【生活哲学】觉得无聊?这份简单指南让你的生活更充实
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| 0:00 | Hi everyone, today I will dive into how very simple changes turn my dull, ordinary routine into an extraordinary one. | 大家好,今天我将潜入 如何非常简单的改变 我的乏味,普通的常规 变成一个非凡的。 |
| 0:08 | Something that I'm excited to wake up to every single day. | 我每天醒来都很兴奋 |
| 0:11 | Here I'll talk about the three main pillars of injecting your life with interesting experiences, which is landing new activities, | 在这里,我将谈论三个主要支柱 注入你的生活 有趣的经验, 这是登陆新的活动, |
| 0:19 | romanticizing and | 浪漫化和 |
| 0:21 | eliminating or minimizing the negative. | 消除或尽量减少负数。 |
| 0:24 | But first, let's talk about why this is important. | 但首先,让我们谈谈为什么这很重要。 |
| 0:26 | Have you noticed how as a child every day seem to stretch endlessly? | 你是否注意到,作为一个孩子, 每天似乎无休止地伸展? |
| 0:30 | Yet as adults, we often find time just slipping through our fingers. | 然而,作为成年人,我们常常发现时间只是从我们的手指上滑过。 |
| 0:35 | This is actually rooted in the neuroscience of how we perceive time. | 这其实是植根于我们看待时间的神经科学。 |
| 0:38 | Repetition of the familiar activities | 重复熟悉的活动 |
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| 1 | Hi everyone, today I will dive into how very simple changes turn my dull, ordinary routine into an extraordinary one. | 大家好,今天我将潜入 如何非常简单的改变 我的乏味,普通的常规 变成一个非凡的。 |
| 2 | Something that I'm excited to wake up to every single day. | 我每天醒来都很兴奋 |
| 3 | Here I'll talk about the three main pillars of injecting your life with interesting experiences, which is landing new activities, | 在这里,我将谈论三个主要支柱 注入你的生活 有趣的经验, 这是登陆新的活动, |
| 4 | romanticizing and | 浪漫化和 |
| 5 | eliminating or minimizing the negative. | 消除或尽量减少负数。 |
| 6 | But first, let's talk about why this is important. | 但首先,让我们谈谈为什么这很重要。 |
| 7 | Have you noticed how as a child every day seem to stretch endlessly? | 你是否注意到,作为一个孩子, 每天似乎无休止地伸展? |
| 8 | Yet as adults, we often find time just slipping through our fingers. | 然而,作为成年人,我们常常发现时间只是从我们的手指上滑过。 |
| 9 | This is actually rooted in the neuroscience of how we perceive time. | 这其实是植根于我们看待时间的神经科学。 |
| 10 | Repetition of the familiar activities | 重复熟悉的活动 |
| 11 | accelerates our internal perception of time, makes us feel like time is passing much more quickly and | 加速我们内部对时间的认知 使我们觉得时间的流逝要快得多 |
| 12 | each day blurs into the next because our brain, | 每天模糊到下一个 因为我们的大脑, |
| 13 | finding no new stimuli to process just fast forwards through all of the familiar stuff. | 没有新的刺激 处理只是快速前进 通过所有熟悉的东西。 |
| 14 | As a child though, | 小时候 |
| 15 | every other event is new to you and time does feel much more slower. | 时间感觉要慢得多 |
| 16 | So building an exciting and interesting life is important not only because it's fun, | 因此,建立一个令人兴奋和有趣的生活很重要 不仅因为它的乐趣, |
| 17 | but also because it practically makes you feel like your life is longer. | 但也因为这实际上让你觉得 你的生活更长。 |
| 18 | Imagine yourself participating in a research study. | 想象一下你自己参与研究 |
| 19 | You come into the room, lab room, with no other belongings. | 你进入房间,实验室, 没有其他的东西。 |
| 20 | No cell phone, no bag, no book, no nothing. | 没有手机,没有包,没有书,什么都没有。 |
| 21 | You're supposed to just sit there in a very boring silence. | 你应该坐在那里 在一个非常无聊的沉默。 |
| 22 | But if you want, you can choose to administer a painful electric shock to yourself, if you want. | 但如果你想,你可以选择 给自己造成痛苦的电击,如果你想。 |
| 23 | Around half of people participating in the study decided to hurt themselves. | 大约一半参与研究的人决定伤害自己. |
| 24 | And before you say, | 在你说之前 |
| 25 | oh, maybe they were just curious about how an electric shock feels, maybe they never experienced it in real life. | 也许他们只是好奇 电击的感觉, 也许他们从来没有经历过它 在现实生活中。 |
| 26 | How will you explain the fact that some people decided to hurt themselves dozens of times? | 你如何解释有些人决定伤害自己数十次的事实? |
| 27 | It does seem like unnecessary boredom feels really bad. | 这的确像不必要的无聊 感觉真的很糟糕。 |
| 28 | And it's not just that. | 不仅如此 |
| 29 | In addition, many university students who have high boredom levels | 此外,许多大学学生 高无聊程度 |
| 30 | seem to have a very hard time getting good grades compared to their peers. | 和他们的同龄人相比 很难拿到好成绩 |
| 31 | As well as depression and anxiety is also very much | 忧郁和焦虑也非常严重 |
| 32 | connected and correlated with high boredom levels in people. | 与人们的高无聊程度相关联。 |
| 33 | And although I can't tell you how to suddenly become interested in everything that you experience, | 虽然我不能告诉你如何突然对你经历的一切感兴趣, |
| 34 | I can definitely help you understand how to bring more interesting stuff into your life. | 我肯定能帮助你理解如何给你的生活带来更多有趣的东西. |
| 35 | First is deliberately plan novel activities. | 首先是刻意策划小说活动. |
| 36 | Whenever you see someone with an interesting life, it all seems just so natural. | 每当你看到一个人 有有趣的生活, 它看起来很自然。 |
| 37 | They went here, they went there, | 他们去了这里,他们去了那里, |
| 38 | they have this podcast, this side hustle, they do this, that, and wow, | 他们有播客, 这边走, 他们这样做,那,哇, |
| 39 | perfect life. | 完美的生活。 完美的生活。 |
| 40 | But we often forget that it all requires deliberate effort. | 但我们常常忘记,所有这一切都需要认真的努力。 |
| 41 | And if you want to have an interesting life, you have to plan for things that are interesting. | 如果你想过有趣的生活, 你必须为有趣的事情做计划。 |
| 42 | If you want to bring more highlights into your life, the only person accountable for this is you and no one else. | 如果你想给你的生活带来更多的亮点, 唯一的责任人 是你,没有其他人。 |
| 43 | So take your notes up, take pen and paper, whatever you can, and write 20 different things that you would like to try. | 所以拿起你的笔记,拿起笔和纸, 尽你所能,写出20种你想要尝试的东西。 |
| 44 | It doesn't have to be anything crazy. | 没必要太疯狂 |
| 45 | Something like trying to bake cinnamon rolls or maybe learning to crochet or | 像是尝试烤肉桂卷 或可能学习围棋 |
| 46 | visit this book club or this gallery, go to that concert. | 参观这个书社 或这个画廊, 去那个音乐会。 |
| 47 | The key is to promise yourself that you're going to do this new activity three times a month | 关键是保证你每个月要做三次新的活动 |
| 48 | and just put it in your calendar. | 把它放在日历上 |
| 49 | Just plan when you're going to be doing it. | 计划一下你什么时候做 |
| 50 | You might say, oh, I don't have money. | 你会说,哦,我没有钱。 |
| 51 | I live in a boring city | 我住在一个无聊的城市 |
| 52 | with no opportunities and I'm just so underprivileged. | 没有机会,我太穷了 |
| 53 | And looking at all these fancy influencers with a vacation every other month and just | 看看这些花哨的影响者 每隔一个月放个假 |
| 54 | beautiful lives, it just makes me sick. | 美丽的生活, 它只是让我恶心。 |
| 55 | I want to remind you of something very fundamental that will stop you from potentially feeling like you're having it worse. | 我想提醒你一些非常基本的事情 让你不会觉得自己越来越糟 |
| 56 | Man's Search for Meaning is the book you probably already know about by holocaust survivor Victor Franco. | "人类寻找意义" 是大屠杀幸存者维克多·佛朗哥 可能已经知道的书 |
| 57 | Think about this quote. | 思惟此引经. |
| 58 | Everything can be taken from a man. | 一切众生皆能摄取. |
| 59 | But one thing, the last of the human freedoms, to choose one's attitude in any given set of circumstances, | 但有一件事,人类最后的自由, 在任何特定的情况下选择自己的态度, |
| 60 | to choose one's own way. | 选择自己的方式 |
| 61 | And I stand by this. | 我支持这一点。 |
| 62 | This is something that I didn't realize for a very long time. | 这是我很久没有意识到的 |
| 63 | But yeah, some people have it better, some people have it worse. | 但是,是的,有些人有它更好, 有些人有它更糟。 |
| 64 | It's unpleasant. | 令人不悦. |
| 65 | But | 不过 |
| 66 | the way you respond to the circumstances is what matters. | 你对情况的反应才是最重要的 |
| 67 | In the most dire | 在最险恶的 |
| 68 | circumstances of a Nazi prison camp, he was able to find the beauty of nature in simply watching the sunset with his fellow inmates. | 在纳粹战俘营的环境下 他能够发现大自然的美丽之处 就是和狱友一起看日落 |
| 69 | Listen to this quote. | 听此引经. |
| 70 | If someone had seen our faces on the journey from Auschwitz to a Bavarian camp, | 如果有人在从奥斯维辛到巴伐利亚集中营的路上看到我们的脸 |
| 71 | as we beheld the mountains of Salzburg with their summits glowing in the sunset, | 当我们看到萨尔茨堡的山 它们的山峰在日落时发光, |
| 72 | through the little barred windows of the prison carriage, | 穿过监狱小车窗 |
| 73 | he would never have believed that those were the faces of men who had given up all hope of life and liberty. | 他绝不会相信这些是那些放弃生命和自由的所有希望的人的面孔。 |
| 74 | And if these poor prisoners were able to find beauty in simple acts of watching the nature, | 如果这些可怜的囚犯 能在观察大自然的简单行为中找到美 |
| 75 | then what stops us, people with comparatively comfortable lives? | 那么是什么阻止了我们, 生活相对舒适的人? |
| 76 | And this sad note will bring me to my next point, which is | 这个悲哀的字条将让我回到我的下一个观点,那就是 |
| 77 | romanticize the mundane stuff. | 浪漫的普通的东西。 |
| 78 | We often think of an exciting life as one that is filled with extraordinary events, such as jumping with a parachute or | 我们常常认为一个令人兴奋的生活 充满着非同寻常的事件,比如跳伞,或者 |
| 79 | I don't know, giving tad talks or traveling to a new country every other month. | 我不知道 每隔一个月就去一个新国家 |
| 80 | But in our life, | 但是在我们的生活里 |
| 81 | repetition and routine always dominate. | 重复和常规总是占主导地位。 |
| 82 | They make up around | 他们和好了 |
| 83 | 95 to 99 percent of our life. | 我们一生的95%到99% |
| 84 | So in order to be fully satisfied with the life we have, | 为了完全满意我们的生活 |
| 85 | we have to completely shift our mindset on the things that are the most ordinary, the most routine, the most basic. | 我们必须彻底改变我们的思维方式,改变那些最普通、最常规、最基本的东西。 |
| 86 | And I think this is what the trend of romanticizing your life has done really really well for the internet community. | 我认为这是你生活浪漫化的趋势 对互联网社区来说真的很好。 |
| 87 | Now, instead of just taking a shower, I can enjoy this experience fully. | 现在,与其只是洗个澡, 我还可以享受这种经历。 |
| 88 | I can play my favorite Spotify playlist, I can light my favorite candle and just | 我可以播放我最喜欢的Spotify播放列表, 我可以点燃我最喜欢的蜡烛,只是 |
| 89 | smell my favorite shampoo. | 闻闻我最喜欢的洗发水 |
| 90 | And this experience turns into something very beautiful and very | 这段经历变成了非常美丽和非常 |
| 91 | therapeutical | 治疗 |
| 92 | instead of just taking a shower. | 而不是只是洗个澡。 |
| 93 | Now, instead of just cleaning the dishes, I make it a whole experience. | 现在,与其只是洗碗, 我使它是一个整体的经验。 |
| 94 | I play my favorite music from Pride and Prejudice movie and imagine myself as Elizabeth Bennet | 我演奏我最喜欢的音乐 从骄傲和偏见电影 想象自己是伊丽莎白·贝内特 |
| 95 | just waiting for Mr. Darcy and cleaning her house before he comes. | 只是等达西先生来之前 收拾她的房子 |
| 96 | So yeah, maybe it sounds a little cringe, but it makes me really happy. | 所以,也许它听起来有点拘谨, 但我真的很高兴。 |
| 97 | So I hope it can make you happy as well. | 所以我希望它也能让你快乐 |
| 98 | Another thing to note is, especially now as the bigger part of the globe is switching into the colder season, | 另一个值得注意的是,特别是现在, 全球更大的地区正在转向更冷的季节, |
| 99 | we have to find a way to fight all of these seasonal depressive symptoms | 我们必须想办法 对抗这些季节性抑郁症 |
| 100 | and try to romanticize winter as much as we can. | 尽量把冬天浪漫化 |
| 101 | For me, it means waking up a little bit earlier so I can finish all of my tasks during the lie time | 对我来说,这意味着早点醒来 这样我就可以完成我所有的任务 在谎言的时间 |
| 102 | and I can just cozy up in the evening, just have a cup of tea, watch my favorite tv show. | 我晚上可以舒服点 喝杯茶 看我最喜欢的电视剧 |
| 103 | I also really like making seasonal Pinterest boards. | 我也很喜欢做季节性贴息板 |
| 104 | I just, I don't know, they just make me so aesthetically satisfied and so happy. | 我只是,我不知道, 他们只是让我如此 审美满足和高兴。 |
| 105 | And yeah, here they are. | 是的,他们在这里。 |
| 106 | Personally, the first 18 years of my life, I lived in a very small homogenous city in Ukraine, | 就我个人而言,在我生命的前18年,我住在乌克兰一个非常小的同质城市, |
| 107 | which many people might call boring. | 很多人可能觉得无聊 |
| 108 | But even though there was not a lot of opportunities, I was always trying to go to new events, do new things. | 但是,尽管机会不多,我总是试图去 新的事件,做新的事情。 |
| 109 | Whenever there was some concert, I was trying to go there, | 每当有音乐会, 我试图去那里, |
| 110 | just try to maximize all of my opportunities that I had there. | 尽量利用我所有的机遇 |
| 111 | And although I was always jealous of people who lived in bigger cities because they had so much going on, | 虽然我一直嫉妒那些住在大城市的人 因为他们有很多事要做 |
| 112 | I still found ways to become sort of like a tourist in my own city. | 我仍然在自己的城市里 找到成为游客的方法 |
| 113 | And the final part, eliminate negative content or at least try to minimize it. | 最后一部分,删除负面内容,或者至少尽量减少负面内容. |
| 114 | Well, | 那个 |
| 115 | this is the point that I already tried to mention earlier about comparing yourself to all these social media accounts, | 我先前也曾提到过, |
| 116 | but if you think about it, | 但是如果你考虑一下 |
| 117 | we always understand consciously that a person behind the screen is going to spend a lot of time trying to filter the pictures | 我们总是有意识地明白 屏幕后面的人 会花很多时间去过滤图片 |
| 118 | and trying to choose the best photo to post on Instagram. | 并试图选择最佳照片在Instagram上发布. |
| 119 | But it doesn't mean that it doesn't, it's not going to make you feel negative about yourself. | 但这并不意味着它没有,也不会让你对自己感到消极. |
| 120 | So I think the best option is to unfollow accounts that make you feel uncomfortable and inspired and happy | 所以,我认为最好的选择是 解开那些让你感到不舒服 灵感和快乐的叙述 |
| 121 | and the accounts that bring you a lot of self-loathing and self-comparison that you don't need. | 和给你带来很多自我厌恶 和自我比较的账户 你不需要。 |
| 122 | And I think it's very important to keep very be very mindful of our media space | 我认为必须非常注意我们的媒体空间 |
| 123 | because we are what we read, we are what we consume and | 因为我们是阅读, 我们消费, |
| 124 | following the accounts that only make you inspired and happy | 遵循那些只会使你受启发和幸福的记述, |
| 125 | is much better in the long run. | 从长远来看,情况要好得多。 |
| 126 | One thing to note is that studies say that people are only able to become more fulfilled and more happy | 需要注意的一件事是研究说 人们只能更加满足和快乐 |
| 127 | if they genuinely believe it's possible and to take action towards that. | 如果他们真的相信这是可能的 并采取行动做到这一点。 |
| 128 | So if you don't believe it's possible, these principles are just not going to help you. | 所以,如果你不相信这是可能的, 这些原则只是不会帮助你。 |
| 129 | Otherwise, make a list of novel activities you'd like to try, put them in your calendar, | 否则,列出一些你想要尝试的新活动, 把它们放在你的日历上, |
| 130 | romanticize your morning coffee and clear out all of this junk that you have in your media space. | 把早上的咖啡浪漫化 把媒体里所有的垃圾都清掉 |
| 131 | This was a very simple guide which will bring more highlights into your life. | 这是一个非常简单的指南 将会给你的生活带来更多的亮点。 |
| 132 | The most important things in life always boil down to very key | 生命中最重要的事情总是 沸腾到非常关键 |
| 133 | small principles and I hope these principles will help you as much as they helped me. | 我希望这些原则能帮助你 就像他们帮助我一样 |
| 134 | Thank you. | 谢谢 |
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| 0:00 | Hi everyone, today I will dive into how very simple changes turn my dull, ordinary routine into an extraordinary one. | 大家好,今天我将潜入 如何非常简单的改变 我的乏味,普通的常规 变成一个非凡的。 |
| 0:08 | Something that I'm excited to wake up to every single day. | 我每天醒来都很兴奋 |
| 0:11 | Here I'll talk about the three main pillars of injecting your life with interesting experiences, which is blending new activities, | 在这里,我将谈论三个主要支柱 注入你的生活 有趣的经验, 这是混合新的活动, |
| 0:19 | romanticizing, and | 浪漫化,和 |
| 0:21 | eliminating or minimizing the negative. | 消除或尽量减少负数。 |
| 0:23 | But first, let's talk about why this is important. | 但首先,让我们谈谈为什么这很重要。 |
| 0:26 | Have you noticed how as a child, every day seemed to stretch endlessly? | 你注意到小时候 每天都在伸展吗? |
| 0:30 | Yet as adults, we often find time just slipping through our fingers. | 然而,作为成年人,我们常常发现时间只是从我们的手指上滑过。 |
| 0:34 | This is actually rooted in the neuroscience of how we perceive time. | 这其实是植根于我们看待时间的神经科学。 |
| 0:38 | Repetition of the familiar activities | 重复熟悉的活动 |
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| 1 | Hi everyone, today I will dive into how very simple changes turn my dull, ordinary routine into an extraordinary one. | 大家好,今天我将潜入 如何非常简单的改变 我的乏味,普通的常规 变成一个非凡的。 |
| 2 | Something that I'm excited to wake up to every single day. | 我每天醒来都很兴奋 |
| 3 | Here I'll talk about the three main pillars of injecting your life with interesting experiences, which is blending new activities, | 在这里,我将谈论三个主要支柱 注入你的生活 有趣的经验, 这是混合新的活动, |
| 4 | romanticizing, and | 浪漫化,和 |
| 5 | eliminating or minimizing the negative. | 消除或尽量减少负数。 |
| 6 | But first, let's talk about why this is important. | 但首先,让我们谈谈为什么这很重要。 |
| 7 | Have you noticed how as a child, every day seemed to stretch endlessly? | 你注意到小时候 每天都在伸展吗? |
| 8 | Yet as adults, we often find time just slipping through our fingers. | 然而,作为成年人,我们常常发现时间只是从我们的手指上滑过。 |
| 9 | This is actually rooted in the neuroscience of how we perceive time. | 这其实是植根于我们看待时间的神经科学。 |
| 10 | Repetition of the familiar activities | 重复熟悉的活动 |
| 11 | accelerates our internal perception of time, makes us feel like time is passing much more quickly, and | 加速我们内部对时间的认知 使我们觉得时间流逝得更快 |
| 12 | each day blurs into the next because our brain, | 每天模糊到下一个 因为我们的大脑, |
| 13 | finding no new stimuli to process just fast forwards through all of the familiar stuff. | 没有新的刺激 处理只是快速前进 通过所有熟悉的东西。 |
| 14 | As a child though, | 小时候 |
| 15 | every other event is new to you, and time does feel much more slower. | 每一件事情对你来说都是新鲜事 时间感觉会慢得多 |
| 16 | So building an exciting and interesting life is important not only because it's fun, | 因此,建立一个令人兴奋和有趣的生活很重要 不仅因为它的乐趣, |
| 17 | but also because it practically makes you feel like your life is longer. | 但也因为这实际上让你觉得 你的生活更长。 |
| 18 | Imagine yourself participating in a research study. | 想象一下你自己参与研究 |
| 19 | You come into the room, lab room, with no other belongings. | 你进入房间,实验室, 没有其他的东西。 |
| 20 | No cell phone, no bag, no book, no nothing. | 没有手机,没有包,没有书,什么都没有。 |
| 21 | You're supposed to just sit there in a very boring silence. | 你应该坐在那里 在一个非常无聊的沉默。 |
| 22 | But if you want, you can choose to administer a painful electric shock to yourself, if you want. | 但如果你想,你可以选择 给自己造成痛苦的电击,如果你想。 |
| 23 | Around half of people participating in the study decided to hurt themselves. | 大约一半参与研究的人决定伤害自己. |
| 24 | And before you say, | 在你说之前 |
| 25 | oh, maybe they were just curious about how an electric shock feels, maybe they never experienced it in real life. | 也许他们只是好奇 电击的感觉, 也许他们从来没有经历过它 在现实生活中。 |
| 26 | How will you explain the fact that some people decided to hurt themselves dozens of times? | 你如何解释有些人决定伤害自己数十次的事实? |
| 27 | It does seem like a necessary boredom feels really bad. | 感觉很无聊 |
| 28 | And it's not just that. | 不仅如此 |
| 29 | In addition, many university students who have high boredom levels | 此外,许多大学学生 高无聊程度 |
| 30 | seem to have a very hard time getting good grades compared to their peers. | 和他们的同龄人相比 很难拿到好成绩 |
| 31 | As well as depression and anxiety is also very much | 忧郁和焦虑也非常严重 |
| 32 | connected and correlated with high boredom levels in people. | 与人们的高无聊程度相关联。 |
| 33 | And although I can't tell you how to suddenly become | 虽然我不能告诉你如何突然变成 |
| 34 | interested in everything that you experience, | 对你经历的一切感兴趣, |
| 35 | I can definitely help you understand how to bring more interesting stuff into your life. | 我肯定能帮助你理解如何给你的生活带来更多有趣的东西. |
| 36 | First is deliberately plan novel activities. | 首先是刻意策划小说活动. |
| 37 | Whenever you see someone with an interesting life, it all seems just so natural. | 每当你看到一个人 有有趣的生活, 它看起来很自然。 |
| 38 | They went here, they went there, | 他们去了这里,他们去了那里, |
| 39 | they have this podcast, this side hustle, they do this, that, and wow, | 他们有播客, 这边走, 他们这样做,那,哇, |
| 40 | perfect life. | 完美的生活。 完美的生活。 |
| 41 | But we often forget that it all requires deliberate effort. | 但我们常常忘记,所有这一切都需要认真的努力。 |
| 42 | And if you want to have an interesting life, you have to plan for things | 如果你想过一个有趣的生活, 你必须计划一些事情 |
| 43 | that are interesting. | 这很有趣。 |
| 44 | If you want to bring more highlights into your life, the only person accountable for this is you | 如果你想给生活带来更多亮点 唯一的责任人就是你 |
| 45 | and no one else. | 也没有其他人 |
| 46 | So take your notes up, take pen and paper, whatever you can, and write 20 different things that you would like to try. | 所以拿起你的笔记,拿起笔和纸, 尽你所能,写出20种你想要尝试的东西。 |
| 47 | It doesn't have to be anything crazy. | 没必要太疯狂 |
| 48 | Something like trying to bake cinnamon rolls or maybe learning to crochet or | 像是尝试烤肉桂卷 或可能学习围棋 |
| 49 | visit this book club or this gallery, go to that concert. | 参观这个书社 或这个画廊, 去那个音乐会。 |
| 50 | The key is to promise yourself that you're going to do this new activity three times a month | 关键是保证你每个月要做三次新的活动 |
| 51 | and just put it in your calendar. | 把它放在日历上 |
| 52 | Just plan when you're going to be doing it. | 计划一下你什么时候做 |
| 53 | You might say, oh, I don't have money, | 你可能会说, 哦,我没有钱, |
| 54 | I live in a boring city | 我住在一个无聊的城市 |
| 55 | with no opportunities and I'm just so underprivileged. | 没有机会,我太穷了 |
| 56 | And looking at all these fancy influencers with a vacation every other month and just | 看看这些花哨的影响者 每隔一个月放个假 |
| 57 | beautiful lives, it just makes me sick. | 美丽的生活, 它只是让我恶心。 |
| 58 | I want to remind you of something very fundamental that will stop you from potentially feeling like you're having it worse. | 我想提醒你一些非常基本的事情 让你不会觉得自己越来越糟 |
| 59 | Man's Search for Meaning is the book you probably already know about by holocaust survivor Victor Franco. | "人类寻找意义" 是大屠杀幸存者维克多·佛朗哥 可能已经知道的书 |
| 60 | Think about this quote. | 思惟此引经. |
| 61 | Everything can be taken from a man, but one thing, the last of the human freedoms, to choose one's attitude in any given set of | 所有的一切都可以从一个人, 但一件事,最后的人类自由, 选择一个人的态度 在任何特定的一组 |
| 62 | circumstances, to choose one's own way. | 选择自己的方式 |
| 63 | And I stand by this. | 我支持这一点。 |
| 64 | This is something that I didn't realize for a very long time. | 这是我很久没有意识到的 |
| 65 | But yeah, some people have it better, some people have it worse. | 但是,是的,有些人有它更好, 有些人有它更糟。 |
| 66 | It's unpleasant, | 这很不愉快, |
| 67 | but | 不过 |
| 68 | the way you respond to the circumstances is what matters. | 你对情况的反应才是最重要的 |
| 69 | In the most dire | 在最险恶的 |
| 70 | circumstances of a Nazi prison camp, he was able to find the beauty of nature in simply watching the sunset with his fellow inmates. | 在纳粹战俘营的环境下 他能够发现大自然的美丽之处 就是和狱友一起看日落 |
| 71 | Listen to this quote. | 听此引经. |
| 72 | If someone had seen our faces on the journey from Auschwitz to a Bavarian camp, | 如果有人在从奥斯维辛到巴伐利亚集中营的路上看到我们的脸 |
| 73 | as we beheld the mountains of Salzburg with their summits glowing in the sunset, | 当我们看到萨尔茨堡的山 它们的山峰在日落时发光, |
| 74 | through the little barred windows of the prison carriage, | 穿过监狱小车窗 |
| 75 | he would never have believed that those were the faces of men who had given up all hope of life and liberty. | 他绝不会相信这些是那些放弃生命和自由的所有希望的人的面孔。 |
| 76 | And if these poor prisoners were able to find beauty | 如果这些可怜的囚犯能找到美 |
| 77 | in simple acts of watching the nature, | 在简单的观察大自然的行为中, |
| 78 | then what stops us, people with comparatively comfortable lives? | 那么是什么阻止了我们, 生活相对舒适的人? |
| 79 | And this sad note will bring me to my next point, which is romanticize the mundane stuff. | 这个悲伤的音符会带给我下一个重点, 也就是浪漫化的俗气。 |
| 80 | We often think of an exciting life as one that is filled with extraordinary events, | 我们常常认为 令人兴奋的生活 充满了非同寻常的事件, |
| 81 | such as jumping with a parachute, | 比如跳伞, |
| 82 | or, I don't know, giving tad talks, or traveling to a new country every other month. | 或者,我不知道,给 微调谈话,或者每隔一个月去一个新国家。 |
| 83 | But in our life, | 但是在我们的生活里 |
| 84 | repetition and routine always dominate. | 重复和常规总是占主导地位。 |
| 85 | They make up around | 他们和好了 |
| 86 | 95 to 99 percent of our life. | 我们一生的95%到99% |
| 87 | So in order to be fully satisfied with the life we have, | 为了完全满意我们的生活 |
| 88 | we have to completely shift our mindset on the things that are the most ordinary, the most routine, the most basic. | 我们必须彻底改变我们的思维方式,改变那些最普通、最常规、最基本的东西。 |
| 89 | And I think this is what the trend of romanticizing your life has done really really well for the internet community. | 我认为这是你生活浪漫化的趋势 对互联网社区来说真的很好。 |
| 90 | Now, instead of just taking a shower, I can enjoy this experience fully. | 现在,与其只是洗个澡, 我还可以享受这种经历。 |
| 91 | I can play my favorite Spotify playlist, I can light my favorite candle and just | 我可以播放我最喜欢的Spotify播放列表, 我可以点燃我最喜欢的蜡烛,只是 |
| 92 | smell my favorite shampoo, | 闻闻我最喜欢的洗发水 |
| 93 | and this experience turns into something very beautiful and very | 这段经历 变成了非常美丽和非常 |
| 94 | therapeutical, | 治疗, |
| 95 | instead of just taking a shower. | 而不是只是洗个澡。 |
| 96 | Now, instead of just cleaning the dishes, I make it a whole experience. | 现在,与其只是洗碗, 我使它是一个整体的经验。 |
| 97 | I play my favorite music from Pride and Prejudice movie and imagine myself as Elizabeth Bennett, | 我演奏我最喜欢的音乐 从骄傲和偏见电影 想象自己是伊丽莎白·贝内特, |
| 98 | just waiting for Mr. Darcy and cleaning her house before he comes. | 只是等达西先生来之前 收拾她的房子 |
| 99 | So yeah, maybe it sounds a little cringe, but it makes me really happy. | 所以,也许它听起来有点拘谨, 但我真的很高兴。 |
| 100 | So I hope it can make you happy as well. | 所以我希望它也能让你快乐 |
| 101 | Another thing to note is, especially now as the bigger part of the globe is switching into the colder season, | 另一个值得注意的是,特别是现在, 全球更大的地区正在转向更冷的季节, |
| 102 | we have to find a way to fight all these seasonal depressive symptoms | 我们一定要想办法 对抗这些季节性抑郁症 |
| 103 | and try to romanticize winter as much as we can. | 尽量把冬天浪漫化 |
| 104 | For me, it means waking up a little bit earlier so I can finish all of my tasks during the lie time | 对我来说,这意味着早点醒来 这样我就可以完成我所有的任务 在谎言的时间 |
| 105 | and I can just cozy up in the evening, just have a cup of tea, watch my favorite tv show. | 我晚上可以舒服点 喝杯茶 看我最喜欢的电视剧 |
| 106 | I also really like making seasonal Pinterest boards. | 我也很喜欢做季节性贴息板 |
| 107 | I just, I don't know, they just make me so aesthetically satisfied and so happy. | 我只是,我不知道, 他们只是让我如此 审美满足和高兴。 |
| 108 | And yeah, here they are. | 是的,他们在这里。 |
| 109 | Personally, the first 18 years of my life, I lived in a very small homogenous city in Ukraine, | 就我个人而言,在我生命的前18年,我住在乌克兰一个非常小的同质城市, |
| 110 | which many people might call boring. | 很多人可能觉得无聊 |
| 111 | But even though there was not a lot of opportunities, I was always trying to go to new events, do new things. | 但是,尽管机会不多,我总是试图去 新的事件,做新的事情。 |
| 112 | Whenever there was some concert, I was trying to go there, just try to maximize all of my opportunities that I had there. | 每当有音乐会, 我试图去那里, 只是试图最大化 我所有的机会,我在那里。 |
| 113 | And although I was always jealous of people who lived in bigger cities because they had so much going on, | 虽然我一直嫉妒那些住在大城市的人 因为他们有很多事要做 |
| 114 | I still found ways to become sort of like a tourist in my own city. | 我仍然在自己的城市里 找到成为游客的方法 |
| 115 | And the final part, eliminate negative content or at least try to minimize it. | 最后一部分,删除负面内容,或者至少尽量减少负面内容. |
| 116 | Well, | 那个 |
| 117 | this is the point that I already tried to mention earlier about comparing yourself to all these social media accounts, | 我先前也曾提到过, |
| 118 | but if you think about it, | 但是如果你考虑一下 |
| 119 | we always understand consciously that a person behind the screen is going to spend a lot of time trying to filter the pictures | 我们总是有意识地明白 屏幕后面的人 会花很多时间去过滤图片 |
| 120 | and trying to choose the best photo to post on Instagram. | 并试图选择最佳照片在Instagram上发布. |
| 121 | But it doesn't mean that it doesn't, it's not going to make you feel negative about yourself. | 但这并不意味着它没有,也不会让你对自己感到消极. |
| 122 | So I think the best option is to unfollow accounts that make you feel uncomfortable and inspired and happy | 所以,我认为最好的选择是 解开那些让你感到不舒服 灵感和快乐的叙述 |
| 123 | and the accounts that bring you a lot of self-loathing and self-comparison that you don't need. | 和给你带来很多自我厌恶 和自我比较的账户 你不需要。 |
| 124 | And I think it's very important to keep very, be very mindful of our media space because we are what we read, | 我认为保持非常,非常注意我们的媒体空间是非常重要的,因为我们是我们所读到的, |
| 125 | we are what we consume and | 我们所消耗的, |
| 126 | following the accounts that only make you inspired and happy | 遵循那些只会使你受启发和幸福的记述, |
| 127 | is much better in the long run. | 从长远来看,情况要好得多。 |
| 128 | One thing to note is that studies say that people are only able to become more fulfilled and more happy | 需要注意的一件事是研究说 人们只能更加满足和快乐 |
| 129 | if they genuinely believe it's possible and take action towards that. | 如果他们真的相信这有可能 并对此采取行动。 |
| 130 | So if you don't believe it's possible, these principles are just not going to help you. | 所以,如果你不相信这是可能的, 这些原则只是不会帮助你。 |
| 131 | Otherwise, make a list of novel activities you'd like to try, put them in your calendar, | 否则,列出一些你想要尝试的新活动, 把它们放在你的日历上, |
| 132 | romanticize your morning coffee and clear out all of the junk that you have in your media space. | 把早上的咖啡浪漫化 把媒体里所有的垃圾都清除掉 |
| 133 | This was a very simple guide which will bring more highlights into your life. | 这是一个非常简单的指南 将会给你的生活带来更多的亮点。 |
| 134 | The most important things in life always boil down to very key | 生命中最重要的事情总是 沸腾到非常关键 |
| 135 | small principles and I hope these principles will help you as much as they helped me. | 我希望这些原则能帮助你 就像他们帮助我一样 |
| 136 | Thank you. | 谢谢 |
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