要教女孩勇敢而非完美｜养女儿必看
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| 时间 | 英文 | 中文 |
|---|---|---|
| 0:00 | Most girls are taught to avoid risk and failure. | 大多数女孩都学会避免风险和失败。 |
| 0:03 | They're taught to smile pretty, play it safe, get all A's. | 他们学会了微笑漂亮 安全地演奏 得到所有A |
| 0:08 | Boys, on the other hand, are taught to play rough, swing high, | 而男孩们则被教导 玩粗鲁,挥舞高, |
| 0:12 | crawl to the top of the monkey bars and then just jump off head first. | 爬到猴子栏杆的顶端 然后先跳下头 |
| 0:18 | In other words, we're raising our girls to be perfect | 换句话说,我们要把女儿养成完美 |
| 0:22 | and we're raising our boys to be brave. | 我们培养我们的孩子勇敢。 |
| 0:26 | In the 1980s, psychologist Carol Dweck | 1980年代,心理学家卡罗尔·德韦克 |
| 0:30 | looked at how bright fifth graders handled an assignment that was too difficult for them. | 看看五年级的聪明人 如何处理对他们来说太难的任务 |
| 0:35 | She found that bright girls were quick to give up. | 她发现聪明的女孩 很快放弃。 |
| 0:39 | The higher the IQ, the more likely they were to give up. | 智商越高,他们就越可能放弃. |
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| 序号 | 英文 | 中文 |
|---|---|---|
| 1 | Most girls are taught to avoid risk and failure. | 大多数女孩都学会避免风险和失败。 |
| 2 | They're taught to smile pretty, play it safe, get all A's. | 他们学会了微笑漂亮 安全地演奏 得到所有A |
| 3 | Boys, on the other hand, are taught to play rough, swing high, | 而男孩们则被教导 玩粗鲁,挥舞高, |
| 4 | crawl to the top of the monkey bars and then just jump off head first. | 爬到猴子栏杆的顶端 然后先跳下头 |
| 5 | In other words, we're raising our girls to be perfect | 换句话说,我们要把女儿养成完美 |
| 6 | and we're raising our boys to be brave. | 我们培养我们的孩子勇敢。 |
| 7 | In the 1980s, psychologist Carol Dweck | 1980年代,心理学家卡罗尔·德韦克 |
| 8 | looked at how bright fifth graders handled an assignment that was too difficult for them. | 看看五年级的聪明人 如何处理对他们来说太难的任务 |
| 9 | She found that bright girls were quick to give up. | 她发现聪明的女孩 很快放弃。 |
| 10 | The higher the IQ, the more likely they were to give up. | 智商越高,他们就越可能放弃. |
| 11 | Bright boys, on the other hand, found the difficult material to be a challenge. | 而聪明的男孩们则发现困难的材料是一个挑战. |
| 12 | They found it energizing. | 他们发现它令人兴奋 |
| 13 | They were more likely to redouble their efforts. | 它们更有可能加倍努力。 |
| 14 | What's going on? | 这是怎么回事? |
| 15 | Well, at the fifth grade level, girls routinely outperform boys in every subject, | 在五年级,女生的成绩通常比男生好 |
| 16 | including math and science. | 包括数学和科学。 |
| 17 | So it's not a question of ability. | 所以这不是能力的问题。 |
| 18 | The difference is in how boys and girls approach a challenge. | 区别在于男孩和女孩如何应对挑战。 |
| 19 | And it doesn't just end in fifth grade. | 而且它不只是结束 在五年级。 |
| 20 | An HP report found that men will apply for a job if they meet only 60% of the qualifications. | 一份HP报告发现,男子只要符合60%的资格,就会申请工作。 |
| 21 | But women? | 但是女人吗? |
| 22 | Women will apply only if they meet 100% of the qualifications. | 妇女只有在符合100%的资历的情况下才能申请。 |
| 23 | This study is usually invoked as evidence that, | 这项研究通常被援引为证据: |
| 24 | well, women need a little more confidence. | 女人需要一点信心 |
| 25 | But I think it's evidence that women have been socialized to aspire to perfection | 但我认为有证据表明 女人已经社交 渴望完美 |
| 26 | and they're overly cautious. | 他们太谨慎了 |
| 27 | And so those 600,000 jobs that are open right now in computing and tech, | 所以现在开放的60万份 计算机和技术工作 |
| 28 | women are being left behind if they were socialized to be brave | 女人如果被社会化为勇敢 就会被抛弃 |
| 29 | instead of socialized to be perfect. | 而不是社会化的完美。 |
| 30 | So in 2012, I started a company to teach girls to code. | 因此在2012年,我创办了一家公司, 教女孩如何编码。 |
| 31 | We immediately see in our program our girls fear of not getting it right, | 我们马上在节目中看到 我们的姑娘们害怕不正确 |
| 32 | of not being perfect. | 没有完美。 |
| 33 | During the first week when the girls are learning how to code, | 在女孩们学习密码的第一周, |
| 34 | a student will call her over and she'll say, | 一个学生会打电话给她 她会说, |
| 35 | I don't know what code to write. | 我不知道该写什么代码 |
| 36 | The teacher will look at her screen and she'll see a blank text editor. | 老师会看着她的屏幕,看到一个空白的文本编辑器. |
| 37 | She didn't know any better. | 她不知道有什么比这更好的。 |
| 38 | She'll think that her students spent the past 20 minutes just staring at the screen. | 她会认为她的学生 过去20分钟只盯着屏幕。 |
| 39 | But if she presses undo a few times, | 但是,如果她压了几次, |
| 40 | she'll see that her student wrote code and then deleted it. | 她会看到她的学生写了代码然后删除. |
| 41 | She tried, she came close, but she didn't get it exactly right. | 她尝试了,她走近了, 但她没有完全正确。 |
| 42 | Instead of showing the progress that she made, she rather show nothing at all. | 她没有展示她取得的进展,反而一无所获。 |
| 43 | Perfection or bust. | 完美或失败。 |
| 44 | We have to begin to undo the socialization of perfection, | 我们必须开始取消完美社会化 |
| 45 | but we got to combine it with building a sisterhood | 但是我们必须把它和建立姐妹关系结合起来 |
| 46 | that lets girls know that they are not alone. | 让女孩知道她们不是孤独的 |
| 47 | Because trying harder is not going to fix a broken system. | 因为更加努力是无法修复一个破碎的系统。 |
| 48 | I can't tell you how many women tell me I'm afraid to raise my hand. | 我不能告诉你有多少女人说我不敢举手 |
| 49 | I'm afraid to ask a question. | 不敢问. |
| 50 | Because I don't want to be the only one who doesn't understand. | 因为我不想成为唯一不明白的人 |
| 51 | The only one who's struggling. | 唯一一个在挣扎的人 |
| 52 | We have to socialize our girls to be comfortable with imperfection | 我们必须让女孩们适应不完美 |
| 53 | and we got to do it now. | 我们必须现在就做 |
| 54 | We cannot wait for them to learn how to be brave like I did. | 我们不能等待他们学会如何像我一样勇敢。 |
| 55 | We have to teach them to be brave in schools and early in their careers | 我们要教他们在学校里勇敢 早点做事业 |
| 56 | when it has the most potential to impact their lives and the lives of others. | 当它最有可能 影响他们和他人的生活。 |
| 57 | And we have to show them that they will be loved and accepted | 我们必须让他们知道,他们会得到爱和接受 |
| 58 | not for being perfect, but for being courageous. | 不是因为完美 而是因为勇敢 |
| 59 | And so I need each of you to tell every young woman you know | 所以我需要你们每一个人 告诉每一个你认识的年轻女人 |
| 60 | to be comfortable with imperfection. | 对不完美感到舒服 |
| 61 | Because when we teach girls to be imperfect | 因为当我们教女孩不完美 |
| 62 | and we help them leverage it, we will build a movement of young women who are brave | 我们帮助他们利用它, 我们将建立一个运动 年轻女性是勇敢的 |
| 63 | and who will build a better world for themselves and for each and every one of us. | 他们将为自己和我们每一个人建立一个更美好的世界。 |
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