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【时间管理】与其浪费夜晚,不如做这5件事 · 高效晚间习惯

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0:00If you live to be 80,如果你活到80岁
0:01you'll have about 22,000 evenings as an adult.你成年后会有两万两千个晚上
0:06That is your entire allotment.这就是你的全部拨款。
0:09The question is, what do you do with them?问题是,你对他们做了什么?
0:11Your evenings decide what kind of life you wake up to.你的晚上决定你醒来要过什么样的生活
0:15But most ambitious people are wasting time.但大多数野心家都在浪费时间
0:18For those of you who are new here,你们这些新来的
0:20I have been a CEO, investor, board member我曾经是首席执行官 投资人 董事会成员
0:23in tech companies that generated billions in value.在技术公司 产生数十亿的价值。
0:26I wanna show you a system我想给你看一个系统
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1If you live to be 80,如果你活到80岁
2you'll have about 22,000 evenings as an adult.你成年后会有两万两千个晚上
3That is your entire allotment.这就是你的全部拨款。
4The question is, what do you do with them?问题是,你对他们做了什么?
5Your evenings decide what kind of life you wake up to.你的晚上决定你醒来要过什么样的生活
6But most ambitious people are wasting time.但大多数野心家都在浪费时间
7For those of you who are new here,你们这些新来的
8I have been a CEO, investor, board member我曾经是首席执行官 投资人 董事会成员
9in tech companies that generated billions in value.在技术公司 产生数十亿的价值。
10I wanna show you a system我想给你看一个系统
11that helps you stop wasting your evenings and weekends帮助你不再浪费你的夜晚和周末
12and make time for everything.并给一切时间。
13By the end, you'll know how to achieve more到最后,你会知道如何实现更多
14out of one well-run week than most people get out of a year.比大多数人的一年还多
15The most important number in your bank account您银行账户中最重要的号码
16is not on your bank statement.银行对账单上没有
17It's the number 1,437.这是1437号。
18That's the number of free or leisure hours这就是免费或休闲时间的数量
19a full-time worker in America gets every year.美国每年都有全职工人
20That's according to BLS.这是根据BLS。
21You get about 3.18 hours per weekday你每星期约得到3.18小时
22and 5.8 hours per weekend or holiday.每周末或假日5.8小时。
23And this is what's surprising.这是令人惊讶的。
24The average worker puts in about 45 work weeks a year.平均每名工人每年工作约45周。
25And if you add up all your free time,如果你把空闲时间加起来
26it's almost 36 work weeks every year.每年将近36个工作周。
27So your after work hours are not some tiny leftover.所以你的下班时间可不是什么小剩菜
28They're almost another career hiding inside your year.他们几乎是另一种职业生涯 隐藏在你的一年。
29But those hidden hours但那些隐藏的时间
30do not automatically become a better life, right?不要自动变成更好的生活,对不对?
31They arrive with hope他们满怀希望地来了
32and they often end with a quiet shame他们常常以沉默的耻辱结束
33of knowing that you had time,知道你有时间,
34but you did not really have control over it.但你并没有真正控制它。
35That is why attention matters.这就是为什么注意力很重要。
36You own your time only when you own your attention.你拥有你的时间 只有当你拥有你的注意力。
37During the day, your role gives you guardrails.白天,你的角色给你护栏。
38From nine to five, you have a calendar,从9到5,你有日历,
39you have a team, you have a job, you have a role.你有团队,有工作,有角色
40And all of that constantly tell you所有这一切总是告诉你
41how to manage your attention and your time.如何管理你的注意力和时间。
42Then comes the evening and those guardrails disappear.然后晚上,那些护栏消失了。
43Now you're free, but is your attention actually free?现在你自由了 但你的注意力真的自由了吗?
44The phrase free time makes us think these hours闲暇时间让我们觉得这些小时
45cost nothing, but every hour has an opportunity cost.但每个小时都有机会
46So the best way to think about your evening所以,最好的办法 想到你的夜晚
47is like a bank account.就像一个银行账户。
48Some hours are deposits and some hours are withdrawals.有些小时是存款,有些小时是提款。
49Sleep, creative work, time spent with your loved ones,睡觉 创造力 和亲人一起度过时光
50all a great deposit.都是一笔大存款
51What if you have doom scrolling, social media, withdrawal?如果你有末日卷轴 社交媒体 退出呢?
52But what if you have had a rough day and you need to unwind?但如果你今天很辛苦 需要放松一下怎么办?
53If all you wanna do is binge watch Grey's Anatomy如果你只想看Grey的解剖学
54or Bridgerton, are you withdrawing from your bank account?还是布里奇顿 你要从你的银行账户上提款?
55And sure, sometimes you have to unwind and be a total zombie,当然,有时你必须解开风波 成为一个完全僵尸,
56but here's the trap.但这里的陷阱。
57There is a research from the Journal《日刊》有一份研究
58of Applied Psychology paper called,应用心理学论文,
59Did You Have a Nice Evening?晚上过得好吗?
60They found that relaxing and recovery are not the same.他们发现放松和康复是不一样的。
61If you had a stressful day, it's better to choose如果你今天压力太大,最好选择
62a form of recovery that changes your state.一种会改变你状态的恢复方式
63Cook something or practice music,做点什么或者练习音乐,
64read 10 pages of a book, go for a walk.读十页的书,去散步。
65That is a deposit.这是押金。
66And the debt in the bank account is a little more subtle.而银行账户中的债务则略微微妙.
67When I work late at night,我深夜工作时
68I feel like I have to squeeze everything I can我觉得我不得不挤压一切我能
69out of the last few hours of the day.在最后几个小时里
70The house is quiet, nobody is interrupting me.房子很安静 没人打扰我
71I have focus, I have momentum.我有专注,有动力
72I stay up late, really late.我熬夜,真的迟到
73And the next morning, I pay for it.第二天早上 我付了钱
74That is my ambition turning into a debt.这是我的野心变成债务。
75The first action item is pretty straightforward.第一个动作项目相当直截了当。
76Audit your evening bank account.审计你的晚上银行账户。
77Make a list of your deposits, your withdrawals, your debts.列出你的存款 提款 债务
78Because just like a bank account,因为就像一个银行账户,
79if your deposits exceed your withdrawals over time,如果你的存款超过你的提款时间,
80you keep growing and compounding.你继续生长 和复合。
81The real question is if your evening真正的问题是,如果你的夜晚
82is a hidden bank account,是一个隐藏的银行账户,
83what is the best way to invest in it?投资的最佳方式是什么?
84How do you decide whether tonight should be about work,你如何决定今晚是不是关于工作,
85about rest, about family, about learning,关于休息,关于家庭,关于学习,
86or just about shutting down?还是要关门?
87You need a decisioning framework.你需要一个决策框架。
88I call it the 3C framework.我称之为3C框架。
89Clock, compass, and climate.时钟、指南针和气候
90Clock is about what kind of work fits your biology.时间是什么样的工作适合你的生物学。
91Compass, which accounts need funding.Compass,它的账户需要资金。
92Your physical body or your emotional bonds你的身体或情感纽带
93or your big career bets.或者你的职业大赌注。
94And the climate, what zone you're in.和气候,你所在的区域。
95All of those things will change所有这些事情都会改变
96the way you think about your evening.你对晚上的思考方式
97Let's start with the first C, clock.我们从第一个C,钟开始
98Are you a morning person or a night owl?你是早上的人还是夜猫子?
99Waking up at 5 a.m. alone does not make you a great leader.光是早上5点醒来 并不能让你成为伟大的领袖
100Tim Cook used to wake up at 4 a.m. every morning.蒂姆·库克经常在每天早上4点醒来.
101And Barack Obama and Winston Churchill还有巴拉克·奥巴马和温斯顿·丘吉尔
102were famously night owls who stayed up way past midnight.是著名的夜猫头鹰 午夜过夜
103Your best hour is not the hour some billionaire你最好的时光不是亿万富翁的时光
104or a YouTuber tells you to use.或者一个YouTuber让你使用的
105It depends on what your chronotype is.这取决于你的染色体是什么。
106A chronotype is basically your biological rhythm.染色体是你们的生理节奏
107Some people naturally come alive early in the morning.有些人在清晨自然会活着
108Some people, like me, come alive later.有些人,像我一样,晚点活着过来
109Some people are somewhere in the middle.有些人在中间
110The point is to know when your brain actually works best.重点是要知道你的大脑什么时候能发挥最大作用。
111If your best hour is 1 a.m., use it.如果你的最好时间是凌晨1点,请使用它。
112But only if your life lets you protect the sleep但只有你的生命让你能保住睡眠
113on the other side.在另一边。
114Chronotype is not a permission to steal from tomorrow.车型不是明天允许偷的
115It's a permission to stop following someone else's clock.允许停止跟随别人的时钟.
116I know of plenty of night owls我知道很多夜猫子
117who work late and sleep late.他们工作很晚,睡觉很晚。
118That's why advice like just go to bed early所以建议早点睡觉
119or wake up early is useless to many of us.或者早起对我们来说是没用的
120The lesson is stop borrowing from someone else's biology.教训是停止向别人的生物学借钱.
121Mash the work to your clock.把工作放到你的钟上
122Ask yourself, what are the hours when you're the sharpest?问自己,最锋利的时候是什么时候?
123Use that for precision work.用它来做精确的工作。
124What are the hours when your brain is more uninhibited大脑更无阻时是什么时间
125and open to associative thinking?并允许联合思考?
126Use those hours for imagination.利用这些时间来想象
127What are the hours where you are completely tired什么时候你完全累了
128and depleted?和耗尽?
129Use them for closure and recovery.用它们来关闭和恢复。
130In terms of action items,在行动项目方面,
131you don't have to do much except reflect.除了反射,你不用做太多事
132You probably already know more than you think.你可能已经知道的比你想象的多
133You know what your chronotype is.你知道你的染色体是什么吗?
134When do you usually make clear decisions, clean decisions?你通常什么时候做清楚的决定,干净的决定?
135And when do you get your best ideas?你什么时候才有好点子?
136And when do you start making dumb mistakes?你什么时候开始犯愚蠢的错误?
137That's your clock.这是你的钟。
138And as long as you're not asking your tired brain只要你不问你疲倦的大脑
139to do your sharpest thinking, you'll be fine.做你最敏锐的思考, 你会没事的。
140And remember, at night, when you get that second win,记住,晚上,当你拿到第二场胜利,
141don't mistake treating it like a second day.别把事情当成第二天处理
142And now get to the second C in the framework, your compass.现在进入第二个C,你的指南针。
143When I was young, my first job was in Boston当我年轻的时候,我第一次工作是在波士顿
144and it was in a very small, dark, dingy little room它在一个非常小, 黑暗,丁基小房间
145full of cables and servers and hardware and computer parts充斥电缆和服务器以及硬件和计算机部件
146and three other guys who were as unhappy as they were stuck.和另外三个家伙 他们不开心 因为他们被卡住了。
147I was working as a help desk person.我是做服务台的
148But for me, that room was such a gift但对我来说,那间房真有天赋
149because I didn't come from tech.因为我不是来自科技。
150So on evenings and weekends,因此,在晚上和周末,
151I studied everything I could about technology,我研究了所有关于科技的知识
152the operating systems, networking protocols,操作系统 网络协议
153programming languages, anything.编程语言,任何东西。
154And I read everything about communications and collaborations我读了所有关于通讯和协作的内容
155and soft skills and hard skills.和柔软的技巧和坚硬的技巧。
156I would reach out to senior leaders of the company我会联系公司高层领导
157and say, hey, do you have any extra projects that I can take?说,嘿,你有什么额外项目 我可以做?
158And I would do it after hours.我会在几个小时后完成的
159One of those leaders was the EVP of Advanced Technologies.其中之一是先进技术的EVP。
160His name was Dr. Paul Abramson and he had two PhDs from MIT.他叫保罗·阿布拉姆森博士 他有两个麻省理工的博士学位
161For some reason, he took a liking to me因为某种原因,他喜欢我
162and he became one of my earliest mentors他成为我最早的导师之一
163in corporate America.在公司美国。
164When I applied to MIT,当我申请麻省理工时
165he wrote a wonderful recommendation letter for me他给我写了一封很棒的推荐信
166and he even guided me through the application process.他甚至引导我通过申请程序。
167Now, looking back, I can see it now现在,回头看,我看得出来
168that my future was built very quietly我的未来非常安静
169one evening and one weekend at a time.一个晚上一个周末
170But let me be honest about this too,但让我也说实话
171that it worked because at that point of my life,因为它的工作,因为 在我生命的那一刻,
172I was single, I had very few obligations outside of work.我单身,除了工作,我几乎没有义务
173Two of my best friends were buried in medical school我两个最好的朋友被埋在医学院
174and neuroscience.还有神经科学
175My evenings and my weekends were usually open.我的晚间和周末通常开放。
176So I just doubled down on investing in skills所以,我刚刚加倍 投资技能
177and a better future for myself, building networks.和更好的未来 我自己, 建设网络。
178Now, that is what I mean by compass.这就是罗盘的意思
179Your evening compass has to have a clear direction.你的晚指南针必须有一个明确的方向。
180Typically, there are three directions that I think of.通常,我认为有三个方向。
181Physical direction is anything that gives you物理方向是任何给你的东西
182better health, energy, capacity.健康、能源、能力
183Emotional directions are actions that bring you closer情感方向是让你更接近的行动
184to people who matter to you.对你很重要的人来说
185And vocational direction,职业方向,
186where you make future-facing investments,你将在那里投资,
187skills, projects, relationships.技能,项目,关系。
188Now, they may not pay off tomorrow morning,他们明天早上可能还不到钱
189but can change the direction但可以改变方向
190of your future life tremendously.将你的未来 生命的巨大。
191But here's a trap that most ambitious people miss.但这里有一个陷阱 最有野心的人错过。
192I did.没错
193I was living in a suburb north of Boston我住在波士顿北部的一个郊区
194and the winters were super harsh冬天非常严酷
195and the loneliness was harsher.孤独是更残酷的。
196And it would get dark at 4 p.m. in the afternoon.下午4点就会天黑
197Now, fortunately, I had trained to be a monk.现在,幸运的是,我训练了成为一名僧侣。
198I had good enough tolerance for solitude,我有足够的容忍独处,
199but I should have invested more但我应该投资更多
200in my emotional relationships and in exercise.在我的情感关系 和锻炼。
201If your body has been ignored,如果你的身体被忽略了,
202your success will become too heavy a burden你的成功会变得太重
203for you to carry.让你背起来
204If your relationships are ignored,如果你们的关系被忽略了
205your success will get very lonely.你的成功会变得很孤独
206Early in your career,在你的职业生涯初期,
207many mornings will start in the same dark rooms like mine did.很多早晨都会像我一样在黑暗的房间里开始
208But what changes your life is what you do in the evenings.但改变你生活的东西 就是你在晚上做的事
209And now, the final C, the climate.而现在,最后的C,气候。
210Sometimes your normal evening routine有时候你正常的晚间活动
211will not survive contact with reality.与现实的接触是无法幸存的
212Peace time evenings and wartime evenings和平时期的夜晚和战争时期的夜晚
213are not the same thing.不一样
214So your evenings should change when your climate changes.所以你的夜晚应该改变 当你的气候变化。
215When Google's Gemini started gaining momentum,当Google的双子座开始获得势头时,
216the CEO of OpenAI, Sam Altman,OpenAI的首席执行官山姆·阿尔特曼
217reportedly declared a code red inside the company.据报道,公司内部宣布代码为红色.
218Till then, OpenAI had built a massive lead在那之前,OpenAI 已经建立了一个巨大的线索
219in terms of 800 million users worldwide.全球8亿用户。
220They had become a verb that replaced AI.他们已经成为取代AI的动词.
221Just like people used to say, Google it,就像人们常说的,谷歌,
222people started saying, oh, I'll just chat GPT it.人们开始说, 哦,我会只是聊天GPT。
223But when the sleeping giant awoke,但当沉睡的巨人醒来时,
224Google 交付双子座 3.0
225that was miles ahead of anything else at that point.那时比其他的都早几英里
226And it was wartime.那是战时的
227OpenAI had to refocus all of their energyOpenAI必须重新集中他们的精力
228on their core engine.他们的核心引擎。
229They delayed or canceled a lot of their initiatives他们推迟或取消了很多倡议
230like ads, agents, pulse, Sora,广告,代理,脉搏,空心,
231so that all the energy could be redirected这样所有能量都可以被重新定向
232to the single battlefront, chat GPT.到单一战线,聊天GPT。
233That's what wartime looks like.战争就是这样
234我无法想象Sam Altman有时间
235to play piano during his wartime evenings.在战时晚上弹钢琴
236When the climate changes,当气候变化时,
237the old routine becomes the wrong routine.旧的习惯变成了错误的习惯。
238You choose what matters most and everything else can wait.你选择最重要的,其他的都可以等
239A founder raising money for his startup, for example,例如,创始人为创业筹款,
240does not have the same evening晚上没有
241as someone in a stable career.作为稳定职业的人。
242A mother with a newborn does not have the same evening有新生儿的母亲没有同一个晚上
243as a mother with a 12 year old.作为母亲 12岁。
244A hedge fund analyst during the peak earning season在收入高峰期的对冲基金分析师
245is not gonna have the same night as he did in a quiet month.不会像他在一个安静的月里那样过夜
246In peacetime, your evenings can compound.在和平时期,你的夜晚可以复合。
247In wartime, your evenings have only one job, survival.在战时,你的夜晚只有一个工作,生存。
248Before you plan your evening, name your climate.在你计划今晚之前 说出你的气候
249Ask, am I in peacetime right now or in wartime climate?问,我是在和平时期 现在还是战时气候?
250If it is a peacetime, invest away.如果这是一个和平时期,投资离开。
251If it's a wartime, narrow the night, narrow the fight.若是战国之事,夜狭,战狭.
252But what if your evening is totally crazy但是如果你的夜晚是完全疯狂的
253and you have no time to do anything?你没时间做任何事?
254There is a version of yourself who finishes work on time,有一个版本的你谁完成 按时工作,
255eats a clean dinner, trains for 45 minutes,吃干净的晚餐 火车45分钟
256reads 20 pages of a wonderful book, journals,读了20页的优秀的书 日记
257meditates, calls a friend and sleeps by 10 o'clock.冥想,唤朋友,十点钟睡觉.
258But that version does not exist.但这一版本并不存在。
259Real evenings have late calls and delayed trains真正的夜晚有迟到的电话 和延迟的火车
260and sick kids and client fires and mad bosses,生病的孩子和客户 火灾和疯狂的老板,
261dishes and laundry.盘子和洗衣
262If your evening only works when life is perfect,如果你的夜晚只在生命完美的时候工作
263you don't have a system, you have a fiction.你没有系统,你有虚构。
264But in those wartime zones,但是在这些战区,
265when everything is going against you,当一切事情都发生在你身上的时候,
266it's better to stop chasing the perfect evening.最好别再追那完美的夜晚了
267Aim for what I call the enough evening.瞄准我所说的今晚
268Three things for the evening晚上三点
269that has already gone out of hand.这已经失控了。
270First, remove.首先,删除。
271Barack Obama wore mostly gray or blue suits as president.作为总统,巴拉克·奥巴马多穿灰色或蓝色西装.
272Steve Jobs had that famous black turtleneck.史蒂夫・乔布斯有那个著名的 黑色乌龟。
273Anna Wintour has kept the same bob安娜·温图尔一直保持同样的波波
274and the same sunglasses for 30 years.和同样的墨镜30年。
275Different worlds, same move.不同的世界,同样的动作。
276They have too many real decisions to make,他们有太多真正的决定,
277so they remove the small ones.故他们去除小的。
278Apply that to your evening.把它应用到你的晚上。
279Ask yourself, what small decisions问问你自己,什么小决定
280or distractions can you remove?或分心 你能清除吗?
281Second, reflect.第二,反思。
282Pick three questions and ask them every night before bed.选三问,每晚睡前问.
283It'll take you two minutes.需要两分钟
284Nowadays, my three favorite questions are super simple.现在,我最喜欢的三个问题非常简单。
285What did I learn today?我今天学到了什么?
286What did I improve today in my life or someone else's life?今天我有什么改进 或者别人的生活?
287And what did I smile about today?今天我笑什么来着?
288Because the most grounded people I know share one habit.因为我认识的被禁足者 都有一个习惯
289Morning for meditation, evening for reflection.早为冥想,晚为反省.
290And third, rest.第三,请休息。
291Neil deGrasse Tyson has this great line尼尔·德格拉塞·泰森有一句很棒的台词
292that if aliens came to our planet如果外星人来到我们的星球
293and watched us humans lie down semi-comatose看着我们人类躺下半身
294for one third of Earth's rotation,为地球自转的三分之一,
295they would wonder what the heck is wrong with these people.他们想知道这些人到底怎么了
296And he's right.他说得对
297Sleep looks totally absurd.睡觉看起来很荒谬
298For a third of the day, you lose consciousness,每天有三分之一的时间 你失去知觉
299become so vulnerable and produce absolutely nothing.变得如此脆弱 毫无成果
300And yet evolution chose sleep.然而,进化论选择了睡眠。
301That should humble every productivity addict on Earth.这应该可以让地球上的每一个生产力瘾君子都感到谦卑。
302So protect your sleep.所以保护你的睡眠。
303First, have a 15-minute landing strip.首先,有一个15分钟的起降跑道。
304That's your ritual before you go to sleep.这是你睡觉前的仪式
305Read a book, shower, change clothes, journal,阅读一本书,淋浴,换衣服,日记,
306whatever comes to mind.无论想到什么
307And second, protect your sleep from your devices.第二,保护你的睡眠不受装置的影响。
308Harvard Medical School study found哈佛医学院的研究发现
309that using our devices before bed delays your body clock.在睡觉前使用我们的设备 耽误了你的身体时间
310It suppresses melatonin, cuts REM sleep,它抑制梅拉托宁, 切断REM睡眠,
311and leaves you less alert the next morning隔天早晨,你将不再警惕,
312even if you had eight hours of sleep.即使你睡了8小时
313A part of my enough evening ritual我晚间礼仪的一部分
314is to write a short note to the community of folks写个简短的笔记给大家
315who think about these kinds of things.他们想着这些事情。
316That newsletter, by the way, goes out every week.顺便说一句,这份通讯每周都出刊。
317Link is in the description if you feel like it.链接在描述中,如果你想的话。
31860 years of adult life,60岁成人生活,
319roughly 22,000 evenings total.大约总共22,000个夜晚。
320That's what you and I have.这就是你和我拥有的。
321The question is, will they be enough?问题是,它们够不够?
322You know, we're called human beings.你知道,我们被称为人。
323We're terrible at just being.我们只是做坏事。
324The best evenings do not just end the day.美好的夜晚不只是一天结束。
325They are enough to return you to yourself.他们足以让你回到你自己身边
326Thank you, and I love you.谢谢,我爱你
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