seen a hundred movies where becoming a parent is the happy ending. | 到10岁时,你已经看过一百部电影,其中成为父母是幸福的结局. |
| 37 | You've heard your own mother sigh. | 你听到自己母亲的叹息了 |
| 38 | You'll understand when you have your own kids. | 你有自己的孩子就会明白的 |
| 39 | You've watched strangers praise pregnant women like saints. | 你看着陌生人赞美孕妇像圣人 |
| 40 | Parenthood is not presented as a decision. | 养育子女不作为决定。 |
| 41 | It's a destiny. | 以是因缘. |
| 42 | But here's the quiet violence of it. | 但这里是它安静的暴力。 |
| 43 | If you don't want children, people assume there's something broken in you. | 如果你不想要孩子,人们会认为你身上有破碎的东西. |
| 44 | Society doesn't invite you to become a parent. | 社会不会邀请你成为父母 |
| 45 | It demands it. | 这需要它。 |
| 46 | It wraps the demand in poetry, religion, and Instagram captions. | 它包罗了诗歌,宗教和Instagram字幕的需求. |
| 47 | You'll never know true love until you're a parent. | 你永远不会知道真爱 直到你成为父母。 |
| 48 | Having children gives life meaning. | 有了孩子就意味着生命 |
| 49 | Family is everything. | 家庭是一切事物. |
| 50 | These are not harmless phrases. | 这些话不是无害的 |
| 51 | They are scripts, repeated so often we forget to ask who wrote them, | 他们都是剧本 我们经常忘记问是谁写的 |
| 52 | and whether they serve us or control us. | 无论他们为我们服务还是控制我们 |
| 53 | Philosopher and sociologist Orna Donath interviewed dozens of women who became mothers | 哲学家和社会学家Orna Donath采访了数十名成为母亲的妇女。 |
| 54 | and quietly regretted it. | 悄悄地后悔了起来 |
| 55 | In her book, Regretting Motherhood, she writes, | 她写道: |
| 56 | Motherhood must be holy. | 母必为圣. |
| 57 | Fatherhood must be proud. | 父德必荣. |
| 58 | We don't let parents say they're drowning. | 不令父母说溺. |
| 59 | We don't let them say they feel erased. | 我们不能让他们说他们觉得被抹去了 |
| 60 | We shame them into silence. | 我们让他们蒙羞而沉默。 |
| 61 | But what if we told the truth before the child is born, instead of after? | 但是,如果我们在孩子出生之前,而不是出生之后说出真相呢? |
| 62 | What if we asked, clearly, do you want a child? | 如果我们问,显然, 你想要一个孩子? |
| 63 | Or do you want purpose? | 还是你想要目的? |
| 64 | Do you want to raise someone? | 你想养人吗? |
| 65 | Or do you want to be needed? | 还是你想被需要? |
| 66 | Are you choosing parenthood? | 你是在选择做父母吗? |
| 67 | Or just avoiding loneliness, guilt, or the fear of missing out? | 或者只是避免孤独 内疚 或者害怕失踪? |
| 68 | We don't talk about the social condi- | 我们不谈社交圈... |
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