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一见钟情VS日久生情?耶鲁哲学教授带你辨析是什么主宰心灵与态

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0:04Hello everyone.產
0:05Good evening in Beijing.北京晚报.
0:06Good morning on the state side.州边早.
0:09My name is Rusty我叫鲁斯提
0:10Fufunan.福福南无.
0:10I am a graduate of Yale College class of 2024, a current Yale Light Fellow at Middlebury我是耶鲁大学2024年班的毕业生,现任耶鲁大学米德尔伯里校友
0:16in Beijing, and an intern here at Yale Center Beijing.在北京,还有耶鲁中心北京的一个实习生
0:19For those of you who are new, Yale你们这些新人,耶鲁
0:21Center Beijing was founded in 2014 as Yale's embassy and activity center in China, serving all北京中心成立于2014年,是耶鲁在中国的大使馆和活动中心,服务于所有
0:27of its 14 schools.其14所学校。
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1Hello everyone.產
2Good evening in Beijing.北京晚报.
3Good morning on the state side.州边早.
4My name is Rusty我叫鲁斯提
5Fufunan.福福南无.
6I am a graduate of Yale College class of 2024, a current Yale Light Fellow at Middlebury我是耶鲁大学2024年班的毕业生,现任耶鲁大学米德尔伯里校友
7in Beijing, and an intern here at Yale Center Beijing.在北京,还有耶鲁中心北京的一个实习生
8For those of you who are new, Yale你们这些新人,耶鲁
9Center Beijing was founded in 2014 as Yale's embassy and activity center in China, serving all北京中心成立于2014年,是耶鲁在中国的大使馆和活动中心,服务于所有
10of its 14 schools.其14所学校。
11For the past 10 plus years, we have hosted thousands of events such as today's在过去的10年里,我们主办了数千次活动,如今天的会议。
12convening thought leaders to discuss critical and cutting-edge issues that are shaping our world.召集思想领袖讨论影响我们世界的关键和尖端问题。
13Today, I am delighted to welcome Professor Stephen Darwall, Andrew Downey Orrick Professor今天,我高兴地欢迎斯蒂芬·达尔沃尔教授、安德鲁·唐尼·奥里克教授。
14of Philosophy at Yale University.耶鲁大学哲学系
15A fellow of the American Academy of Arts and Sciences since 2001,2001年起成为美国文理科学院院士.
16Professor Darwall has written broadly on fundamental moral philosophy,达沃尔教授在基本道德哲学上 写了很多东西
17moral psychology, and the history of ethics.道德心理学和道德史
18His most well-known book is The Second Person's他最著名的书是第二人称
19Point, Morality, Respect, and Accountability.要点、道德、尊重和问责。
20And his most recent books are Modern Moral Philosophy他最近的著作是现代道德哲学
21from Grotius to Kant, and The Heart and Its Attitudes, the subject of today's lecture.从格罗提乌斯到康德,和心及其态度,今天的演讲主题.
22In this talk, Professor Darwall will explore attitudes of the heart, such as remorse,在这个演讲中,达尔沃尔教授将探索心脏的态度,比如悔恨,
23love, trust, gratitude, personal anger, and jealousy, and their role in mediating personal爱,信任,感激,个人愤怒, 和嫉妒, 以及他们在调解个人的作用
24relationship, attachment, and connection.关系,附件,和连接。
25He also examines how these heartfelt attitudes他还研究了这些真诚的态度
26mirror attitudes of the will, guilt, resentment, and blame.反映意志、内疚、怨恨和指责的态度。
27Professor Darwall will begin with达沃尔教授将首先
28their presentation, and we invite our audience to turn on their video cameras if you can.我们邀请我们的观众 打开他们的摄像机 如果你可以。
29It always makes for a more engaging lecture.这总能让演讲更投入
30And after the lecture portion, we will open the floor讲完课后,我们开始讲课
31(原始内容存档于2017-09-31). For a QQA session.
32Without further ado, I'll hand over the floor to Professor Darwall.不用多说了,我把地板交给达沃尔教授
33Yeah, this is titled A Philosophical Journey from Mind to Heart.是啊,这是一个哲学的旅程 从心灵到心脏。
34And the book in question,和这本书,
35The Heart and Its Attitudes, you see it there in the image.心及其态度,你在图像中看到它。
36I should say that the cover for it was我应该说,它的封面是
37designed by my wife Laura Radwell, who in many ways is the inspiration for this book and helped由我妻子劳拉·拉德威尔设计,他在许多方面是这本书的灵感,并帮助
38me to see a lot of things that I finally figured out at the advanced stage of something in my 70s.我看见很多事情 我终于在70多岁的时候 发现了一些东西
39Okay, so it's Philosophical Journey from Mind to Heart.好吧,所以这是哲学旅程 从心灵到心脏。
40I start the book in the preface by我开始这本书的前言
41talking about a little bit about my background.说到我的背景
42My mother was a paranoid schizophrenic.我妈妈是偏执狂精神分裂症患者
43And so I所以我才会
44lived the early part of my life trying to figure things out and trying desperately to understand活在我的生命的早期 试图找出事情 并拼命地试图理解
45the world, which could be a sort of frightening place for me.世界,这可能是 一种可怕的地方对我来说。
46And I also grew up with a distinct我从小就跟一个
47lack of love, which sort of dogged me throughout much of my life.缺乏爱, 那种缠绕我一生的大部分时间。
48And this book, really,而这本书,真的,
49it's a philosophical book.这是一本哲学书。
50No question about that.毫无疑问。
51But the themes that I'm writing about但我写的主题
52are themes, very personal themes.主题 个人主题
53And they're hard-won themes, things that took me a long time这些是来之不易的主题 我花了很长时间
54to figure out and to learn.来思考和学习。
55So my initial thrust in the world was just to understand things,所以我在世界上的初衷就是理解一切
56to use my head, to use my mind.用我的脑袋,用我的头脑。
57And most of my early philosophical work was about the foundations我早期的哲学著作大多是关于基础的
58of morality.道德观
59And we'll talk a little bit about that.我们再谈谈这个
60But what this book is about is a heartfelt但这本书是真心的
61connection.连接。
62Yeah.
63So here you have an image of Peter Strassen.这里有彼得·斯特拉森的形象
64This is a photo that was taken这张照片是拍的
65by Simon Blackburn, who is a very well-known philosopher.由西蒙·布莱克本(Simon Blackburn)执导,他是一位非常著名的哲学家.
66And Strassen wrote this paper in斯特拉森写了一篇论文
671962 called Freedom and Resentment.1962年,称"自由与感化".
68And it's probably one of two most influential philosophical这也许是两个最有影响力的哲学之一
69articles of the second half of the 20th century, at least in English.20世纪下半叶的文章,至少是英文.
70And it's certainly the这当然是
71inspiration for a lot of my work.启发我很多作品
72So Strassen wrote about what he called reactive attitudes.于是斯特拉森写下了他所说的被动态度.
73Reactive attitudes sound much worse than they actually are, because we think about reactivity反应的态度听起来比实际的要糟糕得多,因为我们想的是反应
74and getting your buttons pushed and so on.然后按下按钮等等
75But really what Strassen was about here is a certain但实际上斯特拉森在这里 是一个特定的
76way of engaging others with our attitudes.与我们的态度接触的方式。
77These are attitudes that we hold, as Strassen put it,正如斯特拉森所说 我们所持的态度
78from a participant stance, a participant in a relationship.从参与者的立场, 一种关系中的参与者。
79It's what I call the second这是我所说的第二个
80person stance, but more about that in a moment.人的立场,但更多 在那一刻。
81And he gave various examples.他举出了各种例子。
82They're what we他们就是我们
83call deontic examples.调用自定义示例。
84Deontic is a word meaning duty.德昂蒂克是一个词 意思是责任。
85So these are attitudes that are involved因此,这些态度 涉及到
86in our judgments of right, wrong, rights, wronging, and culpability.我们判断对错,对错,对错,对错,对错和对错的判断.
87And the examples和例子
88are resentment, blame, or what he called indignation, and guilt.是怨恨,责备, 或者他所说的愤慨,和罪恶。
89But he also gave但他也给了
90non-deontic examples, ones that didn't involve duty at all.那些根本不涉及义务的例子
91He talked about gratitude, love,他谈到感激,爱,
92forgiveness, and hurt feelings.宽恕 伤害感情
93Hurt feelings, I think, is especially interesting.我觉得伤害的感觉特别有趣
94When you have hurt feelings, that doesn't mean like you've stubbed your toe.当你有伤害的感情, 这并不意味着你已经扎了你的脚趾。
95It means that you've been hurt in your heart.谓 心所伤.
96So I wanted to understand what heart is and what所以我想了解什么是心脏 是什么
97attitudes of the heart are and how they mediate heartfelt connection.心灵的态度和他们如何调解内心的联系。
98All reactive attitudes are所有的反应态度都是
99again from what Strassen called a participant stance, as opposed to an objective stance.再次从斯特拉森所说的参与者立场,而不是客观立场。
100Now, what's the difference here?有什么区别吗?
101Well, participant stance is what I call the second person perspective.我所说的第二人称视角就是参与者的立场。
102And that's the perspective we have when we are implicitly addressing someone else.这就是我们隐含地对待别人时的观点。
103I mean,我是说...
104you and I right now are in the second person perspective with respect to each other.你和我现在对彼此的第二人称观点。
105We can look to our right and to our left, and we see someone over there, and we have a third我们可以看我们的左右, 我们看到有人在那里,我们有三分之一
106person perspective or observer's perspective on them.个人观点或观察员观点。
107But the moment we start to talk to them,但是当我们开始和他们交谈时
108then we're in a second person perspective.然后我们从第二人称角度出发
109Second person here means like you, the grammatical second这里的第二人 就是你 语法第二人
110person, not second party.人,不是第二派对。
111So you can have a second personal attitude towards yourself.这样你就可以对自己采取另一种个人态度.
112And guilt is a great example of that.内疚就是一个很好的例子。
113We'll be talking more about guilt later.我们以后会多谈内疚
114Guilt is the内疚是
115feeling of being accountable.感觉被问责。
116You implicitly address yourself and you say, Steve, you really你含蓄地说,史蒂夫,你真的
117shouldn't have done that.不该那么做的
118You need to take responsibility for that.你得为此负责
119Okay, so this is a book好吧,这是一本书
120that I published in 2006.我在2006年发表。
121And I was making a lot of use of Strassen's ideas in this book.我在这本书中大量运用了斯特拉森的想法。
122And I was providing, I argued, a foundation for morality, something I'd been thinking about,我在提供,我争论, 道德的基础, 一些我一直在想,
123certainly since I was an undergraduate at Yale, but even before that.当然 因为我是耶鲁大学的本科生 但在那之前
124So what I'm calling deontic reactive attitudes, blame, guilt, resentment,所以,我所说的 迪昂式的反应态度, 责备,内疚,怨恨,
125these attitudes mediate mutual accountability.这些态度调解了相互问责。
126We hold others accountable through the attitude,我们通过态度来追究他人的责任,
127or we hold ourselves accountable through the attitude, as for example, with guilt.或者我们通过这种态度来追究自己的责任,例如,我们有罪。
128In general, deontic reactive attitudes are, first, essentially interpersonal.一般而言,自觉反应的态度主要是人际的。
129That's这是
130Strassen's term.斯特拉森任期.
131I say second personal.我说第二个人。
132It's the same thing.亦复如是.
133Secondly, they implicitly make a demand第二,他们含蓄地提出要求
134on the agent.在经纪人。
135So they say, in effect, you must do this.所以他们说,实际上, 你必须这样做。
136But it's not a coercive demand.但这不是强制要求.
137It's not attempting to force the other.这不是试图强迫对方。
138It's a putatively legitimate demand.这是假想的合法要求.
139And so they address因此,他们地址
140the other as a free will, not as someone to be pushed around.另一个是自由意志 而不是被驱赶的人
141They therefore presuppose the因此,它们预先假定:
142legitimacy of the demand.要求的合法性。
143That is that there's the authority to make the demand.那就是有权力来要求
144And finally,终于
145they bid for an acknowledgement of this authority and for the agent to hold themselves accountable.他们要求承认这一权力,并要求代理人承担责任。
146They come with what I call an RSVP.他们带着我所说的RSVP
147So here's an example I like to use to illustrate.因此,这里有一个例子,我喜欢用来说明。
148So these are two Italian ice dancers in the Winter Olympics years ago in Torino.这些是几年前在都灵举行的冬季奥运会的两名意大利冰舞运动员.
149And it's Maurizio Margaglio.这是毛里齐奥·马尔加廖。
150He's the male.他就是那个雄性
151And Barbara Fusarpoli, who later became the skating还有芭芭拉·福萨波利 后来成为滑冰运动员
152coach for Italy, is the woman.意大利的教练是女的
153And they're very close to a medal in the ice dancing competition.他们在冰舞比赛中非常接近一枚奖牌.
154But Maurizio drops Barbara Fusarpoli and they fall to the ice.但毛里齐奥把芭芭拉·佛萨波利放下,他们掉到冰上.
155And they're on the ice for a good和他们一起在冰上为好
156long time.好久不见
157And then after an agonizing time, they get up and she looks at him.然后在痛苦的时间之后 他们站起来 她看着他
158And then she really礛痷
159looks at him.看着他
160Now that's what I would call a second personal look.现在这就是我所谓的第二次个人表情。
161It's as if she's saying to him,她好像在对他说
162Maurizio, tell me what happened.毛里齐奥 告诉我发生了什么
163Look me in the eye and tell me how you dropped me.看着我的眼睛 告诉我你是怎么把我摔下来的
164And here's another gift to sort of illustrate it.这是另一个礼物来说明它。
165It's eyes on eyes.以眼视之.
166So you're not looking所以你没在看
167at the other person.在另一个人。
168You're looking to the other person to engage them, have them look back to you你找另一个人来对付他们 让他们回头看你
169and to give an account of what they were doing, what they did.并叙述他们所行的善恶。
170So they hold the other accountable.所以他们追究对方的责任
171So you can see the you.这样你才能看见你
172What happened?发生了什么事?
173Okay.摆
174So in implicitly addressing putatively legitimate因此,在隐含地处理 所谓的合法
175demands or expectations, deontic reactive attitudes are, I say, an expression of will要求或期望, 直观的反应态度,我说,是意志的表达
176to another will.敬另一个遗嘱
177So they make a demand.所以他们要求。
178That's what I will or would have you do.我愿意或愿意让你这么做
179And they address他们的地址
180the other as a will, someone who freely did something and next needs to take accountability作为另一个意志,一个人 谁自由地做了一些事情, 下一步需要承担责任
181for it, a responsibility for it.对于它,一个责任。
182So they imply what I would call a will to will relation.所以它们暗示了我所谓的意志关系。
183And so,于是,
184again, just to recall the deontic reactive attitudes or attitudes like blame, resentment,再说一遍,只是回顾一下 直觉的反应态度 或态度,如责备,怨恨,
185guilt.内疚
186They presuppose what I would call a reciprocity of right.他们预先假定我所说的权利对等。
187That is that each of这是每一个
188we're mutually accountable to one another.我们互相负责
189I have the standing to hold you accountable.我有权追究你的责任
190You你们
191likewise have the standing to hold me accountable.同样有权追究我的责任。
192So we are in a reciprocal relationship of right.因此,我们处在一种对等的权利关系中。
193We are obligated to one another and we have to be able to justify ourselves to one another.我们彼此有义务,我们必须能够为自己辩护。
194By contrast, the non-deontic reactive attitudes I'll be discussing, they don't presuppose反之,我将要讨论的 非理性的反应态度, 它们并不预先假定
195expectations at all.完全没有期望。
196You can't expect someone to love you.你不能指望有人爱你
197You can't expect someone to trust you.你不能指望别人相信你
198To the contrary, you can just hope that they will.相反,你可以只是希望他们会。
199You can invite them to.你可以邀请他们去
200And they always involve a heartfelt expression, what I would call an opening of one's heart to它们总是包含一个真诚的表达, 我称之为一个开放的心脏
201another heart that invites reciprocation and hopes for it.又一心唤起共鸣和希望
202They imply what I call a heart to heart他们暗示我所说的心脏
203relation rather than the will to will relation that's being implied by the deontic examples.而不是意志关系的意愿 意思是... ...
204So since they implicitly relate to another in a heartfelt way, I say they are second personal因此,由于它们含蓄地与另一个以真诚的方式联系在一起,我说它们是第二个人的
205attitudes of the heart.心脏的态度。
206So both the deontic examples and the non-deontic examples are因此,德翁的例子和非德翁的例子都是
207second personal in the sense that they implicitly address the other.第二个人,即他们含蓄地涉及另一个。
208They don't simply have the other他们不只是拥有另一个
209as an object in a way, for example, contempt might.例如,从某种意义上说,蔑视是可能的。
210They come with an RSVP,他们带着一个RSVP,
211get back to me on this.回到我这里。
212And the contrast is that in the deontic cases, there's an expectation与此形成对比的是,在德奥科特案中,人们期望
213in the non-deontic cases, the heartfelt cases, there can't be an expectation by definition.在非正当的情况下, 诚恳的案件, 顾名思义,不可能有期望。
214There's just the hope and the invitation and the opening.唯愿及请及开示.
215So a good example of this is the contrast between guilt and remorse.一个很好的例子就是 内疚和悔恨的对比
216Now, the first time you hear现在,你第一次听到
217this, it's natural to think, well, aren't guilt and remorse the same thing?这,这是自然的 思考,嗯,是不是 内疚和悔恨是一回事?
218Well, it may be the case也许是这样
219that usage of the words guilt and remorse are for the same thing, but it turns out that that's not内疚和悔恨的用法是一样的 但事实并非如此
220true.没错
221And I'll be able to demonstrate that to you in just a moment.我马上就能证明给你看
222But what matters is the psychology但重要的是心理学
223of it.
224There are two different psychological states.有两个不同的心理状态。
225Guilt is an attitude of the will,内疚是意志的态度,
226remorse is an attitude of the heart.忏悔是内心的一种态度.
227Why?为什么?
228Well, guilt involves an acknowledgement of culpable罪过包括承认有罪
229wrongdoing, responsibility for injury, where injury is not like sports injury.错失行为,伤害的责任,伤害不属于运动伤害.
230Injury is伤害是
231something on the basis of which you could have a tort claim, you could claim damages.某件事你可以要求侵权, 你可以要求损害赔偿。
232So it's about wronging another person, and it's a way of taking responsibility for it.故谓之错人,是承担责任的一种方式.
233Guilt doesn't itself necessarily, you can have unspoken guilt, but guilt bids to be acknowledged.内疚本身不一定,你可以有 未经说明的内疚, 但认罪被承认。
234The natural expression of guilt is to confess and to take responsibility.认罪的自然表现是忏悔和承担责任。
235Remorse, by contrast,反之,反之,
236involves sorrow for the pain or suffering that one has perhaps culpably caused, though that turns包括悲伤 一个人造成的痛苦或痛苦 也许是罪有应得的,虽然这转而
237out not to be necessary.没必要
238Where sorrow is, and these are quotes from the Oxford English Dictionary,悲伤的所在 这些是牛津英语词典的引文
239mental distress caused by loss, deep sadness, grief, being heartsick.由失去、深沉的悲伤、悲伤、心烦而导致的精神痛苦。
240So I think you can see所以我觉得你可以看到
241the difference here.这里的区别。
242And I'll give an example to illustrate it.我举个例子来说明这一点。
243Guilt is the sense that one is内疚是一种感觉
244violated a justified demand or requirement and must take responsibility for that.违反正当要求或要求,必须对此承担责任。
245So it's all on都结束了
246the will side.遗嘱一方。
247Its focus is what one did and on taking responsibility for that, setting one's它的焦点是一个人做了什么 并对此承担责任,
248will, resolving for the future, not to do it again, and trying to assure the other person that's the愿意,为未来而决心,不再这样做, 并试图保证对方是
249case.案例。
250Now, remorse, I say unlike agent regret.现在,忏悔,我说 不同于代理后悔。
251Agent regret is a term in the philosophical后悔是哲学上的一个术语
252literature for the same thing that I'm using remorse to refer to.与我用悔恨来形容的一样
253It may involve guilt,它可能涉及有罪,
254but it doesn't have to.但没必要这样
255And even if it does involve guilt, it adds crucially sorrow or sadness即使它确实涉及内疚, 它会增加关键的悲伤或悲伤
256for the pain and suffering one has caused.一个人造成的痛苦和痛苦。
257It involves a heartfelt care or concern for the它涉及对残疾人的衷心关怀或关注。
258injured person.伤者。
259So remorse is an attitude of the heart.所以忏悔是内心的一种态度.
260Attitudes of the heart mediate heartfelt内心的心意
261relating, just as deontic reactive attitudes mediate mutually accountable relating.双方相互问责。
262Now,现在,
263let me give you an example so you can see the difference between guilt and remorse.让我举个例子,这样你就能看到罪过和悔恨之间的区别。
264I talk about this in the book.我在书里提到这个
265This is the case of a guy named Richard Boothman who works as a一个叫理查德·布斯曼的人
266lawyer for the University of Michigan hospitals.密歇根大学医院的律师
267He's worked there for a good long time now.他在那里工作了很长时间
268When he came in, his job was to deal with malpractice cases and to try to reduce当他进来时 他的工作是处理渎职案件 并努力减少
269the university's or the hospital's exposure to financial risk, trying to cut losses.大学或医院面临财务风险,试图减少损失。
270And typically, the way lawyers would do this is to talk to victims or families of victims通常情况下,律师这样做的方式 是和受害者或受害者家属交谈
271of alleged malpractice and say, look, you can try to fight us in court, but there's no way you're并说,你看,你可以尝试 对抗我们在法庭上, 但你不可能
272going to win.会赢的
273We have this huge army of lawyers.我们有一支庞大的律师队伍
274They're very well trained and we've got the他们训练有素,我们有
275resources, the University of Michigan hospitals that we can bring and you don't have that.我们带给密歇根大学的医院 而你没有
276So这么说
277can't we make a deal?我们不能做个交易吗?
278Now, they were, I mean, this was pretty much common practice, but there are现在,他们,我的意思是, 这是相当常见的做法, 但是有
279problems with this.有问题
280Surprisingly, ultimately, it led to much more expense for the hospitals令人惊讶的是,这最终导致医院花费更多
281than what they ended up doing.而不是他们最后所做的
282But most important for our purposes, it did nothing at all to help但对于我们的目的来说,最重要的一点帮助都没有
283with the heart problem that both the victims and their families and the doctors and the hospital受害者及其家人以及医生和医院的心脏问题
284staff were feeling.工作人员有感觉。
285So suppose you're a doctor and someone dies on your operating table.假设你是医生 手术台上有人死了
286You feel awful about it.你感觉很糟糕
287And suppose you're convinced there's nothing else you could have假设你确信你没有别的东西
288done.结束了。
289There's no culpable wrongdoing.没有错的
290You may feel guilt, but you know that it's not justified你可能觉得内疚,但你知道 这是没有道理的
291guilt.内疚
292Still, you're heartsick and you feel for the family of the victim.不过,你还是心烦意乱,对受害者的家人有感觉.
293So this is what's called这就是所谓的
294moral injury.精神伤害。
295It happens in war all the time.战争中总是这样
296My wife and I are right now watching a documentary我妻子和我正在看纪录片
297about Vietnam and all these American soldiers who are, you know, doing things that, well,关于越南和所有这些美国士兵 他们正在做的事情,嗯,
298there's pain and suffering all around.周围都是痛苦和痛苦
299And they come back, they came back and他们回来,他们回来
300with terrible problems of mental illness, drug use, and so on.患有精神疾病,吸毒等严重疾病。
301And this has happened in all the这一切都发生在
302point is that you get these heart wounds and something needs to address that.关键是,你得到了这些心脏伤 和一些东西需要解决这一点。
303And there's还有
304nothing, justice can't address that.没什么,正义不能解决这一点。
305It's only love that can heal a broken heart.只有爱才能治愈心碎
306So let me go让我走
307back to the Boothman example, the University of Michigan hospitals.回到Boothman的例子 密歇根大学的医院
308There was this guy named Ahmed,有一个叫艾哈迈德的人
309an Arab American from the Detroit area who came in to the University of Michigan hospitals in Ann一个来自底特律地区的美国阿拉伯人 来到安的密歇根大学医院
310Harbor.港湾.
311And he was having various complaints and they took him in and they worked with him and on他有各种投诉 他们收留了他 他们和他一起工作
312him and tried to figure out what was wrong with him.他试图找出他有什么问题
313And he died despite everything they did.他不顾一切死去
314The doctors felt terrible about it.医生对此感到很可怕。
315Obviously, the family was irate and grief-stricken.很明显,这个家庭是愤怒和悲伤的。
316What to do?怎么办?
317Well, what Boothman recommended that they do, and this is now the standard policy,Boothman建议他们做的 现在这是标准政策
318is that the medical staff meet with the family if the family is willing to do that and simply say,医疗人员与家人见面 如果家人愿意这样做,并简单地说,
319what happened?发生什么事了?
320Hold themselves accountable, but also show how they felt.对自己负责,但也表明他们的感受。
321So what happened in this所以这里发生了什么
322was that the family came in.是家人进来的
323Initially, they were very angry.起初,他们非常愤怒.
324People were throwing things.人们扔东西。
325The那个
326lawyer said, calm down.律师说,冷静下来。
327It's really rare for hospitals to even meet with you.医院很少见到你
328Hear what they听听他们
329have to say.不得不说。
330And so the doctors and the other medical staff described what happened with Ahmed医生和其他医护人员 讲述了艾哈迈德的遭遇
331and after a while, they started to cry.过了一段时间,他们开始哭泣。
332And you can probably predict what happened.你也许可以预测发生了什么。
333The crying disarmed the defenses of the family.哭声解除了家族的防卫.
334They naturally started to cry also.他们自然也开始哭泣。
335So they were sharing grief.所以他们分享悲伤。
336And before long, they're in each other's arms.不久,他们彼此怀抱.
337And initially, they're sharing grief.起初,他们分享悲伤。
338And then the family's showing the doctors and the other staff然后家人会给医生和其他员工看
339photographs of Ahmed when he was younger.艾哈迈德年轻时的照片。
340And they're having a kind of celebration of Ahmed's life.他们正在庆祝艾哈迈德的一生
341Now, let's not suppose that that made everything completely better,现在,让我们不要假设 这让一切都好起来,
342but it addressed their heart wounds in a way that even the most just tort settlement couldn't.但它处理他们的心脏创伤的方式 即使最公正的侵权解决无法。
343So这么说
344justice doesn't go any way towards heartfelt connection.正义是不会实现心灵联系的
345Only love can, what's the phrase,只有爱可以, 什么是短语,
346heal a wounded heart.治愈受伤的心脏。
347So again, back to the basic structure, both deontic and non-deontic因此,再次回到基本结构, 无论是自贡还是非自贡
348attitudes call for response.态度需要作出反应。
349They all have an RSVP.他们都有一个RSVP。
350But whereas deontic attitudes expect response,但德意志的态度需要回应,
351the non-deontic ones invite it without expectation.非礼者不预望地邀请它。
352They open the heart to another heart他们打开心脏到另一个心脏
353in the hope that the other heart will be open in return.希望另一颗心能被打开
354The response deontic reactive attitudes被动反应的态度
355expect is reciprocal respect for legitimate expectation.期望是对合法期望的相互尊重。
356So mutual accountability always因此,相互问责总是
357involves a respectful demand for respect.涉及尊重要求。
358The response that non-deontic attitudes of the heart内心非理性态度的反应
359invite is reciprocal attitude of the heart.邀请是内心的对等态度。
360So parenthetically, this is why there could never因此,括号内,这就是为什么永远不能
361be a justified expectation or an obligation to have an attitude of the heart like love or remorse.是一种正当的期望 或义务 拥有心脏的态度 像爱或悔恨。
362Now, I find this as a point that people resist initially, because of course, for example,我认为这是人们最初反抗的一点, 当然,例如,
363in the marriage ceremony, we promise to love one another.在婚礼上,我们保证彼此相爱
364So it looks like when you promise,看来你答应的时候
365you undertake an obligation.你承担义务。
366So you must be under an obligation to love one another.所以你们一定有义务相爱
367What I'm saying is that you can't have an obligation to have the attitude of love.我想说的是,你不能有义务 拥有爱的态度。
368You can have an obligation to do all kinds of things that try to keep that attitude alive or你可以有义务做各种事情 试图保持这种态度或
369to be loving to the other person, to take care of them, but you can't promise to care for them爱别人,照顾他们 但你不能保证照顾他们
370in the sense of having the attitude of heartfelt concern.以真心关心的态度表示。
371And the reason is, anything you can be原因是,你可以做的一切
372obligated to do, you can do simply out of respect for the obligation and for the other person that有义务这样做的,可以仅仅出于对义务的尊重和对他人的遵守:
373expresses.表达。
374This is a point that Immanuel Kant famously made under what he called the fact of这是Immanuel Kant在所谓的事实下 著名的观点
375reason in the critique of practical reason, but it's impossible to be moved to love by out of在批评 实际的原因, 但不可能被移动 爱出
376respect.尊重他们
377So if there were an obligation to love, then the way to recognize that would be to respect因此,如果有爱的义务, 那么承认的方式 是尊重
378obligation, but respect can't magically be changed into love.但尊重不能神奇地变成爱
379Sadly, a very hard可悲的是,很难
380hard-earned message for me in my life, I have to say.我必须说,我一生中很难听到的信息
381Okay.摆
382So attitudes to the heart are second所以对心脏的态度是第二
383personal.个人的。
384They open the heart to another heart, inviting the other to be open in return.他们打开心向另一颗心,邀请另一颗心向另一颗心开放作为回报.
385Now, what do I mean by heart?现在,我是什么意思 心脏?
386Well, I suspect so early on in the book, I say, why do philosophers嗯,我怀疑这么早 在书,我说,为什么哲学家
387not write about the heart?没有写心脏?
388At least analytical philosophers.至少分析哲学家。
389And I think part of the reason is我认为其中一部分原因是
390that heart's a metaphor.心脏是个比喻
391And analytical philosophers are very skeptical of metaphors.而分析哲学家对比喻非常怀疑.
392They want to know他们想知道
393what the cash value is of this idea.这个想法的现金价值是多少.
394But I think we all kind of know what heart is.但我想我们都知道什么是心脏
395Let's call it开始吧
396a cluster or a syndrome of linked emotional susceptibilities.连结的情感易感性集合或综合症。
397So if I love you, then I'm inclined to fear things on your behalf, to support you in various ways,因此,如果我爱你, 那么我倾向于害怕的东西 代表你, 支持你的方式,
398to feel grief if you die, to feel sadness if something saddens you, and so on.感觉悲伤 如果你死了, 感受悲伤 如果某事让你伤心,等等。
399So it's this就是这个
400reciprocal susceptibility or vulnerability to one another.相互易感或相互脆弱。
401It's also a form of attachment.亦谓依附之体.
402So these are emotions we can be said to feel in our hearts and in a heartfelt way.因此,我们可以说,这些是情感 在我们的心中和以真诚的方式。
403And I think我觉得
404it's pretty obvious that the language runs throughout our lives.很明显 语言贯穿我们一生
405And actually,事实上,
406you look back in ancient Greek texts also, heart is used in a similar way.在古希腊文本中你也可以回顾, 心脏的使用方式相似。
407Also ancient Chinese texts as well, come to think of it.也是中国古代的文字,来想一想.
408OK, so this goes back to, I was saying,好吧,这又回到,我说,
409maybe you think that even if I can convince you that guilt and remorse are different psychological也许你认为即使我能说服你 内疚和悔恨是不同的心理
410attitudes, don't we use the word guilt and remorse in the same ways?态度,我们不是用 内疚和悔恨这个词的方式吗?
411So here's the only所以这是唯一的
412experimental evidence I've ever provided for any claim in anything I've ever written, Google hits.我曾经提供过实验性证据 任何我写过的东西,谷歌点击。
413Now, I can't promise you that you'll get these same results today because Google's a moving target.现在,我不能向你保证,今天你会得到同样的结果 因为谷歌是一个移动的目标。
414And I was teaching a course in the fall, and one of my students, I said, I was inviting them all秋天我教了一门课 一个学生,我说,我邀请他们
415to do this.这样做。
416And one of them did it right there in the class.其中一个在课堂上做了
417And he said, well, gee, I'm not他说,嗯,天哪,我不是
418seeing anything like this.看到这样的事情
419And I said, did you put quotation marks around heartfelt grief, for example?我说,你有没有把引号 围绕内心的悲痛,例如?
420And he said, oh, yeah.他说,哦,是的。
421So then he got something close to this.然后他得到了一些接近这一点。
422Now, look at the difference here现在,看看这里的区别
423between heartfelt guilt and heartfelt remorse.在内心的内疚和内心的悔恨之间
424So heartfelt remorse is a natural idea, if I'm right.所以如果我说的对的话 内心的忏悔是自然的
425We feel remorse in our hearts.我们心中感到悔恨。
426Heartfelt guilt is something like an oxymoron because guilt is not an attitude you feel in your内心的内疚就像一种矛盾 因为内疚不是你在内心中感觉到的态度
427heart.心脏。
428It's an attitude you feel with your will in taking responsibility, acknowledging what one did这是你以承担责任的意志 承认自己做了什么
429and setting oneself to act differently in the future.并让自己在未来采取不同行动。
430OK. And then you can see that displayed摆 然后,你可以看到显示
431throughout all the rest of the attitudes of the heart and attitudes of the will.贯穿于内心所有的一切态度和意志的态度。
432Yeah.
433So in a way, I've already made this point before, but let me just repeat it for emphasis.所以在某种程度上,我以前已经说过这一点,但让我重复一遍,强调这一点。
434So love the attitude, I'm saying, is an attitude of the heart.所以喜欢这种态度,我是说,是内心的一种态度.
435And so you can't ever have an所以你永远不能有一个
436obligation to feel it, but you can have an obligation to do things in the neighborhood有义务去感受 但你有义务在附近做事
437of feeling it.感觉它。
438That is to try to keep love alive or to be careful not to trifle with the other's也就是说要保持爱的活力 或小心不要和别人的
439heart.心脏。
440Al Green, the great blues and roots rock singer at the United States, has a wonderful song阿尔·格林,美国伟大的蓝调和根摇滚歌手,有一首美妙的歌曲
441called Take Good Care of My Heart."好好照顾我的心"
442So we can be careful with each other's hearts and we can be这样我们就可以小心对方的心和我们
443obligated to be careful with one another's hearts, but we can't be obligated to have the attitude of我们不得不小心对方的心, 但我们不能承担 态度
444love.
445OK.摆
446This is a list of the contents of the book.本书内容列表.
447Let me just pause a little bit over some of让我暂停一下
448the speeches.演讲
449One by Frederick Douglass that you may know, What to the Slave is the Fourth of July,弗雷德里克·道格拉斯的一首歌,你可能知道,对奴隶来说,什么是国庆节,
450and a second by James Baldwin debating William F. Buckley at the time.以及詹姆斯·鲍德温在当时辩论威廉·F·巴克利的第二作.
451This is in 1965.这是在1965年。
452I wasи琌
453a Yale undergraduate at the time.a 当时的耶鲁大学本科生.
454William Buckley was a major figure.威廉·巴克利是一个主要人物.
455I mean, he'd graduated in the我的意思是,他毕业于
456fifties, but a major sort of conservative voice on campus remains, even though he's been dead a虽然他已经死了 但校园里保守派的声音依旧存在
457while.同时
458There's the William F. Buckley Society at Yale and so on.耶鲁有威廉·F·巴克利学会等.
459So Baldwin and William F. Buckley所以鲍德温和威廉·F·巴克利
460are debating the question before the Cambridge University in England resolved that the American英国剑桥大学正在辩论 英国剑桥大学认为
461dream has been at the expense of the American Negro, with Baldwin taking the affirmative梦想以美国黑人为代价 鲍德温赞成
462and Buckley taking the negative.和巴克利服用阴性。
463Now, the reason I talk about these two speeches is because they现在,我谈论这两个演讲的原因是
464illustrate this distinction.说明这种区别。
465Douglas's What to the Slave is the First of old its old the select. 道格拉斯对奴隶的帮助是国庆节的观众。
466accountable for chattel slavery.对奴隶奴役负责。
467Basically, he makes an argument.基本上,他提出一个论点。
468He makes two arguments.他提出两个论点。
469One is, look, your forefathers, and he says, you're saying, you know, it's you guys.第一,你看,你的祖先, 他说,你是说, 你知道,这是你们。
470It's not my Fourth这不是我的第四个
471of July.7月,我们开始讨论
472It's your Fourth of July.这是你的国庆节。
473Your forefathers sacrificed themselves so that you could have你们的祖先,为你们而牺牲了自己,
474freedom, and so you would be free riding on their efforts if you didn't assume the obligation to自由,所以你将自由 依靠他们的努力 如果你没有承担义务
475extend freedom to all Americans, as indeed the Declaration of Independence and the Constitution正如《独立宣言》和《宪法》一样,所有美国人享有自由
476require.要求。
477So it's about mutual accountability, involves attitudes of the will.因此,这是关于相互问责, 涉及到意志的态度。
478The Baldwin is鲍德温是
479really quite different.非常不一样。
480Baldwin is manifesting for the audience the expense of chattel slavery鲍德温向观众展示 奴隶奴役的代价
481and its legacy institutions, white supremacy.及其遗产机构,白人至上。
482There's one point in particular where he says,有一点他特别说,
483you know, it's not just or even not so much the daily indignities that one is subjected to你知道,这不仅仅是甚至不是 太多的日常侮辱 一个人受到
484in other forms of discrimination.歧视。
485There comes a time, he says, when you think有的时候,他说,当你觉得
486down the road a little bit and you imagine your nephew or your niece and you think it's not going你想象一下你的侄子或侄女 你觉得它不会走
487to be any better for them, and you can see the profound sadness in his face.你可以看到他脸上的悲伤
488So what he's about所以,他是什么关系
489is showing the cost, the emotional heartfelt cost of white supremacy, and I actually have,展现出白人至高无上的代价 情感上和情感上的代价 我确实
490you can see this on YouTube, on the web.你可以在YouTube上,网上看到这个
491If we have time later, maybe in the Q&A, I have如果我们有时间以后, 也许在QQA,我有
492four little vignettes from that that I might show you if there's interest.4个小葡萄酒,如果有兴趣,我可以给你看
493So he's这么说他是
494bearing his heart, and the response is that the audience receives his heartfelt expression他的心, 和回应是观众 得到他的衷心表达
495and responds with a heartfelt expression.并以衷心的言辞回应。
496So at the end of the debate, or of his speech really,因此,在辩论结束时, 或在他的演讲真的,
497and he does massively defeat Buckley in the debate, he gets this really heartfelt applause.他确实在辩论中大败了巴克利 赢得了热烈的掌声
498Okay, so you can see the other chapters there.好吧,你可以看到其他章节在那里。
499Let me just mention two.让我只提两个。
500One concerns gratitude,一个是感激
501and I'm going to say a little bit about why gratitude is an attitude of the heart,我要说一点为什么感恩是内心的一种态度
502but I also want to mention the last chapter, respect and love in reparations and repair但我也想提到最后一章 赔偿和修理中的尊重和爱
503for chattel slavery and its legacy.奴隶制度及其遗产。
504So typically when we talk about reparations,所以通常当我们谈论赔偿,
505we have a kind of tort law model.我们有一种侵权法模式。
506What's a just way of compensating people for the injuries赔偿受伤的公道方法是什么?
507that their forefathers and foremothers experienced and the continuing effects of that today?他们的祖先和前母,今天已经历这种苦难了。
508Okay, so the question is a question of justice, but that does nothing to address the heart wounds.好吧,所以问题是一个正义的问题, 但这对解决心脏创伤没有任何作用。
509So even if a perfectly just compensation or even if white supremacy were just overcome所以即使一个完全公正的补偿 或者即使白人的至高无上
510within the next generation, for example, impossible to imagine, but suppose it were,比如说,下一代人无法想象 但假设那是
511that would do nothing to address the way people feel in their hearts.这对解决人们心中的感受没有任何作用。
512And so I talk about that所以我说
513as a problem of repair and talk about ways of trying to address that.作为修复的问题 并谈论如何试图解决这个问题。
514So I just mentioned this所以我刚刚提到这个
515wonderful documentary that's on, it's on Netflix actually, it's called Turning Point Vietnam.精彩的纪录片,在Netflix上 实际上,它叫做“越战转角”。
516It这个
517was at Yale during the Vietnam War.在越南战争期间在耶鲁大学
518And I remember after I graduated, I remember the summer of 1968我记得毕业后 我记得1968年的夏天
519living in Cambridge, Massachusetts and trying to figure out what was I going to do with the draft.住在剑桥,马萨诸塞州 并试图找出 我该怎么办 与草案。
520The draft was changing.草案正在改变。
521Initially I was going to graduate school at the University of Pittsburgh最初我在匹兹堡大学读研究生
522and I thought I'd be deferrable because there were student deferments at that point,我觉得我会被推迟 因为那时有学生推迟,
523but that changed in the month of June 1968.但1968年6月就变了
524And so still, even if there weren't draft即使没有草稿
525deferments for being a student, teachers could get deferred.由于是学生而被推迟,教师可能会被推迟。
526So I wrote to the University of Pittsburgh,所以我写信给匹兹堡大学,
527I said, you know, it's very nice that you've offered me this fellowship, but could you make我说,你知道,这是非常好的 你给了我这个研究金,但你能做
528me a teaching assistant so I could get deferred?我是一个教书的助手 这样我就可以推迟了?
529And then that went away.后来就消失了。
530Ultimately I wrote,最后我写道:
531I sort of convinced myself that I was against all war.我说服自己 我反对一切战争
532I wasn't against all war, I was against that我不是反对战争,我反对战争
533war.战争。
534And that wasn't, ultimately I was able to get out actually because of an eye condition I have而不是因为眼科疾病 我最终得以脱身
535called astrabismus, which in some ways lies behind my philosophical ideas because it makes它在某些方面支持我的哲学思想,因为它使
536eye contact difficult and I couldn't receive this.眼睛接触困难,我不能接受这个。
537It couldn't be in the second person's不可能是第二个人的
538standpoint with people at a distance.与人们保持距离
539So I started to think about that.所以我开始考虑这个问题。
540Anyway, I remember I was very总之,我记得我非常
541cocksure of my view that this war was completely unjustifiable.我确信这场战争是毫无道理的
542I still believe that.我仍然相信这一点。
543But more不过更多
544importantly, I kind of looked down my nose at those Americans who went to fight in the war,最重要的是,我从头到尾看着那些去打仗的美国人,
545thinking that, you know, they were morally corrupt in some way.认为,你知道, 他们是道德腐败的方式。
546And I remember seeing,我还记得看到,
547this would have been in early 70s, a film called The Deer Hunter about Vietnam vets coming back to70年代初的电影《猎鹿人》 讲述越南兽医回归
548Pittsburgh area, working in the Clareton Works of the United States still.匹兹堡地区,仍在美国克莱顿工厂工作.
549If you haven't seen the如果你还没有看到
550film, I really recommend it.电影,我真的推荐它。
551It's really a great film.这部电影真的很棒
552Christopher Walken and Robert De Niro and克里斯托弗·沃肯和罗伯特·德尼罗
553others.别人。
554And feeling utter shame for having felt this way.觉得很羞愧 感觉这样。
555And feeling for the first time the第一次感觉
556normity of the emotional cost.情感成本的规范性。
557Never mind for the Vietnamese.别管越南人了
558I mean, that was incalculably greater.我的意思是,这是不可估量更大的。
559But for the American GIs who went to fight in Vietnam.但对于去越南作战的美国GI来说
560Now, here's why I'm telling you现在,这就是为什么我告诉你
561about this in relation to this last chapter.关于最后一章。
562Here's why.这是为什么。
563If you lived during that time,如果你在那段时间里活着
564you realized that the country was split right down the middle about the Vietnam War.你意识到这个国家在越南战争中被分裂了
565And a lot of还有很多
566our current splits have to do with things that came about during that time.我们目前的分裂 和那个时候发生的事情有关
567Reactions to liberation对解放的反应
568movements, reactions to the student unrest.运动,对学生骚乱的反应.
569And, you know, I've always said since then,而且,你知道,我一直说 从那时起,
570I think it's still true that every election, perhaps with the exception of Obama,我认为每次选举都是真的 也许除了奥巴马之外
571have been about the Vietnam War.一直在讨论越南战争
572Or not so much about the war itself.或者不是关于战争本身
573That's the point I'm about这就是我要谈的
574to make.来制造。
575But about the divisions that came about in this country during the Vietnam conflict and但关于越南冲突期间发生的分裂
576during Black Power and other forms of liberation in this country.黑权时代 以及这个国家的其他解放形式
577But here's an amazing thing.但有一个惊人的事情。
578There's not that much argument about the Vietnam War itself now.关于越南战争本身,现在没有那么多争论.
579Why is that?为什么?
580I believe a lot of我相信许多
581it has to do with the Vietnam War Memorial in Washington, DC.和华盛顿特区的越南战争纪念馆有关
582Which, if you haven't seen it,如果你没看到的话
583I really invite you to go and see it.我真的邀请你去看
584You can't have the same experience, say, that I had or你不能有同样的经历,比如,我有或
585people in my generation had when you go and you see people looking for their loved ones and trying我这一代人有 当你去,你看到 人们寻找自己的亲人 并尝试
586to find their names on this really stark, very impressive, but not in the normal way, understated找到他们的名字 在这个非常严酷, 非常令人印象深刻, 但并非在正常的方式, 低描述
587memorial.纪念馆.
588Which was designed, by the way, by Maya Lin, who's a Yale undergraduate.顺便说一下,这是马雅林设计的,他是耶鲁大学的本科生。
589And I remember我记得
590Richard Broadhead,我的同学,后来成为耶鲁学院的院长,说
591to students who were coming into the class of 2006 that she actually designed this给2006年她实际设计的班级学生
592memorial for the first time in Commons, in the dining hall, with mashed potatoes.纪念馆首次在Commons,餐厅,配有土豆泥.
593So I don't know if you've ever seen it.故知无常.
594It starts very not so tall on both sides and then开始两边都不太高 然后
595goes towards the middle.到中间去
596And what that's symbolizing is the US involvement.这象征着美国的参与。
597So it starts所以开始
598very small events, and then it gets towards height in 1967, and then it goes in the early{\fn华文楷体\fs20\bord1\shad1\1cHE0E0E0\2cH000000}非常小的事件,然後在1967年走向高度 然后在早期
599years of the Nixon administration.尼克松执政多年
600Okay, so seeing that memorial did a lot, I think,好吧,所以看到纪念 做了很多,我认为,
601to heal a lot of the heart wounds coming out of the Vietnam War for American GIs and their families.为了医治越南战争中 给美国GI和他们的家人带来的很多心脏创伤
602And so it's just remarkable that despite the sharp divisions that exist today,尽管今天存在着尖锐的分裂,
603it's not arguments about the Vietnam War.这不是关于越南战争的争论。
604To the contrary, our president,相反 我们的总统
605it was an opponent of the war, at least didn't want to go himself.是战争的对手 至少不想自己去
606But he certainly has never但他从不
607said that we should have been in Vietnam, and that was a just fight.说我们应该去越南 这是一场正义的战斗
608To the contrary.则相反.
609So my point is that being able to process emotionally the heart wounds through some所以我要说的是 能够从情感上 处理心脏创伤 通过一些
610vivid presentation in a memorial can go a long way.纪念馆中的生动介绍可以发挥很大的作用。
611So then the challenge would be,因此,我们面临的挑战是,
612well, what can we imagine that would do similar emotional work with the heart wounds of chattel好吧,我们可以想象那会 做类似的情感工作 与动产的心脏创伤
613slavery and white supremacy?奴隶制和白人至高无上?
614Okay.摆
615So love is what I call the central attitude of the heart.因此,爱情就是我所说的心脏的中心态度.
616All attitudes to the heart are involved forms of love.所有对心脏的态度都包含着爱的形式.
617They all involve他们都涉及
618an opening.一个开场白。
619And they also involve our desire to be together in one another's presence.它们也涉及到我们想要在彼此面前在一起的愿望。
620I have a chapter called Being With.我有一章叫"与人相处"
621So we just go back here.所以我们就回到这里。
622Yeah, Heartfelt Being With, Chapter 8,是啊,"心爱",第8章
623and involving heartfelt, emotional, affective sharing.和涉及心,情感,情感的分享。
624Now just finally here, gratitude's终于来了,谢谢
625an attitude of the heart.心脏的态度
626It's an attitude of heartfelt appreciation and thankfulness这是真心感谢的态度
627to perhaps presupposed benefactor.也许预设的恩人。
628And I look at a couple of other theories.我看看其他几个理论。
629Kant has this theory康德有这个理论
630that involves honoring a person because of a benefit, and it involves some feeling of这涉及因某种利益而荣誉一个人,也涉及某种感觉:
631respect and an obligation.尊重和义务。
632Smith says that what gratitude is chiefly intent upon is notSmith说 感谢的主要意图不是
633only to make the benefactor feel pleasure in his turn, but to make him feel pleased只为了让恩人高兴 却让他高兴
634with that conduct and to satisfy him that the person upon whom he bestowed his good offices并让他确信他所接受的斡旋
635was not unworthy of them.并不是他们不值得的。
636Now I'm not talking here about the debt of gratitude.现在我不是在说感激之情
637I'm talking我在说话
638about the attitude of gratitude.关于感激的态度。
639And what neither of these accounts can explain, nor can any other这些说法不能解释,也不能解释任何其他
640account that I know of except the one I'm offering explained, is why gratitude is so central to human除了我所解释的外,我知道为什么 感激是人类的核心
641flourishing.蓬勃发展。
642So there's this phenomenon of gratitude diaries, and there's just all this所以有这种感恩日记的现象, 和这一切
643experimental work that if you have moments of gratitude and acknowledge your gratitude and实验性的工作,如果你有 感谢的时刻 并承认你的感激和
644express it, or even just have gratitude diaries, things I'm grateful for, where that means not表达它,甚至有感恩日记, 我感激的东西,
645just what you're pleased about or happy.你高兴还是高兴
646There's a different feeling of being fortunate that幸运的感觉不一样
647something happened, but being grateful for it involves an opening of one's heart and a heartfelt事情发生了, 但感激它涉及打开 一个人的心脏和衷心
648thanking.谢谢
649And it's no surprise that we know that personal connection, personal relationship,也毫不奇怪我们知道 个人联系,个人关系,
650attachment is extremely important to well-being and psychic health, and has a lot to do with how依附对福祉和精神健康极为重要,与如何
651one lives.一个生命。
652And it's just not surprising then that gratitude would play a role in that if gratitude如果感激的话 感激会有所作用
653is, as I say, an attitude of the heart.正如我所说,是内心的一种态度。
654So finally, here's a table just to summarize.最后,这里的表格只是总结一下。
655So we've got under attitudes, we've got two kinds of attitudes.因此,我们的态度有两种。
656The deontic ones, these are the德昂人,这些是
657drosodian reactive attitudes, and then there are the non-deontic attitudes of the heart.德罗索迪人的反应态度,然后是心脏的非自责态度.
658So all of these are second personal, they all involve an implicit address, and they all involve所以所有这一切都是第二个人的, 它们都包含一个隐含的地址,
659an implicit RSVP, but they have different modes of response.一个隐含的RSVP,但它们有不同的响应模式.
660So with the deontic examples,因此,在德奥恩的例子,
661the mode of response is expectation.反应模式是期望。
662So if you feel resentment, you expect of the other person,所以,如果你感到怨恨, 你期望另一个人,
663not just expect that the other person, but expect of the other person that they will不只是期待对方,而是期待对方
664acknowledge the wrong and apologize for it and try to compensate for it.承认错误,为此道歉,并努力弥补.
665In the case of the attitude就态度而言
666of the heart, though, expectation, you can't expect the other person to open their heart.心脏,虽然,期望, 你不能期望他人打开他们的心脏。
667You can only hope for that, and hope is actually another attitude of the heart.你只能抱有希望,希望其实是另一个心意.
668Not hoping that,不希望这样,
669but hoping of someone, having your hopes pinned on someone.但希望有人, 你的希望寄托在某人身上。
670The response to fulfillment in theB. 为实现《公约》
671case of the deontic ones is nothing.脱衣舞女没什么大不了的
672If somebody does what they're obligated to do, gratitude如果有人做他们有义务做的事,谢谢
673doesn't make sense.没道理
674But if they open their heart to you in response to your opening your heart to但如果他们对你敞开心扉 回应你对你敞开心扉
675them, then you feel joy, gladness, and gratitude.他们,然后你感到快乐,快乐和感激。
676Response to the frustration of the attitude,回应态度的挫折,
677well, in the case of the deontic attitudes, it's blame and resentment.好吧,对于德意志的态度,这是责备和怨恨.
678In the case of the关于
679attitudes of the heart, it's sadness.内心的悲哀
680And I actually can't see what else I've got written其实我看不到我还能写什么
681there because I can't move you guys around.那里,因为我不能移动你们周围。
682In my screen, it's Resty's tile that's obscuring.在我的屏幕上,是瑞丝蒂的瓷砖 令人困惑。
683You probably can't see it.你可能看不见
684Can you see it, Resty?你看得到吗,瑞丝蒂?
685Yes, I can see the whole screen.是的,我可以看到整个屏幕。
686Is there a square you want me to point out?你想让我指出一个广场吗?
687Sadness slash?悲伤的刀?
688Sadness slash hurt.悲伤的刀伤。
689Hurt.伤害。
690Thank you very much.谢谢
691Hurt feelings.伤害感情.
692Great.不错
693Okay.摆
694So all reactive attitudes call for所以所有的反应态度都要求
695reciprocation.归依.
696They all come with an RSVP.他们都带着一个RSVP。
697Deontic reactive attitudes expect respect.直觉的反应态度需要尊重。
698Attitudes of the heart invite reciprocating heartfelt attitudes.内心的态度吸引了内心的回放。
699Okay.摆
700So this is这就是
701James Baldwin in the 1965 debate with William F. Buckley.詹姆斯·鲍德温在1965年与威廉·F·巴克利的辩论中.
702See if you can see what I am claiming看看能不能看见我在说什么
703to see in this.来看看这个。
704This means in the case of an American Negro born in that glittering republic,这就是说,如果一个美国黑人 出生在这个闪闪发光的共和国,
705and the moment you are born, since you don't know any better, every stick and stone and every face以及你出生的那一刻, 因为你不知道什么更好的, 每一根棍子和石头,每一张脸
706is white, and since you have not yet seen a mirror, you suppose that you are too.是白色的, 既然你还没有看到镜子, 你猜你也是。
707It comes来了
708as a great shock around the age of five or six or seven to discover the flag which you have pledged在五六七岁左右 发现你承诺的旗帜
709allegiance along with everybody else has not pledged allegiance to you.与其他人一起效忠的人没有向你宣誓效忠。
710It comes as a great来得真好
711shock to discover that Gary Cooper killing off the Indians when you were rooting for Gary Cooper,震惊地发现加里·库珀杀死了印第安人 当你为加里·库珀打根根,
712that the Indians were you.印地安人就是你们
713It comes as a great shock to discover that the country发现这个国家非常震惊
714which is your birthplace and to which you owe your life and your identity has not in its whole那是你的出生地,你欠你的 生命和身份并没有全部
715system of reality evolved any place for you.现实的体系 为你而发展
716The disaffection, the demoralization, and the gap不满 士气低落 差距
717between one person and another only on the basis of the color of their skins begins there一个人和另一个人之间,仅仅根据他们的皮肤的颜色从那里开始
718and accelerates, accelerates throughout a whole lifetime.和加速,加速 在整个一生。
719So the presently you realize you're 30所以,现在你意识到 你30
720and are having a terrible time managing to trust your countrymen.并有一个可怕的时间 管理信任你的同胞。
721By the time you are 30,你30岁的时候
722you have been through a certain kind of mill, and the most serious effect of the mill you've been你经历了某种磨坊 和最严重的影响 你曾经是磨坊
723through is again not the catalog of disaster, the policemen, the taxi drivers, the waiters,也不是灾难的目录 警察 出租车司机 服务员
724the landlady, the landlord, the banks, the insurance companies, the millions of details,房东 银行 保险公司 几百万个细节
72524 hours up every day which spell out to you that you are a worthless human being.每天24小时 都向你表明你是个没用的人
726It is not that.事实并非如此。
727It is by that time you begin to see it happening in your daughter or your son那时你开始看到 发生在你女儿或你儿子身上
728or your niece or your nephew.或你的侄女或你的侄子。
729You are 30 by now and nothing you have done has helped you to escape你已经30岁了,你没有做什么 帮助你逃脱。
730the trap.那个陷阱
731But what is worse than that is that nothing you have done and as far as you can tell但比这更糟的是,你没有做什么 并且你可以告诉
732nothing you can do will save your son or your daughter from being the same disaster你什么都做不了,你儿子和女儿都一样
733and not impossibly coming to the same end.也不可能达到同样的目的
734I am stating very seriously, and this is not我是认真的,这不是
735an overstatement, that I picked the coffin and I carried it to market and I built the railroad夸张地说,我捡棺材,运去市场,然后修建了铁路
736under someone else's whip for nothing.在别人的鞭子下白费力气
737I am stating very sick.我说的是病得很重。
738Now I suggest that of all现在我建议
739the terrible things that can happen to a human being that is one of the worst.可怕的事情 可能发生在一个最糟糕的人身上。
740I suggest that我建议
741what has happened to white southerners is in some ways after all much worse than what has happened南方白人的遭遇 在某些方面比以前更糟
742to Negroes there.给那些黑人
743Because Sheriff Clark in Selma, Alabama cannot be considered,因为阿拉巴马州塞尔马的克拉克警长不能考虑
744no one can be dismissed as a total monster.任何人都不能被解职 作为一个怪物。
745I am sure he loves his wife, his children,我相信他爱他妻子和孩子
746I am sure that.我确信这一点。
747No, he likes to get drunk.不 他喜欢喝醉
748After all one has got to assume and he is visibly a man都得假设他是个男人
749like me.像我一样
750But he does not know what drives him to use the club, to menace with the gun and to use但他不知道是什么驱使他使用俱乐部 威胁枪和用枪
751牛 pro.
752Something awful must have happened to a human being to be able to put a cattle prod一定有可怕的事情发生在一个人身上 才能放牛
753against a woman's breast, for example.比如说针对女人的乳房
754What happens to the woman is ghastly.女人的下场是可怕的。
755What happens发生什么事
756to the man who does it is in some ways much, much worse.对做这种事的人来说 在某些方面更糟糕
757Now I suggest that of all the terrible现在我建议所有可怕的
758things, it is a terrible thing for an entire people to surrender to the notion that one-ninth对于整个民族来说 屈服于九分之一
759of its population is beneath them.在其人口之下。
760And until that moment, until the moment comes,直到那一刻 直到那一刻来临
761when we, the Americans, we, the American people, are able to accept the fact that I have to accept,当我们,美国人,我们,美国人民, 能够接受的事实,我不得不接受,
762for example, that my ancestors were both white and black, that on that continent we are trying比如,我的祖先是白人和黑人 我们在那个大陆上尝试
763to forge a new identity for which we need each other, and that I am not a ward of America.建立我们彼此需要的新身份 而我不是美国的监护人
764I am not an object of missionary charity.我不是一个传教士慈善的对象。
765I am one of the people who built the country.我是建设国家的人之一。
766Until this moment, there is scarcely any hope for the American dream,直到此刻,美国梦几乎没有任何希望
767because the people who are denied participation in it, by their very presence, will wreck it.因为那些被拒绝参与的人 将因为他们的存在而破坏它
768And if that happens, it is a very grave moment for the West.如果发生这种情况,对西方来说,这是一个非常严峻的时刻。
769Thank you.谢谢
770Endlessly moving moment now for the whole of the Union standing and applauding this magnificent整个联盟的无休止的感动时刻
771speech of James Baldwin.詹姆斯·鲍德温的演讲
772Never seen this happen before in the Union in all the years这么多年里 从未见过这种事情在工会里发生
773that I have known it.我知道这一点。
774Perhaps that gives you some sense of what I found so moving.或许这能让你感觉到我发现的如此感动
775Thank you, Professor Darwell.谢谢你,达维尔教授
776I hope that inspires our audience.我希望这鼓舞了我们的观众。
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