普林斯顿-耶鲁“相约周末”品读汇第十场:哈佛谈判专家“公开课
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| 时间 | 英文 | 中文 |
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| 0:05 | OK, we shall start the event for this evening. | 好了,我们今晚开始吧 |
| 0:09 | And hello, everyone, and welcome to the Princeton Yale Idea | 大家好 欢迎来到普林斯顿耶鲁大学 |
| 0:14 | Series. | 系列。 |
| 0:15 | So this event has been launched last year. | 因此,这个活动是去年发起的。 |
| 0:18 | And actually, this is our 10th event along the series. | 实际上,这是我们系列的第10个活动。 |
| 0:23 | I'm Lin Shi Li, the managing director of Princeton University | 我是林世立,普林斯顿大学总经理 |
| 0:26 | China Office. | 中国办事处. |
| 0:28 | And thanks to all the online and offline audience | 感谢所有在线和线下观众 |
| 0:31 | for joining our event. | 参加我们的活动。 |
| 0:33 | And this initiative featuring the world-leading scholar | 以世界领先学者为主角的倡议 |
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| 1 | OK, we shall start the event for this evening. | 好了,我们今晚开始吧 |
| 2 | And hello, everyone, and welcome to the Princeton Yale Idea | 大家好 欢迎来到普林斯顿耶鲁大学 |
| 3 | Series. | 系列。 |
| 4 | So this event has been launched last year. | 因此,这个活动是去年发起的。 |
| 5 | And actually, this is our 10th event along the series. | 实际上,这是我们系列的第10个活动。 |
| 6 | I'm Lin Shi Li, the managing director of Princeton University | 我是林世立,普林斯顿大学总经理 |
| 7 | China Office. | 中国办事处. |
| 8 | And thanks to all the online and offline audience | 感谢所有在线和线下观众 |
| 9 | for joining our event. | 参加我们的活动。 |
| 10 | And this initiative featuring the world-leading scholar | 以世界领先学者为主角的倡议 |
| 11 | and their most recent publication by Princeton, | 以及普林斯顿最近发表的著作, |
| 12 | aiming to foster the global scholarly exchange between China | 旨在促进中国之间的全球学术交流 |
| 13 | and the West on the most cutting-edge topics. | 西方最尖端的话题 |
| 14 | And so on behalf of the Princeton University Press, | 所以代表普林斯顿大学出版社 |
| 15 | I want to give a very short introduction about our mission | 我想简单介绍一下我们的任务 |
| 16 | and vision in China. | 和在中国的远见。 |
| 17 | And PUP is the first and so far the only American University | 而PUP是第一家,至今也是唯一的美国大学 |
| 18 | Press opening an office in China dedicated | 新闻在中国开设办事处 |
| 19 | to the two-way exchanges. | 到双向交流。 |
| 20 | We hope to publish the very best scholar in China | 我们希望出版中国最好的学者 |
| 21 | and bring their perspectives to the attention | 并提请人们注意他们的观点 |
| 22 | of a global audience, especially in the West, | 全球观众,特别是在西方, |
| 23 | and then bringing the English language works | 然后带来英语作品 |
| 24 | to the Chinese audience to foster global learning. | 为中国观众培养全球学习能力. |
| 25 | And so we're very honored to have the legendary professor, | 因此,我们非常荣幸 有传奇教授, |
| 26 | Max Baseman, to feature his recent PUP books, | 马克斯·贝斯曼, 为他最近的PUP书籍, |
| 27 | Negotiation, The Game Has Changed. | 谈判,游戏已经改变。 |
| 28 | I just realized this is a Harvard professor published | 我刚意识到这是哈佛大学的教授出版的 |
| 29 | by Princeton and with an event in Yale Center. | 普林斯顿和耶鲁中心的一个活动。 |
| 30 | It's not very easy to get three of them in the same room. | 亦不甚易得三门同室. |
| 31 | So I think this is a very delightful | 所以,我觉得这是一个非常好的 |
| 32 | and very privileged evening. | 和非常荣幸的夜晚。 |
| 33 | So Professor Baseman is a pioneer in the field | Baseman教授是该领域的先驱 |
| 34 | of negotiation at the J.C.E. | 在国际法院进行谈判。 |
| 35 | Stuart Strout, | 斯图尔特·斯特劳特 |
| 36 | Professor of Business Administration | 工商管理教授 |
| 37 | and Harvard Business School. | 和哈佛商学院。 |
| 38 | His many books, including Negotiation Genius, | 他的很多著作,包括谈判天才, |
| 39 | Negotiating Rationally, Complicity, | 合理谈判,共犯, |
| 40 | How We Enable the Unethical and How to Stop, | 我们如何使不道德者得以生存,如何阻止, |
| 41 | and Blindspots, Why We Fail to Do What's Right | 和盲点,为什么我们失败 做正确的事情 |
| 42 | and What to Do About It. | 和怎样做它。 |
| 43 | So I want to give a very short introduction about this | 所以我想简单介绍一下 |
| 44 | from this book, Negotiation, The Game Has Changed. | 从这本书,《谈判》,《游戏已经改变》。 |
| 45 | From bargaining in the street markets | 从街头市场讨价还价 |
| 46 | to complex business transactions | 复杂商业交易 |
| 47 | and diplomatic negotiations between nations, | 和国家间外交谈判, |
| 48 | negotiations are everywhere | 谈判到处都是 |
| 49 | and have a profound impact on our lives, | 对我们的生活有深远影响, |
| 50 | work and the world most sophisticated operations. | 工作和世界上最复杂的行动。 |
| 51 | In today's world, full of uncertainty and major shocks, | 在当今世界,充满不确定性和重大冲击, |
| 52 | relying solely on intuition and experience | 完全依靠直觉和经验 |
| 53 | is far from enough to reach effective agreements. | 远远不足以达成有效的协议。 |
| 54 | Professor Baseman is a leading expert in behavioral economics | Baseman教授是行为经济学专家 |
| 55 | and negotiation psychology at Harvard University | 哈佛大学谈判心理学 |
| 56 | and is also a very famous author who has worked | 也是一位很有名的作家 曾经为他工作过 |
| 57 | with the Princeton University Press for many years. | 与普林斯顿大学出版社合作多年. |
| 58 | And his newly published books, | 和他的新出版的书, |
| 59 | which she will offer the key insight this evening. | 她今晚会提供关键见解 |
| 60 | In the book, he presents | 在书中,他呈现 |
| 61 | the state of art negotiation course. | 最高水平的谈判课程。 |
| 62 | He elaborates on the core concepts | 他阐述了核心概念 |
| 63 | and systematic frameworks of the universal negotiation, | 和系统的全球谈判框架, |
| 64 | explaining how to tailor those principles | 解释如何调整这些原则 |
| 65 | to specific situations and discuss how to understand | 如何理解 |
| 66 | and respond to the irrational and irresponsible behaviors | 对不合理和不负责任的行为作出反应 |
| 67 | of negotiation counterparts. | 谈判对应方。 |
| 68 | So this book not only help readers understand | 所以这本书不仅帮助读者理解 |
| 69 | the most important games happening in today's world | 当今世界上最重要的游戏 |
| 70 | in a very accessible way, | 在非常无障碍的方式, |
| 71 | but also serve as a timely business reference books. | 同时也是及时的商务参考书。 |
| 72 | So enabling the readers to confidently achieve | 所以让读者有信心地实现 |
| 73 | the win-win situation through negotiation | 通过谈判实现双赢 |
| 74 | in any environment. | 在任何环境。 |
| 75 | Okay, so that's the end of the advertisements. | 好了,广告结束了。 |
| 76 | So I believe we will very much looking forward | 所以,我相信,我们将非常期待 |
| 77 | to learning more from the Professor Baseman today. | 向Baseman教授学习更多东西 |
| 78 | And I will very happily welcome Carol Rafty, | 我将非常高兴地欢迎卡罗尔·拉夫蒂, |
| 79 | the managing director of the Yale Center in Beijing | 北京耶鲁中心总经理 |
| 80 | to host today's event, | 以主持今天的活动, |
| 81 | also as our very distinguished discussant. | 也是我们尊敬的讨论者。 |
| 82 | Carol, just give the floor to you. | 卡罗尔 请您发言 |
| 83 | Thank you. | 谢谢 |
| 84 | Thank you very much, Lingxi. | 谢灵芝. |
| 85 | And again, I want to thank Professor Max Baseman, | 我要再次感谢马克斯·贝斯曼教授 |
| 86 | our speaker today for waking up so early in his morning | 我们今天的演讲人 这么早醒来 |
| 87 | to join us for this event. | 与我们一起参加这次活动。 |
| 88 | I would also especially like to thank | 我还要特别感谢 |
| 89 | our Princeton University Press Beijing office team | 我们的普林斯顿大学出版社北京办事处团队 |
| 90 | and Yale Center Beijing teams | 和耶鲁中心北京小组 |
| 91 | for making this unlikely, | 使这不可能, |
| 92 | but wonderful combination happen, | 但美妙的组合发生, |
| 93 | Princeton, Yale, and Harvard. | 普林斯顿,耶鲁,和哈佛大学. |
| 94 | I will be the discussant, | 我会成为讨论者, |
| 95 | and I don't want to talk too long | 我不想谈太久 |
| 96 | before Professor Baseman starts his fascinating talk. | 在Baseman教授开始他迷人的演讲之前 |
| 97 | I do want to welcome those of you, | 我确实想欢迎你们 |
| 98 | especially those of you who are new to Yale Center Beijing. | 尤其是你们中那些刚到北京耶鲁中心的人 |
| 99 | We opened back in 2014 | 我们2014年开业的 |
| 100 | as Yale University's only university-wide center | 作为耶鲁大学唯一的全大学中心 |
| 101 | outside of its U.S. campus representing its 14 schools. | 代表美国14所学校 |
| 102 | So we're, in effect, a mini embassy | 所以我们实际上是个小大使馆 |
| 103 | that Yale University has in China, | 耶鲁大学在中国有, |
| 104 | and throughout the year we have interesting discussions | 一年来我们进行了有趣的讨论 |
| 105 | and talks and concerts such as these | 演讲和音乐会 |
| 106 | happening throughout the year, | 全年发生, |
| 107 | and you're more than welcome | 我非常欢迎你 |
| 108 | to follow our social media accounts | 跟踪我们的社交媒体账户 |
| 109 | for further details on activities such as these. | 关于这些活动的进一步详情。 |
| 110 | I very much look forward to this discussion | 我非常期待这次讨论 |
| 111 | because I've read this book cover to cover, | 因为我读过这本书的封面 |
| 112 | and when I was at Stanford Law School, | 当我在斯坦福法学院的时候 |
| 113 | unfortunately I wasn't able | 可惜我无法 |
| 114 | to go to Harvard Business School, | 进入哈佛商学院, |
| 115 | but my favorite class at Stanford Law School | 但我最喜欢的班 在斯坦福法学院 |
| 116 | was the negotiation workshop there, | 在那里的谈判研讨会, |
| 117 | and I've heard of Professor Baseman's work from there, | 我听说过Baseman教授的工作 |
| 118 | as well as some of the concepts | 以及一些概念 |
| 119 | that he will be introducing in this book. | 他将在这部经典中加以介绍。 |
| 120 | So without further ado, | 所以不用再多说了 |
| 121 | let's welcome Professor Max Baseman. | 让我们欢迎马克斯·贝斯曼教授 |
| 122 | Thank you. | 谢谢 |
| 123 | Thank you very much. | 谢谢 |
| 124 | Thank you for the kind introduction. | 谢谢你的介绍 |
| 125 | I'm delighted to be at this Yale Princeton | 我很高兴能来耶鲁普林斯顿 |
| 126 | and perhaps Harvard event, | 也许还有哈佛大学的活动, |
| 127 | and I think it's just great | 我觉得这很好 |
| 128 | what Yale and Princeton are doing in China. | 耶鲁和普林斯顿正在中国做什么 |
| 129 | So congratulations to you on all you've accomplished. | 恭喜你所做的一切 |
| 130 | So this is obviously an unusual time | 所以,这显然是一个不寻常的时间 |
| 131 | for a Harvard professor | 哈佛大学教授 |
| 132 | to be talking about negotiation to a Chinese audience. | 和中国观众讨论谈判 |
| 133 | There's lots going on in the world. | 世间众生. |
| 134 | There's lots going on | 有很多事情发生 |
| 135 | in terms of the current US administration's negotiations | 美国现任政府的谈判 |
| 136 | with China. | 与中国。 |
| 137 | There's lots of strange things going on, | 有很多奇怪的事情发生, |
| 138 | including sort of during today | 包括今天的某种时间 |
| 139 | with Trump's announcements | 在特朗普的公告中 |
| 140 | about his negotiations with Harvard University. | 关于他和哈佛大学的谈判 |
| 141 | So there's a tremendous amount going on, | 因此,有巨大的数量正在发生, |
| 142 | and yet I was invited here, | 但我却被邀请来这里 |
| 143 | I think, to primarily talk about my book, | 我想,主要谈谈我的书, |
| 144 | not about world politics. | 不是关于世界政治 |
| 145 | So my plan for the day is to give, | 所以我今天的计划是... |
| 146 | for the evening, I should say, | 晚上,我应该说, |
| 147 | to give a talk based on my book, | 根据我的书来谈谈 |
| 148 | somewhat similar to other book talks that I've given. | 和我给的其他书谈有些相似 |
| 149 | At the same time, | 同时, |
| 150 | I don't mean to censor any questions | 我不是要检查任何问题 |
| 151 | from the audience that might wanna move | 从观众 谁可能想移动 |
| 152 | to contemporary issues as well. | 当代问题也是如此。 |
| 153 | So I'm deeply disturbed | 所以我深感不安 |
| 154 | about some of the very unfortunate negotiations | 关于一些非常不幸的谈判 |
| 155 | that are currently going on, | 正在继续, |
| 156 | and I don't mean to hide from those issues | 我不想躲过这些问题 |
| 157 | in any way whatsoever. | 无论如何。 |
| 158 | But I think people came here for a talk on my book, | 但我想人们来到这里 在我的书上谈话, |
| 159 | and that's what I'm gonna start with. | 这就是我要开始。 |
| 160 | And again, to open up to your questions | 再说一遍,打开你的问题 |
| 161 | during the Q&A period as you see kind of most appropriate. | 在您认为最合适的时间段 |
| 162 | The kind introduction mentioned | 所提到的那种介绍 |
| 163 | that this is really the third book | 这真的是第三本书 |
| 164 | that I've written on negotiations. | 我已经写了谈判。 |
| 165 | And I've kind of been teaching negotiations | 我教谈判 |
| 166 | most of my adult life. | 大部分的成年生活。 |
| 167 | I first started teaching negotiations in 1984 | 1984年我第一次开始教学谈判 |
| 168 | when I was on the faculty at MIT. | 当我在麻省理工学院任教时 |
| 169 | Soon thereafter, I moved to the Kellogg School | 不久,我搬到凯洛格学校 |
| 170 | at Northwestern University, | 在西北大学 |
| 171 | where I was from 1985 to 1998. | 从1985年到1998年 |
| 172 | And I co-founded an executive program | 我共同创立了一个执行计划 |
| 173 | with Professor Jean Brett on negotiation strategies there, | 与让·布雷特教授谈了那里的谈判战略, |
| 174 | and then moved to Harvard. | 后移居哈佛大学. |
| 175 | And by 2001, started an executive program | 到了2001年,开始了一个执行方案 |
| 176 | called Changing the Game, | 名为更改游戏, |
| 177 | which we've now offered over 60 times | 我们现在已经提供了60多次 |
| 178 | to almost 5,000 students. | 近5000名学生。 |
| 179 | And I've taught an awful lot of MBA students as well. | 我也教了很多MBA的学生 |
| 180 | Along the way, as was mentioned, | 如前所述, |
| 181 | I wrote a couple of other books, | 我写了几本其他的书 |
| 182 | Negotiating Rationally, which was published in 1992 | 谈判理由,1992年发表 |
| 183 | with Professor Margaret Neal, | 和玛格丽特·尼尔教授 |
| 184 | and Negotiation Genius with Professor Deepak Malhotra | 与迪帕克·马尔霍特拉教授谈判 |
| 185 | in 2007. | 于2007年举行。 |
| 186 | So this is really my third effort | 这真是我的第三次努力 |
| 187 | on the topic of negotiation. | 谈判议题。 |
| 188 | And you'll notice that the subtitle, | 你会注意到字幕 |
| 189 | which is, I think, important to me, | 这对我来说很重要 |
| 190 | and the subtitle is The Game Has Changed. | 字幕是"游戏变了" |
| 191 | And to put some context into that, | 为了把一些背景纳入其中, |
| 192 | I've had many, many students | 我有很多,很多学生 |
| 193 | who have taken an executive course from me, | 他们从我这里学了一个行政课程, |
| 194 | or perhaps an MBA course, | 或者MBA课程, |
| 195 | and somewhere along the lines out here, | 沿着这里的路线 |
| 196 | some comment that starts with this was a fine course, | 从这个开始的一些评论 是一个很好的课程, |
| 197 | and then there's a but. | 然后有一个但。 |
| 198 | And the buts could vary. | 和 buts 可能不同。 |
| 199 | It doesn't account for cultural norms | 它不考虑文化规范 |
| 200 | in the country that I'm negotiating with. | 在那个我与之谈判的国家 |
| 201 | It doesn't deal with the Chinese. | 不与华人打交道. |
| 202 | We used to hear more about the Japanese, | 我们经常听到更多关于日本人的消息 |
| 203 | but whatever country is improving | 但无论哪个国家都在进步 |
| 204 | in its negotiation power typically gets listed there. | 它的谈判能力 通常会在那里被列出 |
| 205 | When I travel overseas, | 我出国旅行时 |
| 206 | I often hear how difficult it is | 我经常听到这有多难 |
| 207 | to negotiate with Americans. | 与美国人谈判。 |
| 208 | Sometimes we'll hear about the unique economic environment. | 有时会听到独特的经济环境. |
| 209 | You're not dealing with the supply crisis | 你不处理供应危机 |
| 210 | that we're currently facing. | 目前我们面对的。 |
| 211 | How do you deal with irrational opponents, | 你怎么对付不理智的对手? |
| 212 | which we will get to later on in this talk? | 我们以后再谈这个? |
| 213 | Negotiating over Zoom is different | 与Zoom谈判不同 |
| 214 | than negotiating in person. | 而不是当面谈判 |
| 215 | How does it deal with negotiating with my husband or wife? | 和我丈夫或妻子谈判是如何处理的? |
| 216 | And I saw my doctor yesterday for my annual physical, | 我昨天看到我的医生 因为我的年度身体, |
| 217 | and she wanted to know, | 她还想知道, |
| 218 | how do I get my patients to take their medicines, | 我如何让我的病人吃药, |
| 219 | which I do consider a negotiation? | 我考虑的是谈判? |
| 220 | And how do I negotiate with somebody who shows up? | 我该怎么和出现的人谈判? |
| 221 | But I know in fact that they don't have the power to agree. | 但我知道事实上 他们没有权力同意 |
| 222 | So these are just a handful of the dozens of buts | 所以这些只是十几件 |
| 223 | that I've run into. | 我遇见了 |
| 224 | And all of these questions are legitimate. | 所有这些问题都是合法的。 |
| 225 | And quite honestly, I think that historically I've said, | 老实说,我认为,历史上我说过, |
| 226 | but the course applies to your context. | 但课程适用于你的背景。 |
| 227 | And I would talk about how the core concepts, | 我想谈谈核心概念 |
| 228 | which we'll talk about in a couple of slides, | 我们用几张幻灯片来谈 |
| 229 | are relevant despite the unique circumstances. | 尽管情况特殊,但仍具有相关性。 |
| 230 | And I would talk to the person asking the question | 我会和问问题的人谈谈 |
| 231 | about their unique circumstances | 关于他们的独特情况 |
| 232 | and try to apply the core concepts. | 并尝试应用核心概念。 |
| 233 | But over recent years, | 但近年来, |
| 234 | I've become convinced that we need to take | 我深信我们需要采取 |
| 235 | the context very seriously. | 情节很严重 |
| 236 | And more and more, | 越来越 |
| 237 | I think that the generic concepts | 我认为一般概念 |
| 238 | that we've been teaching in negotiation, | 我们一直在谈判中教书 |
| 239 | and you can see in Negotiation Nationally, | 你可以看到,在国家谈判, |
| 240 | Negotiation Genius, | 谈判天才, |
| 241 | still apply in the current environment | 在当前环境中仍然适用 |
| 242 | in whatever context we're facing. | 不管我们面对什么环境 |
| 243 | But I think that we need to take the context very seriously. | 但我认为,我们需要非常认真地对待这一背景。 |
| 244 | So this book attempts to provide structures | 所以这本书试图提供结构 |
| 245 | for thinking about how to take context seriously | 思考如何认真看待背景 |
| 246 | and also use more contemporary examples. | 并使用更当代的例子。 |
| 247 | You'll see some of those as we go through the talk. | 你会看到一些 当我们通过谈话。 |
| 248 | But when I talk about the game has changed, | 但当我谈论游戏的改变, |
| 249 | here are some of the things that we can think about | 这里有一些东西 我们可以思考 |
| 250 | about how the game has changed. | 关于游戏是如何改变的。 |
| 251 | The 9-11 attacks in the US very much reshaped | 美国的九一一袭击事件 重塑了很多 |
| 252 | our environment in a variety of dramatic ways. | 我们的环境 以各种戏剧性的方式。 |
| 253 | The Great Recession from 2007 to 2009, | 2007年至2009年大衰退. |
| 254 | reshaped who has bargaining power. | 重塑了谁有讨价还价的能力。 |
| 255 | In the US, we've become a much more bifurcated society. | 在美国,我们已经成为一个更加两极分化的社会。 |
| 256 | We have a president that has approval ratings | 我们有一个总统 有批准评级 |
| 257 | well below 30%, | 远远低于30%, |
| 258 | but yet still has very large amounts of power. | 但仍然拥有巨大的权力。 |
| 259 | But we have the majority of Americans | 但我们有大多数美国人 |
| 260 | who are not happy with most of what's going on | 他们对大部分事情不满意 |
| 261 | in the current economy. | 在当前的经济中。 |
| 262 | As I'm now looking at a picture of this audience | 我现在看着观众的照片 |
| 263 | and from my perspective, you're a young crowd | 在我看来,你是一个年轻的人群 |
| 264 | and you now are used to negotiating online, | 现在你们习惯在网上谈判, |
| 265 | which people from my generation were caught by surprise | 我这代人被惊吓到 |
| 266 | that they needed to. | 他们需要。 |
| 267 | A lot of people in my generation | 我这一代很多人 |
| 268 | first started negotiating online when COVID hit | COVID命中时,首先在网上开始谈判 |
| 269 | and in 2020, up until then, | 在2020年,直到那时, |
| 270 | we thought of negotiation as a face-to-face interaction. | 我们把谈判看作是面对面的互动。 |
| 271 | This is not an item that I listed | 这不是我列出的物品 |
| 272 | specifically for this audience. | 特别针对观众。 |
| 273 | This is in my book talk | 这是在我的书谈 |
| 274 | when I'm talking to other audiences as well. | 当我跟其他观众说话的时候 |
| 275 | But the phenomenal growth of the Chinese economy | 但中国经济的惊人增长 |
| 276 | has reshaped negotiations | 重塑了谈判 |
| 277 | and certainly we see that in terms of what's going on | 并且我们当然看到, 从发生了什么 |
| 278 | in the contemporary scene. | 在当代的场景。 |
| 279 | We're negotiating with more and more people | 我们和越来越多的人谈判 |
| 280 | who are different than ourselves. | 他们和我们不一样 |
| 281 | So for a typical American, | 对于一个典型的美国人来说, |
| 282 | the typical American 30 years ago was a white male | 典型的美国30年前是白人男性 |
| 283 | and was used to negotiating with white males. | 并习惯与白人男性谈判。 |
| 284 | More and more, we're negotiating with people | 我们越来越和别人谈判 |
| 285 | who are very different from ourselves. | 他们和我们完全不同 |
| 286 | And finally, COVID-19 I think reshaped | 最后,COVID-19,我想已经重塑了 |
| 287 | to our trading partners | 对我们的贸易伙伴 |
| 288 | where created a lot of different changes. | 在那里创造了许多不同的变化。 |
| 289 | So in many ways, the world has changed. | 因此,在许多方面,世界已经发生了变化。 |
| 290 | This doesn't mean that our old concepts are irrelevant. | 这并不意味着我们的旧概念无关紧要. |
| 291 | And I'm gonna talk a little bit about | 我要谈谈 |
| 292 | what some of those old concepts are. | 这些老概念是什么。 |
| 293 | And this is gonna kind of be a very, very quick review | 这会是一个非常,非常快速的审查 |
| 294 | of material that you could find in my prior books | 我之前的书里可以找到的材料 |
| 295 | Negotiating Rationally and Negotiation Genius. | 理性谈判和谈判天才。 |
| 296 | So I wanna highlight, | 所以我想强调, |
| 297 | I'm not running away from these ideas at all. | 我根本不会逃避这些想法 |
| 298 | I think that they are relevant. | 我认为它们是相关的。 |
| 299 | It's just that we need to adapt them | 只是我们需要适应他们 |
| 300 | given how the world has changed. | 鉴于世界是如何改变的 |
| 301 | So one of the most common concepts that people learn | 所以人们最常用的概念之一 |
| 302 | when they take a course on negotiation | 当他们走上谈判之路时 |
| 303 | 是这个缩写BATNA。 | |
| 304 | Just quickly, right now I can see the audience. | 快点,现在我可以看到观众。 |
| 305 | Can you raise your hand | 你能举手吗? |
| 306 | if you've ever heard the concept of BATNA before? | 你以前听过BATNA这个概念吗? |
| 307 | Okay, so just a few. | 好吧,就几个。 |
| 308 | Okay, so thank you for that. | 好吧,所以谢谢你。 |
| 309 | That's very helpful. | 这很有帮助。 |
| 310 | So the concept of BATNA, it's an acronym. | 所以BATNA的概念,是一个缩写. |
| 311 | It stands for Best Alternative to a Negotiated Agreement. | 它代表了谈判协议的最佳选择。 |
| 312 | And the basic idea here is | 这里的基本想法是 |
| 313 | before you go into any important negotiation | 在你进入任何重要谈判之前 |
| 314 | for the rest of your life, | 在你的余生, |
| 315 | you should think long and hard about | 你应该仔细想想 |
| 316 | what are you going to do | 你要怎么办? |
| 317 | if you don't reach an agreement with your current opponent? | 如果你不和你的对手达成协议? |
| 318 | So if you're negotiating for a job, | 所以,如果你谈判 一个工作, |
| 319 | it's very good to think long and hard about | 久而久之的思考是非常好的 |
| 320 | what are you going to do if you don't reach an agreement | 达不成协议怎么办? |
| 321 | with this potential employee? | 和这个潜在的员工? |
| 322 | Are you perfectly happy with your current job? | 你对现在的工作很满意吗? |
| 323 | Is staying in your current job a fine option? | 继续做你现在的工作是一个很好的选择吗? |
| 324 | Do you have another job offer on the table? | 你还有别的工作机会吗? |
| 325 | Or are you facing unemployment? | 还是你面临失业? |
| 326 | Knowing your BATNA is very critical for thinking about | 了解你的BATNA对于思考 |
| 327 | how aggressive you wanna be in your current negotiation. | 你想在目前的谈判中多有攻击性 |
| 328 | 你的BATNA越好, | |
| 329 | the tougher you can be. | 你越坚强越好 |
| 330 | So that changes what we call a reservation point | 这样改变我们所谓的保留点 |
| 331 | or how far would you go | 或者你会走多远 |
| 332 | in order to get an agreement done? | 为了达成协议? |
| 333 | Also important is the criticality | 关键性也很重要 |
| 334 | 思考他们的BATNA。 | |
| 335 | How badly do they need to get a deal done with you? | 他们需要多久才能和你达成协议? |
| 336 | What are they going to do | 他们该怎么办? |
| 337 | if they don't reach an agreement with you? | 如果他们没和你达成协议呢? |
| 338 | This gives you some hint | 这给你一些提示 |
| 339 | about how far they can be pushed in this negotiation | 关于他们能在这场谈判中被推进到什么程度 |
| 340 | and what their reservation price is likely to be as well. | 以及他们的预订价格可能也是多少。 |
| 341 | And the difference between the two reservation points | 和两个保留点的区别 |
| 342 | is what we call a zone of possible agreement. | 我们称之为可能达成协议的区域。 |
| 343 | And the zone of possible agreement | 以及可能达成协议的地区 |
| 344 | in a typical buyer or seller negotiation | 在典型的买方或卖方谈判中 |
| 345 | is the area between the lowest price | 是最低价格之间的区域 |
| 346 | the seller would ever take | 卖方将永远采取 |
| 347 | and the highest price that the buyer would ever pay. | 以及买主将支付的最高价格。 |
| 348 | And now notice when we listen to a typical negotiation, | 现在注意到,当我们听一个典型的谈判, |
| 349 | we typically feel that there's a convergence to a point, | 我们一般都觉得有共同点 |
| 350 | but that point often exists within the context | 但这一点往往存在于背景中 |
| 351 | of a much broader range of what could have happened | 范围更广的本可以发生的事情 |
| 352 | with different negotiation strategies | 采用不同的谈判战略 |
| 353 | by the two players who are at the table. | 由两位在座的球员决定。 |
| 354 | In a typical negotiation simulation | 在典型的谈判模拟中 |
| 355 | that I would use in teaching a group of executives, | 我会用来教一群高管 |
| 356 | we'll pass out materials. | 我们会通过材料。 |
| 357 | Half the room will play buyers, | 一半的房间会扮演买家 |
| 358 | half the room will play sellers. | 一半的房间会扮演卖家。 |
| 359 | We'll match up a buyer with a seller, | 我们会把买家和卖家匹配 |
| 360 | send them out of the room to find a quiet place | 让他们离开房间 找个安静的地方 |
| 361 | to go negotiate and then come back with their results. | 去谈判,然后回来 他们的结果。 |
| 362 | And all the buyers have the same material. | 所有买家都有同样的材料 |
| 363 | All the sellers have the same material. | 所有销售者都有同样的材料. |
| 364 | But what's interesting | 但有什么有趣的东西 |
| 365 | is that there's a phenomenal range of results | 是,有一个惊人的结果范围 |
| 366 | {\fn黑体\fs22\bord1\shad0\3aHBE\4aH00\fscx67\fscy66\2cHFFFFFF\3cH808080}让双方一起回来 | |
| 367 | So different pairs of negotiators | 不同的谈判者 |
| 368 | come back with dramatically different results, | 回来的结果大不相同, |
| 369 | which surprises the executives | 令高管们惊讶 |
| 370 | because they thought they found the one point | 因为他们认为他们找到了一点 |
| 371 | where they could both agree. | 他们都同意 |
| 372 | In fact, that was one point | 事实上,这是一点 |
| 373 | within a much broader zone of possible agreement | 在范围更广的可能协议范围内 |
| 374 | that was possible. | 这是可能的。 |
| 375 | So in teaching negotiations, | 因此,在教学谈判, |
| 376 | the part of teaching negotiations that I enjoy the most | 我最享受的那部分谈判 |
| 377 | is helping executives see the opportunity to create value | 帮助高管看到创造价值的机会 |
| 378 | or to break up what I call a mythical fixed pie. | 或者打破我所谓的神话式固定派。 |
| 379 | So I've been teaching negotiations for over 40 years. | 所以我教谈判40多年了 |
| 380 | And what I find most fascinating | 我发现最迷人的 |
| 381 | is that I'll run a simulation | 我会做一个模拟 |
| 382 | where the parties can create value | 在当事人能够创造价值的情况下 |
| 383 | by trading off two issues. | 通过交换两个问题。 |
| 384 | That is, the buyer cares more about issue A, | 也就是说 买方更关心A期 |
| 385 | the seller cares more about issue B. | 卖方更关心B问题。 |
| 386 | And rather than compromising on A and B, | 而不是对A和B妥协 |
| 387 | they're both happier if the buyer gets what they want on A | 如果买家得到他们想要的A,他们都会更快乐 |
| 388 | and the seller gets what they want on B. | 卖家得到他们想要的B。 |
| 389 | But often, executives compromise on both issues. | 但是,主管经常在这两个问题上妥协. |
| 390 | They don't find the gains from trade | 他们找不到贸易收益 |
| 391 | because they assume a mythical fixed pie. | 因为他们假设一个神话中的固定派。 |
| 392 | They assume that the pie is fixed. | 他们假设馅饼是固定的。 |
| 393 | And they miss opportunities to create gains from trade. | 他们错过了从贸易中获得收益的机会。 |
| 394 | This is probably the most important opportunity | 这也许是最重要的机会 |
| 395 | that executives fail to see in their real life. | 高管们在现实生活中看不到 |
| 396 | They fail to find these gains from trade. | 它们未能从贸易中找到这些收益。 |
| 397 | So helping people create value | 所以帮助人们创造价值 |
| 398 | so that the deal can be better for both sides | 这样交易才能对双方都好 |
| 399 | is critical to helping people negotiate effectively. | 对帮助人们进行有效谈判至关重要。 |
| 400 | We also know that negotiators face | 我们还知道,谈判者面临 |
| 401 | a variety of systematic biases. | 各种系统性偏见。 |
| 402 | We tend to be overconfident. | 我们往往过于自信。 |
| 403 | We tend to escalate commitment | 我们的承诺会升级 |
| 404 | to our prior course of action. | 我们之前的行动方针。 |
| 405 | So knowing what our systematic biases are | 所以知道我们的系统偏见是什么 |
| 406 | is critically important. | 这一点非常重要。 |
| 407 | And thinking about the biases of other parties | 想想别人的偏见 |
| 408 | is very important as well. | 这一点也很重要。 |
| 409 | Now I'm gonna talk about two more concepts | 现在我要谈两个概念 |
| 410 | from the background literature | 从背景文献 |
| 411 | before I talk about some ways in which your games have changed. | 之前,我谈论一些方式 你的游戏已经改变了。 |
| 412 | I'm gonna talk a little bit about anchors | 我要谈谈锚的问题 |
| 413 | and a little bit about 50-50 splits | 和一点点大约50 -50分 |
| 414 | because these are topics that I see | 因为这是我看到的话题 |
| 415 | in other important contemporary books on negotiation. | 在其他重要的当代谈判书籍中。 |
| 416 | So I wanna integrate kind of what I think that I know. | 所以我想融入我认为我知道的 |
| 417 | So there are a lot of people out there | 所以这里有很多人 |
| 418 | who might give you advice | 他们或许会劝告你们, |
| 419 | on the value of making an extreme anchor. | 以做一个极端锚的价值。 |
| 420 | And they will often have for you some story | 他们常常会给你一些故事 |
| 421 | where they made an extreme offer | 在那里,他们做了一个极端的报价, |
| 422 | and they ended up with a success, okay? | 他们最终取得了成功,好吗? |
| 423 | And my problem with these stories | 我对这些故事的问题 |
| 424 | is that when you meet somebody at a party | 当你在派对上遇到某人 |
| 425 | and they tell you a story about a negotiation success, | 他们告诉你一个谈判成功的故事, |
| 426 | they very, very rarely tell you about the three failures | 他们很少告诉你三个失败 |
| 427 | that they also had in negotiation. | 他们也曾谈判过。 |
| 428 | And people who make extreme offers, | 和提供极端报价的人, |
| 429 | they also end up blowing lots of deals | 他们最后也搞砸了很多交易 |
| 430 | where they could have had a deal | 在那里,他们可以有一个交易 |
| 431 | had they been more reasonable. | 如果它们更合理的话 |
| 432 | So we please people by making extreme offers | 所以,我们取悦人们 通过极端报价 |
| 433 | and we don't hear about their failures. | 我们没有听到他们的失败。 |
| 434 | So this selective storytelling that we hear from people | 所以,这种选择性的故事 我们听到从人们 |
| 435 | gives us the idea that extreme offers can be effective. | 给了我们一个想法,即极端提议是有效的。 |
| 436 | One example from the last Trump presidency | 上届特朗普总统的一个例子 |
| 437 | was he demanded that Mexico pay for a wall | 他要求墨西哥支付一堵墙 |
| 438 | separating Mexico from the United States. | 把墨西哥和美国分开 |
| 439 | Not only did Mexico never pay for the wall, | 不仅墨西哥从来不付墙钱 |
| 440 | but it basically reduced the cooperation | 但它基本上减少了合作 |
| 441 | between those countries. | 这些国家之间。 |
| 442 | So Mexico paid none of the costs | 所以墨西哥没有支付任何费用 |
| 443 | associated with Trump's wall building activities | 与特朗普的建墙活动有关 |
| 444 | and we had worse trade relations as a result. | 我们的贸易关系因此更糟 |
| 445 | Now, Adam Galinsky of Columbia University | 现在,哥伦比亚大学的亚当·加林斯基 |
| 446 | and Maurice Schweitzer from the University of Pennsylvania, | 还有宾夕法尼亚大学的莫里斯·施韦策 |
| 447 | two well-known scholars wrote a book called Friend or Foe | 两位著名学者写了一本名为"朋友"或"福"的书 |
| 448 | and they advocate for pretty extreme initial offers. | 他们主张非常极端的初始报价。 |
| 449 | The first offer should be just side of crazy | 第一个提议应该是疯狂的 |
| 450 | as opposed to that side of crazy. | 而不是疯狂的那一面。 |
| 451 | I don't agree with that advice. | 我不同意这个建议。 |
| 452 | I think that, again, the problem is | 我认为,再次,问题在于 |
| 453 | that we hear selective stories | 我们听到有选择性的故事 |
| 454 | and we have evidence on the power of extreme anchors | 我们掌握了极端锚的力量 |
| 455 | coming from classroom demonstrations | 课堂示威 |
| 456 | where people are reluctant to come back | 人们不愿回来的地方 |
| 457 | to the class with no deal | 没有交易的班级 |
| 458 | and that helps make extreme offers more successful. | 这会让极端的报价更成功 |
| 459 | In fact, I think that extreme offers sort of mess up | 事实上,我觉得极端 提供某种混乱 |
| 460 | and prevent too many deals that should have been had. | 并阻止太多的交易 本来应该有。 |
| 461 | I think that the right answer is you wanna anchor | 我认为正确的答案是 你想主播 |
| 462 | within the zone of possible agreement. | 在可能达成协议的区域。 |
| 463 | That is, it's fine to be aggressive, | 这就是说,这是很好的 攻击, |
| 464 | but you wanna make an offer within the range | 但你想在范围之内出价 |
| 465 | that is in fact viable. | 这实际上是可行的。 |
| 466 | Another important topic is the idea of 50-50 splits. | 另一个重要话题是50-50拆分的想法. |
| 467 | Many of you have been in negotiations | 你们很多人都在谈判 |
| 468 | where at some point the other side says, | 在某一刻 对方说, |
| 469 | we're only $600 apart, | 我们只差600美元 |
| 470 | why don't we just split the difference? | 为什么我们不把分歧分开呢? |
| 471 | And the question is, how should we respond to that? | 问题是,我们应如何对此作出反应? |
| 472 | And to see the commonality of 50-50 splits, | 看五五分之分的共同点 |
| 473 | many of you have been in a restaurant | 你们中很多人都在餐馆 |
| 474 | where the two parties said, why don't we just split the bill? | 两党说,为什么我们不把法案分开呢? |
| 475 | But one interesting question is, | 但一个有趣的问题是, |
| 476 | what if one person ate much more than the other person? | 如果一个人吃得比另一个多呢? |
| 477 | Is a 50-50 split necessarily fair? | 五五分法一定公平吗? |
| 478 | And when a parent passes away | 当父母去世时 |
| 479 | and leaves money to their children, | 把钱留给他们的孩子们, |
| 480 | should they each get 50% or does it make sense | 他们各得50%还是合理 |
| 481 | to think about the needs of the different children? | 考虑不同的孩子的需要? |
| 482 | And finally, I have a dog, I'm married to Marla, | 最后 我养了只狗 我嫁给了玛拉 |
| 483 | and I have a dog, her name's Becca, | 我有条狗 她叫贝卡 |
| 484 | and sometimes we know that the dog | 有时候我们知道狗 |
| 485 | needs two more walks today, | 今天还要再走两步 |
| 486 | and one of us will propose to do the 4 p.m. walk | 我们其中一人提议下午4时行走 |
| 487 | and the other one will propose to do the 8 p.m. walk. | 另一名则提议晚上8点散步。 |
| 488 | Is that necessarily appropriate? | 这必然合适吗? |
| 489 | And before you think, well, that seems pretty fair, | 在你考虑之前 这看起来很公平 |
| 490 | but what if one of us is doing all the cooking | 但是如果我们中的一个正在做所有的烹饪 |
| 491 | during that time period? | 在此期间? |
| 492 | Perhaps we should trade off the dog walks for the cooking | 也许我们应该用狗走路换做饭 |
| 493 | as we make a decision about how to think about this. | 我们决定如何思考这个问题。 |
| 494 | Now, I wanna tell you about two books | 现在,我想告诉你两本书 |
| 495 | that are written by other negotiation writers. | 由其他谈判作者撰写。 |
| 496 | One is Chris Voss, and his book has, | 一个是克里斯・沃斯 他的书有, |
| 497 | I find it an unfortunate title, | 我觉得这是一个不幸的标题, |
| 498 | it's called Never Split the Difference, | 叫做"永不分裂" |
| 499 | and the book really isn't all that much about it, | 这本书其实不是那么简单, |
| 500 | although he does provide some examples | 虽然他确实提供了一些例子 |
| 501 | where splitting the difference doesn't make sense, | 在分裂差异没有意义的地方, |
| 502 | and certainly I don't think | 当然,我不认为 |
| 503 | you should always split the difference, | 你应该总是分 区别, |
| 504 | but I think never splitting the difference | 但我认为永远不要分分 |
| 505 | is at a minimum, a bit of an overstatement, | 至少有点夸张, |
| 506 | and a Yale professor, Barry Nelboff, | 和耶鲁大学的教授 巴里・尼尔博夫 |
| 507 | wrote a book called Split the Pie, | 写了一本书叫"分裂派" |
| 508 | and he argues a good way to go through life | 他论证过人生的好方法 |
| 509 | is to identify all the value | 表示所有值 |
| 510 | that you're creating for the two parties | 你为两党创作 |
| 511 | and simply split the pie equally between the two. | 然后把馅饼平分 |
| 512 | And finally, I wanna highlight the perspective | 最后,我要强调观点 |
| 513 | of my former colleague at Northwestern, David Messick, | 我之前在西北的同事大卫·梅西克 |
| 514 | who thinks about splitting the difference | 他们想把分歧分开 |
| 515 | 作为一种社会heuristic。 | |
| 516 | Now, heuristic is a word | 现在,热力学是一个词 |
| 517 | in the cognitive psychology literature for a rule of thumb, | 在认知心理学文献中为拇指规则, |
| 518 | like just sort of something that we do | 就像我们做的一样 |
| 519 | that works fine as a general rule to go through life, | 做得很好,作为通则 生活, |
| 520 | and what Messick argues is when we say, | 而梅西克的论点是 当我们说, |
| 521 | why don't we split the difference, | 为什么我们不把分歧分开呢? |
| 522 | he argues it's not a mechanism for finding something fair, | 他辩称这不是找到公平事物的机制, |
| 523 | it's a good mechanism to keep the parties | 这是一个很好的机制 保持各方 |
| 524 | from needing to haggle over what would be fair. | 从需要争夺什么是公平的。 |
| 525 | So if you're in a restaurant and you've had a meal together | 所以,如果你在餐厅 和你们一起吃过一顿饭 |
| 526 | and the check comes and you say, | 支票来了,你说, |
| 527 | let's split the difference, | 我们分道扬镳吧 |
| 528 | that's not because you ate the same amount, | 不是因为你吃了同样的量 |
| 529 | it's because there's something socially unpleasant | 是因为社会上有些不愉快 |
| 530 | by being so specific about who ate how much, | 具体到谁吃了多少 |
| 531 | that it's simply a nice way of going through social life | 它只是一个良好的方式 经历社会生活 |
| 532 | to say, why don't we just split the difference. | 说,我们为什么不只是 分成不同。 |
| 533 | I think that these are all useful perspectives. | 我认为,这些都是有用的观点。 |
| 534 | Certainly, I don't agree with Voss | 当然,我不同意Voss |
| 535 | that you should never split the difference. | 你不应该分 区别。 |
| 536 | I think Neal Buff has a very interesting framework | 我觉得Neal Buff有一个非常有趣的框架 |
| 537 | and I think his book, Split the Pie, | 我想他的书,"分派" |
| 538 | is a fine book to read. | 是一本好书可以读。 |
| 539 | At the same time, there are times | 同时,还有时间 |
| 540 | when I probably won't use that strategy | 我可能不会用这个策略 |
| 541 | and I think it's useful to think about Messick's idea | 我觉得考虑一下梅西克的想法是有用的 |
| 542 | that in fact, splitting the difference | 事实上, 分裂分歧 |
| 543 | is more of a roller thumb than anything else. | 更是一个滚滚的拇指 比任何其他。 |
| 544 | Okay, so I wanna talk about two aspects | 好吧,我想谈谈两个方面 |
| 545 | that are, I think, pretty unique to the book | 这本书很独特 |
| 546 | having to do with ethics. | 和道德有关 |
| 547 | So now I'm moving into how I think the game has changed. | 所以,现在我转向 我认为游戏已经改变了。 |
| 548 | At the top of this slide, | 在这张幻灯片的顶部 |
| 549 | it means we've been searching for a new home | 这意味着我们一直在寻找一个新的家 |
| 550 | and a friend of ours is our real estate agent. | 我们的朋友是我们的房地产经纪人 |
| 551 | We have always trusted her but have noticed | 我们一直信任她 但注意到了 |
| 552 | that she keeps advising us to make offers | 她一直建议我们出价 |
| 553 | that are higher than we believe are reasonable. | 这比我们相信的要高 |
| 554 | We are concerned that this serves her interest | 我们担心这符合她的利益 |
| 555 | in getting a quick sale, | 在得到一个快速的销售, |
| 556 | but not our interest in getting as low a price as possible. | 但不是我们想要尽可能低价 |
| 557 | Should we question her ability to offer us ethical advice? | 我们应该质疑她给我们提供道德建议的能力吗? |
| 558 | Should we listen to her advice? | 我们应该听她的建议吗? |
| 559 | Should we even remain friends with someone | 我们是不是应该跟别人做朋友 |
| 560 | whose advice would benefit her but not necessarily us? | 谁的建议对她有益,但不一定是我们? |
| 561 | And so this is a kind of question I often hear | 我经常听到这样的问题 |
| 562 | from people in the US. | 从美国的人。 |
| 563 | In the US, most residential real estate transactions | 在美国,大多数住宅房地产交易 |
| 564 | occur through an agent | 通过代理人发生 |
| 565 | and then agent gets a commission on the sale of the house | 然后代理 得到一个佣金 出售房子 |
| 566 | and agents generally are better off | 特工们一般都比较好 |
| 567 | if the buyer is willing to offer more | 如果买方愿意提供更多 |
| 568 | and the seller is willing to take less. | 卖家愿意少吃一点 |
| 569 | They basically wanna get the deal done | 他们基本上想要完成交易 |
| 570 | and move on to the next house. | 并搬去隔壁的房子。 |
| 571 | And what I find intriguing about this story, | 我发现这个故事很有趣 |
| 572 | which I promise you I've heard many times | 我向你保证,我听过很多次了 |
| 573 | is that it fails to take into account | 因为它没有考虑到 |
| 574 | that many of us are biased in a self-serving direction. | 我们许多人都偏向于一个自私的方向。 |
| 575 | It's not because we're bad people. | 不是因为我们是坏人 |
| 576 | It's not because we're dishonest. | 不是因为我们不诚实 |
| 577 | It's because we honestly believe the perspective | 因为我们真的相信观点 |
| 578 | that happens to be best for us. | 这对我们来说是件好事 |
| 579 | In a different version of this, | 在另一个版本中, |
| 580 | Linda Babcock and George Lowenstein, | 琳达·巴布科克和乔治·洛文斯坦, |
| 581 | professors at Carnegie Mellon University, | 卡内基梅隆大学教授, |
| 582 | did a study where they had law students | 做了一个研究 他们有法律学生 |
| 583 | play the roles of plaintiff and defendant attorneys | 发挥原告和被告律师的作用; |
| 584 | on an accident case. | 在事故中发生。 |
| 585 | So basically a car hit a motorcycle. | 所以基本上一辆车撞上了摩托车。 |
| 586 | Everyone agrees that the car driver is liable | 大家都同意车长有责任 |
| 587 | and the question is how much money should be paid | 问题是应该付多少钱 |
| 588 | to the plaintiff by the defendant to settle the case? | 被告让原告解决此案? |
| 589 | And one of the things that they observe | 他们所观察的事物之一 |
| 590 | is that people playing the role of plaintiff | 人们扮演原告的角色 |
| 591 | honestly believe that the case should be settled | 老实说 这件事应该解决 |
| 592 | at a higher price than the defendant's belief. | 价格高于被告的信念。 |
| 593 | So by playing the role, | 所以通过扮演这个角色, |
| 594 | they end up believing their perspective | 他们最终相信自己的观点 |
| 595 | to a remarkable degree. | 相当出色 |
| 596 | Okay, and at the bottom of the screen, | 好吧,在屏幕底部, |
| 597 | I'm sure that you've all been down there | 我相信你们都去过那里 |
| 598 | looking at this question. | 看着这个问题。 |
| 599 | I asked sort of what's your view about lying? | 我问你对撒谎的看法是什么? |
| 600 | You should never lie. | 你不应该撒谎 |
| 601 | You should rarely lie. | 你不应该撒谎。 |
| 602 | You should avoid lying, | 你应该避免撒谎 |
| 603 | but lies are often necessary in negotiation. | 但是在谈判中常常需要谎言。 |
| 604 | Lying is simply a part of the negotiation process. | 谎言只是谈判进程的一部分。 |
| 605 | And I wanna highlight why I'm against lies | 我想强调为什么我反对谎言 |
| 606 | and then clarify why my answer is number two, | 然后澄清为什么我的答案是第二, |
| 607 | as opposed to number one, | 相对于第一, |
| 608 | which would seem like a nicer response. | 这似乎是一个更好的反应。 |
| 609 | So in 1962, which is a very long time ago, | 所以在1962年, 很久以前, |
| 610 | that's the time when the world came closest | 那时世界最接近了 |
| 611 | to a nuclear Holocaust. | 对核大屠杀。 |
| 612 | In 1962, the Soviet Union had put nuclear missiles in Cuba | 1962年,苏联在古巴部署核导弹 |
| 613 | that could easily hit the United States. | 这很容易击中美国。 |
| 614 | The United States discovered that, | 美国发现, |
| 615 | and then we eventually saw | 然后我们最终看到了 |
| 616 | the most important negotiation of my lifetime. | 我一生最重要的谈判。 |
| 617 | Obviously, it's before most of your lifetimes, | 显然,这是在你大部分时间之前, |
| 618 | but we came very close to having a nuclear war. | 但是我们几乎要开核战争了 |
| 619 | The solution to getting the missiles out of Cuba | 将导弹运出古巴的解决办法 |
| 620 | and ending the crisis was that the United States agreed | 美国同意结束危机 |
| 621 | to take our nuclear missiles out of Turkey | 把核导弹带出土耳其 |
| 622 | that could also be aimed at the Soviet Union. | 也可以以苏联为目标。 |
| 623 | So there was a trade to remove weapons | 因此,有一个交易去除武器 |
| 624 | of mutual destruction aimed at the two countries, | 两国相互毁灭, |
| 625 | which I would argue is far better | 我觉得这样好多了 |
| 626 | for the world than no agreement. | 对于世界来说,不是没有协议。 |
| 627 | Part of the story was that the Kennedy administration, | 故事的一部分是肯尼迪政府 |
| 628 | President Kennedy of the United States would look weak | 美国总统肯尼迪看起来很软弱 |
| 629 | if he admitted to taking the missiles out of Turkey. | 如果他承认把导弹带出土耳其 |
| 630 | And the Kennedy administration deceived the American public | 肯尼迪政府欺骗了美国公众 |
| 631 | and claimed that the Turkish missiles | 并声称土耳其导弹 |
| 632 | were not part of the deal, | 不是交易的一部分, |
| 633 | that the United States simply decided six months later | 美国在六个月后 |
| 634 | to remove the missiles. | 以清除导弹。 |
| 635 | Now, that lie may well have saved the world | 现在,这个谎言也许已经拯救了世界 |
| 636 | from nuclear holocaust. | 从核大屠杀。 |
| 637 | And if I can save the world for one small lie, | 如果我能拯救世界 一个小谎言, |
| 638 | that seems like a pretty good deal. | 这似乎是一个相当不错的交易。 |
| 639 | Most of the time, you can't get that. | 大多数时候你都搞不懂 |
| 640 | And what you get from lying instead | 你从说谎得到什么 |
| 641 | is you destroy the opportunity to create value, | 你毁了创造价值的机会, |
| 642 | you destroy relationships, | 你破坏关系, |
| 643 | you destroy the opportunity to create value over time. | 你毁了创造价值的机会 |
| 644 | So I think that lying interferes with value creation | 所以我觉得说谎会影响价值创造 |
| 645 | and is generally a very bad strategy. | 并且通常是一个非常糟糕的策略。 |
| 646 | At the same time, | 同时, |
| 647 | if we could get extraordinary benefits for the world, | 如果我们能为世界带来特别的好处 |
| 648 | then I think it may be worth it. | 那也许值得 |
| 649 | So I think it's important to think about why not to lie. | 所以我认为考虑为什么不撒谎是很重要的。 |
| 650 | And my reason is it destroys value. | 而我的理由是它破坏了价值。 |
| 651 | Occasionally, we might run into a situation | 有时候,我们可能会遇到一个情况 |
| 652 | where value could be created, | 能够创造价值的地方, |
| 653 | as we saw in the Kennedy story. | 正如我们在肯尼迪的故事中看到的 |
| 654 | Okay, I think I'm gonna skip that one. | 好吧,我想我会跳过那一个。 |
| 655 | Okay, so I wanna highlight here | 好,我想强调一下这里 |
| 656 | that if we go back not very long ago, 30 years ago, | 如果我们30年前回去 |
| 657 | and you wanted to book a hotel room | 你想订个酒店房间 |
| 658 | in the United States for a vacation, | 在美国度假, |
| 659 | it was a very complicated process, okay? | 这是一个非常复杂的过程,好吗? |
| 660 | You might use a travel agent, | 你也许需要旅行社 |
| 661 | you might make a telephone call. | 你可以打个电话 |
| 662 | But if you think about making a hotel reservation | 但如果你想订酒店 |
| 663 | in a different city or in a different country, | 在另一个城市或另一个国家, |
| 664 | before the online economy existed, | 在网络经济存在之前 |
| 665 | it was a dramatically different place. | 那地方完全不同 |
| 666 | Today, we book hotel rooms in other countries | 今天,我们在其他国家订旅馆房间 |
| 667 | in a small number of minutes with a small number of clicks | 在几分钟内点击次数少 |
| 668 | with a bunch of search engines | 有一堆搜索引擎, |
| 669 | that help us find good deals and the like. | 帮助我们找到好交易之类的。 |
| 670 | It's a dramatically different world. | 这是一个截然不同的世界。 |
| 671 | I'd say up until COVID, most salespeople believed | 我会说,直到COVID, 大多数销售人员相信 |
| 672 | in the importance of negotiating face-to-face. | 在面对面谈判的重要性。 |
| 673 | When COVID hit, we found out | 当COVID击中,我们发现 |
| 674 | that wasn't gonna happen anymore. | 那已经不可能了 |
| 675 | And we found out that teaching face-to-face | 我们发现当面教书 |
| 676 | wasn't gonna happen. | 不会发生的。 |
| 677 | So we learned to teach online, | 所以我们学会了在线教学 |
| 678 | we learned to negotiate online. | 我们学会了在线谈判。 |
| 679 | And Terry Kurtzberg, a professor at Rectories University | 和特里·库茨伯格, 校长大学教授 |
| 680 | has done really terrific work highlighting | 做了非常出色的工作 突出 |
| 681 | that there's so many decisions that we make | 我们做了很多决定 |
| 682 | about negotiating online without even thinking about it. | 关于在线谈判 甚至没有想到它。 |
| 683 | Some of you quickly use your cell phone | 你们中有些人很快用手机 |
| 684 | in order to conduct the online negotiation. | 为了进行在线谈判。 |
| 685 | And Kurtzberg's research convinces me | 柯茨伯格的研究让我相信 |
| 686 | that having a larger monitor with greater clarity | 更清晰地显示更大的监视器 |
| 687 | is important. | 这一点很重要。 |
| 688 | To not be multitasking when you're negotiating | 在谈判的时候不要多任务 |
| 689 | is absolutely critical. | 绝对是关键 |
| 690 | If you have a partner on the negotiation | 如果你在谈判中有合伙人 |
| 691 | from your organization and you're negotiating | 从你的组织 你谈判 |
| 692 | with other people and you're in different locations, | 和别人,你在不同的地方, |
| 693 | thinking in advance about who's going to say what when | 提前考虑一下谁要说什么 |
| 694 | is critically important. | 这一点非常重要。 |
| 695 | To realize that you need a back channel to communicate | 要意识到你需要一个后台来沟通 |
| 696 | to your negotiation partner, again, is critically important. | 对你的谈判伙伴来说 也是非常重要的 |
| 697 | This is a way in which the negotiation environment of today | 这是今天谈判环境的一种方式 |
| 698 | is fundamentally different than negotiation in the past. | 与过去的谈判根本不同。 |
| 699 | Okay, so I now wanna just tell you | 好,我现在只想告诉你 |
| 700 | about a few different negotiations | 几场不同的谈判 |
| 701 | where we can think about how to change the game. | 在那里我们可以思考 如何改变游戏。 |
| 702 | So rather than accepting the game as it is, | 因此,与其接受游戏的原样, |
| 703 | we can think about how to change the game. | 我们可以考虑如何改变游戏 |
| 704 | All of these are going to be true stories. | 所有这些都是真实的故事。 |
| 705 | So, story number one happened a few years ago. | 所以,第一个故事发生在几年前。 |
| 706 | Basically, a friend of mine put her condo on the market | 基本上,我的一个朋友 把她的公寓上市了 |
| 707 | in Cambridge, Massachusetts. | 在马萨诸塞州剑桥 |
| 708 | And she thought that her condo was worth | 她觉得她的公寓值得 |
| 709 | between $1 million and $1.1 million. | 100万至110万美元之间。 |
| 710 | The market was very attractive to sellers at the time. | 当时的市场对销售商非常有吸引力. |
| 711 | And the agent convinced her that it would be wise | 经纪人说服她 这样做是明智的 |
| 712 | to put her house on the market at a slightly low price | 把她的房子上市 价格略低 |
| 713 | where the idea was to create many bidders | 其中的想法是创建许多投标人 |
| 714 | who would make offers to create a bidding war. | 谁愿意出价制造一场投标战争。 |
| 715 | And I don't necessarily agree with this strategy | 我不一定同意这个策略 |
| 716 | but this is what the seller did. | 但这是卖家的行为 |
| 717 | And then the interesting part of the story occurs. | 然后故事的有趣部分发生. |
| 718 | So she put her house on the market | 所以她把房子卖了 |
| 719 | with an open house scheduled for Sunday. | 周日有间开放式房子 |
| 720 | So she put the house on the market, | 所以她把房子的市场, |
| 721 | I believe it was on Thursday. | 我想是周四的事吧 周四的事 |
| 722 | And by Friday, I received an email. | 到了星期五,我收到了一封电子邮件。 |
| 723 | And the email basically asked for advice. | 邮件基本上要求咨询。 |
| 724 | And the reason for the advice | 还有建议的原因 |
| 725 | was that the plan had been to have an open house on Sunday | 计划是星期天开户 |
| 726 | to let lots of people see it | 让很多人看到它 |
| 727 | and then get offers by early the next week. | 然后在下周初得到报价。 |
| 728 | The problem was that somebody had made | 问题是有人制造了 |
| 729 | a very attractive offer for $1.125 million | 一个非常有吸引力的报价112.5万美元 |
| 730 | but they put a short deadline on the offer | 但他们对报价的最后期限很短 |
| 731 | demanding a yes or no answer from the seller | 要求卖方回答是或否 |
| 732 | or otherwise your offer would expire on Sunday night | 否则你的报价将在周日晚上到期 |
| 733 | before the other offers were likely to come in. | 在其他报价可能出现之前。 |
| 734 | And the real estate agent consistent with an earlier slide | 和房地产代理 符合早先的幻灯片 |
| 735 | was very enthusiastic about the seller | 对卖家非常热情 |
| 736 | either taking the 1.125 or countering it with a bit more | 要么拿1.125,要么再多一点 |
| 737 | but basically trying to reach an agreement pretty quickly. | 但基本上想尽快达成协议 |
| 738 | And as negotiation professor, | 作为谈判教授, |
| 739 | my friend said, what do you think I should do? | 我的朋友说,你认为我应该做什么? |
| 740 | And I borrowed from an idea | 我从一个主意借来的 |
| 741 | from my colleague, Guham Subramanian | 我的同事古汉姆·苏布拉曼尼安 |
| 742 | who's also a professor at the Harvard Business School. | 他也是哈佛商学院的教授. |
| 743 | And it comes from the merger environment | 它来自合并环境 |
| 744 | and it's a strategy called Go Shop. | 这是一个叫做"去商店"的策略 |
| 745 | And what I proposed to her | 我向她提议 |
| 746 | was that she requests that the prospective buyer | 她要求未来的买方 |
| 747 | make their offer legally binding | * 使其提议具有法律约束力; |
| 748 | through the following Wednesday | 通过下个星期三 |
| 749 | rather than expiring on Sunday. | 而不是在周日结束。 |
| 750 | But in return offer the buyer a chance | 但作为回报 买家有机会 |
| 751 | to beat the best offer that the seller is received | 击败卖方收到的最佳报价 |
| 752 | by $25,000 if they receive a higher offer by Wednesday. | 25 000美元,如果他们在星期三收到更高的报价。 |
| 753 | And if no offer arrives, | 如果没有人出价 |
| 754 | the seller would commit to accepting the current offer. | 卖方将承诺接受目前的报价。 |
| 755 | Now, if you think about this, | 现在,如果你想想这个, |
| 756 | this is kind of an intriguing set of ideas | 这是一种有趣的想法 |
| 757 | that I borrowed from Guham. | 我从古汉姆那里借来的 |
| 758 | Again, he talks about this in the context of companies | 再说一遍,他从公司的角度来讨论这个问题 |
| 759 | in a merger environment. | 在合并环境中。 |
| 760 | But the basic idea is that it gives the buyer | 但基本的想法是 它让买方 |
| 761 | the assurance that if they wanna pay | 保证如果他们想要支付 |
| 762 | the fair market value for that condo, they can buy it. | 公寓的公平市场价值, 他们可以买它。 |
| 763 | It gives the seller the opportunity | 给卖家机会 |
| 764 | to find out what the market is. | 找出市场是什么。 |
| 765 | And it basically binds the contract | 它基本上约束了合同 |
| 766 | in a way that will work. | 以一种会起作用的方式。 |
| 767 | My friend adjusted my suggested final offer premium | 我朋友调整了我建议的最后报价 |
| 768 | down from 25,000 to 10,000 | 从25,000降至10,000 |
| 769 | and then basically made this counter offer | 然后基本上做了这个反报价 |
| 770 | implementing the idea | 落实该设想 |
| 771 | and then put the house on the market, | 然后把房子上市, |
| 772 | had the open house on Sunday, generated other offers. | 周日有开放的房屋, 产生其他报价。 |
| 773 | And in fact, the highest offer they got | 事实上,他们得到的最高报价 |
| 774 | was 1.2 million, | 120万个 |
| 775 | which they used to go back to the original buyer | 他们曾经回到原买主那里 |
| 776 | who said, yes, I'll pay the 1.2, 1.2, 1 million. | 他说,是的,我会支付120,120,100万。 |
| 777 | And they basically were able to take that. | 他们基本上可以接受。 |
| 778 | So this is an interesting opportunity | 这是一个有趣的机会 |
| 779 | rather than saying yes or no to the 1.125 | 而不是对1.125表示是或否 |
| 780 | or countering it with a slightly different offer. | 或以稍有不同的方式反对 |
| 781 | This provided the buyer with an opportunity | 这为买方提供了机会 |
| 782 | to explore the market. | 探索市场。 |
| 783 | Okay, now since we have Princeton University Press | 好了 既然我们有普林斯顿大学出版社 |
| 784 | sitting right here with us in the audience, | 坐在观众席上 |
| 785 | I thought I'd share with you | 我想跟你分享 |
| 786 | my negotiations with them | 我和他们的谈判 |
| 787 | because authors need to negotiate with a publishing house. | 因为作者需要和出版社谈判 |
| 788 | And I wanna talk about some interesting ways | 我想谈谈一些有趣的方法 |
| 789 | in which the game might change. | 游戏可能改变。 |
| 790 | So when I was negotiating the contract | 所以当我谈判合同时 |
| 791 | for my prior book | 我以前的书 |
| 792 | with Princeton University Press Complicit, | 与普林斯顿大学出版社合作, |
| 793 | the book had a significant amount of demand. | 这本书有大量的需求。 |
| 794 | I had five different publishers | 我有五个不同的出版商 |
| 795 | who were interested in publishing Complicit. | 他们有兴趣出版合集。 |
| 796 | I tend to do my negotiations myself. | 我经常自己谈判 |
| 797 | I tend to not use an agent or a lawyer. | 我往往不使用代理人或律师。 |
| 798 | Other authors handle that very differently. | 其他作者处理这个非常不同。 |
| 799 | And while I'm running essentially an auction for the book, | 当我在为这本书进行拍卖时 |
| 800 | I think I know basically the price level | 我想我基本上知道价格水平 |
| 801 | that we're headed toward in terms of the auction. | 我们正准备拍卖 |
| 802 | And for a variety of reasons, | 出于各种原因, |
| 803 | I decided that Princeton University Press | 我决定普林斯顿大学出版社 |
| 804 | is the right press for me. | 对我来说是合适的媒体。 |
| 805 | Now the problem with running an auction, | 现在的拍卖问题, |
| 806 | you might end up with the highest bidder | 你可能最终会出价最高 |
| 807 | not being the party that you most wanna end up with | 而不是你最想参加的派对 |
| 808 | as your partner in the complicated process | 作为你复杂的伙伴 |
| 809 | of publishing a book. | 出版一本书。 |
| 810 | So at some point, I adjusted the procedure. | 所以我调整了程序 |
| 811 | Again, my colleague, Guhan Subramanian | 我的同事古汉·苏布拉马尼安 |
| 812 | has an interesting word for it. | 有个有趣的词 |
| 813 | He calls it a negotiate auction. | 他称之为谈判拍卖 |
| 814 | Basically in the middle of the auction, | 基本上在拍卖的中间, |
| 815 | I basically took the price that Princeton had on the table | 我基本上承担了普林斯顿的价钱 |
| 816 | and I said, if you add 20% to it, | 我说,如果你加20%, |
| 817 | I'll end the negotiation now | 我现在就结束谈判 |
| 818 | without going back to any of the other publishers. | 没有回到其他出版商。 |
| 819 | And they said, can you give us a half hour | 他们说 你能给我们半小时吗? |
| 820 | to talk internally? | 谈谈内部? |
| 821 | I said, sure. | 我说,当然。 |
| 822 | And they came back and they took that deal. | 然后他们回来 接受了交易 |
| 823 | So basically I changed the process | 所以基本上我改变了过程 |
| 824 | because I developed a preference | 因为我有了一个偏好 |
| 825 | for who I ended up negotiating. | 为了我最后谈判的人 |
| 826 | Now the details of contracts are also important. | 现在合同的细节也很重要。 |
| 827 | And I have to say that | 我不得不说 |
| 828 | I generally like having fewer additional parties involved. | 我一般都喜欢让更多的政党参与进来。 |
| 829 | And I think I could generally read a contract reasonably | 我想我可以合理地阅读一份合同 |
| 830 | well despite the lack of a law degree. | 尽管没有法律学位 |
| 831 | It is true that I was a little bit sloppy here | 我确实有点草率 |
| 832 | and I signed a contract with Princeton | 我和普林斯顿签约了 |
| 833 | not realizing the clause that you can see | 未实现您可以看到的条款 |
| 834 | in the bottom half of this slide. | 在此幻灯片的下半部。 |
| 835 | And basically what this clause did | 基本上这个条款所做的 |
| 836 | was it gave Princeton the sole opportunity | 普林斯顿是唯一的机会 |
| 837 | to negotiate with me exclusively for a period of time, | 专门和我谈判一段时间, |
| 838 | specifically a 60 day period | 具体为60天 |
| 839 | that was spelled out pretty clearly on my next book. | 我的下一本书上写得很清楚 |
| 840 | Now, I honestly didn't notice | 现在,我真的没注意到 |
| 841 | that I had agreed to this paragraph, | 我同意了该段, |
| 842 | but when I was writing my next book, | 但是当我写下一本书时 |
| 843 | the one that you see sitting in front of the room right now, | 那个你现在看到坐在房间前面的那个 |
| 844 | I basically looked at my complicit contract. | 我基本上看我的同谋合同。 |
| 845 | I don't even remember why. | 我甚至不记得为什么。 |
| 846 | And I saw this particular term. | 我见过这个特别的术语。 |
| 847 | And quite honestly, I was a little bit disappointed. | 老实说 我有点失望 |
| 848 | I was planning on going on | 我本来打算继续的 |
| 849 | and running an auction on my negotiation book. | 并进行拍卖 我的谈判本。 |
| 850 | But after I had changed the terms | 但当我改变了条件 |
| 851 | of how we were gonna negotiate complicit, | 我们打算如何谈判同谋, |
| 852 | what I found is that Princeton University Press | 我发现的是普林斯顿大学出版社 |
| 853 | had a very intriguing strategy | 有个非常有趣的策略 |
| 854 | for affecting the negotiation of the next book. | 影响下一本书的谈判 |
| 855 | Of course, I followed the agreement that I had signed | 当然,我遵守我签署的协议 |
| 856 | and Princeton made me a generous offer | 普林斯顿给了我一个慷慨的提议 |
| 857 | on the negotiation of the game has changed. | 游戏的谈判已经改变。 |
| 858 | And I ended up signing with them again, quite happily. | 我最后又和他们签约了 非常幸福 |
| 859 | So it ended up working out reasonably well. | 因此,它最终取得了合理的成功。 |
| 860 | Now, this is gonna be kind of the final piece | 现在,这是 一种最后的作品 |
| 861 | that I'm gonna talk about. | 我要谈谈 |
| 862 | And some of you might know the name Daniel Kahneman, | 你们有些人可能知道丹尼尔·卡恩曼的名字 |
| 863 | often credited with creating | 常记为创建 |
| 864 | the world of behavioral economics. | 行为经济学的世界 |
| 865 | About a decade ago, I spent a lot of time | 大约十年前,我花了很多时间 |
| 866 | working with Kahneman on a consulting project | 与Kahneman合作开展咨询项目 |
| 867 | for a very big insurance company. | 对于一个非常大的保险公司。 |
| 868 | And we developed a variety of negotiation programs | 我们制定了各种谈判计划 |
| 869 | for this insurance company. | 为这家保险公司。 |
| 870 | And the thing that we kept on running into | 而我们一直碰到的事情 |
| 871 | is how do, we would be told we're reasonable, | 是怎么做,我们会被告知 我们是合理的, |
| 872 | the other side isn't. | 另一边不是。 |
| 873 | How do we negotiate with an unreasonable alternative party? | 我们如何与一个不合理的替代方谈判? |
| 874 | Now, I should describe the insurance negotiation context | 现在,我应该描述一下保险谈判的背景 |
| 875 | a little bit. | 一点点。 |
| 876 | So assuming an insurance company covers you | 所以,假设一个保险公司覆盖你 |
| 877 | for some possible problem that might occur, | 对于一些可能出现的问题, |
| 878 | the problem occurs, and then the insurance company says, | 问题发生, 然后保险公司说, |
| 879 | we'll give you a million dollars to solve that problem. | 我们会给你一百万来解决这个问题。 |
| 880 | And the claimant says, no, this is worth $10 million. | 索赔人说,不,这是价值1 000万美元。 |
| 881 | Now, unlike negotiating a new business deal, | 现在,不像谈判 新的商业交易, |
| 882 | where if you don't reach a deal, | 在那里,如果你没有达成一个交易, |
| 883 | you can each go your own way | 你们可以各自走自己的路 |
| 884 | and negotiate with other people on other deals instead, | 与其他人谈判 其他交易, |
| 885 | in an insurance claim, kind of like a lawsuit, | 在保险索赔, 有点像诉讼, |
| 886 | if you aren't able to reach an agreement, | 如果你不能达成协议, |
| 887 | the eventual resolution procedure is if you go to court | 最终解决程序是,如果你向法院提起诉讼 |
| 888 | and the court decides what the fair price | 法院决定公平价格 |
| 889 | would be for that claim. | 这将是为这项索赔。 |
| 890 | And the question we kept on running into | 我们一直遇到的问题 |
| 891 | from this insurance company is, | 这个保险公司是, |
| 892 | how do we deal with claimant attorneys | 我们如何处理原告律师 |
| 893 | who are making demands that are 10 times anything reasonable? | 是谁在提出十倍合理的要求? |
| 894 | And what we developed for this insurance company, | 我们为这家保险公司开发的东西 |
| 895 | and I describe in negotiation the game has changed, | 我在商谈中说游戏已经变了 |
| 896 | is something called the final offer arbitration challenge. | 这是所谓的最后报价仲裁质疑。 |
| 897 | Now, I'm gonna give you a little bit of background | 现在,我要给你一些背景 |
| 898 | on this idea by telling you about the history of this idea | 告诉你这个想法的历史 |
| 899 | and its use in sports in the US. | 以及它在美国体育界的使用。 |
| 900 | And then I'll talk about it as a more general procedure | 然后,我会谈论它 作为一个更普通的程序 |
| 901 | for how to get unreasonable people to come to the table. | 如何让不讲道理的人上桌 |
| 902 | So Carl Stevens was a labor relations expert in the 1960s, | 所以卡尔·史蒂文斯在1960年代是一位劳资关系专家, |
| 903 | and he actually invented the term final offer arbitration. | 他发明了最后报价仲裁这个术语 |
| 904 | And it was in response to the idea, | 这是针对这个想法, |
| 905 | actually I should describe arbitration. | 其实我应该描述一下仲裁 |
| 906 | So arbitration is a process by which party A and party B, | 因此,仲裁是A方和B方通过的程序, |
| 907 | instead of going to court, | 而不是上法庭 |
| 908 | agree to go to a wise third party, | 同意去一个明智的第三方, |
| 909 | tell them their positions, for example, | 告诉他们他们的立场, |
| 910 | what the wage should be, | 报酬是多少? |
| 911 | whether it should be $10 an hour or $16 an hour. | 每小时10美元还是16美元 |
| 912 | And the arbitrator has the power like a judge | 仲裁员拥有像法官一样的权力 |
| 913 | to decide what's fair. | 决定什么是公平的。 |
| 914 | And a problem that existed | 还有一个问题 |
| 915 | in the labor relations literature in the 1960s | 1960年代的劳资关系文献 |
| 916 | is that many saw arbitrators not as wise people, | 难道许多人认为仲裁员不是聪明人吗? |
| 917 | but as people who pretty routinely split the difference | 但作为平时分身的人 |
| 918 | between the last two positions that they heard. | 在他们听到的最后两个位置之间 |
| 919 | So if the union said $16 an hour is fair | 所以如果工会说每小时16美元是公平的 |
| 920 | and the management says $10 an hour is fair, | 管理层说每小时10美元是公平的 |
| 921 | you end up with $13 an hour. | 一小时13美元 |
| 922 | Now, many of you can start to think about | 很多人可以开始思考 |
| 923 | how you might gain that. | 你可能会得到的。 |
| 924 | And instead of going in with 16, | 而不是和16个进去 |
| 925 | maybe you wanna go in with 20. | 也许你想和20。 |
| 926 | That way, when they split the difference | 这样,当他们分了分歧 |
| 927 | between 10 and 20, you end up with 15, | 在10到20之间,你最后是15, |
| 928 | which is better than splitting the difference | 胜过分裂 |
| 929 | between 10 and 16. | 10到16岁 |
| 930 | So one of the problems with arbitration | 仲裁的问题之一 |
| 931 | is that if you plan on an arbitration, | 如果你计划仲裁 |
| 932 | you could imagine wanting your position | 你可以想象想要你的地位 |
| 933 | to be as extreme as possible. | 尽可能的极端。 |
| 934 | So Stevens invented this idea | 所以史蒂文斯发明了这个想法 |
| 935 | of final offer arbitration, | 最后要约仲裁, |
| 936 | where the arbitrator wouldn't split the difference. | 在那里,仲裁员不会分 分歧。 |
| 937 | In fact, they couldn't split the difference. | 事实上,他们不能把分歧分开. |
| 938 | They would be required to take | 他们将被要求采取 |
| 939 | one of the two offers on the table, | 两个提议之一摆在桌面上, |
| 940 | ideally the one that is fairest. | 最好是最公平的一个 |
| 941 | So if you get 10 and 16, | 所以,如果你得到10和16, |
| 942 | you have to decide 10 or 16, not 13. | 你必须决定10或16,而不是13。 |
| 943 | Now, why would that be good? | 为什么这样会很好呢? |
| 944 | And the quick answer is | 而快速的答案是, |
| 945 | when people are subject to final offer arbitration, | 当人们要接受最后的仲裁的时候, |
| 946 | they're afraid of losing the arbitration | 他们害怕失去仲裁 |
| 947 | and they end up negotiating deals | 他们最终谈判交易 |
| 948 | rather than actually going through the arbitration process. | 而不是实际上通过仲裁程序。 |
| 949 | So the final offer arbitration process is there. | 所以最后的要约仲裁程序就在那里。 |
| 950 | It's invoked, but people settle | 它被引用,但人们定居 |
| 951 | before they get to the actual arbitration procedure. | 在进入实际仲裁程序之前。 |
| 952 | So the most visible American example | 所以美国最引人注目的例子 |
| 953 | of the use of final offer arbitration | 最后要约仲裁的使用 |
| 954 | is in our sport baseball, | 是在我们的运动棒球, |
| 955 | where players and teams in a certain category of players, | 在某类玩家和团队中, |
| 956 | if they're unable to reach an agreement on their own, | 如果他们自己不能达成协议 |
| 957 | they're allowed to file for final offer arbitration. | 允许他们申请最后报价仲裁。 |
| 958 | And once they do, | 一旦他们这样做, |
| 959 | over 90% of the cases that are filed then settle | 90%以上的案件随后结案 |
| 960 | because the parties are afraid | 因为双方害怕 |
| 961 | of losing in final offer arbitration | 最终要约仲裁失败 |
| 962 | so they become more reasonable. | 所以它们变得更合理。 |
| 963 | And when they do go to final offer arbitration, | 当他们去 最终提出仲裁, |
| 964 | instead of being at 10 and 16, | 而不是在10和16岁, |
| 965 | they end up at 1240 versus 1260. | 他们最终在1240年对1260年。 |
| 966 | That is, the offers come much closer to converging. | 也就是说,这些提议更接近于趋同。 |
| 967 | So the idea of a final offer arbitration challenge | 因此,关于最后报价仲裁质疑的想法 |
| 968 | is we may not need the institution for this. | 我们可能不需要这个机构。 |
| 969 | If you're having a dispute with somebody | 如果你和别人有争执 |
| 970 | and you need to work with them in the future, | 并且你需要与他们合作 在将来, |
| 971 | so walking away isn't really an option, | 所以离开并不是一个真正的选择, |
| 972 | but you're having trouble getting any kind of resolution | 但是,你没有得到 任何一种分辨率 |
| 973 | and any judicial process would take a long time, | 任何司法程序都需要很长时间, |
| 974 | perhaps you could basically propose to them, | 也许你基本上可以向他们求婚, |
| 975 | why don't we both submit our offers to a wise party? | 为什么我们不都向一个明智的党提交提议呢? |
| 976 | I'm in the US, | 我在美国, |
| 977 | we have the American Arbitration Association | 我们有美国仲裁协会 |
| 978 | to provide arbitrators, | 提供仲裁员, |
| 979 | but you can imagine even finding | 但你可以想象,甚至发现 |
| 980 | a mutually agreeable wise person | 彼此同意的聪明人 |
| 981 | who will listen to the two arguments, | 他将听从两件事。 |
| 982 | look at the two final offers, | 看看最后两个报价 |
| 983 | and then select which of the two is more appropriate. | 然后选择其中哪一种更合适。 |
| 984 | Okay, so all of these ideas are developed in my book. | 好吧,所以所有这些想法都是在我的书中发展出来的。 |
| 985 | The negotiation of the game has changed. | 游戏的谈判已经改变. |
| 986 | It's hard for me to know exactly what's on your minds, | 我很难确切地知道你在想什么 |
| 987 | so I think I'll end a few minutes ahead of schedule | 所以我想我会提前几分钟结束 |
| 988 | so we have more time for discussion with you | 所以我们有更多的时间跟你讨论 |
| 989 | and questions from the group, | 和小组提出的问题, |
| 990 | and I'll look forward to learning from you | 我期待着学习 从你 |
| 991 | in the next phase of our program. | 在下一阶段 我们的方案。 |
| 992 | Thank you very much, Professor Bauserman | 非常感谢,鲍瑟曼教授 |
| 993 | for this wonderful talk. | 为这个美妙的谈话。 |
| 994 | I will start off with a couple question, | 我先问几个问题 |
| 995 | one that is more pertinent to the book | 一个更贴切的书 |
| 996 | and the subject matter, | 和主题事项, |
| 997 | and another that's more contemporary | 还有另一个更现代的 |
| 998 | to start off our Q&A interaction. | 开始我们之间的交流 |
| 999 | And as you might see, | 如你所见 |
| 1000 | the audience has been stilling off | 观众一直保持不动 |
| 1001 | the regular seats as well, | 常规席位也, |
| 1002 | so, and everyone is finding your talk riveting. | 所以,每个人都发现你的谈话很激烈。 |
| 1003 | So I'll start off with the first question. | 故先问第一义. |
| 1004 | So after reading your book, | 所以读完你的书后 |
| 1005 | and by the way, I recommend everyone read it, | 顺便说一句,我建议大家读一下 |
| 1006 | and we are selling them, | 我们卖掉他们, |
| 1007 | not we are, but the Princeton University Press | 不是我们 而是普林斯顿大学出版社 |
| 1008 | is selling the book at the venue as well, | 书也在会场出售, |
| 1009 | if you're interested in getting a book after this talk. | 如果你有兴趣 得到一本书 在这次谈话之后。 |
| 1010 | So after reading the book, | 所以读完这本书后 |
| 1011 | one question I have in my mind, | 我脑中有一个问题 |
| 1012 | and you just mentioned it, | 你刚刚提到, |
| 1013 | close to the end of your discussion | 接近结束你的讨论 |
| 1014 | about your work with Danny Kahneman | 关于你和丹尼·卡恩曼的工作 |
| 1015 | and behavioral economics. | 和行为经济学。 |
| 1016 | My, the impression, and it could be erroneous, | 我的印象,它可能是错误的, |
| 1017 | my impression from the book | 我从书上的印象 |
| 1018 | is that there are certain heuristic | 就是说,有 某些高血压 |
| 1019 | that we may want to take into account for | 我们可能想考虑 |
| 1020 | when we engage in negotiations, | 当我们进行谈判时, |
| 1021 | so that we, I guess we approach negotiations more | 这样,我们,我想,我们更接近谈判 |
| 1022 | with rationality, rather than with emotions, | 理性,而不是情绪, |
| 1023 | and kind of reach the best possible outcome | 并取得尽可能好的结果 |
| 1024 | and create the most value for all sides. | 并且为各方创造最大价值。 |
| 1025 | But the question I wish to post to you | 但我想寄给你的问题 |
| 1026 | is if you think there are situations where, | 如果你认为有些情况... |
| 1027 | or if there might be areas where emotions may come in handy | 或者可能有些地方 情绪可能有用 |
| 1028 | in creating value for negotiations and outcomes. | 为谈判和结果创造价值。 |
| 1029 | Sure, so first of all, | 当然,所以首先, |
| 1030 | I'm gonna elaborate a little bit on your question, | 我要解释一下你的问题 |
| 1031 | and then we can come back to the question | 然后我们可以回到问题上来 |
| 1032 | that you ended up with. | 最终你与。 |
| 1033 | So there's a whole field of behavioral economics | 因此,有一个 整个领域的行为经济学 |
| 1034 | which focuses on the systematic and predictable biases | 侧重于系统性和可预测的偏见 |
| 1035 | that affect our own judgment. | 这影响了我们自己的判断。 |
| 1036 | And I would say that we wanna be aware of | 我会说,我们想知道 |
| 1037 | those biases in our decision-making. | 我们决策中的偏见 |
| 1038 | This is a topic that's covered in this book, | 这是本书所论述的话题, |
| 1039 | but it's also covered in my two prior books | 但也在我的前两本书里都有 |
| 1040 | on negotiation as well. | 还有谈判 |
| 1041 | And we also highlight the fact that the other side | 我们还强调另一边 |
| 1042 | can also be systematically biased, | 也可能是有系统偏见的, |
| 1043 | and we wanna be aware of that. | 我们想知道这一点。 |
| 1044 | In my limited number of comments, | 在我有限的评论中, |
| 1045 | I focused on a couple of those biases. | 我专注于一些这些偏见。 |
| 1046 | I focus on the fact that we assume that the pie is fixed | 我专注于一个事实,我们假设 派是固定的 |
| 1047 | even when there's opportunities for gains from trade. | 即使有贸易收益的机会。 |
| 1048 | I focused on our failure to think about | 我专注于我们没有思考 |
| 1049 | the perspective of the other side. | 对方的观点。 |
| 1050 | These are biases that we wanna overcome. | 这些是我们希望克服的偏见。 |
| 1051 | In Kahneman's wonderful book, Thinking Fast and Slow, | 在卡恩曼的《快速和缓慢的思考》一书中 |
| 1052 | he distinguishes between system one and system two thinking. | 他区分系统一和系统二思维. |
| 1053 | And system one is your intuitive decision-making processes, | 第一系统是你的直观决策程序 |
| 1054 | the first thing that comes to your mind, | 第一件事 进入你的想法, |
| 1055 | your first reaction. | 你的第一个反应。 |
| 1056 | System two is your more deliberative thinking. | 第二系统是你更深思熟虑 |
| 1057 | When you think about the pros and cons | 当你想到利弊 |
| 1058 | of each course of action, | 每一行动方针, |
| 1059 | when you do whatever decision analysis might be appropriate, | 当你做任何适当的决策分析时 |
| 1060 | when you check in with your smart friend | 当你与你的聪明朋友联系时 |
| 1061 | to ask them what they think, | 问他们怎样想, |
| 1062 | those are all system two processes. | 这些都是系统两个过程。 |
| 1063 | And I'll quickly say that across lots of contexts | 我很快会说 在许多背景中 |
| 1064 | in negotiation and otherwise, | 谈判或其他方面, |
| 1065 | there is good reason to believe system two | 有很好的理由相信第二系统 |
| 1066 | leads to better decisions in system one. | 导致在系统一中作出更好的决定。 |
| 1067 | So if I have to pick a basic process, | 所以,如果我必须选择一个基本的过程, |
| 1068 | I wanna move people from system one intuitive processes | 我想把人们从系统一个直觉过程移走 |
| 1069 | to system two. | 到系统二。 |
| 1070 | Are there situations where you want the other side | 你是否想要另一边 |
| 1071 | to know that you really are angry and upset | 知道你真的很生气和难过 |
| 1072 | by the fact that you've discovered | 由你发现的事实 |
| 1073 | that they've been lying to you about their interests? | 他们一直骗你 他们的利益? |
| 1074 | Sure, okay. | 当然,好吧。 |
| 1075 | So I think we can easily identify situations | 所以,我想我们可以很容易地确定情况 |
| 1076 | where we want people to understand | 我们希望人们明白 |
| 1077 | sort of our emotional reaction. | 我们的情绪反应 |
| 1078 | If you're negotiating with your romantic partner, | 如果你跟你的浪漫伴侣谈判 |
| 1079 | do you want them to know that they've upset you very much? | 你想让他们知道 他们让你很生气吗? |
| 1080 | Sure. | 当然 |
| 1081 | So there could be legitimate content. | 因此,可以有合法的内容。 |
| 1082 | On the other hand, | 另一方面, |
| 1083 | do we wanna sort of start and finish | 我们想要开始和结束吗? |
| 1084 | with our emotional reaction, | 我们的情绪反应, |
| 1085 | which is gonna be part of our system one thinking? | 谁是我们系统的一部分 一个思考? |
| 1086 | I think not. | 我想没有。 |
| 1087 | I think that we often escalate to emotional conflicts | 我觉得我们经常升级为情绪冲突 |
| 1088 | in ways that are long-term dysfunctional. | 长期运作不良 |
| 1089 | So I don't mean to deny the reality | 所以我不想否认事实 |
| 1090 | of our emotional reaction. | 我们的情绪反应。 |
| 1091 | Do we wanna convey that at times to the other side? | 我们是否有时想把这个传达到另一边? |
| 1092 | Yes. | 对 |
| 1093 | But we wanna realize that the wise resolution | 但我们想认识到 明智的决议 |
| 1094 | is going to probably come | 可能会来 |
| 1095 | by moving toward our system two more deliberative processes. | 走向我们的系统 有两个审议过程 |
| 1096 | That's very helpful now, thank you. | 这很有帮助,谢谢。 |
| 1097 | And my second question is more contextual and contemporary | 我的第二个问题 更贴近背景和当代 |
| 1098 | about how you, if the Chinese government | 关于你,如果中国政府 |
| 1099 | were to reach out to you to become a consultant | 本来要联络你成为顾问 |
| 1100 | in its negotiations with the Trump administration, | 在与特朗普政府的谈判, |
| 1101 | what would be your advice on some potential strategies | 你对一些潜在的策略有何建议? |
| 1102 | to approach their approaches? | 接近他们的方法? |
| 1103 | Thank you. | 谢谢 |
| 1104 | Sure. | 当然 |
| 1105 | We could almost substitute Chinese government | 我们几乎可以代替中国政府 |
| 1106 | for Harvard University because both of these entities | 哈佛大学,因为这两个实体 |
| 1107 | are having trouble with the Trump administration. | 特朗普政府有麻烦了 |
| 1108 | And to the extent that anybody is bullying you, | 只要有人欺负你 |
| 1109 | should you give in? | 你该投降吗? |
| 1110 | The answer is generally no. | 答案一般是否定的。 |
| 1111 | You don't wanna reward people | 你不想奖励别人 |
| 1112 | for extreme aggressive behavior. | 为极端的侵略行为。 |
| 1113 | And there's been a lot written recently | 最近写了很多 |
| 1114 | about the Trump administration suggesting | 关于特朗普政府的建议 |
| 1115 | that after Trump makes very extreme demands, | 在特朗普提出非常极端的要求后 |
| 1116 | he often ends up backing off | 他经常退缩 |
| 1117 | when he can't get what he wants | 当他得不到他想要的时 |
| 1118 | and then declaring victory anyhow. | 然后宣布胜利,无论如何。 |
| 1119 | And certainly we can see some of that | 当然,我们可以看到一些 |
| 1120 | in terms of putting 145% tariff on Chinese products, | 对中国产品征收145%的关税, |
| 1121 | which he then backed off on with some kind of... | 然后他用某种... |
| 1122 | of sort of deal that was made behind the scenes between the two governments. | 像是两国政府在幕后达成的交易 |
| 1123 | And I think that we make a real mistake if we give in to people making very extreme demands. | 我认为如果我们屈服于那些 提出极端要求的人,我们犯了一个真正的错误。 |
| 1124 | And I find some of the extreme tariff demands to be unfortunate, bad for the US, bad for | 我发现一些极端的关税要求是不幸的,对美国不利,对美国不利 |
| 1125 | the world, bad for the other side. | 世界,对另一方不利。 |
| 1126 | We've been talking about value creation. | 我们一直在谈论价值创造。 |
| 1127 | Overall, extreme barriers and extreme tariffs reduce value. | 总体而言,极端壁垒和极端关税降低了价值。 |
| 1128 | And free trade is one of the most important things that we need to consider. | 而自由贸易是我们需要考虑的最重要的事情之一。 |
| 1129 | So are there things that Trump might be saying that Harvard should do differently that make sense? | 那么川普有没有说过 哈佛应该采取不同的做法 |
| 1130 | That's certainly possible. | 这当然是可能的。 |
| 1131 | Should Harvard think about how it's been managing independent of the Trump administration? | 哈佛应该考虑它是如何独立于特朗普政府的管理吗? |
| 1132 | Absolutely. | 当然 |
| 1133 | Should the Chinese government think about whether they've had too many barriers | 如果中国政府考虑一下他们是否有太多的障碍 |
| 1134 | to products from other countries? | 对其他国家的产品? |
| 1135 | Sure, they should. | 当然,他们应该。 |
| 1136 | So is it possible that the Chinese government has engaged in decisions in the past that | 中国政府过去是否曾做出过 |
| 1137 | aren't optimal for creating a free trade environment? | 创造自由贸易环境不理想吗? |
| 1138 | That's certainly possible. | 这当然是可能的。 |
| 1139 | But should you give in to extreme demands from Trump or any other extremist opponent? | 但你应该屈服于川普或其他极端对手的极端要求吗? |
| 1140 | The answer is generally no. | 答案一般是否定的。 |
| 1141 | What that will get you is more extreme demands in the future. | 将来你会得到更极端的要求 |
| 1142 | We don't want to reward bad behavior. | 我们不想奖励坏人 |
| 1143 | We basically want to call bad behavior for what it is and then reset the negotiation, | 我们基本上想叫坏行为是什么 然后重设谈判, |
| 1144 | which hopefully is what we will move toward in terms of US-China relations moving forward. | 希望这是我们将朝着中美关系前进的方向前进。 |
| 1145 | Thank you very much for sharing your insights. | 非常感谢大家分享你的见解。 |
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