【地道表达】闲聊是不是很虚伪？他在亚洲公司上过班才明白
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| P1 | 【地道表达】闲聊是不是很虚伪？他在亚洲公司上过班才明白 双语 | 10:54 |
| P2 | 【地道表达】闲聊是不是很虚伪？他在亚洲公司上过班才明白 英文 | 10:54 |
| P3 | 【地道表达】闲聊是不是很虚伪？他在亚洲公司上过班才明白 原声 | 10:54 |
P1 · 【地道表达】闲聊是不是很虚伪？他在亚洲公司上过班才明白 p01 双语字幕版 (P1)
字幕摘录
| 时间 | 英文 | 中文 |
|---|---|---|
| 0:00 | If you're learning English and you suck at small talk, you're not alone. | 如果你在学英语,在小谈上很烂,你并不孤单. |
| 0:05 | Today, I want to help you improve your English small talk, | 今天,我想帮助你 改善你的英语小说, |
| 0:08 | so you can talk to strangers without feeling nervous or awkward. | 这样你就可以和陌生人说话 而不感到紧张或尴尬。 |
| 0:14 | Firstly, we're going to learn what is the point of small talk. | 首先,我们要了解小说的意义。 |
| 0:18 | After that, how to start a conversation and keep it going. | 之后,如何开始对话,继续前进. |
| 0:22 | Then some common small talk mistakes. | 然后,一些常见的小 谈话错误。 |
| 0:24 | And finally, how to leave without seeming rude. | 最后,如何离开 没有看起来粗鲁。 |
| 0:31 | First and foremost, most small talk conversations begin with, | 首先,大多数小谈话开始, |
| 0:36 | hey, how's it going? | 嘿,怎么样? |
| 0:37 | Or, how are you doing? | 你好吗? |
展开字幕全文（199 条）
| 序号 | 英文 | 中文 |
|---|---|---|
| 1 | If you're learning English and you suck at small talk, you're not alone. | 如果你在学英语,在小谈上很烂,你并不孤单. |
| 2 | Today, I want to help you improve your English small talk, | 今天,我想帮助你 改善你的英语小说, |
| 3 | so you can talk to strangers without feeling nervous or awkward. | 这样你就可以和陌生人说话 而不感到紧张或尴尬。 |
| 4 | Firstly, we're going to learn what is the point of small talk. | 首先,我们要了解小说的意义。 |
| 5 | After that, how to start a conversation and keep it going. | 之后,如何开始对话,继续前进. |
| 6 | Then some common small talk mistakes. | 然后,一些常见的小 谈话错误。 |
| 7 | And finally, how to leave without seeming rude. | 最后,如何离开 没有看起来粗鲁。 |
| 8 | First and foremost, most small talk conversations begin with, | 首先,大多数小谈话开始, |
| 9 | hey, how's it going? | 嘿,怎么样? |
| 10 | Or, how are you doing? | 你好吗? |
| 11 | And the answer is usually, | 答案通常是, |
| 12 | I'm good, how are you? | 我很好,你好吗? |
| 13 | Not bad. | 不错 |
| 14 | Even if you're feeling shh. | 即使你觉得嘘。 |
| 15 | We don't mention our problems at this stage, | 现阶段我们不提问题 |
| 16 | especially with someone that we have just met. | 特别是我们刚认识的人 |
| 17 | After my last small talk video, a lot of people ask me, | 在我最后的一段谈话视频之后,很多人问我, |
| 18 | is small talk fake? | 小说是假的吗? |
| 19 | I want to tell you a little story. | 我想告诉你一个小故事。 |
| 20 | So I used to work at an Asian company | 我以前在一家亚洲公司工作 |
| 21 | and my colleagues hardly ever made small talk with me. | 我的同事也很少跟我谈这些 |
| 22 | They were much more direct and they got straight to work. | 他们更直接 直接工作。 |
| 23 | But after working together with them for a while, | 但和他们合作一段时间后 |
| 24 | I got to know them better. | 我得更了解他们 |
| 25 | And that made me realize it's just a cultural difference. | 这让我意识到这只是一种文化差异。 |
| 26 | You see, in England and in other English speaking countries, | 在英国和其他英语国家 |
| 27 | we like to get to know each other a little bit | 我们喜欢互相了解一下 |
| 28 | before getting down to business. | 在谈正事之前 |
| 29 | And once you understand that, | 一旦你明白这一点, |
| 30 | then small talk won't feel fake anymore. | 然后小话不再觉得是假的。 |
| 31 | Small talk isn't about sharing important information | 闲聊不是分享重要信息 |
| 32 | or your deepest feelings, | 或者你内心深处的感受 |
| 33 | but it is a necessary step | 但这是必要的一步 |
| 34 | to open up communication between humans. | 打开人类之间的沟通 |
| 35 | You're helping the other person feel comfortable enough | 你帮别人感到舒服 |
| 36 | to continue the conversation. | 继续谈话 |
| 37 | So the goal is comfort, not perfect English. | 所以目标是舒适,而不是完美的英语. |
| 38 | People aren't judging your English | 人家不看你的英语 |
| 39 | as much as you think they are. | 就像你想象的一样 |
| 40 | They're mainly asking themselves, | 他们主要问自己, |
| 41 | do I feel comfortable enough talking to this person? | 我和这个人说话够舒服吗? |
| 42 | A small grammar mistake is much less important | 小文法错误就不重要了 |
| 43 | than showing warmth, curiosity, and attention. | 而不是表现出温暖,好奇,和关注。 |
| 44 | But Jay, what if I don't know how to start a conversation? | 但杰伊,如果我不知道如何开始谈话呢? |
| 45 | So after saying, hi, how are you? | 说完,嗨,你好吗? |
| 46 | Or, how's it going? | 怎么样? |
| 47 | Where do you go? | 何处去. |
| 48 | Well, you can use what is already around you. | 你可以用你身边的东西 |
| 49 | So for example, if you're at a cafe, | 比如说 如果你在咖啡馆 |
| 50 | you can say, do you come here often? | 你可以说,你经常来这里吗? |
| 51 | What's your favorite thing on the menu? | 菜单上你最喜欢的东西是什么? |
| 52 | What would you recommend? | 你有什么建议? |
| 53 | Ah, nice, I'm gonna try that. | 啊,很好,我会尝试。 |
| 54 | Or if you're at a social event, | 或者如果你在社交场合 |
| 55 | you can say things like, so how do you know the host? | 你能说出这样的话 你怎么认识主持人的? |
| 56 | Do you know many people here? | 你认识很多人吗? |
| 57 | I love your outfit, by the way. | 顺便说一句,我喜欢你的衣服 |
| 58 | Where did you buy that? | 你在哪里买的? |
| 59 | Okay, so now we know how to start a conversation. | 好了 现在我们知道怎么开始谈话了 |
| 60 | What to say after that? | 之后该怎么说? |
| 61 | It's useful to think of small talk like a game of tennis. | 将小谈想成网球比赛是有用的. |
| 62 | In tennis, you hit the ball back and forth | 在网球,你击球前后 |
| 63 | to keep the rally going. | 保持集会。 |
| 64 | In small talk, we don't have a ball. | 在小说中,我们没有球. |
| 65 | But we do ask questions and then answer those questions. | 但我们确实提出问题,然后回答这些问题。 |
| 66 | And this keeps the conversation flowing. | 这让谈话畅通无阻 |
| 67 | Right, you've asked a question and someone is answering. | 是的,你问了一个问题 有人在回答 |
| 68 | How do you respond? | 你怎么回应? |
| 69 | The best small talkers do that by listening attentively, | 最好的小说家通过认真的倾听, |
| 70 | looking at the speaker, keeping eye contact, | 看着扬声器,保持眼睛接触, |
| 71 | and having open, relaxed body language. | 和开放,放松的身体语言。 |
| 72 | It's also easy to feel awkward with our hands. | 用手也很容易觉得尴尬 |
| 73 | Where do we put them? | 我们把他们放哪儿? |
| 74 | You can have your hands in front of you, behind you, | 你可以把手放在你面前,你身后, |
| 75 | on your hips, or in your pockets. | 在你的臀部,或在你的口袋。 |
| 76 | Try not to cross your arms. | 试着不要交叉你的手臂。 |
| 77 | This is closed body language. | 这是封闭的身体语言。 |
| 78 | A really useful tip is to grab a drink. | 一个真正有用的小费是拿杯酒。 |
| 79 | Have a bottle of water with you. | 与汝饮一瓶水. |
| 80 | This will help your hands feel less awkward | 这会帮助你的手 感觉不那么尴尬 |
| 81 | and it will help you feel less rushed to respond. | 这会帮助你 感觉不那么匆忙的反应。 |
| 82 | You can pause and take a sip before you speak. | 你可以在说话前停下来喝一口 |
| 83 | Beyond our body language is our facial expressions. | 我们的身体语言之外还有面部表情 |
| 84 | You smile and nod to encourage them to keep speaking. | 你笑着点头鼓励他们继续说话 |
| 85 | You can say things like, oh, nice. | 你可以说,哦,很好。 |
| 86 | All right, cool. | 好吧,冷静。 |
| 87 | Ah, me too. | 啊,我也一样。 |
| 88 | And then you take your turn to speak. | 然后轮到你说话。 |
| 89 | Let's look at a few examples. | 举几个例子。 |
| 90 | Hey, how's it going? | 嘿,怎么样? |
| 91 | Hey, it's going well, thanks. | 嘿,它进行得很好,谢谢。 |
| 92 | How are you doing? | 你好吗? |
| 93 | I'm good, thank you. | 我很好,谢谢。 |
| 94 | By the way, I'm Jay. | 对了,我是杰伊 |
| 95 | Nice to meet you, Jay. | 幸会,杰伊 |
| 96 | I'm Tim. | 我是提姆,你好吗? |
| 97 | Nice to meet you, Tim. | 很高兴见到你,蒂姆。 |
| 98 | I'm curious, how do you know the host? | 我很好奇 你怎么认识主持人的? |
| 99 | Oh, we know each other from work. | 我们从工作上认识 |
| 100 | She started working with her a year ago. | 她一年前开始和她一起工作 |
| 101 | How about you? | 你怎么样? |
| 102 | I met her at our tennis club. | 我在网球俱乐部见过她 |
| 103 | We played doubles together. | 我们一起玩双打 |
| 104 | Are you into any sports? | 你有兴趣参加运动吗? |
| 105 | Just like anything, we learn by doing. | 就像任何东西一样,我们通过做来学习。 |
| 106 | So the best way to get better at small talk | 所以,最好的办法 更好在小谈 |
| 107 | is to practice having conversations daily. | 就是每天练习谈话 |
| 108 | You will naturally get better at it. | 你自然会好起来的 |
| 109 | If you don't have anyone to practice with, | 如果你没有任何人可以练习, |
| 110 | you can chat with J.I. on Sprouts | 你可以和J. I. 在芽叶上聊天 |
| 111 | on any role-play situation. | 任何角色扮演情况 |
| 112 | He will ask you questions, | 他会问你问题, |
| 113 | keep the conversation going, | 继续谈话, |
| 114 | so you can get your daily English practice. | 这样你就可以每天练英语了 |
| 115 | Jay, what's the common small talk mistake? | 杰伊,什么是常见的小 谈话错误? |
| 116 | A lot of English learners don't know what to say. | 很多英语学习者不知道该说什么. |
| 117 | And because of that, you might give very short answers. | 因此,你可能会给出非常短的答案。 |
| 118 | Let's look at an example. | 举个例子 |
| 119 | So Lucy, what genre of books do you like reading? | 露西,你喜欢看什么书? |
| 120 | I like fiction. | 我喜欢小说 |
| 121 | Nice, me too. | 我也不错 |
| 122 | I usually read non-fiction, | 我通常读非虚构, |
| 123 | but recently I have been reading some fiction books. | 最近我读了一些小说 |
| 124 | I've been reading a book called | 我读过一本书 |
| 125 | Hitchhiker的银河指南. | |
| 126 | Have you read it? | 你读过吗? |
| 127 | No, I haven't. | 没有 |
| 128 | Did you notice the problem with Lucy's answers there? | 你有没有注意到露西的答案有问题? |
| 129 | They were too short. | 他们太短了。 |
| 130 | The problem with short answers | 短答的问题 |
| 131 | is that it gives less detail for the other person | 是它给对方提供的细节更少 |
| 132 | to ask you questions | 问你的问题 |
| 133 | and to keep the conversation going. | 继续谈话 |
| 134 | The solution to that is to share more. | 解决办法是分享更多的信息。 |
| 135 | Give more detail in your answers. | 更详其答. |
| 136 | Share your personality. | 分享你的个性 |
| 137 | And remember to read more. | 并记多读. |
| 138 | Share your answers. | 分享你的答案。 |
| 139 | Share your personality. | 分享你的个性 |
| 140 | And remember to ask questions back. | 并记回问. |
| 141 | When you share more, | 当你分享更多, |
| 142 | you can use what you said to spark your next question. | 你可以用你说的来点燃你的下一个问题 |
| 143 | Let's look at another example. | 再举个例子 |
| 144 | So Lucy, what genre of books do you like reading? | 露西,你喜欢看什么书? |
| 145 | I like fiction. | 我喜欢小说 |
| 146 | I'm really into mystery and crime novels, | 我很喜欢神秘和犯罪小说 |
| 147 | and I love to read them when I go on holiday. | 我喜欢去度假的时候读 |
| 148 | Are you into crime novels? | 你喜欢犯罪小说吗? |
| 149 | I don't tend to read crime fiction. | 我不会读犯罪小说 |
| 150 | I usually read non-fiction books, | 我通常会看非虚构的书 |
| 151 | but I'm curious. | 我有点好奇 |
| 152 | Have you got any recommendations for crime fiction books? | 你对犯罪小说有什么建议吗? |
| 153 | Yeah. | 对 |
| 154 | I just finished the book Thursday Murder Club by Richard Osman. | 我刚刚完成了理查德·奥斯曼的《周四谋杀俱乐部》一书 |
| 155 | I would highly recommend it. | 我非常建议你这样做。 |
| 156 | Nice. | 不错 |
| 157 | I think I'll check it out. | 我想我会检查出来。 |
| 158 | What's it about? | 是关于什么的? |
| 159 | What a game of tennis that was. | 真是一场网球赛 |
| 160 | Why did that conversation between Lucy and I flow so smoothly? | 为什么露西和我的对话这么顺利? |
| 161 | Simple. | 简单 |
| 162 | We asked questions, | 我们问了一些问题 |
| 163 | and then we gave details in our answers. | 然后我们给出了详细答案。 |
| 164 | In Smalltalk, if you want to be interesting, | 在Smalltalk, 如果你想成为有趣的, |
| 165 | be interested. | 有兴趣吗? |
| 166 | But Jay, how do we lead without being ruled? | 但杰伊,我们如何领导 没有被统治? |
| 167 | If the conversation is going well, | 如果谈话进展顺利 |
| 168 | and you share things in common, | 你们有共同之处, |
| 169 | then you can go from small talk to deep talk. | 然后你可以从小话到深话 |
| 170 | And I'll share more about that in a future video. | 我会在未来的视频中分享更多关于这一点。 |
| 171 | But what if the conversation is a little dry? | 但是如果谈话有点干燥呢? |
| 172 | Or what if it's come to its natural end? | 或者如果它到了自然的尽头呢? |
| 173 | How do you leave without seeming rude? | 你怎么离开,没有礼貌? |
| 174 | Well, the solution is some simple, simple questions. | 问题很简单 |
| 175 | The solution is some simple exit lines. | 解决办法是一些简单的出口线。 |
| 176 | It was really nice chatting with you, Lucy. | 很高兴和你聊天 露西 |
| 177 | I'm going to grab another drink now, but I'll see you around. | 我要再喝一杯,但回头见 |
| 178 | I'm just going to say hi to a few more people before I leave, | 离开之前我要跟几个人打个招呼 |
| 179 | but it was nice to chat. | 但很高兴能和你聊天 |
| 180 | I'm going to get back to my friends now, but it was nice chatting. | 我现在要回去和朋友谈谈了 但聊得很开心 |
| 181 | Now let's recap what we learned in this video | 现在让我们回顾一下我们在这段录像里学到的 |
| 182 | and stick in here. | 并坚持在这里。 |
| 183 | Firstly, we learned that small talk isn't fake. | 首先,我们得知小说不是假话。 |
| 184 | It's just a part of our culture. | 这只是我们文化的一部分。 |
| 185 | It helps us create social ease | 帮助我们创造社会安逸 |
| 186 | and build positive relationships with each other. | 并相互建立积极的关系。 |
| 187 | Secondly, we learned that to start a conversation, | 第二,我们学会了开始谈话 |
| 188 | we can simply use the environment and the context around us. | 我们只需利用周围的环境和背景 |
| 189 | Thirdly, we learned that small talk is like a game of tennis. | 第三,我们了解到,小谈就像网球比赛。 |
| 190 | We ask questions and then we respond. | 我们问问题,然后我们回答。 |
| 191 | We also learned the importance of open body language, | 我们还了解到开放身体语言的重要性, |
| 192 | smiling and positive facial expressions. | 微笑和正面的面部表情。 |
| 193 | We learned that giving very short answers | 我们了解到,给出非常短的答案 |
| 194 | doesn't give enough information for the other person | 不给对方足够的信息 |
| 195 | to ask us questions and keep the conversation going. | 问我们问题 继续谈话 |
| 196 | And finally, we learned how to end a conversation | 最后,我们学会了如何结束谈话 |
| 197 | using simple exit lines. | 使用简单的退出线。 |
| 198 | So guys, it was lovely chatting with you. | 所以,伙计们,这是可爱的谈话 与你们。 |
| 199 | I'm just going to grab a drink, so I'll catch you in a bit. | 我去拿杯酒来 一会儿就来 |
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P2 · 【地道表达】闲聊是不是很虚伪？他在亚洲公司上过班才明白 p02 英文字幕版 (P2)
字幕摘录
| 时间 | 英文 | 中文 |
|---|---|---|
| 0:00 | If you're learning English and you suck at small talk, you're not alone. | 如果你在学英语,在小谈上很烂,你并不孤单. |
| 0:05 | Today, I want to help you improve your English small talk, | 今天,我想帮助你 改善你的英语小说, |
| 0:08 | so you can talk to strangers without feeling nervous or awkward. | 这样你就可以和陌生人说话 而不感到紧张或尴尬。 |
| 0:14 | Firstly, we're going to learn what is the point of small talk. | 首先,我们要了解小说的意义。 |
| 0:18 | After that, how to start a conversation and keep it going. | 之后,如何开始对话,继续前进. |
| 0:22 | Then some common small talk mistakes. | 然后,一些常见的小 谈话错误。 |
| 0:24 | And finally, how to leave without seeming rude. | 最后,如何离开 没有看起来粗鲁。 |
| 0:31 | First and foremost, most small talk conversations begin with, | 首先,大多数小谈话开始, |
| 0:36 | hey, how's it going? | 嘿,怎么样? |
| 0:37 | Or, how are you doing? | 你好吗? |
展开字幕全文（199 条）
| 序号 | 英文 | 中文 |
|---|---|---|
| 1 | If you're learning English and you suck at small talk, you're not alone. | 如果你在学英语,在小谈上很烂,你并不孤单. |
| 2 | Today, I want to help you improve your English small talk, | 今天,我想帮助你 改善你的英语小说, |
| 3 | so you can talk to strangers without feeling nervous or awkward. | 这样你就可以和陌生人说话 而不感到紧张或尴尬。 |
| 4 | Firstly, we're going to learn what is the point of small talk. | 首先,我们要了解小说的意义。 |
| 5 | After that, how to start a conversation and keep it going. | 之后,如何开始对话,继续前进. |
| 6 | Then some common small talk mistakes. | 然后,一些常见的小 谈话错误。 |
| 7 | And finally, how to leave without seeming rude. | 最后,如何离开 没有看起来粗鲁。 |
| 8 | First and foremost, most small talk conversations begin with, | 首先,大多数小谈话开始, |
| 9 | hey, how's it going? | 嘿,怎么样? |
| 10 | Or, how are you doing? | 你好吗? |
| 11 | And the answer is usually, | 答案通常是, |
| 12 | I'm good, how are you? | 我很好,你好吗? |
| 13 | Not bad. | 不错 |
| 14 | Even if you're feeling shh. | 即使你觉得嘘。 |
| 15 | We don't mention our problems at this stage, | 现阶段我们不提问题 |
| 16 | especially with someone that we have just met. | 特别是我们刚认识的人 |
| 17 | After my last small talk video, a lot of people ask me, | 在我最后的一段谈话视频之后,很多人问我, |
| 18 | is small talk fake? | 小说是假的吗? |
| 19 | I want to tell you a little story. | 我想告诉你一个小故事。 |
| 20 | So I used to work at an Asian company | 我以前在一家亚洲公司工作 |
| 21 | and my colleagues hardly ever made small talk with me. | 我的同事也很少跟我谈这些 |
| 22 | They were much more direct and they got straight to work. | 他们更直接 直接工作。 |
| 23 | But after working together with them for a while, | 但和他们合作一段时间后 |
| 24 | I got to know them better. | 我得更了解他们 |
| 25 | And that made me realize it's just a cultural difference. | 这让我意识到这只是一种文化差异。 |
| 26 | You see, in England and in other English speaking countries, | 在英国和其他英语国家 |
| 27 | we like to get to know each other a little bit | 我们喜欢互相了解一下 |
| 28 | before getting down to business. | 在谈正事之前 |
| 29 | And once you understand that, | 一旦你明白这一点, |
| 30 | then small talk won't feel fake anymore. | 然后小话不再觉得是假的。 |
| 31 | Small talk isn't about sharing important information | 闲聊不是分享重要信息 |
| 32 | or your deepest feelings, | 或者你内心深处的感受 |
| 33 | but it is a necessary step | 但这是必要的一步 |
| 34 | to open up communication between humans. | 打开人类之间的沟通 |
| 35 | You're helping the other person feel comfortable enough | 你帮别人感到舒服 |
| 36 | to continue the conversation. | 继续谈话 |
| 37 | So the goal is comfort, not perfect English. | 所以目标是舒适,而不是完美的英语. |
| 38 | People aren't judging your English | 人家不看你的英语 |
| 39 | as much as you think they are. | 就像你想象的一样 |
| 40 | They're mainly asking themselves, | 他们主要问自己, |
| 41 | do I feel comfortable enough talking to this person? | 我和这个人说话够舒服吗? |
| 42 | A small grammar mistake is much less important | 小文法错误就不重要了 |
| 43 | than showing warmth, curiosity, and attention. | 而不是表现出温暖,好奇,和关注。 |
| 44 | But Jay, what if I don't know how to start a conversation? | 但杰伊,如果我不知道如何开始谈话呢? |
| 45 | So after saying, hi, how are you? | 说完,嗨,你好吗? |
| 46 | Or, how's it going? | 怎么样? |
| 47 | Where do you go? | 何处去. |
| 48 | Well, you can use what is already around you. | 你可以用你身边的东西 |
| 49 | So for example, if you're at a cafe, | 比如说 如果你在咖啡馆 |
| 50 | you can say, do you come here often? | 你可以说,你经常来这里吗? |
| 51 | What's your favorite thing on the menu? | 菜单上你最喜欢的东西是什么? |
| 52 | What would you recommend? | 你有什么建议? |
| 53 | Ah, nice, I'm gonna try that. | 啊,很好,我会尝试。 |
| 54 | Or if you're at a social event, | 或者如果你在社交场合 |
| 55 | you can say things like, so how do you know the host? | 你能说出这样的话 你怎么认识主持人的? |
| 56 | Do you know many people here? | 你认识很多人吗? |
| 57 | I love your outfit, by the way. | 顺便说一句,我喜欢你的衣服 |
| 58 | Where did you buy that? | 你在哪里买的? |
| 59 | Okay, so now we know how to start a conversation. | 好了 现在我们知道怎么开始谈话了 |
| 60 | What to say after that? | 之后该怎么说? |
| 61 | It's useful to think of small talk like a game of tennis. | 将小谈想成网球比赛是有用的. |
| 62 | In tennis, you hit the ball back and forth | 在网球,你击球前后 |
| 63 | to keep the rally going. | 保持集会。 |
| 64 | In small talk, we don't have a ball. | 在小说中,我们没有球. |
| 65 | But we do ask questions and then answer those questions. | 但我们确实提出问题,然后回答这些问题。 |
| 66 | And this keeps the conversation flowing. | 这让谈话畅通无阻 |
| 67 | Right, you've asked a question and someone is answering. | 是的,你问了一个问题 有人在回答 |
| 68 | How do you respond? | 你怎么回应? |
| 69 | The best small talkers do that by listening attentively, | 最好的小说家通过认真的倾听, |
| 70 | looking at the speaker, keeping eye contact, | 看着扬声器,保持眼睛接触, |
| 71 | and having open, relaxed body language. | 和开放,放松的身体语言。 |
| 72 | It's also easy to feel awkward with our hands. | 用手也很容易觉得尴尬 |
| 73 | Where do we put them? | 我们把他们放哪儿? |
| 74 | You can have your hands in front of you, behind you, | 你可以把手放在你面前,你身后, |
| 75 | on your hips, or in your pockets. | 在你的臀部,或在你的口袋。 |
| 76 | Try not to cross your arms. | 试着不要交叉你的手臂。 |
| 77 | This is closed body language. | 这是封闭的身体语言。 |
| 78 | A really useful tip is to grab a drink. | 一个真正有用的小费是拿杯酒。 |
| 79 | Have a bottle of water with you. | 与汝饮一瓶水. |
| 80 | This will help your hands feel less awkward | 这会帮助你的手 感觉不那么尴尬 |
| 81 | and it will help you feel less rushed to respond. | 这会帮助你 感觉不那么匆忙的反应。 |
| 82 | You can pause and take a sip before you speak. | 你可以在说话前停下来喝一口 |
| 83 | Beyond our body language is our facial expressions. | 我们的身体语言之外还有面部表情 |
| 84 | You smile and nod to encourage them to keep speaking. | 你笑着点头鼓励他们继续说话 |
| 85 | You can say things like, oh, nice. | 你可以说,哦,很好。 |
| 86 | All right, cool. | 好吧,冷静。 |
| 87 | Ah, me too. | 啊,我也一样。 |
| 88 | And then you take your turn to speak. | 然后轮到你说话。 |
| 89 | Let's look at a few examples. | 举几个例子。 |
| 90 | Hey, how's it going? | 嘿,怎么样? |
| 91 | Hey, it's going well, thanks. | 嘿,它进行得很好,谢谢。 |
| 92 | How are you doing? | 你好吗? |
| 93 | I'm good, thank you. | 我很好,谢谢。 |
| 94 | By the way, I'm Jay. | 对了,我是杰伊 |
| 95 | Nice to meet you, Jay. | 幸会,杰伊 |
| 96 | I'm Tim. | 我是提姆,你好吗? |
| 97 | Nice to meet you, Tim. | 很高兴见到你,蒂姆。 |
| 98 | I'm curious, how do you know the host? | 我很好奇 你怎么认识主持人的? |
| 99 | Oh, we know each other from work. | 我们从工作上认识 |
| 100 | She started working with her a year ago. | 她一年前开始和她一起工作 |
| 101 | How about you? | 你怎么样? |
| 102 | I met her at our tennis club. | 我在网球俱乐部见过她 |
| 103 | We played doubles together. | 我们一起玩双打 |
| 104 | Are you into any sports? | 你有兴趣参加运动吗? |
| 105 | Just like anything, we learn by doing. | 就像任何东西一样,我们通过做来学习。 |
| 106 | So the best way to get better at small talk | 所以,最好的办法 更好在小谈 |
| 107 | is to practice having conversations daily. | 就是每天练习谈话 |
| 108 | You will naturally get better at it. | 你自然会好起来的 |
| 109 | If you don't have anyone to practice with, | 如果你没有任何人可以练习, |
| 110 | you can chat with J.I. on Sprouts | 你可以和J. I. 在芽叶上聊天 |
| 111 | on any role-play situation. | 任何角色扮演情况 |
| 112 | He will ask you questions, | 他会问你问题, |
| 113 | keep the conversation going, | 继续谈话, |
| 114 | so you can get your daily English practice. | 这样你就可以每天练英语了 |
| 115 | Jay, what's the common small talk mistake? | 杰伊,什么是常见的小 谈话错误? |
| 116 | A lot of English learners don't know what to say. | 很多英语学习者不知道该说什么. |
| 117 | And because of that, you might give very short answers. | 因此,你可能会给出非常短的答案。 |
| 118 | Let's look at an example. | 举个例子 |
| 119 | So Lucy, what genre of books do you like reading? | 露西,你喜欢看什么书? |
| 120 | I like fiction. | 我喜欢小说 |
| 121 | Nice, me too. | 我也不错 |
| 122 | I usually read non-fiction, | 我通常读非虚构, |
| 123 | but recently I have been reading some fiction books. | 最近我读了一些小说 |
| 124 | I've been reading a book called | 我读过一本书 |
| 125 | Hitchhiker的银河指南. | |
| 126 | Have you read it? | 你读过吗? |
| 127 | No, I haven't. | 没有 |
| 128 | Did you notice the problem with Lucy's answers there? | 你有没有注意到露西的答案有问题? |
| 129 | They were too short. | 他们太短了。 |
| 130 | The problem with short answers | 短答的问题 |
| 131 | is that it gives less detail for the other person | 是它给对方提供的细节更少 |
| 132 | to ask you questions | 问你的问题 |
| 133 | and to keep the conversation going. | 继续谈话 |
| 134 | The solution to that is to share more. | 解决办法是分享更多的信息。 |
| 135 | Give more detail in your answers. | 更详其答. |
| 136 | Share your personality. | 分享你的个性 |
| 137 | And remember to read more. | 并记多读. |
| 138 | Share your answers. | 分享你的答案。 |
| 139 | Share your personality. | 分享你的个性 |
| 140 | And remember to ask questions back. | 并记回问. |
| 141 | When you share more, | 当你分享更多, |
| 142 | you can use what you said to spark your next question. | 你可以用你说的来点燃你的下一个问题 |
| 143 | Let's look at another example. | 再举个例子 |
| 144 | So Lucy, what genre of books do you like reading? | 露西,你喜欢看什么书? |
| 145 | I like fiction. | 我喜欢小说 |
| 146 | I'm really into mystery and crime novels, | 我很喜欢神秘和犯罪小说 |
| 147 | and I love to read them when I go on holiday. | 我喜欢去度假的时候读 |
| 148 | Are you into crime novels? | 你喜欢犯罪小说吗? |
| 149 | I don't tend to read crime fiction. | 我不会读犯罪小说 |
| 150 | I usually read non-fiction books, | 我通常会看非虚构的书 |
| 151 | but I'm curious. | 我有点好奇 |
| 152 | Have you got any recommendations for crime fiction books? | 你对犯罪小说有什么建议吗? |
| 153 | Yeah. | 对 |
| 154 | I just finished the book Thursday Murder Club by Richard Osman. | 我刚刚完成了理查德·奥斯曼的《周四谋杀俱乐部》一书 |
| 155 | I would highly recommend it. | 我非常建议你这样做。 |
| 156 | Nice. | 不错 |
| 157 | I think I'll check it out. | 我想我会检查出来。 |
| 158 | What's it about? | 是关于什么的? |
| 159 | What a game of tennis that was. | 真是一场网球赛 |
| 160 | Why did that conversation between Lucy and I flow so smoothly? | 为什么露西和我的对话这么顺利? |
| 161 | Simple. | 简单 |
| 162 | We asked questions, | 我们问了一些问题 |
| 163 | and then we gave details in our answers. | 然后我们给出了详细答案。 |
| 164 | In Smalltalk, if you want to be interesting, | 在Smalltalk, 如果你想成为有趣的, |
| 165 | be interested. | 有兴趣吗? |
| 166 | But Jay, how do we lead without being ruled? | 但杰伊,我们如何领导 没有被统治? |
| 167 | If the conversation is going well, | 如果谈话进展顺利 |
| 168 | and you share things in common, | 你们有共同之处, |
| 169 | then you can go from small talk to deep talk. | 然后你可以从小话到深话 |
| 170 | And I'll share more about that in a future video. | 我会在未来的视频中分享更多关于这一点。 |
| 171 | But what if the conversation is a little dry? | 但是如果谈话有点干燥呢? |
| 172 | Or what if it's come to its natural end? | 或者如果它到了自然的尽头呢? |
| 173 | How do you leave without seeming rude? | 你怎么离开,没有礼貌? |
| 174 | Well, the solution is some simple, simple questions. | 问题很简单 |
| 175 | The solution is some simple exit lines. | 解决办法是一些简单的出口线。 |
| 176 | It was really nice chatting with you, Lucy. | 很高兴和你聊天 露西 |
| 177 | I'm going to grab another drink now, but I'll see you around. | 我要再喝一杯,但回头见 |
| 178 | I'm just going to say hi to a few more people before I leave, | 离开之前我要跟几个人打个招呼 |
| 179 | but it was nice to chat. | 但很高兴能和你聊天 |
| 180 | I'm going to get back to my friends now, but it was nice chatting. | 我现在要回去和朋友谈谈了 但聊得很开心 |
| 181 | Now let's recap what we learned in this video | 现在让我们回顾一下我们在这段录像里学到的 |
| 182 | and stick in here. | 并坚持在这里。 |
| 183 | Firstly, we learned that small talk isn't fake. | 首先,我们得知小说不是假话。 |
| 184 | It's just a part of our culture. | 这只是我们文化的一部分。 |
| 185 | It helps us create social ease | 帮助我们创造社会安逸 |
| 186 | and build positive relationships with each other. | 并相互建立积极的关系。 |
| 187 | Secondly, we learned that to start a conversation, | 第二,我们学会了开始谈话 |
| 188 | we can simply use the environment and the context around us. | 我们只需利用周围的环境和背景 |
| 189 | Thirdly, we learned that small talk is like a game of tennis. | 第三,我们了解到,小谈就像网球比赛。 |
| 190 | We ask questions and then we respond. | 我们问问题,然后我们回答。 |
| 191 | We also learned the importance of open body language, | 我们还了解到开放身体语言的重要性, |
| 192 | smiling and positive facial expressions. | 微笑和正面的面部表情。 |
| 193 | We learned that giving very short answers | 我们了解到,给出非常短的答案 |
| 194 | doesn't give enough information for the other person | 不给对方足够的信息 |
| 195 | to ask us questions and keep the conversation going. | 问我们问题 继续谈话 |
| 196 | And finally, we learned how to end a conversation | 最后,我们学会了如何结束谈话 |
| 197 | using simple exit lines. | 使用简单的退出线。 |
| 198 | So guys, it was lovely chatting with you. | 所以,伙计们,这是可爱的谈话 与你们。 |
| 199 | I'm just going to grab a drink, so I'll catch you in a bit. | 我去拿杯酒来 一会儿就来 |
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| 时间 | 英文 | 中文 |
|---|---|---|
| 0:00 | If you're learning English and you suck at small talk, you're not alone. | 如果你在学英语,在小谈上很烂,你并不孤单. |
| 0:05 | Today, I want to help you improve your English small talk, | 今天,我想帮助你 改善你的英语小说, |
| 0:08 | so you can talk to strangers without feeling nervous or awkward. | 这样你就可以和陌生人说话 而不感到紧张或尴尬。 |
| 0:14 | Firstly, we're going to learn what is the point of small talk. | 首先,我们要了解小说的意义。 |
| 0:18 | After that, how to start a conversation and keep it going. | 之后,如何开始对话,继续前进. |
| 0:22 | Then some common small talk mistakes. | 然后,一些常见的小 谈话错误。 |
| 0:24 | And finally, how to leave without seeming rude. | 最后,如何离开 没有看起来粗鲁。 |
| 0:31 | First and foremost, most small talk conversations begin with, | 首先,大多数小谈话开始, |
| 0:36 | hey, how's it going? | 嘿,怎么样? |
| 0:37 | Or, how are you doing? | 你好吗? |
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| 序号 | 英文 | 中文 |
|---|---|---|
| 1 | If you're learning English and you suck at small talk, you're not alone. | 如果你在学英语,在小谈上很烂,你并不孤单. |
| 2 | Today, I want to help you improve your English small talk, | 今天,我想帮助你 改善你的英语小说, |
| 3 | so you can talk to strangers without feeling nervous or awkward. | 这样你就可以和陌生人说话 而不感到紧张或尴尬。 |
| 4 | Firstly, we're going to learn what is the point of small talk. | 首先,我们要了解小说的意义。 |
| 5 | After that, how to start a conversation and keep it going. | 之后,如何开始对话,继续前进. |
| 6 | Then some common small talk mistakes. | 然后,一些常见的小 谈话错误。 |
| 7 | And finally, how to leave without seeming rude. | 最后,如何离开 没有看起来粗鲁。 |
| 8 | First and foremost, most small talk conversations begin with, | 首先,大多数小谈话开始, |
| 9 | hey, how's it going? | 嘿,怎么样? |
| 10 | Or, how are you doing? | 你好吗? |
| 11 | And the answer is usually, | 答案通常是, |
| 12 | I'm good, how are you? | 我很好,你好吗? |
| 13 | Not bad. | 不错 |
| 14 | Even if you're feeling shh. | 即使你觉得嘘。 |
| 15 | We don't mention our problems at this stage, | 现阶段我们不提问题 |
| 16 | especially with someone that we have just met. | 特别是我们刚认识的人 |
| 17 | After my last small talk video, a lot of people ask me, | 在我最后的一段谈话视频之后,很多人问我, |
| 18 | is small talk fake? | 小说是假的吗? |
| 19 | I want to tell you a little story. | 我想告诉你一个小故事。 |
| 20 | So I used to work at an Asian company | 我以前在一家亚洲公司工作 |
| 21 | and my colleagues hardly ever made small talk with me. | 我的同事也很少跟我谈这些 |
| 22 | They were much more direct and they got straight to work. | 他们更直接 直接工作。 |
| 23 | But after working together with them for a while, | 但和他们合作一段时间后 |
| 24 | I got to know them better. | 我得更了解他们 |
| 25 | And that made me realize it's just a cultural difference. | 这让我意识到这只是一种文化差异。 |
| 26 | You see, in England and in other English speaking countries, | 在英国和其他英语国家 |
| 27 | we like to get to know each other a little bit | 我们喜欢互相了解一下 |
| 28 | before getting down to business. | 在谈正事之前 |
| 29 | And once you understand that, | 一旦你明白这一点, |
| 30 | then small talk won't feel fake anymore. | 然后小话不再觉得是假的。 |
| 31 | Small talk isn't about sharing important information | 闲聊不是分享重要信息 |
| 32 | or your deepest feelings, | 或者你内心深处的感受 |
| 33 | but it is a necessary step | 但这是必要的一步 |
| 34 | to open up communication between humans. | 打开人类之间的沟通 |
| 35 | You're helping the other person feel comfortable enough | 你帮别人感到舒服 |
| 36 | to continue the conversation. | 继续谈话 |
| 37 | So the goal is comfort, not perfect English. | 所以目标是舒适,而不是完美的英语. |
| 38 | People aren't judging your English | 人家不看你的英语 |
| 39 | as much as you think they are. | 就像你想象的一样 |
| 40 | They're mainly asking themselves, | 他们主要问自己, |
| 41 | do I feel comfortable enough talking to this person? | 我和这个人说话够舒服吗? |
| 42 | A small grammar mistake is much less important | 小文法错误就不重要了 |
| 43 | than showing warmth, curiosity, and attention. | 而不是表现出温暖,好奇,和关注。 |
| 44 | But Jay, what if I don't know how to start a conversation? | 但杰伊,如果我不知道如何开始谈话呢? |
| 45 | So after saying, hi, how are you? | 说完,嗨,你好吗? |
| 46 | Or, how's it going? | 怎么样? |
| 47 | Where do you go? | 何处去. |
| 48 | Well, you can use what is already around you. | 你可以用你身边的东西 |
| 49 | So for example, if you're at a cafe, | 比如说 如果你在咖啡馆 |
| 50 | you can say, do you come here often? | 你可以说,你经常来这里吗? |
| 51 | What's your favorite thing on the menu? | 菜单上你最喜欢的东西是什么? |
| 52 | What would you recommend? | 你有什么建议? |
| 53 | Ah, nice, I'm gonna try that. | 啊,很好,我会尝试。 |
| 54 | Or if you're at a social event, | 或者如果你在社交场合 |
| 55 | you can say things like, so how do you know the host? | 你能说出这样的话 你怎么认识主持人的? |
| 56 | Do you know many people here? | 你认识很多人吗? |
| 57 | I love your outfit, by the way. | 顺便说一句,我喜欢你的衣服 |
| 58 | Where did you buy that? | 你在哪里买的? |
| 59 | Okay, so now we know how to start a conversation. | 好了 现在我们知道怎么开始谈话了 |
| 60 | What to say after that? | 之后该怎么说? |
| 61 | It's useful to think of small talk like a game of tennis. | 将小谈想成网球比赛是有用的. |
| 62 | In tennis, you hit the ball back and forth | 在网球,你击球前后 |
| 63 | to keep the rally going. | 保持集会。 |
| 64 | In small talk, we don't have a ball. | 在小说中,我们没有球. |
| 65 | But we do ask questions and then answer those questions. | 但我们确实提出问题,然后回答这些问题。 |
| 66 | And this keeps the conversation flowing. | 这让谈话畅通无阻 |
| 67 | Right, you've asked a question and someone is answering. | 是的,你问了一个问题 有人在回答 |
| 68 | How do you respond? | 你怎么回应? |
| 69 | The best small talkers do that by listening attentively, | 最好的小说家通过认真的倾听, |
| 70 | looking at the speaker, keeping eye contact, | 看着扬声器,保持眼睛接触, |
| 71 | and having open, relaxed body language. | 和开放,放松的身体语言。 |
| 72 | It's also easy to feel awkward with our hands. | 用手也很容易觉得尴尬 |
| 73 | Where do we put them? | 我们把他们放哪儿? |
| 74 | You can have your hands in front of you, behind you, | 你可以把手放在你面前,你身后, |
| 75 | on your hips, or in your pockets. | 在你的臀部,或在你的口袋。 |
| 76 | Try not to cross your arms. | 试着不要交叉你的手臂。 |
| 77 | This is closed body language. | 这是封闭的身体语言。 |
| 78 | A really useful tip is to grab a drink. | 一个真正有用的小费是拿杯酒。 |
| 79 | Have a bottle of water with you. | 与汝饮一瓶水. |
| 80 | This will help your hands feel less awkward | 这会帮助你的手 感觉不那么尴尬 |
| 81 | and it will help you feel less rushed to respond. | 这会帮助你 感觉不那么匆忙的反应。 |
| 82 | You can pause and take a sip before you speak. | 你可以在说话前停下来喝一口 |
| 83 | Beyond our body language is our facial expressions. | 我们的身体语言之外还有面部表情 |
| 84 | You smile and nod to encourage them to keep speaking. | 你笑着点头鼓励他们继续说话 |
| 85 | You can say things like, oh, nice. | 你可以说,哦,很好。 |
| 86 | Mm-hmm. | 对 |
| 87 | All right, cool. | 好吧,冷静。 |
| 88 | Ah, me too. | 啊,我也一样。 |
| 89 | And then you take your turn to speak. | 然后轮到你说话。 |
| 90 | Let's look at a few examples. | 举几个例子。 |
| 91 | Hey, how's it going? | 嘿,怎么样? |
| 92 | Hey, it's going well, thanks. | 嘿,它进行得很好,谢谢。 |
| 93 | How are you doing? | 你好吗? |
| 94 | I'm good, thank you. | 我很好,谢谢。 |
| 95 | By the way, I'm Jay. | 对了,我是杰伊 |
| 96 | Nice to meet you, Jay. | 幸会,杰伊 |
| 97 | I'm Tim. | 我是提姆,你好吗? |
| 98 | Nice to meet you, Tim. | 很高兴见到你,蒂姆。 |
| 99 | I'm curious, how do you know the host? | 我很好奇 你怎么认识主持人的? |
| 100 | Oh, we know each other from work. | 我们从工作上认识 |
| 101 | I started working with her a year ago. | 我一年前就开始和她合作了 |
| 102 | How about you? | 你怎么样? |
| 103 | I met her at our tennis club. | 我在网球俱乐部见过她 |
| 104 | We played doubles together. | 我们一起玩双打 |
| 105 | Are you into any sports? | 你有兴趣参加运动吗? |
| 106 | Just like anything, we learn by doing. | 就像任何东西一样,我们通过做来学习。 |
| 107 | So the best way to get better at small talk | 所以,最好的办法 更好在小谈 |
| 108 | is to practice having conversations daily. | 就是每天练习谈话 |
| 109 | You will naturally get better at it. | 你自然会好起来的 |
| 110 | If you don't have anyone to practice with, | 如果你没有任何人可以练习, |
| 111 | you can chat with J.I. on Sprouse on any role play situation. | 你可以和J. I. 讨论任何角色扮演情况 |
| 112 | He will ask you questions, keep the conversation going, | 他会问你问题,继续谈话 |
| 113 | so you can get your daily English practice. | 这样你就可以每天练英语了 |
| 114 | But Jay, what's the common small talk mistake? | 但杰伊,什么是常见的小说错误? |
| 115 | A lot of English learners don't know what to say. | 很多英语学习者不知道该说什么. |
| 116 | And because of that, you might give very short answers. | 因此,你可能会给出非常短的答案。 |
| 117 | Let's look at an example. | 举个例子 |
| 118 | So Lucy, what genre of books do you like reading? | 露西,你喜欢看什么书? |
| 119 | I like fiction. | 我喜欢小说 |
| 120 | Nice, me too. | 我也不错 |
| 121 | I usually read non-fiction, | 我通常读非虚构, |
| 122 | but recently I have been reading some fiction books. | 最近我读了一些小说 |
| 123 | I've been reading a book | 我读过一本书 |
| 124 | called Hitchhiker's Guide to the Galaxy. | 叫做"希契克银河指南" |
| 125 | Have you read it? | 你读过吗? |
| 126 | No, I haven't. | 没有 |
| 127 | Did you notice the problem with Lucy's answers there? | 你有没有注意到露西的答案有问题? |
| 128 | They were too short. | 他们太短了。 |
| 129 | The problem with short answers is that it gives less detail | 答案很短 问题在于它不够详细 |
| 130 | for the other person to ask you questions | 让别人问你问题 |
| 131 | and to keep the conversation going. | 继续谈话 |
| 132 | The solution to that is to share more, | 解决办法是分享更多, |
| 133 | give more detail in your answers, | 请在回答中详细介绍 |
| 134 | share your personality, | 分享你的个性, |
| 135 | and remember to ask questions back. | 并记住问回。 |
| 136 | When you share more, | 当你分享更多, |
| 137 | you can use what you said to spark your next question. | 你可以用你说的来点燃你的下一个问题 |
| 138 | Let's look at another example. | 再举个例子 |
| 139 | So Lucy, what genre of books do you like reading? | 露西,你喜欢看什么书? |
| 140 | I like fiction. | 我喜欢小说 |
| 141 | I'm really into mystery and crime novels, | 我很喜欢神秘和犯罪小说 |
| 142 | and I love to read them when I go on holiday. | 我喜欢去度假的时候读 |
| 143 | Are you into crime novels? | 你喜欢犯罪小说吗? |
| 144 | I don't tend to read crime fiction. | 我不会读犯罪小说 |
| 145 | I usually read non-fiction books, but I'm curious. | 我通常会看非虚构的书 但我很好奇 |
| 146 | Have you got any recommendations for crime fiction books? | 你对犯罪小说有什么建议吗? |
| 147 | Yeah. | 对 |
| 148 | I just finished the book Thursday Murder Club | 我刚写完周四谋杀俱乐部的书 |
| 149 | by Richard Osman. | 理查德·奥斯曼著. |
| 150 | I would highly recommend it. | 我非常建议你这样做。 |
| 151 | Nice. | 不错 |
| 152 | I think I'll check it out. | 我想我会检查出来。 |
| 153 | What's it about? | 是关于什么的? |
| 154 | What a game of tennis that was. | 真是一场网球赛 |
| 155 | Why did that conversation between Lucy and I | 为什么露西和我之间的谈话 |
| 156 | flow so smoothly? | 流那么顺畅? |
| 157 | Simple. | 简单 |
| 158 | We asked questions, | 我们问了一些问题 |
| 159 | and then we gave details in our answers. | 然后我们给出了详细答案。 |
| 160 | In small talk, if you want to be interesting, | 在小谈, 如果你想成为有趣的, |
| 161 | be interested. | 有兴趣吗? |
| 162 | But Jay, how do we leave without being rude? | 但是杰伊,我们怎么走而不无礼? |
| 163 | If the conversation is going well, | 如果谈话进展顺利 |
| 164 | and you share things in common, | 你们有共同之处, |
| 165 | then you can go from small talk to deep talk. | 然后你可以从小话到深话 |
| 166 | And I'll share more about that in a future video. | 我会在未来的视频中分享更多关于这一点。 |
| 167 | But what if the conversation is a little dry, | 但是,如果谈话有点干燥, |
| 168 | or what if it's come to its natural end? | 或者如果它到了自然的尽头呢? |
| 169 | How do you leave without seeming rude? | 你怎么离开,没有礼貌? |
| 170 | Well, the solution is some simple exit lines. | 解决办法是简单的出口线 |
| 171 | It was really nice chatting with you, Lucy. | 很高兴和你聊天 露西 |
| 172 | I'm gonna grab another drink now, | 我现在要再喝一杯 |
| 173 | but I'll see you around. | 但回头见 |
| 174 | I'm just gonna say hi to a few more people before I leave, | 我要先跟几个人打个招呼 |
| 175 | but it was nice to chat. | 但很高兴能和你聊天 |
| 176 | I'm gonna get back to my friends now, | 我要回到我的朋友身边, |
| 177 | but it was nice chatting. | 但这是很好的聊天。 |
| 178 | Now let's recap what we learned in this video | 现在让我们回顾一下我们在这段录像里学到的 |
| 179 | to help it stick in here. | 帮助它坚持在这里。 |
| 180 | Firstly, we learned that small talk isn't fake. | 首先,我们得知小说不是假话。 |
| 181 | It's just a part of our culture. | 这只是我们文化的一部分。 |
| 182 | It helps us create social ease | 帮助我们创造社会安逸 |
| 183 | and build positive relationships with each other. | 并相互建立积极的关系。 |
| 184 | Secondly, we learned that to start a conversation, | 第二,我们学会了开始谈话 |
| 185 | we can simply use the environments | 我们可以简单地利用环境 |
| 186 | and the context around us. | 以及我们周围的背景 |
| 187 | Thirdly, we learned that small talk | 第三,我们学会了这种小话 |
| 188 | is like a game of tennis. | 就像打网球一样 |
| 189 | We ask questions and then we respond. | 我们问问题,然后我们回答。 |
| 190 | We also learned the importance of open body language, | 我们还了解到开放身体语言的重要性, |
| 191 | smiling, and positive facial expressions. | 和正面的面部表情。 |
| 192 | We learned that giving very short answers | 我们了解到,给出非常短的答案 |
| 193 | doesn't give enough information for the other person | 不给对方足够的信息 |
| 194 | to ask us questions and keep the conversation going. | 问我们问题 继续谈话 |
| 195 | And finally, we learned how to end a conversation | 最后,我们学会了如何结束谈话 |
| 196 | using simple exit lines. | 使用简单的退出线。 |
| 197 | So guys, it was lovely chatting with you. | 所以,伙计们,这是可爱的谈话 与你们。 |
| 198 | I'm just gonna grab a drink, | 我去拿点喝的 |
| 199 | so I'll catch you in a bit, yeah? | 所以我会抓住你 在一点点,是吗? |
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