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英国学霸 Elizabeth 推荐22本年度好书

英国学霸 Elizabeth 推荐22本年度好书

英国学霸 Elizabeth 推荐22本年度好书

发布于 2021-12-13 · 时长 23:49

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0:00Okay, you've been warned, this is going to be a very, very long one, but today I'm going to nerd out completely and recommend 22 books好吧,你被警告过, 这是一个非常,非常长的, 但是今天我要 呆呆地出来,推荐22本书
0:05I think you should definitely be reading in 2022 if you haven't done so yet.我想你肯定应该在2022年阅读 如果你还没有这样做。
0:10If you're my kind of person, some of these will hopefully resonate with you, but let's get started and go.如果你是我这样的人, 其中一些会希望与你共鸣, 但让我们开始和去。
0:14Number one has got to be my favorite book of all time that I discovered in 2021, and that is Time Enough for Love.第一本是我在2021年发现的 我最喜欢的一本书 那就是"时间足够爱"
0:20It is such a good book.这是本好书
0:22It's absolutely beautiful.这绝对是美丽的。
0:24It made me re-fall in love with fiction again.让我又爱上了小说
0:26It is incredible.难以置信
0:28It's a futuristic sci-fi story set on another planet after we've gone into an interplanetary species in the future.这是一个未来的科幻故事 设定在另一个星球上 之后,我们进入了一个行星际物种。
0:34And there are certain people who live basically forever and one of these people is the protagonist, but this book is just brilliant.也有一些人基本上长生不老,其中一人是主角,但这本书非常精彩。
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1Okay, you've been warned, this is going to be a very, very long one, but today I'm going to nerd out completely and recommend 22 books好吧,你被警告过, 这是一个非常,非常长的, 但是今天我要 呆呆地出来,推荐22本书
2I think you should definitely be reading in 2022 if you haven't done so yet.我想你肯定应该在2022年阅读 如果你还没有这样做。
3If you're my kind of person, some of these will hopefully resonate with you, but let's get started and go.如果你是我这样的人, 其中一些会希望与你共鸣, 但让我们开始和去。
4Number one has got to be my favorite book of all time that I discovered in 2021, and that is Time Enough for Love.第一本是我在2021年发现的 我最喜欢的一本书 那就是"时间足够爱"
5It is such a good book.这是本好书
6It's absolutely beautiful.这绝对是美丽的。
7It made me re-fall in love with fiction again.让我又爱上了小说
8It is incredible.难以置信
9It's a futuristic sci-fi story set on another planet after we've gone into an interplanetary species in the future.这是一个未来的科幻故事 设定在另一个星球上 之后,我们进入了一个行星际物种。
10And there are certain people who live basically forever and one of these people is the protagonist, but this book is just brilliant.也有一些人基本上长生不老,其中一人是主角,但这本书非常精彩。
11This book is philosophy and psychology and self-help without even trying to do any of these things.这本书是哲学和心理学以及自助,甚至没有尝试做这些事情.
12So you're just reading it as a fun and engaging and quite weird at times story,所以,你只是读 它是一个乐趣和接触 和相当怪异 有时的故事,
13but the underside of the book just has so many threads of但书的底部有这么多线索
14beautifulness when it comes to the human mind, the human nature, human connections, life and love and death and mortality.当涉及到人的思想,人性,人际联系,生命和爱情,死亡和死亡时,美丽.
15It is brilliant.这是辉煌的。
16It's absolutely amazing.这是绝对惊人的。
17I just have to go through one of my favorite existential parts of this book that says我只需要通过我最喜欢的存在 书中说
18There is no time.没时间了
19There is no space.没有空间。
20What was, is and ever shall be.曾经的,现在的,将来的
21你才是你,你是谁? You are you.
22Playing chess with yourself.和自己一起下棋吧
23And again, you have checkmated yourself.再说一遍,你检查了自己。
24You are the referee.你是裁判
25Morals are your agreement with yourself to abide by your own rules.道德是你们同意遵守自己规则的
26To thine own self be true or you spoil the game.对你自己来说是真实的 否则你就会破坏游戏
27It's just so good.它只是这么好。
28I would 100% recommend this so much.我百分之百建议你这么做
29The second book I would strongly recommend is Rip It Up and this is such a cool one because it's around the science of happiness我强烈推荐的第二本书是《撕开它》 这本太酷了 因为它围绕着幸福的科学
30and you can read it as a self-help book, but I hate self-help books.你可以读成一本自助书 但我讨厌自助书
31So I don't think it's meant to be one.故不以为一.
32It's just a science book, but the science is around happiness.这只是一本科学书籍,但科学围绕着幸福.
33So it ends就这样结束了
34{\fn黑体\fs22\bord1\shad0\3aHBE\4aH00\fscx67\fscy66\2cHFFFFFF\3cH808080}做一本自救的书 {\fn黑体\fs22\bord1\shad0\3aHBE\4aH00\fscx67\fscy66\2cHFFFFFF\3cH808080}没有意义
35So yeah, it's a sneaky one, but it worked for me.所以,它是一个狡猾的,但它对我有效。
36It was fine.⊿闽玒
37The book talks about happiness and it's centered around the as if principle which basically means that we这本书讲的是幸福,它的核心是 原则,基本上意味着我们
38feel things physically and then we interpret our emotions rather than feeling our emotions first.体会事物 然后我们解释我们的情感 而不是首先感受我们的情感
39So it kind of flips the whole world on its head and it gives you this very very powerful tool所以它把整个世界都翻到头上 它给了你这个非常强大的工具
40I think that can help in certain times to make you just that bit happier in life.我想这在某些时候可以帮助你 让你在生活中更快乐一点
41One thing that I love from this book is the view that it's much more helpful to just我从这本书中喜欢的一件事是, 认为它更有用
42laugh in the morning than write a huge gratitude journal because studies show that just laughing and physically doing things as though you are happy早上笑,而不是写一本巨大的感恩日记 因为研究表明,只是笑 和身体做事情,好像你高兴
43will make you a lot happier in the long run.从长远来看 会让你更快乐
44It's really cool.这真的很酷。
45Definitely would recommend absolutely everyone to read.绝对会推荐每个人阅读
46The third book I would recommend is The Course of Love and of course我推荐的第三本书是"爱的路线" 当然还有
47I would have to have a book by Léa de Botton who's one of my favorite modern philosophers.我必须要有一本莱亚·德·博顿的书 他是我最喜欢的现代哲学家之一
48This is a very interesting fictional book where he just describes a romantic relationship between two people, but it's kind of这是一本非常有趣的小说 他只描述了两个人之间的浪漫关系
49it's so interesting because it's very dry and这很有趣,因为它非常干燥
50because in a way it's very dry and it describes the very mundane things.因为在某种程度上它非常干燥 它描述了非常普通的东西。
51It's kind of the story for you if you're the sort of person who thinks well如果你是那种善于思考的人 故事就有点像
52you know what happens in Disney movies after they get together and why are all real life relationships seemingly so different to stories and你知道在迪士尼电影里他们在一起后会发生什么 为什么所有真实的生活 关系看起来如此不同的故事和
53romance online and what happens later.浪漫的网络和后来发生的事情。
54So it kind of所以有点
55glamorizes the mundane and makes mundane the glamour of life and it kind of puts everything on the same level to be dissected.光线化,使光线化 生命的光线化, 它把一切 在同一水平 被解剖。
56I think it just gives you so much insight into human relationships and interactions and the philosophy and psychology我认为它只是给你这么多的洞察 人际关系和相互作用 以及哲学和心理学
57behind these things.这些东西背后。
58I just think it's a must read for any sort of person who ever wants to be in a sort of romantic relationship我只是觉得它必须读 任何一种人 谁想 在某种浪漫的关系
59or wants to understand them more.或者想更了解他们
60I think it should be mandatory reading in school.我认为这应该是学校的必读。
61It's just so so so so good.直饶如来.
62100% would recommend it to kind of get to know yourself better and to get to know other people better.百分之百会推荐它 那种更了解自己 并更了解其他人。
63The next book I would recommend is a bit of a weird one and it's called Unconditional Parenting.我推荐的下一本书有点怪异 叫做无条件的育儿
64I got a lot into reading about parenting books this year.今年我读到很多关于育儿的书
65It's part of my kind of self-growth self-help journey to try and这是我那种自我成长的自助旅程的一部分
66re-teach myself things that I perhaps have trauma from in the past and this book has helped massively.重新教自己一些过去我可能受过创伤的东西 这本书帮助很大
67It's just so brilliant.这太聪明了
68I don't have children and I don't know how applicable these actually are practically to children.我没有孩子,我不知道这些实际上如何适用于儿童。
69So if you're a parent take my advice with a grain of salt, but it's so so useful for yourself.所以,如果你是父母 接受我的建议 用一粒盐,但它是如此有用自己。
70I think this book has just given me so much insight into我想这本书让我对
71what has happened in my past and how perhaps that has shaped me as a person and how potentially I can过去发生的一切 以及我如何塑造自己作为一个人
72understand and maybe even unlearn things in my psychology and the way that I view myself and the world.理解甚至解开我的心理 以及我看待自己和世界的方式
73Something that I absolutely loved from this book was the view that positive and negative reinforcement are in a way这本书中我绝对喜欢的东西 是认为积极和消极的加强 在某种程度上
74just as bad and not a good strategy in the long term.也一样糟糕 而不是一个好的策略 在长期。
75And also something that I absolutely loved was the view that we should treat children as valuable in their own right我绝对喜欢的还有一种观点 认为我们应该把孩子当做自己有价值的东西
76rather than potential adults and而不是潜在的成年人和
77as the adults that they will become.他们将成为成年人。
78And this is really valuable even for myself because I feel like very often这对我自己来说都是很有价值的 因为我经常觉得
79I treat myself as not valuable right now我现在觉得自己不值钱
80but valuable once I do the things that I want to do and achieve the things that I'm working on and want to achieve但有价值 一旦我做了我想做的事 并实现了我的工作 和想要实现
81rather than realizing that I'm just fine and valuable right now.而不是意识到 我现在只是很好和有价值的。
82This is not groundbreaking, but it's very groundbreaking for me.这不是开创性的,但对我来说是非常开创性的。
83Very much would recommend this book.非常推荐这本书。
84Next is surely you're joking Mr. Feynman.接下来你肯定在开玩笑 费曼先生。
85This is such a good and funny biography.这本传记真有趣
86I've recently gotten into biographies.我最近开始写传记
87I hated them in the past我恨他们过去
88but Richard Feynman is one of the most famous physicists and teachers ever.但理查德·费曼是史上最著名的物理学家和教师之一.
89He is such an eccentric and fun man.他是一个古怪和有趣的人。
90He's a massive nerd and I think he's quite confident in a quirky way and he's definitely a lifelong learner.他是一个庞大的书呆子 我认为他很自信 一种怪异的方式, 他绝对是一个终身学习者。
91He really thinks outside of the box and he has this very他真的觉得在盒子外面,他有这个非常
92extremely rational thinking I think that is just very very funny because this book if you are a我认为这是非常有趣的 因为这本书,如果你是一个
93hugely rational thinker or if you try to think rationally a lot非常理性的思想家 或者如果你试着理性思考很多
94There's so much escapism in this book through listening to someone else describing things and talking the way that you do.这本书中充满了自恋情绪 通过倾听别人的描述 和说话的方式你这样做。
95So it's just so so so brilliant.所以它是如此的辉煌。
96I would 100% recommend it.我会百分之百推荐
97It's very very funny too.这也很搞笑
98So absolutely brilliant read.读起来非常精彩
99The next book I would recommend is algorithms to live by and I read this book我推荐的下一本书是算法 我读了这本书
100thinking that I认为我
101usually feel very strongly against these ways of thinking in general and what I mean by this is that it kind of takes real life problems通常非常强烈地反对这些思维方式 我的意思是 它需要真正的生活问题
102like oh how do you hire someone and or or how do you find a house to buy and it applies mathematical就像你如何雇人 或者你如何找到房子买房子 应用数学
103rational thinking to solving the problem and理性思考解决问题
104I love and hate this.我爱和讨厌这个。
105I think that I have these tendencies myself我觉得我自己也有这些倾向
106I'm more curious about this stuff and when it comes to real life我更想知道这些东西 当它涉及到现实生活时
107I just think that emotions are the fun and just doing我只是觉得情绪是乐趣 只是做
108Just following our impulses in a safe way is where humanity and living actually comes in while they're reasonable照着我们的冲动 安全地走就是人性化和生活
109Oh, this is what the math says is kind of not that applicable to day-to-day life哦,这就是数学说的 那种不适合日常生活
110I think but nonetheless, I think this book我想,但是,我想这本书
111So I think this book was quite fun for me to explore in a way and see well所以我觉得这本书很有趣 我以某种方式去探索 并看清楚
112What would the science say to this problem in my life, which was quite fun科学会对我生命中的问题说什么, 这很有趣
113I think again我又想起来了
114It gives you these frameworks of thinking that you can use sometimes if you don't have any other solutions or just to understand它给了你这些思维框架,如果你没有其他的解决方案 或者只是为了理解
115What would be theoretically the best thing to do if that's even a possibility?如果有可能的话 理论上最好的办法是什么?
116The thing that I love about this book is that it teaches you how to think rather than what you think我喜欢这本书 因为它教你如何思考 而不是你的想法
117I don't like books that tell me what to think.我不喜欢那些告诉我该怎么想的书
118I just find that a bit weird我只是觉得有点奇怪
119But it teaches you new mechanisms and I think it's just like another tool to add to the toolbox for use sometimes但它教你新的机制 我认为它就像另一个工具 加入工具箱,有时使用
120So would recommend in that way.因此,建议这样做。
121The next book is The Righteous Mind and it is so good下一本书是"正义的心智" 非常好
122It's so good.妙绝.
123This book gives you so much relief and understanding that you are not set in stone这本书给了你很多的解脱和理解 让你没有被石块
124Who you think you are is not actually who you are你以为你是谁 其实你是谁
125And we just have no clue in so many ways that we do not even consider我们只是不知道 在许多方面 我们甚至没有考虑
126So much of our actions behaviors and thoughts are just justifying things that our brain has already done我们的很多行为和想法 只是为大脑已经做过的事辩护
127And we are a little bit of a mess in a way that we don't appreciate我们只是有点乱 我们并不欣赏
128But that just brings the beauty into humanity.但这只是带给人类的美丽。
129I think I think this book is just a prayer for embracing chaos我觉得这本书只是为拥抱混乱而祈祷
130emotional decision making情感决策
131And the randomness that is life.而随机即生.
132It's just completely beautiful简直太美了
133Would 100% recommend it.会百分百推荐它。
134It can show you so much of your biases in your mind它能显示你心中的偏见
135And all the different and small ways you can be influenced into decisions that you never even thought that you would do and these happen所有不同和小的方法 都可以影响你的决定 你甚至从来没有想过 你会做和这些发生
136Constantly every single day if you like psychology or the way that the human brain works 100% brilliant book如果你喜欢心理学 或人类大脑工作的方式 总是每天写书
137The next book is The Almanac of Naval Varricant and him being one of my favorite people on earth下一本书是《海军的阿尔马纳克》 他是我的最爱
138I don't know how I did not read this book until 2021, but it's so good我不知道我怎么直到2021年才读到这本书,但是它是如此的好
139Naval is another one of these modern philosophers and I quite like him because he's not theoretically a philosopher海军是现代哲学家之一 我很喜欢他 因为他理论上不是哲学家
140But he's kind of fallen into philosophy as in he just observes the world and talks about it in a way但他有点陷入了哲学之中 就像他只是观察世界 并用某种方式谈论它
141That's not too structured and therefore I think tends to be very non-controversial and non-extremist结构不太合理,所以我觉得 往往没有争议,没有极端
142I feel like most philosophies are really really really extreme, but Naval for me tends to sit on a happy medium most of the time我觉得大多数的哲学 真的很极端, 但海军对我来说往往坐在一个快乐的媒介上 大多数时候
143So for that reason he's very easy to recommend and very easy to consume and to implement因此他很容易被推荐 也很容易被消费和执行
144And The Almanac of Naval Varricant is literally like a workbook for happiness and for self-acceptance and for而海军的阿尔马纳克 瓦里坎特 字面上就像一本工作手册 为了幸福和自我接受
145loving people and having a beautiful life.爱的人 拥有美好的生活
146It's just这只是
147Should be again in one of those mandatory reading booklists应再次出现在强制阅读的书单中
148I think I would make it mandatory if I could.如果可以的话,我想我会强制的
149The next book is Shoe Dog and I only read it this year下一本书是"鞋狗" 我今年才看
150I don't know why again.我不知道为什么
151I don't like biographies.我不喜欢传记
152So I thought I wouldn't like it and also it's about the founder of Nike所以我觉得自己不会喜欢 也是关于耐克的创始人
153So I thought it's just going to be a dry business book and god knows I have had to read so many of those recently所以我觉得这只是一本干书 上帝知道我最近读了很多
154But this book was just so good但这本书太好
155There are so many threads of story throughout it that you can read it as a potential parent整个故事里有很多线索 你可以读成一个潜在的父母
156You can read it as how did he follow his ambition?你能看出来他是怎样追求他的野心的吗?
157How did he follow his desire and how did he follow his mental health and his personal health?他如何遵循他的欲望,如何遵循他的精神健康和个人健康?
158And his goals and dreams and work.他的目标、梦想和工作
159It's just so good.它只是这么好。
160There's so many threads through it有这么多线穿过它
161So it's brilliant所以,这是辉煌的
162My main thread the main thread that I preferred was his view on working in general because I find it so funny that he says我最喜欢的主线是 他对一般工作的看法 因为我觉得这很有趣 他说
163that he never feels like he's working and他从来没有感觉 像他在工作,
164That's how he obviously built this like huge huge huge empire of Nike他就是这么造的 这么大的耐克帝国
165And it always was the best thing for him while when you see the details in the book当你看到书中的细节时 这对他来说永远是最好的
166He's in pain all the time他总是很痛苦
167He's stressed and he's angry and he's not sleeping and he's frustrated and he's having to deal with all these problems他压力很大,很生气,没睡着,很沮丧,他不得不处理所有这些问题
168and I thought this just sounds more like the average person to me than我觉得这听起来更像普通人
169Someone who's enjoying what they're doing喜欢自己做事的人
170But I think this is what the book taught me that但我认为这本书教过我
171The difference between people who hate their jobs and people who love their jobs is not how many times they're in pain or having fun讨厌工作的人和热爱工作的人的区别 并不是多少次痛苦或快乐
172Over them because those apparently are quite similar.因为他们显然很相似。
173It's just how they feel about it他们就是这么想的
174I mean this guy always felt that he could never imagine not doing what he's doing我的意思是这家伙总是觉得 他永远无法想象 不做他在做什么
175Even though it was so painful while in other cases where i've hated my job虽然很痛苦,但在我讨厌工作的其他情况下
176I feel like I would leave at the first opportunity我觉得我一有机会就走
177So I think that gave me so much insight into work being play as in it's still painful所以我觉得这给了我这么多的洞察 工作玩耍,因为它仍然痛苦
178It's still often horrible, but you very much want to do it.仍然很恐怖 但你非常想这么做
179So it was super insightful for me对我来说是超有洞察力的
180Definitely a book that I would love other people to read绝对是一本我喜欢别人看的书
181The next book is the art of impossible and this is really really cool下一本书是不可能的艺术 这真的很酷
182This book is like a little cheerleader in your corner giving you the inspiration and the right words这本书就像一个小啦啦队长 在你的角落 给你的灵感和正确的词
183To say and do what you want when you're a bit insecure about doing things说和做你想做的 当你有点不安全的事情
184I think so there's not that much substance to this book我想这书没有那么多内容
185But it has a lot of inspirational quotes and I usually hate inspirational quotes但它有很多鼓舞人心的引言 我通常讨厌鼓舞人心的引言
186But these even though they're very very cheesy, they're quite nice.但是这些虽然很俗气,但还是相当不错的.
187I don't know why they just got to me in a good way我不知道为什么他们只是对我好
188so for example some phrases were that例如,有些词语是:
189The reason that we're not living up to our potential is that we're not in the habit of living up to our potential我们没有发挥潜力的原因是 我们没有习惯于发挥潜力
190Which I thought that's quite cool我觉得这很酷
191And also another one was that the only thing more difficult than the emotional toil of pursuing true excellence还有一件事是 唯一比追求真正的优秀感官更困难的
192Is the emotional toil of not pursuing true excellence?不追求真正优秀的情感费吗?
193These are very very simplistic, but sometimes they just hit right and they just resonate with me so well这些非常简单,但有时它们只是打对了, 它们只是跟我的共鸣那么好
194So this book has some nice quotes and a lot of inspiration所以这本书有一些很好的引文 和很多灵感
195So if you're in the stage that you just need, you know that little kick to get things done所以,如果你在舞台上 你只需要,你知道的小踢 完成事情
196This is a brilliant book to get you inspired to reach your true potential or just enjoy life more is what i'd be happier to say这本书很精彩 让你得到灵感 达到你真正的潜能 或者更享受生活
197The next book is personality isn't permanent下一个书是人格不是永久的
198This is a psychology book and it kind of dispels the thought that we are这是一本心理学书,它消除了我们的想法
199completely set in stone the way that we are and it kind of shows how much of our environment has shaped us and is完全打破了我们的方式 它显示了我们环境的多少 塑造了我们
200Constantly shaping us and it empowers you a lot不断塑造我们,它能赋予你很多权力
201Because I think that even though there's so much in our environment that is completely out of our control that we cannot change因为我认为,尽管 在我们的环境有这么多 是我们完全失控, 我们不能改变
202That will change even though we don't want it to and there's so much randomness and effects that are external虽然我们不想改变 但有太多的随机性和外在效应
203There's still some small things here and there that we can tweak and we can do and this book just shows the power还有一些小东西在这里,在那里 我们可以调整,我们可以做 这本书只是显示的力量
204Of making these small changes做这些小改变
205So I think it is massively massively empowering to everyone to kind of read it所以,我认为它大规模地赋予了 每个人阅读它的权力
206I think and see that and to see that you areи稱 琌
207potentially潜在的
208Unintentionally changing your life and shaping yourself every single day无心改变你的生活,每天塑造自己
209So there's small ways that you can be slightly more intentional with it and perhaps go in the direction that you thought that you want to go所以,有一些小的方法,你可以 稍微更有意 用它,也许走的方向,
210So it's quite cool for that reason所以,这是相当酷的原因
211A phrase that I love from this book is that it is your responsibility to set your future self up for as much opportunity success我从这本书里喜欢的一句话是, 你有责任为自己创造未来 创造同样多的机会
212And joy as possible和欢乐尽可能
213Quite problematic in many ways, but also a very good phrase sometimes so I love it有很多问题,但有时也是个很好的词,所以我喜欢
214The next book is the courage to be disliked下一本书就是被讨厌的勇气
215It's a love hate book, but I still think everyone should read it.这是一本爱情仇恨书 但我仍然认为每个人都应该读它
216I hate the way that it's written我讨厌写成这样
217I hate the fact that it's quite extremist, but I know that it's it's extreme because it's a branch of thought我恨它很极端 但我知道它很极端 因为它是思想的分支
218So adlerian philosophy is quite extreme.因此,德莱里安哲学是相当极端的.
219Like it says trauma is not a thing and it doesn't exist and I completely disagree with that就像说创伤不是东西 它不存在 我完全不同意
220However, I think it's one of those other tools that kind of helps me and my toolbox grow不过,我认为这是其他的工具之一 那种帮助我和我的工具箱成长
221so my favorite thing from the book was the distinction between my tasks and someone else's task and this is something that I我最喜欢的书是 区分我的任务和别人的任务
222Just wish we all all knew because it's been so liberating for me to see the world in this way older只希望我们都知道 因为我看到这个世界变老了
223I get the more people I know the more things I've done the more involved I am with different situations and groups of people我得到的人越多,我做的事情越多 我参与的情况和人群越多
224And especially when you're online these things become so muddied up and there is so much going on consistently around me尤其当你上网时 事情变得如此泥巴化 我身边经常发生很多事情
225So just having that distinction when I can apply it of what is my task and what is someone else's task or my problem所以,只要有这种区别 当我可以应用它什么是我的任务, 什么是别人的任务或我的问题
226Or someone else's problem或者是别人的问题
227Is just so so so liberating and it's a very helpful way to kind of create some distance in life如此的解放 和它是一个非常有益的方法 创造一些距离的生活
228And especially when you need it when things are negative特别是当你需要的时候 当事情变得消极的时候
229So for that reason this book goes definitely in my recommended list因此,这本书绝对在我的推荐名单上
230The next book that I loved is thanks for the feedback下一本我爱的书是感谢反馈
231The premise of this book is that there is so much feedback that we are giving and receiving consistently in our life and we never这本书的前提是, 如此多的反馈, 我们正在给予和接收 在我们的生活中一致的,
232Completely outgrow the need for approval that we used to have for our parents我们比以前父母更需要批准
233but we kind of express it in different ways as adults and there are both productive and unproductive ways to give and但是,我们以不同的方式表达它 作为成年人, 并且有生产性和无效果的方式给予和
234To give and interpret and understand other people's feedback in general给予、解释和理解其他人的一般反馈
235So this book is super super empowering in terms of communication self-confidence and self-improvement所以这本书在交流自信和自我改善方面 超强的增强能力
236So I definitely recommend it for that所以我建议你这么做
237The phrase that I love from this book is that this is how you are only means that this is how you are in relation我从这本书中喜欢的句子是: 这就是你是如何的,只是意味着你是如何的关系。
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239Just as much about them than it does about us both when this feedback is positive or negative or neutral or anything in general当这些反馈是正面的或负面的或中立的, 或任何一般的东西时,
240Great next is the soul of money.接下来是金钱的灵魂
241This is such a beautiful read.这读起来真美
242Um, it's a book about嗯,这是一本关于
243It's a book about finances, but not in the dry这是一本关于财务的书,但不是在干燥中
244Finance way.财经之道.
245It's more about the philosophy and the psychology of money and how it affects our life our更多是关于钱的哲学和心理学 以及它如何影响我们的生活
246Views on the world the way that we do things and our relationships with others对世界的看法 我们做事的方式 以及我们与他人的关系
247So it is so beautiful如此美丽
248I think that one thing that it one thing that it really really set into my mind was the scarcity mindset我认为,有一件事,它真的 进入我的脑海 是稀缺的心态
249And I had never realized how much of a scarcity mindset we have in our life in general我从未意识到我们一生中 有着多么匮乏的心态
250And it's not just to do with money and this view of not having enough and needing more is so deeply embedded in us这不仅仅是钱的问题, 而这个观点 没有足够的,需要更多的 深深地植根于我们
251that if you're fortunate enough to not be completely thrashing and如果你够幸运 不完全被打和
252Unable to sustain yourself无法养活自己
253maybe taking a moment to pause and to appreciate the things that we have in our life and kind of pause the也许需要一点时间来暂停 并欣赏我们生命中的一切
254Constant consumerism and push that we get from so many directions of wanting and needing more more more more more不断的消费主义 推动我们从如此众多的 渴望和需要更多更多
255Is just so so so calming and if you do have this scarcity mindset even having too much is never enough这么冷静,如果你真的有这种 稀缺的心态,即使有太多 永远不够
256So it's more of a mindset change that we need in terms of being happy and accepting what we have所以,这更多的是一种思维 改变,我们需要 快乐和接受我们所拥有的
257rather than kind of changing and thriving for而不是那种改变和繁荣
258More all the time absolutely brilliant.更多时候都非常聪明
259And if you want to look at your life in a different way如果你想用另一种方式看待你的生活
260It's an extremely emotional book.这本书情感超强
261I actually have a summary of this book and so many books其实我还有本书和很多书的概要
262That I mentioned today in my newsletter.我今天在通讯中提到这一点。
263So i'll have a link for that somewhere down there if you want to所以,我会有一个链接 在那里的某个地方 如果你想
264Read the summaries and my full full thoughts on these books.阅读这些书的摘要和我的全部想法。
265Next is the science of storytelling接下来是讲故事的科学
266I am a huge storytelling nerd both because I love to over interpret books that I read or movies that I see我是个讲故事的书呆子 因为我喜欢解读我读的书 或者看电影
267But also because I just think that there is storytelling in so many aspects of life但也因为我觉得生活的许多方面都有故事
268I love to live my life in a way that I pursue the best story very often我喜欢以我经常追求最佳故事的方式生活
269So if I have a difficult decision to make and i'm not confident enough to do it所以,如果我有一个困难的决定, 我不够自信做它
270I think oh this will make a good story.我觉得这将会是一个很好的故事。
271So it gives me another push所以,它给了我另一个推力
272So for this reason and many other reasons, I just love storytelling in general and this is a great start to that因此,出于这个原因和许多其他原因, 我只是喜欢讲故事 总的来说,这是一个伟大的开始
273This book has a bit too much psychology for me because i've read the psychology in so many other books这本书对我来说有点太心理学了 因为我读过很多其他书中的心理学
274But if you like psychology and if you like books and storytelling definitely read it但如果你喜欢心理学 如果你喜欢书和故事 绝对读它
275it's really really good two phrases that I love from this book are that who we are is how we are broken and这本书里我最喜欢的两句话 就是我们是谁 我们是如何破碎的
276Secondly being free第二处是免费的
277Being free to be evil even if only in our minds can be such a relief and this tells a lot about the kind of books即使只有我们头脑中能有这种解脱 才能自由做恶人 这能说明书的种类
278And stories that we read and we should potentially be reading.以及我们所读到的故事, 我们可能应该读。
279So it's great所以这是伟大的
280The next book is one that i'm reading right now actually which is finite and infinite games.下一本书是我现在正在读的, 实际上是无限的游戏。
281This is so so cool这太酷了
282I've heard about this mentioned in many other books我听过很多其他的书里都提到这个
283So I thought finally I had to go to the original source about thinking of this view of finite and infinite games所以我想我终于得去原创的源头 思考一下这种对无限游戏的看法
284a finite game is something that you start and有限游戏是您开始的
285You want it to stop so you can win and that's like graduating the first from university or you know你希望它停下来,这样你就可以赢 就像第一个大学毕业或者你知道
286Getting a bonus at your job at the end of the year and infinite games are games that you lose if you stop年底在工作上拿到奖金 和无限的游戏是游戏,如果你停了就输了
287So you want to continue them for the rest of your life?所以,你想继续他们 你的余生?
288And the goal of the game is to play them for as long as possible游戏的目标是尽可能长时间地玩下去
289And I think it's such a good way to distinguish things wherein I am the kind of person我觉得这是个好方法 来区分我这种人
290I think and I want to be the kind of person who chases more infinite games in my life than finite games because我想,我想成为那种人 谁追逐 无限游戏在我的生活中 比有限的游戏,因为
291Finite games they have a lot there's a lot of psychology behind them and how game and how people play these games and他们有很多游戏 背后有很多心理学 游戏是如何玩的
292It's not the best thing.这不是最好的事情。
293It's not it's unavoidable, but it's not that nice这不是不可避免的,但也不是那么好
294But while an infinite game is kind of gives you so much more perspective and peace in your life但是,虽然无限的游戏 有点给你 这么多的视角和安宁 在你的生活中
295So for example, if you're playing a finite game with university, you just want to graduate and be the top所以,举例来说,如果你玩 有限的游戏与大学, 你只是想毕业 并成为顶级
296Well, if you're playing an infinite game with university with me, for example, I think well, you know university is just one stage of好吧,如果你玩一个无限的游戏 大学与我,例如,我认为很好, 你知道大学只是一个阶段
297Me becoming someone who wants to improve other people's health in my life我成为一个想改善别人健康的人
298So it just becomes a small part of it.所以它只是成为了它的一小部分。
299There's a lot less anxiety around it周围的焦虑会少很多
300It just becomes a tool and something that i'm doing in a much bigger picture and a much bigger game它只是成为一个工具 和东西,我在做什么 在更大的画面和更大的游戏
301So I think viewing your life this way and also viewing people in the way that oh I could play an infinite game with this person所以我想用这种方式看待你的生活 也以这样的方式看待人 哦 我可以和这个人玩无限的游戏
302They could be in my life forever and I really really like them and they see things the way that I see them with a lot他们可能永远在我生命里 我真的很喜欢他们 他们看的东西的方式 我看到他们有很多
303Less anxiety and more calmness and more long-term thinking so it's a really cool book to have this extra perspective少一点焦虑 更冷静 更长远的思考 所以这本书是本很酷的书
304That you can use sometimes to view your life and the things that you do and the choices you make你有时可以用来观察你的生活 以及你做的事 以及你所做的选择
305The next book is the third door and this is a great example of storytelling下一本书是第三扇门 这是讲故事的好例子
306It's kind of a weird book because it has a very simple premise which sounds very lame这本书有点怪,因为它有一个很简单的前提 听起来很逊
307As in a boy wanted to meet a bunch of celebrities就像一个男孩想见一群名人
308But what it actually does it really shows you how you can fight to achieve your goals and how you should potentially be trying to do this if但实际上它做了什么 真正显示你如何战斗 实现你的目标 以及你应该如何尝试 这样做,如果
309How you can potentially do this with basically anything and it's one of those books that is very very inspiring and shows you how you你怎样才能用任何东西 来做这件事呢? 这是一本非常鼓舞人心的书
310Can do anything in life人生中什么都做得到,可以做点什么
311So the third door is like the first door is the obvious door that only celebrities can get through for example所以第三扇门就像第一扇门 很明显的门 只有名人才能通过 比如说
312The second door is the one that is you know access for everyone第二扇门是你知道每个人的通道
313But the line is so long and the third door is the sneaky way to get what you want但线很长,第三扇门是 获得你想要的东西的狡猾方法
314And there's always a sneaky like not in a bad way也总有这么狡猾的
315Not in an unethical way but a sneaky roundabout way to get what you want and this book just kind of不是以不道德的方式 而是以狡猾的绕行方式 来获得你想要的东西 而这本书只是一种
316Shows you that you should just try to do things just go out there put yourself out there reach out to people talk to people告诉你,你应该尝试 做一些事情 只是去那里 把自己在那里接触的人 与人交谈
317And this is definitely a message that I need to hear so much in order to even function on a normal level这绝对是一个信息,我需要听到这么多 为了甚至正常运转
318So so I can function as a normal person.所以我可以作为一个正常人发挥作用。
319I need to hear this message screamed at me very very often我需要听到这个消息 经常对我尖叫
320So for that reason this book was definitely very inspiring and it really resonated with me因此,这本书肯定非常鼓舞人心 它真的与我共鸣
321the next book I loved I think everyone should read is we are our brains and this is a book by dick swab on kind of the下一本我爱的书,我想每个人都应该读... ...我们是我们的大脑... ...这是一本书...
322How our brains are formed from the moment of conception to childbirth to childhood to teenage years older years我们的大脑是怎样形成的 从怀孕到分娩到童年到十几岁
323Up to Alzheimer's and death and it kind of explores all the changes of our brains throughout the stages直到老年痴呆症和死亡 它探索了我们大脑在各阶段的所有变化
324And a lot of the science behind this I know this book has been shown to be problematic for different reasons我知道这本书有问题 原因不同
325However, I don't think that we should like throw it away completely不过,我觉得我们不应该把它完全扔掉
326It's actually been super super helpful for me even as a medical student to understand a bit better其实我作为一个医科生 更能理解我
327How our brains work and how our human anatomy physiology and neuroscience works?我们的大脑如何运作,人类解剖生理学和神经科学如何运作?
328So great book for that reason this book is with the end in mind这本书的终极意义在于
329And this is a book around the end of life care and death in general这是一本关于生命护理结束和死亡的书
330It's written by a palliative care doctor who treats patients who are close to dying是一位治疗濒临死亡的病人的姑息护理医生写的
331And she's just summarized a lot of her insights and thoughts around death in general if you've read她只是总结了很多关于死亡的见解和想法 如果你读过的话
332Being mortal by atul gawande.在阿图尔·加旺德处成为凡人.
333This book will be something that you will definitely love这本书会是你绝对喜欢的
334It kind of showed me just how tightly I hold on to有点让我想起我有多坚持
335Things that I want and how much I want to control my life when really very very soon我想的东西 以及我有多想控制我的生活 当真的非常快
336I'm going to get to the point where I can't control anything and I can't even say what I want and I can't control my thoughts我将到达我无法控制任何东西,甚至不能说我想要的,我无法控制我的思想
337Or my body or my bowels and there's really no purpose in being so或者我的身体或者我的肠子... ...
338kind of wound up when you are younger and also it kind of helps with你年轻的时候会结业 也有帮助
339Loving the ones around you and being kinder something that I really liked in this book was the view that when people are close to爱着你身边的人 更亲切一些 我很喜欢这本书里的东西
340Their death they tend to think that他们的死亡 他们倾向于认为
341People around them are being so much kinder to them周围的人对他们那么好
342But the reason for that is not because they are dying但原因不是因为他们要死了
343But the reason for that is that when you are nearing the end of the life但原因是 当你接近生命的尽头
344Your perspective tends to shift from yourself to your loved ones and the ones around you and you tend to be so much kinder to them你的观点往往从你自己转向你所爱的人 以及你身边的人 你对他们更亲切
345And it's that kind of behavior that then is reflected back to you那样的行为才会回想起你
346And I think this is so underrated and something that we don't need to wait to be close to death to do and to appreciate我认为这是如此低估 的东西,我们不需要等待 接近死亡做和欣赏
347So just be nicer.所以,只是要好一点。
348Yeah, not groundbreaking, but very well explained in this book是啊,不是开创性的,但是在这本书中解释得很好
349Next is how to take smart notes and this is potentially in a different category one of my favorite books of all time接下来是怎样做聪明的笔记 这有可能是我最喜欢的书之一
350It's completely changed the way that I consume information and the way that I read books and the way that I make notes这完全改变了我消费信息的方式 和阅读书籍的方式 和做笔记的方式
351It speaks so much towards creativity and how the blank page should be a complete myth and how note-taking and organizing thoughts is它对创造力、空白页应如何成为一个完整的神话 以及如何记录和组织思想
352The best way to produce content and it has been the center of every制作内容的最好方法 一直是每个
353creation创建
354That's a stretch but anything that I've made in my life那是个伸展,但我这辈子做过的一切
355And it is just a cornerstone.它只是一个基石。
356I think of any sort of nerd should read this book just 100% it is brilliant我觉得任何书呆子都该读这本书 百分之百的好
357How to take smart notes honestly could not recommend it more absolutely life-changing如何用聪明的笔记 老实说,不能建议它更绝对改变生命
358It has kind of made one of the best videos on my channel on creating my second brain and potentially它创造了我频道上最优秀的视频之一 关于创造我的第二个大脑和潜力
359I'm going to make a course on that我要做一个课程
360So this book has just been absolutely central to my life and I would definitely recommend it to all nerds out there所以这本书只是我生命的核心 我绝对会推荐给外面的所有书呆子
361Because if you made it to this stage, honestly, you you're probably a nerd.因为如果你到了这个阶段, 说实话,你可能是一个书呆子。
362So read this book.故读此经.
363It's really really good真的很不错
364The next one is overcoming perfectionism and I left it to the end because if you're the sort of person who下一个是克服完美主义 我把它留到最后 因为如果你是那种
365Somehow enjoys my content so much that you made it this far不知何故,你这么享受我的满足 以至于你走这么远
366You might be a perfectionist maybe I hope not but you might have perfectionist tendencies你也许是个完美主义者 但我希望你不是 但也许有完美主义者的倾向
367And i'm definitely dealing with my perfectionism quite a lot in the last year because a clinical book on perfectionism that I really really liked我绝对是处理我的完美主义 在过去一年很多 因为一本关于完美主义的临床书 我真的很喜欢
368so I would definitely kind of recommend it to understand a bit more around the habits that you perhaps have created and the limiting thoughts and所以,我肯定会建议它 更了解一些 你可能创造的习惯 和限制思想,
369the not so good thinking patterns that you may have that kind of不太好的想法模式 你可能有这种
370Spiral you towards that kind of spiral you and push you towards perfectionist thoughts把你推向那种螺旋形 把你推向完美的思想
371I'm sure if you have any sort of perfectionist or ocd or ocpd tendencies you will very much resonate with a lot of the things我敢肯定,如果你有任何一种 完美主义者或ocd或ocpd倾向 你会非常反响 很多事情
372in the book like for example在书中,例如
373Discounting your achievements and thinking that you just got lucky or that you know other贬低你的成就 认为你刚刚走运 或者你知道其他
374That things weren't that difficult or anything like that.事情没有那么难 或类似的事情。
375Just there was just too much in this book只是书里太多
376It's absolutely brilliant if you're in this category at all.如果你是这个类别,那绝对是绝妙的。
377So definitely would give it a read所以肯定会给它一个阅读
378And lastly, I just had to add this here just in case just in case you're in my audience and you haven't read harry potter最后,我只好在这里添加这个 只是以防你在我的观众 并且你还没有读哈利陶器
379Please read it.请师诵之.
380It is the best book on earth.这是世上最好的书
381I am constantly reading a harry potter book at any point in my life我一生中随时都在读一本 哈利陶器书
382So so please read it所以请读一下
383It's brilliant the universe of harry potter the characters the connections the growth这是辉煌的宇宙 哈利陶特 人物 连接的成长
384It just feels like home in so many ways and if you don't have this home to escape to in your mind它只是感觉像家 在很多方面 如果你没有这个家 逃到你的脑海
385Create it.创建它。
386It's so beautiful.妙绝.
387I wish I could do it all over again真希望我能重来一次
388So yes, that was everything对,就是这些
389I did say this was going to be quite a long video and I have perhaps spoken a bit too fast in which case apologies我确实说过这段视频会很长 我可能说得太快了
390If you made it up to here sign up to my newsletter如果你补到这里 签我的通讯
391I have a newsletter where I我有一个通讯 在那里我
392Every time that I read a book that I think should be shared with people每次我读到一本书 我觉得应该和别人分享
393I make notes on it and summarize it and send it out to you.我在上面做笔记 总结一下 寄给你
394It's completely free完全免费
395It will be in my description在我的描述中
396Otherwise, I have a bunch of videos on books that will be somewhere on the screen if you want to continue this book reading journey要不然,我还有一堆关于书籍的视频,如果你想继续读这本书的话,这些视频会放在屏幕上某个地方。
397And yeah, I hope you have a wonderful rest of your day.是啊,我希望你有一个美好的 休息的一天。
398Be kind to yourself and others and don't believe everything you think对自己和其他人好一点,别相信自己想的
399Thanks.谢谢
400Bye再见
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