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0:05OK, we shall start the event for this evening.好了,我们今晚开始吧
0:09And hello, everyone, and welcome to the Princeton Yale Idea大家好 欢迎来到普林斯顿耶鲁大学
0:14Series.系列。
0:15So this event has been launched last year.因此,这个活动是去年发起的。
0:18And actually, this is our 10th event along the series.实际上,这是我们系列的第10个活动。
0:23I'm Lin Shi Li, the managing director of Princeton University我是林世立,普林斯顿大学总经理
0:26China Office.中国办事处.
0:28And thanks to all the online and offline audience感谢所有在线和线下观众
0:31for joining our event.参加我们的活动。
0:33And this initiative featuring the world-leading scholar以世界领先学者为主角的倡议
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1OK, we shall start the event for this evening.好了,我们今晚开始吧
2And hello, everyone, and welcome to the Princeton Yale Idea大家好 欢迎来到普林斯顿耶鲁大学
3Series.系列。
4So this event has been launched last year.因此,这个活动是去年发起的。
5And actually, this is our 10th event along the series.实际上,这是我们系列的第10个活动。
6I'm Lin Shi Li, the managing director of Princeton University我是林世立,普林斯顿大学总经理
7China Office.中国办事处.
8And thanks to all the online and offline audience感谢所有在线和线下观众
9for joining our event.参加我们的活动。
10And this initiative featuring the world-leading scholar以世界领先学者为主角的倡议
11and their most recent publication by Princeton,以及普林斯顿最近发表的著作,
12aiming to foster the global scholarly exchange between China旨在促进中国之间的全球学术交流
13and the West on the most cutting-edge topics.西方最尖端的话题
14And so on behalf of the Princeton University Press,所以代表普林斯顿大学出版社
15I want to give a very short introduction about our mission我想简单介绍一下我们的任务
16and vision in China.和在中国的远见。
17And PUP is the first and so far the only American University而PUP是第一家,至今也是唯一的美国大学
18Press opening an office in China dedicated新闻在中国开设办事处
19to the two-way exchanges.到双向交流。
20We hope to publish the very best scholar in China我们希望出版中国最好的学者
21and bring their perspectives to the attention并提请人们注意他们的观点
22of a global audience, especially in the West,全球观众,特别是在西方,
23and then bringing the English language works然后带来英语作品
24to the Chinese audience to foster global learning.为中国观众培养全球学习能力.
25And so we're very honored to have the legendary professor,因此,我们非常荣幸 有传奇教授,
26Max Baseman, to feature his recent PUP books,马克斯·贝斯曼, 为他最近的PUP书籍,
27Negotiation, The Game Has Changed.谈判,游戏已经改变。
28I just realized this is a Harvard professor published我刚意识到这是哈佛大学的教授出版的
29by Princeton and with an event in Yale Center.普林斯顿和耶鲁中心的一个活动。
30It's not very easy to get three of them in the same room.亦不甚易得三门同室.
31So I think this is a very delightful所以,我觉得这是一个非常好的
32and very privileged evening.和非常荣幸的夜晚。
33So Professor Baseman is a pioneer in the fieldBaseman教授是该领域的先驱
34of negotiation at the J.C.E.在国际法院进行谈判。
35Stuart Strout,斯图尔特·斯特劳特
36Professor of Business Administration工商管理教授
37and Harvard Business School.和哈佛商学院。
38His many books, including Negotiation Genius,他的很多著作,包括谈判天才,
39Negotiating Rationally, Complicity,合理谈判,共犯,
40How We Enable the Unethical and How to Stop,我们如何使不道德者得以生存,如何阻止,
41and Blindspots, Why We Fail to Do What's Right和盲点,为什么我们失败 做正确的事情
42and What to Do About It.和怎样做它。
43So I want to give a very short introduction about this所以我想简单介绍一下
44from this book, Negotiation, The Game Has Changed.从这本书,《谈判》,《游戏已经改变》。
45From bargaining in the street markets从街头市场讨价还价
46to complex business transactions复杂商业交易
47and diplomatic negotiations between nations,和国家间外交谈判,
48negotiations are everywhere谈判到处都是
49and have a profound impact on our lives,对我们的生活有深远影响,
50work and the world most sophisticated operations.工作和世界上最复杂的行动。
51In today's world, full of uncertainty and major shocks,在当今世界,充满不确定性和重大冲击,
52relying solely on intuition and experience完全依靠直觉和经验
53is far from enough to reach effective agreements.远远不足以达成有效的协议。
54Professor Baseman is a leading expert in behavioral economicsBaseman教授是行为经济学专家
55and negotiation psychology at Harvard University哈佛大学谈判心理学
56and is also a very famous author who has worked也是一位很有名的作家 曾经为他工作过
57with the Princeton University Press for many years.与普林斯顿大学出版社合作多年.
58And his newly published books,和他的新出版的书,
59which she will offer the key insight this evening.她今晚会提供关键见解
60In the book, he presents在书中,他呈现
61the state of art negotiation course.最高水平的谈判课程。
62He elaborates on the core concepts他阐述了核心概念
63and systematic frameworks of the universal negotiation,和系统的全球谈判框架,
64explaining how to tailor those principles解释如何调整这些原则
65to specific situations and discuss how to understand如何理解
66and respond to the irrational and irresponsible behaviors对不合理和不负责任的行为作出反应
67of negotiation counterparts.谈判对应方。
68So this book not only help readers understand所以这本书不仅帮助读者理解
69the most important games happening in today's world当今世界上最重要的游戏
70in a very accessible way,在非常无障碍的方式,
71but also serve as a timely business reference books.同时也是及时的商务参考书。
72So enabling the readers to confidently achieve所以让读者有信心地实现
73the win-win situation through negotiation通过谈判实现双赢
74in any environment.在任何环境。
75Okay, so that's the end of the advertisements.好了,广告结束了。
76So I believe we will very much looking forward所以,我相信,我们将非常期待
77to learning more from the Professor Baseman today.向Baseman教授学习更多东西
78And I will very happily welcome Carol Rafty,我将非常高兴地欢迎卡罗尔·拉夫蒂,
79the managing director of the Yale Center in Beijing北京耶鲁中心总经理
80to host today's event,以主持今天的活动,
81also as our very distinguished discussant.也是我们尊敬的讨论者。
82Carol, just give the floor to you.卡罗尔 请您发言
83Thank you.谢谢
84Thank you very much, Lingxi.谢灵芝.
85And again, I want to thank Professor Max Baseman,我要再次感谢马克斯·贝斯曼教授
86our speaker today for waking up so early in his morning我们今天的演讲人 这么早醒来
87to join us for this event.与我们一起参加这次活动。
88I would also especially like to thank我还要特别感谢
89our Princeton University Press Beijing office team我们的普林斯顿大学出版社北京办事处团队
90and Yale Center Beijing teams和耶鲁中心北京小组
91for making this unlikely,使这不可能,
92but wonderful combination happen,但美妙的组合发生,
93Princeton, Yale, and Harvard.普林斯顿,耶鲁,和哈佛大学.
94I will be the discussant,我会成为讨论者,
95and I don't want to talk too long我不想谈太久
96before Professor Baseman starts his fascinating talk.在Baseman教授开始他迷人的演讲之前
97I do want to welcome those of you,我确实想欢迎你们
98especially those of you who are new to Yale Center Beijing.尤其是你们中那些刚到北京耶鲁中心的人
99We opened back in 2014我们2014年开业的
100as Yale University's only university-wide center作为耶鲁大学唯一的全大学中心
101outside of its U.S. campus representing its 14 schools.代表美国14所学校
102So we're, in effect, a mini embassy所以我们实际上是个小大使馆
103that Yale University has in China,耶鲁大学在中国有,
104and throughout the year we have interesting discussions一年来我们进行了有趣的讨论
105and talks and concerts such as these演讲和音乐会
106happening throughout the year,全年发生,
107and you're more than welcome我非常欢迎你
108to follow our social media accounts跟踪我们的社交媒体账户
109for further details on activities such as these.关于这些活动的进一步详情。
110I very much look forward to this discussion我非常期待这次讨论
111because I've read this book cover to cover,因为我读过这本书的封面
112and when I was at Stanford Law School,当我在斯坦福法学院的时候
113unfortunately I wasn't able可惜我无法
114to go to Harvard Business School,进入哈佛商学院,
115but my favorite class at Stanford Law School但我最喜欢的班 在斯坦福法学院
116was the negotiation workshop there,在那里的谈判研讨会,
117and I've heard of Professor Baseman's work from there,我听说过Baseman教授的工作
118as well as some of the concepts以及一些概念
119that he will be introducing in this book.他将在这部经典中加以介绍。
120So without further ado,所以不用再多说了
121let's welcome Professor Max Baseman.让我们欢迎马克斯·贝斯曼教授
122Thank you.谢谢
123Thank you very much.谢谢
124Thank you for the kind introduction.谢谢你的介绍
125I'm delighted to be at this Yale Princeton我很高兴能来耶鲁普林斯顿
126and perhaps Harvard event,也许还有哈佛大学的活动,
127and I think it's just great我觉得这很好
128what Yale and Princeton are doing in China.耶鲁和普林斯顿正在中国做什么
129So congratulations to you on all you've accomplished.恭喜你所做的一切
130So this is obviously an unusual time所以,这显然是一个不寻常的时间
131for a Harvard professor哈佛大学教授
132to be talking about negotiation to a Chinese audience.和中国观众讨论谈判
133There's lots going on in the world.世间众生.
134There's lots going on有很多事情发生
135in terms of the current US administration's negotiations美国现任政府的谈判
136with China.与中国。
137There's lots of strange things going on,有很多奇怪的事情发生,
138including sort of during today包括今天的某种时间
139with Trump's announcements在特朗普的公告中
140about his negotiations with Harvard University.关于他和哈佛大学的谈判
141So there's a tremendous amount going on,因此,有巨大的数量正在发生,
142and yet I was invited here,但我却被邀请来这里
143I think, to primarily talk about my book,我想,主要谈谈我的书,
144not about world politics.不是关于世界政治
145So my plan for the day is to give,所以我今天的计划是...
146for the evening, I should say,晚上,我应该说,
147to give a talk based on my book,根据我的书来谈谈
148somewhat similar to other book talks that I've given.和我给的其他书谈有些相似
149At the same time,同时,
150I don't mean to censor any questions我不是要检查任何问题
151from the audience that might wanna move从观众 谁可能想移动
152to contemporary issues as well.当代问题也是如此。
153So I'm deeply disturbed所以我深感不安
154about some of the very unfortunate negotiations关于一些非常不幸的谈判
155that are currently going on,正在继续,
156and I don't mean to hide from those issues我不想躲过这些问题
157in any way whatsoever.无论如何。
158But I think people came here for a talk on my book,但我想人们来到这里 在我的书上谈话,
159and that's what I'm gonna start with.这就是我要开始。
160And again, to open up to your questions再说一遍,打开你的问题
161during the Q&A period as you see kind of most appropriate.在您认为最合适的时间段
162The kind introduction mentioned所提到的那种介绍
163that this is really the third book这真的是第三本书
164that I've written on negotiations.我已经写了谈判。
165And I've kind of been teaching negotiations我教谈判
166most of my adult life.大部分的成年生活。
167I first started teaching negotiations in 19841984年我第一次开始教学谈判
168when I was on the faculty at MIT.当我在麻省理工学院任教时
169Soon thereafter, I moved to the Kellogg School不久,我搬到凯洛格学校
170at Northwestern University,在西北大学
171where I was from 1985 to 1998.从1985年到1998年
172And I co-founded an executive program我共同创立了一个执行计划
173with Professor Jean Brett on negotiation strategies there,与让·布雷特教授谈了那里的谈判战略,
174and then moved to Harvard.后移居哈佛大学.
175And by 2001, started an executive program到了2001年,开始了一个执行方案
176called Changing the Game,名为更改游戏,
177which we've now offered over 60 times我们现在已经提供了60多次
178to almost 5,000 students.近5000名学生。
179And I've taught an awful lot of MBA students as well.我也教了很多MBA的学生
180Along the way, as was mentioned,如前所述,
181I wrote a couple of other books,我写了几本其他的书
182Negotiating Rationally, which was published in 1992谈判理由,1992年发表
183with Professor Margaret Neal,和玛格丽特·尼尔教授
184and Negotiation Genius with Professor Deepak Malhotra与迪帕克·马尔霍特拉教授谈判
185in 2007.于2007年举行。
186So this is really my third effort这真是我的第三次努力
187on the topic of negotiation.谈判议题。
188And you'll notice that the subtitle,你会注意到字幕
189which is, I think, important to me,这对我来说很重要
190and the subtitle is The Game Has Changed.字幕是"游戏变了"
191And to put some context into that,为了把一些背景纳入其中,
192I've had many, many students我有很多,很多学生
193who have taken an executive course from me,他们从我这里学了一个行政课程,
194or perhaps an MBA course,或者MBA课程,
195and somewhere along the lines out here,沿着这里的路线
196some comment that starts with this was a fine course,从这个开始的一些评论 是一个很好的课程,
197and then there's a but.然后有一个但。
198And the buts could vary.和 buts 可能不同。
199It doesn't account for cultural norms它不考虑文化规范
200in the country that I'm negotiating with.在那个我与之谈判的国家
201It doesn't deal with the Chinese.不与华人打交道.
202We used to hear more about the Japanese,我们经常听到更多关于日本人的消息
203but whatever country is improving但无论哪个国家都在进步
204in its negotiation power typically gets listed there.它的谈判能力 通常会在那里被列出
205When I travel overseas,我出国旅行时
206I often hear how difficult it is我经常听到这有多难
207to negotiate with Americans.与美国人谈判。
208Sometimes we'll hear about the unique economic environment.有时会听到独特的经济环境.
209You're not dealing with the supply crisis你不处理供应危机
210that we're currently facing.目前我们面对的。
211How do you deal with irrational opponents,你怎么对付不理智的对手?
212which we will get to later on in this talk?我们以后再谈这个?
213Negotiating over Zoom is different与Zoom谈判不同
214than negotiating in person.而不是当面谈判
215How does it deal with negotiating with my husband or wife?和我丈夫或妻子谈判是如何处理的?
216And I saw my doctor yesterday for my annual physical,我昨天看到我的医生 因为我的年度身体,
217and she wanted to know,她还想知道,
218how do I get my patients to take their medicines,我如何让我的病人吃药,
219which I do consider a negotiation?我考虑的是谈判?
220And how do I negotiate with somebody who shows up?我该怎么和出现的人谈判?
221But I know in fact that they don't have the power to agree.但我知道事实上 他们没有权力同意
222So these are just a handful of the dozens of buts所以这些只是十几件
223that I've run into.我遇见了
224And all of these questions are legitimate.所有这些问题都是合法的。
225And quite honestly, I think that historically I've said,老实说,我认为,历史上我说过,
226but the course applies to your context.但课程适用于你的背景。
227And I would talk about how the core concepts,我想谈谈核心概念
228which we'll talk about in a couple of slides,我们用几张幻灯片来谈
229are relevant despite the unique circumstances.尽管情况特殊,但仍具有相关性。
230And I would talk to the person asking the question我会和问问题的人谈谈
231about their unique circumstances关于他们的独特情况
232and try to apply the core concepts.并尝试应用核心概念。
233But over recent years,但近年来,
234I've become convinced that we need to take我深信我们需要采取
235the context very seriously.情节很严重
236And more and more,越来越
237I think that the generic concepts我认为一般概念
238that we've been teaching in negotiation,我们一直在谈判中教书
239and you can see in Negotiation Nationally,你可以看到,在国家谈判,
240Negotiation Genius,谈判天才,
241still apply in the current environment在当前环境中仍然适用
242in whatever context we're facing.不管我们面对什么环境
243But I think that we need to take the context very seriously.但我认为,我们需要非常认真地对待这一背景。
244So this book attempts to provide structures所以这本书试图提供结构
245for thinking about how to take context seriously思考如何认真看待背景
246and also use more contemporary examples.并使用更当代的例子。
247You'll see some of those as we go through the talk.你会看到一些 当我们通过谈话。
248But when I talk about the game has changed,但当我谈论游戏的改变,
249here are some of the things that we can think about这里有一些东西 我们可以思考
250about how the game has changed.关于游戏是如何改变的。
251The 9-11 attacks in the US very much reshaped美国的九一一袭击事件 重塑了很多
252our environment in a variety of dramatic ways.我们的环境 以各种戏剧性的方式。
253The Great Recession from 2007 to 2009,2007年至2009年大衰退.
254reshaped who has bargaining power.重塑了谁有讨价还价的能力。
255In the US, we've become a much more bifurcated society.在美国,我们已经成为一个更加两极分化的社会。
256We have a president that has approval ratings我们有一个总统 有批准评级
257well below 30%,远远低于30%,
258but yet still has very large amounts of power.但仍然拥有巨大的权力。
259But we have the majority of Americans但我们有大多数美国人
260who are not happy with most of what's going on他们对大部分事情不满意
261in the current economy.在当前的经济中。
262As I'm now looking at a picture of this audience我现在看着观众的照片
263and from my perspective, you're a young crowd在我看来,你是一个年轻的人群
264and you now are used to negotiating online,现在你们习惯在网上谈判,
265which people from my generation were caught by surprise我这代人被惊吓到
266that they needed to.他们需要。
267A lot of people in my generation我这一代很多人
268first started negotiating online when COVID hitCOVID命中时,首先在网上开始谈判
269and in 2020, up until then,在2020年,直到那时,
270we thought of negotiation as a face-to-face interaction.我们把谈判看作是面对面的互动。
271This is not an item that I listed这不是我列出的物品
272specifically for this audience.特别针对观众。
273This is in my book talk这是在我的书谈
274when I'm talking to other audiences as well.当我跟其他观众说话的时候
275But the phenomenal growth of the Chinese economy但中国经济的惊人增长
276has reshaped negotiations重塑了谈判
277and certainly we see that in terms of what's going on并且我们当然看到, 从发生了什么
278in the contemporary scene.在当代的场景。
279We're negotiating with more and more people我们和越来越多的人谈判
280who are different than ourselves.他们和我们不一样
281So for a typical American,对于一个典型的美国人来说,
282the typical American 30 years ago was a white male典型的美国30年前是白人男性
283and was used to negotiating with white males.并习惯与白人男性谈判。
284More and more, we're negotiating with people我们越来越和别人谈判
285who are very different from ourselves.他们和我们完全不同
286And finally, COVID-19 I think reshaped最后,COVID-19,我想已经重塑了
287to our trading partners对我们的贸易伙伴
288where created a lot of different changes.在那里创造了许多不同的变化。
289So in many ways, the world has changed.因此,在许多方面,世界已经发生了变化。
290This doesn't mean that our old concepts are irrelevant.这并不意味着我们的旧概念无关紧要.
291And I'm gonna talk a little bit about我要谈谈
292what some of those old concepts are.这些老概念是什么。
293And this is gonna kind of be a very, very quick review这会是一个非常,非常快速的审查
294of material that you could find in my prior books我之前的书里可以找到的材料
295Negotiating Rationally and Negotiation Genius.理性谈判和谈判天才。
296So I wanna highlight,所以我想强调,
297I'm not running away from these ideas at all.我根本不会逃避这些想法
298I think that they are relevant.我认为它们是相关的。
299It's just that we need to adapt them只是我们需要适应他们
300given how the world has changed.鉴于世界是如何改变的
301So one of the most common concepts that people learn所以人们最常用的概念之一
302when they take a course on negotiation当他们走上谈判之路时
303是这个缩写BATNA。
304Just quickly, right now I can see the audience.快点,现在我可以看到观众。
305Can you raise your hand你能举手吗?
306if you've ever heard the concept of BATNA before?你以前听过BATNA这个概念吗?
307Okay, so just a few.好吧,就几个。
308Okay, so thank you for that.好吧,所以谢谢你。
309That's very helpful.这很有帮助。
310So the concept of BATNA, it's an acronym.所以BATNA的概念,是一个缩写.
311It stands for Best Alternative to a Negotiated Agreement.它代表了谈判协议的最佳选择。
312And the basic idea here is这里的基本想法是
313before you go into any important negotiation在你进入任何重要谈判之前
314for the rest of your life,在你的余生,
315you should think long and hard about你应该仔细想想
316what are you going to do你要怎么办?
317if you don't reach an agreement with your current opponent?如果你不和你的对手达成协议?
318So if you're negotiating for a job,所以,如果你谈判 一个工作,
319it's very good to think long and hard about久而久之的思考是非常好的
320what are you going to do if you don't reach an agreement达不成协议怎么办?
321with this potential employee?和这个潜在的员工?
322Are you perfectly happy with your current job?你对现在的工作很满意吗?
323Is staying in your current job a fine option?继续做你现在的工作是一个很好的选择吗?
324Do you have another job offer on the table?你还有别的工作机会吗?
325Or are you facing unemployment?还是你面临失业?
326Knowing your BATNA is very critical for thinking about了解你的BATNA对于思考
327how aggressive you wanna be in your current negotiation.你想在目前的谈判中多有攻击性
328你的BATNA越好,
329the tougher you can be.你越坚强越好
330So that changes what we call a reservation point这样改变我们所谓的保留点
331or how far would you go或者你会走多远
332in order to get an agreement done?为了达成协议?
333Also important is the criticality关键性也很重要
334思考他们的BATNA。
335How badly do they need to get a deal done with you?他们需要多久才能和你达成协议?
336What are they going to do他们该怎么办?
337if they don't reach an agreement with you?如果他们没和你达成协议呢?
338This gives you some hint这给你一些提示
339about how far they can be pushed in this negotiation关于他们能在这场谈判中被推进到什么程度
340and what their reservation price is likely to be as well.以及他们的预订价格可能也是多少。
341And the difference between the two reservation points和两个保留点的区别
342is what we call a zone of possible agreement.我们称之为可能达成协议的区域。
343And the zone of possible agreement以及可能达成协议的地区
344in a typical buyer or seller negotiation在典型的买方或卖方谈判中
345is the area between the lowest price是最低价格之间的区域
346the seller would ever take卖方将永远采取
347and the highest price that the buyer would ever pay.以及买主将支付的最高价格。
348And now notice when we listen to a typical negotiation,现在注意到,当我们听一个典型的谈判,
349we typically feel that there's a convergence to a point,我们一般都觉得有共同点
350but that point often exists within the context但这一点往往存在于背景中
351of a much broader range of what could have happened范围更广的本可以发生的事情
352with different negotiation strategies采用不同的谈判战略
353by the two players who are at the table.由两位在座的球员决定。
354In a typical negotiation simulation在典型的谈判模拟中
355that I would use in teaching a group of executives,我会用来教一群高管
356we'll pass out materials.我们会通过材料。
357Half the room will play buyers,一半的房间会扮演买家
358half the room will play sellers.一半的房间会扮演卖家。
359We'll match up a buyer with a seller,我们会把买家和卖家匹配
360send them out of the room to find a quiet place让他们离开房间 找个安静的地方
361to go negotiate and then come back with their results.去谈判,然后回来 他们的结果。
362And all the buyers have the same material.所有买家都有同样的材料
363All the sellers have the same material.所有销售者都有同样的材料.
364But what's interesting但有什么有趣的东西
365is that there's a phenomenal range of results是,有一个惊人的结果范围
366{\fn黑体\fs22\bord1\shad0\3aHBE\4aH00\fscx67\fscy66\2cHFFFFFF\3cH808080}让双方一起回来
367So different pairs of negotiators不同的谈判者
368come back with dramatically different results,回来的结果大不相同,
369which surprises the executives令高管们惊讶
370because they thought they found the one point因为他们认为他们找到了一点
371where they could both agree.他们都同意
372In fact, that was one point事实上,这是一点
373within a much broader zone of possible agreement在范围更广的可能协议范围内
374that was possible.这是可能的。
375So in teaching negotiations,因此,在教学谈判,
376the part of teaching negotiations that I enjoy the most我最享受的那部分谈判
377is helping executives see the opportunity to create value帮助高管看到创造价值的机会
378or to break up what I call a mythical fixed pie.或者打破我所谓的神话式固定派。
379So I've been teaching negotiations for over 40 years.所以我教谈判40多年了
380And what I find most fascinating我发现最迷人的
381is that I'll run a simulation我会做一个模拟
382where the parties can create value在当事人能够创造价值的情况下
383by trading off two issues.通过交换两个问题。
384That is, the buyer cares more about issue A,也就是说 买方更关心A期
385the seller cares more about issue B.卖方更关心B问题。
386And rather than compromising on A and B,而不是对A和B妥协
387they're both happier if the buyer gets what they want on A如果买家得到他们想要的A,他们都会更快乐
388and the seller gets what they want on B.卖家得到他们想要的B。
389But often, executives compromise on both issues.但是,主管经常在这两个问题上妥协.
390They don't find the gains from trade他们找不到贸易收益
391because they assume a mythical fixed pie.因为他们假设一个神话中的固定派。
392They assume that the pie is fixed.他们假设馅饼是固定的。
393And they miss opportunities to create gains from trade.他们错过了从贸易中获得收益的机会。
394This is probably the most important opportunity这也许是最重要的机会
395that executives fail to see in their real life.高管们在现实生活中看不到
396They fail to find these gains from trade.它们未能从贸易中找到这些收益。
397So helping people create value所以帮助人们创造价值
398so that the deal can be better for both sides这样交易才能对双方都好
399is critical to helping people negotiate effectively.对帮助人们进行有效谈判至关重要。
400We also know that negotiators face我们还知道,谈判者面临
401a variety of systematic biases.各种系统性偏见。
402We tend to be overconfident.我们往往过于自信。
403We tend to escalate commitment我们的承诺会升级
404to our prior course of action.我们之前的行动方针。
405So knowing what our systematic biases are所以知道我们的系统偏见是什么
406is critically important.这一点非常重要。
407And thinking about the biases of other parties想想别人的偏见
408is very important as well.这一点也很重要。
409Now I'm gonna talk about two more concepts现在我要谈两个概念
410from the background literature从背景文献
411before I talk about some ways in which your games have changed.之前,我谈论一些方式 你的游戏已经改变了。
412I'm gonna talk a little bit about anchors我要谈谈锚的问题
413and a little bit about 50-50 splits和一点点大约50 -50分
414because these are topics that I see因为这是我看到的话题
415in other important contemporary books on negotiation.在其他重要的当代谈判书籍中。
416So I wanna integrate kind of what I think that I know.所以我想融入我认为我知道的
417So there are a lot of people out there所以这里有很多人
418who might give you advice他们或许会劝告你们,
419on the value of making an extreme anchor.以做一个极端锚的价值。
420And they will often have for you some story他们常常会给你一些故事
421where they made an extreme offer在那里,他们做了一个极端的报价,
422and they ended up with a success, okay?他们最终取得了成功,好吗?
423And my problem with these stories我对这些故事的问题
424is that when you meet somebody at a party当你在派对上遇到某人
425and they tell you a story about a negotiation success,他们告诉你一个谈判成功的故事,
426they very, very rarely tell you about the three failures他们很少告诉你三个失败
427that they also had in negotiation.他们也曾谈判过。
428And people who make extreme offers,和提供极端报价的人,
429they also end up blowing lots of deals他们最后也搞砸了很多交易
430where they could have had a deal在那里,他们可以有一个交易
431had they been more reasonable.如果它们更合理的话
432So we please people by making extreme offers所以,我们取悦人们 通过极端报价
433and we don't hear about their failures.我们没有听到他们的失败。
434So this selective storytelling that we hear from people所以,这种选择性的故事 我们听到从人们
435gives us the idea that extreme offers can be effective.给了我们一个想法,即极端提议是有效的。
436One example from the last Trump presidency上届特朗普总统的一个例子
437was he demanded that Mexico pay for a wall他要求墨西哥支付一堵墙
438separating Mexico from the United States.把墨西哥和美国分开
439Not only did Mexico never pay for the wall,不仅墨西哥从来不付墙钱
440but it basically reduced the cooperation但它基本上减少了合作
441between those countries.这些国家之间。
442So Mexico paid none of the costs所以墨西哥没有支付任何费用
443associated with Trump's wall building activities与特朗普的建墙活动有关
444and we had worse trade relations as a result.我们的贸易关系因此更糟
445Now, Adam Galinsky of Columbia University现在,哥伦比亚大学的亚当·加林斯基
446and Maurice Schweitzer from the University of Pennsylvania,还有宾夕法尼亚大学的莫里斯·施韦策
447two well-known scholars wrote a book called Friend or Foe两位著名学者写了一本名为"朋友"或"福"的书
448and they advocate for pretty extreme initial offers.他们主张非常极端的初始报价。
449The first offer should be just side of crazy第一个提议应该是疯狂的
450as opposed to that side of crazy.而不是疯狂的那一面。
451I don't agree with that advice.我不同意这个建议。
452I think that, again, the problem is我认为,再次,问题在于
453that we hear selective stories我们听到有选择性的故事
454and we have evidence on the power of extreme anchors我们掌握了极端锚的力量
455coming from classroom demonstrations课堂示威
456where people are reluctant to come back人们不愿回来的地方
457to the class with no deal没有交易的班级
458and that helps make extreme offers more successful.这会让极端的报价更成功
459In fact, I think that extreme offers sort of mess up事实上,我觉得极端 提供某种混乱
460and prevent too many deals that should have been had.并阻止太多的交易 本来应该有。
461I think that the right answer is you wanna anchor我认为正确的答案是 你想主播
462within the zone of possible agreement.在可能达成协议的区域。
463That is, it's fine to be aggressive,这就是说,这是很好的 攻击,
464but you wanna make an offer within the range但你想在范围之内出价
465that is in fact viable.这实际上是可行的。
466Another important topic is the idea of 50-50 splits.另一个重要话题是50-50拆分的想法.
467Many of you have been in negotiations你们很多人都在谈判
468where at some point the other side says,在某一刻 对方说,
469we're only $600 apart,我们只差600美元
470why don't we just split the difference?为什么我们不把分歧分开呢?
471And the question is, how should we respond to that?问题是,我们应如何对此作出反应?
472And to see the commonality of 50-50 splits,看五五分之分的共同点
473many of you have been in a restaurant你们中很多人都在餐馆
474where the two parties said, why don't we just split the bill?两党说,为什么我们不把法案分开呢?
475But one interesting question is,但一个有趣的问题是,
476what if one person ate much more than the other person?如果一个人吃得比另一个多呢?
477Is a 50-50 split necessarily fair?五五分法一定公平吗?
478And when a parent passes away当父母去世时
479and leaves money to their children,把钱留给他们的孩子们,
480should they each get 50% or does it make sense他们各得50%还是合理
481to think about the needs of the different children?考虑不同的孩子的需要?
482And finally, I have a dog, I'm married to Marla,最后 我养了只狗 我嫁给了玛拉
483and I have a dog, her name's Becca,我有条狗 她叫贝卡
484and sometimes we know that the dog有时候我们知道狗
485needs two more walks today,今天还要再走两步
486and one of us will propose to do the 4 p.m. walk我们其中一人提议下午4时行走
487and the other one will propose to do the 8 p.m. walk.另一名则提议晚上8点散步。
488Is that necessarily appropriate?这必然合适吗?
489And before you think, well, that seems pretty fair,在你考虑之前 这看起来很公平
490but what if one of us is doing all the cooking但是如果我们中的一个正在做所有的烹饪
491during that time period?在此期间?
492Perhaps we should trade off the dog walks for the cooking也许我们应该用狗走路换做饭
493as we make a decision about how to think about this.我们决定如何思考这个问题。
494Now, I wanna tell you about two books现在,我想告诉你两本书
495that are written by other negotiation writers.由其他谈判作者撰写。
496One is Chris Voss, and his book has,一个是克里斯・沃斯 他的书有,
497I find it an unfortunate title,我觉得这是一个不幸的标题,
498it's called Never Split the Difference,叫做"永不分裂"
499and the book really isn't all that much about it,这本书其实不是那么简单,
500although he does provide some examples虽然他确实提供了一些例子
501where splitting the difference doesn't make sense,在分裂差异没有意义的地方,
502and certainly I don't think当然,我不认为
503you should always split the difference,你应该总是分 区别,
504but I think never splitting the difference但我认为永远不要分分
505is at a minimum, a bit of an overstatement,至少有点夸张,
506and a Yale professor, Barry Nelboff,和耶鲁大学的教授 巴里・尼尔博夫
507wrote a book called Split the Pie,写了一本书叫"分裂派"
508and he argues a good way to go through life他论证过人生的好方法
509is to identify all the value表示所有值
510that you're creating for the two parties你为两党创作
511and simply split the pie equally between the two.然后把馅饼平分
512And finally, I wanna highlight the perspective最后,我要强调观点
513of my former colleague at Northwestern, David Messick,我之前在西北的同事大卫·梅西克
514who thinks about splitting the difference他们想把分歧分开
515作为一种社会heuristic。
516Now, heuristic is a word现在,热力学是一个词
517in the cognitive psychology literature for a rule of thumb,在认知心理学文献中为拇指规则,
518like just sort of something that we do就像我们做的一样
519that works fine as a general rule to go through life,做得很好,作为通则 生活,
520and what Messick argues is when we say,而梅西克的论点是 当我们说,
521why don't we split the difference,为什么我们不把分歧分开呢?
522he argues it's not a mechanism for finding something fair,他辩称这不是找到公平事物的机制,
523it's a good mechanism to keep the parties这是一个很好的机制 保持各方
524from needing to haggle over what would be fair.从需要争夺什么是公平的。
525So if you're in a restaurant and you've had a meal together所以,如果你在餐厅 和你们一起吃过一顿饭
526and the check comes and you say,支票来了,你说,
527let's split the difference,我们分道扬镳吧
528that's not because you ate the same amount,不是因为你吃了同样的量
529it's because there's something socially unpleasant是因为社会上有些不愉快
530by being so specific about who ate how much,具体到谁吃了多少
531that it's simply a nice way of going through social life它只是一个良好的方式 经历社会生活
532to say, why don't we just split the difference.说,我们为什么不只是 分成不同。
533I think that these are all useful perspectives.我认为,这些都是有用的观点。
534Certainly, I don't agree with Voss当然,我不同意Voss
535that you should never split the difference.你不应该分 区别。
536I think Neal Buff has a very interesting framework我觉得Neal Buff有一个非常有趣的框架
537and I think his book, Split the Pie,我想他的书,"分派"
538is a fine book to read.是一本好书可以读。
539At the same time, there are times同时,还有时间
540when I probably won't use that strategy我可能不会用这个策略
541and I think it's useful to think about Messick's idea我觉得考虑一下梅西克的想法是有用的
542that in fact, splitting the difference事实上, 分裂分歧
543is more of a roller thumb than anything else.更是一个滚滚的拇指 比任何其他。
544Okay, so I wanna talk about two aspects好吧,我想谈谈两个方面
545that are, I think, pretty unique to the book这本书很独特
546having to do with ethics.和道德有关
547So now I'm moving into how I think the game has changed.所以,现在我转向 我认为游戏已经改变了。
548At the top of this slide,在这张幻灯片的顶部
549it means we've been searching for a new home这意味着我们一直在寻找一个新的家
550and a friend of ours is our real estate agent.我们的朋友是我们的房地产经纪人
551We have always trusted her but have noticed我们一直信任她 但注意到了
552that she keeps advising us to make offers她一直建议我们出价
553that are higher than we believe are reasonable.这比我们相信的要高
554We are concerned that this serves her interest我们担心这符合她的利益
555in getting a quick sale,在得到一个快速的销售,
556but not our interest in getting as low a price as possible.但不是我们想要尽可能低价
557Should we question her ability to offer us ethical advice?我们应该质疑她给我们提供道德建议的能力吗?
558Should we listen to her advice?我们应该听她的建议吗?
559Should we even remain friends with someone我们是不是应该跟别人做朋友
560whose advice would benefit her but not necessarily us?谁的建议对她有益,但不一定是我们?
561And so this is a kind of question I often hear我经常听到这样的问题
562from people in the US.从美国的人。
563In the US, most residential real estate transactions在美国,大多数住宅房地产交易
564occur through an agent通过代理人发生
565and then agent gets a commission on the sale of the house然后代理 得到一个佣金 出售房子
566and agents generally are better off特工们一般都比较好
567if the buyer is willing to offer more如果买方愿意提供更多
568and the seller is willing to take less.卖家愿意少吃一点
569They basically wanna get the deal done他们基本上想要完成交易
570and move on to the next house.并搬去隔壁的房子。
571And what I find intriguing about this story,我发现这个故事很有趣
572which I promise you I've heard many times我向你保证,我听过很多次了
573is that it fails to take into account因为它没有考虑到
574that many of us are biased in a self-serving direction.我们许多人都偏向于一个自私的方向。
575It's not because we're bad people.不是因为我们是坏人
576It's not because we're dishonest.不是因为我们不诚实
577It's because we honestly believe the perspective因为我们真的相信观点
578that happens to be best for us.这对我们来说是件好事
579In a different version of this,在另一个版本中,
580Linda Babcock and George Lowenstein,琳达·巴布科克和乔治·洛文斯坦,
581professors at Carnegie Mellon University,卡内基梅隆大学教授,
582did a study where they had law students做了一个研究 他们有法律学生
583play the roles of plaintiff and defendant attorneys发挥原告和被告律师的作用;
584on an accident case.在事故中发生。
585So basically a car hit a motorcycle.所以基本上一辆车撞上了摩托车。
586Everyone agrees that the car driver is liable大家都同意车长有责任
587and the question is how much money should be paid问题是应该付多少钱
588to the plaintiff by the defendant to settle the case?被告让原告解决此案?
589And one of the things that they observe他们所观察的事物之一
590is that people playing the role of plaintiff人们扮演原告的角色
591honestly believe that the case should be settled老实说 这件事应该解决
592at a higher price than the defendant's belief.价格高于被告的信念。
593So by playing the role,所以通过扮演这个角色,
594they end up believing their perspective他们最终相信自己的观点
595to a remarkable degree.相当出色
596Okay, and at the bottom of the screen,好吧,在屏幕底部,
597I'm sure that you've all been down there我相信你们都去过那里
598looking at this question.看着这个问题。
599I asked sort of what's your view about lying?我问你对撒谎的看法是什么?
600You should never lie.你不应该撒谎
601You should rarely lie.你不应该撒谎。
602You should avoid lying,你应该避免撒谎
603but lies are often necessary in negotiation.但是在谈判中常常需要谎言。
604Lying is simply a part of the negotiation process.谎言只是谈判进程的一部分。
605And I wanna highlight why I'm against lies我想强调为什么我反对谎言
606and then clarify why my answer is number two,然后澄清为什么我的答案是第二,
607as opposed to number one,相对于第一,
608which would seem like a nicer response.这似乎是一个更好的反应。
609So in 1962, which is a very long time ago,所以在1962年, 很久以前,
610that's the time when the world came closest那时世界最接近了
611to a nuclear Holocaust.对核大屠杀。
612In 1962, the Soviet Union had put nuclear missiles in Cuba1962年,苏联在古巴部署核导弹
613that could easily hit the United States.这很容易击中美国。
614The United States discovered that,美国发现,
615and then we eventually saw然后我们最终看到了
616the most important negotiation of my lifetime.我一生最重要的谈判。
617Obviously, it's before most of your lifetimes,显然,这是在你大部分时间之前,
618but we came very close to having a nuclear war.但是我们几乎要开核战争了
619The solution to getting the missiles out of Cuba将导弹运出古巴的解决办法
620and ending the crisis was that the United States agreed美国同意结束危机
621to take our nuclear missiles out of Turkey把核导弹带出土耳其
622that could also be aimed at the Soviet Union.也可以以苏联为目标。
623So there was a trade to remove weapons因此,有一个交易去除武器
624of mutual destruction aimed at the two countries,两国相互毁灭,
625which I would argue is far better我觉得这样好多了
626for the world than no agreement.对于世界来说,不是没有协议。
627Part of the story was that the Kennedy administration,故事的一部分是肯尼迪政府
628President Kennedy of the United States would look weak美国总统肯尼迪看起来很软弱
629if he admitted to taking the missiles out of Turkey.如果他承认把导弹带出土耳其
630And the Kennedy administration deceived the American public肯尼迪政府欺骗了美国公众
631and claimed that the Turkish missiles并声称土耳其导弹
632were not part of the deal,不是交易的一部分,
633that the United States simply decided six months later美国在六个月后
634to remove the missiles.以清除导弹。
635Now, that lie may well have saved the world现在,这个谎言也许已经拯救了世界
636from nuclear holocaust.从核大屠杀。
637And if I can save the world for one small lie,如果我能拯救世界 一个小谎言,
638that seems like a pretty good deal.这似乎是一个相当不错的交易。
639Most of the time, you can't get that.大多数时候你都搞不懂
640And what you get from lying instead你从说谎得到什么
641is you destroy the opportunity to create value,你毁了创造价值的机会,
642you destroy relationships,你破坏关系,
643you destroy the opportunity to create value over time.你毁了创造价值的机会
644So I think that lying interferes with value creation所以我觉得说谎会影响价值创造
645and is generally a very bad strategy.并且通常是一个非常糟糕的策略。
646At the same time,同时,
647if we could get extraordinary benefits for the world,如果我们能为世界带来特别的好处
648then I think it may be worth it.那也许值得
649So I think it's important to think about why not to lie.所以我认为考虑为什么不撒谎是很重要的。
650And my reason is it destroys value.而我的理由是它破坏了价值。
651Occasionally, we might run into a situation有时候,我们可能会遇到一个情况
652where value could be created,能够创造价值的地方,
653as we saw in the Kennedy story.正如我们在肯尼迪的故事中看到的
654Okay, I think I'm gonna skip that one.好吧,我想我会跳过那一个。
655Okay, so I wanna highlight here好,我想强调一下这里
656that if we go back not very long ago, 30 years ago,如果我们30年前回去
657and you wanted to book a hotel room你想订个酒店房间
658in the United States for a vacation,在美国度假,
659it was a very complicated process, okay?这是一个非常复杂的过程,好吗?
660You might use a travel agent,你也许需要旅行社
661you might make a telephone call.你可以打个电话
662But if you think about making a hotel reservation但如果你想订酒店
663in a different city or in a different country,在另一个城市或另一个国家,
664before the online economy existed,在网络经济存在之前
665it was a dramatically different place.那地方完全不同
666Today, we book hotel rooms in other countries今天,我们在其他国家订旅馆房间
667in a small number of minutes with a small number of clicks在几分钟内点击次数少
668with a bunch of search engines有一堆搜索引擎,
669that help us find good deals and the like.帮助我们找到好交易之类的。
670It's a dramatically different world.这是一个截然不同的世界。
671I'd say up until COVID, most salespeople believed我会说,直到COVID, 大多数销售人员相信
672in the importance of negotiating face-to-face.在面对面谈判的重要性。
673When COVID hit, we found out当COVID击中,我们发现
674that wasn't gonna happen anymore.那已经不可能了
675And we found out that teaching face-to-face我们发现当面教书
676wasn't gonna happen.不会发生的。
677So we learned to teach online,所以我们学会了在线教学
678we learned to negotiate online.我们学会了在线谈判。
679And Terry Kurtzberg, a professor at Rectories University和特里·库茨伯格, 校长大学教授
680has done really terrific work highlighting做了非常出色的工作 突出
681that there's so many decisions that we make我们做了很多决定
682about negotiating online without even thinking about it.关于在线谈判 甚至没有想到它。
683Some of you quickly use your cell phone你们中有些人很快用手机
684in order to conduct the online negotiation.为了进行在线谈判。
685And Kurtzberg's research convinces me柯茨伯格的研究让我相信
686that having a larger monitor with greater clarity更清晰地显示更大的监视器
687is important.这一点很重要。
688To not be multitasking when you're negotiating在谈判的时候不要多任务
689is absolutely critical.绝对是关键
690If you have a partner on the negotiation如果你在谈判中有合伙人
691from your organization and you're negotiating从你的组织 你谈判
692with other people and you're in different locations,和别人,你在不同的地方,
693thinking in advance about who's going to say what when提前考虑一下谁要说什么
694is critically important.这一点非常重要。
695To realize that you need a back channel to communicate要意识到你需要一个后台来沟通
696to your negotiation partner, again, is critically important.对你的谈判伙伴来说 也是非常重要的
697This is a way in which the negotiation environment of today这是今天谈判环境的一种方式
698is fundamentally different than negotiation in the past.与过去的谈判根本不同。
699Okay, so I now wanna just tell you好,我现在只想告诉你
700about a few different negotiations几场不同的谈判
701where we can think about how to change the game.在那里我们可以思考 如何改变游戏。
702So rather than accepting the game as it is,因此,与其接受游戏的原样,
703we can think about how to change the game.我们可以考虑如何改变游戏
704All of these are going to be true stories.所有这些都是真实的故事。
705So, story number one happened a few years ago.所以,第一个故事发生在几年前。
706Basically, a friend of mine put her condo on the market基本上,我的一个朋友 把她的公寓上市了
707in Cambridge, Massachusetts.在马萨诸塞州剑桥
708And she thought that her condo was worth她觉得她的公寓值得
709between $1 million and $1.1 million.100万至110万美元之间。
710The market was very attractive to sellers at the time.当时的市场对销售商非常有吸引力.
711And the agent convinced her that it would be wise经纪人说服她 这样做是明智的
712to put her house on the market at a slightly low price把她的房子上市 价格略低
713where the idea was to create many bidders其中的想法是创建许多投标人
714who would make offers to create a bidding war.谁愿意出价制造一场投标战争。
715And I don't necessarily agree with this strategy我不一定同意这个策略
716but this is what the seller did.但这是卖家的行为
717And then the interesting part of the story occurs.然后故事的有趣部分发生.
718So she put her house on the market所以她把房子卖了
719with an open house scheduled for Sunday.周日有间开放式房子
720So she put the house on the market,所以她把房子的市场,
721I believe it was on Thursday.我想是周四的事吧 周四的事
722And by Friday, I received an email.到了星期五,我收到了一封电子邮件。
723And the email basically asked for advice.邮件基本上要求咨询。
724And the reason for the advice还有建议的原因
725was that the plan had been to have an open house on Sunday计划是星期天开户
726to let lots of people see it让很多人看到它
727and then get offers by early the next week.然后在下周初得到报价。
728The problem was that somebody had made问题是有人制造了
729a very attractive offer for $1.125 million一个非常有吸引力的报价112.5万美元
730but they put a short deadline on the offer但他们对报价的最后期限很短
731demanding a yes or no answer from the seller要求卖方回答是或否
732or otherwise your offer would expire on Sunday night否则你的报价将在周日晚上到期
733before the other offers were likely to come in.在其他报价可能出现之前。
734And the real estate agent consistent with an earlier slide和房地产代理 符合早先的幻灯片
735was very enthusiastic about the seller对卖家非常热情
736either taking the 1.125 or countering it with a bit more要么拿1.125,要么再多一点
737but basically trying to reach an agreement pretty quickly.但基本上想尽快达成协议
738And as negotiation professor,作为谈判教授,
739my friend said, what do you think I should do?我的朋友说,你认为我应该做什么?
740And I borrowed from an idea我从一个主意借来的
741from my colleague, Guham Subramanian我的同事古汉姆·苏布拉曼尼安
742who's also a professor at the Harvard Business School.他也是哈佛商学院的教授.
743And it comes from the merger environment它来自合并环境
744and it's a strategy called Go Shop.这是一个叫做"去商店"的策略
745And what I proposed to her我向她提议
746was that she requests that the prospective buyer她要求未来的买方
747make their offer legally binding* 使其提议具有法律约束力;
748through the following Wednesday通过下个星期三
749rather than expiring on Sunday.而不是在周日结束。
750But in return offer the buyer a chance但作为回报 买家有机会
751to beat the best offer that the seller is received击败卖方收到的最佳报价
752by $25,000 if they receive a higher offer by Wednesday.25 000美元,如果他们在星期三收到更高的报价。
753And if no offer arrives,如果没有人出价
754the seller would commit to accepting the current offer.卖方将承诺接受目前的报价。
755Now, if you think about this,现在,如果你想想这个,
756this is kind of an intriguing set of ideas这是一种有趣的想法
757that I borrowed from Guham.我从古汉姆那里借来的
758Again, he talks about this in the context of companies再说一遍,他从公司的角度来讨论这个问题
759in a merger environment.在合并环境中。
760But the basic idea is that it gives the buyer但基本的想法是 它让买方
761the assurance that if they wanna pay保证如果他们想要支付
762the fair market value for that condo, they can buy it.公寓的公平市场价值, 他们可以买它。
763It gives the seller the opportunity给卖家机会
764to find out what the market is.找出市场是什么。
765And it basically binds the contract它基本上约束了合同
766in a way that will work.以一种会起作用的方式。
767My friend adjusted my suggested final offer premium我朋友调整了我建议的最后报价
768down from 25,000 to 10,000从25,000降至10,000
769and then basically made this counter offer然后基本上做了这个反报价
770implementing the idea落实该设想
771and then put the house on the market,然后把房子上市,
772had the open house on Sunday, generated other offers.周日有开放的房屋, 产生其他报价。
773And in fact, the highest offer they got事实上,他们得到的最高报价
774was 1.2 million,120万个
775which they used to go back to the original buyer他们曾经回到原买主那里
776who said, yes, I'll pay the 1.2, 1.2, 1 million.他说,是的,我会支付120,120,100万。
777And they basically were able to take that.他们基本上可以接受。
778So this is an interesting opportunity这是一个有趣的机会
779rather than saying yes or no to the 1.125而不是对1.125表示是或否
780or countering it with a slightly different offer.或以稍有不同的方式反对
781This provided the buyer with an opportunity这为买方提供了机会
782to explore the market.探索市场。
783Okay, now since we have Princeton University Press好了 既然我们有普林斯顿大学出版社
784sitting right here with us in the audience,坐在观众席上
785I thought I'd share with you我想跟你分享
786my negotiations with them我和他们的谈判
787because authors need to negotiate with a publishing house.因为作者需要和出版社谈判
788And I wanna talk about some interesting ways我想谈谈一些有趣的方法
789in which the game might change.游戏可能改变。
790So when I was negotiating the contract所以当我谈判合同时
791for my prior book我以前的书
792with Princeton University Press Complicit,与普林斯顿大学出版社合作,
793the book had a significant amount of demand.这本书有大量的需求。
794I had five different publishers我有五个不同的出版商
795who were interested in publishing Complicit.他们有兴趣出版合集。
796I tend to do my negotiations myself.我经常自己谈判
797I tend to not use an agent or a lawyer.我往往不使用代理人或律师。
798Other authors handle that very differently.其他作者处理这个非常不同。
799And while I'm running essentially an auction for the book,当我在为这本书进行拍卖时
800I think I know basically the price level我想我基本上知道价格水平
801that we're headed toward in terms of the auction.我们正准备拍卖
802And for a variety of reasons,出于各种原因,
803I decided that Princeton University Press我决定普林斯顿大学出版社
804is the right press for me.对我来说是合适的媒体。
805Now the problem with running an auction,现在的拍卖问题,
806you might end up with the highest bidder你可能最终会出价最高
807not being the party that you most wanna end up with而不是你最想参加的派对
808as your partner in the complicated process作为你复杂的伙伴
809of publishing a book.出版一本书。
810So at some point, I adjusted the procedure.所以我调整了程序
811Again, my colleague, Guhan Subramanian我的同事古汉·苏布拉马尼安
812has an interesting word for it.有个有趣的词
813He calls it a negotiate auction.他称之为谈判拍卖
814Basically in the middle of the auction,基本上在拍卖的中间,
815I basically took the price that Princeton had on the table我基本上承担了普林斯顿的价钱
816and I said, if you add 20% to it,我说,如果你加20%,
817I'll end the negotiation now我现在就结束谈判
818without going back to any of the other publishers.没有回到其他出版商。
819And they said, can you give us a half hour他们说 你能给我们半小时吗?
820to talk internally?谈谈内部?
821I said, sure.我说,当然。
822And they came back and they took that deal.然后他们回来 接受了交易
823So basically I changed the process所以基本上我改变了过程
824because I developed a preference因为我有了一个偏好
825for who I ended up negotiating.为了我最后谈判的人
826Now the details of contracts are also important.现在合同的细节也很重要。
827And I have to say that我不得不说
828I generally like having fewer additional parties involved.我一般都喜欢让更多的政党参与进来。
829And I think I could generally read a contract reasonably我想我可以合理地阅读一份合同
830well despite the lack of a law degree.尽管没有法律学位
831It is true that I was a little bit sloppy here我确实有点草率
832and I signed a contract with Princeton我和普林斯顿签约了
833not realizing the clause that you can see未实现您可以看到的条款
834in the bottom half of this slide.在此幻灯片的下半部。
835And basically what this clause did基本上这个条款所做的
836was it gave Princeton the sole opportunity普林斯顿是唯一的机会
837to negotiate with me exclusively for a period of time,专门和我谈判一段时间,
838specifically a 60 day period具体为60天
839that was spelled out pretty clearly on my next book.我的下一本书上写得很清楚
840Now, I honestly didn't notice现在,我真的没注意到
841that I had agreed to this paragraph,我同意了该段,
842but when I was writing my next book,但是当我写下一本书时
843the one that you see sitting in front of the room right now,那个你现在看到坐在房间前面的那个
844I basically looked at my complicit contract.我基本上看我的同谋合同。
845I don't even remember why.我甚至不记得为什么。
846And I saw this particular term.我见过这个特别的术语。
847And quite honestly, I was a little bit disappointed.老实说 我有点失望
848I was planning on going on我本来打算继续的
849and running an auction on my negotiation book.并进行拍卖 我的谈判本。
850But after I had changed the terms但当我改变了条件
851of how we were gonna negotiate complicit,我们打算如何谈判同谋,
852what I found is that Princeton University Press我发现的是普林斯顿大学出版社
853had a very intriguing strategy有个非常有趣的策略
854for affecting the negotiation of the next book.影响下一本书的谈判
855Of course, I followed the agreement that I had signed当然,我遵守我签署的协议
856and Princeton made me a generous offer普林斯顿给了我一个慷慨的提议
857on the negotiation of the game has changed.游戏的谈判已经改变。
858And I ended up signing with them again, quite happily.我最后又和他们签约了 非常幸福
859So it ended up working out reasonably well.因此,它最终取得了合理的成功。
860Now, this is gonna be kind of the final piece现在,这是 一种最后的作品
861that I'm gonna talk about.我要谈谈
862And some of you might know the name Daniel Kahneman,你们有些人可能知道丹尼尔·卡恩曼的名字
863often credited with creating常记为创建
864the world of behavioral economics.行为经济学的世界
865About a decade ago, I spent a lot of time大约十年前,我花了很多时间
866working with Kahneman on a consulting project与Kahneman合作开展咨询项目
867for a very big insurance company.对于一个非常大的保险公司。
868And we developed a variety of negotiation programs我们制定了各种谈判计划
869for this insurance company.为这家保险公司。
870And the thing that we kept on running into而我们一直碰到的事情
871is how do, we would be told we're reasonable,是怎么做,我们会被告知 我们是合理的,
872the other side isn't.另一边不是。
873How do we negotiate with an unreasonable alternative party?我们如何与一个不合理的替代方谈判?
874Now, I should describe the insurance negotiation context现在,我应该描述一下保险谈判的背景
875a little bit.一点点。
876So assuming an insurance company covers you所以,假设一个保险公司覆盖你
877for some possible problem that might occur,对于一些可能出现的问题,
878the problem occurs, and then the insurance company says,问题发生, 然后保险公司说,
879we'll give you a million dollars to solve that problem.我们会给你一百万来解决这个问题。
880And the claimant says, no, this is worth $10 million.索赔人说,不,这是价值1 000万美元。
881Now, unlike negotiating a new business deal,现在,不像谈判 新的商业交易,
882where if you don't reach a deal,在那里,如果你没有达成一个交易,
883you can each go your own way你们可以各自走自己的路
884and negotiate with other people on other deals instead,与其他人谈判 其他交易,
885in an insurance claim, kind of like a lawsuit,在保险索赔, 有点像诉讼,
886if you aren't able to reach an agreement,如果你不能达成协议,
887the eventual resolution procedure is if you go to court最终解决程序是,如果你向法院提起诉讼
888and the court decides what the fair price法院决定公平价格
889would be for that claim.这将是为这项索赔。
890And the question we kept on running into我们一直遇到的问题
891from this insurance company is,这个保险公司是,
892how do we deal with claimant attorneys我们如何处理原告律师
893who are making demands that are 10 times anything reasonable?是谁在提出十倍合理的要求?
894And what we developed for this insurance company,我们为这家保险公司开发的东西
895and I describe in negotiation the game has changed,我在商谈中说游戏已经变了
896is something called the final offer arbitration challenge.这是所谓的最后报价仲裁质疑。
897Now, I'm gonna give you a little bit of background现在,我要给你一些背景
898on this idea by telling you about the history of this idea告诉你这个想法的历史
899and its use in sports in the US.以及它在美国体育界的使用。
900And then I'll talk about it as a more general procedure然后,我会谈论它 作为一个更普通的程序
901for how to get unreasonable people to come to the table.如何让不讲道理的人上桌
902So Carl Stevens was a labor relations expert in the 1960s,所以卡尔·史蒂文斯在1960年代是一位劳资关系专家,
903and he actually invented the term final offer arbitration.他发明了最后报价仲裁这个术语
904And it was in response to the idea,这是针对这个想法,
905actually I should describe arbitration.其实我应该描述一下仲裁
906So arbitration is a process by which party A and party B,因此,仲裁是A方和B方通过的程序,
907instead of going to court,而不是上法庭
908agree to go to a wise third party,同意去一个明智的第三方,
909tell them their positions, for example,告诉他们他们的立场,
910what the wage should be,报酬是多少?
911whether it should be $10 an hour or $16 an hour.每小时10美元还是16美元
912And the arbitrator has the power like a judge仲裁员拥有像法官一样的权力
913to decide what's fair.决定什么是公平的。
914And a problem that existed还有一个问题
915in the labor relations literature in the 1960s1960年代的劳资关系文献
916is that many saw arbitrators not as wise people,难道许多人认为仲裁员不是聪明人吗?
917but as people who pretty routinely split the difference但作为平时分身的人
918between the last two positions that they heard.在他们听到的最后两个位置之间
919So if the union said $16 an hour is fair所以如果工会说每小时16美元是公平的
920and the management says $10 an hour is fair,管理层说每小时10美元是公平的
921you end up with $13 an hour.一小时13美元
922Now, many of you can start to think about很多人可以开始思考
923how you might gain that.你可能会得到的。
924And instead of going in with 16,而不是和16个进去
925maybe you wanna go in with 20.也许你想和20。
926That way, when they split the difference这样,当他们分了分歧
927between 10 and 20, you end up with 15,在10到20之间,你最后是15,
928which is better than splitting the difference胜过分裂
929between 10 and 16.10到16岁
930So one of the problems with arbitration仲裁的问题之一
931is that if you plan on an arbitration,如果你计划仲裁
932you could imagine wanting your position你可以想象想要你的地位
933to be as extreme as possible.尽可能的极端。
934So Stevens invented this idea所以史蒂文斯发明了这个想法
935of final offer arbitration,最后要约仲裁,
936where the arbitrator wouldn't split the difference.在那里,仲裁员不会分 分歧。
937In fact, they couldn't split the difference.事实上,他们不能把分歧分开.
938They would be required to take他们将被要求采取
939one of the two offers on the table,两个提议之一摆在桌面上,
940ideally the one that is fairest.最好是最公平的一个
941So if you get 10 and 16,所以,如果你得到10和16,
942you have to decide 10 or 16, not 13.你必须决定10或16,而不是13。
943Now, why would that be good?为什么这样会很好呢?
944And the quick answer is而快速的答案是,
945when people are subject to final offer arbitration,当人们要接受最后的仲裁的时候,
946they're afraid of losing the arbitration他们害怕失去仲裁
947and they end up negotiating deals他们最终谈判交易
948rather than actually going through the arbitration process.而不是实际上通过仲裁程序。
949So the final offer arbitration process is there.所以最后的要约仲裁程序就在那里。
950It's invoked, but people settle它被引用,但人们定居
951before they get to the actual arbitration procedure.在进入实际仲裁程序之前。
952So the most visible American example所以美国最引人注目的例子
953of the use of final offer arbitration最后要约仲裁的使用
954is in our sport baseball,是在我们的运动棒球,
955where players and teams in a certain category of players,在某类玩家和团队中,
956if they're unable to reach an agreement on their own,如果他们自己不能达成协议
957they're allowed to file for final offer arbitration.允许他们申请最后报价仲裁。
958And once they do,一旦他们这样做,
959over 90% of the cases that are filed then settle90%以上的案件随后结案
960because the parties are afraid因为双方害怕
961of losing in final offer arbitration最终要约仲裁失败
962so they become more reasonable.所以它们变得更合理。
963And when they do go to final offer arbitration,当他们去 最终提出仲裁,
964instead of being at 10 and 16,而不是在10和16岁,
965they end up at 1240 versus 1260.他们最终在1240年对1260年。
966That is, the offers come much closer to converging.也就是说,这些提议更接近于趋同。
967So the idea of a final offer arbitration challenge因此,关于最后报价仲裁质疑的想法
968is we may not need the institution for this.我们可能不需要这个机构。
969If you're having a dispute with somebody如果你和别人有争执
970and you need to work with them in the future,并且你需要与他们合作 在将来,
971so walking away isn't really an option,所以离开并不是一个真正的选择,
972but you're having trouble getting any kind of resolution但是,你没有得到 任何一种分辨率
973and any judicial process would take a long time,任何司法程序都需要很长时间,
974perhaps you could basically propose to them,也许你基本上可以向他们求婚,
975why don't we both submit our offers to a wise party?为什么我们不都向一个明智的党提交提议呢?
976I'm in the US,我在美国,
977we have the American Arbitration Association我们有美国仲裁协会
978to provide arbitrators,提供仲裁员,
979but you can imagine even finding但你可以想象,甚至发现
980a mutually agreeable wise person彼此同意的聪明人
981who will listen to the two arguments,他将听从两件事。
982look at the two final offers,看看最后两个报价
983and then select which of the two is more appropriate.然后选择其中哪一种更合适。
984Okay, so all of these ideas are developed in my book.好吧,所以所有这些想法都是在我的书中发展出来的。
985The negotiation of the game has changed.游戏的谈判已经改变.
986It's hard for me to know exactly what's on your minds,我很难确切地知道你在想什么
987so I think I'll end a few minutes ahead of schedule所以我想我会提前几分钟结束
988so we have more time for discussion with you所以我们有更多的时间跟你讨论
989and questions from the group,和小组提出的问题,
990and I'll look forward to learning from you我期待着学习 从你
991in the next phase of our program.在下一阶段 我们的方案。
992Thank you very much, Professor Bauserman非常感谢,鲍瑟曼教授
993for this wonderful talk.为这个美妙的谈话。
994I will start off with a couple question,我先问几个问题
995one that is more pertinent to the book一个更贴切的书
996and the subject matter,和主题事项,
997and another that's more contemporary还有另一个更现代的
998to start off our Q&A interaction.开始我们之间的交流
999And as you might see,如你所见
1000the audience has been stilling off观众一直保持不动
1001the regular seats as well,常规席位也,
1002so, and everyone is finding your talk riveting.所以,每个人都发现你的谈话很激烈。
1003So I'll start off with the first question.故先问第一义.
1004So after reading your book,所以读完你的书后
1005and by the way, I recommend everyone read it,顺便说一句,我建议大家读一下
1006and we are selling them,我们卖掉他们,
1007not we are, but the Princeton University Press不是我们 而是普林斯顿大学出版社
1008is selling the book at the venue as well,书也在会场出售,
1009if you're interested in getting a book after this talk.如果你有兴趣 得到一本书 在这次谈话之后。
1010So after reading the book,所以读完这本书后
1011one question I have in my mind,我脑中有一个问题
1012and you just mentioned it,你刚刚提到,
1013close to the end of your discussion接近结束你的讨论
1014about your work with Danny Kahneman关于你和丹尼·卡恩曼的工作
1015and behavioral economics.和行为经济学。
1016My, the impression, and it could be erroneous,我的印象,它可能是错误的,
1017my impression from the book我从书上的印象
1018is that there are certain heuristic就是说,有 某些高血压
1019that we may want to take into account for我们可能想考虑
1020when we engage in negotiations,当我们进行谈判时,
1021so that we, I guess we approach negotiations more这样,我们,我想,我们更接近谈判
1022with rationality, rather than with emotions,理性,而不是情绪,
1023and kind of reach the best possible outcome并取得尽可能好的结果
1024and create the most value for all sides.并且为各方创造最大价值。
1025But the question I wish to post to you但我想寄给你的问题
1026is if you think there are situations where,如果你认为有些情况...
1027or if there might be areas where emotions may come in handy或者可能有些地方 情绪可能有用
1028in creating value for negotiations and outcomes.为谈判和结果创造价值。
1029Sure, so first of all,当然,所以首先,
1030I'm gonna elaborate a little bit on your question,我要解释一下你的问题
1031and then we can come back to the question然后我们可以回到问题上来
1032that you ended up with.最终你与。
1033So there's a whole field of behavioral economics因此,有一个 整个领域的行为经济学
1034which focuses on the systematic and predictable biases侧重于系统性和可预测的偏见
1035that affect our own judgment.这影响了我们自己的判断。
1036And I would say that we wanna be aware of我会说,我们想知道
1037those biases in our decision-making.我们决策中的偏见
1038This is a topic that's covered in this book,这是本书所论述的话题,
1039but it's also covered in my two prior books但也在我的前两本书里都有
1040on negotiation as well.还有谈判
1041And we also highlight the fact that the other side我们还强调另一边
1042can also be systematically biased,也可能是有系统偏见的,
1043and we wanna be aware of that.我们想知道这一点。
1044In my limited number of comments,在我有限的评论中,
1045I focused on a couple of those biases.我专注于一些这些偏见。
1046I focus on the fact that we assume that the pie is fixed我专注于一个事实,我们假设 派是固定的
1047even when there's opportunities for gains from trade.即使有贸易收益的机会。
1048I focused on our failure to think about我专注于我们没有思考
1049the perspective of the other side.对方的观点。
1050These are biases that we wanna overcome.这些是我们希望克服的偏见。
1051In Kahneman's wonderful book, Thinking Fast and Slow,在卡恩曼的《快速和缓慢的思考》一书中
1052he distinguishes between system one and system two thinking.他区分系统一和系统二思维.
1053And system one is your intuitive decision-making processes,第一系统是你的直观决策程序
1054the first thing that comes to your mind,第一件事 进入你的想法,
1055your first reaction.你的第一个反应。
1056System two is your more deliberative thinking.第二系统是你更深思熟虑
1057When you think about the pros and cons当你想到利弊
1058of each course of action,每一行动方针,
1059when you do whatever decision analysis might be appropriate,当你做任何适当的决策分析时
1060when you check in with your smart friend当你与你的聪明朋友联系时
1061to ask them what they think,问他们怎样想,
1062those are all system two processes.这些都是系统两个过程。
1063And I'll quickly say that across lots of contexts我很快会说 在许多背景中
1064in negotiation and otherwise,谈判或其他方面,
1065there is good reason to believe system two有很好的理由相信第二系统
1066leads to better decisions in system one.导致在系统一中作出更好的决定。
1067So if I have to pick a basic process,所以,如果我必须选择一个基本的过程,
1068I wanna move people from system one intuitive processes我想把人们从系统一个直觉过程移走
1069to system two.到系统二。
1070Are there situations where you want the other side你是否想要另一边
1071to know that you really are angry and upset知道你真的很生气和难过
1072by the fact that you've discovered由你发现的事实
1073that they've been lying to you about their interests?他们一直骗你 他们的利益?
1074Sure, okay.当然,好吧。
1075So I think we can easily identify situations所以,我想我们可以很容易地确定情况
1076where we want people to understand我们希望人们明白
1077sort of our emotional reaction.我们的情绪反应
1078If you're negotiating with your romantic partner,如果你跟你的浪漫伴侣谈判
1079do you want them to know that they've upset you very much?你想让他们知道 他们让你很生气吗?
1080Sure.当然
1081So there could be legitimate content.因此,可以有合法的内容。
1082On the other hand,另一方面,
1083do we wanna sort of start and finish我们想要开始和结束吗?
1084with our emotional reaction,我们的情绪反应,
1085which is gonna be part of our system one thinking?谁是我们系统的一部分 一个思考?
1086I think not.我想没有。
1087I think that we often escalate to emotional conflicts我觉得我们经常升级为情绪冲突
1088in ways that are long-term dysfunctional.长期运作不良
1089So I don't mean to deny the reality所以我不想否认事实
1090of our emotional reaction.我们的情绪反应。
1091Do we wanna convey that at times to the other side?我们是否有时想把这个传达到另一边?
1092Yes.
1093But we wanna realize that the wise resolution但我们想认识到 明智的决议
1094is going to probably come可能会来
1095by moving toward our system two more deliberative processes.走向我们的系统 有两个审议过程
1096That's very helpful now, thank you.这很有帮助,谢谢。
1097And my second question is more contextual and contemporary我的第二个问题 更贴近背景和当代
1098about how you, if the Chinese government关于你,如果中国政府
1099were to reach out to you to become a consultant本来要联络你成为顾问
1100in its negotiations with the Trump administration,在与特朗普政府的谈判,
1101what would be your advice on some potential strategies你对一些潜在的策略有何建议?
1102to approach their approaches?接近他们的方法?
1103Thank you.谢谢
1104Sure.当然
1105We could almost substitute Chinese government我们几乎可以代替中国政府
1106for Harvard University because both of these entities哈佛大学,因为这两个实体
1107are having trouble with the Trump administration.特朗普政府有麻烦了
1108And to the extent that anybody is bullying you,只要有人欺负你
1109should you give in?你该投降吗?
1110The answer is generally no.答案一般是否定的。
1111You don't wanna reward people你不想奖励别人
1112for extreme aggressive behavior.为极端的侵略行为。
1113And there's been a lot written recently最近写了很多
1114about the Trump administration suggesting关于特朗普政府的建议
1115that after Trump makes very extreme demands,在特朗普提出非常极端的要求后
1116he often ends up backing off他经常退缩
1117when he can't get what he wants当他得不到他想要的时
1118and then declaring victory anyhow.然后宣布胜利,无论如何。
1119And certainly we can see some of that当然,我们可以看到一些
1120in terms of putting 145% tariff on Chinese products,对中国产品征收145%的关税,
1121which he then backed off on with some kind of...然后他用某种...
1122of sort of deal that was made behind the scenes between the two governments.像是两国政府在幕后达成的交易
1123And I think that we make a real mistake if we give in to people making very extreme demands.我认为如果我们屈服于那些 提出极端要求的人,我们犯了一个真正的错误。
1124And I find some of the extreme tariff demands to be unfortunate, bad for the US, bad for我发现一些极端的关税要求是不幸的,对美国不利,对美国不利
1125the world, bad for the other side.世界,对另一方不利。
1126We've been talking about value creation.我们一直在谈论价值创造。
1127Overall, extreme barriers and extreme tariffs reduce value.总体而言,极端壁垒和极端关税降低了价值。
1128And free trade is one of the most important things that we need to consider.而自由贸易是我们需要考虑的最重要的事情之一。
1129So are there things that Trump might be saying that Harvard should do differently that make sense?那么川普有没有说过 哈佛应该采取不同的做法
1130That's certainly possible.这当然是可能的。
1131Should Harvard think about how it's been managing independent of the Trump administration?哈佛应该考虑它是如何独立于特朗普政府的管理吗?
1132Absolutely.当然
1133Should the Chinese government think about whether they've had too many barriers如果中国政府考虑一下他们是否有太多的障碍
1134to products from other countries?对其他国家的产品?
1135Sure, they should.当然,他们应该。
1136So is it possible that the Chinese government has engaged in decisions in the past that中国政府过去是否曾做出过
1137aren't optimal for creating a free trade environment?创造自由贸易环境不理想吗?
1138That's certainly possible.这当然是可能的。
1139But should you give in to extreme demands from Trump or any other extremist opponent?但你应该屈服于川普或其他极端对手的极端要求吗?
1140The answer is generally no.答案一般是否定的。
1141What that will get you is more extreme demands in the future.将来你会得到更极端的要求
1142We don't want to reward bad behavior.我们不想奖励坏人
1143We basically want to call bad behavior for what it is and then reset the negotiation,我们基本上想叫坏行为是什么 然后重设谈判,
1144which hopefully is what we will move toward in terms of US-China relations moving forward.希望这是我们将朝着中美关系前进的方向前进。
1145Thank you very much for sharing your insights.非常感谢大家分享你的见解。
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