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| 0:01 | Hello everybody, welcome back to my channel for this week's video. | 大家好,欢迎回到我的频道 本周的视频。 |
| 0:04 | I thought I would share with you everything I wish I had known before I started uni. | 我以为我会和你们分享我开始Uni之前所希望的一切 |
| 0:09 | Now I did do a video similar-ish to this almost two years ago now, which is crazy. | 现在,我做了一个视频 类似这个几乎两年前 现在,这是疯狂的。 |
| 0:14 | That was like kind of everything I wish I'd known before first year, so this is going | 那就像我初一之前所希望的一样 所以这是开始 |
| 0:18 | to encompass that. | 以包含这一点。 |
| 0:19 | Just for some background, I am a fourth year student, or I'm going into fourth year. | 我只是个四年级学生,不然我就要上四年级了 |
| 0:23 | I study economics at the University of Edinburgh, so I've been at university for three years. | 我在爱丁堡大学学习经济学,因此在大学里读了三年. |
| 0:28 | I'm from London, so I moved quite far away. | 我从伦敦来,所以搬到很远的地方 |
| 0:30 | Hopefully I can pass on some wisdom, I mean take everything with a pinch of salt, I don't | 希望我能传递一些智慧,我的意思是把一切 与一串盐,我不 |
| 0:36 | really know what I'm doing, my life's a mess too, but these are some things that I think | 真的知道我在做什么,我的生活也一团糟, 但这些都是一些事情,我认为 |
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| 1 | Hello everybody, welcome back to my channel for this week's video. | 大家好,欢迎回到我的频道 本周的视频。 |
| 2 | I thought I would share with you everything I wish I had known before I started uni. | 我以为我会和你们分享我开始Uni之前所希望的一切 |
| 3 | Now I did do a video similar-ish to this almost two years ago now, which is crazy. | 现在,我做了一个视频 类似这个几乎两年前 现在,这是疯狂的。 |
| 4 | That was like kind of everything I wish I'd known before first year, so this is going | 那就像我初一之前所希望的一样 所以这是开始 |
| 5 | to encompass that. | 以包含这一点。 |
| 6 | Just for some background, I am a fourth year student, or I'm going into fourth year. | 我只是个四年级学生,不然我就要上四年级了 |
| 7 | I study economics at the University of Edinburgh, so I've been at university for three years. | 我在爱丁堡大学学习经济学,因此在大学里读了三年. |
| 8 | I'm from London, so I moved quite far away. | 我从伦敦来,所以搬到很远的地方 |
| 9 | Hopefully I can pass on some wisdom, I mean take everything with a pinch of salt, I don't | 希望我能传递一些智慧,我的意思是把一切 与一串盐,我不 |
| 10 | really know what I'm doing, my life's a mess too, but these are some things that I think | 真的知道我在做什么,我的生活也一团糟, 但这些都是一些事情,我认为 |
| 11 | are hopefully going to be beneficial to you. | 希望对你有好处 |
| 12 | You are always going to be you. | 你将永远是你。 |
| 13 | Before I went to uni, I had this huge preconceived idea that when I got to uni I was going to | 在我去大学之前 我有一个巨大的预想 当我去大学时 |
| 14 | be a completely different person, I was like oh when I go to uni I'll make these foods | 一个完全不同的人,我就像哦 当我去大学,我会做这些食物 |
| 15 | and I'll read these books and I'll suddenly take up yoga, or I don't know, something. | 我会看这些书 然后突然开始瑜伽 或者我不知道什么 |
| 16 | You have this vision that you're going to be a completely different person, but realistically | 你有这个想法 你会是一个完全不同的人, 但现实中 |
| 17 | you are still you, even if you're moving across the world. | 你还是你, 即使你移动过世界。 |
| 18 | Yes, things will probably change about you, but don't have these preconceived ideas that | 是的,事情可能会改变你, 但不要有这些先入为主的想法 |
| 19 | you are going to be a completely different person, and if you want to build a habit, | 你会是一个完全不同的人, 如果你想建立一个习惯, |
| 20 | now's the time to start, don't think that when you get to uni you're going to be different. | 现在是时候开始了,别以为 当你到了大学,你会是不同的。 |
| 21 | And in the same way, also I worried about friendships and stuff, people you were leaving | 同样的,我也担心友情之类的事 你离开的人 |
| 22 | behind, how's that all going to work, and something I should have thought about more | 后面,那会怎样? 我本该多想想的 |
| 23 | is that I'm me in my essence and in my core, and that's not going to just change because | 就是我的本质和核心, 这不会只是改变,因为 |
| 24 | I moved to uni. | 我搬到了乌尼。 |
| 25 | Plan things. | 计划一些事情 |
| 26 | When I was in school, I did not plan anything. | 当我在学校的时候,我没有计划什么。 |
| 27 | I fumbled through life without a planner, without writing anything down, I just let | 我过着没有计划者的生活, 没有写下任何东西,我只是让 |
| 28 | life happen to me, and you need to plan. | 生活发生在我身上, 你需要计划。 |
| 29 | This is a great segue to today's sponsors, who are Papier. | 对今天的赞助商来说,这是个伟大的问题,他们是帕皮尔。 |
| 30 | I'm so excited to be working with them. | 我很高兴能和他们合作 |
| 31 | I have been using their planners for two years, I think, like a year and a half. | 我想,我利用他们的计划者两年半了。 |
| 32 | I think I started using them at the end of 2018, and so it's very, very cool to be working | 我想我在2018年底开始使用它们 所以工作非常非常酷 |
| 33 | with them. | 与他们。 |
| 34 | I'm just very gassed having literally used it every day for almost two years. | 几乎两年来 我每天都在用它 |
| 35 | It's literally a part of every day of my life. | 我生命中每天都有这样的一部分 |
| 36 | To be working with them now is very, very cool, and this will help you guys out as well. | 和他们合作现在是非常非常酷的, 这也会帮助你们。 |
| 37 | I have some of their products here, which I'm going to quickly show you. | 我这里有他们的一些产品, 我会很快地给你看。 |
| 38 | This is the main thing that I want to recommend, is an academic diary, a planner of some kind. | 这是我想推荐的主要内容, 是一本学术日记, 一个某种规划者。 |
| 39 | Firstly, amazing print, I love this one. | 首先,惊人的指纹,我喜欢这个。 |
| 40 | It's got some really cool spreads. | 它有一些非常酷的分布。 |
| 41 | You can write your timetable, your deadlines, they have a week overview as well as monthly | 你可以写你的时间表,你的期限, 他们有一周的概述和月的 |
| 42 | overviews, and it's just a great place to plan out your life. | 概述,它只是一个伟大的地方 规划你的生活。 |
| 43 | There's also some cool things which are great for students, like recipe ideas, a finance | 还有一些对学生有好处的酷事 比如菜谱 金融 |
| 44 | tracker, like these are really amazing tools if you're just moving to university, or even | 追踪器,就像这些真的惊人的工具 如果你只是搬到大学,甚至 |
| 45 | if you've been there a while. | 如果你去过那里一段时间。 |
| 46 | I love having everything written down. | 我喜欢把一切都写下来 |
| 47 | I cannot tell you how much easier it is to relax and just chill out when you have your | 我不能告诉你 放松和放松有多容易 当你有你的 |
| 48 | life written somewhere like this, because when everything's like, you know, running | 生活写的地方像这样, 因为当一切都像,你知道,运行 |
| 49 | around in your mind, I literally can't sleep at night thinking about all those things, | 在你的脑海中,我几乎无法在晚上睡觉 想着所有这些事情, |
| 50 | and just putting it onto paper and like, you can just let yourself forget things and know | 把它写在纸上 然后,你可以让自己忘记事情,知道 |
| 51 | that you still have access to them. | 你仍然可以接触到他们。 |
| 52 | Game changing, game changing. | 游戏改变,游戏改变. |
| 53 | They also have a weekly planner, which is just tear-out sheets for each week with a | 他们也有每周的计程员, 只是每周有一张撕裂床单 |
| 54 | little to-do list on the side. | 侧面的小待办事宜列表 。 |
| 55 | Again, this is great, I love writing to-do lists. | 这太好了,我喜欢写待办事宜清单 |
| 56 | To-do lists are your best friend at university, it's a lot more independent than school, and | 大学的待办事宜表是你最好的朋友, 它比学校更独立, |
| 57 | if you are able to plan things out in a way like this, there are so many more hours in | 如果你能用这样的方式 计划出事情的话 还有这么多小时 |
| 58 | the day when you actually plan things, and I love that these ones are tear-out because | 有一天,你实际上计划的事情, 我喜欢这些是撕裂的,因为 |
| 59 | you can put it on your wall and have it in front of your desk for that week, or you can | 你可以把它放在墙上 放在桌子前面 那星期,或者你可以 |
| 60 | also just keep them in here. | 把他们留在这 |
| 61 | And then they also have these sets of notepads, so firstly these designs are so, so sweet. | 然后他们也有这些笔记本, 所以首先这些设计是如此的,如此甜蜜。 |
| 62 | I literally love them, I think they're so vibey. | 我从字面上爱他们, 我认为他们是如此的气息。 |
| 63 | So these ones are just to-do list ticks, which is great for just a daily task, or I would | 所以,这些只是待办事项列表的勾勾, 这对日常工作来说是件好事,否则我会 |
| 64 | even say if you're planning an essay or planning a piece of work that you need to do, like | 甚至说,如果你计划 一篇论文或计划 一块你需要做的,喜欢 |
| 65 | a project or something, you can write down each section and then work through it like | 某个项目或什么的,你可以写下每个段落,然后通过它像 |
| 66 | that, and just good for planning stuff out. | 那样对计划有用 |
| 67 | And then I also have a couple notepads, look how cute the designs are. | 我还有几张纸纸 看看这些设计有多可爱 |
| 68 | They have so many more designs as well, obviously I went for quite bright colours and fun things | 他们还有这么多的设计, 显然,我去了 相当明亮的颜色和有趣的东西 |
| 69 | because I just like that, but they do have such a variety of designs. | 因为我只是喜欢, 但他们确实有 各种各样的设计。 |
| 70 | So this one is just a lined notebook, great for taking notes and lectures or planning | 所以,这个只是一个线性笔记本, 伟大的做笔记和讲座或规划 |
| 71 | essays, etc. | 论文等. |
| 72 | And then this is a dotted one, which is great maybe if you do a more creative subject, but | 接下来,这是一个点, 这很好 如果你做一个更创造性的主题, |
| 73 | I also love these for journaling and stuff. | 我也喜欢这些杂志之类的 |
| 74 | Papier is a great place to shop for all your back to school, back to uni essentials, they | 帕皮尔是一个伟大的地方 买你所有的回学校, 回到uni 必需品,他们 |
| 75 | really have such an amazing variety in such cute prints. | 这么可爱的指纹真有种 |
| 76 | Everything can also be personalised, my name is on all of these which I think is so special. | 所有的东西都可以个性化, 我的名字在所有这些 我认为如此特殊。 |
| 77 | I also love that Papier sourced all their paper from FSC certified forests and everything | 我也喜欢帕皮尔从FSC认证的森林里 找到所有的文件 |
| 78 | comes in cardboard packaging so you can recycle it. | 放在纸板包装里 这样你就可以回收了 |
| 79 | So I have a discount which is so exciting, I'm just so happy to be working with them | 所以,我有一个折扣 如此刺激,我只是很高兴 与他们合作 |
| 80 | and I'll have that on the screen, you can use the link below to shop anything from Papier. | 我会在屏幕上看到, 你可以使用下面的链接 购买任何从帕皮尔。 |
| 81 | Making friends is going to take work. | 交朋友会去上班的 |
| 82 | When I moved to uni I had this idea that making friends was actually going to be easier than | 当我搬到Uni时 我有一个想法 交朋友其实会比 |
| 83 | it was in school or in life previously, and in my experience it was harder. | 之前是在学校里还是生活里 根据我的经验 这更难 |
| 84 | So in school you have these little interactions where you see someone every day, you have | 所以在学校,你有一些小互动 在那里,你每天看到一个人,你有 |
| 85 | a class with them and you're able to build a friendship from that, like the beginning | 和他们同班,你可以从此建立友谊,就像开始一样 |
| 86 | stages are done for you because you don't have to go through the awkwardness of meeting | 阶段是为你完成的 因为你不必经历尴尬的相遇 |
| 87 | up with someone because you have to go to school. | 和别人在一起 因为你必须去上学。 |
| 88 | In uni those little interactions I think are rarer, obviously lectures, tutorials etc, | 在尼尼,这些小互动 我认为是比较少见的, 显然讲课,辅导等等, |
| 89 | but a lot of the times it's so easy to just walk in, listen to the lecture or tutorial | 但很多时候,它是如此容易 只是走进来, 听讲座或辅导 |
| 90 | or whatever and then go home. | 或者随便什么 然后回家 |
| 91 | And especially if a lot of your studying is going to be online next year it's so easy | 特别是如果你的很多研究 明年就要上网了 这很简单 |
| 92 | to not actually get to know people. | 无法真正了解人 |
| 93 | If you get lucky with your flatmates obviously that can be a great way to make friends and | 如果你和你的室友走运 那显然是交朋友的好办法 |
| 94 | I think that's the instance where it could be easier to make friends since you are seeing | 我认为,这是一个例子,在那里,它可能更容易 交朋友,因为你看到 |
| 95 | them all the time, but if you don't click with them or you just want to make more friends | 但是如果你不和他们一起点击 或者你只是想交更多的朋友 |
| 96 | I do think it requires effort and time and you cannot just sit in your room and expect | 我认为这需要努力和时间 你不能就坐在你的房间里期待 |
| 97 | friends to come to you. | 朋友来找你。 |
| 98 | If I spent too long kind of almost like pitying myself and being sad about the fact that I | 如果我花了太多时间 几乎喜欢同情自己 和悲伤的事实,我 |
| 99 | didn't really have as many friends as I thought I would or that I didn't really see people | 没有我想的那么多的朋友 也没有真正见到的人 |
| 100 | that much, instead I should have just been more proactive. | 我本该更主动些的 |
| 101 | Everyone wants to make friends so don't be scared to like message somebody and be like | 每个人都想交朋友,所以不要害怕 喜欢留言 和喜欢 |
| 102 | hey do you want to do something or like join a society or club, music, whatever it is that | 嘿,你想做什么 或喜欢加入一个社会或俱乐部, 音乐,不管是什么 |
| 103 | you're into because then you can find like like-minded people. | 你很喜欢,因为那样你就能像志同道合的人 |
| 104 | I would just say friends take work, it's not just going to fall onto your lap. | 我只是说朋友去工作, 它不只是要掉到你的腿上。 |
| 105 | The same way that like with any relationship in life like it's going to take effort you | 和生活中任何关系一样 就像你需要努力一样 |
| 106 | have to put in the time and it might not just be handed to you, which I do feel like school | 需要把时间,它可能不只是交给你, 我确实觉得学校 |
| 107 | friends kind of were. | 朋友是这样的。 |
| 108 | Don't be afraid to put in the effort and I think don't feel bad, you don't instantly | 不要害怕努力,我觉得不要难过,你不会马上 |
| 109 | have a connection with like somebody in the first week, there's plenty of time and yeah | 与第一个星期的某个人有联系, 有很多时间,是的 |
| 110 | just put in the effort. | 刚刚努力。 |
| 111 | There is more to life than grades, when I was in school I was very academic focused, | 人生比成绩还多 当我在学校的时候 我非常注重学术 |
| 112 | I always wanted to get the highest grade and that was like the be all and end all for me. | 我一直想得到最高的分数 这就像所有,结束所有对我来说。 |
| 113 | I think in uni I'm not going to say that like grades don't matter because they do and you're | 我想在大学,我不会说 像成绩不重要 因为他们做,你 |
| 114 | paying a lot for your education probably, if you're getting your education for free | 如果你要免费接受教育的话 可能要花很多钱 |
| 115 | I'm very jealous but you know regardless you're putting in a lot of time, you want | 我很嫉妒,但你知道 不管你花了很多时间,你想 |
| 116 | it to be worth it, like I wouldn't say throw your grades away at all, however I will say | 这值得,就像我不会说 扔掉你的成绩,无论如何,我会说 |
| 117 | Now my mindset is so different to when I was in school, grades are something I want to | 现在,我的思维 与我上学时不同, 成绩是我想的东西 |
| 118 | do well but I'm not going to get upset over not having the absolute highest grade. | 做得很好 但我不会因为没有绝对最高的成绩而生气 |
| 119 | I would much rather enjoy my life, make videos, have time to do a sport, go to the gym etc | 我宁愿享受我的生活, 制作视频, 有时间做运动, 去健身房等 |
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| 121 | to have to make for yourself but I do think that especially like talking to friends and | 但我确实觉得 特别喜欢和朋友交谈 |
| 122 | uni, in uni grades are just it's just not everything, doing internships, having other | 单调,单调的成绩只是 它只是不是一切,做实习,有其他 |
| 123 | stuff on your CV, I feel like that's what makes the difference and especially like the difference | 在你的CV上的东西, 我觉得这就是什么 使区别,尤其是像区别 |
| 124 | between a first and a two one. | 在第一个和两个之间 |
| 125 | I don't think it's that much, it's a lot of work difference but it | 我觉得没有那么多,但工作不同 |
| 126 | isn't that much in terms of like employability, obviously that depends on like the degree you're | 很明显,这取决于你的学位 |
| 127 | doing, don't do anything, don't change your life over this video but I just think that it makes | 做,不做任何事情, 不要改变你的生活 通过这个视频,但我只是认为它使 |
| 128 | to focus on other things and be like more well rounded than just thinking about grades all the | 专注于其他事情, 和像更周全 而不是仅仅考虑成绩 |
| 129 | time. | 时间。 |
| 130 | Social media is a lie. | 社交媒体是谎言。 |
| 131 | Okay now we all know this, we all say this all the time but please | 好了,现在我们都知道了, 我们都说这所有的时间,但请 |
| 132 | remember this especially if you're going into first year, like I was saying earlier I didn't | 记住这一点,特别是如果你要进入第一年, 就像我刚才说,我没有 |
| 133 | click with my flatmates really, I didn't have loads and loads of friends, I didn't have like a defined | 点击我的室友,真的, 我没有负载和负载 朋友,我没有像一个定义 |
| 134 | friendship group especially in first year. | 特别是第一年的友谊小组 |
| 135 | I would see my friends from home on like their instagram | 我会从家里看到我的朋友 像他们的Instagram |
| 136 | stories and stuff hanging out with people and just having like the best time and doing stuff | 故事和东西 挂出与人, 只是有 像最好的时光和做的东西 |
| 137 | all the time and like they had like a proper group and all of this and I just feel like so many | 所有的时间和像 他们有像一个合适的团体 这一切,我只是感觉像这么多 |
| 138 | people who I thought loved uni or were having like the absolute time of their life have told | 那些我以为爱慕尼黑的人 或者像他们生命中绝对时间一样的人 |
| 139 | me since that they were not, like it was a lie. | 我从那以后就不是了 就像是在撒谎 |
| 140 | I've had so many friends tell me that they hated | 我有很多朋友告诉我 他们讨厌 |
| 141 | freshers week and I remember thinking they look like they're having a great time. | 更新鲜的一周 我记得他们看起来很快乐 |
| 142 | I also know | и笵 |
| 143 | people who did have like a great friends and then now they've fallen out you know like you just don't | 曾经有过好朋友的人,现在又掉出来 你知道,就像你没有 |
| 144 | know what the truth is behind anything on social media so do not let that get you down, don't like | 所以不要让你失望 不喜欢 |
| 145 | try your very best not to compare your life to anyone else's and I do think that like good things | 尽量不要把自己的生活 和别人的生活比起来,我确实认为这是好事 |
| 146 | come to those who wait, if you are having a hard time with anything in life I think that like good | 来的人等待, 如果你有一个艰难的 生活与任何事情,我觉得很好 |
| 147 | things are coming. | 事情来了。 |
| 148 | You need to learn to enjoy your own company. | 你需要学会享受自己的陪伴 |
| 149 | Before I went to uni I would never | 在去大学之前,我永远不会 |
| 150 | really do anything on my own like I would run errands like if I needed to go to a shop I would | 真的做任何事情 像我会跑腿一样 如果我需要去商店 我会的 |
| 151 | do that or like go to the gym and things that are like traditionally done on your own but I | 做那个或者喜欢去健身房 和一些事情 像传统上自己做,但我 |
| 152 | wouldn't necessarily take myself shopping for fun or go on a long walk or go to a new place because | 不会带自己去购物找乐子 或者去长途跋涉 或者去一个新地方 因为 |
| 153 | I was like it's sad, sad for me to have to do that on my own I should have people to do that with. | 我仿佛悲伤,悲伤 我不得不这样做 我自己,我应该有 人们这样做。 |
| 154 | Take it from me, you can do whatever you want on your own. | 从我这里拿走,你可以做任何你想做的。 |
| 155 | Do not miss out on experiences and | 不要错过经历和 |
| 156 | trying new stuff because you're scared to do it on your own. | 尝试新的东西 因为你害怕自己做。 |
| 157 | If you have people to go with all the | 如果你有 人与所有 |
| 158 | time that's great but I definitely especially in first year I learned how to like just do things | 时间,这是伟大的,但我绝对 特别在第一年,我学会了如何 喜欢做事情 |
| 159 | on my own, take myself out for the day and have a nice time and regardless I think that's an | 独自一人, 带自己出去一天 并有一个愉快的时光 不管我认为这是一个 |
| 160 | и笵и眖硂ㄇ 眔 independence | |
| 161 | like those times. | 就像那些时候 |
| 162 | Obviously moving away and living in a new city or just university in general is way | 显然搬家 住在新城市 或者普通的大学里 |
| 163 | more independent and it's good to lean into that and like learn, I guess learn like how to be more | 更独立, 和它的好处 倾斜到这一点和喜欢学习, 我想学会如何成为更多 |
| 164 | independent. | 独立。 |
| 165 | There's no one at your flat you know telling you like oh we're doing this today | 你公寓里没有人会告诉你我们今天要这么做 |
| 166 | or I'm taking you here or this is what's happening like you have to kind of just do your own thing | 或者我带你来这里... ...或者这就是你必须做的 |
| 167 | and I think if you can learn to enjoy your own free time and like do things on your own I do | 我想如果你能学会享受自己的闲暇时间 喜欢自己做一些事情 |
| 168 | think that that makes like uni a lot easier. | 觉得这样就容易多了 |
| 169 | Research your courses, I think I still have | 研究你的课程,我想我还有 |
| 170 | this issue. | 这个问题。 |
| 171 | It's very difficult to kind of work out what courses you want to take, what you're | 很难确定你要选什么课程 选什么 |
| 172 | anyway where you can take extra courses for the first few weeks and then pick which course you | 无论如何,你在哪里可以 额外课程的前几个星期 然后选择你哪一个课程 |
| 173 | prefer and then just carry on with that one. | 更喜欢,然后继续那个。 |
| 174 | Obviously it's more work because for the first | 很明显,这是更多的工作 因为第一 |
| 175 | few weeks you're taking like multiple courses. | 几周后你就要上多种课程了 |
| 176 | Browsing for a course that you actually enjoy, | 浏览一个你真正喜欢的课程, |
| 177 | it is worth it and even if you don't want to do that just take a little bit more time to research | 这是值得的,即使你不想这样做 只要花点时间进行研究 |
| 178 | also pay attention to like the lecturers and the people who run the course because I do think that | 也注意那些讲课的老师和学生 因为我认为 |
| 179 | makes honestly like the biggest difference like that can make or break a course who runs it so | 诚实地说,最大的区别 像这样,可以制造或打破 路线谁运行它如此 |
| 180 | you have a lecturer that you really really like see if they have any other courses and consider | 你有一个讲师,你真的很喜欢 看看他们有没有其他课程和考虑 |
| 181 | taking those because that's the determining factor as to whether you enjoy a course but yeah | 就因为那是决定你是否喜欢课程的因素 |
| 182 | university like it's very new concept having just finished if you've just finished school being | 大学就像一个全新的概念 刚刚结束 如果你刚刚完成学业 |
| 183 | able to actually choose what you're studying a bit is quite a new concept take advantage of that | 能真正选择你研究的东西 是个全新的概念 |
| 184 | research the courses like do background reading if you can because like at the end of the day | 研究课程 喜欢做背景阅读 如果你可以 因为喜欢在一天结束时 |
| 185 | you're here by choice you know you can choose your life stereotypes do not have to be who you | 你选择在这里,你知道你可以选择 你的生活定型观念 不必成为你 |
| 186 | are so I think when you like think about university there are a lot of like social pressure drinking | 所以我觉得当你喜欢考虑大学时 喝很多类似社会压力的东西 |
| 187 | like casual sex there's just like a lot of social norms or things that are associated with university | 就像随便做爱 有很多与大学有关的社会规范 |
| 188 | there's also pressures to not do that stuff and shame in doing them at the same time like I feel | 也有压力不要做那些事 羞愧地同时做那些事 |
| 189 | there's a lot of pressures coming from all angles and my advice would be stereotype you do not have | 有很多压力来自各个角度 我的建议是你没有的刻板印象 |
| 190 | to be a stereotype if you want to just do literally just do whatever suits you do not feel like you | 如果你想做任何你不喜欢的西装 |
| 191 | have to fit into a complete stereotype I don't know if that's making sense at all but you don't | 需要融入一个完整的定型观念 我不知道这是否有意义 但你没有 |
| 192 | {\fn黑体\fs22\bord1\shad0\3aHBE\4aH00\fscx67\fscy66\2cHFFFFFF\3cH808080}必须屈服于一个刻板印象 {\fn黑体\fs22\bord1\shad0\3aHBE\4aH00\fscx67\fscy66\2cHFFFFFF\3cH808080}你每晚都想出去 {\fn黑体\fs22\bord1\shad0\3aHBE\4aH00\fscx67\fscy66\2cHFFFFFF\3cH808080}如果你想的话 | |
| 193 | to do that that's completely fair play but it just you just don't have to I didn't really drink at | 这样做,这是完全公平的 游戏,但这只是你 只是不必,我真的没有喝酒 在 |
| 194 | like I've like I drink like here and there but like for the most part I don't really drink | 就像我喝的像这里和那里, 但喜欢的大部分我不真正喝 |
| 195 | sometimes that made me feel like oh like I can't go out and like see people in the evenings or I | 有时候让我觉得,哦,我不能出去 像看到人们在晚上或我 |
| 196 | I don't know like it just makes you feel like you need to fit into a certain box | 我不知道它只是让你觉得 你需要装进某个盒子里 |
| 197 | and you really don't just like literally just follow your own path okay plan fun things for | 你真的不只喜欢从字面上走自己的路... ... |
| 198 | the weekend day trips especially if you have moved to a new city I moved from London to Edinburgh | 特别是如果你搬到一个新城市 我从伦敦搬到爱丁堡 |
| 199 | like it's a whole new country and going into final year now my one regret not like regret but | 就像是一个全新的国家 进入最后一年 我唯一的遗憾不是像遗憾,而是 |
| 200 | just something that I maybe wish I'd done more is do fun things on the weekends like go on a day | 我只是希望我做得更多 在周末做一些有趣的事情 比如一天去 |
| 201 | trip you know like I'm probably never going to live in Scotland again and there's so much that | 我可能再也不会住在苏格兰了 而且有这么多 |
| 202 | I haven't seen that I would like to granted there was a pandemic so I'm not blaming myself fully | 我还没看到我想承认有大流行 所以我没有完全责怪自己 |
| 203 | but I do think especially if you've moved to a new place make the most of that try and do fun | 但我确实认为,如果你搬到了一个新地方... ... ...... |
| 204 | things at the weekend and I think for the most part people are always up to do that stuff as | 周末的事情 我想大部分时候 人们总是会做那种事 |
| 205 | well and it's just fun to like look back and have so many memories from the place that you lived | 嗯,它只是乐趣喜欢回顾 和有这么多的回忆 从你住的地方 |
| 206 | because probably I don't know obviously it depends but like you might never get to live there again | 因为我可能不知道 这显然取决于... ...但你可能再也住不下去了 |
| 207 | okay sport or like societies can literally make your whole experience there is nothing wrong with | 好吧,体育或类似社会 可以使你的全部经历 有没有什么不对 |
| 208 | not doing that stuff I do think that while you're at uni and it's on offer it's great fun so like I | 不要做那些事,我确实认为 当你在Uni, 它在提供 它的很好玩,所以喜欢我 |
| 209 | recommend but there is no you don't have to but I will say if you throw yourself into a society | 推荐,但没有你不必... ...但我会说,如果你投身社会 |
| 210 | or a sport those people can become like your very best friends it can be a life like a life changing | 或运动 那些人可以变成你最好的朋友... ... 它可以是生活 像生活改变 |
| 211 | experience almost like that can make your whole uni I can't imagine my university experience | 经历几乎可以让你 整个大学 我无法想象我的大学经验 |
| 212 | without cheer and I've just had like I've made some of my very best friends gone to like stay | 没有欢呼,我就觉得 我让一些最好的朋友喜欢留下来 |
| 213 | in hotels for competitions and literally everyone I've ever lived with has been someone from cheer or | 在酒店的比赛, 字面上所有我曾经住过的人 一直有人从欢呼或 |
| 214 | one of their friends so it really did have such a big impact on what I've been doing and at uni | 他们的一个朋友,所以它真的 有这么大的影响 我一直在做和在uni |
| 215 | sports and societies and stuff I just think they're so fun you really can pick the amount of like | 体育、社交等等,我只觉得他们很有趣 你真的可以选得像 |
| 216 | how much you want to be invested so many societies into mural sport like you can really pick the | 你想投入多少 如此多的社会 在壁画运动,像你真的可以选择 |
| 217 | level that you want to do how much do you want to commit to this and I just think that it's a great | 水平,你想做多少 你想承诺这一点, 我只是认为这是一个伟大的 |
| 218 | way to make friends and do something new it does give you a little bit of that taste of school where | 交朋友和做新事的方法 让你尝尝学校的滋味 |
| 219 | it's like little interactions often it's a great way to like really build a friendship and I just | 这就像小互动 经常 这是一个伟大的方式 真正建立友谊 我只是 |
| 220 | I had to put this in here because I literally can't imagine my experience without cheer | 我不得不把它放在这里 因为我真的无法想象 我的经验没有欢呼 |
| 221 | your living situation is not worth the stress this one I feel like this is so important so | 你的生活状况不值得承受压力 我觉得这很重要 |
| 222 | important if you remember anything remember this who you live with how that all works you know who | 如果你记得什么 记住你和谁住在一起... ... |
| 223 | you live oh we've got a viewing today oh please just relax I think living situation is so it can | 你活着哦 我们今天有个景色 哦 请放轻松 我认为生活状况是那样的 |
| 224 | be so so stressful um in first year I was so stressed who am I gonna live with when are we | 这么紧张,嗯,第一年,我太紧张了 我和谁住在一起,当我们 |
| 225 | gonna do it like when are we getting like the viewings and all of this and I really do think | 做它像什么时候 我们得到像 观景和这一切 我真的认为 |
| 226 | it's just not worth the stress so I was meant to go on a year abroad in my third year RIP | 只是不值得承受压力 所以我在第三年要出国 |
| 227 | so it got to like August and I didn't have a flat for September I hadn't planned anything because | 所以,它得像奥古斯特和 我没有公寓 九月,我没有计划什么,因为 |
| 228 | {\fn黑体\fs22\bord1\shad0\3aHBE\4aH00\fscx67\fscy66\2cHFFFFFF\3cH808080}那一年都被取消了 {\fn黑体\fs22\bord1\shad0\3aHBE\4aH00\fscx67\fscy66\2cHFFFFFF\3cH808080}就像最后一刻一样 {\fn黑体\fs22\bord1\shad0\3aHBE\4aH00\fscx67\fscy66\2cHFFFFFF\3cH808080}我本可以强调 | |
| 229 | living situation but I had literally stressed out so much about it the year before that I just said | 生活状况,但我字面上强调 这么多关于它前一年,我刚才说 |
| 230 | to myself do not stress about this it is so not worth the energy and it's just really not please | 对我来说,不要强调这一点, 它是如此不值得 精力,它只是真的不请自来 |
| 231 | please please don't stress about it also remember that just because you don't live with somebody | 请不要强调它 也记住,只是因为你不 与某人生活 |
| 232 | it doesn't mean that you're not their best friend it doesn't mean that you can't see them all the | 这并不意味着你不是他们最好的朋友 也不意味着你看不到他们 |
| 233 | time and also just because you feel like you're not compatible to live with someone it doesn't | 时间 也只是因为你觉得自己不适合和别人住 |
| 234 | mean you're not compatible as friends I've never experienced that but I think living with someone | 意思是你和朋友不相容 但我觉得和一个人住在一起 |
| 235 | is a very specific type of friendship and it's almost nice like it's important and really nice | 这是一种非常特别的友谊类型 它几乎是很好的 就像它是重要的,真的很好 |
| 236 | to have friends outside of like your living situation just because you're not living with | 在你的生活之外有朋友 只是因为你没有生活在一起 |
| 237 | someone it doesn't mean that you're not friends and I think that it gets kind of personal the | 不代表你不是朋友 我觉得这有点私人 |
| 238 | whole living situation thing like oh like can I live with you oh no you're already living with | 整个生活状况,就像哦,我可以跟你住 哦,不,你已经生活在一起了 |
| 239 | them you know it just gets very it's very touchy thing and I think if we were just like took a | 他们知道它只是得到 非常敏感的事情 我想如果我们只是像一个 |
| 240 | breath and chilled out it's not the end of the world also you have other years if you choose | 呼吸和寒冷,这不是世界末日 如果你选择其他年份 |
| 241 | to live with someone this year and then want to live with someone else the other year you can | 和别人一起生活,然后想和别人一起生活 |
| 242 | like just please don't lose sleep over that your mental health is a big responsibility | 就像请不要因为你的精神健康 是一个重大的责任而失眠 |
| 243 | university can be really hard like you're doing everything for yourself you're in charge of | 大学会很辛苦的 就像你为自己做所有的事情一样 |
| 244 | your whole life and nobody is really holding you accountable working out how to look after yourself | 你的整个生活,没有人真正 追究你的责任 如何照顾自己 |
| 245 | and how to you like keep yourself happy and like have good mental health I think is really | 如何使自己快乐, 喜欢有良好的心理健康 我认为真的 |
| 246 | difficult and it like takes a while to like figure it out and with that also there is no shame in | 很难,而且喜欢花点时间想清楚 也没什么羞耻的 |
| 247 | going home I felt like in first year there was like a shame around like visiting home almost like you | 回到家 第一年我感觉很羞耻 就像你一样 |
| 248 | were weak but there was no shame as you get older you notice that people will just be like oh I'm | 身体虚弱,但你变老了 并不感到羞耻 你注意到人们会像 哦,我 |
| 249 | just going home for a weekend for fun and it's like fair do nobody cares so I think don't be | 只是回家一个周末的乐趣, 这就像公平 没有人在乎 所以我认为不是 |
| 250 | go home for a weekend if you need to like just your mental health is really important and it's | 回家一个周末 如果你需要只喜欢你的精神健康 真的很重要,这是 |
| 251 | very easy to just like especially if you're having fun like go out all the time go to your lectures | 非常容易,特别是如果你玩得开心 就像经常去上课 |
| 252 | and not actually take time for like mindfulness and self-care and um just slowing down a little | 而实际上不花时间 喜欢的警惕和自我照顾 和嗯只是放慢一点 |
| 253 | bit so try to remember that it goes very quickly I'm so sad to only have one year left like that | 试着记住,它走得很快 我很伤心,只剩下一年了 |
| 254 | breaks my heart so if you're going into university or regardless of what year you're in like I feel | 伤了我的心 所以如果你要上大学 或不管你在哪年 |
| 255 | you'll know it goes so quickly I was meant to live in another city this year it's just crazy to me | 你会知道它去这么快 我本打算住在另一个城市 今年,它只是疯狂的我 |
| 256 | that I thought four years in Edinburgh would be too long I like I was itching to let go somewhere | 我以为在爱丁堡呆四年会太久 我觉得我很想离开一个地方 |
| 257 | else when I applied and now I look back and I'm like four years is nothing like they've been | 现在回头看,我好像四年了 和他们一样 |
| 258 | the best yeah so just don't don't waste it in first year I had this kind of like impending doom | 最好的是,所以不要浪费它 在第一年,我有这种 像即将来临的末日 |
| 259 | feeling where it's like I have so much of this degree left to do but like just enjoy the moment | 感觉好像我还有这么多的学位可以做 但喜欢只是享受的时刻 |
| 260 | you're in I promise I feel like everyone says that like at the end of their degree oh my god | 你在里面,我保证,我感觉 像每个人都说,像 在他们的学位结束时 |
| 261 | it went so quickly like make the most of it while you can I think it is just like a really unique | 它飞得这么快,就像尽量利用它 而你可以,我认为它就像一个非常独特的 |
| 262 | special time and also know that if it's not the best time of your life that's fine that's completely | 特别时间,还知道 如果这不是你生命中最好的时机 那完全没问题 |
| 263 | fine everyone who's older than me sold it to me be like the best thing ever and like your parents | 好吧,所有比我老的人 把它卖给我 像有史以来最棒的事情,像你的父母 |
| 264 | and everything and it's normal to have down days sad days and even if you finish your degree and | 和一切,这是正常的 有下来的日子悲伤的日子 即使你完成了你的学位和 |
| 265 | you're like that wasn't the best the best thing I've ever done that's fine too everyone's | 你就像,这不是最好的 我做过最好的事情, 这很好,每个人都 |
| 266 | is different and just I think take up take each day for what you can I hope this was helpful | 不同了,我只是觉得 每天都要吃什么,我希望这是有用的 |
| 267 | in some sense and if you're going to uni best of luck I hope you're the best time | 从某种意义上来说,如果你要去 uni 祝你好运,我希望你是最好的时间 |
| 268 | I love you very much thank you for watching and I'll see you next week | 我非常爱你 谢谢你的观看 下周见 |
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